Article: The best way to learn what will impress your husband is to ask him. You should do this before you have sex. You might say, "Is there anything new you want to try?" You can even suggest new positions and see if he wants to try them. Your husband may not necessarily want to try something new. Instead, he might want to have sex more often or to spend more time together. Consider what your husband has to say and see if you can both work out a solution. Have your husband underline passages in a book, write down his fantasies, or suggest videos of things that he might like to try. Encourage your husband to share these with you by telling him you're open to new ideas in the bedroom. You might say, "I know it makes you uncomfortable to talk about, but if there's anything you ever want to try, you can tell me or leave me a note on my dresser." Good sex includes mutual satisfaction. If your husband needs to improve on some aspects, try to avoid nagging or criticizing him. Instead, gently redirect him by telling him what you do like. For example, you might say, "I love it when you bite my neck." If your husband ever tries something that makes you uncomfortable, you have the right to say no. Just say, "I don't want to do that," "I'm not in the mood for that." If something hurts physically, say, "That hurts a little."

What is a summary?
Talk to your husband. Ask your husband to write down what he likes if he won't talk about sex. Tell your husband what you enjoy during sex.