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Physically or verbally reprimanding your cat is one of the least successful ways to correct your cat's bad behavior. In fact, hitting your cat or yelling at him can lead your cat to act more fearful around you, be less willing to play with other people, and display more aggressive scratching and biting. Your cat will likely continue to act out when you are out of sight as he knows he can perform the behavior without punishment if you cannot see him. Physical or verbal punishment is generally ineffective, as short-term solutions to your cat's issues and will not stop your cat from acting out. Instead, it will create a more stressful environment for you and for your cat. Though it can be hard not to yell or hit your cat when they do something bad, like urine mark your furniture or go to the bathroom on the carpet instead of the litter box, it's important that you take a deep breath as an owner and try to use a more effective correcting technique. Instead of punishing your cat, rather offer them a more preferable alternative to the object of their bad behaviour: If your cat scratches your favourite couch or the side of your bed, it is probably because these items smell strongly like their favourite owner, and they are trying to mix their scent with yours. Deter this by placing a scratching post next to the area that they like to scratch. Scratching posts should be placed in 'social' areas in your house, where you spend a lot of your time. If they need some further encouragement, sprinkle some catnip onto the scratching post. Cats need at least one litter box per cat in the household. Litter boxes must be regularly cleaned. Failure to do so will result in cats going to the bathroom outside of the litter box, or fighting with one another due to increased tensions surrounding privacy - in a similar manner to siblings or couples who fight over bathroom time! DO NOT de-claw your cat. This is cruel, unnatural and will lead to a lifetime of pain and paw sensitivity for them. Instead, you can put sticky paper, aluminum foil, or heavy plastic carpet runners on areas that you would like your cat to avoid. This may be unsightly, but cats generally dislike walking on any of these textures. DO NOT attempt to deter a cat with smells, such as placing cloth or cotton balls soaked in citronella, perfume, air freshener, citrus, aloe, eucalyptus oil, and oil of wintergreen on objects or surfaces - this is irresponsible and can be extremely toxic to your cat. If you suspect that your cat has ingested or inhaled such substances, take them to the vet immediately. DO NOT attempt to deter a cat with tastes, such as placing certain foods on surfaces that your cat likes to chew on or scratch. These methods - such as bitter apple, citrus products, hot sauces, cayenne pepper, or aloe gel - can be toxic to your cat if they inhale or ingest it. Sound: Using noises that startle your cat can deter him from doing a behavior or going on a surface. However, loud sounds in close proximity, such as blowing a whistle, can damage their ears. Try to use clickers or a hand clap to startle them just as he is about to do something you consider bad behavior and he will come to associate the behavior with a negative sound. If you notice your cat engaging in rough or aggressive play during a play session, you can try to correct this behavior by withdrawing your attention from them, or giving them a large stuffed toy to take their frustration out on. Sprinkle the toy with some catnip to calm them. Do this by walking to another room and closing the door. Wait until he calms down before you touch him or address him. This will show him that his bad behavior is upsetting during playtime, and discourage him from acting out again.

summary: Avoid physically or verbally punishing your cat. Practice deterrence and positive reinforcement. Ignore your cat when he acts out during a play session.

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People with a magnetic personality may seem like they have a superpower for attracting others, but really they just have a friendly, open personality. You can adopt a magnetic personality by being friendly to others and having an open, positive attitude toward life and other people. Self-reflection is important to understand and evaluate your current attitude. Everyone has bad days, but a positive attitude can elevate your bad mood and influence others to feel good as well. People tend to prefer to interact with polite, well-mannered people. Remembering to say "please" and "thank you" can go a long way. Also, try to be respectful by holding the door open for others and being generous. This is why good parents reinforce manners at a young age. Manners go hand in hand with being a people person. Staying on top of current events is a fertile area for conversation topics. It is also important to stay up to date with the world around you. Incorporate a newspaper or news website into your daily routine. When you don't know something, be honest about it. Say, "I haven't read about that, can you tell me more?" Be open to what they have to say to show them that you're interested in their thoughts. This shows you're a curious, open person. People are inclined to prefer the company of people who are reasonably clean and well-kept. Do this by caring for your hygiene by brushing your teeth, showering, and wearing clean clothes. Influence is a trait of a people person. Everyone knows those who have a negative impact on others. These are the types of people who will cause those they interact with to feel crummy. The inverse of a negative impact is a positive influence. These are the type of people who raise up others and point out the positive traits in those around them. Start with being humble. Humility makes you more approachable and enables you to boost up others. This attracts people to you. Always be yourself but also incorporate these traits: funny, thoughtful, selfless, insightful, and interesting. Constantly look for ways that you can grow and learn as a person. Not only will this help you be your best self, it also makes you a more interesting person. Look for areas where you personally feel like you need to grow. This can be in your social skills, character, your daily attitude, your hobbies, your areas of interest, or a topic that's grabbed your interest. Being a lifetime learner will expand your views about the world around you.
summary: Understand a magnetic personality. Use good manners. Keep up with the news and current events. Be well-groomed and tidy. Reach for becoming influential. Reflect on your attributes.