Q: A relationship is like a sharkif it doesn't move forward, it dies. You should find ways of keeping your relationship fresh so your love doesn't become just a part of your routine. One way of doing this is to find new interests that you can pursue together, so you have something to be excited about as well as a shared passion. Take a weekly dance class together. This will give you some great exercise and will increase your passion for each other. Find a new hobby together. Try taking a painting or ceramics class, or find a new love for sailing. Take a class together. Try learning a new language or taking a history class together. Train for a race together. This is a great way to get closer, whether you're training for a 5K or a marathon. Do anything out of your comfort zones. Try hiking, mountain biking, or even ice skating. Doing something completely unfamiliar will bring you closer together. If you want to maintain a healthy relationship, then you have to maintain a healthy sex life. Though your lovemaking may not be what it was in the beginning after five years together, you should still try new things in the bedroom so you're still excited about making love with your partner and that everything you do still feels like an adventure. Make love in new positions. Don't do the same old thing you've been doing, even if it works. You can even look up new positions together, which will be great for foreplay. Make love in new places. Don't always go for the bedroomtry the couch, the kitchen table, or even check in to a hotel in the middle of the day. Try going to a sex store to pick up some kinky items to bring into bed. Though a vacation isn't a good long-term solution to any relationship problems, taking a trip together can help take you out of your same old perspective and appreciate your love in a new way. Plus, planning a trip together will give you something new to look forward to. Plan the trip you've always wanted to take. If you've both been talking about going to Paris together for the last seven years and you have the funds for it, it's time to make your dreams a reality. Take a short day trip. Even driving an hour out to spend a day in the woods or the beach can make your relationship feel fresher. Take a second honeymoon. If you're already married and had a honeymoon, take another honeymoon to commemorate your love.
A: Find new interests to pursue together. Keep it fresh in the bedroom. Take trip to a new place together.

Q: Don't hold back your thoughts when you're talking to other people, even if your thoughts may seem strange to other people. Try to look at all the aspects of a conversation and run with the first thing that comes into your head, even if it seems random or weird. For instance, you can have a conversation about the beauty of peach trees or the possibility that aliens may have invented the pyramids. Quirky people don't follow norms and will do things that other people don't even think of. Don't follow trends or pretend to like clothing, musicians, or movies just because they are new and everyone else likes them. At the same time, you shouldn't hate things just because they are popular. Listen to music and watch movies that you genuinely like! For instance, if everyone is raving about a new album that you don't like, don't pretend that you like it just to fit in. Even though you might act strange, you shouldn't come across as offensive or rude. Quirkiness is about being endearingly weird, not creepy or mean. Try to seem innocent and oblivious to the world around you. You can stare off into space, daydream, or act oblivious to social cues. Quirky people don't follow the norms set by society. Approach situations and problems in a way that's perceived as "strange" or "weird" to other people. If someone asks you why you did something out of the ordinary, act like it's totally normal. For instance, you can skip instead of walking, or you could hum even if there are people around you. Take photos, paint pictures, write poetry, or play a musical instrument. Try out different types of art and determine which ones you like to do most. Once you get used to a certain medium, don't be afraid to push the boundaries and do things that other people haven't tried. Popular instruments among quirky people include the guitar, bass, and ukulele.
A: Have conversations about random topics. Don't follow the crowd. Act as whimsical and adorable as possible. Do the unexpected. Create unique art.

Q: When used correctly, condoms are 97% effective against most sexually transmitted infections. Use a condom any time you have vaginal or anal intercourse, and opt for protection such as a dental dam during oral sex. To properly put on a condom: Inspect the wrapper for any cuts, holes, or punctures, and look for the expiration date. Do not use an expired condom or one that appears to be damaged. Carefully open the wrapper to ensure that the latex of the condom does not tear. Remove the condom and pinch the tip before rolling down the shaft of the penis. While still pinching the tip of the condom with one hand, line the condom up with the head of the penis and use your other other hand to roll the condom down the shaft of the penis to its base. Dispose of a used condom by tying off the open end and placing in a waste receptacle. Vaccines that guard against certain high-risk strains of HPV are now readily available to women and boys. It is recommended that girls get the vaccine between ages 11 and 12, but it may be administered at any point between ages 9 and 26. Boys can get the vaccine at ages 11 or 12, or up to age 21. The vaccine is ideally administered before a girl or woman becomes sexually active, but may still benefit sexually active young women. HPV vaccines are generally given as a course of three shots over six months. Whenever you begin having sex with a new partner, have an open and honest discussion about your sexual history with your partner. Talk about what types of testing and screening you've had recently, and how many sexual encounters you have had since your last test or examination. Take the time to discuss your sexual history before you begin having sex with a new partner. Do not be afraid to ask them specific questions such as, "Have you noticed any symptoms that may be related to HPV such as warts?" and, "How many sexual partners have you had?" Do respect a person's decision to not share information with you if they do not want to, but also understand that you are under no obligation to have sex with anyone and may choose to not engage in intercourse if you cannot get the information you need to feel comfortable consenting.
A:
Use a condom. Get vaccinated. Discuss sexual history.