No amount of spiritual guidance , counseling , friends or family would have been able to fix us . I woke up for 4 years not recognizing the person in the mirror anymore . I had poured so much into my marriage and felt more empty than ever .

Question: Why has the marriage fallen apart ?
Answer: The person did n't put in work into the marriage .None of the above choices .Friends and family were unable to help them put it back together .Someone could n't stand to look in the mirror .