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How to let a nanny go nicely
Sit down with the nanny in a quiet and calm environment, if possible.
Try to schedule this so both of you will have plenty of uninterrupted time to go through any important information.
Be upfront with the nanny.
Choose from:
-Tell the nanny exactly what kind of photos you'd like to upload. Be sure to leave no room for misunderstandings or arguments so the nanny doesn't get upset..
-Begin by explaining the circumstances as best you can. Explain the reasoning for the split in as much detail is needed..
-Explain the situation with absolute certainty that you want the nanny to stop if the nanny stops, until you've worked with the nanny and made sure the nanny understands how you want the nanny to stop. Ask the nanny how and when you would like the nanny to stop for each child..
-Don't get angry, this is your real nanny, just let them take care of things. Let them know that you don't want anything thrown away and that your other parental care is permissible in your current nanny..
Begin by explaining the circumstances as best you can. Explain the reasoning for the split in as much detail is needed.