If you've tried communicating and compromising and there's simply no way that your parents will ever be able to embrace your fiance, you need to stand firm. Be clear that their disapproval will not change how you feel about your partner or your plans for a life together. Say something like, "Mom, Dad, this is my decision to make and your disapproval will not change it. I'm sorry you can't accept the person I love, but I love you too and always will." When you dreamed of your wedding day, it probably didn't include your parents sitting there stone-faced in disapproval or worse, not there at all. Don't ignore reality and expect everyone to embrace happily on the big day. Instead, make adjustments to your wedding plans to limit unnecessary interactions or even to account for your parents' absence. If, for instance, you're having a civil ceremony because your fiance doesn't share your religious background, and this upsets your traditionalist parents, don't try to force them to come. Tell them something like, "Remember, the ceremony is at 2 o'clock at the courthouse. I'll make sure there are seats for both of you if you decide to come. And I really hope you do." Once you're married, you'll have to continue to navigate the difficult relationship between your spouse and your parents. As before, honesty, open communication, and practical adjustments are key. Clear the air when necessary, seek out compromises, and be reasonable about limiting interactions when needed. For instance, go to family gatherings alone sometimes, or be clear beforehand that the two of you can only stay a set amount of time. You should also plan an exit strategy ahead of time in case things go sour quickly.
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One-sentence summary -- State your position clearly. Adjust your wedding plans as needed. Create a plan for managing family interactions.

The simplest way to keep your room cool while you sleep is to use your air conditioner if you have one. Central air or a portable window unit will both do the trick. The ideal sleeping temperature for most people is between 60 and 70 F (16 and 21 C). If you have a programmable thermostat, don't forget to set it so that it automatically adjusts to a warmer temperature just before you wake up in the morning. If you don't have air conditioning, a fan is the next best option. You can use a fan to increase circulation, create a cross breeze, and pull hot air away from you. If you have a ceiling fan, set it so that the blades are turning counter-clockwise. This should help pull the hot air up towards the ceiling and away from your bed. If it's cooler outside than it is in your room, try putting a box fan in an open window facing outside. Multiple fans can be used to create a nice cross breeze in your room, especially if you have two windows on opposite walls. You can also try creating an old school air conditioner by placing a large block of ice or pile of ice cubes in front of a fan. Just make sure to use a large enough bowl or pan so that the water has somewhere to go when the ice melts! On really hot days, keep your bedroom cool by keeping your blinds closed all day. You will have to deal with a dark room, but it will be much cooler when it's time for bed. Thermal blinds or shades might be a good investment if the sun makes your room unbearably hot in the summer. They will also help prevent drafts in the winter. If you own your home, you might want to consider planting trees near your bedroom windows to give yourself some shade. Heat rises, which means that the second floor of your home will typically be warmer than the first floor. If you live in a two story house and you can't get your second-floor bedroom cool enough on hot nights, consider setting up a temporary sleeping area on the main level.
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One-sentence summary -- Use air conditioning. Use fans. Keep the sun out. Sleep downstairs.

Purchase a shampoo and conditioner formulated for color-treated hair to help the color from fading so quickly. Try to go a few days between shampoos, since your hair color will fade slightly with every wash. Use cold water when shampooing, which is easier on color-treated hair. Try out dry shampoo, which can help you prolong the time between washings. These products, which you can pick up at beauty supply stores, can help you keep your newly-dyed locks looking vibrant. Pick up one or two brands and give them a try. There are easy-to-apply semi-permanent dye products you can look into to help preserve your color, as well. Bleaching and dyeing chemicals can be tough on hair. You may experience damage and breakage after going through the process. This is normal! To combat this, deep-condition at least once per week to restore much needed nutrients and moisture. Apply a rich and moisturizing hair mask every couple of weeks, as well. Heat styling tools can fade your hair color. Whenever possible, forego the blow dryer and let your hair air-dry. Use flat irons and curling irons as minimally as possible. When you do use them, apply a protective heat serum to your hair before proceeding. Use the lowest heat setting your styling tools will allow.
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One-sentence summary -- Keep shampooing to a minimum. Try a color-refreshing shampoo product. Deep-condition your hair weekly. Avoid heat styling as much as possible.

Most sunscreens on the market are chemical, which means that chemicals in their formula actually prevent sun from hitting the skin by absorbing the rays. Physical sunblock, however, works by creating a physical barrier between the skin and the sun. Because the makeup won't allow your skin to absorb chemical sunscreen, it won't be effective protection. Physical sunscreen can still work over your makeup to deflect the sun's rays. Physical sunblocks come in powders, creams, and sprays, so choose whichever will be easiest for you to apply. Because your makeup is already applied, a spray sunblock will be your best bet to avoid ruining it. To apply it properly, close your eyes and hold your breath. Press down on the nozzle, and apply it by spraying back and forth over your entire face. Spray more than you think you need, because spray sunscreen don't cover quite as well as creams and lotions. Don't touch your face at all while the spray dries. If you touch it, you risk rubbing it off in spots and compromising the sun protection. Another spray option is a makeup setting spray with SPF. Like the spray sunscreen, this shouldn't be used as your only form of sun protection, but it's great for touch-ups and to help keep your makeup in place throughout the day. Not only do makeup setting sprays with SPF protect your skin from the sun, they can actually mattify and moisturize your skin at the same time.
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Apply a physical sunblock over makeup. Use a spray sunscreen.