Q: Stop rushing through life and letting your mind get stuck in the past. Instead, take in everything around you, whether it is feats of nature or man-made creations. Make a conscious effort to pay attention to each aspect of your present life. For example, take a walk and look at everything around you. If you are outside, look at the trees, the ground, and all the scenery. Feel the air on your skin. If you are inside, pay attention to the color of the walls, what sounds you hear from others in your area, or how the floor feels under your feet. This will help you stay focused on the present and be mindful of your current surroundings. People often speed through life as they rush from one moment to another. Make yourself slow down and enjoy everything you do, even if it's boring. For example, pay attention to your actions when you get a snack. Grab a handful of grapes and consciously look at them. Notice their shape and size. Eat one and pay attention to the flavors. Enjoy the burst of sweetness on your tongue and the sustenance the fruit is giving you. It's okay not to be thrilled with everything that happens to you every day. If you are doing a project at work that you don't like or have an obligation you don't enjoy, that's okay. Instead of rushing past it, think about what you are doing each day and experience it. One way you can get stuck in the past without knowing it is to get stuck in a routine. Maybe you do the same thing the same way every day or at the same time every week. While routine can be comforting, it can make you feel stuck and forget about the present all together. Instead, change up your routine. Walk a different way to the bus stop or drive a different way to work. Even making subtle changes can help you break out. Change what you eat every day. Incorporate newly learned words into your vocabulary every day. Anything that can make you take notice of what you do on a daily basis will help you live in the now instead of the past or future. If you don't want to or can't change your routine, become more mindful of your actions during your routine. Take note of how the oatmeal you eat every morning tastes or what the trees look like out the window on the way to work. There are points in almost every day where you might have to wait for something. You could be in line at the supermarket or waiting at a red light in your car. During these moments, resist the urge to look at your phone and instead notice things around you. Become mindful of your surroundings instead of wasting time grumbling about how you wish the line was shorter or the light would change. These are great moments to take in simple, small things in your present life. Avoid using your phone to pass the time. Instead, look around you at other people in line or in cars around you. Smile at someone or strike up a conversation with the person behind you in line. Keep trying things until you find the best way for you to stay in the present moment. In order to keep thinking about being present, especially when you first start, you may need a reminder. Tie a string around your wrist, paint one nail a bright pink color, or wear your watch upside down. Let the object serve as a reminder. Every time you see the reminder object, take a few seconds to focus on the sounds, smells, and sights around you. Take stock of how you feel and what you are doing. This will help you stay focused on your current situation and not dwell on the past or future. Instead of mindlessly doing something, take the time to do something well. Let yourself be drawn into a writing assignment for school, a project at work, or your chores around the house. Engross yourself to the point where the thoughts of the past and the future fall away. This is easier if you don't multi-task. Multi-tasking can make you lose track of what you are doing and start thinking about other things, such as finishing the tasks or moving on to a different one. Try doing things slower. This will help you focus your attention on your actions in the present. . One of the best ways to focus on the now is to meditate. The goal of mediation is to push everything else aside, including fears about the past and future, and focus on the exact moment you are meditating. Start by taking deep breaths in and out, focusing on the action. Push everything else out of you head and focus on the sound of your breathing. Eventually, everything else will fade away. Complete mediation takes time and practice. Don't give up if you don't experience that "zen" moment immediately, or even after a few months. Keep practicing and you will eventually begin to reap the (major) benefits of meditation.
A: Become aware of your surroundings. Slow down. Change your routine. Pay attention to calm moments. Leave yourself a reminder. Focus on the task at hand. Meditate

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A: Wear sneakers.

Q: A great way to choose your wedding colors is to take inspiration from the season you are getting married. For example, if you're saying "I do" in the spring, you could look to light pastel colors for inspiration. Seasonal colors combinations to consider include: Dark and deep color tones, or metallic colors like pewter, bronze, copper, silver, or gold for a winter wedding. Light pastels paired with a few deeper shades, like plum or coral for a spring wedding. Bright colors like bold yellows, purples, reds, or blues for a summer wedding. Earth tones like moss green, burgundy, gold, amber, and maroon are excellent for a fall wedding. Look at the colors used in your venue's carpeting, drapery, and decorations. If the venue has strong and bold colors, you may want to select a complementary color scheme. For example, a venue with deep red carpeting and gold finishes may clash with a mint green and grey color scheme. Instead, you could use red and gold in your color scheme to match the venue. If you already have your heart set on a certain color, you may need to select a neutrally decorated site, such as a hall with white or neutral walls, a converted loft space, or a backyard tent. If you have decided on a destination wedding, you could pick colors that reflect the tropical environment. Consider bright floral colors like yellow, pink, purple, blue, and green. Alternatively, if you are getting married at a vineyard, greens, purples, and blues would look beautiful. Consider the natural color hues found within the surrounding environment and use them in your wedding color scheme. Although you can get most flowers during every season, it is more eco-friendly and less costly to select seasonal flowers for your wedding. Get color inspiration from your favorite seasonal flowers. Choose a flower and color that you love and then build your color scheme around that. For example, if sunflowers are your thing, there's no reason why they shouldn't make it into your decor scheme. The color of your bouquet could be used as the dominant color in your decorating scheme or as an accent color to give a bit of pop. The colors you choose can also help to create a certain mood. For example, red is associated with passion and romance, whereas yellow is frequently associated with joy and happiness. Pick colors based on the tone you would like to set for the event. Use dark colors to create a dramatic atmosphere. Alternatively, light colors can be used to create a fun and carefree wedding.
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Pick colors to match the season. Choose a color that will complement the venue. Incorporate colors from the surrounding environment. Select colors based on your favorite seasonal blooms. Consider the mood you are trying to create.