Whatever you want to call it, it is a lack of true priorities. You ignore the difference in culture as one would ignore the slavery issue and make it legitimate today.  It reminds me of Jesus and His disciples being scolded for eating grain from a field they went through when hungry, and David eating from the temple table. And Jesus healing on the Sabbath day.  You can know all the hermeneutics possible and still lack love for people in one's context and sphere of influence. Read the love chapter. A desire for what you say is perfect hermeneutics does not come near doing what is right and glorifying God.