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How to get a paternity test when the mother refuses
Talk to the mother of the child.
Let her know your concerns and that you want to establish paternity of the child. Pursue the paternity test, if possible, without having to file a paternity lawsuit and request a dna test.
Remember to remain calm, friendly, and non-threatening. Find out why the mother does not want to submit herself or the child for a paternity test.