In the moment, point out the behavior you find inappropriate. It is possible that he does not realize when he's doing it, but mentioning it will help solidify your concerns. Simply say something like, "Do you know that you stare at women? Like right now did you notice you did that?" Because you are likely in public when this happens, it is probably not a good time to go into a lengthy discussion about the behavior, but pointing it out when it happens will give you a reference point for later when you can bring it up and discuss it. It is crucial that he knows how he is making you feel when he checks out another woman. Try framing your discussion in terms of "When you X, I feel Y." Tell him when he looks at women's bodies or makes inappropriate comments, it makes you feel frustrated, jealous, angry, or disrespected. Next, tell your husband what he could do differently in the future. For example, you might say: "When you looked at Janet's breasts today, I felt really embarrassed and disrespected. In the future I would appreciate it if you would try to show more respect for my friends and for me by not staring at them that way." He may try to justify what he is doing as right, normal, or unavoidable, and he may turn the blame around on you. This is not okay. He might, however, have a perfectly reasonable explanation for noticing another woman, such as "Oh, I just noticed her unusual dress," or something similar. When people engage in bad behavior and get called on it, it is common for them to gaslight the person that calls them on it. Gaslighting is when someone makes someone else feel like they are imagining the bad behavior, or like they are crazy or overreacting if they are bothered by bad behavior. It's a way of avoiding taking responsibility for behavior. If this happens, try to disengage from the conversation. Once your husband begins to blame you, it can be hard to turn the conversation around to a productive direction. If it happened one time, it might be best to drop it, but if it is a recurring behavior or if your spouse blames you by saying you are not attractive enough or too jealous, it might be time to consider marriage counseling. Reinforce the fact he is making you uncomfortable. You must really show him he is making you uncomfortable to be sure he knows you are serious and that you consider what he is doing is completely and utterly wrong, and hurtful to you.
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One-sentence summary -- Let your husband know when it happens. Tell him how it makes you feel. Do not accept unreasonable justifications for why your husband does this. Decide if this behavior is worth fighting over.

Q: Counseling isn't a sure-fire fix, but it can help you air and work out problems as well as learn how to communicate more effectively with your partner. Consider couples counseling if your relationship is in trouble. However, even going to counseling on your own can be helpful. Ask your partner to go to counseling with you if you've been having communications or trust issues, if you've grown distant and are just "occupying the same space," or if one of you is acting on negative feelings. Try to find a counselor that you both can work with. This may take several tries. Ask potential counselors questions about their credentials, experience, and fitness to help you, and success rate. Think of a counselor as a consultant rather than a fixer. A counselor will advise you, but the most important work will occur outside of your sessions. Consider finding a counselor or therapist even if your partner refuses to attend. To fight for a relationship, you'll need to face problems head-on and not just paper them over, allowing them to fester. With a counselor or not, be ready to talk deeply about the issues in your relationship. This isn't easy. It means revisiting old hurts, talking about resentments, and expressing disappointment. Be ready to listen to your partner. The key to moving forward is to attend and understand past hurt with empathy. Be willing to express your own frustrations. But always do so tactfully. Resist the urge to blame or justify behaviors in the past and instead look to understand the underlying motives you may see that these were not as malicious as you thought. Recall what drew you together. There was a reason you and your partner ended up together in the first place. Try to reflect together on why you loved each other and whether it's possible to regain that spark. Putting your feelings out in the open will help you to understand motivations and needs, so learning how to talk and even disagree is critical. It can help you and your partner reassess assumptions about one another as well as to state your needs, clearly and openly. If you are having counseling, make sure to talk about effective communication with your counselor. Follow the rules of effective communication and "fighting fair." For example, try to avoid accusatory language start sentences with "I think..." or "I feel..." rather than saying things like "You always..." or "You never..." Avoid generalizations, as well. Be specific and stick to the facts and your feelings. Talk about what you need from your partner, not what you think they are failing to give you, i.e., "I need but don't feel your support for my career as a businesswoman." Or, try "I feel ignored, because I want and need more public affection from you" instead of "You ignore me because you never show affection in public." Invite the other person's point of view. Don't interrupt, but listen and then try to restate what you've heard.
A: Seek counseling together or as an individual. Be ready to explore your past history. Learn to express your feelings constructively.

Article: Deadheading means trimming off blooms when they first begin to fade. For rosette salvia, the flowers will usually fade towards the middle of the summer and begin dropping seeds. Plan on removing any flowers as soon as they begin turning to a dull green or brown color. Trimming the flowers causes the salvia to bloom a second time. Normal salvia blooms are colorful, so you can easily see when bright blue or violet flowers begin fading. Examine the highest pair of leaves on the salvia stems. You should see 2 small buds emerging for the leaves. Using a sharp pair of shears, trim the stem right above the leaves and buds. These buds branch off into secondary flower spikes. Rosette-type salvia plants grow stems out of a circle of leaves close to the ground. Tall flower spikes form on these stems. Rosette salvia plants include Woodland Sage, Caradonna, and May Night Sage. The second round of buds will fade by the end of fall. Prepare the salvia for winter by locating the basal foliage, which is the circular cluster of leaves on the ground. The salvia's flower stalks grow out of it. Snip all of the remaining stems right above these leaves. After trimming the stalks, only the leaves and possibly a small amount of stalk should remain. Be sure to take out any dead plant material you notice, since it can prevent light from reaching the bottom of the plant. Rosette salvia plants are hardy, but pruning can leave them exposed to cold temperatures. You can protect them by spreading an organic compost, followed by an organic mulch like pine bark. Spread these products as far as the pruned salvia reaches, but avoid letting it touch the plant's stem. You can also cover the plant with fleece or leaf-filled garbage bags and a tarp. Weigh these items down to keep them in place. The first frost happens around fall when the temperatures drop below 32F (0C).
Question: What is a summary of what this article is about?
Deadhead the flowers when they fade in summer. Cut the stems down to the new buds. Cut the stems to the ground in fall. Insulate the plant if winter temperatures drop below 20F (7C).