Hand gestures can be a way to add more force to what you're saying. These are often known as "illustrative gestures." It can be used to convey intensity, confidence, and even be used to garner attention to a point you're trying to make. Use a solid shaking fist to knock home an extremely important point you're trying to make. Be careful to not use an irritated voice to accompany it or it can come off as anger. If you are giving a presentation, use your hand to highlight a particular paragraph or slide that contains important information. Pointing can be used to literally make a point , or to accompany something like, "This one's important," or "Let me tell you." It can also be used as playful gesture to acknowledge someone. Be careful about pointing directly at someone, though, as this can come off as rude or even aggressive. Make sure your hand gestures match up to your speech. Do not try to add emphasis to a point that is not worth emphasizing, or add force to a point that is not meant to be forceful. Whether you're speaking in front of a large group of people or one individual, hands facing up usually invite positive responses from people. Combined with an outstretching of your arms, it can communicate effectiveness, acceptance, and trustworthiness. If you use this gesture with a shrugging of the shoulders it can give off a feeling of uncertainty, so you will also want to monitor other parts of your body, too. Palms down typically gives others a feeling of confidence because they give you an aura of confidence or even dominance. Much like hands up front can show defensiveness, hands behind the back with an exposed torso shows confidence. This is especially an effective hand gesture if you are walking side-by-side with someone and communicating with them. This demonstrates that you are open to making yourself vulnerable, and not worried about protecting yourself with your hands. This gesture is especially useful to gain someone's trust.

Summary: Use hand gestures to add emphasis to speech. Use open hands and palms up for a positive effect. Keep hands behind your back to show confidence.

You may have had a tendency to tell stories about your past relationships and sexual encounters. Don't kiss and tell. Keep the intimacy between you and your partner. Discussing your relationships may give people the impression you are getting around. Talk about things other than sexual interests or details about your love life. Imagine if someone were to talk about your intimate moments with strangers. Think about whether or not someone may feel uncomfortable or would like to keep matters of the bedroom private. Even if you don't talk about your sex life, the other person might. If you want to keep your sex life private, you should date trustworthy characters or people your friends don't know. Don't date your coworkers as you may break up and feel uncomfortable in the work place. They may also spread rumors to get back at you for their insecurity or loss. If your friends are also seen as easy or behave poorly, you may want to surround yourself with people who have less controversial reputations. Find people and befriend those you respect and admire. Surround yourself with positive people who want the best for you. with every guy you meet, especially those who are already in a relationship. Nothing is worse than having angry girlfriends spreading your business about. Be friendly and kind, and keep the flirting to single people who are looking for more than a one night stand. Avoid initiating conversations with just the opposite gender. Wait to be approached by people, and play hard to get. You do not have to be rude or mean to people. You can still be friendly in your interactions, but choose wisely. If you hear that someone is saying negative things about you or the things you've done, confront them. Ask them to stop, and let them know you're not that person anymore. If they continue bothering you and being rude, take it to an authority like a teacher, counselor, or manager. Engage in sex only when you're in a committed relationship. Let your partner know of your intentions for the relationship, and be clear about how often or when you want to have sex. You'll know if they're committed if they don't have any conditions to be with you. Consider not being in any relationships at all. Try not to have sex for an extended length of time. Don't appear needy or desperate in your relationships.

Summary: Keep your relationships confidential. Avoid dating or hook ups with people who are in your circle of friends. Consider a change of friends. Don't be overly flirtatious Don't be afraid to confront gossip. Be in a committed relationship.

You can make it a little bigger when you cut it, to make sure that the person can fit his or her head through the sheet. Cut in jagged lines for a ragged effect. Do this with fabric glue. This will create a spooky effect. You can glue more tattered triangles to the person's shirt so that they hang down like icicles. The person should be able to easily put his or her head through the top hole and his or her arms should fit neatly through the arm holes. Cover all parts of the face, even the eyebrows and lips. You can also put the makeup on the person's neck, since it will be visible. You can either paint the lips, or leave them covered with the white makeup. This will create a dusty look.
Summary: Drape a sheet over the head of the person wearing the costume. Draw a circle onto the sheet around the person's neck. Mark the area above the person's elbows. Mark the area below the person's ankles. Remove the sheet. Cut a circle around the circular area you marked for the head. Cut arm holes through the marks you made above the person's elbows. Cut along the ankle line. Take the leftover scraps of fabric and glue them all over the costume in jagged, triangular shapes. Ask the person wearing the costume to put on a white long-sleeved shirt. Put the sheet back on the person. Apply white face makeup all over the person's face. Draw gray circles on the person's eyelids and under his or her eyes. Sprinkle flour through the person's hair.