One of the missing crew members was a friend I have known for about 18 years. I won't mention his name here because it hasn't been publicly released yet. He has a family who is hurting deeply at this time. He leaves behind a young daughter who will struggle to find peace with this. If the sea would give up his earthly body so that closure could at least be attempted, that would be great. If not, we are just praying that he's where he wanted to be. Keep the two sets of families in mind as you go about the business of living. There is great sadness and loss.