and then of course the ladies at the church would love to be our caterers for the banquet and we ’ ll get the youth group to serve us . i was thinking that your friend ’ s band could be our entertainment for the night . though they might have to tone it down a bit . or we could hire a dj . your sister ’ s husband could get us a discount with that company that does the decor at weddings . what ’ s their name again ? i was thinking that we could have an island paradise-themed wedding and our theme color would be a soothing blue like aquamarine . and there will be a huge seashell on the wall behind the podium where we ’ ll make our toasts ! what do you think of small packages of drink mixes for our wedding favors ? who else am i missing ? oh , your uncle could be our florist and his wife could make our wedding cake !