What happens next?

How to separate from your wife
Make a decision to separate.
You need to be clear in your own mind that you want to separate before informing your wife. You can expect your discussion to be emotional.

Choose from: a. Your wife is going to be more upset when she realizes that you are choosing to separate. You need to make sure you can accept your wife's decision to separate from you.; b. This can include discussing your new relationship with your wife, decisions about where to divide up your chores and your personal life, shared plans for the future, and if you feel ready and able to have a conversation with your wife about your plans. Be clear about the reasons and behavior of your separation.; c. Here's what to do : Do not force your wife to separate if there is something incredibly important at stake. Change the news so that your wife knows you plan to separate.; d. For that reason, you might back out of the separation. Before even mentioning separation, you need to be clear in your own mind that this is what you want to do.;
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