Write an article based on this "Understand women Tune up your social skills. Be confident Don't worry about what people will think of you. Know that you're taking a chance, but it's not a big one. Keep the benefits in mind. Be comfortable in your own skin. Understand that rejection can and will happen."
article: . While it can be quite tough to understand women (even for women themselves), gaining an understanding of women and how they think is vital to approaching them in any way. Everyone's heard the stories of trying - and failing - to impress a stranger that you want to get to know, and effectively ruin your chances. If you want to be able to effectively cold approach a girl and have the approach go smoothly, it's crucial to understand her beforehand. While there's no way of generalizing women and how they think, there are a few things you can recall to improve your chance of the cold approach going well. Many women prefer long-term relationships over hookups, and can tell which one a guy wants. Chances are, if you approach a girl solely to have sex with her, she'll know what you're up to. Arrogance and playing yourself up to be "manlier" than you really are will backfire, as many women are interested in people who care about the feelings of others. She'll also discover it eventually if you were faking masculinity. Women are often emotion-based, so it's important to be sensitive and put yourself in her shoes. If you say something rude, she won't appreciate it. While many women want to find a partner, they often prefer friendships first. It's best to approach a girl with the intent of making a friend, not getting a date. While it's important to have some social skills before approaching anyone, women in particular have some finer social nuances than others may pick up on. There are exceptions, of course, but many women prefer to be treated respectfully and as though they're being approached for more than just how they look. While it takes a lot more than just knowing how to have a good conversation to tune up your social skills, here are a few things to keep in mind when approaching girls for a conversation. Avoid calling women terms like "b*tches", "sl*ts", "wh*res", or any other terms considered derogatory towards women. Avoid swearing, as well. This will turn many girls away from you. Don't comment on her body. Unless you're out at a club, you're not going to get a girl to want to go anywhere with you if the first thing you comment on is her breasts or butt - or any other part of her, for that matter, as you may creep her out. Try to avoid commenting on her body, especially with your opening lines. There's a fine line between flirting and sexual harassment. However, nobody likes to be sexually harassed. A woman who looks uncomfortable towards your sexual advances or asks you to stop does not want you to keep making those comments, and you may be sexually harassing her. Show respect, above all. Treating anyone - male or female - like they're lesser than you will not only make you seem callous and dismissive, but it will also drive most people away from you (girls included) when they see how you treat others. . It's very important that you are confident. Confidence is not only attractive, but also gives you courage to approach and carry out a conversation with a girl you just met. Thinking negatively and bashing yourself for mistakes you've made in previous cold approaches doesn't help; just use those experiences to prepare yourself for now. Show that you're sure of what you're doing, and that you don't doubt yourself. Many people love others who are confident. Yes, it's a cliche, but there will always be people who'll dislike you and what you do. A big part of confidence is living the way you want to, despite whether or not it's the way others want you to live. If you stop focusing so much on what other people think of you (including the girls you're approaching!), it'll make you much happier and more confident. Be aware that some people may have very valid concerns, so at least take the time to listen to them and consider them. In particular, if female friends or family members are giving you warnings, take note and heed them. Girls often know what other girls like and don't like. If you're nervous about cold approaching a girl, you may ruminate about "what-ifs", such as "What if I catch her at a bad moment?" or "What if she's rude and calls me a name?". Remember, though: you can't read her mind. You don't know how she might react when you approach her, so you have to be willing to take risks. Being afraid to approach girls just because of the "what-ifs" may prevent you from approaching girls and seeing if any of those "what-ifs" are actually true! This is a method which is out of the norm and could be scary. That's one of the reasons the benefits are great. Think about it - it helps you overcome fear, which gives you a deep inner confidence, and therefore sets the stage for you to become a more confident person who can move forward easily. And if it goes well, you get to meet a new person who could potentially become your friend, or even girlfriend! Yes, you have negative traits - but so does everybody else, and it doesn't do you any good to pick yourself apart or mull over your flaws. So what if you have a stutter, your clothes don't match the trends of what most girls seem to like, or you don't have a fantastic job that makes it possible for you to go out to fancy five-star restaurants with others? A girl who's worth befriending or dating will accept you for who you are. Even if you can't necessarily know what kind of person she is when you cold approach her, know that if she's the right person for you, she'll accept you despite your flaws. This doesn't necessarily mean that you shouldn't work on things that are in your control. Your grooming habits, for example, are within your control, and are important to control; a girl won't be very inclined to talk to you if you haven't showered or worn deodorant in three days and your shirt is covered in old pizza grease stains. While not everyone will reject you, and rejection doesn't define your worth, it's very possible that at some point, a girl will reject you. When this happens, take it in stride. Apologize if she seems offended or creeped out, and take some time away to let the awkwardness cease. Rejection happens; what's important is how you handle it, and that you don't let it discourage you from ever asking a girl out again. There are many reasons a girl may reject you. She may not be comfortable with talking to someone she doesn't know, she might already have plans, she may already have a partner, she may not be attracted to you, she may be worried you're only interested in her for her body, and many more reasons. Just as you wouldn't want to date every single girl you'd come across, she doesn't want to date every single person she comes across, either. You do not have the right to force anyone to do anything they do not want to do. Regardless of what the girl doesn't want to do, if she says no, she means no. You do not want to be "one of those people" who takes the phrase "bad with rejection" to serious extremes. Respect a "no", apologize, and drop the subject.

Write an article based on this "Get a travel industry job. Become an adventure guide. Get a job as a nurse. Become a travel professional. Try teaching English abroad. Get a service industry job."
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What skills do you have that you could use while traveling? Some employers have seasonal work that you may be able to train for or do easily. Research online and you will find travel-based jobs for every kind of skill. Adventure outfitters and summer camps recruit guides in the off season. If you want to be a rafting guide in the USA, start looking for summer work in the autumn or winter. Surf instructors in Costa Rica work during the winters. Make a travel plan and network with other guides who can provide job information. Resorts need staff for every activity they offer, so find out things you can do at your skill level. Traveling nurses are in high demand. Many agencies will hire nurses from three months to a year to work at hospitals around the USA. Some even offer housing. Search online for traveling nursing positions and contact the recruiters. Most websites list location, pay rate, and benefits up front. Airline pilots, flight attendants, cruise ship staff, and transportation employees such as truck drivers travel as part of their work. While some of these jobs don't allow for much time to explore tourist areas, travel professionals can find ways to get out and enjoy, too. Research the industry to see what kind of skills and training are required. There are many opportunities to teach English abroad. Most places require that you take their Test of English as a Foreign Language (TOEFL) training class before you can sign on. This may expensive, but once you have the TOEFL certification, you can teach in many countries. Agencies often help with job placement. Many tourist destinations have resorts, theme parks, and restaurants looking for waiters, housekeepers, and attendants. The highest seasons for family tourist destinations are when children are not in school. For other places, high season may be during the best weather or centered around holidays. Check around for vacation high season in the area where you want to travel.