Are you actually claiming you are NOT judgmental ? Every person makes (yes even moral) judgments every day, and his analysis is spot on. These adults have created a confusing and unstable environment for their family yet are being praised as cultural heroes. Sure it takes courage to "come out" and in a way I respect that, but do not believe this is "right" for many reasons, not the least of which being it goes against human nature (boys being boys and girls being girls), and that is undeniable.