Let me check my crystal ball.....
Look, the question is very simple....

Do we want NKorea to have nukes and ICBM's while they are threatening to use them on us, or not?

It is very simple.  Hawaii is just a 20 minute nuke away from him, and he is threatening to use them.  He is shooting missles over Japanese waters, while threatening them.  Is that not enough of a reason to stop him?  Do you seriously want to rely on "hope" that he will stop it?  Since you like to put it to us, you tell us the same things you asked us in your post here:  DO YOU WANT WAR?  Because this guy will use everything he has.  The only questions is, do you want him to have 1,000 nukes that work, or what he has now that can be taken out?

China has them, Russia has them, 6 other countries have them.  The difference is they are NOT threatening us and Japan and SKorea everyday like this little maniac is doing.  

Nobody wants war, but he does or he wouldn't be doing this.  Sorry, but this is just unacceptable.