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There are obvious justifications to their disparity but what keeps them all " the same " is the fact that I know I do n't want these certain types of girls as anything reminiscent of a romantic long term relationship . From the very first meeting I can almost always decide ( and with great accuracy ) that I do n't want much to do with this girl . And THAT is the girl that I will " date " .

What might I mean when I say " date " ?
pick from the following.
a). I might mean i do n't want a long term dating but just a serious friend .;
b). I might mean i do n't want a long term relationship but just casually date;
c). I might mean i do n't want a long term relationship but just a casual friend .;
d). None of the above choices .;
b).