As for that list of things - yes thats why libertarians say they despise them -but not a single one of those accusations are true. You exist as part of society, you benefit from that membership - and thus have a responsibility to pay towards it's upkeep. If you don't want to pay your fair share of taxes, move somewhere without a society and you won't be expected to contribute to the society that isn't there. You want police protection ? You want roads ? You want courts and judges to resolve disputes ? You want sewage systems to keep the shit from piling up in your yard ? 
You pay your share of their costs.
The other things really DO decrease the power of the wealthy, which is why libertarians REALLY hate them. Anything that allows people to access any of the requirements of life WITHOUT subservience to a rich owner reduces the power of rich owners.  Without these things all freedom is the EXCLUSIVE prerogative of the rich, owning class.