her younger brother was getting married and everyone in the family was knee deep in wedding planning and preparation . her aunts had sent her numerous messages to keep her current with the most intricate details of who said what and who did n't agree , together with the fifteen versions of the wedding party design , flower coordination and color scheme . sarah 's head was spinning around all of these already overwritten versions of how things were going to be and could n't decide if it was sadness or relief that she did n't participate directly in the
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