I love my girlfriend a lot, but for the last 3 years her weight has become stagnant. I want her weight to become normal. Her parents are forcing her to get married, but I want our marriage to start on a healthy note. Shall I ask her to get married to some other guy and come out of this relationship? Five years ago my wife cheated on me, after 30 years married, and moved out to be with him. Divorced for 3.5 years. Why do I still love/want her, and how can I get over her?