I am not always going to understand everything immediately new and old things will have different meaning with time , it 's OK . I refuse to call or contact her but one day I think it will be necessary for the sake of something I do n't know . But one night I almost emailed her and told her that that I wish things would have turned out differently between us and blah blah blah .

Question: Why do I refuse to call or contact her ?
Answer: Because I am not always going to understand everything .Because new and old things will have different meaning with time .None of the above choices .Because I disapprove of something she did .