I know this is going to happen , and that people are shocked because so many people loved him , but they do n't understand that a simple , I ' m so sorry is sufficient and how going on and on hurts me so much and is so hard to handle . Over the past few months I have read many times since my husband passed away about the different stages of Grief , and I always saw " Anger " as one listed . I remembered as a child how I overheard my Aunt saying how angry she was with my Uncle for dying and leaving her with 4 small children to raise alone .

Question: Why is a simple " I 'm so sorry " sufficient ?
Answer: Because that 's all I expect from people .Because many people loved him .None of the above choices .Because people are shocked .