And how so ? I realize you ca n't live your life asking yourself " what if " ... because you 'll never have any answers . Even after everything that happens ... I still believe that everything happens for a reason ... even tho we do n't always know what that reason is ... if you change your mind , well that s the way it goes .

Question: Why should you stop yourself from asking " What If ? "
Answer: You 'll get stuck trying to make sense out of everything .You 'll stop being stuck and you will find the answers to everything .You could start changing your mind about things .You 'll immediately find the reason why your problems are occuring .