What do you say to a colleague who just became a new mom and is leaving the job to take care of her kids? I have a boyfriend that doesn't like when I go to parties with my family. The next day he asks about, who I danced with and what I wore. He also asks me to take a picture of what I wore and send it to him. He says he's just caring, but I don't feel like he is. Is it caring or controlling?