Q: Being in control from the start is all about knowing what you want and knowing how to get it. Car salespeople can seize control from people who don't know what they want by trying to sell them a car that's not right for them. Don't let that happen to you. Be prepared. Know what you want. Take ownership of your car search! Get the most recent annual auto issue by Consumer Reports magazine, which is usually put out in April. Consumer Reports will give you a wide range of reports everything from the best cars priced under $25,000 to the worst cars of the year. Nothing beats a good old-fashioned conversation with a human being. Why is that? Because reports made by "industry experts," while valuable in their own right, might not hit home with Mr. and Mrs. Smith. Solicit feedback from people you trust about the cars they love. What's the most important feature to you in a new car? Do you have a small, but growing family you need to accommodate? Look for roomy sedans, SUVs and/or minivans with stellar safety ratings. Do you have a job in sales and want to project an image? A sports car or coupe might fit the lifestyle. Do you plan on hauling or towing cargo on a regular basis? A truck is probably what you're looking for. Try to match the vehicles you're interested in with the lifestyle you want or have. You won't be as happy if your needs and your car are at crosscurrents.
A: Do your homework. Talk to people. Figure out your priorities.

Q: You can either use face paint or makeup. Put a base paint of yellow all over your face. This is the iconic foundation for the Cheshire Cat from the 1951 cartoon. Sponge purple around the outside of your face so that the the yellow fades in. You can use a house sponge if you do not own any makeup accessories. Be sure to cover all the areas that are on the outside of your face like: the top of your forehead, neck, ears, etc. Dab your cheeks with white to lighten your cheeks. It might help you to look at a picture of the Cheshire Cat and apply the paint in relation to the image. Use yellow or white eyeliner along your waterline. Draw whiskers in black around your nose. Color in your nose with black face paint. You can use black eyeliner for the whiskers. You don't have to create a mouth out of make up over your mouth, but instead could wear purple lipstick. There are a few ways you can create the smiling mouth out of makeup. Depending on your makeup skills, you can make the classic smiling face, or create a scarier face with sharper teeth. For the classic smile: use white makeup to create a wide smiling face around your mouth. Imagine a crescent moon when designing the smile. Once the white has dried, use a fine tipped brush or eyeliner to create teeth. The classic smile, from the cartoon, only has one row of teeth. The Tim Burton smile is much creepier because the teeth are rigged and fang like. To create this look, you'll need to create a crescent smile using black paint. Once the black has dried, create small teeth in the shape of triangles, or in the shape of shark's teeth. Create two rows of teeth: one row going down from the top and the other going up from the bottom of the mouth.
A: Apply the base layer. Apply a layer of purple. Lighten your cheeks. Add additional details. Create the Cheshire's smile.

Q: Anger and other emotions have a complex relationship with your ability to communicate. If you tend to be passive, you're likely not at fault for overreacting to anger with aggressive behavior. However, you may need to realize that it is healthy to express the fact that something angers you. Anger is normal and natural. Learn to recognize your anger by listening to your body for clues. A rise in your heart rate and blood pressure, the feeling of blood rushing to your face or other parts of your body, and a wave of warmth may all indicate that anger is rising beneath the surface of your skin. Avoid hiding your anger, as this may lead to stress, resentment towards those that anger you, feelings of victimization, and the growing though suppressed desire to act out. Recognize that passive-aggressiveness is just as detrimental to your relationships as blatant aggression. Own and admit your anger, and respond to it with maturity by voicing it directly while being calm and respectful. The easiest and clearest way to do so is to take a deep breath and simply tell someone that their behavior has irritated you. Take care not to attack whomever has angered you. Keep your statement simple and straightforward by saying something along the lines of "I felt aggravated when ___________ and I need you to know that I'm not comfortable with [behavior/statements] like that." Though there is nothing wrong with being shy or easy going, you should always participate in a conversation or interaction when you have a relevant perspective. If you constantly just "go with the flow" for the sake of avoiding conflict, people may start to disregard your thoughts and feelings. If, in fact, you actually don't want to go for pizza yet again, and would rather grab some sushi say it! Certainly, some stuff simply isn't important, so don't feel like you always have to be a part of every conversation. The point is: when you do have feelings on a matter, voice them. Often, passive people will agree to things that ultimately make them more stressed or simply diminish the quality of their lives unnecessarily. If and when you want to say no, you have to accept and practice the necessity of doing so! Recognize that changing your mind about something and acting on your decision to do so is actually an assertive, healthy behavior. Understand that your mindset, and your understanding of a situation will frequently change, and that increased assertiveness will make you more flexible about changing the decisions you've made and when making new ones. As you become more assertive, you should be taking a more active role in the conversations that concern you. Take pride in making independent contributions and decisions. Be patient and understanding with yourself. It's tough to start voicing your perspective more frequently, especially when you're used to staying quiet. If you're struggling with increasing your assertiveness or become increasingly stressed about how to go about doing so or if you're just looking for support while doing so see a mental health professional. The act of getting help is itself an assertive step, as it is an active demonstration of your willingness to improve your ability to voice your perspective and pave yourself a road to a healthier, happier life.
A: Allow yourself to feel anger. Express your anger with emotionally honest communication. Don't allow others to disregard your wants and needs. Say yes only when you really mean yes. Let yourself change your mind about things. Get help becoming more assertive.

Q: If the cilantro is even a little moist, you should dry it with clean paper towels or by putting it through a spin in a salad spinner. Cilantro will go bad much faster if the leaves are still wet, so it is crucial that you get as much water off as possible. To be on the safe side, the best option is to spin the cilantro in a salad spinner and spread the stems out in a single layer on a dry kitchen towel. Place the towel in direct sunlight for a few hours to further dry the cilantro. Cover the container and place it in your refrigerator. It should stay fresh for two to three weeks. Check the cilantro periodically during this time. Look through the sides of the container if using clear plastic, or quickly remove the lid and peek inside if using a container made of tinted plastic. Remove any wilted or discolored cilantro. If you notice any moisture, dry the container and send your cilantro for another spin in the salad spinner.
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Dry the cilantro completely. Keep in the refrigerator.