If you're unsure how to initiate physical contact, try offering a massage. Massaging a man's scalp, back, shoulders, or feet can get him in the mood. It also sends the message that you're ready to get more physical. Men have erogenous zones at various parts of their bodies. These are areas that respond sexually when touched, kissed, licked, etc. The earlobes and neck are areas of the body that, for both men and women, tend to respond sexually to being touched, licked, kissed, bit, and other forms of sexual play. Try focusing on these areas when you first start making out. The scalp is also a highly sexually charged area for men. Try offering a scalp massage and see if this gets him in the mood. Every guy is different. If you have had sex or performed other sexual activities before, a slight pinch or caress to his crotch can definitely get him in the mood. Don't grope at him, this can be uncomfortable, and definitely don't do this if you've never been intimate with this guy before. Men respond well to visual stimuli. Try wearing lingerie. This can help get a man in the mood. Once again, pick something you feel most confident in. If you don't feel sexy, you won't come off that way. If you feel uncomfortable shopping for lingerie alone, take a friend with you. You can also purchase items online but the downside is you cannot try items on beforehand. If you purchase something online, make sure there is a return option. Many lingerie stores have highly helpful staff who are trained to help people pick items out. While it may feel awkward, asking a staff member for help can be a great way to assure you pick something flattering that makes you feel confident. Understanding colors that suit your skin tone, eye color and hair color can definitely help make you look more sexy and provocative. Psychologically, men can't help being attracted to women who wear red, so that's definitely a good color to start with if you're not sure, or maybe black. Be confident in your body. Some women are curvier than others. Some women are skinny, others have more body fat. This is nothing to be ashamed of. No guy will be attracted to a girl who's covering up her body while attempting to seduce him, or whose ribs are easily visible because she's starving herself. You'll find that most guys won't care if you've got some fat on you. Some women also think that if they are "flat chested", they are somehow lesser than other women. This is completely not true. Writing this paragraph, I am reminded of when I was fourteen years old with 32D size breasts, which were incredibly painful as I grew up and they got bigger, as well as attracting a lot of unwanted attention at school. Bigger does not mean better. Guys won't care how big your breasts are as long as you show that you are confident with who you are as a person. Women sometimes feel they should hold back sexually as not to scare a man off. However, many men are turned on when their girlfriends or wives take the lead sexually. Do not be afraid to be dominant in the situation. Initiate sexual contact. Try to have the man follow your lead sexually. Many men find this arousing and enjoy sex more with women who display sexual confidence.
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One-sentence summary -- Try a massage. Appeal to his erogenous zones. Wear lingerie. Have sexual confidence.

Article: The people you spend the most time with are a reflection of you. As the old saying goes, "birds of a feather flock together". Examine your social circle to see if the individuals you are around on a daily or weekly basis represent you well. These people should have characteristics and traits that you admire, traits that someday may rub off on you. Resist the urge to surround yourself with people who may be fun or exciting in the moment, but pull you away from reaching your potential. Hans F. Hansen said, "People inspire you or they drain you. Choose them wisely." Exercise this in your life by assessing those closest to you. Think about how you feel with these people. Do they lift you up and motivate you? Do they encourage you to have healthy, positive habits? If you have people around you that are draining or bringing you down, you could be sacrificing reaching your potential by keeping them in your life. Decide if you need to cut off contact with people who are not representative of the life you want to lead. Discover your unique abilities and talents, and be sure to make use of them every day. By doing this, you hone your abilities and make them even better. When you work to your strengths, you give the world the very best of you. Plus, you boost your self-confidence and feel more accomplished. This is not to say it is unimportant to analyze your weaknesses - it is very important to know what areas you could use work. However, knowing and playing to your strengths enables you to realize your dreams and self-actualize. Think about it: you were given these gifts for a reason. Use them! While you are on the journey of self-actualization, remember to take time off to be good to yourself. Pushing yourself further and further can be a good thing, but everyone requires breaks and self-care to jump back in the saddle at 100%. When you are feeling stressed or overwhelmed, turn to a few self-care practices that let you clear your mind and relieve negative energy so that it does not affect the work you are doing on yourself. Self-care consists of any activities you can engage in that promote mental, physical, or emotional well-being. This will look different for different people. It may include taking a bubble bath, writing in a journal, exercising, meditating, praying or virtually any activity you find relaxing. Test out a few activities to see what works best for you and call on them when you're feeling stressed. A daily or weekly ritual might be a great idea to implement to fend off stress before it becomes too much. Maintain a good relationship with yourself. Sometimes, we can get so caught up in life that we neglect ourselves. Regularly get in touch with your inner self and run a diagnostic. Is there something that you need? Do you need a break? Spend time with yourself and frequently reassess where you're headed and if you like where you're going. We are all works in progress, so don't fret when you have to change your plans or regroup. Be a champion for yourself!
Question: What is a summary of what this article is about?
Surround yourself with positive people. Magnify your strengths. Treat yourself. Build self-trust and relax.