Again - you assume that your interpretation is church teaching.  Arrogance and hubris can get you in trouble.  You might want to move past your catechism ideology and try to study the issue as a theological issue......start without assuming the answer.  Could care less about a list of your family members - so what?  Know plenty of religious and clerics who are not the sharpest crayon in the box, by a long shot.  We are NO longer a Clerical church.