I thought " pregnancy brain " was supposed to happen in the second trimester , not the first ... and if so , why the hell am I having trouble forming coherent thoughts ( let alone coherent sentences ) ? ! ? ! ? A few ramblings from the last few days ... Our anniversary was really nice . Jeff is , as you all know , the sweetest guy EVER . We were NOT supposed to give each other gifts for our anniversary this year , but the guy never listens !

Question: What might I mean by " Jeff never listens " ?
Answer: Jeff said we never agreed to that and after a few ramblings by him , I decided not to make an issue of it .He ended up buying me a gift for our special day even though we agreed that we would n't exchange presents .Jeff thought I said it was my birthday and bought me a birthday gift instead of an anniversary gift .Jeff is suffering from pregnancy brain is having problems listening to conversations and remembering things .