It really strains credulity for me that you focus on breastfeeding for, what? 12 - 14 months? as an indicator of your global statement that woman parenting is completely different from man parenting. (By the way, he probably doesn't really notice the objective difference once he's no longer hungry.)  It seems to me that you are simply insisting it be a certain way. As are most people in your camp. Has nothing to do with how real people actually parent or what each individual person is capable of giving his or her child.