No, I am not jesting. You claimed to be quoting (and to be following) what Our Lord told you. And I'm showing that you are not following His instruction.
If you cannot follow Jesus's instruction because this is a public forum, then you need to reconsider how you are writing on this forum. 
You immediately accused Br. Robert - here, in public (not privately, as your were told by Jesus to do; one-to-one) - of being "an apostate".
BTW, there are plenty of other people on this forum, like you, who leap to similar conclusions, and with equal rapidity. What I am challenging, is not your claim to have and express your opinion, but your claim that Jesus "would have me do this". For in reality He gave you (and me) a very different approach to follow.