As a single woman , I have held my family above Christ by refusing to speak truth at the risk of disrupting my family 's so - called peace or potentially losing relationship with them altogether . I knew God was calling me to bring into the light past family sin that had never been discussed since it occurred 27 years ago . I could see how it could be used to show them God 's grace by coming to them in truth and forgiveness . And although there was great possibility to see lives transformed , I sinned against God by instead choosing my family and my own comfort because the risk was too high .

Question: What may have happened during this time ?
Answer: None of the above choices .They had told a lie at their church .They had told their family the truth .They did n't tell their family the truth .