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How to bond with an extremely shy person
Find any common interests.
Use these common interests to help form a bond. Discuss your common interests frequently and use them to make conversation when there is nothing to talk about.
Once you find a common interest, try researching that topic in order to have more information to contribute to the next conversation. For example, if you both have a love for music, consider asking the person what they've been listening to lately.