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How to cope if members are rude or upset you on a forum
Think before you post your problem or topic on the forum.
If it is a very personal problem it may be better solved by going to an advice center, or legal advice center if it is a legal problem. Not posting it on a forum.
Bear in mind that the forum is public, and so everyone will read what you post. So if you do choose to post on a forum, if it is a personal problem you should choose a username that is different from your real name.