Any size wrench will do to the trick. In general, however, the bigger the head, the better the wrenches will work, as they'll be able to exert more pressure on the lock. It's important that both wrenches be close to the same size in order to ensure that the force is evenly distributed to both sides of the shackle, or the U-shaped metal clasp that fastens the lock. Once you have the wrenches in position, bring the handles as close together as you can. This should cause the two internal arms of the wrench heads to butt up against one another. Try to position the wrenches right in the middle of the vertical shafts of the shackle. If they're too high or too low, they may slip off once you start applying pressure. Before you actually attempt to break the lock, give the handles of the wrenches a quick squeeze to make sure that they won't slide, shift, or lose their grip on one another. Push the handles together toward your midline as hard as you can. It may take quite a bit of muscular effort to actually snap the shackle, so be patient and don't give up. When it does finally give way, it will break right down the middle. It may help to choke up your grip on the handles so that you're pushing with the flat part of your palms rather than the edges of your fingers. Now that you've successfully snapped the shackle, all you have to do is pull out the broken pieces. You may need to twist or jiggle them a few times to get them to come free, as the ends will still be secured in the locking mechanisms inside the lock. If the lock you're breaking has a plastic body, you may be able to tear the shackle free in one piece. If you've squeezed and squeezed with all your might and still can't get the shackle to budge, save your energy and try out another method, such as a few well-placed whacks with a hammer.
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One-sentence summary -- Get a hold of two open-ended wrenches. Hook the open ends of the wrenches over each side of the shackle. Force the handles of the wrenches together until the shackle breaks in two. Fish out both halves of the shackle to remove the lock.

Shave your arms, legs, and armpits to attract women who like femme-men. Women who date masculine men tend to like body hair and other highly masculine features. Shaving will finesse your look and make you more appealing. Of course, you don't have to shave your body hair to attract a woman who will like you, but it might help to try it out and see how you like it. Crossdressing is all about looking great while channeling some feminine energy. Stock your wardrobe with classic pumps, a little black dress, low-rise women's jeans, classy blouses, crop tops, mini-skirts, and maybe a corset. No matter what shape you're in, you can find something flattering and femme. Reign in wide, masculine shoulders by wearing a scoop or v-neck top to draw attention away from your shoulders. Pair a dark-colored top with a bright-colored pant or skirt to create the illusion of a smaller upper torso. Wear form-fitting pants that accentuate your hips. Belt dresses at the smallest part of your waist to create the illusion of curves. Poofy prom dresses and buoyant wigs might be fun to wear out to a club, but they can come off as campy in most casual settings. Save the costumes for the stage and keep your everyday makeup and wardrobe cool and casual. Start with a basic piece like a simple skirt and add a statement piece like a bright, floral top. Watch online makeup tutorials to create an au-natural look that accentuates your feminine features. Watch movies that feature crossdressing as a central plot point to inform your femme persona. You don't have to change your personality at all, but it may help to get some ideas about femme mannerisms and speaking patterns from popular culture. For example, The Rocky Horror Picture Show, Hedwig and The Angry Inch, and Kinky Boots are all great films that will inspire you to craft your femme-energy. RuPaul's Drag Race is a great show to watch to learn and get inspired! Note that some shows and films featuring crossdressing and drag can feature over-the-top representations, so take some tips but tone it down for everyday or casual crossdressing. If you want to retain your masculine voice and mannerisms, that's okay too!
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One-sentence summary -- Shave your body hair to look more femme. Dress in flattering clothes to feel confident and master the look. Avoid costume-y clothes and styling in casual, everyday settings. Watch shows and movies that feature crossdressers for inspiration.

Oil can bubble up and pop, and you don't want it to spill over. Spillover can lead to a grease fire. Make sure your pot is deep enough to cover the food completely and leave space at the top if you're deep-frying or come halfway up the food if your shallow-frying. If you're not sure, pick a larger pot. Some smaller saucepans tip over easily, and you don't want that to happen with hot grease. Make sure the pot you use is heavy and stable on the stove. If your oil doesn't have a high smoke point, you could end up filling your kitchen with smoke, which is a hazard. Typical frying oils include peanut, corn, or canola oil, all of which have high smoke points. Often, you'll be frying foods under 400F (204C), so look for an oil with a smoke point above this temperature. You can check the smoke points for oils online. If the worst does happen, don't pour water on a grease fire. It will only make it worse. Turn the heat off on the pan first, then use a fire extinguisher or baking soda to smother the fire. If you don't have one of these two things, use a metal lid to smother the fire before it gets out of hand. Place the lid over the pan to smother it. You can also use a baking sheet. Make sure to use a fire extinguisher meant for grease fires. You can use a class B extinguisher or a multipurpose extinguisher that includes class B.
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Use a pot large enough to leave 3 inches (7.6cm) of space above the oil. Pick a stable pan with a heavy bottom. Choose an oil with a high smoke point. Use a fire extinguisher or baking soda to put out a grease fire.