I posted a full reviewe of Beating Cheating at TheSignsOfCheating.com , but I wanted to give a brief summary here . When I went through the problems with my husband and his rampant infidelity , I suspected something was wrong for a long time . The hushed wispers , the lack of attentiveness followed by an overabundance of feigned attentiveness and gifts , yadda yadda .

Question: What happened during the long span when the wife did n't want to accept what she knew ?
Answer: I heard the whispers but they were not about me .I was given gifts for being guilty of loving my husband .Whispers were taking place behind her back because she was blind .None of the above choices .