I'm confused by what you wrote.  Perhaps you would clarify.  
You state: "we white practitioners are totally baffled by how we change the meta dynamics of family structure in Native communities."  Then, you go on to talk about the high level of child sexual abuse in those communities and the increasing rate of teenage suicide.
Are you suggesting that white practitioners are changing the dynamics of family structure in such a way that abuse is increased?  Or are the two coincidental?  Or is it that you are baffled that you are unable to change the dynamics?  
I'm sorry that my question may be stupid, but I'm really unclear about what you wrote.

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