I don't see where there is any scandal that I have laid; if there is a scandalon, it is the one Jesus laid and which, for many, is one they cannot seem to get around.  "So then, this is how you should pray: ‘Our Father in heaven, hallowed be Your name" (not "If you pray", not "say something like this", not "remember to be gender-inclusive").  This is not the mere product of some good guy living in First Century Palestine; this is God telling us something about the relationship we are to have with Him.  It would be the height of grammatical error to say "Our Father" and then suggest that this is the relationship we are to have with "Her".