Search query: understanding borderline mother

Product: BPD Workbooks: 2 books in 1: Borderline Personality Disorder + Borderline Mother
Description: Are you living with Borderline Personality Disorder?

Did you grow up in a home with a parent who has Borderline Disorder?

Does it affect your relationship and cause tension or stress?

Would you like to learn coping strategies that will help you to deal with the issues you face?

Living with any mental condition is hard enough, but when you have to deal with it while trying to have a successful relationship at the same time it can present a whole new set of problems. Borderline the ultimate guide 2 books in 1 is a serious condition where sufferers can fear abandonment, have impulsive and destructive behaviors or experience extreme emotional swings. It creates instability in relationships but can be treated.

Living with anyone who is narcissistic or who has a borderline disorder is difficult enough. When that person is a parent and someone who you had no choice but to put up with, it becomes even harder. Young lives can be forever affected by their behaviour and it can lead to other issues later on.

👉 In this book, Borderline the ultimate guide 2 books in 1 you can gain a much better understanding of BPD and with it find ways to live a happier life, through chapters that cover:

✅The root causes of BPD
✅The symptoms and the value of early diagnosis
✅Exploding the myths about BPD
✅8 steps to controlling it
✅Mindfulness interventions and activities
✅Learning how to forgive yourself and others
✅Tips and techniques for building self-esteem
✅Understanding that it is not your fault
✅The importance of individual identity
✅Learning how to say no
✅How to deal with conflict
✅Regaining your trust in others
✅Living up to your own expectations
✅Finding your courage
✅Learning forgiveness
And more…

The trauma you experienced as a child, growing up in the presence of a parent with borderline disorder, is not something that should define who you are now. instead, you can embrace what has happened, learn from it and use it to move on to a new chapter in life.

BPD can be a debilitating and distressing condition. For anyone who has found themselves suffering from it there can seem to be no answer or an end to the destructiveness it brings.

But with Borderline the ultimate guide 2 books in 1 you can find ways to combat the negative feelings you experience and build a much happier and stronger relationship.

⚡⚡ This is what you deserve, and this book will help you make it happen! ⚡⚡
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Product: Difficult Mothers, Adult Daughters: A Guide For Separation, Liberation & Inspiration (Self care gift for women)
Brand: Mango
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Product: Borderline Mother: Growing up with a Narcissistic Parent with Borderline Disorder
Description: Did you grow up in a home with a parent who has Borderline Disorder? Has their narcissism had a knock-on effect in your later life? Do you now want to resolve the traumas you were subjected to and live a happier life?

Living with anyone who is narcissistic or who has a borderline disorder is difficult enough. When that person is a parent and someone who you had no choice but to put up with, it becomes even harder. Young lives can be forever affected by their behaviour and it can lead to other issues later on.

Inside this book, Borderline Mother: Growing Up with a Bipolar Parent with Borderline Disorder, you will uncover some of the strategies that can be employed when it comes to accepting what has happened and moving on, with chapters that cover:

Understanding that it is not your fault

The importance of individual identity

Learning how to say no

How to deal with conflict

Regaining your trust in others

Living up to your own expectations

Finding your courage

Learning forgiveness

And more....

The trauma you experienced as a child, growing up in the presence of a parent with borderline disorder, is not something that should define who you are now. Instead, you can embrace what has happened, learn from it, and use it to move on to a new chapter in life.

That is what you deserve, and Borderline Mother will help you realize it!
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Product: Borderline Mother: Unmask the negative impact of having a BPD mother, understand the truth and the methods of healing the unique wounds inflicted from infancy to adulthood
Description: Have you been deeply hurt by your mother?

Did the woman, who should have loved you, nourished you and protected you inflict traumas that still affect your life today?

Are you struggling every day to repair the damage that she caused?

If you were raised by a BPD parent, your childhood would more than likely have been an unstable and painful experience.

Children raised by mothers with borderline personality disorder are at risk of developing the same kind of emotional problems. They may find themselves facing seemingly insurmountable obstacles in order to overcome their parent's dysfunctional attitudes, and it may be necessary to seek professional help to work on such feelings.

If you have experienced these issues as a child, you may have low self-esteem or suffer from anger or depression. Recognising that these problems are not a choice, but the consequences of your mother's disorder, is a necessary first step towards healing your emotional wounds.

Adult children of BDP parents are often afflicted with so much guilt and such a strong sense of profound obligation and shame that they feel obliged to keep secret all that has happened in the family, even when it is destroying their lives.

These people can find it really difficult to share their experiences because mothers with BPD are usually very good at creating the perfect family image for outsiders to the family.

I advise you to read this book if any of these symptoms sound familiar:

Sudden unexplained anxiety followed by rapid falls into depression.
Doubting yourself and your sanity. Mood swings.
Endless and repetitive obsessive thinking about your mother.
Constantly try to find explanations for what happened.
Feelings of powerlessness and despair.
A desire to self-isolate.
Overwhelming feelings of loss and pain.
Extreme attacks of anger. Insomnia or strange dreams.

