How to become a better and effective team leader
Adopt an appropriate leadership style.
Leadership styles are not something to be tried on like so many suits, to see which fits. Rather, they should be adapted to the particular demands of a situation, the individual requirements of the people involved, and the specific challenges facing the organization.

For example, when first beginning to work with a new group, it might be a good idea to adopt a more authoritative, proactive style of leadership. As your group becomes more competent and confident working together, perhaps you can relax and take a more laissez-faire attitude.

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are doing somersaults together in a choreography.

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How to love someone
Consider whether the person is worth your love or not.
Love requires a significant emotional investment. While loving someone is not always a matter of choice, it may be worth taking a look at the connection you have with a given person and thinking how loving them might affect you.
While this step may sound like a warning, it's actually a positive step towards loving them. If you struggle with feeling love, justifying it on a logical basis can be a positive step forward.