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How to cope with your friend or relative dating your crush
First off, make sure that your relative or friend is going out with your crush.
Don't ask their friends but go to the source. Ask the crush or the relative.
Sending an email asking them is always good. If they aren't then no sweat! Now that you are sure, try to find out if this is a one off fling or something a bit more long-term.