I have planned a second service for my little annoyance . And It shall be a small one for family and just family ( though without my father thank god . ) And then we will be spreading my brother 's ashes close to where my grandmother 's ashes are . And I / we think that that 's where he would like to be , if only because that is where he liked to be was where I am from ( Mystic for those of you who do n't know ) I still ca n't believe that my little brother is gone and , well , dead ... and I am still a little shocked .

Question: Which family member will not be attending the service ?
Answer: The FatherNone of the above choices .The BrotherThe Mother