Reflexology should be explained clearly to children before any treatment begins. Tell them that this process involves someone gently pressing different spots on their feet or hands. Assert that it won't hurt them and that it's supposed to make them feel happier and healthier. Give examples of how some people believe reflexology has helped them feel better. Children may respond better to a visual demonstration of reflexology than to a verbal explanation. Place a teddy bear or doll on a chair with its feet elevated to show how gentle pressure is applied to the feet as well as the hands. Have the child try doing this as well. Emphasize that this makes the doll or stuffed animal feel better and doesn't cause it any pain. Gain the trust of the child by repeating the motions you demonstrated on the bear on yourself. Apply gentle pressure to different points on your hands and feet, if possible. Seeing this therapy right in front of them may ease some concerns and uncertainty about it. Ask the child if they want to try applying pressure on your hand or foot. This will make the process seem more cooperative than authoritative. It is completely natural for anyone who is doing reflexology for the first time to have questions about it. Ask the child if they want to ask you anything and listen patiently while they inquire. Answer each question thoughtfully and in a way they can understand. Dismissing or ignoring questions could make the child feel uneasy about the process.
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One-sentence summary -- Explain what reflexology is in simple terms. Demonstrate reflexology on a doll or stuffed animal. Demonstrate reflexology on yourself to show that it is harmless and simple. Take time to answer any questions they have about reflexology.

People who are always available leave little room for mystery or deception. Instead of waiting by the phone to engage in conversation, let her think you are busy. If she is excited to text you in the morning with a flirty greeting, do not send one back until hours later. This will leave her wondering where you are and who you might be with. The same goes for a phone call. If she calls you, do not answer it. Call her back hours later, or maybe even the next day. Your unavailability will leave her guessing. When it is just the two of you hanging out, let the sparks fly. Show her that that you two have great chemistry, and something special may come out of this relationship. Then, we you two come around other people, show some flirtatious attention to other girls. This will surely mess with her mind. Engage in fun conversations with other girls by telling jokes and making them laugh. Maybe you two have been spending a lot of great time together, and things seem to be heating up. Throw her off course by not speaking to her for a few days. If she calls or texts you, asking you to meet up or just chat, simply send her a text that explains you are busy. Be vague, and tell her that you will call her in a few days when you get a chance. If your significant other somehow lets you down, or disappoints you, tell her that everything is fine and you understand, but then act upset. This will surely play games with their mind If your significant other cancels plans with you, say, "Don't worry about it, I totally understand. We can reschedule for another time." Then, when you two speak or hangout next, act very reserved, limit your laughter and smiles, and seem on the sad side. When she asks you if something is wrong, say, "No, everything is fine."
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One-sentence summary -- Don't respond immediately to texts and phone calls. Be flirtatious around other people. Disappear for a few days. Say you're fine when you're not.

Once a flower on this plant loses its colorful lustre and the petals begin to dry and wilt, the flower will quickly shrivel up and die. At this point, you can use pruning shears to cut off the spent flower and its stem (called "deadheading"). Trace down the spent flower's stem until you reach the next lateral stem with a blooming flower or bud on it. Cut the dead flower's stem just above this joint. The best time of year for deadheading will vary based on the coneflower blooming season where you live. That said, you should plan to start deadheading about 2 weeks after the first blooms appear, and continue throughout the blooming season. Once a flower fades, the coneflower plant expends energy producing seeds that will eventually fall from the spent flower and sprout new coneflowers in the same area. Deadheading reduces the energy spent on seed production, which may result in more blooms that are longer-lasting and more vibrant. Deadheading also greatly reduces the number of seeds that fall to the ground, which can help you keep your coneflowers from claiming more garden territory. Many gardeners also believe that deadheading simply makes the plant look prettier as well. If you want the coneflower section of your garden to spread naturally, skip deadheading and let the seeds fall where they may. Each year, the area covered by coneflowers will grow a bit larger. In fact, after 3-4 years, you may be ready to divide up your intertwined coneflower plants and replant some of them elsewhere. Finches and many other types of birds love coneflower seeds, so don't deadhead if you want lots of feathered friends to visit your garden!
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Cut fading flowers and their stems down to the next lateral flower or bud. Deadhead to encourage more blooms or to limit self-seeding. Don't deadhead if you want to encourage more coneflowers or invite birds.