When she heads out on her miscellanous excursions during her stays , me having an hour or two is n't a problem ; it 's not a co - dependency issue I ' m addressing here . But when I know she wo n't be somewhere inside my place when I get up or come in from doing errands is as shitty a feeling as knowing she is there is a good feeling . Either way , I think this visit -- and her return to San Fran -- is as momentous as was her first trip to New York . We both know this is it before we , essentially , pull the trigger on an apartment .

Question: What is this couple planning to do ?
Answer: Stop having a long distance relationship .They 're going to end the relaionship .Move to San FranciscoMove away from New York .