another reason j(wh ) is so wonderful : he makes me put my hands in my hair.a bit of explanation : when i was an undergrad , i would get myself into long , provocative conversations with friends . and as i got more and more excited by the ideas we were talking about , i 'd run my hands through my hair , giving myself a lovely puffy halo of hair . during the last several years , one of the effects of depression has been losing my interest in ideas .

Question: How could the person J be described ?
Answer: J is being a good friend .J is caring for them and looking out for them .J is trying to cure their depression .None of the above choices .