Question: to just go ahead and since there was no major damage he could just kind of like fill in the little ridges where the rim hit with some like bond or something and then paint over it and it would look just like new for only two hundred bucks so i did that instead
Doing the repairs myself with bond and paint would cost two hundred bucks.

Answer: yes

Question: now they don't want the money for food that's for sure
Money for food isn't something they want, that's a given.

Answer: yes

Question: You're too easily shocked to make a good convert unless you're prepared.
It doesn't matter if you're a good convert as long as you do as you're told.

Answer:
it is not possible to tell