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" This is treating the person you're disagreeing with as if they are a child. Think about how effective it is when you use it on a childwell, it's even less effective on an adult! It basically says: "You're too dumb to know the best solution or way to do things around here. I know better and I'm going to impose my will on you." This can escalate a disagreement rather than quell it. Stop yourself from ever using this phrase again. Instead, acknowledge how the other person is thinking, notice what they're already doing well and replace the desire to impose your will with something like: "I admire what you do and I don't want to rearrange what works for you. I just wanted to share my experience when I did something similar before, in case you might like to cherry-pick one or two of my ideas that might be useful to you." "I'm sorry" is meant for apologizing for something you've done wrong or for hurting a person onlyit is not meant for preceding a letdown or excusing yourself from hammering home your preferred point. For example, saying "I'm sorry I hurt your feelings" is fine, while "I'm sorry but you're wrong" or "I'm sorry for your inconvenience" is not acceptable. In the latter phrases, the speaker is distancing themselves from the listener and is attempting to excuse the action or inaction. Instead, try the following phrases when expressing your disagreement: "I'm sorry you don't like what I have to say, but..." becomes "I feel badly that I've caused a misunderstanding between us. What can I do to make this situation right?" If the discussion drags on in a stalemate of sorts, it's probably better to move on to talking about something that you do agree on. Indeed, the harder you push your agenda, the deeper the person disagreeing with you is likely to dig in their heels. If you push too hard, the other person may end up disagreeing for the sake of disagreeing, just to avoid being "swallowed up" by your will or to defend their own sense of self. Remember that the listener is capable of working out things for themselves, provided you step back. Make your preferences known, but leave it open to the other person as to how they wish to reach a constructive outcome. For example, instead of saying: "You're too worked up about this idea. Let me show you how it should be done", say "I can see why this is bothering you. Please let me know if you need help thinking up solutions.

summary: Avoid telling people that your opinion is "for their own good. Take care not to express your disagreement using an apology. Know when to agree to disagree. Don't assume the other person needs your guidance.

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To open the advanced search on LinkedIn, make sure you are logged in. Then click the plus icon within the magnifying glass on the search bar. In the "Title" field, begin entering recruiter-related terms. For example, try searching "diversity OR employee referral OR recruiting OR recruitment OR staffing OR talent". Keep in mind, the "OR" will separate the terms, so any new term should have an "OR" between it and the last term. The longer your search the better, as it will pull up any related profiles. If you have any local terms or slang used for recruiters, be sure to enter those as well. The "Industry" field allows you to search for people in a specific industry or area. Most recruiters select either "Staffing and Selection" or "Human Resources" for themselves. For extra coverage, also select "Other Industry Terms". This will allow you to view any recruiters that go by their own categories. The "Relationship" field determines how the search network relates to you. If you select "1st connections" only people you know will be searched. "2nd connections" will search through your connection's connections. Select all the possible options to ensure the network search is as wide as possible. Once you see the "Keyword" field, you want to type in any field-related terms. This allows you to search for recruiters who may not list that they are headhunters on their profile, but who work in your industry. This is where you want to enter in any key terms directly related to your career. For example, if you work in the banking sector, enter "bank OR banking OR accounting OR finance". Again, the more terms you can enter, the better your result will be. Once you're ready, hit the "Search" button. This will search LinkedIn using all your terms and selections. Now simply look through the results to find and contact your headhunters.

summary: Open advanced search. Search by title. Select from the "Industry" field. Enter into the "Relationship" field. Type in keywords. Search your criteria.

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Your ficus needs well-draining soil, preferably peat mix, to prevent it from becoming waterlogged. Add soil until the pot is about 1/4 to 1/2 of the way fullyou will fill it up completely as you transplant the ficus. You can buy well-draining soil mixes at most nurseries or garden centers. Check the packaging for "well-draining" or ask an employee for assistance. To check soil drainage, dig a 1 foot (0.30m) hole into the dirt and fill it with water. If the soil drains completely within 5-15 minutes, it is well-draining soil. Make sure that the new pot also has a few holes in the bottom to aid drainage. Use your hands to loosen the root ball as much as you can without breaking it. This will help the ficus absorb more water and nutrients when you transplant it and adapt better to its new container. Position the ficus tree upright into the pot. Fill the rest of the pot with soil until you reach the soil level of the plant's original level. Don't make your soil level any higher than the original container, which can suffocate the roots. Ficus trees prefer temperatures of around 6075F (1624C), or around room temperature. They also prefer bright, but not direct, sunlight. Whether you place your ficus tree indoors or outdoors, choose a spot with with moderate temperatures and lighting. Avoid spots with sudden temperature changes or cold drafts. Near a closed window, for example, is better than by an open door.
summary: Fill the pot partway with well-draining soil. Loosen the roots before replanting the ficus. Place your ficus into the pot and fill it with soil. Place the pot in a spot with mild temperatures and bright lighting.