Somehow , I lost the ability to console someone who 's in doubt about relationship issues . My advices are not very convincing anymore , i think . ( Or all along , it 's not)Plus i m not in a position to say anythingSave myself before saving others : ) Its time t scrimp & save , i m terribly broke this month . Thankfully , there is school holidays so i can eat at home!Who wanna share your pay with me uh ?

Question: What must I have been going through before coming to realize my advices are not helpful ?
Answer: I must have gone through things that made me enhance my ability to be helpful .None of the above choices .I must have gone through things that made me ascertain my ability to be helpful .I must have gone through things that convinced me of my ability to be save myself .