Ms. Markham,
 At the same time you are being "forced" to pay for Mr. Bucys health care, You will also be paying for your own and your loved ones health care. This is also how insurance companies operate. Lots of folks paying insurance premiums allows insurance companies to spread the cost to those that need more of it. 
It's refreshing to hear you say you don't believe in letting disabled people starve or kids be uneducated.
 I'm also glad your happy to help finance insurance company CEO's multimillion dollar annual salaries.
It's well past time for a single payer health care system.