That it is ok to assess and meet your own needs . That if you need some unorthodox ways of dealing with things , then no matter what others think , you should allow yourself to perform those behaviours , as long as they do n't harm others . And there is always a way of coping with yourself , in ways appropriate for your particular situation , you just need to find one that works for you .

Question: What may happen if one does n't pursue safe self - care avenues ?
Answer: Others might view them as strong and courageous .They might forget about their needs and go on successfully .They might have a mental breakdown .They might become more open and loving over time .