What happens next?

How to forgive a mother after she has passed
Write down in detail exactly what it is that you resent about your mother.
We have to name it to claim it. We can't just keep saying " i resent my mother ", or " i hate my mother ", or " it's all my mother's fault ".
We can't be vague, or speak in generalities. Once you have named a specific type of behavior, or even one specific event of your mother's, we now have something to work with.