More likely , she is still in mourning in some way or another , and believe you me , no matter how well you put on that public face , it still affects you deep down . It took me a good couple of years to come to terms with things and it 's still challenging in year five . The second thing is to see who is actually taking care of Trig , because that 's going to be one of the most important full - time and then some jobs that her family will have .

Question: Why is the lady still in mourning after so long ?
Answer: None of the above choices .She did n't know where her son was located .She lost her husband in a terrible boating accident .She had not seen her family in quite some time .