You should direct your comments to the folks earlier who claimed that having sex with other men does not make you gay.  It's being attracted to them that makes them gay.  You folks need to really get your message straight.  You aren't sure what or what isn't the definition of gay.  Regardless of if it's having sex with a man or being attracted to men, either way it's a choice.  Unless you can show me evidence of two male cats having sex with each other.

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