Problem: Article: Chatroulette is a video-based chat service, so you won't be able to get much use out of it without the right gear and accessories. Make sure that your computer has a working webcam, that the latest version of Flash is installed on your computer, and that your speakers are working. If you'd like to talk, make sure your microphone is working, as well. This isn't essential, as text chat is also possible. At first, Chatroulette allowed absolutely anyone at all to use the site anonymously. However, to curtail malicious misuse, Chatroulette now requires users to sign up with a free account before using the site's features. Making an account requires choosing a username and specifying an email address and password for the account to be associated with. To make an account, visit www.chatroulette.com (don't worry, you won't be exposed to anything graphic yet). Click the "Start" button in the top left of the window and you'll receive a pop-up prompting you to create an account. On the main Chatroulette screen, you should see two black squares on the left side of the screen. When you use Chatroulette, the bottom square will display your webcam feed, while the top square will display your partner's. Click the "Preview your webcam" button on the bottom square to activate your computer's webcam. If it is functioning correctly, you should see whatever is in front of its lens. Usually, this is your own gorgeous face! When you preview your webcam you may receive a pop-up prompt asking for your permission to activate the webcam. In this case, simply click "Ok" or "Accept" or the equivalent option to turn your webcam on. When you've created an account and gotten your camera working, you're ready to spin the Chatroulette wheel! If you're not already there, visit www.chatroulette.com. When your mind is prepared and your nerves are steeled, click the "Start" button in the top left. Your mic and camera should activate and you'll enter into a chat session with a random user from anywhere in the world. Have fun! After you click the "Start" button, the text on the button will change to "Next". This button now allows you to instantly end video chat with the current user and switch to another random user. If you're sheepish, you may want to keep your mouse hovering over this button so that you can quickly skip over any offensive content. Additionally, the "Stop" button in the upper left will immediately cut your video feed without reconnecting you to another user. As you can imagine, this button is useful when you'd like to stop the feed entirely. Finally, if you come across offensive or exploitative content, click "Report and next". If a certain user is reported often enough within a certain amount of time, s/he will be temporarily blocked.
Summary: Get the right equipment. Set up an account. Test out your webcam. Start chatting! Be ready to skip to the next user or stop the feed entirely.

Problem: Article: You're probably really nervous about talking to your girlfriend, but it's the only way to know for sure if she's cheating. Explain that you care about your relationship and are worried that something is wrong. Then, say that you think she might be cheating and why you suspect that. You might say, "I really love you and want to have a future together. Lately, I've been worried that our relationship might be changing. I've noticed that you aren't as affectionate, disappear for hours at a time, and are spending more time on your appearance. These behaviors have me worried that you're cheating." She'll likely get upset when you bring up the topic of cheating, whether she is or isn't. Reassure her that you're trying to help your relationship and deserve the truth. Then, give her a chance to explain what's going on. You could say, "I see that you're upset, and that's not my intention. I want to make things better for us, but I need to know the truth." to her side of the story. There may be a perfectly valid reason for her behavior, so give her a chance to explain. Don't interrupt her while she's talking and encourage her to say all she needs to say. Additionally, paraphrase what she said so she knows you were listening. Say, "It sounds like you've been questioning our relationship," or "It sounds like you've just had more things on your plate than I realized." It's really hard to tell when someone is lying, but there are a few signs you can look for. First, consider how she normally acts in a conversation with you. Then, look for differences in the way she's talking to you when you ask her about cheating. Here are some indications that she might be telling a lie: Her body language suddenly changes when you ask her about cheating. She starts squirming, fidgeting, or pulling away. Her sentence structure changes to longer, more confusing sentences. She breaks eye contact. Her facial expression changes. She blushes, bites her lip, flares her nostrils, or sweats. She talks either faster or slower and her tone changes. Whether or not she admits to cheating, you need to figure out if this relationship is what's best for you. You deserve to feel secure in your relationship, so think about whether or not you feel like you can trust her. Then, decide if you want to work on the relationship or end it. If she admits to cheating, ask yourself if that's something you can get over. If it's not, it might be best to move on. Consider asking your girlfriend to work on things with you. If she shows an interest in saving your relationship, it might be worth trying to make things work.
Summary:
Tell your girlfriend about your suspicions. Expect her to get upset when you confront her about cheating. Listen Check for signs that she may be lying to you. Decide whether or not you're willing to continue the relationship.