I didn't know my ex was a full blown narcissist until the final discard. Now I'm leaving the country and I want to confront him. Is this a bad idea? My ex and I were best friends for 5 years, we ended things mutually. We need to figure out ourselves before we try making the other happy. I'm still in love with him, but I know I can't be with him right now. Do I choose to take the easy route and cut him off, or stay friends with him?