I finally told my mother I was molested by her brother 20 years ago. Now she insists I keep in touch with him & his family. Why won't she understand? I told this girl that I like her and she said yes to going out on a date with me. Not too long ago and we were texting just now and she kept texting back real fast, but when I told her at my new job I got past her on my way there its been 20-25 minutes and she hasn't text back. Should I be worried?