Multi-select problem: How does the next paragraph end?

How to fix broken trust
Decide when to apologize.
Depending on what you've done wrong, you may be tempted to delay apologizing, apologize too soon, or apologize too much. Apologies that are not delayed tend to ease tension in the relationship and help with further conversation.

Options are:
(1). Recognize that you are probably partly partly responsible for what you did. If you can, try to answer any mistakes that a trusted person makes as a result of going behind your back.;
(2). You may also consider apologizing according to your plan of action. You may tell your boyfriend that you hope that he'll allow you to have your mind set off before you start apologizing to him, or that you wish you had explained why you lied.;
(3). Apologies for more significant events, like infidelity, are best when the person has had some time to fully process the event. If you are a woman, keep in mind the tendency in our culture for women to apologize too frequently.;
(4). But many can't change trust issues completely. Some couples do have a hard time making a sound decision together and respecting our boundaries.;
(3).