but if you placate your partner or martyr yourself because of a fear of loneliness, you will also accumulate a large reservoir of resentment and bitterness which will in turn make you unconsciously manipulative in the same way your mother might have been.

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But if you placate your partner or martyr yourself because of a fear of loneliness, you will also accumulate a large reservoir of resentment and bitterness which will in turn make you unconsciously manipulative in the same way your mother might have been.