At the end of the day I still needed some time to myself to have a break . By this time I was confident I wanted to move further down south . It had been on my mind for some time but I was becoming even more unsettled . I could n't put my finger on exactly why as we were settled and had a good circle of friends . We had been on the home swap list for quite some time without any joy .

Question: What might I do in the future even though we 're settled with good friends ?
Answer: I might decide to move further up north .I might decide to stay where I am .I might decide to move further down south .None of the above choices .