As a male, you most certainly can be sure that sloppy and promiscuous sex is common, among men.   Yes, women are human, they can do the same thing, but in my experience, less so than men.

Knowing this, why do you hold only the woman as accountable?  Why are you not preaching to men and their sons, that they should never brag about their sexual conquest, or live in fear of shame about being a virgin still at 18?  Yea right, you can stop a President from 'locker room' talk, just as easily.   It's not going to happen with the majority of men.

Accept the responsibility of men in the case of pregnant woman and demand that he take care of the child, full time, pay for the medical cost, take on sleepless night, and explain to his wife just why they have another child in their home, (If the woman agrees to carry the fetus to full term).

I will always support the decision to be made by the woman over blatant hypocritical male moralizing.