Is the Church giving approval to all the straight couples who use contraception?  How about the straights who live together before marriage, or just hook up on Saturday night?  What about the racists among us, the tax frauds, the pornographists?  Some of these sins are more obvious than others but I guarantee you 2/3 of the people on the altar on any Sunday are guilty of some of them.  It is no ones place to judge except God's and mercifully, He's keeping His mouth shut.