I am in love with a codependent who has gone back to his narcissistic ex-wife. He says he loves me and is trying to leave her. Am I wasting my time trying to help a friend/lover or should I just leave him in his misery? I am in a relationship with my manager who is married and has a baby. He loves me but he is not willing to leave his wife because of his baby. I am very much attached to him and love him. Should I continue with this? What would he feel if I broke up with him?