Q: If yeah they really can um i think the big the biggest problem i've got is is forcing it on someone after they've already, can we say that "My big issue is making someone take it after the fact."?

A: yes

Q: If Where are they? , can we say that "They're right here?"?

A: no

Q: If and there's just no good choice as to where to put the kids sometimes or, can we say that "You can't put the kids where you want to put them."?

A: yes

Q: If Only as far as the Santiam Pass, there was no time to spare., can we say that "They had to be there in ten minutes."?

A:
it is not possible to tell