What it boils down to is that human nature tells us that this is immoral and unnatural sexual deviance.  To quiet their own consciousness they want to force society to accept them.  Its not okay and never will be.  They should not receive rewards and benefits for the deviant example they are infecting our society and children with.  So please don't bury the seriousness of this wrong choice under rhetorical sentimentalism.  It is wrong at every level society.