I'm a 21 year old guy, I really like a girl who happens to be my best friend from the last 3 years. How do I tell if she feels the same? I am madly in love with my best friend. We are friends from the last 3 years. I have conveyed my feelings to her but she says she had feelings for me once but now she doesn't. Is she telling me this because of family issues or she doesn't love me anymore? How do I convience her?