INPUT ARTICLE: Article: Those who are clingy often feel insecure, jealous, and lonely. When it comes down to it, these emotions can make the needy person feel simply awful and ultimately, unhappy with the relationship. When they are unhappy, they tend to project this onto their partner. This may cause the more secure partner to leave because they are tired of the way their spouse is treating them. Ask your spouse if they think you tend to exhibit these behaviors towards them. For instance, you could say, "Do you think I act jealous or insecure about our relationship? If so, how does that make you feel and why do you think I behave the way I do?" Opening up the lines of communication with your spouse helps them to understand that you believe you may have a problem and value their opinion regarding it. You can also work together to brainstorm solutions. In new relationships, it is common for those involved to want to be around each other all of the time. After a while, though, it is natural for that initial spark to begin to fade and those in the relationship start to become more independent. If one spouse begins that normal tendency while the other continues to want to spend lots of time together, the other may begin to feel "suffocated." You can overcome this dynamic by spending more time apart. You might say to your partner, "I think I have been suffocating you, and I'm sorry. I didn't realize. I think it will be healthy if we start spending more time with friends or family to give each other some space." If being apart from your partner frightens you, fill your social calendar. Schedule gatherings with friends. Pursue your education or complete goals that have been left unfinished. Take up a new hobby or skill. When needy spouses are constantly checking in with their spouses, forbidding them to go anywhere without them, or berate them with questions when they come home, the more secure spouse may think the clingy spouse doesn't trust them. Overcome the trust issues associated with neediness by using language that demonstrates faith in your partner and the relationship. When your partner goes out with friends, say "Be careful, sweetie. Have a good time." rather than berating them about calling you every hour on the hour. Trusting your partner to be away from you and still uphold the values of your relationship is important. Avoid texting or calling them nonstop when you are apart. Don't check their call logs or emails.

SUMMARY: Get honest with yourself. Find ways to stop "suffocating" your partner. Show your spouse that you trust them.

INPUT ARTICLE: Article: If you have a specific group you'd like to join, use the Activity Group's search feature. Enter any related words to your query on the text field provided and click the "search" button. Otherwise, you can select from the list of groups listed on the Activity Groups section. Click the plus (+) icon right next to the name of the group to join one. If you want to view the details of the group first before joining, click the name of the group to open it in detail. Click the name of the group you've joined to open it. Below the name of the group in the upper left-hand corner you'll see the "Leave Group" link. Click this and you'll be removed as a member of the group. Each group have threads inside, similar to the Discussion and Help Forum. To reply to an existing thread, click the pink "Reply" button and enter your message on the text field provided. Click the "Post" button to submit and post your reply to that thread then wait for other members to comment on your reply. To post a new thread, go back to the group's thread list and click the "New Topic" link. Enter the title/subject of your thread and your message on the text field provided. Click the "Post" button to submit and create the new topic then wait for other members to reply to your new thread.

SUMMARY: Search for an existing group. Join a group. Leave a group. Reply to a group thread. Create new group thread.

INPUT ARTICLE: Article: Poor maintenance can really suck the performance out of your vehicle, but many modern cars and trucks have different maintenance schedules. Use the owner's manual to apprise yourself of the maintenance your specific vehicle requires so you can make sure to get it done. Many vehicles will break down maintenance requirements by the number of miles on the vehicle. Look at how many miles are on yours, then compare it to the list of things that should have been done. Ignoring general maintenance will sap the vehicle's performance and reduce the lifespan of the engine. If you don't have the owner's manual, this information can commonly be found on the manufacturer's website. Too little or bad oil in your engine can not only reduce its power, it can lead to catastrophic engine failure. If it's been more than 3,000 miles since your last oil change or the oil looks thick and black on the dipstick, slide a container beneath the oil pan and locate the drain plug (the only bolt sticking out of the pan). Remove the bolt and drain the oil into the container you slid beneath the vehicle. Once it's drained, replace the drain plug and unscrew the oil filter. Screw the new one on in its place and refill the engine with the appropriate kind and amount of oil. You can find the location of your oil filter, the type of oil, and how much is needed in the vehicle's owner's manual. if it's not flowing. If your engine begins to struggle or even stalls on hills, then starts up and runs again after a few minutes, it's likely because the fuel filter is getting clogged with sediment that will settle again when the engine's not running. First, find the fuel filter along the line running from the gas tank to the engine, beneath your vehicle. Remove the plastic clips on either side of the fuel filter, then unscrew the bolt holding it in place. Slide the new filter into the bracket and reinsert the bolt. Then connect the fuel lines to either side and slide the plastic clips into place to secure them. A clogged air filter can dramatically reduce the amount of power an engine produces. Open the airbox by releasing the clips holding it together. The air filter should be white and clean of debris. If it's not, you'll need to install a replacement. If the air filter looks fine, make sure there is no debris in the air box, then close it up using the clips. A new air filter will drop into place after you remove the old one. Low tire pressure increases the amount of tire coming into contact with the road, which can make the vehicle feel underpowered or sluggish. Check the air pressure in your tires using a tire gauge, then look on the side of the tire to see what the pressure rating should be. The pressure rating will be clearly indicated on the tire as "maximum pressure" followed by "PSI" for pounds per square inch. Underinflated tires are also prone to blowouts, due to damaging the sidewall as you drive. Low tires will also harm fuel economy. if they're bad. Most vehicles need new spark plugs every 30,000 miles or so, but you should replace them any time they show signs of damage. Disconnect the plug wire going into the spark plug, then use a spark plug socket to unscrew and remove it. Once the new plug is gapped properly, just screw it in where you removed the old one. Repeat that process for each spark plug. Use a gapping tool to gap the new spark plugs before you install them. Insert the gapping tool into the gap between spark plug and its electrode, and just rotate the tool until its at the right measurement. Get the gap measurement from your vehicle's repair manual or the manufacturer's website. Be sure to reconnect the spark plug wires to the same cylinders you disconnected them from.

SUMMARY:
Check the owner's manual for required maintenance. Change the oil every 3,000 miles unless otherwise specified. Swap in a new fuel filter Replace the air filter if it's dirty. Check your tire pressure and add air if necessary. Swap in new spark plugs