Problem: He was stressed out enough without me adding to it . But then these last few days i just have n't been able to carry on and it all came out . The talk has been good and it 's ongoing between us .

What is likely to happen after we talk .

A: We will have a better understanding of each other 's feelings .

Problem: What he got back was a letter saying the check they sent in was for the incorrect amount . Which means he has to re - send his application and wait again for this receipt of his pending case . However , his current Visa expires before he will hear back about his case ... so he has to leave .

Where might he return to after this event ?

A: He might return to his home country .

Problem: His wife is still alive , now aged seventy - nine or eighty , depending on her birthday . After I stopped at that grave for a few minutes , I crossed the lane to another lawn , one not very dense with graves . I passed one of a 17-year - old kid who died in 2004 , of what I do n't know . I ' m not one to cry , and I did n't cry today , but it was depressing .

What other things might I see while I 'm at this location ?

A:
Flowers left near a headstone .