Problem: Article: Take some time to look inward and analyze your personal preferences, your personality, your values and lifestyle. More important than an astrological sign is whether or not you and this person have similar values and lifestyles, if you can communicate and get along well, and other determinants of compatibility. It's fine to take astrology into account, but remember to do it with a grain of salt. Investigate your own astrological sign and read about the characteristics of that sign. You may find you fit the description of your astrological sign, or you may not (just like your Gemini may or may not have the characteristics of his sign). Geminis are most compatible with the following signs:] Libra, September 23 October 22: Geminis and Libras are compatible because of their ability to communicate and socialize well. They also share a love of art, culture, and adventure. Scorpio, October 23 November 21: Scorpios tend to enjoy privacy. This can clash with a Gemini's need to be social and outgoing with others. Geminis also have a light-hearted approach to life, which can be counter to Scorpio's intense and private nature. However, for highly intelligent Gemini, Scorpio may be the perfect partner as the Scorpio can engage in enriching, deep discussions, talk openly about sex without judgement, engage in playful sex as the expert sex sign and most loyal sign of the Zodiac, and is an expert at flirting with the mysterious play and openness Gemini craves. Scorpio and Gemini share the arts, sexual adventure, strong needs for loyalty, and intelligence. The twin nature of Gemini -- the social, public side and the private, intimate side, is just the mystery Scorpio adores and respects. Aquarius, January 20 February 18.: Aquarius is a good match with Gemini because both signs thrive on variety and change. Both signs are also good at socializing and communication. Many Aquarians and Gemini signs end up becoming close friends and romantic partners. Aries, March 21 April 19: This is a good match because both signs are full of drive and energy. Aries have a flare for leadership that will complement Gemini's resourcefulness. Both signs also have a passion for knowledge and learning. Leo, July 23 August 22: Leos tend to be outgoing, dramatic, and bold. They are a good complement to the creativity and intelligence of a Gemini. Both signs tend to feed off of each other's energy and enjoy making others, and themselves, laugh. You should also be aware of the astrological signs that are not considered compatible with Geminis. This does not mean you cannot or should not seduce a Gemini if you are non-compatible sign remember, this is all in fun. The following signs are considered incompatible with Geminis: Pisces, February 19 March 20: This water sign tends to be very sensitive and do not do well when they are paired with the fickle traits of a Gemini. Often, Pisces get hurt easily by Geminis and can be too sensitive and brooding for the playfulness of Geminis. Virgo, August 23 September 22: Virgos do not do well with change or flightiness, making them a poor match for Geminis. Virgos also tend to have high, specific standards and expectations, and may end up criticizing the more open, playful ways of a Gemini. There are two signs that can be potentially good matches for Geminis, with a little work and focus. These wild card matches have the potential to work out if both parties learn how to communicate and interact with each other in healthy ways. These two signs are: Gemini, May 21 June 20: Pairing a Gemini with another Gemini can lead to a relationship full of good conversation, adventure, and fun. But both people will need to focus on building stability and commitment into the relationship for it to work. Sagittarius, November 22 December 21: Sagittarians tend to be understanding and patient, so they can be a good match for Geminis. Both signs also have a love of knowledge, variety, and sexual activity. But neither sign is very grounded, so both people will have to work on staying grounded and committed to each other.
Summary: Find out if you are compatible with your Gemini. Know the signs thought to be compatible with Gemini. Note the signs that are not good matches for Geminis. Look at the signs that are wild card matches for Geminis.

Problem: Article: Losing weight takes a lot of dedication, and it can be a tough process. All your contestants might need some moral support at one time or another. Build a community and schedule regular support meetings for all contestants. Let everyone share their stories, successes, and struggles with losing weight. That way, all contestants can help support each other to complete the contest. Letting other people into these meetings who aren't in the contest could help build some more community overall at work. You could also bring in speakers or fitness coaches during these meetings for more feedback and encouragement. Ask your company to help fund these speakers. Dieting is an important part of losing weight. Encourage all your contestants to eat healthier by having an event where everyone brings in only healthy food. This helps build community and also gives contestants ideas for their own healthy meals. Have contestants also post the recipes for their healthy meals. Then the contestants can make their own batches. Consider making this a friendly competition and having contestants vote on the tastiest healthy food. Some people are more motivated to exercise when other people are around. Help your contestants stay motivated by planning group exercises where everyone can partake. Schedule 1 or 2 workouts a week so you don't overwhelm your contestants. A group jog after work or on the weekend is a simple way to encourage group workouts. Allow others in the office to partake as well. You might get some new contestants to sign up after they see the community that you're building. Remember to keep these workouts low-intensity. Everyone is at different fitness levels, so don't exclude people who can't keep up.
Summary: Schedule a weekly support meeting for contestants. Host a healthy food potluck. Organize group workouts.

Problem: Article: People who tease and insult others are insecure. Their bullying is often driven by fear, narcissism, and the need to control a situation. Picking on others makes them feel powerful. Recognizing that it's about them, not you, will help you gain confidence in the situation. Making an effort to understand why a particular person is insulting or teasing you is key to coming up with a resolution to the situation. Sometimes people tease you to make themselves feel better; other times they might do it because they don't understand you or the situation as well as they could, or they may be jealous of something you have done or achieved. For example, the coworker who always insults your clothing may feel like you are getting more credit than you deserve from your boss. In another example, your aggressor might be teasing you because they do not understand that your disability prevents you from fully participating in an activity. Keep in mind that some forms of teasing can be playful and are not meant to hurt your feelings. For example, a relative or close friend might tease you about something, such as a quirk that they find amusing about you. Avoiding your aggressor can help minimize the insults and/or teasing you are experiencing. While this is not always possible, come up with ways to minimize the time you must spend in the presence of the bully or avoid contact altogether. If you are being teased while walking home from school, work with your parents to come up with a safe route home that will help you avoid being teased or insulted. If you are being teased or insulted online, consider deleting the bully from your social media networks or limiting the time you spend on certain applications. Sometimes teasing or insults are a direct violation of state or federal law. For example, if you have a co-worker who is sexually harassing you at work by commenting on your body, this is a violation of the law and must be reported immediately. If you are at school, you have a right to feel safe and to have a distraction-free environment to learn. If someone is teasing you in a way that makes you feel unsafe or distracts you from school (such as by making you not want to attend), you should talk to your parents or teacher about it.
Summary:
Realize it's not about you. Understand your aggressor's motivation. Develop a plan to avoid the person or situation if possible. Determine if the teasing is a violation of the law.