I am often ' turned - off ' by the extreme dress and behavior of the ultra - Orthodox . Yet there is a part of me that realizes that I am missing something -- something deeply spiritual as well as religious . There was a reason that I responded as I did to this total stranger who I could observe only briefly as I passed him in my car .

Question: What may be the reason they are turned off by the dress of the ultra Orthodox ?
Answer: They do nt like clothes that make them look fat .There is no variety in the clothes they wear .They do nt want people to think they are religious .The do nt like the color black that they wear .