The insensitive boors do this all the time.  

When Fort Mac was burning down, environmentalists on these threads were blaming the residents for their involvement in oil sands activity.

In the immediate aftermath of the Vegas shooting, gun haters were blaming firearms owners and the NRA.

Either the agenda, or a truly callous insensitivity, or both, drives this borderline sociopathic behaviour.

It doesn't surprise me Trump said that to the widow.