No amount of spiritual guidance , counseling , friends or family would have been able to fix us . I woke up for 4 years not recognizing the person in the mirror anymore . I had poured so much into my marriage and felt more empty than ever .

Question: Why has the marriage fallen apart ?
Answer: No amount of spiritual guidance or counseling has helped .None of the above choices .The person did n't put in work into the marriage .Someone could n't stand to look in the mirror .