There are obvious justifications to their disparity but what keeps them all " the same " is the fact that I know I do n't want these certain types of girls as anything reminiscent of a romantic long term relationship . From the very first meeting I can almost always decide ( and with great accuracy ) that I do n't want much to do with this girl . And THAT is the girl that I will " date " .

Question: Why might the writer choose this type of girl to date ?
Answer: He has a fear of commitment .He can see himself with these girls long - term .None of the above choices .He feels that these girls have a lot to offer .