Once you've broken the ice, you'll want to have a natural conversation with her. This can grow naturally out of your icebreaker comment. For example, if she says that she's a big fan of the Seahawks, you might talk about them winning the Super Bowl and where you both were when that happened. A compliment is also a good thing to drop into your conversation so she knows you're interested in her. This shouldn't be something grandiose like "You're the most beautiful girl I've ever seen" (it comes off as insincere). Instead say something like "Your outfit really matches your eyes. It's a great color" or "Those earrings are amazing. Did you make them yourself?" For the bookstore example, when you've asked where a particular book is, ask her if she's read it. If she hasn't say that it's one of your favorites and ask her what her favorite book is (or favorite genre, since choosing a favorite book can be difficult). If you've offered to buy her a drink at a bar and she's accepted, you could talk about some of the funniest things you've seen intoxicated people do. This will make her laugh and allow her to reciprocate with funny stories of her own. A woman will notice if you're spending the whole conversation staring at her breasts and not listening to a word she says. Likewise, she'll be very put off if you spend the entire time burbling on about yourself. When she speaks, listen to her and ask questions that show you're interested. Ask her opinion on a subject, even if it's something as basic as whether bluegrass is better than country music, or whether she thinks the education system is really screwed up. Don't fiddle with things, or check your phone, or start looking around the room while she's talking. She'll quickly notice your disinterest and respond with disinterest of her own. If you find your mind wandering while she's talking, or find that you aren't interested in what she has to say, tell her that it was nice to meet her and edge on out of the conversation. You want your conversation to get her interested and not be the same old boring "what's the weather like" routine. You will want to show her what makes you unique and why she would want to continue the conversation. If you're on your way back from something cool (like you were just at a concert) mention it. If you taught yourself Japanese, work that into the conversation (you can even throw in some humor by mentioning how difficult it was and some of the hilarious screw-ups you had). Find something in common. A good way to set up some mutual fascination is to find things in common to talk about (like those Seahawks). If it seems like there is a bond between you, she'll be more likely to want to see again and continue the conversation. If you're at a bookstore, find some mutual books you both enjoy; if you're at a concert, chat about different kinds of music. Even things like laughing over a late bus can set up commonality between you two. Tell her something interesting. Show her that you're the sort of person who is interested in the world. If something has happened lately in your city or town, discuss it. Humor can create a bond faster than anything else. Of course, you have to remember that not everyone has the same sense of humor. Fortunately, there are some types of humor and things you can say that have a good guarantee for making the woman laugh. Gently poke fun at yourself. This will show that you don't take yourself too seriously. However, you want to make sure you aren't belittling yourself. Tell her about the time you got on the wrong bus and ended up halfway across town or when you gave your friend a big hug, only for it to turn out not to be your friend. You can also mention something really funny that you saw. Maybe you noticed a really short person get tangled up when they were walking a bunch of dogs, or you happened to witness a whole troupe of clowns exiting a bar. Real events tend to be more funny than just saying funny things and can lead to a mutual conversation as she recalls funny things she's seen. Sometimes it doesn't matter how funny or charming or nice you are. Not every woman is going to want to have a conversation with you. Remember, no one owes you time or energy and if she seems uninterested in the conversation, back off nicely. If she's only answering in monosyllables, or she keeps checking her phone, or not making eye contact, she's probably looking for a way out of the conversation. If she's with people who are rolling their eyes at the things you say or are trying to ignore you, again it's time to end the conversation. Show that you are a class act. Don't sarcastically say "Well, I can tell you're not interested in taking to me," or "Sorry to bother you." Instead, say pleasantly "Well, it was nice talking to you. See you around."
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One-sentence summary -- Have a natural conversation. Listen to her. Fascinate her. Demonstrate your sense of humor. Know when to back off.

One of the best ways to inspire students is by giving them good role models. You can start by being a role model yourself. Take care to lead and teach by example. Demonstrate good habits. Show up on time and prepared. Show enthusiasm. Get excited about the subject you teach, whatever it is. You might say, "Today we're going to perform an amazing chemistry experiment. I can't wait for you to see the results!" You can use other people to inspire your class and help them connect with the course material. Try to bring potential role models into your classroom for your students to meet. For example, if you are teaching the history of the Civil Rights movement, try to find someone local with an interesting story to tell. Maybe you could find someone who participated in the Freedom Rides to visit your class. Invite guest speakers. Consider having a local reporter from the local tv station come talk to your class. Give the students a chance to ask questions. Students can also be good role models for one another. Give students a chance to interact with each other. They might be able to inspire each other. Have your class give presentations. Each student could tell the class about their science project. The students will likely be exposed to some interesting new ideas.
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Set a good example. Introduce new role models. Involve peer models.