And where does it say that consent was NOT given? When did I ever say it's okay to have sex without consent???

Two people have drinks, perhaps at a bar or in a dorm room. They both start feeling uninhibited because...surprise!...that's what alcohol does to you. They start flirting while waiting for their next drink. HE makes a play (because that's what society expects) and either verbally or non-verbally suggests they have sex. If his come-on appeals to her, they both willingly end up somewhere and do the deed. Next day she's sober, and for some reason regrets having sex with this person...maybe she's already taken, or perhaps he simply sucked at it. So to make things "right," she pursues legal action.

Up until the "legal action" point, hasn't the above scenario happened to you? No? Perhaps you're too pure, and that's fine. But I guarantee you this scene is repeated countless times every night across America. Now tell me, exactly WHERE in this scenario did the woman NOT give consent?