John threw me onto the ice , he betrayed me with a hug . I grabbed both his legs and tried to bring him down , but he would n't fall . I do n't get it . After we got back , there was more hang out time .

Question: What may be the reason for their confusion on where they stand with this person ?
Answer: One minute they 're fighting and the next they 're ignoring each other .They usually do n't understand things unless it 's spelled out for them .One minute they 're fighting and the next they 're hanging out .This usually happens about once a month but neither of them know why .