I do agree that you should be able to back up your assertions with some sources. As GP asserts, we all have our little bubbles of bias that seem incomprehensible to the rest, as we focus and magnify issues that are important to us.

In the interest of going forward instead of just arguing back and forth about sources, I looked for a few. Disclaimer: I am generally anti-feminist in my views. For reproducibility's sake, I used combinations of the following search terms: feminism, white women, trump, internalized misogyny, we need to talk, intersectionality. I also added tl;drs to each link but don't consider them canonical.

I didn't find enough posts outright calling women "gender traitors". I don't believe that is the most common feminist MO - they are more likely to blame "internalized misogyny" and "white women abandoning the sisterhood"(I guess that's close enough?), which are both long-standing narratives among feminism(feminists vs non-feminists, and the internal racial divide).

The rage I found was mostly on Twitter, feeding into my preconceived notion that Twitter is cancerous to actual discussion. Here's a quick twitter dump to illustrate:

> https://twitter.com/BDubBabyGirl/status/797128287206146048

> https://twitter.com/Karnythia/status/796350601449926656

> https://twitter.com/AnasuyaIam/status/796462867868512256

> https://twitter.com/NotYourBlkFrnd/status/796937029414096896

> https://twitter.com/TorraineWalker/status/796363979711021056

> https://twitter.com/MJStarLover/status/796246525647187969?re...

> https://twitter.com/NicCageMatch/status/796443880333811713?r...

> https://twitter.com/fawfulfan/status/796421710669115392?ref_...

> http://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/entry/nus-womens-officer-har...

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Past the twitter outrage, the articles I found were a lot more analytical and introspective. Like I said, the most common themes were "white women betraying the sisterhood", and women in general "suffering" from "internalized misogyny":

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oLWv-hivjt4 - Women voting for trump are "fucking dumb"

http://forward.com/sisterhood/353945/so-um-about-the-white-f... - White women don't believe in feminism, they have "internalized sexism", they take comfort in playing the role of an object

(By the way, that last thing also happened vs Bernie Sanders voters, when Clinton supporter Steinem said women only vote for Bernie to make themselves attractive to "boys")

http://qz.com/835567/election-2016-white-women-voted-for-don... - white women have a history of betraying their sisters, white women choose men over women

http://www.slate.com/blogs/xx_factor/2016/11/09/white_women_... - white women sold out the sisterhood (the one you linked)

http://www.advocate.com/commentary/2016/11/09/dont-blame-whi... - blame internalized misogyny, women just can't help themselves?

http://www.salon.com/2016/04/08/the_mystery_of_republican_wo... - more internalized misogyny (pre-victory)

https://bitchmedia.org/article/white-women-you-need-talk-abo... - "When the conversation started to slowly turn to blaming white women.."

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/dear-white-women-we-mess... - Fellow white women, I’m done with you.

https://www.bustle.com/articles/194381-white-women-need-to-a... - internalized sexism

http://theslot.jezebel.com/all-along-it-was-you-1788758934 - White women care more about their privilege than their freedom to choose

https://www.bustle.com/articles/194493-white-women-failed-hi... - White women failed other women

https://mic.com/articles/159036/white-men-didn-t-win-the-ele... - the female misogynists who voted for Trump stood on the backs of others

http://reelgirl.com/2016/11/dear-white-women-who-didnt-vote-... - Dear white women, you fucked up

http://www.usatoday.com/story/opinion/voices/2016/11/10/trum... - more internalized misogyny, women like patriarchy

https://dailyprogressive.org/2016/11/wtf-white-feminism-many... - Agreement with the Slate article

After conducting the search, I think that our internal narratives are easily reinforced by the bevy of media out there. Now more than ever it's important to be skeptical of "their side is worse", because the explosion of information availability makes it pretty easy to find negative views out in the open, especially ones that can make you very angry and emotional. That's pretty much the death of rational discourse.

Most of the stuff I found was analysis, or calls to action, not naming and shaming. Especially newspapers like the NYTimes, had multiple articles as CTAs to "stop shaming Trump supporters". A bit of a hopeful message going forward.