Place the oil, honey, and sugar in a large bowl. Use a mixer to beat the oil and sweeteners together until well blended. In a separate bowl, toss in the white flour, wheat flour, baking powder, salt and oatmeal. Use a whisk to stir the ingredients together until they're well incorporated. Pour the dry ingredients in with the wet ingredients 1/3 at a time, mixing on low speed until the flour is no longer visible. Pour it into the batter, then use a spoon to gently stir it, taking care not to overmix. If you want, you can refrigerate dough for several hours or overnight. This optional step can give the cookies a thicker consistency. Use a cookie scoop or spoon to scoop them onto a baking sheet, leaving 2 inches (5.1cm) in between the cookies. You should have enough batter to make 2 dozen cookies. Place the baking sheet into the preheated oven. Bake the cookies for 10 - 12 minutes, until they're golden brown around the edges.

Summary: Preheat the oven to 375 degrees. Mix the oil and sweeteners. Mix the dry ingredients. Mix the dry and wet ingredients. Add the chopped fruit. Consider refrigerating the dough. Scoop the cookies. Bake the cookies. Finished.

Stack up any cut brush (such as weeds, grass clippings, or shrubs) in a pile far from flammable objects to prepare it for burning. Burn the underbrush with a propane torch or flamer. Talk with your local fire department about local policies and gain approval for the burn before you start. Obtain a burn permit if necessary. Practice safety measures around fire to avoid losing control of it. Avoid putting debris with seeds into your compost, as this will make any weed issues worse. Carbon-rich materials include: straw, leaves, wood chips, dead flowers, or shredded newspapers. Nitrogen-rich materials include: grass clippings, vegetable peelings, fruit rinds, or animal manure. If you own or can rent a truck, load up the back with trash bags of debris and bring them to your local dump. Call the dump beforehand to ask if they accept yard waste materials. Ask them about fees and whether they charge a flat fee or charge by weight. If you removed a lot of shrubs from the area, consider renting a wood chipper to dispose of debris manageably. Typically, gardening maintenance companies rent out wood chippers for a daily fee. Use the resulting wood chips as carbon-rich materials in your compost. Take extreme caution when using wood chippers, and follow the machine instructions carefully. If you have a lot of yard waste, call your local sanitation department and ask how much they charge for pickups. Waste management will take your plant debris and repurpose it as mulch. Typically, sanitation departments limit what they will and won't pick up, so specify what debris you have on the phone. Keep your debris organized by size and material to make things easier for your local sanitation department. Alternatively, call a yard waste removal crew who can haul the waste away for a fee.

Summary: Conduct a controlled burn if permissible. The time from that it takes raw material to become decomposed compost can be 1 season or more. Visit your local dump. Rent a wood chipper. Contact waste management.

Ring-sizers are plastic sheets with a variety of different sizes on them, which you can slide your finger into to find an appropriate fit. These are available at every jewelry counter for sizing rings. Your ring should fit your finger comfortably. It needs to be snug enough so that it stays on, but loose enough to slide off at the knuckle. The size of your finger changes very subtly, depending on the time of the day, what you've been doing, and the kind of weather. Fingers are smaller in the early morning and when cold. Try to measure your finger a couple times at different times of day, to make sure you get an accurate sizing for your ring. Don't use string or a measuring tape to try to measure your finger size. This can be pretty inaccurate, and lead to ill-fitting rings. The following sizes are the width of your finger. If, after using the ring-sizer, you find that you're comfortable between two, always go a size up. This helps to ensure that you'll have some extra room and your ring will fit comfortably. The most common women's size is 6, while the most common men's size is 9. Size 5 15.7mm Size 6 16.5mm Size 7 17.3mm Size 8 18.2mm Size 9 18.9mm Size 10 19.8mm Size 11 20.6mm Size 12 21.3mm Size 13 22.2mm . Most rings can be resized by professional jewelers, if you find the ring has become tight over time. If you return it to the place where you purchased it, they'll often do it for free. Milgrain and some other types of Tungsten rings can't usually be resized.

Summary: Use a ring-sizer to find the appropriate size for a ring. Measure your fingers at the end of the day and when your fingers are warm. Find your size. Consider getting your ring resized if it doesn't fit

Sometimes embarrassment is unavoidable, so the only thing you can do is to pretend you're not embarrassed at all. With time and practice, this form of acting will help you actually overcome your embarrassment. You can also try to deal with embarrassment by using humor to lighten the atmosphere. This is a common strategy among young people learning about sex; just mention the word "penis" in a room of teens and everyone will start to giggle! It turns out that laughter is a normal human instinct to try to deflect attention from feelings of embarrassment. So don't be afraid to smile to relieve some tension. Embarrassment tends to feel like everyone is looking at you and judging you. But when young people learn about sex education, they all likely feel embarrassed and awkward. No one is busy judging you; they are all busy feeling just as awkward as you do! Especially in a school sex ed course, there might be times when you disagree with something that your teacher says. It is OK to disagree and have your own opinion. If you feel that the teacher is saying things that are discriminatory or dangerous, let your parents know so that they can determine if they should talk with school officials. Otherwise, feel free to raise your hand and politely but firmly let the teacher know that there are other valid opinions on the subject. Realize you are unlikely to change the teacher's opinion, but at least you will let other students know that there are other opinions out there. If you are overwhelmed by information you've learned about sexuality or the human body, you might feel anxious, confused, or scared. Sometimes these responses happen because a person has heard just enough about an issue to worry them but hasn't learned enough to understand the issue completely. If you are feeling confused, worried, or disturbed by something you have heard, talk to someone you trust who can help to reassure you. Consider talking to your parent or a trusted adult and letting them know what you heard or experienced and why it is bothering you. If you experience prolonged anxiety about these issues or about yourself as a sexual being, consider talking to a professional therapist or counselor. You can start by talking to your parents or to your doctor, school nurse, or school counselor about your concerns. Ask for a referral or recommendation.
Summary: Fake it till you make it. Know how to respond if you disagree. Find someone to talk to.