Q: Go together to pick out a set of rings that the two of you can agree on. Buying a wedding ring is a big, expensive decision, and it's one that the two of you should make together. This way you can confer about what you like and don't like, keep each other's expectations in check and even come to an agreement on a set of matching rings. Whatever the case, make sure you're both present and have equal say in the matter. Your wedding ring is one of the only pieces of jewelry that you'll wear for years to comeperhaps even the rest of your lifeso it only makes sense to bring your partner along to pick it out. Schedule a day when you and your partner can devote several hours to visiting jewelry stores and looking at rings together. To choose a wedding ring that's right for you and your partner, you should consider the many different kinds of metals used to make rings. Gold and platinum are time-honored favorites, but a host of other materials are available to you in addition to these options: silver is another popular rare metal and is sometimes mixed with gold and other metals to create unique amalgamations of color and shine. Aside from the traditional metals, you also have benefits of modern metals like cobalt, tungsten, and titanium, which are renowned for their durability, vibrancy, and ease of cleaning. It's important to communicate with your partner to achieve the right look and construction of your wedding rings. In addition to being harder and more durable, you may also be able to save money by opting for some of the more modern material choices. Your ring doesn't have to be metal at alltake cues from other cultural traditions and look at rings fashioned from precious stones like jade, or even bohemian alternatives like wood or bone. If you happen to be on the hunt for a one-of-a-kind wedding ring or you're buying the ring as a surprise, go armed with an awareness of your significant other's affinities. Do they have a favorite metal that they tend to accessorize in? Are they partial to any particular colors, inlays or band styles? Study your partner's jewelry collection or bring it up casually in conversation beforehand to be able to tailor your search for something that you know they'll love. It is a major plus if the ring you buy is consistent with the other jewelry and accessories your partner typically wears. Aim to find a pair of rings that suits you and your partner's specific needs. One of the most important truths to keep in mind is that there's no such thing as a perfect ring, only a perfect ring for you. With this in mind, you should stay focused on you and your partner's preferences, uniqueness and buying power and stop convincing yourself that there exists a "best" ring out there. If it meets the criteria you've set, symbolizes your devotion to one another and makes you smile when you look at it, it's perfect. There is an almost limitless variety of metals, moldings, sizes, and styles available, and you'll never be able to look at all of them. Instead, keep a clear image in mind of what best represents you and your partner.
A: Go shopping with your partner. Educate yourself on ring materials. Complement your partner's style preferences. Pick out the perfect ring for you.

Q: If you're clingy, you might want to get everything about your feelings or your life off your chest right away because you fear that the person you feel very clingy toward might abandon you at any moment. For instance, you might tell someone on a second or third date that you love them and want to marry them. You might also reveal extremely intimate details about your past, rather than about your feelings. For instance, you might share with a coworker you just met that your mother died when you were six. These kind of personal details are usually not appropriate for someone you are not very familiar with. Before revealing personal feelings or details, think about how you would respond to a given comment if you heard it from the person you are talking to. If you think it might be odd, do not share too much. Clingy people will want to make the "right" decision that is, the decision which they believe will please and win the affections of the person they are clinging to. If you find yourself waiting to decide something as important as where to go to university or as mundane as what to eat for lunch before consulting the friend or partner you're clinging to, you are being too clingy. Clingy people attach themselves strongly to one person and are afraid of losing them. Interrogate your feelings about the person you suspect you may be too clingy with. Do you think about them excessively while they are not around? Do you count the minutes until you can see them again? Do you try to forestall their leaving so that you can have them all to yourself? These are signs that you have separation anxiety, the fear inspired by the idea that someone will leave you. If you are constantly texting, calling, or visiting a certain person, you are probably too clingy and fear separation.
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Recognize when you reveal too much too soon. Identify an inability to make decisions. Search your feelings for fear of separation from someone.