What happens next?

How to handle internal conflict in relationships
Recognize the problem.
If you have a conflict with someone, the first step in handling it is to figure out what the conflict is. The conflict may be large and complicated, or it may be a small issue.
No matter how big, you should figure out what exactly the conflict is so you can have a clear idea when you handle it. For example, what is the main problem? If you think the conflict is that the other person " doesn't appreciate me, " then that may be too broad.