Jus to give you a contrary opinion.
Married 19 years, in the upper 1%, 2 teenagers. Can't ask for more!
My wife knew me when I was nothing, sacrificed and supported me all the way. 
She has a good job too. 
Marriage to us was a commitment. 
We are both physically attracted to each other. She has physical features that I cherish and she admires my physical features.
Now that I am very comfortable, I pass on opportunities to be unfaithful. Ditto her. We joke about it.
We have no secrets. I have access to her phones and emails as she does mine. That reduces the temptation to misbehave.
My point is that there are some good women out there. The problem is finding the right one that wants you for who you are! Not so much about money or your career, although those are never a negative.
Having a sense of style, even with limited means, is always bonus. There are many uncouth men out there.
On a lighter note, I know lots of women who find bald (zero hair) men cool, sexy and confident.