We do need some boundaries just to keep people from taking unfair advantage of us . I never wanted to hurt anybody 's feelings as a kid , and so I had a lot of trouble understanding how to protect myself . But , I ' m very slowly learning that good boundaries make for good friendships too . I wonder what I ' m like as a person ?

Question: Do you have to be careful around people ?
Answer: I have to be careful to get my feelings hurt .People have to be careful around meThere is no point in having boundaries .You have to defend yourself .