Q: Consider working with your child at home through role-playing first. By practicing ahead of time in a safe environment, your shy kid will likely feel more comfortable when talking in public. For example, role-play with them about situations at the grocery store, in a park, at school, on a playground, and at family gatherings. Use different scenarios of when people or kids are more friendly and less friendly. Help to explain what to say or how to act if they encounter a difficult situation or person. But most of the scenarios should involve friendly encounters, so that it encourages them to act in public. When they are in public, help to remind them of what they learned and how to act more open and friendly. A child looks up to their parents and adults for guidance about what to do and how to act. Be a role model for positive and respectful behavior in a variety of settings, both at home and in public. Show them how to share things and help others. Be a model for kindness towards others. Explain how helping others can often lead to friendships. Talk with a diverse array of people. Instead of being irritated by others, show your kids how to be relaxed and friendly. Talk with the people in a checkout line. Engage in conversation with other shoppers at a store. Be open to asking questions or giving advice to others in public. If you're constantly "checking in" on your child's shy behaviors when they don't have friends, you may make them feel even more like an outcast. Avoid constantly reminding them of the negative things they're facing. For example, if you've just picked up your child from school, avoid asking them things like, "So did you eat by yourself again today at lunch?" or "So did you stay in class at recess again?" Allow for more open-ended questions that lead to more details with time. For example, ask, "Did you have a good day?" or "How was recess today?" and then follow up with questions such as "What made it a difficult day?" or "What activities did you do at recess?" Be sure to monitor your own negativity as well. If you frequently mention the dangers of the world or speak negatively about others, your child may begin to view others as threatening and untrustworthy. Children who feel loved, supported, and appreciated will have greater confidence to do new things and interact with new people. New people or environments will seem less scary when they feel reassured. Build their confidence through words of encouragement such as, "You've got such great artistic talents. I bet other kids would want to see your work" or "You're such as kind person. Helping others on the playground is great idea." Give them physical affection through hugs. Make them feel comforted and loved with hugs on a regular basis.
A: Give your child chances to build social skills in public settings. Help to model polite and outgoing behavior. Avoid focusing on the negative things in your kid's life. Provide encouragement and reassurance to your kid.

Q: We are all different from one another, and it's important to love yourself for who you are. It's common to wish for things we don't have, but learning to love what you do have will help you live a much happier life. Just because you have small breasts doesn't mean you are less beautiful, they are just one of the things that make you you. For every girl with small boobs wishing she had a larger chest, there is a girl with large breasts wishing for a smaller chest. Focus on loving yourself as you naturally are. Learn to love your appearance by looking in the mirror every day. Stare at yourself and look for the things about your body that you love. The more comfortable you get with your body, the more you'll start to love all of it. Developing your talents, such as dancing, singing, sports, writing, etc. will help you focus on the positive things you have to offer. Being negative won't allow you to see how amazing you actually are. Create a list of strong points and positive attributes (physical and non-physical) about yourself. Write down the things that you love about yourself. Sometimes it helps when you can visually see all of the amazing things about yourself written down. Avoid negative self talk. Negative self-talk includes pointing out all of your flaws and ignoring your positive attributes. You need to be your own biggest fan, so don't talk down about yourself. Talking down about yourself will only add to your insecurities. Stay positive when talking about yourself. Improve your body language. Communicating like you have confidence will actually increase your confidence basically the "fake it till you make it" approach. Acting like you are self-confident will eventually turn into real confidence. Carrying yourself with confidence includes standing up straight, holding your head high, and smiling a lot. It can be easy to fall into the trap of judging yourself based on the media, celebrities, and overall societal standards but don't! It's important to have your own perception of yourself, and not live your life based on the opinions of other people. Most of the time, society's standards aren't realistic, and can cause great harm to self-confidence and individuality. Even when you look at beautiful celebrities, they all have different body types. Some have huge boobs, but others have smaller chests or no curves at all. Always remember that there are many different types of beauty. Look through different eras of history to see how beauty trends have changed. Expanding your notion of what beauty is may help you see the beauty within yourself. You'll even see that the 1920s were all about the smaller chested Flapper women! Stay away from negative influences like the media or appearance-focused peers. The media often portrays unrealistic body and image standards, such as large breasts and a small waist. If you try to fit into these unrealistic standards, your self confidence will never grow. Your appearance focused peers are most likely struggling with self esteem issues themselves, so don't let their insecurities bring down your self confidence. Many women think that men are only attracted to women with large breasts this is not true! Men are attracted to women for many different physical, mental, and emotional reasons. He might fall in love with your eyes, or he could fall for your hilarious jokes. If a guy doesn't like you because of the size of your boobs, you don't want him anyways. Studies have proven that men who consider big boobs to be extremely important in a woman are typically misogynistic and shallow.
A: Love yourself. Focus on your positive attributes instead of the things you don't like about yourself. Don't judge yourself by society's standards. Don't worry about how men view you (or your boobs).

Q: You can do this style right after you step out of the shower, but you might want to pat your hair dry with a T-shirt or a microfiber towel first so that it is no longer dripping wet. Alternatively, mist your hair with water from a spray bottle. If you have natural hair, apply a generous amount of leave-in conditioner to your damp locks. Start with a keratin treatment oil or cream first, then apply a curl-enhancing cream to combat frizz and add shine. A little bit of oil goes a long way. Start with a pea-sized amount, then use more as needed. You don't need to use oil made specifically for hair. Olive oil, pure argan oil, or coconut oil will also work! Start with a medium-heat setting, then finish off with a cool setting once your hair is about 90% dry. Aim the blowdryer towards the crown of your head. You can then style your hair with or without a side part. If your hairdryer doesn't have a medium setting, start with a high-heat setting. Find any curls that appear frizzy, and wrap them around a hot curling iron for a few seconds, then slide the curling iron out. You don't have to curl every strand--just the ones that appear frizzy or stick out. Mist your hair with a heat protectant before you curl it. This will help keep your curls looking smooth and glossy throughout the day. Start with a pea-sized amount, then use more as needed. Focus on the mid-lengths and ends of your hair.
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Start with damp hair. Apply a keratin treatment, curling cream, or hair oil to create extra shine. Blow dry your hair straight back to create a sleek pixie. Touch up the unruly strands of a bob with a curling iron. Finish off with a shine serum or spray.