What a man! A person who puts his children first. Wow, just wow. Hang on to him because he is a real one -a real good one. Having a one year anniversary dinner is a nice thought, but a cozy dinner anytime would be just fine. You are both past the teenage, college years and not looking  at , "Say Yes To The Dress"  just yet. Enjoy the time you have with this modern gentleman.  Many in my generation [Zoomers] would have been happy had the ex husband sent a birthday card to our children with a $5. bill in it.