St. Ignatius is not the LAST word determining anything.  He was a human being, living in a given time and place in history.  Women ARE SEEKING to SERVE.  What is your problem with that?  Jesus WAS constrained by his culture.  He was completely human [or don't you believe that?].  Being INCARNATE means that.  Jesus was not divinity in in human disguise.

Apparently you don't know how History is written.  Those who are in charge write is as they wish.  If not the 'big, bad apostles' doing it, the patristic fathers sure saw to it.