i had a terrific working relationship with my boss , even though we are very different people . because i've had a number of bosses , i've come to realize that to make things work , you have to understand what's important to your boss . then you have to do everything you can to support him ( or her ) . it's natural to think about your own agenda first , but if you help your boss , ifs likely to move your agenda ahead at the same time . my last boss was great in that regard , she appreciated my efforts and rewarded me when i helped her accomplish her goals .