She 's shown more interest in seeing the kids - in fact she and my Step - Dad took my oldest for the weekend and just spoiled the dickens out of him . Every phone call has been positive and her tone has been pleasant . And what brings me most joy is her reporting into me that she 's going to be volunteering at a woman 's shelter starting next week . She is where I get my own desires to help others , give back , volunteer and give of my pocket book and time .

Question: How will the oldest son be when he returns ?
Answer: He will be happy .He will be unpleasant .He will be at the shelter .He will be interested in seeing the kids .