In one sentence, describe what the following article is about: One of the ways you may be enabling your alcoholic loved one is by drinking with them. You might rationalize that if you are there you can stop them from going overboard, but what you are doing is actually condoning the behavior. If you are able to consume alcohol responsibly, do so away from the alcoholic. If they are around, suggest healthier alternatives for dealing with stress, such as exercise or a comedy film. Giving an alcoholic money reinforces their addiction. Even if the cash isn't intended to buy alcohol, you are still enabling their alcoholism by financing them. If they had to face the financial consequences of their drinking, they'd be forced to get help. The next time the alcoholic asks you for money, say something like, "Heather, whenever I give you money, you use it for alcohol. I won't do it anymore." Don't apologize or come up with a handy excusejust refuse. You may have fallen into the habit of lying and making excuses for the alcoholic. Maybe you call in to their workplace and say they're sick. Or, maybe you lie and say you helped them finish the bottle of vodka when they really did it alone. Don't use your words to get the alcoholic out of trouble or keep the addiction hidden. Doing so simply gives them permission to continue. It is important for them to face the consequences of their actions and deal with them on their own. All in all, your enabling prevents the alcoholic from facing the consequences of their addiction. By letting these consequences play out, you offer your loved one the best chance of recovering. The idea of letting your loved one "hit rock bottom" may be frightening, but many experts in the addiction community find that when a person doesn't experience a rock bottom, they aren't motivated to change. You can still assure their relative safety by taking measures to prevent them from hurting themselves or someone else. For example, you might take their keys if they are attempting to drink and drive. They'll be forced to catch a ride or hail a cab, but they won't be able to hurt anyone.
Summary: Don't consume alcohol with the person. Don't give the person money. Stop lying and making excuses for the person. Let some of the natural consequences take place.

Wax splatters are difficult to clean, and even if you manage to scrape them off, there may still be some residue. Make cleaning easier later on by covering your counter with some newspaper. You can also use other protective coverings, such as plastic bags, paper bags, or plastic tablecloths. Tin cans, old tea tins, and mason jars are all great choices here. Make sure that whatever container you choose can withstand heat. Even though the flame won't be directly touching the material, it will still get hot. Wash the container with warm, soapy water, even if it looks clean. Old candle jars are another great option. Be sure to remove all of the old wax first, however. If you are using a mason jar, choose one that has a wide mouth; it will be easier to work with than the kind with the standard, narrow mouth. This will help you figure out how much essential oil to use. Keep in mind that different types of waxes may require different ratios of wax to essential oil, so double-check the instructions that came with your wax. Use a candle-making or candy-making thermometer to gauge the temperature. Double-check the instructions that came with your wax to find out exactly what temperature it should be heated to, as different kinds of wax have different melting points. Microwave: put the wax into a glass measuring cup, then heat it at 30-second intervals, stirring between each interval, until melts. Stove: Fill a pot with a 2 inches (5.1cm) of water, then set a metal pitcher into it. Add the wax to the pitcher, and bring the water to a boil. Stir the wax often as it melts. There are 2 ways that you can do this. The professional way would be to add some pieces of candle-making dye. It comes in little bricks, which you can get at a craft store or online. Continue heating the wax until the dye melts and blends in completely. Alternatively, you can add in some crayon shavings instead.
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One-sentence summary -- Cover your work surface with newspaper. Choose a glass or metal container for your candle. Weigh your wax using a kitchen scale. Melt the wax and heat it to about 180F (82C). Add color to the wax, if desired.

Problem: Article: Motion sickness happens because there is a disconnect between what the inner ear is sensing and what the eyes are seeing. It's also caused by the nerves in the limbs. Therefore, a child looking outside the car or plane will perceive movement, so they are less likely to get motion sick. Looking out the front window is best. Watching something in the car, such as a movie, or reading a book can make motion sickness worse. It increases the disconnect between the outside movement and your child's body not recognizing movement. Therefore, it's best to have your child skip these distractions if you know they have problems with motion sickness. In addition, avoid other situations that cause motion sickness. While you child can't avoid every instance of motion sickness, as being in the car is a primary cause, teach your child to avoid other places that may cause motion sickness. For instance, watching 3D movies can cause some people to be motion sick. Roller coasters and even swings or other playground equipment can also be a problem. Many people find that distractions can help with motion sickness. Try playing a game with your child when they're feeling sick or put on their favorite music, both of which can help them not feel as sick. Another good distraction is using soothing scents. Lavender or peppermint can be soothing, and it can give your child something else to think about besides feeling sick. In fact, some people are sensitive to bad smells when they're motion sick, so it can help cover up those. Chewing peppermint gum can also be a good distraction. Some people find that ginger helps, so try giving your child ginger candy to reduce the nausea. The distraction and the ginger can help with the motion sickness. Don't give candy or gum to kids under the age of 4 because it is a choking hazard. Don't let kids of any age suck on candies in a moving vehicle because sudden stops and starts may cause them to inhale and choke on the candy. Sips of clear liquids can help to calm your child's stomach. Water is best, but any clear liquid can help to settle their stomach. Some people also have good luck with fizzy drinks, such as lemon-lime soda or ginger ale. Of course, staying still can be difficult for any child. However, having your child try to not move their head and body can help with the symptoms of motion sickness. Try having them rest their head on a pillow as they look out the window. Crack a window to let some fresh air into the car. It can keep your child from getting overheated. Plus, the fresh air may help the child feel better. If it is too hot or cold, try taking the air off recirculate in your car, which may help some. If you're on a plane, open the air vents for circulation. Once your child starts to get motion sick, it can help to take a break. If you're in the car, stop for a little while so your child's body has time to adjust to not moving. Walking around or laying down with their eyes closed may help while you're stopped. If you're in a plane, encourage your child to walk up and down the aisles. You can also try putting a cool cloth over their head to ease the sickness.
Summary:
Tell the child to look out the window. Make sure they aren't looking at books or movies. Help them learn to distract themselves with sound or games. Add soothing scents. Try having your kid suck on something. Offer clear liquids. Have your child stay as still as possible. Let in some fresh air. Take a break.