Today would have been Robert 's 22nd birthday . As days go , it should be good because I have an interview with a company that seems really awesome and Alison is staying an extra day in Jersey before she heads to Arizona . But otherwise , I want to celebrate his life by drinking his favorite liquor and remembering everything I can . I went to Potbelly 's and remembered the last time I was there ... we had lunch on Valentine 's Day because we were both alone . I found a book of his in my basement and remembered when he lent it to me and my promises to return it , of course to no avail because I have a shitty memory .

Question: What am I making an effort to remember today ?
Answer: None of the above choices .I 'm remembering a husband who has died .I 'm remembering a friend who has died .I 'm remembering to return a borrowed book .