As a widow , she would face every day as if it was the worst . She had her friends and family . Those that sought to comfort her also brought her down with the reminders as well . It was a soldier 's way of life , what they both knew .

Question: What happened in the widow 's past ?
Answer: Her family failed at comforting her .Her husband was killed in war .She became a soldier and was killed .Her friends comforted her every day .