Write an article based on this summary:

Don't try to impress. Bring forth your real talents, the ones that define who you are, not what you own or want to possess. Show your true self while trying to impress a girl and try to be your best self. Flirt and use body language to show your interest in her.
Perhaps this is the biggest secret but really, it's the clincher. The best way to impress a girl is to not set out to impress her. Now you might be wondering how this really works. The issue at heart is that when most guys try to impress girls, they tend to become less authentic and when this happens, they can try to show off with almost anything and everything. Girls are not impressed by such tactics and tend to end up putting you in the "show off" category, unimpressed by the antics and bravado. The best way to impress a girl is to be yourself, let things happen automatically and keep the show pony antics for your mates. If you thought that girls are impressed by money and material things all the time, then you are mistaken. The best way to impress a girl and retain your status is by the way of natural talents which involve the way you talk and present yourself. You need girls to respect you for who you are. If the girl is impressed by your money, then she is probably looking for money and not you, so that's a good telltale sign to back off. Don't talk to her with the quest to impress rather try to do what you normally do. One of the best aspects which almost every girl demands and gets impressed by is intellectuality. Try to develop your intellectual skills. This can be done by the way to reading books, quality online articles and being up-to-date with the latest happenings. Remember that being a good talker is the foundation of impressing almost any girl. Have something which is different from the rest. Girls normally get hit on by several men every day and almost all those men try to impress them with all they've got. If you are doing and following the same tactics as all those men, then you won't succeed in your quest to impress girls. Avoid being erotic or crass, that just scares girls off. Make it clear that you like her. If she is insecure, anything you do to to get her attention must be positive and slow. When you take your time, it shows her that you care enough to take it slowly. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/f\/ff\/Impress-a-Girl-You-Fancy-Step-11.jpg\/v4-460px-Impress-a-Girl-You-Fancy-Step-11.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/f\/ff\/Impress-a-Girl-You-Fancy-Step-11.jpg\/aid559307-v4-728px-Impress-a-Girl-You-Fancy-Step-11.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":345,"bigWidth":"728","bigHeight":"546","licensing":"<div class="mw-parser-output"><p>License: <a rel="nofollow" class="external text" href="https:\/\/creativecommons.org\/licenses\/by-nc-sa\/3.0\/">Creative Commons<\/a><br>
<\/p><p><br \/>
<\/p><\/div>"}