IN: With tears in my eyes I put him on a plane to Oregon . At that time he promised me that I would have a chance to be what I desired most , his girlfriend and potentially his wife . I never got my chance . The day he got up to Oregon he hooked up with his girlfriend and I was pushed down to the level I am now .
Why did the speaker cry when the man boarded the plane and left for Oregon ?

OUT: She did n't want him to go and felt torn apart between sadness and hope for the future , hence the tears

IN: This is simply the bleak reality for parents of young children without live - in nannies . Second is the need for comfort . I come from a family of tea grannies , and ever since I was a child , tea represented the immediate , if temporary , solution for almost all problems .
Why may parents need nannies to raise children ?

OUT: It can be difficult to get tasks done without a nanny .

IN: It can take a while , I just have to deal until it evens out . When I was younger it was disabling to have a period . Thanks to the pill it 's a minor annoyance . Weight gain sucks but it happens sometimes when you do things to your hormones .
Why have they started to gain weight ?

OUT:
It is a side effect of their birth control pills .