There was so much drama in such a sort amount of time , that I really ca n't blame people for leaving . It was apparant to me that ToL was dying ... but it is so hard for me to let go of something that I love and care about so much , until I feel totally comfortable in accepting and letting go . I hated that I had to make the decision to close ToL ... but I know the only reason I was keeping it open was totally out of obligation ... I worried what membership would do and what people would think ... and in the end I needed to make a decision for my own happiness . Many are saying this is selfish ... but you know something ?

Question: Why were people leaving all of a sudden ?
Answer: The membership was useless .The membership was n't good enough .None of the above choices .There was too much drama and people could n't stand it anymore .