If you or the other person tries to let something go and it continues to eat at either of you, then you likely need to process residual feelings. This may include talking with the person, reiterating your desires to rebuild trust, and assuring her that you will do what ever it takes to make things better. It can be upsetting if someone tells you to, "just let it go" if you haven't reached a level of resolve about the matter. Take a deep breath and say, "I'm working on letting it go, but I'm not there yet." As time passes and progress if made, you may notice the other person holds the issue over your head. She brings up the betrayal in an argument or discussion. Perhaps she isn't over the hurt and still has work to do to forgive you. Calmly bring it up and say, "It sounds like you are not fully ready to forgive me. I think we both have worked really hard to get where we are. What else can I do to help you get to a point where you don't have to bring this up? If more apologies will help, I'm ready to do that. If you think I don't understand the depth of the hurt that I did to you, then help me out and tell me. I'll do whatever it takes because when you bring it up it makes me believe that you're still hurt, and I don't want that." If you refuse to hold a grudge against her for her reactions, it will help you remain open for positive improvements. Remember, you would appreciate the same respect. Celebrating the smallest of improvements will breathe life back into the situation. Everyone benefits from recognition for a job well done. If she begrudges the idea, tell her you are celebrating because you both committed to work together through the journey and that alone deserves a celebration. Whether you have to sever ties for yourself, or if someone severs ties with you, there's no reason why two parties should continue to betray each other. If you continually find yourself in the same cycle of betrayal-forgive-rebuild-betrayal, it is time to stop the madness. Don't waste your time or someone else's. Life is short so surround yourself with people who bring you joy and satisfaction. Trickery and betrayal are not virtues anyone will admire. Accepting the truth can be the first step toward real change. It's up to you to create the fulfilling life that you've always wanted. It is possible. Be self-reliant. Happiness is an inside job and you are responsible to create it. It is easier to face difficult situations if you are filled with good vibes. A happier you will always make any relationship better. You know what makes you happy, so participate in activities that will build a reservoir of positive feelings. For example, if you love the way live music makes you feel then attend concerts at small clubs and large venues. Listen to new music to expand your knowledge. If you love being outdoors, join a hiking group in your local area. Communing with nature is restorative.
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One-sentence summary -- Let go of the past. Do not hold grudges. Acknowledge commitment and improvement. Cut off repeat offenders. Be responsible for your own happiness.

Because of the way mullets tend to congregate in large schools and appear close to the surface of the water, it is probably most common for people to fish them with cast nets. While this is an easier and more efficient method than using a hook and line, mullets are known to have excellent eyesight and can dart away quickly when they see a net being cast. Choose a quality net instead of opting for the cheapest one available so that it will last. When getting a net, check your local fishing regulations for permitted mesh size. In Florida, for example, it is not permitted to use a net for freshwater bait fishing that is greater than 1 inch (2.5cm) stretched mesh. Before you go out there and cast your net into the water, you want to be sure you know how to handle it. The mullet might not hang around to give you a second chance if you get it wrong. A good way to practice is to set up some kind of target in your backyard, such as an old tire or a ball. Stand a few feet away and try to catch the target in the net. Move further away as you get better to test your skills. You need to find a place where mullet gather that you can reach with your net. It's not uncommon the find mullet near sea walls, off piers, inshore from boats, as well as in shady canals and streams. Avoid areas with lots of trees or brush, especially if you are a beginner. If you don't have a good idea of where to look, ask someone in your local fishing shop or club Mullet often travel in big schools and can be quite active in the water, leaping in and out. This means that if there are some nearby they can be quite easy to spot. Look for disturbances in the water, such as patches of bubbles. Be patient and watch for fish breaking the surface of the water. Once you have spotted some mullet within reach, it's time to cast your net. Wrap the end of the rope around your throwing wrist, with the rest of the rope loosely coiled around your arm. Allow the net to droop by your side with the weights at the bottom. With your other hand, take hold of the lead line at the point directly below your right thumb. Now with you right hand take hold of the lead line and hold it out about an arms length from your other hand, which will be in front of your chest. Rotate your body back to the right and swing forward, releasing the net at a slight upward angle towards the fish. Once cast, the net will sink into water, trapping any unfortunate mullet. Keep a slight tension on the rope so you can feel what is going on. The net will descend in the water. After a while you will feel it hit the bottom and the rope you are holding will stop drawing down into the water. Soon after this happens, begin to pull it back in towards you. A sharp tug when you feel it hit the bottom will close the net and trap the fish. Coiling the rope over your arm as you pull it in will help to keep everything tidy avoid the risk of tripping or tying yourself up.
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Get a cast net. Practice casting the net at home. Find a good spot to cast when you're ready to catch fish. Spot the mullet in the water. Cast your net. Retrieve the net.