That was not what you said, and even if it had been, you can't say that by itself. That particular cultural expression of maleness is basically the entirety of cultural expression of maleness all around us. 

The one we need - exists in small, isolated, pockets here and there , it's mostly just a vision though. The one that causes these problems is, in fact, all around us. And it is, turning men into trash all around us.

You can't use my words as a defense for men, they aren't. They are a call to action - a declaration that what we define 'male' to even mean needs to change. You can start by removing penisses from the definition since there is no scientific basis for including them. It's just one small step though the first step in a thousand mile journey. 
One thing I can say with absolute certainty is that, if we take that journey, most men of today would not recognize who we become as being 'men'. And many will fight us every step of the way. 
But rather a new man type, than trash.