Multi-select problem: How does the next paragraph end?

How to make a reasonable excuse to miss a date
Explain the feelings that are preventing you from coming.
If you are trying to make an excuse, you must have a reason. If it's a reason the person you are supposed to meet will understand, offer it.

pick from the following.
--If your reason is about you, it might not offend. If you are too tired, too sick, too overworked, or too depressed to meet up, say so.;
--If you are unsure about why you missed your date, include that information in your explanation. For example, you might be nervous about going out to dinner after work because you have too much work coming up next week.;
--This will emphasize to the person that you know exactly what you are talking about. Say something like " i know that you're usually discouraged that someone likes you, but i'm really looking for a new friend and want to become a better friend.;
--It is very important that you explain your reasons clearly, so you cannot be rude and say something nasty back, and maybe make your date say something similar. Make sure you are prepared for everyone to take the hint and notice you are missing.;
If your reason is about you, it might not offend. If you are too tired, too sick, too overworked, or too depressed to meet up, say so.