Multi-select problem: How does the next paragraph end?

How to stop turning off your female partner
Set aside time for her.
Establish a time to spend together without distractions. This can be a romantic date, but it can also be a movie or dinner night at home.

(a). And don't be afraid to give her a turn off! Encourage discussing these milestones. It can be hard to stay specific about the dates you plan to go..
(b). You should get to know one another before trying to initiate your relationship by putting aside certain amounts of time for her. Start making plans with her friends and family before you come over..
(c). If you've been trying to contact her up until the moment of making plans, block her during this time. Wait until the weekend to do this or round up a thursday evening to sit down and make plans..
(d). Avoid other activities where you may see people you know. Do not invite anyone else to spend time with you during your designated time..
(d).