INPUT ARTICLE: Article: If the server has done all in his or her power to serve the papers directly to the respondent and has been unable to do so, your server can hand those papers over to a party that can legally accept them on the respondent's behalf. A competent adult, age 18 or older, who lives at home with the respondent can usually accept the papers. Similarly, an adult who appears to be in charge at the respondent's workplace or an adult who seems to be in charge where the person receives mail can usually accept the papers, as well. When passing the court papers to a substitute, your server must leave that substitute with specific instructions regarding what the papers are and what needs to be done with them. Make sure that the substitute knows that he or she is receiving court papers for a specific individual. The respondent must be named, and the substitute must be told to deliver the papers to the respondent. Get the substitute'sname when you leave the papers. If the substitute refuses to provide a name, write down a thorough physical description of the substitute. When you serve papers by substitution, you must also mail another copy of all court papers by first-class mail. Address the package to the respondent. You need to send the papers to the same address the server left the papers at. Afterward, the server must fill out the "Proof of Service" form as usual. In addition to this form, a "Proof of Mailing (Substituted Service)" form must also be filled out by the server. Get both forms from the server after he or she fills them out. File them both together at the courthouse on or before your court date. Provide a postal receipt with your forms indicating that you sent a second copy of the papers through the mail.

SUMMARY: Know who else you can give the papers to. Instruct the substitute. Mail another copy. Fill out a Proof of Service form.

INPUT ARTICLE: Article: Unlike with other mounting jobs, there's no need to locate a sturdy wall stud in order to use drywall anchors. They're designed to be placed directly into the drywall so that you can hang even heavy items without fear of slippage or damage. Choose a section of wall where your item won't be forced to compete for space with other fixtures and decorations. Not having to hunt for a stud will give you much more freedom over the finished layout of your wall. Draw a small dot or 'X' at the exact spot where you want to place the anchor. This mark will serve as a visual aid when it's time to start drilling, making it easier to remember the desired placement of mounted items and allowing you to work quickly and efficiently. If you're only installing a single anchor, you can simply eyeball the reference mark based on the desired height and position of the item you'll be hanging. If you're installing multiple anchors, use a level and tape measure or ruler to ensure that adjacent markings are properly spaced and level. Always use a drill bit that's as close in diameter to the type of anchor you're installing as possible. If the pilot hole is too large, the anchor will fall out easily. If it's too small, you may not be able to get the anchor in, or the tight confines could cause it to malfunction. Most drywall anchors have the dimensions clearly labeled on the packaging. Simply note the width of the anchor to determine what size drill bit you need. You want your hole to be slightly smaller than the anchor. When you're installing the anchor, you'll need to lightly tap it into place. If you're unable to find the dimensions of the anchors you're using, you may need to perform a size comparison by holding them up side-by-side with several different bits. Hold the drill bit perpendicularly against the wall and keep a steady hand to ensure that the hole is as straight as possible. Once you have your pilot hole in place, you can use it to install any type of drywall anchor. If you don't have an electric drill, you can also make a pilot hole using an awl or hammer and nail-set or nail. As another alternative, you can use a Phillips head screwdriver to make your hole. Press the tip of the screwdriver against the wall, then twist it back and forth to create your hole. Not every type of wall anchor requires a pre-drilled pilot hole, but it's a helpful first step and can end up saving you time that you might otherwise spend struggling to get an anchor through stubborn drywall by hand. If you're mounting an item that requires more than one anchor, like a TV, coat rack, or floating shelf, you'll need to open a pilot hole for each anchor. Assuming you marked the site of each individual pilot hole earlier, this should only take a few extra seconds. Take your time drilling to make sure the job gets done right. Your mounted item might not hang correctly if one or more of the holes have been drilled at odd angles. When hanging very heavy items, such as TVs, make sure you screw into at least one wall stud. Use a stud finder to locate the stud.

SUMMARY: Pick out a desirable spot to hang your item. Mark your intended hanging site with a pencil. Fit an electric drill with an appropriately-sized bit. Drill straight into the drywall at a precise 90 degree angle. Repeat the process for each of your intended hanging sites.

INPUT ARTICLE: Article: If you have been planning to ask them for a while, don't come on too strong. Keep yourself calm so that when you ask them to hang out it doesn't come across as desperate. Take a breath and use your regular conversational tone. You'll sound too eager if you say, "You are so cool and I really want to spend more time with you." Be casual when you ask a classmate by saying, "Man everytime we talk, this guy is droning on in the background. We should chill outside of class sometime." If you had fun with someone at a party, say, "It's been a great meeting, do you want to catch up later on sometime?" You may have a hard time asking someone to hang out without a specific reason. If you're asking someone you know you have a common interest with, use that to your advantage. Tell them it would be fun to do the activity together sometime. If you always talk to a coworker about the Walking Dead, ask them if they want to come over and watch it with you. You know you're both free when it's on, and the hangout has a set time frame so they can split when it's over. You might meet someone that works out at your gym. Since you are probably there around the same time, ask them if they'd want to work out together. Say, "We could both have a spotter and push each other to work harder." Say to someone, "I've noticed we always seem to be painting in this studio at the same time, would you want to meet up and actually paint together sometime?" It's no good to ask someone to hang out if you tell yourself they won't want to. Get in the mindset that you are fun to hang out with and that the person you ask will say yes. If you are confident in yourself and make a direct ask, the person will be more open than if you seem timid when you ask. Don't say, "You're probably busy most of the time and have a lot of other friends already, but we could hang out sometime if you want to it. It's okay if you would rather not." For an example, think about a co-worker you'd like to hang out with. Catch them in the break room and say, "We should find something cool to do outside of this place sometime." It's simple, shows your interest, and leaves things open to developing. If you're in a weekly club with someone, say, "You know, we meet up here every week. Let's grab some food after the meeting sometime." Again, it's direct and shows that you are assuming they would be interested.

SUMMARY:
Ask in a casual way. Use a specific common interest as a reason to hang out. Be confident that they will say yes.