But perhaps most importantly , I have interesting friends that reflect the various facets of my personality and background . I think I ' ve just realized something ... It all comes down to confidence . If you 're not confident in yourself or what you want to do ( like my friend ) then you surround yourself with like - minded people - no confidence , career direction , etc . I do n't always have confidence .

Question: What may happen after I become confident ?
Answer: I lose all my friends .None of the above choices .I lose career directionI gain friends who feel the same .