If I asked her to clean up her own mess , she 'd probably smile and laugh at me completely oblivious to what I was asking of her . My three and four year old on the other hand can " help " clean things up . They can put aways toys or games they take out and wipe up messes they make with supervision and sometimes a little help . They sometimes even ask for help cleaning some things up and depending on what needs to be cleaned up and how busy I am I may step in and help .

Question: What may happen after asking her to clean up the messes ?
Answer: She would laugh .She would be respectful .She would be loving .She would listen .