Q: You might be tempted to bury the bad emotions that this incident brings up. Feelings like betrayal, guilt, sadness, and fear of losing your relationship can be hard to face. Avoid the urge to suppress these feelings. You need to allow yourself to feel each emotion, and express those emotions to the guy who hurt you. If you are choosing to forgive him, you need to get these emotions out of the way so that you can move forward with the relationship. If you choose not to forgive him, you need closure from these feelings to move on happily to the next phase of your life. Even if you decide to forgive the guy, you may need some space to process how you feel about the situation. Ask for this space and make it clear that you need to sort things out before moving forward. If the guy is serious about being forgiven, he will understand and give you the space you need. Do not use this as a way to keep a guy waiting on you so that you can get even. Make it clear that you need space to sort out your feelings and thoughts. Say something like, "I am really confused right now, and I need some space to decide what I should do next." Once you have a good grasp on your feelings, you need to discuss them with the guy that hurt you. Tell him that you need to talk, and that you will have questions that need answered. If he is serious about making things right, he will agree to talk to you and answer your questions. For example, if you feel betrayed, you should come out and say something like "I am afraid that if I forgive you, I will not be able to trust you again." Make sure to use "I" statements to convey your feelings. Even if he is at fault for what happened, you are discussing your feelings. Ask all of the questions you need answered in one conversation. Do not bring them up over and over. Also, avoid any inappropriate questions (e.g. "Did she kiss better than me?"). It will take time to regain your trust and security, whether you forgive this guy or move on. Holding on to hurt and anger will only slow the healing process and make you more unhappy. Make a conscious effort to identify your emotions and cope with them. Avoid doing things to "get even" with the guy that hurt you. This kind of behavior is sure to lead to regrets. If you are struggling to cope with your hurt or anger, you may need to consult a mental health professional.
A: Face your feelings after the incident. Take the space you need. Talk to the guy about your feelings. Let go of any hurt or anger.

Article: Since the lamp is made of salt, it will absorb water and may start melting if it is placed in areas of near sources of water. Keep the lamp in dry places. Don't place it near showers, bathtubs, dishwashers, or washing machines. Extra humidity in your home may cause the salt lamp to melt. To help with this, you may want to use a dehumidifier in your home to reduce the moisture in the air. This may be especially important if you live in a humid climate. Since humidity is the main thing that melts a salt crystal lamp, you may want to put the lamp away into a dry closet or room when using anything that creates steam. For example, you may want to move it somewhere different if you are boiling water on the stove, taking a shower, or washing laundry. Make it a habit to wipe down your lamp to remove excess moisture. Use a cloth, towel, or other item that won't leave lint behind on the lamp. If you don't want to do this every few days, wait until you notice moisture on the lamp.
Question: What is a summary of what this article is about?
Place the lamp in a dry area. Reduce the humidity in your home. Put the lamp away when using appliances that create steam. Dry the lamp often.

Problem: Article: Examine all the drains in your home and any area inside or outside the home that has standing water. Any area with multiple drain flies is likely a problem. Luckily, drain flies do not stray far from the place they have chosen to make their home, so it is rare for a drain fly infestation to spread to all areas of the house. This is especially true if you catch the problem early. This is the first thing you must do to verify that the problem is coming from the drain itself. You might actually be infested by another type of fly drawn in by rotting fruit or other food sources. As a result, you should verify that you actually have drain flies in your drain before taking measures to remove them. Stick the tape over the center of each drain with the sticky side facing down. Do not completely cover the drain with tape. A covered drain will prevent flies from flying up, leaving you with no evidence. If you spot flies on the tape after removing it from the drain, drain flies are the most likely culprit. Even if you do not find any drain flies on the tape after the first night, you should repeat this process for at least four nights to account for discrepancies in the breeding cycle.
Summary: Identify the problem areas. Dry all the drain areas before going to bed. Place a strip of clear tape over each drain. Check the tape in the morning or after a few days.

Q: If your friend is complaining about how they look, do not automatically compliment them and tell them how great they look. Although you are trying to help, your words will not help your friend feel better about their appearance. This approach may backfire and make your friend feel like you do not understand them. Instead of trying to cheer your friend up, listen to them and acknowledge their feelings. For example, if your friend says, "My hair looks ugly today," you could say, "Yeah. Bad hair days happen to all of us." That response is better than telling your friend that their hair looks great. Helping an insecure friend can be overwhelming and take a toll on you. If you are a minor, encourage your friend to speak to a counselor, trusted adult, or a parent. If you are an adult, suggest that your friend seek the help of a professional therapist. It is never too soon to suggest that your friend seek some outside help. You may say, "Hey, have you ever tried talking to someone about how you feel. I think it could really help you." Your friend will need to see a counselor if they are engaging in self-harm, abusing drugs or alcohol, has an eating disorder, or seems to be depressed. . You probably think your friend is wonderful and has no reason to be insecure. However, that does not change how your friend feels. Always acknowledge your friend's feelings. Let your friend know if you have experienced anything similar. You may say, "I understand that" or "I know how hard that can be." Your job is to support your friend and show them that you understand and accept them.
A:
Validate their feelings. Suggest other resources. Show empathy