Dogbert:  I think we're seeing the results around us every day......and, you're right, they are not pretty.  You also make a very important point.  It is not a SCHOOL problem....it is a CULTURAL problem.  It is manifested at school because that is where the kids spend their time and where they interact. 

 I think a serious discussion is needed to define the problems and seek some answers.  You use the very appropriate term......OVERWHELMED.  regards, Gary Crum