INPUT ARTICLE: Article: If someone asks or tells you to do something, you have the choice to say yes, no, or maybe. You don't have to say yes, even if you feel like you do. When someone asks you something, take a moment and remember that how you respond is your choice. For example, if someone asks you to stay late on a project, tell yourself, "I have the choice to say yes and stay or to go home and say no." " If you tend to always say "yes" to things even when you don't want to or when situations cause you stress, start saying "no." It might take some practice, but let people know when you can't do what they want. There's no need to make excuses or talk your way out of it. A simple "no" or "no thank you" will do. Start small by finding something small to say "no" to and say it firmly. For example, if your partner asks you to walk the dog yet you are exhausted, say, "No. I'd like you to walk the dog tonight, please." You can also do some role play with a friend to get used to saying "no." Have your friend ask you to do things, and then respond "no" to each of their requests. Make sure to pay attention to how you feel each time you say "no." If a flat "no" seems harsh to you, be assertive while also being empathetic. Show your understanding for the person and their needs, yet also be firm in saying that you cannot help them. For example, say, "I know how much you want a nice birthday cake for the party and how much that means to you. I'd love to provide one, but I'm unable to do that at the moment."

SUMMARY: Recognize that you have choices. Learn how to say "no. Be assertive and empathetic.

INPUT ARTICLE: Article: This is a great excuse to text someone that you don't know that well. The advice could be about anything: what class to take, where's the best ice cream place in town, what book you should read. Incorporate a compliment to be more flirty. Text her: "I don't know which classes to pick for next semester and you're the smartest girl around. Advice?" Or, "You sang so beautifully at the choir concert yesterday! Any song recs? I need more music." Make it a joke by pretending it's urgent. "I need help with an urgent question: what's the best ice cream in town?" Even if you don't know the girl, it's generally safe to assume that she likes listening to music, watching TV, or reading books. You can tell her you just finished a TV show, or are looking for new tunes. Text something like, "I just finished "Derry Girls." So good! Any new show recs to fill this hole in my heart?" This is really sweet and proves that she's been on your mind, even if you don't know her too well. If you've got a crush on a cute girl in your class, this is a good way to send her a first message out of the blue. Text something like, "Was just listening to the Les Mis soundtrack and I remembered how awesome you were in the spring musical. What's up?" Mention something that you have in common. For example, "Just ran into Mr. Trevor at the grocery store. Lol so awkward. Don't know how I would survive that class without your funny comments." If you've just got the number of a cute girl in your class, or you're messaging her on social media, asking her to study is the perfect excuse to get together. If you want to make it a bit more flirty, use the word "date." Text, "Can't believe how much homework Mr. L gave us Homework date this weekend?" Or make her the hero by texting, "I am dying here trying to study for the bio test. Save me?" When you're sending the first message to a girl you just matched with on a dating app, don't just say, "Hey," or tell the girl that she looks pretty. Prove that you've taken the time to read her bio by mentioning something in it. For example, if her bio says she likes to watch Friends, you could say, "So are you more of a Rachel, a Phoebe, or a Monica?" If it says she likes reading, ask her what's her favorite book she's read recently. If she doesn't have anything specific in her bio, ask her a question on one of her photos. For example, "That view looks gorgeous! Where is it?" Remember, the point of a dating app is not to talk forever virtually, but to set up a time to meet in person. So after you've established a bit of friendly banter, go ahead and ask her out. You won't really know if you two get along until you meet in person. Be direct and clear, and suggest a plan. Say something like, "Can I take you out to coffee this week? There's a new cafe on Teresa Street with killer pastries." Or say, "Would love to continue this chat in person. How about drinks at Benni's on Friday?" If she's not free the time you suggest, ask her when she is free.

SUMMARY: Text the girl for advice if you have her number. Ask the girl for a recommendation to get the conversation started. Send her a "thought of you" text to show your sweet side. Ask a girl in your class on a study date as an excuse to hang out. Reference a girl's bio when messaging her on a dating app. Ask her out on a date after a bit of banter on a dating app.

INPUT ARTICLE: Article: Each shutter frame should come in four pieces. To put them together, use the plastic connectors which should have come with the shutters and gently tap the connector into the coinciding slit in the frame pieces using a rubber mallet. Make sure your frame is even - the left and right sides should be connected to the top and bottom sides. Pieces should most likely be labeled, making this easy. Tap the sides into each connector piece until they are flush against each other. If you're installing your shutters to the interior of your window frame, make sure the window is square and that there aren't any latches, handles, or other things that would get in the way. If you're installing your shutters to the exterior of your window, you'll be attaching the frame directly to the wall. Whether you choose an interior mount or exterior mount will change your necessary measurements, so check your plantation shutter instruction manual to make sure you're doing the right one. An exterior installation works better for bay windows as it provides more mobility. Pick up the frame and place it in your window. If it fits nicely, attach the frame to the window by inserting two screws at the top of the frame using a drill. If your frame has predrilled holes, you can insert the screws into those, but make sure you only attach the top ones. The bottom of the frame should still be able to move freely. It's helpful to have a second person hold the frame to the window while you insert the screws, or vice versa. If your frame isn't fitting, it either means the frame wasn't put together properly or your initial measurements are wrong. Make sure the frame pieces are connected and even. If you think you might have sent in the wrong measurements, call the shutter company and ask for advice. Use a level to check that each side of your shutter frame is even. For an easy installation of the shutter panels, you want to make sure your frame is level before moving on.

SUMMARY:
Put the frame together. Know whether you're installing an interior or exterior mount. Attach the top of the shutter frame to the window using screws. Use a level to make sure the frame sections are even.