It 's hard when your first memories are of fits of rage , having to hide under your bed and separation . I have never looked for pity because of what I ' ve seen and been through . I have only recently began to have thoughts about marriage and my own children .

Question: What is a likely cause for the speaker 's first memories to be ones of rage ?
Answer: They were upset with their parents because they never let them have ice creamThey likely had somewhat of an abusive childhood , which is why their memories are fits of rageThey were n't allowed to get the dog that they wanted because their father was allergicNone of the above choices .