INPUT ARTICLE: Article: If your parents say no at first, it is not the end of the world. Instead of becoming angry or frustrated, figure out the reasons for why they decided no. Then, ask them what you can do to make it a yes. For example, "How can I change your decision?" or, "What do I need to do to change your mind?" If your parents are undecided, offer to make a compromise. Perhaps your parents are worried that you won't have time for your schoolwork if you have a job. Or, maybe they are worried about your general safety. Instead of arguing with them, negotiate with them. If they are worried about school, tell them, "If my grades start to drop, I will quit dog walking." If they are worried about your safety, tell them, "I will only walk dogs of owners who you and I know and trust." If they are just generally unhappy with you, tell them, "If you guys allow me to dog walk, I will take more responsibility around the house. I know you want me to be more responsible and mature, but so do I. How can I show you that?" Remember to remain calm if your parents decide on a definitive no. Do not get angry and start yelling, whining, or crying. This will only prove their pointthat you are not mature enough to have a job. You want to leave a good impression for the next time you ask them. In the meantime, take more responsibility around the house. Help your parents by doing more chores, taking care of siblings, and by listening and abiding by their rules. If they see an improvement, perhaps they will change their mind about their decision.

SUMMARY: Figure out why they said no. Make a compromise. Remain calm.

In one sentence, describe what the following article is about: If secure information that only a small number of trusted individuals should know suddenly gets out, there might be some chance that the leak came about as a result of a phone tap, particularly if you have discussed the information over the phone at some point. This is of particular significance if you are in a position that makes you a valuable person to spy on. For instance, if you have a high-level position in a powerful company with many competitors, you might be in danger of falling victim to the underground information industry. On the other hand, your reasons for being tapped could also be as simple as going through a messy divorce. Your soon-to-be-ex-spouse might wiretap you if he or she wants to dig up information that could be useful during the divorce proceedings. If you want to test this out, you can do so by confiding a fake piece of information that seems important to someone you know you can trust not to tell. If that piece of information gets out, you know that someone else was listening in. If your home was recently robbed or broken into but nothing of value was taken, that alone should suggest to you that something is odd. Sometimes this can suggest that someone broke into your home for the sake of putting a wiretap on your phone.
Summary: Be concerned when your secrets get out. Stay alert if you have suffered a recent burglary.

Take the coconut milk out of the fridge and open it without shaking it up. Use a spoon to scoop the thick, fatty layer from the top of the can, and transfer it into a mixing bowl. Discard the coconut water or save it for another recipe. You must use full-fat coconut milk. You must chill the coconut milk overnight in the fridge. Add the remaining ingredients into the bowl with the coconut cream in it. Use a whisk to mix everything together for about 2 minutes, or until the sugar dissolves. Pour the mixture into a shallow container that's safe to go into the freezer. Great examples include metal loaf pans and Tupperware containers. The ice cream will be frozen in this container, so make sure that it is convenient to use and store. Place the entire container into the freezer. Every 30 minutes, give the mixture a stir with a whisk. After about 3 to 4 hours of doing this, the ice cream should be ready. You can try freezing the ice cream in an ice cream maker instead. Follow the manufacturer's instructions. The ice cream may be very hard when you take it out of the freezer. Let it sit on the counter for about 5 minutes before scooping it.
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One-sentence summary -- Open the coconut milk and separate the fat from the water. Stir in the almond milk, vanilla extract, sugar, and salt. Transfer the mixture into a freezer-safe container. Freeze the mixture, stirring it every 30 minutes.

Q: When you do get a chance to ask for feedback, the last thing you want to do is show up unprepared. Before asking for feedback and advice, take some time to think about where you need them most. Taking the time to prepare beforehand will show you respect the person's time and willingness to discuss things with you. If you can, consider sending a list of these points by email before meeting with the person. This will let them give your request some thought before you meet, allowing for more effective feedback. Keep your list short. Two or three points should be sufficient. Examples of points you can mention are your performance on specific projects, specific flaws they think might need fixing or your attitude. Avoid asking only very specific or overly vague questions. Ideally, most of your questions should fall somewhere on the spectrum between these two options. Of course, you can have specific requests and more general questions, but you should mix and match the two categories. This will ensure that you receive a complete feedback, which will help you more effectively put it into action. If you're concerned about your performance on a specific project or task, definitely ask about it. You should also ask questions that encourage positive feedback, such as "What are some things I'm doing well?" Whether the answers you're getting are too vague or you're just not exactly understanding what you're being told, you shouldn't let the matter lie. Don't hesitate to ask them to clarify their point. Ask for examples. For instance, if you're told that your time management skills could use work, ask for an example of a situation that better time management could have improved. Do so politely, otherwise, you might not get the feedback you want.
A: Prepare a list of specific points that need feedback. Vary your questions. Go after specific information.

INPUT ARTICLE: Article: Give them appropriate verbal and physical support. Be loving and let them cry on you if they want to. First, make sure your friend is okay with physical contact! For example, you might say, "Is it okay if I give you a hug?" or "Is it all right if I hold you?". Physical contact can be very comforting, but ask your friend if they are okay with hugging, cuddling, or any other type of touching before you do it. Contact can make people feel better, but if they don't want it, don't do it. Sometimes just sitting quietly, whether it is in prayer or meditation or not, can help calm people and provide some comfort. Doing something active and physical can help your friend release negative physical energy. This can help calm your friend down or distract them from the situation for a moment. For example, take a brief walk, jog, go for a swim, or bike ride. Do yoga, tai chi, or some simple stretching. Sometimes, the only thing you can do is try to keep your friend from thinking about what is bothering them. Offer, or just take them, to do something that they like. Go for ice cream or a movie. Get them involved in a project, for example, sorting clothes to donate or gardening. Find something humorous like a funny meme, video clip, etc. to try to lighten your friend's mood a bit.

SUMMARY:
Don't be afraid to console them. Pray or meditate. Release some physical energy. Distract your friend.