WOW. JoelBanks totally legitimate comment was deleted even as I wrote this answer to his question: "What's wrong with my comment?" Allegorical Answer: you're a boxer boxing a rival, you're both taking a share of knocks while also landing a share of blows; the knocks you take are for whatever reason not very hard knocks, and it seems your blows are in contrast quite a bit harder; suddenly you spot an opening during a moment of your opponent's showboating; you wind up and take one amazing swing which lands square on the jaw of your adversary - POW- And it's lights out baby! You win!  BUT WAIT! Your opponent starts balling their eyes out like a baby, gets off the couch and mashes the reset button on the Nintendo.  You see, they were playing a big fat game of Mike Tyson's Punchout this whole time, you know, where they never have to face up to a big fat LOSS because they simply cut all power to the bad bad mean people who beat them. Yup. That's it.