Afterwards , when I loved again , it was invariably with much reservation . In fact , I have never loved whole heartedly any more . I lament , I hold back , I back off , I isolate or insulate myself . How fruitful or fulfilling can life be then ?

Question: Why am I so careful when I love someone ?
Answer: I was deceived by my sibling who I loved .None of the above choices .I was betrayed by my significant other who I loved .I was abandoned by my friend who I loved .