INPUT ARTICLE: Article: Do not become discouraged or upset at yourself, or worry that you will be unable to continue living. After the death of a loved one it is normal to feel sad, upset, and lost. You should not tell yourself to "get over it," or move on rapidly. Instead, accept your feelings as a natural response to death -- it will make it easier to address your grief as time passes. Common emotions include: Denial of the death Shock or emotional numbness Bargaining or rationalizing how you could have "saved" the deceased. Regret for things done while the person was alive. Depression Anger When you first find out about a loved one's death it's going to hurt. Instead of avoiding those feelings you should try to let them out however feels natural. Crying, silent reflection, or the wanting to talk about death should be encouraged if you need. Don't resist crying because you think it "looks weak." If you need to cry, let yourself cry. Don't feel like you need to grieve in a certain way. This process if personal and you should accept the feelings and expressions that feel right to you. It is all too easy to let negative emotions of death overwhelm us and drown out the wonderful memories of someone while they were alive. Think of the funny, quirky traits of your loved one and share them with others. Celebrate a person's accomplishment's and life, finding the good in a difficult time. Many studies show that our mindset while coping with grief profoundly affects how we feel 1-2 years later, so positive feelings now will help you stay positive in the future. "Healing from grief is not the process of forgetting, it is the process of remembering with less pain and more joy." -- Marie Jose Dhaese Oftentimes our reaction to tragedy is to eliminate free time-- working more hours, going out often, and sleeping in late. This is an attempt to "bury" feelings of grief, keeping busy to avoid unpleasant or sad feelings. Coping with death, however, takes time. Resist urges to use drugs and alcohol to cope with death, as this not only inhibits your ability to cope but can lead to other physical and mental problems. You are not alone in your grief, and sharing your thoughts, memories, and emotions with others can help everyone understand what has happened. Shutting out others not only hinders your ability to cope with death, but it creates rifts between people when they need each other the most. While talking is difficult, there are ways to begin the conversation: Bring up your favorite memories of the deceased. Plan the funeral service, burial, or rituals together. Admit when you need someone to vent your feelings of anger or sadness to. Even if you only jot your thoughts down in a journal, finding a way to express your thoughts helps you to face them head on. By writing or forming your thoughts through art, you make them tangible and easier to manage. There is a strong correlation between our physical and mental health, and taking care of one will always benefit the other. Continue to eat well, exercise, and get enough sleep, even if you feel sluggish or uncomfortable. Finding other people who understand you pain can be a valuable tool to help your learn about your feelings and cope with death. Know that you are not alone in your pain, and that a simple internet search for "Death Support Groups" in your area can help you find a group near you. There are often specific groups for different types of death -- groups for those who have lost a spouse or parent, groups for those dealing with cancer, etc. The US Health Department has a detailed list of support groups and ways to contact people. There are trained professionals who can help you cope with the death of a loved one, especially if you feel like you cannot function or have lost the will to keep living. Guidance counselors, school therapists, and mental health professionals can all offer guidance and support while you cope with the death of a loved one. There is no "correct" amount of time to deal with grief -- sometimes it takes a month, sometimes it takes over a year. When a loved one dies there is no telling exactly how it will affect you, so do not try to rush yourself to feel better. With time, you will learn to cope with death in your own way. The "stages of grief" are only guidelines for common emotions felt after the death of a loved one. They are not a series of boxes a grieving person must check off to move on.

SUMMARY: Know that your feelings of grief are natural. Allow yourself to let your feelings out. Frame your memories in a positive light. Make time to process your loss. Talk about your feelings with loved ones. Express your emotions in art or writing. Take care of your body while grieving. Find a support group. Talk to a psychiatrist if you feel intense grief or sadness. Manage your grief on your own timeline.

INPUT ARTICLE: Article: Mental health stigma remains the number one reason many people do not get the treatment they need. Worrying that you will be viewed or treated negatively by family, friends, or society actually keeps you from getting better. Feeling shame about your illness or isolating yourself because of it perpetuates stigma. The only way to overcome this stigma is to build your knowledge and self-confidence about your illness by getting treatment. Research shows that when people see effective outcomes for mental illnesses and know people who have been successfully treated, they are less likely to stigmatize or discriminate. Another way to reduce stigma is to stop associating yourself with the disorder. Instead of saying "I'm bipolar", you should say "I have bipolar disorder". If you are ready to tell someone what's going on, it will be enormously helpful for you to reach out for support. Try to find someone in your life who usually supports you without judgment and share some details of what you're going through. If you're not ready for that, it's okay. You can get support in other ways it could even just be spending time together. You could say, "Hey, I need to be around other people tonight. Would you be up for a Netflix binge?" The ability for you to recognize your need, and build up the courage and skills to actually reach out is a huge part of finding support and getting through a tough time. Remember that talking to others about mental illness is a great way to reduce stigma and misinformation. Involving others in your life might also help going to the doctor become less frightening. After you have become more accepting of your condition, another way to overcome your own tendency to suffer in silence is to speak out and influence others to get help, too. Research either a regional advocacy group or a national group (or both) and figure out how you can get involved. Spreading awareness and educating others about mental illness can help fight stigma and discrimination that may be keeping another suffering in silence.

SUMMARY:
Stop perpetuating stigmas. Get support from a friend or family member. Be an advocate.