Expect your Scorpio to want to dictate their own lives and, to an extent, yours. Adapt yourself as best as you can to their vision of how things should be. As you both share your wants, needs, and dreams, judge theirs versus your own to see if they're compatible. The less compatible they are, the more likely that you should probably end things rather than waste time by asking them to change for you. Ask them what their goals in life are: where do they want to live; what do they want to do for a career; etc. Compare them with your own. If the two of you can each accomplish your respective five-year plans without any great sacrifice, you're good to go. But if you want to open a bakery in your hometown while they want to jet all over the globe as an archaeologist, it's probably best to walk away now, because they're not going to settle. Scorpios like to dictate the nature of their relationships as well as everything else. Suss out what they expect out of you as a partner. If you fit their idea of an ideal mate, congrats. If the person they describe doesn't sound a thing like you, call it quits, because they will probably expect you to be this person regardless. Although you'll have to adapt a bit in order to make things work, don't be afraid to draw lines. Adapt where you're willing to, but stay true to yourself when their demands are too much. Earn their respect by refusing to be a pushover, while ensuring that they treat you how you wish to be treated. Scorpios have a lot of issues regarding trust, so make earning and keeping their trust a top priority. At the same time, accept that they will probably never share everything with you. Respect their right to keep some private matters to themselves, while proving to them that they're safe in sharing everything else with you. Stay out of their sock drawer. Leave their cellphones and other devices alone unless they invite you to use them. Even then, refrain from checking their histories to see what your Scorpio's been up to. Never lie to them. Scorpios resent being deceived, so if you're uncomfortable with sharing something, it's better to simply keep it to yourself rather than build a wall of lies to hide whatever it is. Consider yourself as equally entitled to a private inner life as your Scorpio considers their self to be. If a Scorpio decides to seriously date you, know that they'll take your relationship very, very seriously. Expect them to judge you on how devoted you are to being their partner. Defend your partner when they're falsely accused or otherwise attacked by others. Take your partner's side and consider the aggressor as an unwelcome person in your life, even if they used to be your friend. Even if you have zero interest in someone who decides to hit on you, don't engage or otherwise humor them. Your Scorpio might misinterpret "being polite" with "being interested." Also, say goodbye to your exes. If you're still on good terms with them, wish them the best in life, but let them know it's time for you to move on for good. Remember: Scorpios love the thrill of the chase, so now that they've caught you, they need something new to chase after. Avoid falling into predictable routines. Stimulate their love of life and pursuit. Propose new activities for the both of you to do. Go wall- or rock-climbing. Find a local polar-bear swim and take a midwinter dive into icy waters. Try skydiving. Whatever you choose, it doesn't need to be death-defying or a lifelong pursuitjust something new and exciting. Join an art program and learn how to paint or sculpt together. Take a walking tour to learn about local history. Go to lectures and museums or even a murder-mystery dinner. Put your brains together and expand your knowledge. If you're going to share your fantasies with anyone, a Scorpio is an ideal partner. Any way you can think of to switch things up, they'll probably be game for. However, ease into this, rather than daring them right from the get-go. Coming on too strong too fast may turn them off if they still haven't come to trust you yet.
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One-sentence summary -- Concede some control. Talk about the future. Talk about their expectations of you. Stand your ground when needed. Maintain trust. Resist snooping. Be honest. Show your loyalty. Avoid flirting with anyone else. Keep their sense of adventure alive. Conquer new challenges together. Explore intellectual pursuits as a couple. Spice up your love life.

If your shoes are particularly dirty, you may want to start by taking them outside and slapping them together to knock loose any large bits of dirt or mud. If you leave too much mud on the shoe, it will take a lot longer to get them clean. Make sure to slap the shoes together outdoors so you don't make a mess inside your house. You may even want to use a butter knife or key to scrape set mud out of grooves in the shoe. Before you begin scrubbing away at the rubber parts of your shoes, start by brushing or even scraping off any loose dirt that's stuck to it. The more you remove with a dry brush, the less mess you'll have to deal with once you create your cleaning solution. Don't worry about scrubbing too much, if the dirt doesn't come free quickly, it will once you begin using the cleaning solution. Use a dry brush like a toothbrush, but avoid steel bristle brushes that may damage the rubber soles of your shoes. Depending on how much you need to clean, you likely won't need much baking soda or laundry detergent. Begin by mixing a tablespoon of each in a small bowl thoroughly. You can always add more of each ingredient if you find you haven't made enough. The baking soda will act as an abrasive to help the soap remove dirt and grime. Avoid using laundry detergents with bleaching agents. Use your brush to apply the combination of baking soda and laundry detergent to the rubber portion of your shoes, then scrub it in. Using a circular motion with the brush is often the most effective way to remove dirt and grime. You may want to avoid using this cleaning combination on the fabric of your shoes, as the baking soda may be difficult to thoroughly rinse off. You can make a separate mixture of just detergent and water to clean cloth portions of your shoes. Once you've adequately scrubbed the cleaning combination into the rubber soles of your shoes, take another clean cloth or sponge and soak it in clean water. Run it along the rubber, rinsing it with each pass until all of the mixture has been rinsed away.. Failing to remove all of the cleaning mixture can leave the rubber looking discolored. Leaving the detergent mixture on the shoe can also make them very slippery and dangerous. Once you have rinsed all of the soap off of the shoe, use a clean towel to dry the rubber before you wear the shoes again. Once you have the shoe dry, you'll have a better sense of how well the cleaning mixture did, and you can repeat the process at this point if you need to. Leaving the shoes wet could lead to them beginning to smell. Wet shoes can be dangerous to wear, so be sure they're completely dry and free of soap before putting them on.
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Remove any caked-on dirt. Use a dry brush to remove loose dirt. Mix one part baking soda and one part laundry detergent. Scrub the rubber with your cleaning solution. Use a different sponge or cloth to thoroughly rinse the rubber. Dry the shoe completely.