OPT: *Summarize your decision in detail. This will greatly help you explain why you have chosen to be a parent or caretaker of a child or teen in a special situation. *For example, if you are thinking about buying a car, but you cannot afford one, you might decide to go on a shopping spree. In this scenario, think about each issue you need to resolve that is upsetting you and look for ways to drive more easily. *It may help if you write down a simple sentence or two that says " the decision i need to make is..." You should also ask yourself why you feel the need to make this decision. What is your motivation? This will help you understand the actions that you are about to take. *In a calm and collected voice, tell the issue directly but clearly. This may seem that it looks silly, but chances are, it really isn't.Choose from options above and answer: What most naturally follows?

How to make better decisions
Outline the issue.
Before you can make a good decision, you need to clearly outline the issues. This will help you focus on the decision you are making and not be distracted by unrelated things.
Answer:
It may help if you write down a simple sentence or two that says " the decision i need to make is..." You should also ask yourself why you feel the need to make this decision. What is your motivation? This will help you understand the actions that you are about to take.