Maybe you talk about what you are thinking , or write about what you are thinking ... but you do n't stress about what you are thinking . it 's not stewing or brooding ... it 's just thinking . And for some reason , the thoughts are clearer , more positive , more decisive than they are at home .

Question: Why should you you think a certain way ?
Answer: You should n't stress while thinking because that makes things negative .You should always expect to fail .You should think about the worst outcome so you always know what to not expect .You should expect the worst so you do n't get your hopes up .