Let me be clear , everything is good . Having said that , I ' ve been a little preoccupied lately , as Leslie threw out her back on Sunday . It 's been an interesting , and marriage - solidifying 36 hours . Sunday afternoon , around 2 pm , Leslie and I were hanging in the library , sans kids ( they were with their father ) , listening to music and talking .

Question: How did Leslie 's throwing out of her back help to solidify your marriage ?
Answer: Leslie realized that I am really good at taking care of people and wants to keep me around for that reasonLeslie saw that if she ever hurt herself she would need my help to heal and realized that she needs meNone of the above choices .We were able to spend time together just talking and that helped us to connect better