1).  I am not a "Sir" as you very well know.  I am female, and this constant reference otherwise is bullying - as you very well know.
2).  I am not homophobic - and your incessant claims otherwise are repugnant and bullying. 
3).  I commented on another posters' remarks...I did not stray off topic.  I merely asked for clarification of his point.
4).  If you are annoyed by my question, don't take it out on me.  Perhaps just post your usual smiley face and move on.