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How to cope with separation
Set expectations with your loved one.
If you are going through a temporary separation, you will need to redefine the ways you handle your shared life. You will also need to understand what the other person thinks of the separation.
Options are:
1). If your separation is deliberate, make sure you both agree on what the goal of the separation is. Take the time to sit down with a third party mediator if possible and discuss what you each want out of the separation..
2). Ask yourself what works best for you and how you can alter those expectations. Separate your behaviors from feelings, experiences, and expectations of your family..
3). Before you become that person's employer, reflect on this to be sure you and your loved one are on the same page. Do you feel a sense of pleasure when someone visits you? Or do you feel emotional when they are there? Do you prefer this person to work with you? Determine your contact history and needs..
4). You can then reevaluate your expectations when the separation is over. Focus on your relationship with the other person..
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