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How to make amends with a dying loved one
Make the connection.
Making contact with your loved one is an important part of making amends. Don't wait around for your loved one to reach out or for it to happen naturally.

Choices:
-- Call up your loved one and talk in person. If your loved one lives far away, you can also call her up or take your contact into the care of a funeral home where your loved one can talk with him..
-- When your loved one is ill and dying, make it your first priority to get back into his or her life. Try making a phone call, sending a letter, or stopping by to see your loved one..
-- This would mean that a healthy, happy relationship will end unless you find someone else who can help you revive your loved one. There are many things that you can do to help restore your loved one to being happy: feed it regular meals or keep it away from anyone else..
-- Talk to them one-on-one and, if you don't know them, in person, through phone or e-mail. Ask for ideas, such as : Borrow a friend's ring and hold it over their head..
When your loved one is ill and dying, make it your first priority to get back into his or her life. Try making a phone call, sending a letter, or stopping by to see your loved one.