Q: It should be in between the two cups of the bra. Generally clasps are plastic or metal pieces where one side fits down into the other side. When the clasp is flattened, it snaps in place and locks together.
A: Locate the clasp.

Q: If you have some close friends who are always hanging around you two, then you may be able to ask them if they think he really likes you. You may be too blinded by Cupid's arrow to be able to see the situation clearly, but one of your friends may have more insight. Ask a friend you trust who already knows the situation well. If she's seen you hang out a bunch of times, she should have an opinion. Ask a friend to study the two of you next time you're together and to report back. Just make sure the friend isn't being too obvious. Pick a friend whose opinion and judgment you value. Pick someone with good social sense to get the best answer. Tell your friends to be honest. If they really don't think he likes you, or even know that he likes someone else, then you should benefit from the truth. This is a very dangerous step. There are few boys who would break "bro code" and not run and report your question back to your crush. But if you don't know who else to ask or if you really trust one of his friends, then casually ask how he feels about you. Though this is a riskier step, his friends will have a better answer than your friends, since they have first-hand information from your guy. Ask his friend if he likes you could also just be a sneaky way to let him know how you feel. If you're too scared to tell him yourself, this information will get back to him ASAP if you tell the wrong person. Once you're feeling fairly confident that the guy likes you and are tired of waiting around and reading the signs, it may be time to just tell him how you feel and ask if he feels the same way. He could be really shy and may be relieved that you're taking the initiative. Here's how to ask him if he really likes you: Find some time to be alone with him. Make sure you don't ask him when his friends are looking over your shoulder. Be honest and open. Just say you have a crush on him and want to know if he shares your feelings. Before he responds, let him know that it's no big deal if he doesn't like you. You should only do this if you're pretty sure that he likes you. If he has exhibited multiple signs of liking you, then be bold and ask him. If he has shown no signs of liking you, then it may be time to wait to see what happens.
A: Ask your friends what they think. If you're feeling bold, ask his friends. Ask him yourself.

Q: You weren't put on this planet to gain approval. You are unique and valuable just the way you are. If you want to become more social, do it because you want to, and not because anyone else thinks you should. For example, when you want advice, look to the best person who can tell you what you should do, and that person is you. You know yourself better than anyone else and understand what you are comfortable with. When you learn to start trusting your own advice, you'll likely find that you won't feel the need to ask others anymore. When you begrudgingly try to behave in a manner that is out of your comfort zone, you're likely going to regret what happens. You may end up engaging in something that is against your values. Instead of enjoying yourself and growing from the experience, you may be disappointed in yourself. If your friends try to pressure you into doing something you're not comfortable with, simply tell them "no." For instance, you could say "I appreciate that you want me to have fun, but this isn't something I enjoy. I'm going to pass on this and I need you to accept and understand that." If they won't stop pressing the issue, remove yourself from the situation. If you're experimenting with new activities, or if you're unsure if something is in line with your values, take the time to reflect on how you feel afterwards. Check in with yourself you might find you enjoyed something unexpectedly, or you may decide that particular activity is not for you. If you're trying to figure out who you are, try journaling, which can help you get to know yourself and your values, which will help you make decisions in the future. Introverts may not be good at spending long amounts of time at busy parties, but they are excellent at many other things. Instead of focusing on what you don't think you're good at, or what makes you feel uncomfortable, take time to embrace what you excel at. For instance, introverts are usually excellent listeners and are pros at sympathizing with others. They are also typically self-sufficient, highly focused, and have the ability to create meaningful and deep relationships. Being around lots of people can make an introvert feel depleted. You may need to use alone time to recharge. When you're feeling tapped out, take some time for yourself so that you can be the best person you can. If you have to cancel an outing with your friends because you just aren't up to it, be honest. Tell them, "I'm sorry I can't join you today, but I'm feeling drained and need to spend time recharging. I would love to hang out with you another day." If they don't understand, there's nothing you can do. Doing something you don't feel comfortable with will only cause problems for you, and it's just not worth it. It may be helpful to look at your schedule and set aside designated "alone time" each day or week. Try to plan these so that they follow activities you expect to be draining, such as after a party.
A: Realize the only acceptance you need is from yourself. Avoid trying to be someone you're not. Focus on what you love about yourself. Take breaks when you need to, and don't apologize for it.

Q: There are pros and cons to both. There are lots of dogs in shelters that need homes. These dogs can be great companions but they are less likely to be pure bred dogs. One perk of getting a puppy from a breeder is that you get to mold it into a mature adult. If you are committed to thoroughly training a dog, a puppy may be ideal. Never, ever buy a puppy from a puppy mill. A cardinal signs of a puppy mill is the breeder makes an excuse as to why the mother dog is not available to view. This is because in reality the mother dogs is probably hundreds of miles away, waiting to be bred to produce yet more puppies. In the meantime her litter are taken away far too young and transported large distances to places for sale. This trade is unethical and immoral, and should not be encouraged by buying these puppies and creating a demand. A good breeder will make sure to socialize his or her dogs in order to guarantee they grow into confident well-adjusted adult dogs. This is especially important for the Doberman, who can be prone to anxiety or territorial behavior. Proper socialization as a puppy helps make the youngster accepting of strangers, rather than suspicious of them. This makes it less anxious and therefore better adjusted to life with people. The breeder should make efforts for as many different people as possible to meet the puppies from around 3 - 4 weeks of age, so the young dogs are used to people of different heights, appearances, and tones of voice. The puppies should not be exclusively reared in a kennel as this isolates them from the normal sights, sounds, and activities of a domestic house, and they will find it more difficult to adjust to family life. The Doberman is prone to a number of genetic health problems, some of which the parents can be tested for and some not. For example, Dobermans are prone to hip dysplasia and Von Willebrand's disease. Responsible breeders will screen the parent dogs for hip dysplasia and have certification to show what their score is (the lower the better.) A low hip score is no guarantee the puppies won't have poor hip anatomy, but it reduces the risk of this happening. There is also a blood test for Von Willebrand's disease, so ideally it would be good to know the parents are negative.
A:
Decide between adopting an adult dog from a shelter or buying a puppy from a breeder. Choose your breeder carefully. Be aware how important socialization is. Check the family history of a dog you are considering adopting.