Write an article based on this "Share your personal belongings. Let your sibling hang out with your friends. Give them advice when they need it. Be generous if living together."
If you're like most people the idea of sharing with your siblings doesn't come naturally, particularly if you already share a room with them. Whether it's clothes, music or, for younger siblings, toys, sharing seems to breed a lot of arguments and hostility. Set some ground rules about sharing personal belongings. Inform your sibling that they are welcome to borrow your items as long as they ask you first. If there are items that are off limits be sure to let your brother or sister know. Don't get too angry with them if they forget to ask you the first time they borrow something. Nicely remind them about your rule. This is particularly relevant for older siblings, as it's often younger siblings who want to hang out with the "big kids." While it can be annoying to have your younger brother or sister around constantly, it's also nice to include them from time to time. Set boundaries. Let them know when it's acceptable to spend time with you and your friends. Be sure you're only including them in age-appropriate activities. For example, if you're watching a violent movie and have a much younger sibling, it would not be appropriate to include them. Older siblings, this is applicable to you as well. Just because you're older, doesn't mean your younger siblings don't want to be included anymore! If you're going on a girls trip, invite your younger sister to join. Though it may not seem as obvious as letting your brother borrow your car, sharing your wisdom and expertise is still sharing! In fact, giving your sibling advice, can often be the very best form of sharing. Regardless of your age, siblings are always in need of advice. Brothers and sisters can be our best collaborators, co-conspirators and role models, but can serve as a cautionary tale as well. The fact that they are older or younger doesn't matter much either, as everyone has some piece of knowledge worth sharing! Don't offer advice where it's not wanted. Let your sibling know that if they ever need your advice, you'd be happy to share it with them. Otherwise, you shouldn't butt in! Sharing a space with your brother or sister can be difficult. Do your best to be generous when it comes to your living arrangements. It's particularly important to be generous if your sibling is living with you for the first time. Maybe they've just moved into your room or apartment. Make them feel comfortable with a what's mine is yours mentality. If they want a particular side of the closet, let them have it. Learning to share your space and not get into petty fights is a great start to getting along with your sibling.