Context:So then we talk about why he quit the band because he had said it was because he wanted to be with his family and clearly if he 's divorced that 's not the case . And he tells me it was an excuse because he just was n't into it anymore , blah blah blah .
Question what is the real reason he lied about wanting to be with his family ?
Answer:
He wanted to use that as an excuse so he did n't have to tell the truth .