You sound a bit like Pence, "I am a Christian, a Conservative and a Republican in that order."
Love of God equals love of neighbour - the Samaritan, the stranger, the foreigner, the hungry, the thirsty, the poor, the sick, the imprisoned, the widow, the orphan. You people want the foreigner and stranger excluded, expelled. You attack the sick, especially the poor sick, you're happy to see the imprisoned executed or banged up forever, you befriend the rich and set yourselves against minorities.
Love of family - Jesus specifically said that his family were those who listened to his word and put it into practice. 
Love of country - the justification for many of the wars you have entered into, narrow nationalism, protect ourselves with no concept that your brother, sister or neighbour IS your family. The justification too for the anti-kingdom arming every citizen which actually ignores the constitution's strict rules for carrying weapons and would have Jesus horrified.
Clueless.