INPUT ARTICLE: Article: Once the cat starts shifting around, moving, or even meowing or trying to escape your grasp, it's time to set the cat down. You don't want to hold the cat against its will, as this will make the cat increasingly uncomfortable and it will also feel threatened. Some cats don't like to be held for all that long, so if you sense that the cat may be less than pleased in your arms, it's time to let it go. Don't just throw down the cat the second you feel the little guy is uncomfortable; this may lead the cat to lose its balance or to land awkwardly. Instead, lower the cat down until all four of its paws are on the ground before you comfortably release it. Of course, some cats will just jump right out of your grasp, so you can be prepared for that, too. Though mother cats carry their kittens by the scruff, you should not try to scruff a cat, especially after it is three months old or so. At that point, the cat will grow too big, and scruffing it can really hurt the cat and cause muscle damage, as the cat will be too big to be adequately supported by the scruff. Though you or a vet may need to scruff the cat to get it to take medication or trim its nails they never hold the cat off the examination table by the scruff. Kids love to pick up cats, but if they want to do this, you should instruct them through every step of the process. Most importantly, make sure the child is big enough to comfortably pick the cat up. If the child is too small, then he or she may be better off holding the cat while sitting. Once the child picks up the cat, make sure to keep an eye on them so you can tell the child when the cat wants to be let go. This will help to keep both the child and the cat from being injured.

SUMMARY: Know when the cat no longer wants to be held. Gently place the cat down. Do not scruff the cat. Make sure a child has close supervision while picking up a cat.

In one sentence, describe what the following article is about: If you want to figure out what a particular dream means, you should keep a dream diary. Recording your dreams on a daily basis can help you remember details that are key to proper interpretation. Try to write down your dreams first thing in the morning. People tend to forget dreams quickly as the day goes on. Have a pen and notebook near your bed so you can record your dreams as soon as possible in the morning. Write down as many details as possible. Where were in the dream? Were you yourself or a character or person? Where did red show up in your dream? What other colors were present besides red? When it comes to dream interpretation, feelings are just as important as details. When you're recording your dreams, try to keep track of how you felt during the dream. Many psychiatrists and psychologists who study dreams believe the feelings experienced during give clues to its meaning. Try to remember how you felt during the dream. If red played a particularly large role, pay close attention to how you felt in the presence of red. Were you sad in the dream? Happy? Remorseful? Frightened? Dreams can provoke a variety of feelings. You may even experience contradictory feelings during the course of a dream. Try to be as detailed as possible when transcribing your feelings during a dream. Even a mundane dream can give you insight into your personal life. When recording your dreams, question every detail. Say you dream you were sitting in a red tent petting a cat. Were you otherwise alone in the tent? Was the cat just a random cat or a friend's cat, your cat, a cat you had in childhood? What associations do you have with cats? Do cats remind you of any friends or family members? Do tents and camping have any particular associations? Dream interpretation requires a lot of self-questioning. Push yourself to pause and ask questions about every detail of your dream. Dreams provide insight into your thoughts and feelings. Your dreams may be an expression of how you feel, unconsciously, about a certain aspect of your day-to-day life. If you've been having recurring thoughts about, say, your job, your dream may be a reflection of this.
Summary: Keep a dream diary. Identify your feelings. Ask questions. Pay attention to recurring thoughts in day-to-day life.

INPUT ARTICLE: Article: If you're invited to a dinner party, bring a gift or a dish, like wine or a dessert, and pay close attention to your table manners. Stay away from your phone during conversation and be friendly and cordial to everyone you meet. with others in the social scene. Talking behind other people's backs and dumping friends to move up the social ladder is the worst socialite stereotype. Avoid behaving this way yourself by remembering that a truly confident socialite doesn't need to put others down to feel strong. When others try to involve you in gossip, simply say, "From my experience, he's a wonderful person," or, "I don't know her very well, but she seems sweet." Keep your comments positive and don't say anything bad about anyone--it may come back to hurt you if you do! Strive to make one good connection with each person you meet: maybe you both scuba dive, enjoy baseball, or frequently visit art museums. These similarities will help people remember and like you. First, utilize the connections you do have, from work, school, or family. Keep in touch with them regularly and attend social events with them, asking them to introduce you to their friends and acquaintances. Get contact information for new acquaintances and treat them to lunch or coffee. When they plan a guest list for their next party, you'll be at the front of their mind. As your circle of acquaintances grows larger, remember to keep stay close to your best friends. You'll need someone who understands your ambition to be a socialite, who will have your back no matter what, and who you can trust and confide in. Conventional wisdom says that you should date--and, eventually, marry--into a rich family. Sure, it's a bonus if your spouse or partner has connections in the world of old money, but it's definitely not what you should look for in a life partner. Instead, date someone you care about and who is interested in at least being social by coming with you to parties, meeting new people, enjoying the challenges and excitement of working your way up in society together. Post them to your own social media or pose for a photographer at an event--the photos may even end up in the society section of a newspaper or magazine. Be relaxed and confident. Say, "We both look amazing tonight. This needs to be documented," or "I told myself I'd get one more picture tonight. Are you in?" The last thing you want is to come off as desperate to established socialites, and the best way to prevent this is to exude confidence. Sit up straight, walk tall, and act like you belong. If you believe it, so will everyone else.

SUMMARY:
Have impeccable manners. Avoid drama Be charming and memorable in conversation. Connect with people who can broaden your social circle. Make a few good friends and stick with them. Date someone who understands your ambition. Take pictures with other socialites. Be confident.