Ironing on patches is one of the easiest ways to monogram, but you will still need a few special materials and tools to complete your project. You will need: Shoes to monogram. Check the materials listed on the tags of your shoes to ensure that a patch will stick. Polyester and/or cotton work best for iron-on patches. Materials to avoid usually include rayon, nylon, tri-cetate, and waterproof materials. Iron-on patches that will fit on the part of your shoe that you want to monogram, preferably with adhesive backing. You can find patches at a local arts-and-crafts or fabric store or online. Look for iron-on patches for each initial in your name and be sure to buy two patches for each initial: one for each shoe. Iron. Ironing board (optional). Tape (optional). Paper, socks, or other filler (optional). Start with your middle initial if you have one, which will make centering your monogram easier. Peel off the backing to the patch's adhesive side. Center your middle initial in the middle of the target area on your shoe and stick it in place. If you don't have a middle initial, line up the rightmost edge of your first initial with the middle of your target area, or the leftmost edge of your last initial. When you stick the patch on, insert one or more fingers into the shoe behind the patch so it has a strong backing when you press it on. This helps ensure that the adhesive is firmly attached. To ensure that your patch doesn't move out of place (especially if it only has a cloth backing), give it a quick heat-seal treatment with your iron. Set the iron to high heat. Then use the iron's tip to press either the patch's edges or center for a second or two, without using steam. Only use the iron's tip so you have room to hold the patch in place with your fingertip as you press. Since your iron will be directly touching your patch and shoe, keep the contact brief so you don't scorch either one. If you're monogramming the tongue, remove the shoe's laces and free the tongue from the shoe. Then stretch the tongue flat over an ironing board and tape the edges down to keep it in place. If you're monogramming anywhere else, stuff the shoe with paper, socks, or whatever else to keep it firm as you apply light pressure. Repeat the process with each remaining initial for your monogram. Situate each one where it should go. Then secure it to the shoe with a quick press from your iron before moving on to the next. You can then either do the same for your other shoe or finish ironing your first one before moving on to the second. Place a sheet of fabric (or a handy piece of cloth like a towel or pillowcase) over your patches to protect them and your shoe from prolonged contact. Finish heat-sealing the patch to the shoe by pressing it through the fabric without using steam. Refer to the patch's instructions for exactly how long you should press since times may vary, but expect it be around 30 to 45 seconds. If you're monogramming the tongue, flip it over when you're done and do the same to the back side. Pressing both sides helps create a stronger seal. Unfortunately, the design of your shoe probably won't allow you to do this anywhere else. Pressing (pushing straight down) works better than swiping the iron back and forth.

Summary: Get the necessary materials and tools. Situate your first patch. Iron the edges or center briefly. Attach your other patches. Press the patch.

Whisk it up quickly to make sure it is all well mixed and evenly distributed, without chunks. A well is simply a hole in the center of the bowl of flour, which stores the liquids in one place so that you can mix them in gradually. Warm water will help you maneuver the dough, and start to loosen up the flour proteins. Use the hottest water you can get out of the tap for the best results. If you have a stand mixer, like a Kitchen-Aid, use the paddle attachment for 3-4 minutes. Otherwise, use a wooden spoon to fold the ingredients slowly into one another, working towards your well of liquids to slowly incorporate the flour. The dough should be shaggy, but still one consistent piece. If the dough is too dry or hard, and you have trouble mixing, add more water in 1-2 tablespoon increments. If the dough is too wet or soft, add more flour slowly, mixing it all in before adding more. This is to help the kneading process. It also helps incorporate some more olive oil into the dough evenly. You want to really put your weight into the dough, working it into a shiny, consistent ball. To knead, pick up a third of the dough ball and fold it to the top of the dough. Then, use the heel of your hand to press this fold down into the center of the dough. Rotate the ball a quarter turn and repeat, pulling up a different third of dough. About halfway through kneading, flip the dough over and knead from the opposite side. You can leave it overnight if you desire. This lets the glutens developed in the flour relax, which will make the dough much smoother and easier to work with without ripping. Want to work a bit faster? Leave it at room temperature for just one hour.

Summary: Sift the flour and salt into a bowl, stirring to mix. Make a well in the center of the flour, adding the olive oil, vinegar/lemon, and warm water. Stir the mixture as you until it becomes a well-combined dough. Place the dough on a lightly floured countertop and cover your hands in olive oil. Knead the dough for 10-15 minutes until smooth and shiny, adding oil to your hands if it sticks. Place the dough in an oiled bowl, cover with a damp towel, and let it sit for 2 hours.

Since this song opens and closes with the same two lines, these will be the same notes and fingering. Practice this song until you can play it perfectly.

Summary: Finish with the first phrase followed by the second.

Some people tend to nod their head as a sign that they are listening. However, he may interpret this as a sign of agreement, even if you do not agree with what he is saying. Be aware of your body language. If you find yourself nodding, even if you disagree, correct your body language. For example, instead of nodding your head, you can say, "I see what you are saying," or "Ok, that makes sense, but I have a different opinion." Don't misinterpret neutral body language for boredom or inattentiveness. He is most likely processing the information that you are telling him. Once you are finished talking, ask for his input instead. For example, instead of asking him, "Are you even listening?" or "Did you hear me?" say, "Does that make sense? Let me know if I need to clarify anything." While you are talking, you may remember something else that you want to talk about. However, for the sake of the current conversation, save that conversation for a later date. If you bring up another subject, he may lose focus and become distracted. Remember that you must come to some kind of solution or conclusion at the end of the current conversation in order to move forward. Some men may be very talkative and outgoing. Others may be more introverted and quiet. Make sure that you're adapting to the man's unique communication style. If the man is very quiet or terse, try asking more open-ended questions to get him to open up. If the man is very talkative, make sure to listen without interrupting. Offer interesting comments on his stories. Some men may communicate best in a quiet, private space while others will feel very comfortable out in busy, public spaces.
Summary: Nod your head only if you are in agreement with him. Avoid assuming he hasn't heard what you said. Stick to the subject. Adjust your tactics based on the man's communication style.