Problem: Article: Make it a point to talk to your parents every day. There is no specific topic that you have to focus on; just mundane trivial things are fine. Tell them about something funny that happened in school or about how you did on your history test. Try to make the conversations fun and enjoyable. Creating this bond now will make it much easier to approach them about more serious topics later on. It's never too late to start working on this bond. Even if you and your parents have struggled in the past, you can start talking to them now. Your parents want to know more about what is going on in your life. This is an opportunity for both you and your parents to enjoy one another's company. Try to approach your parent when she is not busy doing something else. Ask to tag along with mom and dad when they are going on an errand or maybe suggest going for a walk. These are great times to talk. A good way to get the conversation started is by saying, "Mom, is this a good time to talk?" or "Dad, can we talk?" It's important to know exactly what it is that you want to achieve from this conversation. Keep in mind that you'll probably want one of four things from your parents: Permission or support to do something; advice or help with an issue; to be heard or understood without receiving advice or any feedback; or for them to lovingly guide you back on the right path if you've gotten yourself into trouble. Be sure to communicate what you need from your parents at the very beginning of the conversation. You could say something like, "Mom, I want to tell you what is bothering me. I'm not necessarily seeking advice; I'd just like to talk about what is troubling me". Or you could say, "Dad, I'd really like permission to go on a trip with a friend to the mountains next weekend. Can I tell you about it?" Bringing up difficult topics can be stressful so it's okay to write down points that you don't want to forget. You can refer to your notes during the conversation. Sometimes difficult topics produce strong emotions that might prevent you from wanting to talk to your parents. You may be scared or embarrassed to have the discussion. However, don't let that stop you from having the conversation. Instead, tell your parents what your feeling as a part of the conversation. For example, you could say, "I want to talk to you about something that is going on but I'm afraid that you'll be angry with me." Similarly you could say, "I'm scared to talk about this because it's kind of embarrassing." If you're afraid that your parents may be critical or very angry, you might say something like, "I have to tell you something that may make you angry or disappoint you. I am very sorry for what I did but I have to tell you about it. Can you hear me out for a few minutes?" You won't always see eye to eye with your parents about every issue. However, it's important to communicate your thoughts in a respectful manner. Here are some strategies to try to keep the conversation respectful: Remain calm and avoid derogatory comments. Instead of saying "You're so unfair" and "I hate you," you could say, "Mom, I disagree and here's why" Don't make it personal. Remind yourself that you are mad at the concept or the decision, not your parent, per se. Use "I" statements instead of "You" statements. For instance, instead of saying, "You don't ever trust me to do anything" you could say "I feel like I'm mature enough to date. I was thinking maybe I could start out by going on group dates." Try to understand the decision from your parents' point of view. When you communicate that you understand them then they may be more likely to try to look at situations from your perspective as well. Your parents generally have your best interest at heart which means that they won't always be able to say yes. They may listen, try to be supportive, and guide you as lovingly as possible. However, it's important to know that you won't always get a yes. During these times, receive the no gracefully. Use a respectful tone and try not to argue or whine. Responding this way takes a lot of maturity; and when they see that you are behaving in a mature manner they may be more inclined to say yes the next time. When you're disappointed, sometimes it's difficult to respond gracefully. It might be a good idea to remover yourself for a while to go blow off some steam. Try going for a walk or jog, cry, hit your pillow, vent to a friend, or do any other constructive activity that will help you blow off some steam. If your parents are unable to sufficiently meet your emotional needs when you need support, then try seeking support and guidance from another trusted adult. A teacher, minister, guidance counselor, or relative may be good options.
Summary: Talk to your parents before difficulties arise. Choose a good time to talk. Know the outcome that you want from the conversation. Tell your parents what you're feeling. Disagree respectfully. Accept the decision.

Problem: Article: It's common for the plant to release water through the drainage holes in its container when it has too much. Placing some sort of liner underneath the container will not only keep water from leaking everywhere, but it will also protect your surface. Opt for drain pans made of plastic or rubber as opposed to clayclay lets water pass through more easily. Herbs like a temperature of about 6570F (1821C) indoors, as well as some indirect sunlight. If the temperature outside drops a bit at night, this is okay for most plants as long as it warms back up in the morning. Place the herbs in a south-facing window, if possible. Basil is one exceptionit doesn't like cool weather and will start drooping if the temperature drops. Keep the leaves from touching the glass window to prevent it from getting too hot or too cold. If the herbs aren't able to get 6 hours of natural sunlight a day, purchase clamp-on reflector lights with fluorescent bulbs. You can set these lights 46 inches (1015cm) above the plants to provide sufficient lighting. These lights can be kept on for up to 12 hours a day, depending on the plant's needs. Most herbs don't need constant watering. Check to see if the plant is dry, and if so, water the soil directly instead of pouring water all over the leaves and stem. You can check to see if the herb has dried out by sticking your finger down into the soil near the roots. If this underground section feels dry, it's time to water the plant. Don't leave standing water in the drain panthis can cause rot. Herbs like fertilizers such as fish emulsion or liquid seaweed. When you're picking out a fertilizer, avoid ones that promote blooms to keep the energy focused on creating new leaves. Read the instructions on the fertilizer to determine how much to use on the herbs, as well as how often. Most fertilizers are applied every couple of weeks. Trimming your herbs frequently will cause new leaves to form, expanding your plant. Start from the top of the plant, cutting right below where a leaf meets the stem. You can also use your fingers to pinch off the leaves, as desired. Never cut off more than one third of the plant. Use sharp, clean scissors or cutting shears.
Summary:
Use a saucer or drain pan to catch excess water. Keep the herbs in a warm, sunny environment. Set up artificial light sources to help the herbs grow. Wait for the herbs to dry out before watering them. Apply a liquid fertilizer to keep the herbs healthy. Cut the herbs to encourage growth.