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Don't panic--you're not asking her out on a date! Set up something very casual in a big group setting. Showing her that you want to spend more time with her is a big hint about your feelings, but the large group of friends around will make it a low-pressure situation. Start with fun, energetic activities like bowling and laser tagging, where you'll be able to talk a bit but without the pressure of a one-on-one date. Make it sound like it just occurred to you to invite her along. Say, "I just remembered, I'm going to the beach this weekend with a big group of people. You should definitely come. I thought it sounded lame before, but with you there it might actually be fun." Poke fun at the subject she's studying at school, her hometown, or her favorite TV show or sports team. Avoid self-deprecating humor, which could make you come off as unconfident, and don't tease her the whole time you're talking. Mix a couple of jokes into conversation, but listen to her sincerely for the rest of it. For example, if she works on the school paper, smile and joke, "I bet you report a lot of hard-hitting news stories around here." You can use light sarcasm by saying something like, "You watch CSI? So you're basically a detective now, right?" Playfully disagree with her with a line like, "Your favorite movie is Ghostbusters? I don't know if we can be friends now." Avoid teasing her about things like her looks, her intelligence, or her family. When you're hanging out in a larger group of friends, go out of your way to find and talk to her. This will show her that her conversation is special to you, and that she's more important to you than other girls or even your other friends. If you typically joke around with every girl you talk to, be a little more sincere around her. Avoid paying lots of attention to other girls. You might think it would make her jealous and maybe even more interested, but that probably won't be the case. At best, she'll assume you're just a flirt who's not really interested in her in particular, and at worst, she'll be hurt by the change in your feelings. Say something admiring about her looks, her intelligence, her job, or her passions. She'll feel flattered and see that you've been thinking about her and really listening to what she's talking about. Try, "You look amazing tonight," or, "That's so cool that you volunteer at a dog shelter." You could also compliment her taste in music, movies, food, or anything else. Say, "That band you recommended is amazing," or, "Good choice, the steak is the best thing on the menu." If you're at an event together, make a point of finding her before you leave, especially if you've drifted apart during the event. She'll remember that you came back to her just to say goodbye, and will realize she must be special to you for you to exert that kind of effort. Say, "I have to head out, but it was great to see you. We should definitely hang out again." If she smiles and agrees, try for a quick hug. If you don't feel ready for that, just smile and say, "Okay, see you later." If you haven't asked for her number yet, now is a great time to do it. When she agrees that you should see each other again, say, "Oh wait, I don't think I have your number. Can I get it really quick?"

summary: Make casual plans with her. Tease her gently and make light jokes. Make a point of treating her differently than everyone else. Compliment her. Say goodbye to her before you leave.

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If your teeth are giving you issues, you can use numbing gels on your gums. These gels, which contain benzocaine, should be applied directly to your gums to help numb your toothache. Don't swallow the gel if possible, but spit the excess out instead. 10% lidocaine spray is another option, but be careful not to spay it down your throat when you apply. Make sure you follow the instructions on the tube to know how much to apply and how often. When you tooth aches, you can take over-the-counter pain medication to help. These medications include aspirin, ibuprofen (Advil), acetaminophen (Tylenol), and naproxen (Aleve). Make sure to follow the instructions for dosage on the label. If you are in a lot of pain, be careful not to overuse either the gels or pain medications. Using too much gel with benzocaine can cause a rare but serious issue called methemoglobinemia, which is a deadly illness in which the oxygen levels your blood can carry are decreased. Too many pain medications can also cause other problems, such as stomach issues and ulcers. Never use benzocaine on anyone under two years of age.

summary: Use numbing gels. Try over-the-counter pain medication. Avoid overusing medications.

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One way to help make the transition easier is to find options that are within budget for her if she will have trouble doing this herself. Go and view them yourself before you take her to see if they're her taste. Make it close to you. That way, she won't feel like you want her out of your life completely. Don't decide for her. Even if she needs some help with care, it should still be her decision where she lives, unless she can't decide at all. Many families are in mult-generational housing, which can take on many forms. One option is having a separate apartment for your mother-in-law, so she has her own space. If that's the option you choose, you'll need to find a new house that has this option. In this instance, she'll still be close by, but you can have more separate lives. It can also help alleviate the guilt your spouse may feel about abandoning his parent. If you are being the caregiver for your mother-in-law, the next option may be independent or assisted living. These options allow your mother-in-law to have some independence, while still getting the care she needs. The problem is these options can be very expensive. Nonetheless, if your mother-in-law has exhausted other options, Medicaid will often pay for some form of assisted living.
summary: Find a place for her to live. Consider a house with a backyard apartment. Look at assisted living.