Look, what Israel is doing to the Palestinians is far worse than the hideous, but hardly dangerous, hate crimes against Jews in America. 
It's time for Jews to quit playing the victim card, the pity card, and demand Israel quit practicing apartheid against the people whose land they stole by force of arms. 
Yes, Palestinians did horrible things to combat this, but what would you do to protect your home, family, and community? Would you... bomb the enemy's hospital, killing many wounded and sick? Israelis did such a thing to a British military hospital. How about attacking your best supporting-country's navy, killing their sailors? Israel did so to an American warship during a dispute with the US. 
It is especially painful when a friend does something terrible. It leaves one with a horrible dilemma, but remaining silent shouldn't be an option: crime must be called out, especially one for which one's country is complicit.