why would you assume a certain unawareness on their part with the "obviously" statement. why is it obvious to you? because the choice they made to do this in a highly public place? or the sensitive way they addressed ms stauffer's weight issue? live and learn? at the ages of 31 and 45, one would think a school district admin employee would have lived and learned this very basic life lesson already.  they would have to say something extraordinary to keep their jobs.