The word to describe my life right now is " uncomfortable " . And the funny thing is , I am really loving it . Now that my cozy little band niche has been thrown out the window , I ' m having to totally exert myself and get out there . Before it was just too easy to settle with exclusively talking to band kids or attending pretty much only band related parties / activities .

Question: Why is the speaker 's life " uncomfortable " ?
Answer: They are over - exerting themselves .They are branching out and doing new things .They got thrown out a window .They are at a party with people they do n't like .