My ex was physically and emotionally abusive and in the past has accused me of having narcissistic personality disorder, borderline PD, and a couple of others which I don't remember. He gave me enough proof as well from my behavior. Is it him manipulating me or am I actually a psycho? Will one with abusive tendencies change over time with partners? I am dating someone whom my friends have warned me has had abusive past relationships. Should I be wary of him or should I assume he was only abusive to his last one?