i ' m a nice person so i tried to be civil with you , but that was apparently too subtle so i ' ve had to resort to being a total jerk to get you to back off and even that does n't work ! just stop messaging me , stop telling people we dated , and STOP trying to act like such a helpless pathetic victim who did n't do anything to deserve this . JUST STOP6 .

Question: Why is the narrator being more aggressive with their verbiage ?
They are rebuffing an earlier soft attempt .