Question: And yet she is the last person one would accuse of stooping to eavesdrop!
She has always been this odd, secretive person.

Answer: no

Question: It attracted Tommy mightily.
It was beautiful and it drew Tommy in like a moth to a flame.

Answer: it is not possible to tell

Question: Don't you think she's entitled to have a lawyer to get a temporary restraining order from this guy?
Restraining orders do not serve any purpose.

Answer:
no