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what are three factors that affect who you choose as your mate
Three factors of human mate selection include familiarity, physical attractiveness, and personality.
any more factors that influence human mate selection besides familiarity, physical attractiveness, and personality
Two more factors of human mate selection are proximity and similarity.

Question: how are the sexes the same in choosing
Self-contained rewrite: what are the similarities between men and women in mate selection