Problem: Article: Alright, so clothes don't make the man, but they can help put you in the right mindset. Though this by no means changes your personality, it may help serve as a reminder to you of the person you are trying to become. This can be as small as wearing a hat. If there is something that, to you, is indicative of this new person, keep it on your radar. You'll be more likely to stay in tune with yourself to reduce cognitive dissonance. The clothes and thought patterns may not be enough. Think about what this new person would do and do it. Would they seek out social interaction? Shun social media? Read The Economist? Whatever it is, do it. You don't have to stay big -- the small things work too. Would she carry around a pink purse? Would he listen to a specific band? Get into character as much as possible. Now that you're picking up these new habits and probably these new friends and routines, you may feel a little jostled. What's important now is to embrace yourself, whatever and wherever you are. Sink your nails in and decide that you're staying. Uprooting yourself psychologically is risky. If you've succeeded, you may need time to feel like you're truly "you." Relax. This feeling will come as long as you keep this desire close to your well-being. Did you really achieve what you wanted to achieve? Do other people think more positively about you now that you act and wear different? Are you willing to sacrifice yourself for a fake imitation of the ideal person? Some people will decide that what they need is not a personality change, but an acceptance of who they are and a willingness to try to improve themselves instead of a full personality makeover but its up to you to make that personal choice. Make sure you are doing this for all the right reasons.
Summary: Don the clothes. Pick up the habits. Settle in. Reflect on your new personality.

Problem: Article: It's important to buy a car seat that feats neatly into the back of the car. If the seat is too big you will not be able to secure it properly, which is unsafe for the child. Measure the available space in the back of your car to figure out the maximum possible car seat size. If possible, test out the car seat before buying to ensure that it fits comfortably into the back of the car. Most stores will be happy to let you do this. Also consider how the size of the seat will affect any other passengers. If you need to fit two more children into the back of the car, you will not want a car seat that takes up too much space and makes them uncomfortable. Shop around before buying a car seat to ensure that you find the right one for your needs, at the best possible price. Go to a number of stores to compare car seat styles and prices. Figure out if you're eligible for any discounts or if you have any coupons that you could use at a particular store. Shopping online is another option, but it's usually best to see the car seat in person and test to make sure that it fits into your car before you buy. If you do decide to buy online, make sure you check out customer ratings and reviews before you order. Another good option is to find the car seat that you like in a store (where you can test it out) then see if you can find the exact same car seat online, at a cheaper price. When buying an infant car seat, look for one that will be easy to carry. This is important, as you will spend the next few months carrying your baby in and out of your house, into stores and to visit family and friends. To test out the seat, place something heavy (like a stack of books) into the seat and try carrying it around the store for a few minutes. This will give you a good indication of whether it's comfortable and easy to carry. What type of material the car seat is made from is another important consideration. Ideally, you should choose something natural and breathable, like cotton. This will prevent the child from getting too hot and sweaty in their seat. Additionally, you should choose a material that is smooth and easy to clean. Anything that has grooves or rough weaving (like corduroy) will trap dirt and be more difficult to clean. It's a good idea to place your baby or child in the seat before buying to make sure they are secure and comfortable in it. There are several things you should look for: The baby/child should not be bent or hunched over when the straps/belts have been secured. The baby/child should be able to move their arms and legs, but in a limited fashion. The baby/child should be sitting upright, rather than tilted to one side.
Summary: Measure your car so you can buy an appropriately sized seat. Shop around to find a good deal. Look for a seat that is easy to carry. Consider what type of material is covering the seat. Test out the seat before buying to make sure your baby/child is comfortable.

Problem: Article: You may set out to people watch just to pass the time. Or, you may be looking to observe certain behaviors and mannerisms for a specific purpose. If you are looking to get information from people watching, set those goals beforehand so you know what to do as you watch. People watching is a great way to get fashion ideas and character designs for books, movies, and plays. People watching with another person is always more enjoyable. Grab a friend to sit and chat with you as you observe people. Don't laugh at or make fun of people as you watch them with your friend. This can make people feel bad or uncomfortable. Avoid bringing a large group to people watch. This will only call attention to you, and your group of friends might get bored. You want to blend in with your surroundings. Avoid flashy shirts and lots of bling. Instead, opt for neutral colors and weather-appropriate clothes to become a person in the crowd rather than standing out as an observer. Avoid wearing large hats or glasses. If you're people watching with a purpose, like character inspiration or costume design, you might be struck with a great idea while you are out. Take a notebook and a pencil with you when you people watch to write down any great observations or insights that you notice as you observe people. Be subtle as you write things down. Don't stare right at someone and take notes on them. Instead, steal quick glances as you observe them from afar. Someone simply sitting and staring can be a little disconcerting to people walking by. If you don't have a notebook, bring your phone or your laptop to look distracted as you sit and people watch. Act like you are typing a report or texting a friend instead of simply sitting and watching. You can also bring a book or magazine to act like you are reading. Plug headphones into your phone or laptop to look even more inconspicuous. The most interesting part of people watching is making guesses about other people's lives. To get the most out of your people watching experience, observe how people walk, talk, and interact with others to take guesses as to who they are and why they are here. People's clothes also say a lot about them. Layers indicate they are prepared for the weather, while showing skin can mean confidence. Everyone has bad days sometimes. As you people watch, you may see some people who express behaviors you don't quite agree with. Try to be an unbiased observer and simply take in what you see without making judgement calls on it. People may act differently when they don't know they are being observed. Body language can say a lot about a person's mood. Crossed arms can mean anger, hunched posture can mean sadness, and relaxed shoulders can indicate happiness. Pay attention to how people stand or sit and make guesses as to how they are feeling. Facial expressions are also a good indicator of mood. Scowling or scrunched faces indicate anger while raised eyebrows often indicate contentedness or relaxation. Note if they have an accent, a high or low speaking voice, if they seem excited or frustrated, or if they are overly quiet. Make guesses as to how they are feeling based on how they sound and if they are enjoying their conversations. It can also be fun to overhear snippets of people's conversations without context.
Summary:
Set goals for your people watching if you want to learn something. Bring a friend with you to have more fun. Wear an outfit that won't make you stand out. Bring a notebook to write down interesting moments or people. Act like you are doing something on a phone or laptop. Think about each person that passes and who they might be. Avoid passing judgement on anyone. Observe people's body language to pick up on their emotions. Listen to people's voices as they talk to learn more about them.