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Product: The Verbally Abusive Relationship, Expanded Third Edition: How to recognize it and how to respond
Brand: Adams Media
Adams Media Corporation
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Product: How To Kill A Narcissist: Debunking The Myth Of Narcissism And Recovering From Narcissistic Abuse
Description: Narcissism is an overwhelming and confusing topic. But when you reveal its mask, you see that it is basically a lie, told to those who are vulnerable.

Narcissistic abuse, by nature, is designed to keep you trapped in shame-based vertigo. It doesn’t just go away because you know it exists. Narcissism creates a set of beliefs, behaviours and paradigms in its target which must be changed from the inside.

‘How To Kill A Narcissist’ is a book with two aims:

1. To reveal the rotten core of the narcissistic personality so you can see it clearly
2. To present you with an inside-out strategy for healing, recovery and freedom

Whether you are dealing with narcissistic parents, husbands, wives, friends, bosses or colleagues, the same philosophy will apply. After reading ‘How To Kill A Narcissist’, you will:

- Become aware of the damage narcissistic abuse has done to your psyche and how to heal it
- See how the narcissist uses shame as a weapon to fool you into feeling inferior
- Understand the playing field which narcissists thrive on and how to stop playing their game
- Learn how the narcissist uses mind control to break down and rebuild your identity for the purpose of subjugation
- Gain tools for disarming a narcissist i.e. starving them of their narcissistic supply
- Have taken a closer look beyond the label of narcissistic personality disorder

‘How To Kill A Narcissist’ takes an enlightening look at the dynamic between a narcissist and their target. It takes you on a deep journey and describes:

- How we unwittingly qualify as targets of narcissists
- The shame/grandiosity continuum and how the narcissist uses it to crush your self-esteem
- The law of grandiosity and how it influences our relationships with the self-absorbed
- The effect that narcissism has on its target including: toxic shame, a dissociated mind and a weakened ego
- The obstacles which keep you trapped in a cycle of narcissistic abuse: the psychological cage, love starvation, low shame tolerance, guilt and conditioning to shamelessness

Using an inside-out approach, ‘How To Kill A Narcissist’ presents the seven practices for recovery and healing:

1. Get allies: Boost self-esteem through limbic resonance
2. Give shape to your true self: Uncover disowned parts of the self and restore wholeness
3. Skill up: Empower yourself
4. Flex your muscles: Challenge the psychological cage and come out of hiding
5. Even the scale: Restore balance to your relationships
6. Boundaries: Foster a strong sense of self and firmly protect it
7. Scorched earth: Disengage from those who wish to manipulate you

Each practice is designed to instil you with independence, strength, emotional resilience and awareness while allowing you to cultivate balanced, loving relationships and pursue a life of passion.

This is the art of killing a narcissist.
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Product: Bancroft's Why Does (Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men by Lundy Bancroft (Paperback - Sept. 2, 2003))
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Product: Coping Skills for Kids Workbook: Over 75 Coping Strategies to Help Kids Deal with Stress, Anxiety and Anger
Brand: CreateSpace Classics
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Product: The Gaslighting Recovery Workbook: Healing From Emotional Abuse
Brand: Rockridge Press
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Product: Recover and Rebuild Domestic Violence Workbook: Moving On from Partner Abuse
Brand: Rockridge Press
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Product: Becoming the Narcissist's Nightmare: How to Devalue and Discard the Narcissist While Supplying Yourself
Brand: CreateSpace Independent Publishing Platform
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Product: Healing from Hidden Abuse: A Journey Through the Stages of Recovery from Psychological Abuse
Brand: CreateSpace Classics
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Product: Whole Again: Healing Your Heart and Rediscovering Your True Self After Toxic Relationships and Emotional Abuse
Brand: Tarcherperigee
Color: Red
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Product: The Joyous Recovery: A New Approach to Emotional Healing and Wellness
Brand: Peak Living Network
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Product: Psychopath Free (Expanded Edition): Recovering from Emotionally Abusive Relationships With Narcissists, Sociopaths, and Other Toxic People
Brand: Berkley
Color: Yellow
Berkley Books
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Product: Daily Wisdom for Why Does He Do That?: Readings to Empower and Encourage Women Involved with Angry and Controlling Men (StyleCity)
Brand: Berkley
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Berkley Books
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Product: Should I Stay or Should I Go?: A Guide to Knowing if Your Relationship Can--and Should--be Saved
Brand: Berkley
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Berkley Publishing Group
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Product: Why Does He Do That?: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men
Brand: Berkley
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Product: The Emotionally Destructive Marriage: How to Find Your Voice and Reclaim Your Hope
Brand: Waterbrook
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Waterbrook Press
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Product: The Language of Letting Go: Daily Meditations for Codependents (Hazelden Meditation Series)
Brand: Hazelden Publishing
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