By that standard - we only pay for what we approve of morally, then people can choose not to have to pay taxes for wars on moral grounds.  This results in a governmental collapse not religious freedom.  

For democracy to stand and uphold everyone's right to worship as they wish, we all must compromise on things we don't want to pay for but the majority believes is necessary to pay for in order to uphold equality and keep the peace.

The rest of your post consist of mere ultra conservative opinion about Vat II.  and so I completely disagree with all of it.