Obviously, I disagree.  And yes, I'm "up for the challenge" not that I'm required to be. But feel free to avoid the real issue by attacking me.  The fact that the Grunwald's have had and continue to have military careers doesn't automatically make them perfect parents, nor does the horrific fact that their child was brutally murdered make him a perfect person.  Neither of these facts changes the grief they feel for the loss of their child or the fact that he didn't deserve to die the way he did. No one does. 
You don't know if what I've written are "vile lies" or not. And you don't care. So if anyone should be crawling back under his manure pile, it's you.