Most of the time, feelings of neediness or dependence are rooted in fear. Think about how you would feel if the person you're dependent on left. Ask yourself what in particular scares you about that scenario. For instance, if you're emotionally dependent on the person you're dating, you might have an underlying fear of feeling unlovable. Find a time when you won't be interrupted, and sit quietly with yourself for a while. Notice where your mind goes and what kind of urges you experience. You may find some thought patterns or habits you weren't previously aware of. Don't distract yourself by checking your phone or tidying your room when you do this exercise. Devote all your attention to introspection, even if it's uncomfortable. Think about who you really are when you're not trying to please anybody else. Identify your core values, the things you want to achieve, and your idiosyncrasies. Work on building a sense of self that doesn't depend on external validation. If you don't have a strong sense of identity, step out of your comfort zone and explore some new things by yourself. See which activities, people, and ideas resonate with you. If you feel locked in a cycle of emotional dependency and can't manage to break out on your own, don't be afraid to seek help. Talk to a trusted friend or relative, or get help from a counselor or therapist.

Summary: Identify your fear. Spend time alone. Strengthen your sense of identity. Get help breaking the pattern.

Breaking up prematurely will, 99.9% of the time, ruin a relationship. If there's a problem, try to find a way to solve it, and if you can't, you'll either have to deal with it or break up. Common sense, right? Wrong. Breaking up over the phone is a sign of fear to some, and a sign of lying to some. If you're breaking up with someone who really likes you, of course they'll cry or get angry. Save yourself the embarrassment and try not to break up with your boyfriend/girlfriend in a place such as the movie theaters, the beach, a restaurant, etc. This just ruins the mood, and if it's a movie or restaurant, you're the one whose going to have to pay the bill. Definitely. So say your girlfriend/boyfriend crashes your car. Don't get angry and end it just because she/he wrecked your car. If you do, this screams that you don't care about any girl/guy you'll have, and it's extremely hard to get another girl/boy to trust you. This IS COMMON SENSE. Breaking up with someone when they're mad is just screaming "Give me what you got!" They just might end up taking out their anger on you.

Summary: Make sure you're actually ready to break up. Never break up over a text or over the phone. Pick a place where it's okay to make a scene. Don't break up with someone on a date. Don't break up with someone just over a small thing. Don't break up with someone when they're in a bad or mad mood.

Chickpeas thrive in "full sun" conditions, so you should choose an area that receives at least six hours of direct sunlight. Ideally, the soil bed should also have loose, well-drained soil already packed with organic material. You can grow chickpeas in partial shade, but doing so will dramatically decrease the eventual yield. Do not plant chickpeas in areas where green manures have grown or in soils that have a high nitrogen content. Nitrogen will cause the leaves to get large and bushy, but the overall yield of the plant will end up decreasing if nitrogen levels are too high. Avoid heavy clay soils or areas that are especially shady. To improve the condition of the soil and ready it for your plants, chop in a few handfuls of aged compost a day to a week before transplanting. Also consider mixing in a fertilizer rich in potassium and phosphorus to encourage a higher yield. If the soil is too heavy, mix in agricultural sand, fine gravel, or a soil perfecter to make it less dense and to improve drainage. Avoid mixing in mosses, since these tend to trap too much water. Chickpea seedlings are considered "frost tolerant," but they still thrive best when transplanted outdoors after the threat of frost passes. The seedlings should also be about 4 to 5 inches (10 to 12.7 cm) tall at the time of transplant. The plants will grow best when daytime temperatures range between 70 and 80 degrees Fahrenheit (21 and 27 degrees Celsius) and when night temperature stay above 65 degrees Fahrenheit (18 degrees Celsius). Space the seedlings 5 to 6 inches (12.7 to 15.25 cm) apart. The holes you dig should be as deep as the seedling pots. As they grow, the plants will start crowding into each other. A little crowding can actually be a good thing, though, since the plants help support each other as they cross into each other. If planting the chickpeas in rows, space the rows 18 to 24 inches (46 to 61 cm) apart. As noted, each hole you dig should be big enough to fit the entire seedling pot. Place the seedling pot in the hole and lightly cover the edges with additional soil. Do not attempt to remove the seedlings from their pots. Doing so can shock the delicate root system and cause the plants to die.

Summary: Choose the right location. Prepare the soil. Transplant after the frost passes. Keep the seedlings close. Bury the entire seedling pot.

Being present will lead to greater authenticity because you'll be able to fully focus on the experiences, conversations, and interactions you're having in the present moment. The people you're engaging with will be able to tell you're engaged and present, and will perceive this as a sign of personal authenticity. On the other hand, inauthentic people are inclined to let their minds wander during interpersonal interactions. In interpersonal settings, this behavior can be perceived as insincere or rude. Intuition is the inner voice or gut reaction which helps you make decisions and informs your behavior. In terms of ethical decisions, your personal intuition can also form a "moral compass" to help guide you in making personal decisions. Following your intuition will help you make consistent decisions and act in a stable way, rather than making decisions based on what you perceive to be popular opinion or social expectation. your thoughts and feelings. Talk about your opinion when it matters to you. Authentic people are comfortable speaking their mind and communicating when they have a problem or are appreciative of something. If you feel inhibited to speak your mind, or realize that you frequently only say what you think those around you expect to hear, you're likely behaving in-authentically. For example, express gratitude to those around you. Try saying something like, "Mom and Dad, I wanted to say thank you for helping me with my car payments last month. I know money is tight, but the extra cash made a big difference for me." Genuine people accept that they aren't perfect and ask for help when needed. Authenticity is not the same thing as perfection. Asking those around you for help is a sign of humility and authenticity, and shows that you respect the skills and talents of the people in your life. For example, if you've been struggling with your mental health and a friend is a professional counselor, ask them if they can recommend an associate who you can contact for counseling or therapy. Or, if you have persistent car trouble, reach out to your co-worker who moonlights as an auto mechanic. Share personal information about yourself and be open about your flaws as you start to trust others. Don't reveal everything if you don't need to. If you keep your true self hidden, you'll find it hard to build an authentic relationship.
Summary: Be fully present in whatever circumstances you find yourself. Trust your intuition when it comes to behavior and relationships. Express Ask people for help when you need it. Be vulnerable.