Back when I was engaged in December , I started thinking about the type of dress I 'd like to wear for my October ( Colorado October ) wedding . My very first thought was to find a vintage 50 's cocktail or swing type of dress . I fell in love with the idea of a tea - length , circle skirt with a petal or wing bust .

Question: What would not have happened if I had not become engaged ?
Answer: I would not be looking for a wedding dressI would not swing on a swingI would not have friends over for teaI would not be in a relationship