Given the task definition and input, reply with output. In this task, you're given a context passage, followed by a question that needs to be answered. Based on the paragraph, you must write unambiguous answers to the questions and your answer must refer to a specific phrase from the paragraph. If multiple answers seem to exist, write the answer that is the most plausible.

It's very rare that one of the fights actually hurts me . But I'm not too great with apologizing either , especially when I'm not sure what I said to make them angry . Usually I know when I crossed the line . Today , I crossed it but am not sure exactly where it was drawn in the sand . See , I was talking to my friend , who is like an older brother to me ( in more ways than one , he's always been there for me since we met ) , and there were a few things he kept joking around about that made me uncomfortable .
Question: Why is my friend like an older brother to me ?
Becuase he is older or wiser .