Problem: How to decorate a fish tank
Try a colorful sand for a beautiful base.
Aquarium sand and comes in a variety of colors, and you can choose your favorite as a base for your aquarium. Light colors do well, as they become almost glittery in water.

Answer: You can also layer different colors, though keep in mind they will get mixed up over time. Another option is a pale tan sand to make your aquarium look like the ocean.

Problem: How to lead a cancer support group
Contact a national cancer support group.
Seek out someone in a leadership role on the national level to gain guidance on how you should manage your local cancer support group.
Ask for tips about organization of meetings, confidentiality agreements, and typical length and frequency of meetings.

Answer: Discuss the forms of publicity the national support group uses to spread the word about group activities. You may consider contacting the public relations department if your group is affiliated with a hospital or clinic, posting flyers and posters at medical facilities, community centers, and doctors' offices.

Problem: How to recover from victim blaming
Remind yourself that it wasn't your fault.
One of the keys to victim blaming is the fact that you think it is your fault. This may come from yourself, family or friends, or even society.
Answer: There are many reasons you may blame yourself, but remind your multiple times each day that it was not your fault. People who victimize others are always doing it to deal with their own issues.