Many readers can recognize their mothers and themselves in this book

Often the children of borderline mothers are terrified of their attitudes and remain paralyzed by failing to react, others find courage but find themselves without the right tools to face them.

Looking for help from friends and acquaintances could not be the best solution, they will try to minimize or simply say that you are overdoing it. Don't take it out on them, they won't understand you because they haven't experienced certain dynamics in their lives.

What you need to learn

Understanding the psychological mechanisms of a borderline mother.
The main styles of a borderline mother - identify the traits.
The serious consequences in adulthood if you don't address these issues.
Things you should never do with BPD sufferers/Learn to defend yourself emotionally against them.
How to overcome the trauma and begin a healthy healing process.

There are many other situations that will be listed within this book.
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Product: Understanding the Borderline Mother: Helping Her Children Transcend the Intense, Unpredictable, and Volatile Relationship
Description: The first love in our lives is our mother. Recognizing her face, her voice, the meaning of her moods, and her facial expressions is crucial to survival. In this book, Dr. Christine Ann Lawson vividly describes how mothers who suffer from borderline personality disorder produce children who may flounder in life even as adults, futilely struggling to reach the safety of a parental harbor, unable to recognize that their borderline parent lacks a pier, or even a discernible shore.

Four character profiles describe different symptom clusters that include the waif mother, the hermit mother, the queen mother, and the witch. Children of borderlines are at risk for developing this complex and devastating personality disorder themselves. Dr. Lawson's recommendations for prevention include empathic understanding of the borderline mother and early intervention with her children to ground them in reality.

Addressing the adult children of borderlines and the therapists who work with them, Dr. Lawson shows how to care for the waif without rescuing her, to attend to the hermit without feeding her fear, to love the queen without becoming her subject, and to live with the witch without becoming her victim.
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Product: Stop Caretaking the Borderline or Narcissist: How to End the Drama and Get On with Life
Description: People with borderline or narcissistic personality disorders have a serious mental illness that primarily affects their intimate, personal, and family relationships. Often they appear to be normally functioning at work and in public interactions, and narcissists may even be highly effective, in the short term, in some work or social situations. However, in intimate relationships, they can be emotional, aggressive, demeaning, illogical, paranoid, accusing, and controlling - in the extreme. Their ability to function normally or pleasantly can suddenly change in an instant, like flipping a switch. These negative behaviors don't happen once in a while; they happen almost continuously in their intimate relationships - most often and especially with their caretaker family member. Here, Margalis Fjelstad describes how people get into a caretaker role with a borderline or narcissist, and how they can get out.

Caretakers give up their sense of self to become who and what the borderline or narcissist needs them to be. This compromises the caretaker's self-esteem, distorts their thinking processes, and locks them into a victim-persecutor-rescuer pattern with the borderline or narcissist. The book looks at the underlying rules and expectations in these relationships and shows caretakers how to move themselves out of these rigid interactions and into a healthier, more productive, and positive lifestyle - with or without the borderline/narcissistic partner or family member. It describes how to get out of destructive interactions with the borderline or narcissist and how to take new, more effective actions to focus on personal wants, needs, and life goals while allowing the borderline or narcissist to take care of themselves. It presents a realistic, yet compassionate, attitude toward the self-destructive nature of these relationships, and gives real-life examples of how individuals have let go of their caretaker behaviors with creative and effective solutions.
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Product: Borderline Mom
Description: This book focuses on one particular group of people affected by the disease: children whose mothers are borderline. The Borderline Mom does provide insight into the disease and why borderlines act the way they do. The primary focus of the book, however, is providing everyone with a borderline mother a concrete course of action, which will help you defend yourself from the instability and emotional pain borderlines sometimes cause to those around them. Should you learn to enforce boundaries? Or cut off contact to avoid further pain? The final course of action is up to you, but this book provides you with all the tools to take the optimal course of action if the relationship with your borderline mom is causing you pain.
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Product: When Your Mother Has Borderline Personality Disorder: A Guide for Adult Children
Brand: Rockridge Press
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Product: When Your Daughter Has BPD: Essential Skills to Help Families Manage Borderline Personality Disorder
Brand: New Harbinger Publications
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Product: Surviving a Borderline Parent: How to Heal Your Childhood Wounds and Build Trust, Boundaries, and Self-Esteem
Brand: New Harbinger Publications
New Harbinger Publications
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Product: Mothers Who Can't Love: A Healing Guide for Daughters
Brand: Harper Paperbacks
Harper Paperbacks
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Product: Counterpoint: A Memoir of Bach and Mourning
Brand: W. W. Norton & Company
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Product: Stop Walking on Eggshells: Taking Your Life Back When Someone You Care About Has Borderline Personality Disorder
Brand: New Harbinger Publications
Stop Walking on Eggshells: Taking Your Life Back When Someone You Care About Has Borderline Personality Disorder
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Product: Missing: Coming to Terms with a Borderline Mother
Brand: Red Giant Books
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Product: Will I Ever Be Good Enough?: Healing the Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers
Brand: Atria Books
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Product: I Hate You--Don't Leave Me: Understanding the Borderline Personality
Brand: Tarcherperigee
Color: Sky/Pale blue
Perigee Books
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