Problem: Article: Most people have bacteria and germs on their skin. However, these germs can cause an infection if they get under the skin through the nicks made by the fiberglass splinters. If the fiberglass slivers are in your hand(s), skip this step. You do not want to push the slivers deeper into your skin. Fiberglass splinters have a tendency to break. You do not want them to break off below the skin or be pushed deeper into your skin. Cleanse the area by letting soapy water flow over it, but don't rub or scrub the area. You could force fibers deeper into your skin. Pour water into any container, rub the soap in between your wet hands, and submerge your hands in the water. Repeat until the water is soapy. If your hands are the affected area, someone will have to do this for you. The same germs that are on your hands are on the skin around the fiberglass slivers. Once you begin to move the slivers around trying to remove them, there is a risk of infection if the germs get under the skin. Look for fine-tipped tweezers to make grabbing the fibers easier. Bacteria is on every object we use. The alcohol destroys these germs so that you do not put them under the skin as you try to pull out the fiberglass splinters. Rubbing alcohol or ethyl alcohol kills germs by dissolving their outer protective coating; they fall apart and die. Increase your chances of success with removing the fiberglass splinters by working in a well-lit area. The thin fiberglass fibers are a white or light yellow color. They can be hard to see when they are in your skin. Focus on the tips of the fibers and grasp them, then pull them slowly away from your skin. Try not to push them in deeper. Use a needle if this happens or if the splinter is already completely under the skin. Use a sewing needle that has been sterilized with rubbing alcohol to gently lift skin or break through skin if you can see the splinter just under the skin. Then you can use the tweezers to remove the fiberglass. Do not become frustrated if it takes several attempts to get the splinters out. They can be small. If the tweezers and needle truly are not effective, try using the sticky tape method. The bleeding can help wash out germs. This is another way to keep germs from getting under your skin. Pat the area dry. Apply an antibiotic ointment like Neosporin. You do not have to cover the area you worked on with a bandage.
Summary: Wash your hands with soap and water. Gently cleanse the area you are treating with soap and water. Clean your tweezers and a sharp needle with rubbing alcohol. Find good lighting and a magnifying glass. Pull out the fiberglass fiber(s) gently with the tweezers. Squeeze the skin after all the fiberglass is gone. Wash the area again with soap and water.

Problem: Article: Being able to see the other person instead of merely talking to them or emailing them lets you share a better connection. You can even share video visits in different places like a favorite spot you enjoy together to bridge the gap. Visits include plenty of quality time whether or not you choose to do a lot of activities or just spend time together relaxing. Quality time and creating memories is what is important, not what you actually end up doing. You do not want to put too much pressure on each other to do things that are grand or big events, it's the quality of the time you have that is most important. Too much pressure to make everything perfect can ruin a visit. Play online games. Watch a TV show at the same time. Use technology like Skype to be able to share a meal or attend an event while apart. Doing things together doesn't always have to be in person. If you are not sure about what type of activities you can do together miles apart, look into things like a new video game or hobby on the next visit that can carry over to when you are apart. It can be fun to learn something new or meet on line to play a new virtual reality game you both like. Making an effort to remember special days whether or not you spend them together in person can go a long way in making the effort to keep relationship special and active. You may not always be able to spend special days together, but taking the time to celebrate in your own way can make them still very special. This can include sending a gift, or a video chat to include your partner in the holiday. Keeping a calendar can help to remind you of special days and focus on future visits. If you want to help him remember those dates as well, make him a cute calendar with pictures of the two of you with the dates already filled in.
Summary: Schedule regular video calls. Plan to meet in person every once in a while. Engage in activities together. Don't forget to on special occasions like birthdays and anniversaries.

Problem: Article: Soak your linen from 8 hours to overnight in your washing machine with cool water; you should add laundry detergent to it. In the morning, drain the washing machine and refill it with hot water. Wash the cloths with as short a cycle as possible to avoid abrasions to the material and add an extra rinse cycle since linen absorbs more soap and detergent than many other materials. Do not use chlorine bleach on white linen napkins. While bleach will restore most white cloth to its original state, chlorine bleach will actually yellow linen. Avoid putting any other items in the washing machine. Other fabrics will increase the amount of friction that the linen will experience, and if they are of a different color those colors could run onto the napkins. Do not use any fabric softeners on linen. Repeat as needed if you notice any stains upon completion. The best way to dry linen is to hang it up on a line outside using some clothing pinchers during a warm, sunny day. If it's wet and rainy outside, you can lay the napkins flat on top of some terrycloth towels inside. Finish this off by first spraying the material with starch and then ironing the napkins on a low heat. Starching and then ironing your napkins will help them to keep their form once folded and to have extra crisp creases. Do not use a mechanical dryer to dry your linen napkins. Doing so will weaken the fibers, causing them to become brittle and shortening the longevity of your napkins.
Summary: Wash your cloth napkins. Dry your napkins.

Problem: Article: When your friend or family member expresses delusional thoughts, listen to them, but don't argue. The delusion seems completely real to them, so you won't be able to talk them into believing something else. Arguing can even make the situation worse, since it will make the person feel like no one understands them. Focus on understanding how the person is feeling. Show empathy for their emotions, but don't say anything that will reinforce their delusion. For instance, if your friend tells you that kidnappers are following her, don't play along. Instead, say something like, "That sounds really scary, but I'll make sure you're safe." Without trying to change the person's mind, let them know that you aren't perceiving what they are. For instance, say, "No, I didn't see any people following us." See if you can get the person to tell you more about their fears. This can help you figure out where the delusion is coming from and give you a better idea of how to reassure the person. The person may also feel better after talking to you. Ask an open-ended question like, "Why do you think the kidnappers are following you?" or "Do you want to tell me more?" If something in the environment is frightening them, take the person somewhere else. Offer them some food or water. Reassure them that you are not afraid, and tell them you'll make sure nothing bad happens to them. For instance, if you're in a building with a family member who thinks someone is sending them messages over the PA system, take them outside. If the person takes medication, ask them when they last took a dose. If it was longer ago than the bottle instructs, make sure they take a dose as soon as possible.
Summary:
Avoid arguing with the person. Avoid affirming the person's paranoia. Ask questions. Help the person feel safer and more comfortable.