Multi-select problem: How does the next paragraph end?

How to be a military girlfriend or boyfriend
Have good communication.
Communication is the key to success in any relationship, but is especially important in military relationships. Be open, honest, and understanding with your partner about all things good and bad in order to keep your connection strong, even when miles apart.

pick from the following. A). Remember that especially during and around deployment, you'll have to step outside yourself, learn to think differently, be confident, and be clear when asking for help. This doesn't mean you're free to tell others about things right away.; B). Unless you're in the military, your partner may occasionally request you tell them about things you'd rather not know. To be a good soldier you should avoid this.; C). Before deployments and any other long separations, be sure to sit down with your partner and have a serious talk about both of your expectations, concerns, and feelings. It's crucial to be on the same page.; D). Being a good partner means being honest about the things that's bothering you. This won't, however, mean valuing disagreements.;
C).