I found a vape pen in my 18-yo son's room. I've made it clear to him that I don't approve, yet he is of legal age. Should I punish him? There is this guy in my class who stares at me all the time. My friends have noticed it as well. His friends tease him. I know he loves me. I love him too. It has been a year now, but he has not approached me yet. I always wanted a lover like him. Should I forget him?