Trinidad:  Capitalizing random words has gotten YOUR ATTENTION, or you would not be complaining.   As far as being coached, there is a huge discrepancy in  definition  between "coached", and "talented".    You are claiming that Seda or Kristin are two of the most talented writers YOU know.  That's because they have you "BRAIN WASHED",  they have you caught up and  trapped in THEIR  world, they have YOU believing that your crew is in a healthy  situation, (notice I did not use the word "FAMILY"),   Currently, they have the wool pulled over your eyes.  Wait until you are 18 years old or older, and are out of the "NEST",  hopefully college,  or better yet,  go into the Military.  The Military turns Boys into MEN.   College is not the real world yet, its a step up from living at home.  Most people do not grow up in college,  its SEX PLAY day's  for them with a few actually focusing on education.  After you have left home and been out in the real world for 2-3 years, now tell us your story.