If you generally say yes to most requests, you may lose touch with how you actually feel about having someone in your house. If someone shows up at your door and says, "Can I come in?" or, "Can I stay over?" take a moment and tune into your body. If you're genuinely happy to see them, let them in. However, if you don't want to get up to open the door, your first reaction is a groan, or you feel knots in your stomach after they ask, it's clear that the person is not welcome. If you get a "no" answer from your body, tell your friend, "This isn't a good time. I'm sorry." Sometimes it can be helpful to talk through how you are feeling with your partner or a trusted friend to get to the bottom of how you really feel. There may be some situations that excite you and some that deplete you depending on whether you are an introvert or extrovert. Introverts prefer to spend most of their time alone, while extroverts prefer to spend most of their time with other people. If you are not sure which type you are, then you can take the Myers & Briggs test to find out. For example, you may feel excited when an old friend shows up unannounced, yet feel depleted after they stay for more than a few hours. Are there situations that feel good and others that feel bad? Are there certain people you can tolerate and others you cannot? Begin to notice what situations energize you and which ones drain you. This can help you to become clearer on what limits you can set and how you might enforce them. For example, you might like the person who drops in, but hate that they come to unload all of their negativity onto you. If you're constantly bending your own needs to accommodate others, you may lose sleep, feel angry or upset, lose money, or overextend yourself. If you know that having someone over will drain you or affect you negatively, say something. You can say, "I'm really stressed and I need some alone time right now" or, "I'm working on a project and I need to concentrate by myself." If you notoriously neglect your own needs, get into a routine of taking some time for relaxation. Join a yoga class, talk a daily walk, or meditate on a regular basis. This can help you deal with stress and not let things compound over time. If you are an introverted personality type, then it is especially important to regularly schedule in time for isolation and quiet. This will help keep you charged for social interaction. You might say yes to everything to avoid making others upset, yet this can lead you to feel unhappy or taken advantage of. If you fear someone's disappointment, remember that a lack of boundaries can lead to long-term resentment or bitterness over time. If something makes you unhappy or resentful, that's not fair to you. It's okay to say no, even if the other person doesn't like it. If someone becomes upset, say, "I understand this isn't what you expected, but I'm afraid I can't help you this time. I'm sorry you're disappointed."
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One-sentence summary -- Check with your body. Notice what energizes and drains you. Prioritize your needs. Tolerate others' reactions.

You should see your files listed inside the folder. It may say "Action" underneath the gear icon. .." " Click on it to attempt playing it, or eject it and play in a DVD player.
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One-sentence summary -- Double click on your new folder. Click on the gear icon at the top of your folder dialog box. Select "Burn Folder Name to Disc. Insert a blank writable DVD into your disc drive. Wait for the disc to start burning automatically or click "Burn. Allow the Mac to burn and finalize the DVD before trying to access it.

Avoid wrapping the lights around your tree as if it were a maypole. Start from the top and mentally divide your tree into three triangular sections until you get to the bottom of your tree's cone. Weave lights through each triangular section until you reach the bottom of the cone of your tree. Avoid connecting more than 300 lights to one another as they may burn out. Any dark holes need to be filled. Rearrange your lights to fill in any gaps or until you're satisfied. Remove the roller from a painters pole and use the metal bracket to string lights on trees that are 10 feet or taller without having to use a ladder. Work your way to the bottom and use another extension cord if needed. Plug any additional extension cords to your main power strip. Wrap your plugs with electrical tape to help keep them together as well as protect them from water. Use blue, white, or green lamps. Using yellow, red, amber, or pink can make your tree look a muddy brown. A strong wind can easily dislodge your lights if you use hooks to hang them up. Use plastic gutter clips that you can purchase from your hardware store. You may also find them in your arts and craft store. Test any outdoors sockets to be sure that they are functioning properly before plugging in any lights. Keep cords organized and neat away from any walkways where they can be tripping hazards.
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One-sentence summary --
Divide your tree or trees into sections. Repeat the weaving. Look for dead spots. Use a painter's pole to string lights without a ladder. Use floodlights to show off evergreens. Avoid hooks. Be sure there is a working outlet outdoors.