Thanks---learning, empathy, trying to gain the insight in walking in another's shoes...and yes having a friend or mentor who helps what makes our live meaningful. And each generation then shares, and we all get better. I'm better than my Mom, my son is better than I. So why is this learning such a struggle? How does hidden bias and fear undermine? Have we become more cruel as we attribute intention rather accept/expect naive understanding? I see too many locked in out of fear...fear that they may be 'wrong' and this too is two-sided. I meet Dr Coleman at Ila's house and then I learned about the sharer love of music, and people. The emotion of music was part of the love of folks. I will miss his insights...and in that we bear responsibility to continue his work as respect for his work.