I'm sorry but you are wrong.  When it comes to communion with God, everyone is in the exact same place.    Exact.    Same.    Place.  
Sinners.  
We are all unable to commune with God having broken his law of love.  It is only through Sacrifice that we meet with him.  Any other way is the broad way of destruction.  ONLY by his grace can we approach and cooperate with him through his mercy by way of repentance, receiving his forgiveness and absolution.   Exact. Same. Place.
Yes. The Church places everyone in this exact box, because Christ did. 
"If we say we have not sinned, we make him [Jesus] a liar, and his word is not in us."  St John
Are you claiming the works based faith that the protestants accuse us of??