The father speaks as if North Korea didn't do enough for his son when he was there. What do you expect when your son went into a HOSTILE country? It is a dictatorship that rules by fear and brutality. Their own citizens are dying from starvation and they send their own people to prison labor camps and citizens disappear and are never heard from again. But the father expected so much more for his son. It's tough to reason with crazy and North Korea's leadership is a prime example of that.