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How to get along with a friend that always wants to fight
Pause and ground yourself.
If you notice a fight coming on or you find yourself reacting to something your friend says, take a moment and find some peace. Take a few deep breaths and remind yourself not to react.
Remember that you may not be in charge of what other people do or say, but you are in charge of your actions and reactions. Use an affirmation such as, " i choose how i respond to other people, and i choose to be peaceful right now.