Your heart is kind, Helen. I'm confident most of our vast American population share the concerns, joys and disappointments daily. The overwhelming availability of information will never slow and it's crucial the young and growing are confident to enjoy their lives whilst being sensibly prepared for the ups and downs of reality. Games and sports are fundamental, even simple board games can bring smiles,disappointment and the desire to improve personal skills. Character building is a slow process and for some, winning becomes their personal indicator of success. I always liked the phrase, "It's nice to be tough, but tougher to be nice": that's a simple rule for teaching dignity and humility with both winners and losers. Your positive, structured approach and their normal friendships will all help cross weave the decent, crucial guidelines for their futures. Frame and hang "Desiderata" to your wall: you will all find it reassuring. 
God Bless.
Alan Jackson
Poulsbo

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