IN: He 's now fully in control and that for me was astounding , having experienced his lost of control over himself for a few times . He 's like a new person , and he looked younger too . That 's enough for me to take the seminar myself . It 's a three day seminar and one evening , always happening on a friday , saturday and sunday and tuesday evening .
What is the reason for me to decide to take a course ?

OUT: It caused great emotional changes in a friend .

IN: He truly is super dad . Not only is he totally in love with Jasper , but he 's a complete natural with him and Jasper loves being with him . Jeff has also been extraordinary about making things easier for me , from cleaning the house every night after Jasper and I go to sleep to making us a really handy diaper change / breast feeding log that we use so I know how long it 's been since the last feeding and so that we know he 's staying hydrated and well fed . I bawled my eyes out the day before he went back to work .
Why did the narrator cry before Jeff went to work ?

OUT: The narrator had come to depend on Jeff 's support .

IN: Issa Nyaphaga at Shakori Hills festival a couple of years ago . ( He 's the one in the red hat , crouched next to the wall , working with Ry . But you have to blow up the picture to see his hat . ) The kids and I were there helping him mud that wall .
Why was the narrator at the event described in the text ?

OUT:
They were there to help with building .