OK , so everyday I ride the bus to work with this man . After a few months we began talking to eachother , learning likes / dislikes , etc . Eventually we exchanged numbers and talked on the phone , went on a few dates , were intimate , he met my friends , and basically things were great ... until I got a phone call from his wife . Supposedly they are not actually married ... but the common law marriage that happens in some states ... either way I felt betrayed and like a piece of garbage .

Question: Why did you feel like garbage about the situation ?
Answer: I felt like garbage because I would have to cheat to maintain this relationshipI was disgusted because we met on a busI felt bad because our relationship would now have to endI felt that way because even though I had no idea about his wife , I would never have engaged in some extra marital and that is what upsets me