What most naturally follows?

How to stop arguing with your boyfriend
Decide what you most commonly fight over.
These may be minor things, like cleanliness, or major issues, like jealousy, infidelity, or commitment.
Be aware, though, that arguments are often about something below the surface, such as resentment and disappointment.
The things we argue about can be simply an excuse to vent our deeper frustrations. Identify other factors that may contribute to your fights.