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How to have a great future
Know that your past does not define your future.
You may have had some downs, some failed grades or poor relationships-this does not mean that you will fail every exam you ever take or have poor relationships for the rest of your life. Acknowledge any role that you may have played in these and also look at other factors that may have been at play.

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- Consider what is happening in your life now and why. Remember that all of the good things you have, including your life, are shaped by a past.
- Decide how you are going to deal with difficult situations. If you have always been bad at meeting new people, this is a great sign of strength by attempting to avoid them.
- Let's say you made a mistake. If that's the case, you likely would not have learned from it.
- The point of this is not to point fingers or lay blame on any one. Understand that you have some control over the quality of your life.
A: The point of this is not to point fingers or lay blame on any one. Understand that you have some control over the quality of your life.

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How to create a vertical garden using living wall planters
Determine where planter will be positioned and mark holes for the mounting bracket, making sure to keep bracket level.
Note: use a level to be sure that the bracket is perfectly horizontal before you attach it. If it is slightly uneven, planter will look crooked and the plants will not get evenly watered.

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- Drill holes in the soil using a drill bit. Two 16-inch (56.4 cm) drill bits work great for this section, but are not necessary.
- Mark planter's sides by the mounting bracket so it stands straight over planter in the center. Choose a planter in a color that appeals to both your living wall and its function in your planter.
- Attach the mounting bracket securely to the wall with the appropriate screws. Note: ensure you use the correct fixing screws for your wall surface.
- Depending on where you live, planter will need to be divided into rows. If you have large or very large plants, planter should be divided into rows that run approximately 12 inches (30 cm) apart.
A: Attach the mounting bracket securely to the wall with the appropriate screws. Note: ensure you use the correct fixing screws for your wall surface.

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How to cope with depression after a break up
Know this will take time.
Especially if the relationship was long-term, this will be a difficult and probably a long process. Expect that, and give yourself as much time as you need to heal/recover.

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- Know that most people in the final days after a breakup will just pull out their phones and log on repeatedly. Regardless of what kind of person they are, these things will not help you move forward.
- Accept that some relationships won't last forever. Maybe you will want to spend the rest of your life with this person, but if you stick with the relationship the couple will eventually move on.
- Take it one step at a time. When you don't have help in your life right now, you won't be able to fully move on, and that's okay.
- Understand the emotions that you are feeling are normal and embrace them. Don't beat yourself up-your feelings or anger/frustration and sadness are natural and normal.
A: Understand the emotions that you are feeling are normal and embrace them. Don't beat yourself up-your feelings or anger/frustration and sadness are natural and normal.

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How to safely reject unwanted advances
Say no firmly.
As long as it feels reasonably safe, say no immediately. Do not smile, apologize, or say maybe.

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- That's not the best way to respond to unwanted advances. They are usually returned just as a reaction and it doesn't feel good either way.
- Refusal, like many of the current advances, is a problem caused by emotional and physical factors. Some people may engage in a relationship purely as a one-sided case, rather than actively stepping up to the challenge.
- If you don't want someone, don't give them anything. Just say something like " no, i'm not interested.
- The advances are inevitable and they are the allure of even a minimal interaction. Talking will not help you come clean-you are merely giving the aggressor the option to invade your private space.
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If you don't want someone, don't give them anything. Just say something like " no, i'm not interested.