It's obvious from your comments that you are not female.  When I was 18, I was interviewing for a secretary job.  The man was 40ish and we were alone in his office.  I had plenty of work experience, plus several years of high school typing and shorthand.  I thought I was qualified.  The interview went well, but when it was over, he grabbed me and kissed me on the mouth.  He said I was a "good sport."  I didn't tell my boyfriend what had happened because I didn't want a confrontation.  And I was embarrassed.  Maybe I wasn't as well qualified as I had assumed.  That memory has weighed on me for 40 years and came to the surface again last year, when Donald Trump admitted to grabbing women's p****.  So, unless you are a predator or a victim....shut up.

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