Article: Your boyfriend's face is an important part of what makes him who he is. By complimenting his eyes, smile, or overall handsomeness, you can let him know how attractive you find him. For the most effective compliment, try to focus on something unique about his appearance. You could say, "I love the freckle next to your smile," or "Your eyes are the most incredible shade of green." Keep in mind that some men are uncomfortable with compliments, so it is a good idea to pay attention to his response. If he ignores the compliment or makes an odd face, then this may mean that he dislikes being complimented. Pay your boyfriend a compliment on his body to stroke his ego. You can compliment him on his shoulders, abs, arms, or whatever body part you like best to show him how attractive you find him. Your boyfriend doesn't have to be a body builder for you to compliment his body. You could say, "Your shoulders look so strong today," or "Wow. Your abs look amazing." If your boyfriend is less fit, you might say, "I love how soft your hands feel when you rub my shoulders." Many men work hard to chisel their bodies at the gym. Pay your boyfriend compliments on his fitness progress to let him know you appreciate his strength and health. You could say, "Your body looks amazing. Those suicide sprints are really paying off," or "You looked really strong climbing that rock wall." If your boyfriend has lost a lot of weight through a fitness regimen, don't be afraid to appreciate his progress. You could say, "Wow, that shirt fits you so well. I can really see your hard work." Whether your boyfriend prefers skinny jeans or flannel (or both!), he probably puts a lot of effort into the way he looks. You can show him how attracted you are to his look by complimenting him on pieces of his wardrobe. You can also show appreciation for the way he styles his clothes. You could say, "That jacket looks amazing with those pants. Are you an off-duty model?" or "The color of that scarf really brings out your eyes. It looks great on you." Some men spend a lot of time styling their hair and facial hair. If this is something you like about your boyfriend, you can let him know by paying him a compliment. You can compliment a new hair cut, part, or color to let him know you notice the little details about him. You could say, "I really like your new beard. It's hot!" or "Your new buzz cut is sexy. It makes you look like Brad Pitt." Whatever physical attributes of your boyfriend's attract you, many guys just want to know they turn you on. Enhance your compliments on your boyfriend's physical appearance by telling him how sexy you find him. Be sure that compliments about him turning you on are sincere, or they may come off as awkward and forced. You could say, "Your eyes are so gorgeous. I want you to kiss me right now," or "Your smile is such a turn on."
Question: What is a summary of what this article is about?
Compliment his face. Compliment his body. Appreciate his level of fitness. Praise his personal style. Appreciate the way he styles his hair. Let him know he turns you on.
Article: Consider all of the reasons that you and your ex broke up. Try to keep in mind that even if that you enjoyed being together for a while, something was not working. Thinking about the reasons why the relationship ended can help you understand why you need to move on. You may also be able to avoid making the same mistakes in the future if you can identify areas where you contributed to the demise of the relationship. Ask yourself some of the following questions: Did I contribute to the end of the relationship? If so, what did I do? Do I tend to choose the same sort of people to date? If so, what are they like? Are they good for me? Why or why not? Have I had similar problems in other relationships? If so, what is causing me to have these problems? What can I do differently in future relationships? Write in a journal or try writing poems. The most important thing is to be honest and don't edit yourself as you go. One of the best results of writing it all down is that sometimes you will be amazed by a sudden insight that comes to you as you are pouring it all out onto paper. Patterns may become clearer, and as your grieving begins to lessen, you will find it so much easier to understand valuable life lessons from the whole experience. Try writing down your feelings every day after your breakup until you feel better. For example, you could start each of your journal entries with "It has been __ days since we broke up and I feel _____" Then go into more detail about how you are feeling. Using this prompt will help you to see the progress of your emotions over time and process some of those emotions as well. Try writing a letter to your ex, but do not send it. Sometimes it just helps to get all of your feelings out. However, sending it is not a good idea. This letter is just for you, so write out everything you wish you could have said and be done with it. It doesn't do any good to rehash the breakup over and over again, so just pretend you are telling them how you feel for the last time. Try writing a story. Think back to when your relationship with this person began, and document it from beginning to end. This may be very painful, but it will give you a broader perspective. When you get to the final chapter, finish off on a positive note and write "The End". Feelings of anger occur when we feel we have been wronged or there has been unfair treatment. In a situation where you will not contact your ex-partner, the best way to deal with anger alone is to relax. Take deep breaths and focus on allowing your muscles to voluntarily relax. Soft music can often help. If the breakup was your decision, keep in mind that focusing on the good times you had with your partner may cause you to forget the reasons why you broke it off. By the same token, try not to second-guess the situation if the decision to end things was not yours. It's very common to romanticize the good parts of the relationship and convince yourself that the bad parts weren't so bad after all. Don't play this game with yourself. Accept the situation and work on moving forward. Focusing on all of the things that you don't like about your ex can help you to get over the breakup faster. Try making a list of all of the things your ex did that you did not like. For example, maybe your ex often burped loudly after dinner, or made plans without you, or forgot your birthday. List every little thing that bothered you about your ex. In addition to reminding yourself of everything that bothered you about your ex, you can also benefit from thinking about the positives to your breakup. Make another list of all of the reasons why you are better off without your ex. For example, maybe your ex discouraged your efforts to eat healthy, so now you feel more empowered to follow a healthy diet and take better care of yourself. Or maybe your ex never wanted to do any of the things that you wanted to do, so now you have the freedom to do all of those things. List all of the reasons why you are better off without your ex.
Question: What is a summary of what this article is about?
Reflect on your relationship. Write about your feelings. Deal with your anger. Stand by your decision. Remind yourself of your ex's negative traits. Consider the reasons why you are better off without your ex.