The best way to avoid being embarrassed on the dance floor is to appear confident, even if you are not. Hold your head up and keep your back straight. This will give you a look of confidence. Make sure to always smile and enjoy yourself on the dance floor. This will make you appear confident in your dancing abilities. Avoid looking at the ground and hunching forward. This makes you seem shy and uncomfortable. A drink or two can help to loosen you up and give you enough confidence to hit the dance floor. However, if you get too drunk, you may actually end up embarrassing yourself. When you are drunk your inhibitions are lowered and you are more likely to test out some new flashy dance moves. You will also have less control over your body and could bump into other people or fall on the ground. You may be nervous to dance because you're worried that other people will judge your dance moves. You don't need to be music-video ready to hit a dance floor at a bar or other social event. Just try to blend in with the crowd. Most people are too concerned about how they look while dancing to even notice your dancing style. If you are worried about embarrassing yourself while dancing, then you should stick to basic moves. Don't try and pull off a wild move that you saw on your favourite dance competition show. Leave that to the professionals and stick to moves you know will look good. For example, avoid breakdancing, krumping, or any style of dance that may draw attention. Similarly, avoid flashy moves like the moonwalk. You probably won't be able to pull it off with as much swagger as Michael Jackson. You are more likely to feel comfortable dancing if you are surrounded by your friends. This way you won't feel like all eyes are on you. Similarly, if you dance with a partner, you can think about them rather than focus on whether or not people are judging you. If you are dancing in a group, make sure to respect the space of those around you. Avoid flailing your arms or stepping on other people's toes.
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One-sentence summary -- Smile and have fun. Don't drink too much. Don't worry about what others are thinking. Avoid awkward or flashy moves. Dance with a partner or group of friends.

The queen bee will almost always be the largest bee in the colony. Sometimes drones can be as big or even bigger than the queen, but you can tell them apart by thickness. The queen bee will be longer and narrower than any of the other bees. A bee's abdomen is the lower part of its body, near the stinger. Honeybees have blunt abdomens, but the queen's abdomen will have a more pointed shape. You can easily tell the queen apart this way. Worker and drone bees have legs that are directly under their bodies--you won't be able to see much of their legs if you're looking at them from the top. The queen bee has legs that splay outward, making them much more visible. There is only one queen bee per hive. If you find more than one bee that might be the queen, gently lift each bee up by its thorax (the middle of its body). Hold them under a magnifying glass and inspect its stinger. Workers, drones, and virgin queens will have barbs on their stingers. The queen bee's stinger is smooth and un-barbed.
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One-sentence summary -- Look for the largest bee. Check for a pointed abdomen. Look for a bee standing with splayed legs. Look for a stinger without barbs.

in yourself. Preppy girls have brains, a sense of classic style, and an optimistic outlook. Part of the classic preppy look comes from confidence in timeless clothing. As a preppy girl, be confident in yourself by holding your head high, speaking with conviction, and being proud of who you are. If you have problems with low self esteem, changing your style might be the first step to gaining some confidence in yourself. at all times. Avoid using bad language, gossiping, or doing things that are considered tacky or tasteless. Be polite to other people by minding your manners, and always think before speaking. It can be difficult to remain classy, especially if your friends aren't always. Try your hardest to always be pleasant and have a smile on your face. You don't have to play a preppy sport to have preppy style, but there are a few unique sports that are played most often by preppy girls. Rowing, tennis, volleyball, Lacrosse, sailing, golf, track and field, ballet, swimming, field hockey, soccer, horseback riding, and cheerleading are all popular sports for preppy girls. Anything that gets you moving and makes you feel good is a positive addition to your style, so don't feel confined to a list of a few "preppy" sports if they don't interest you. to other people. You don't have to be best friends with everyone, but you shouldn't be rude or mean to other people. Try to be pleasant, kind, and cheerful. Avoid gossiping, bullying, or manipulating other people. If you see another person is struggling, try to help them out. Going out of your way to help someone is kind and can really go a long way toward making them feel good.
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One-sentence summary -- Be confident Be classy Try some "preppy" sports. Be nice

Choose the important issues to argue. Don't try to prove what he says isn't true, because it is nearly impossible unless he makes specific accusations. Just say it isn't true and let it go. If your history is full of trustworthy examples and integrity, people will believe you. If someone in your mutual circle is helping spread lies, confront them directly, but without emotion, and ask them to stop gossiping and spreading falsehoods. This will only make you look the same in the long run. Is better to stand up for yourself with integrity and resist gossiping about your ex. Make amends if possible. Doing so gives you more credibility when refuting untruths and reminds others that everyone is human and makes mistakes. Do not act in order to reach a specific outcomewhether to hurt him back or to get others on 'your' side. Your first priority should always be what is best for you. In each instance, explore the consequences of every option and choose either the one that has the fewest negative ones or the most positive ones for you. For example, if he is trashing you to mutual friends, think over your possible reactions and your friends might take them before blurting something out loud.
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Don't try to refute or counter every untruth. Don't trash talk your ex. Own your mistakes. Make sure your actions are not just reactions.