There are obvious justifications to their disparity but what keeps them all " the same " is the fact that I know I do n't want these certain types of girls as anything reminiscent of a romantic long term relationship . From the very first meeting I can almost always decide ( and with great accuracy ) that I do n't want much to do with this girl . And THAT is the girl that I will " date " .

Question: What might I mean when I say " date " ?
Answer: I might mean i do n't want a long term dating but just a serious friend .I might mean i do n't want a long term relationship but just casually dateI might mean i do n't want a long term relationship but just a casual friend .None of the above choices .