Article: If the court has not mandated your time arrangements, you need to have a discussion about them. You can't just leave the arrangement vague and expect it to work well. If you don't think you can decide on one alone, consider talking with a counselor to help work it out. You need to discuss what nights the child will be spending with which parent, who's responsible for what activities, and who's responsible for which care-taking activities. Don't forget to discuss holidays and school breaks, as you need to decide where the child will be during those times. If you don't plan on making decisions together going forward, you need to discuss who will make what decisions. For instance, who decides what activities the child gets to do? Who's responsible for the bulk of the child's healthcare? These are important decisions in the life of your child, and you need to make them together or decide who is responsible for the decision. While true co-parenting would be to make all of the decisions together, it may not be feasible if you can't work together. That's why it's important to decide who's going to make what decisions from the get-go. You should also consider religious upbringing, as well. Which religion will the child follow? Another consideration is schooling. Will your child go to a public school or a private school going forward? Who will be responsible for making that decision? When you've divorced from someone, it can, and usually does, get messy. You've broken up with someone you once vowed to love, and that hurts. It's hard to move on, and it's even tougher not to let those feelings interfere with how you are raising your child. However, if you can keep those feelings out, you can work towards a much healthier relationship, even if your ex remains uncooperative. Try thinking of your ex as a colleague rather than an ex. You probably don't like everyone you work with, but you still must get along with them in a professional manner. In many ways, this step is more parallel parenting, though you are still working together to make decisions. Once you start thinking of the relationship this way, it can help to calm the waters. Would you pick a fight over something small with a colleague? Not if you're acting professionally. That is, when your child is at your ex's house, try not to text or call your child too much. You should expect the same when your child is at your house. The point of this step is to avoid creating a situation where you're trying to mediate between the other parent and the child. That doesn't mean you can't talk to your child, just that you shouldn't spend hours a day on the phone with your child, nor should you get in the middle of arguments between your child and your ex. As often as possible, try not to engage with your ex. Often, you will be doing so in front of your kid, since that will be the only time you see your ex. Therefore, it's best not to get in verbal fights, as that only hurts your kid more. Plus, that keeps you entrenched in a negative relationship, which you don't need in your life. This step means you won't rise to the bait. You won't respond with sarcasm, even though you may feel like it. It means that you have a responsibility to stay calm and not engage, even if your ex is trying to engage you. For instance, say your ex says, "I noticed you forgot to pack a shirt for him this weekend. Big surprise, you forgot something." While you may be tempted to snap back at your ex, instead say, in a sincere tone, "I'm sorry I forgot. I'll remember next time. Thanks for taking the time to tell me." Being sincere and straightforward can start to disarm some of the nastiness.
Question: What is a summary of what this article is about?
Discuss time arrangements. Allocate decision-making. Separate your feelings from your child. Don't interfere with each other. Skip the fights.

Each game of curling is played with 2 teams consisting of 4 players apiece. Team members take turns throwing stones. The turn order is determined before the game and is followed throughout it. The exception to this is in Mixed Doubles curling. Teams are composed of 1 male and 1 female player. Mixed Doubles games are much faster than regular games. The playing surface for curling is called a sheet. You stand at 1 end of the ice and aim for the "house," which is the target at the other end. The "button" is the bullseye in the center of this target. Many beginners are thrown off by the size and color of the blue, white, and red rings. Ignore the rings. They're a visual indicator of where to aim, but otherwise don't pay them much attention. The most important part is how close your stones are to the button.. Players will start from a position 57ft (17m) away from the house. To stay in play, the stones must stop between the hog line, which is 21ft (6.4m) from the button, and the back line behind the house. Each team plays by using granite stones, also called rocks. Teams alternate turns, throwing 1 stone at a time. Each team member gets to throw 2 stones total, which their teammates guide towards the house. Each stone weighs about 42lb (19kg), so guiding it along the ice takes some practice. Team members alternate turns. You have to wait to throw your second stone In Mixed Doubles, each team gets only 5 stones. Think of an end as an inning in baseball. Once all the stones are thrown in an end, an official counts the score and writes it on a scorecard. Each team curls a total of 80 stones in a match. Each end begins with the team who won the previous end. If Team B scores more points in the first end, they start the second end. This is fairer than it seems because the team that goes second in curling has an advantage. The amount of ends can change depending on the game format. Full-length games may be limited to 8 ends. Professional Mixed Doubles games are always 8 ends long, but recreational games may be even shorter.
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Form a team of 4 players who alternate shots. Aim for the target in the center of the ice. Send 8 total stones down the ice towards the house. Play 10 ends in a game.