I, like everyone, want a genuine guy but whenever I find myself getting attached to someone, he changes and leaves. Consequently I think of casual relations but the same problem happens here too. I plan to get  Married in 3-4 years. How should I pursue my personal relationships so that the focus on my career is not compromised and I can stay happy? How much money should I save as a freelancer so that as a guy I can take the full responsibility of marrying someone at the age of 30?