Q: The wick should remain centered and vertical to ensure it burns correctly. The wax pool should be free of any wick trimmings, matches, or other combustible debris. With your index finger and thumb, hold the lit match to the wick of the candle. The wick should ignite in a few seconds of touching the flame. Try tilting the candle slightly to one side to make more room for your fingers and/or the match. If you are having trouble lighting the wick, try holding the candle with your longest two fingers (index and middle finger). Longer matches and extended-length barbecue lighters also work well to light tricky candles. If you are unable to reach the wick with a standard match or lighter, use a piece of spaghetti. Light one end, and use this as your match. Because the spaghetti is easily extinguished and does not burn for long, it can act as a replacement for the lighter or match. Never move or touch the candle once the flame is ignited or when the wax is liquefied. The candle holder will become very hot. A a good rule of thumb is to extinguish the candle when 2in (51mm) of wax is left or .5in (13mm) of wax remains in the container. This ensures the wick stays vertical and the burn is consistently under control. Put out the candle if the flame becomes too high or flickers repeatedly.
A: Trim your candle's wick to about .25in (6.4mm). Use a match or lighter to light the candle wick. Keep your candle stationary. Put out the candle when candle burns through.

Q: Remember: you are at your best when you are yourself. If a woman truly loves you, she will love you for who you are. When we act like someone we are not, sooner or later we're not able to keep it up. Even if she would have loved you for who you really are, if she finds out you were faking she will feel lied to and may not love you anymore. Being yourself also helps you maintain your own happiness! You probably know that you should respect her in order to win her heart (if you didn't, now you know!), but remember that it's also important to respect other people too. She'll always worry if she sees you treating others poorly that you'll treat her just as badly if she does something that makes you unhappy or does something else "wrong". Respect her and others by allowing them to speak and be heard, acknowledging their opinions, never belittling them or treating them as anything other than your equal, never lie to them, and never saying cruel things about or to them. Basically, be nice and polite! You should be passionate in your relationship, but you should also be passionate in your life. Being around someone passionate helps us to be more passionate and engaged in our own life, so we are naturally drawn to people like this and want them in our life more. Be passionate in your life by exploring and celebrating the things that make you happy and unique, without worrying about what others think. Similarly to how we look for passionate people in our lives, we also like being with someone who makes our life more fun. If you can bring the fun into her life by finding great things to do and new avenues to explore, then she'll be completely in love. Women have it a bit harder in life than guys. Most social systems put women at a disadvantage (they make less money than men, for example), and so they need a life partner that can help them in life, not make things even harder. If you want to win her heart, show her you're not going to be a burden. Have a strong work ethic, help her out when you can, and show her that you value her over other women. One good way to show her that she is your number one priority is to not be bashful about letting people know that she's with you and that you love her! Another way to show her that she is your priority is to make sure that you actually spend time with her! Don't make her feel guilty about taking up your time and show her how much fun you're having while you're with her. Be financially stable and maintain a job. It doesn't have to be a good one. Women will overlook a bad paycheck if they know they can rely on you and don't have to worry about what you do with that paycheck. Show her that you care. Man up and let your feelings show. Society tells men that they cannot show feeling and women are trained to think that showing feeling just scares men away so no one ever shows any feeling and we all feel terrible! Break the cycle! Let her know what you think and don't be afraid to show her how much you love her. Do nice things for her. Listen to her when she needs to talk about her problems. Work together as a team to deal with life's challenges. Encourage and help her achieve her dreams. Be unselfish in your relationship with her and showing her that you care will become a breeze.
A: Be you. Respect her and everyone else. Be passionate. Bring the fun! Prioritize like a pro. Care for her.

Q: Pick a colorful bomber jacket, a classic denim coat, an edgy leather jacket, or a polished wool coat. Most schools don't regulate what kind of coats students can wear outside of school, so use this freedom to show your personal style and add some edge to your uniform. Remember that if you get cold during class, you might not be able to wear your jacket if it doesn't fit the dress code. Keep an acceptable sweater or cardigan in your locker in case you do feel cold and need to cover up. Most uniforms require that your shoes are a specific color, but don't specify a style or material. Pick a pair of oxfords, flats, or even high-top canvas sneakers in that color. Decide if you want them to be patent leather, suede, or other type of material or pattern to show off your fashion knowledge. Make sure your shoes are comfortable and you're able to walk in them. Your school might restrict the type of shoe you can wear. Some schools don't allow heels of any type, so check the dress code before you buy! Choose a pair of socks in a color that compliments your uniform. For a uniform that has prints, choose a solid-colored pair to keep the uniform from looking busy. If your uniform doesn't have patterns, feel free to pick a pair of socks with a fun pattern or print. If you're having trouble matching a color to your uniform, pick a pair that include your school colors to make the look purposeful. For girls, you might be able to get away with wearing socks that have lace or crochet trim around the ankle. Most school dress codes allow students to wear either ties, bow ties, or "cross" ties. To make your outfit stand out, wear a patterned or solid-colored bow tie. If there's a special occasion coming up, like Christmas, St. Patrick's Day, or Halloween, try to pick a themed bow tie with a fun pattern or print. Be sure to check your school dress code to make sure bow ties are allowed. If it doesn't say that they're forbidden, you can normally wear one since they're considered more formal than a regular tie. This is a great way to add a pop of color to an otherwise dull uniform. Pick a color that complements your polo or blouse, and leave the top button undone if you're allowed to. Make sure the lace is visible, but isn't so revealing that your chest is showing. Some strict schools may require that you have the shirt completely buttoned. Check your school handbook to see if you're allowed to try this look. If you get told that you're out of uniform, you can simply button the top button to cover up the cami. If you don't have to wear a blazer or sweater, unbutton the cuffs of your shirt, and fold the sleeve in half so the cuff is at your elbow. Then, fold the sleeve in half again to cover the cuff with the sleeve of your shirt at the elbow. This will give a more carefree, rebel-looking style. Keep in mind that some schools won't allow you to fold your sleeves like this. If your school doesn't allow fully rolled, try half-rolling the sleeves up to your mid-arm.
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Wear a statement jacket on your way to and from school when it's cold. Get a pair of fun shoes if you don't have to wear a specific pair. Put on a pair of socks in a fun color to show your style. Opt for a bow tie instead of a regular tie. Layer a lace camisole under your shirt and let it peek over the collar. Roll up the sleeves of a guy's uniform for a more laid back look.