Pushing yourself to prematurely " forgive " the assailant may force you to bury your appropriate feelings of anger and rage . " I do hate what he did . I did like him before .

Choices:
[i] None of the above choices ..
[ii] They think you still hate them ..
[iii] They think you need to acknowledge your feelings first ..
[iv] They think you have no right to forgive ..
Answer the following question: Why is the narrator suggesting holding off forgiveness ?
[iii]