she lost her husband about three years ago to cancer :( and her daughter in law convinced her to sign up on to an online dating site . there she met tom . and it was all apparently amazing after that .

A: Why is the widow no longer lonely ?

It 's hard being one of the youth leaders at church . If someone MADE me do this , I think I would have quit long time ago . But I genuinely love these kids ... and it 's so much fun ! But this work was hard today !

A: What may be the reason for them having a hard day with the kids ?

The pay is decent and it could be a chance to make new contacts because the place of teaching is at an engineering company . Also , when I got home , Miyoko , a girl I used to go out with , had left a present in my mailbox . She left a new CD / DVD of a favorite Japanese singer of mine . CDs and DVDs are quite expensive here in Japan and this one was like $ 40 .

A: From the text what do we know about the speaker ?

It got to the point where I would take a canvas bag , and break a glass inside it , then carry the pieces around with me incase I needed to hurt myself . Back then I was young and stupid . I was doing it for about 2 years 18 - 20 years old I think . Lance was the one that kinda stepped in and said , " Look , if I catch you doing this again I ' m going to talk to your Mom about getting help . "

A:
Who is Lance most likely to be in this person 's life ?