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Pretending that you don't have feelings for your guy friend won't make them go away. First and foremost, admit to yourself that you like this guy. Even if he's not available or he doesn't return your feelings, it's important to be honest with yourself. Try simply saying out loud to yourself, "I like my friend Derek and I wish he was more than a friend. I'm worried it could hurt our friendship if I tell him, but I can't deny how I feel." If your guy friend is available and you think there's a chance he might like you, too, then you may consider telling him how you feel about him. It can be scary to do this since it could change your friendship, but there's also the potential for a great romantic relationship if he feels the same way about you. Take some time to reflect on how he interacts with you and whether there might be something there. For example, has he ever flirted with you or dropped hints that he's interested? Is he single? If you answered "yes" to these questions, then go ahead! Tell him how you feel about him. As long as your guy friend is not involved with someone else and as long as you think there could be a chance that they like you, it's fine to tell them. You might never know if you don't make the first move, so gather up your courage and tell him how you feel. Choose a time to talk when you'll be alone with him. Try saying something casual and straightforward, such as, "I like you. Would you like to go on a date with me sometime?" Or, you could say, "We have an amazing friendship, and I don't want to lose it, but I think I have feelings for you." Even if your guy friend likes you back, he might be pretty surprised by your confession. Unless he immediately confesses that he likes you too and you seal the moment with a kiss, be prepared to give him some time to think about how he feels. He might have never thought of you that way before, so he might be unsure if he has feelings for you and need some time to reflect. Try saying something like, "You don't have to tell me how you feel right away. Take all the time you need to think about it."
Acknowledge your feelings rather than trying to ignore them. Decide if telling him how you feel might be an option. Tell the guy how you feel if they're available and you feel ready. Give him some time to think after you tell him how you feel.