I want her to treat me with respect which is what everyone deserves and has the right to in a relationship . I want her to realize I ' m not perfect , I ' m human , that I 'll make mistakes and I 'll let her down but never on purpose , and that she wo n't chastise me if I do , do those things . I want someone who enjoys life and does n't always sit on the couch all day log like a lump , someone who likes going for walks with no goal in mind but does n't mind a day to " veg " every once and while after a couple long hard days . People get depressed and have tough times but I do n't want someone I have to spend all my free time cheering .

Question: What may be the reason for them not being happy in their relationship ?
Answer: They 're sick of their partner being depressed .They 're sick of being depressed themselves .Their partner does n't provide intellectual stimulation .They are sad their partner has to cheer them up all the time .