Title: Tilde (~) is not supported for data_files
Author: exs-avianello (NONE)
State: open
Created: 2023-09-04T14:23:49Z

### Describe the bug

Attempting to `load_dataset` from a path starting with `~` (as a shorthand for the user's home directory) seems not to be fully working - at least as far as the `parquet` dataset builder is concerned.

(the same file can be loaded correctly if providing its absolute path instead)

I think that this is very similar to https://github.com/huggingface/datasets/issues/5757, but for `data_files` rather than `data_dir`

### Steps to reproduce the bug

```python
import datasets

# save a parquet file at ~/path/to/data.parquet

data_files = "~/path/to/data.parquet"
dataset = datasets.load_dataset("parquet", data_files=data_files)
```
```
Downloading data files: 100%|█████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████| 1/1 [00:00<00:00, 12671.61it/s]
Extracting data files: 100%|██████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████████| 1/1 [00:00<00:00, 22671.91it/s]
Generating train split: 0 examples [00:00, ? examples/s]
Traceback (most recent call last):
  File ".venv/lib/python3.11/site-packages/datasets/builder.py", line 1949, in _prepare_split_single
    num_examples, num_bytes = writer.finalize()
                              ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
  File ".venv/lib/python3.11/site-packages/datasets/arrow_writer.py", line 598, in finalize
    raise SchemaInferenceError("Please pass `features` or at least one example when writing data")
datasets.arrow_writer.SchemaInferenceError: Please pass `features` or at least one example when writing data

The above exception was the direct cause of the following exception:

Traceback (most recent call last):
  File ".venv/lib/python3.11/site-packages/datasets/load.py", line 2133, in load_dataset
    builder_instance.download_and_prepare(
  File ".venv/lib/python3.11/site-packages/datasets/builder.py", line 954, in download_and_prepare
    self._download_and_prepare(
  File ".venv/lib/python3.11/site-packages/datasets/builder.py", line 1049, in _download_and_prepare
    self._prepare_split(split_generator, **prepare_split_kwargs)
  File ".venv/lib/python3.11/site-packages/datasets/builder.py", line 1813, in _prepare_split
    for job_id, done, content in self._prepare_split_single(
  File ".venv/lib/python3.11/site-packages/datasets/builder.py", line 1958, in _prepare_split_single
    raise DatasetGenerationError("An error occurred while generating the dataset") from e
datasets.builder.DatasetGenerationError: An error occurred while generating the dataset

```

### Expected behavior

Can use `~` shorthand in paths when loading local (parquet) datasets.

### Environment info

`datasets                               2.14.3`

Comments:
Hi @exs-avianello, is it really needed? Note you can alternatively use `pathlib.Path` among others as it follows:

```python
import datasets
from pathlib import Path

# save a parquet file at ~/path/to/data.parquet

data_files = Path.home() / "path/to/data.parquet"
dataset = datasets.load_dataset("parquet", data_files=data_files)
```

Hi @alvarobartt ! 

This is definitely just a "nice to have" and I am personally more than happy to just use absolute paths client-side. I just wanted to flag it up in case it can help improve the package even more 🙌 It might not be immediately obvious from the stack trace that the error is triggered by the `~` in the path