But guys .. the thing is , I ' m falling SO hard for Brian . SO hard , it 's insane . He 's like the sweetest thing ever and writes me songs and burns me cds and treats me amazing - ly ... and Jenn does n't know this , she probably just htinks we 're some random couple - ing . I do n't really know what I ' m asking here , i guess maybe advice or if anyone else went through this .

Question: What is the reason that Jenn does n't understand the nature of her friend 's relationship ?
Answer: Jenn is insecure about her own ability to find a partner , so she diminishes her friend 's successThe speaker is uncertain about the relationship and has therefore not shared about it with Jenn yetJenn has her head in the clouds and only seems to be able to attend to her own interestsJenn is spiteful and jealous and refuses to validate her friend 's happiness in any dimension