This past weekend , I do n't quite know why , my feelings of neglect and being taken for granted were just too much to take and I lashed out , holding nothing back . Yet , despite the bruising and sensation of emptiness I felt yesterday , reading the column this morning ( " We 'll Marry Each Other As Often As Needed " ) left me with a bit more strength and warmth than I possessed before , a little more faith in him , in us . Maybe it 's a recurring chasm we will never bridge fully , a compromise we will never reach happily .

Question: What may have caused you to lash out against him ?
Answer: The column I read this morning told me to lash out if I did n't have faith in himI was n't being treated right .He thought I was n't treating him right .He kept bruising me .