I just had my second child 3 months ago and he was born with down syndrome . At that time I needed them to call me because I was so heartbroken because of finding out he had down syndrome . I often feel to scared to call them because I feel like I am intruding in their lives . They are very close to each other probably because when we were children I left to live with my mother ( they are my half siblings ) .

Question: What may be the reason why the diagnosis was so devastating ?
Answer: Because they are usually dramatic with everything .As a parent you want it to be easier for you .As a parent you do n't want your child to have a difficult life .Because of the cost of medical care .