I have looked up all yours, didn't bother to look up his, because I don't care. And what business is it of yours if he wants to live his life in envy ? But perhaps more  importantly who do you think you are telling him how to live ? If he wants live  his life in envy then that is his perogative , isn't it ? Don't bother answering the questions because you are not that interesting. BTW: Thomas Jefferson you are not.