Problem: How to give a guy space
Determine what space means.
Once you have been asked to provide more space in the relationship, find out what that will mean for the two of you. Perhaps he is just looking to have a bit more alone time on the regular but doesn't want to cut off communication. OPTIONS:
- Or maybe he is feeling a bit trapped and wants to figure out if this relationship is working for him. Whatever the cause, make sure to clarify the reason as well as next steps.
- Maybe he's always wanted more space but wasn't really ready. Whatever the case may be, using clear boundaries will keep the tension and resentment from spreading.
- Maybe he doesn't want to be saved the space he or her needs. When it comes to boundaries, most of the time you are the one who is making the right choice in deciding the boundaries.
- Or perhaps he is just naturally vulnerable to let some of the spark back in without being so obvious that it is time for more physical intimacy. Be as specific as possible about the sort of space you want.

Answer: Or maybe he is feeling a bit trapped and wants to figure out if this relationship is working for him. Whatever the cause, make sure to clarify the reason as well as next steps.

Problem: Men are playing bagpipes in a line. Players are running around on the field playing sports. A team groups together holding a trophy. the team OPTIONS:
- against another team and a man celebrates.
- talk to each other and show a headphone showing notes.
- shakes hands with the opposing team.
- celebrates when the score is their turn.

Answer: shakes hands with the opposing team.

Problem: How to kill a venomous spider
Spot black widows by their red hourglass mark.
If you see a black spider in or near your home that has a bright red hourglass marking on its abdomen, you've spotted a black widow spider. These are extremely dangerous and are potentially fatally venomous. OPTIONS:
- If you come across a black widow near your home, you should ask a worker at work if they can help you spot the black widow. Most black widows will have several red hourglass marks on their abdomen.
- Be extra careful around the outside of your home if you live in a temperate climate and have woodpiles; black widows are most frequently found there. Look out for brown recluses' violin-like mark.
- If you see a black widow in your home, go to your local hardware store or pharmacy and buy a kit of black widows. They will be much smaller in size, no longer longer than a book.
- If you're outside and see a black widow spider, immediately do your best to pick him up. It's best to grab a pair of latex gloves in case you're bitten, especially if you've encountered one of the black widows around your home or in your yard.
Answer: Be extra careful around the outside of your home if you live in a temperate climate and have woodpiles; black widows are most frequently found there. Look out for brown recluses' violin-like mark.