Then let me explain it for you. The government is telling the employer how the employee must be compensated at the expense of the employers right to worship in accordance to their own conscience. No one, repeat, no one, is saying that an employee can't choose to spend their money on contraception, the objection comes from having the government tell the employer how they will spend their money. When the government decides what commerce you must participate in or face a punitive tax for your non-participation in that commerce it is dictating how you will spend your money to you. It is really no different in principle than saying you will be taxed as a punishment for not donating to the charity, or the religion, of the government's choosing.