That alone seems to speak loudly for socialization and relationship education programs in school that these parents failed to provide at home - even though everyone says it was their responsibility .. If high school boys and girls don't get this from parents, where else should they go for this as they grow toward adulthood? One might not be dead and the other not locked up for life if they had had  some earlier preventative education that taught them effective, reasonable ways to address difficult, hormone-raging situations .