In one sentence, describe what the following article is about: Your counselor will help your shift the way you think about your relationship while in couples counseling. This will help you get to a place where you no longer blame each other for problems, see where your partner is coming from, and see your relationship in an objective manner. Your counselor will watch the way you and your partner interact in order come up with ways to bridge the gap between you and help you get to a place of mutual understanding. For example, if you are having communication issues, your counselor will figure out where you are lacking in that area and give you ways to overcome the barriers. In many couples, your problems can make you change the way you behave with each other. This can lead to even more problems. Your counselor will help you examine the current behavior patterns between you and your partner and give you ways to change them to be more productive and loving. This can help you stop causing emotional or harm to you and your partner. When you are working through your problems with your partner, your counselor will help you figure out a way to express your honest emotions with each other. If you stop connecting with your partner emotionally, you will continue to have problems and grow farther apart. Your counselor will also help you figure out if you or your partner have any underlying issues that can cause emotional distance, such as fear of rejection, insecurity, or unwillingness to accept attachment. Your counselor will help each of your work past these underlying issues and figure out how to grow closer as a couple. This will help you learn to be more emotionally intimate with each other. Emotional intimacy focuses on being mutually vulnerable and open with each other through sharing your feelings in an honest, real way. As your couples counseling draws closer to its end, you will have worked past most of your issues. At this point, your counselor will begin to focus on the strengths you have as a couple. This will help you realize how resilient your relationship can be and how much the two of you can endure. This will help you focus on the good things about each other and on the pleasure you can derive from your relationship. This is usually a welcome change from all the focus on your problems as a couple. Your counselor may focus on things you do to compliment each other or ways in which you emotionally support one another within your relationship.
Summary: Change your approach to your relationship. Modify behaviors towards one another. Learn to express your emotions. Figure out your strengths as a couple.

In one sentence, describe what the following article is about: If there's any way you can delay taking the test, you'll have a much better shot at passing it. Most drugs are no longer traceable through a blood or saliva test after just a few hours, though some will remain in your bloodstream for up to 3 days or longer. Regardless of what type of drugs you took, your chances will be better if you can delay things for a day or more. If you can't delay a saliva test, you might be able to increase your chances of passing. If you are self-administering the cheek swab for a saliva test, which is supposed to be rubbed between your lower cheek and gum, rub the swab against your teeth instead. Then, rather than hold it between your cheek and gums for two minutes as directed, bite it between your molars. This probably won't work, but it's worth a try if you're on the spot. There's really no way to manipulate the sample for a blood test, since the test is not self-administered. Blood is drawn on the spot and immediately taken to be tested. Since your hair is cut on the spot during a hair test (rather than submitted by you), there's nothing you can really do to tamper with a hair test. However, if you don't have any hair to clip, you might be able to ask for a different type of test that will be easier to pass. If the people drug-testing you have never met you in person and you haven't already agreed to submit a hair sample, shave your head and the rest of your body (especially areas with longer hair) and casually inform them that you don't have any hair to submit. Then ask for a different test. Be sure you have a good story ready as to why your head is shaved. You could say your hair is thinning, or you're experimenting with a new style. Avoid inventing a serious medical condition (eg. cancer) to explain away your hairdo: this might create a lot of long-term complications. Since the hair sample only needs to be an inch long, be forewarned that they might ask for a sample from your leg, underarm, etc. This might be a good time to get an all-over wax and pretend to be a swimmer. Since blood, saliva and hair tests are so very difficult to cheat, you might want to push the issue and see if you can get out of taking it. Here are a few ways to do it: Ask for a urine test. If you think you could pass a urine test because your urine is diluted, or you don't want a blood test because it will show exactly how high you are at the time of the test, see if you can get a urine test instead. Say you consider it less invasive than the other methods. Exercise your rights. In some cases, the person administering the test might not have the right to test you. Get to know drug laws in your state and read up on your employer's drug testing policies. See if there's a loophole that can get you out of taking this test, or delay it to a later time.
Summary: Try to delay a blood or saliva test. Shave your head and body before a hair test. Find a way to get out of taking it entirely.

In one sentence, describe what the following article is about: If you love wearing a big, cozy scarf, but you don't like to have the ends hanging down, a brooch is the perfect solution! Wrap the scarf comfortably around your neck, then use the brooch to pin the end of the scarf in place. This will add a pretty touch that's as functional as it is stylish! You can pin the scarf in the center of your chest, or you can add the brooch closer to your shoulder if you prefer. A jeweled brooch can make the perfect hair accessory. For a simple way to tuck your brooch into your hair, pin the clasp to a headband or pass it through a ribbon. Then, slip on the headband or tie the ribbon around your hair for a unique new hairstyle! If you want to wear your brooch but you don't want to put holes in your clothes, try wearing it as a necklace instead. Attach it to a chain, a string of pearls, or even a piece of ribbon to create a one-of-a-kind necklace you can wear anywhere. To make your brooch into a choker, attach it to a narrow piece of ribbon or velvet that's long enough to wrap around your throat. Make a smaller brooch into a pendant by attaching it to a long chain. Dress up your flats, loafers, or even a pair of canvas sneaker by pinning on a pair of matching brooches. Then, plan your outfit so the colors will coordinate with your sparkly shoe decorations! For example, if you add matching bright red brooches to a pair of black flats, you might then choose a pair of black skinny jeans, and a black shirt with red details. You can add a brooch to almost any hat to give it a little extra style. Just push the pin through the hat material and fasten the hat securely. Use a pretty jeweled brooch to dress up a cozy knit hat during the winter. Add a whimsical brooch to the side of a bowler hat or a fedora for a look that's smart and playful. Add extra flair to a simple bag by pinning on a decorative brooch. Try pinning it where the strap is attached, to the center of the bag, or on the purse flap. Avoid using a brooch that's highly valuable. If you brush your bag against something, you could accidentally knock the brooch off or damage the clasp.
Summary:
Use a large brooch to secure the end of a scarf. Pin your brooch to a headband or ribbon to wear it in your hair. Make your brooch into a necklace to make it more versatile. Wear identical brooches on the tops of your shoes to add a unique twist. Add flair to your favorite hat with a unique brooch. Decorate a plain purse with a large brooch.