Q: Controlling people are often looking for a reaction. They also may not respond well to any resistance or criticism. If you, say, get aggressive or angry in return, this is likely to backfire. Instead of fighting fire with fire, try to remain calm. For example, your live in boyfriend starts getting on your case about not hanging your towel in the exact place he wants it after a shower, then it would be important to assert yourself and open up a dialogue about the situation. Just try not to lose your temper. Try saying something like, "I understand you like the towels to be hung a certain way. However, I prefer it this way because _____. I am willing to hang it there if we change _____ or I can hang it where I want and leave that space for you." However, you may need to calmly stand your ground if the person is trying to change an already established boundary. For instance, "We agreed to_______ last week, remember?" While you should never excuse someone else's bad behavior, sometimes it can be helpful to at least see where they're coming from. People with control issues may have underlying emotional issues. Understanding this can help you figure out how to best address the person's need for control. In the moment, try to figure out what the person is actually getting at when they attempt to assert control. For example, you live with your girlfriend, who tends to be very controlling. She sees that you left some wrappers out on the kitchen counter for a few minutes while you took a phone call. She says something like, "Why did you need to take that phone call before cleaning up your mess?" The mess is probably not really the issue here. Very often it is deeper, like a person who had a controlling parent, or anxiety, or a background that values a certain thing that a behavior represents. Try asking why the order of your actions was so important to her to get a better understanding of the issue and then give any information that might be necessary. The other person may not have seen something that you think is obvious. For example, you might say something like, "Was there a particular reason you wanted me to clean up before taking the phone call?" Or, "I know you don't like wrappers out. My phone rang and I took the call. I'll put it away now that I'm done." Avoid being defensive. If it was a minor issue that you know annoys them, consider apologizing. For example, you can say, "I'm sorry about the wrappers. I know having a clean kitchen matters to you. Controlling people are often excited by power struggles. A controlling person will want nothing more than to rope others into an argument that's likely to go nowhere. They have a need to feel like they're winning. To avoid giving them this satisfaction, refrain from getting into a power struggle with them. You can also simply refuse to argue. For example, if your significant other starts to pick a fight with you, then you might say something like, "I think we need to talk about this, but I would rather discuss it when we are both feeling a little calmer. Can we talk about this tomorrow night instead?" In the long run, you will need to address underlying issues in your relationship and set boundaries. The last thing you want to do with a controller is to get angry or upset. Controlling people love to push people's buttons, as they hope they can break someone down in order to get their way. Work on limiting how much you react on an emotional level. A big reaction will only egg them on. Try to take a deep breath when interacting with a controlling person. You can try to tune them out by thinking about something calming, like a relaxed beach setting, while they're talking to you. If you have to react, give noncommittal phrases that buy you some time. For example, "I'm not sure about that. Let me think about it."
A: Avoid reacting to bad behavior. Try to empathize. Refuse to argue. Maintain your composure as best you can.

Q: Draw a big oval, in the middle to the part of the page. On top of each side of the oval draw two long and thin ovals. Draw over the right part of the head and right ear a big oval. Under the lower part of the body oval draw a flat and long oval. And a semicircle, facing down, inside the right part of the body oval. This will be a cute and fluffy tail. Under the left side of the body semicircle and in front of the back paws, draw two sets of overlapping ovals. Don't forget the big eye, cute little nose, little paws, the fluffy little tail, and some hair tufts all over the body. Shape the basket and draw a few Easter eggs inside it. Finished!
A: Sketch the head. Sketch the floppy bunny ears! Draw the body. Sketch the back paws. Add a small oval at the right side of the body oval. Sketch the front paws. Sketch a flat oval, that later will become a basket full of Easter eggs. Outline the outer shape of the bunny and add details. Carefully erase the sketch lines and start adding color.

Q: If your parents don't seem comfortable letting you go to homecoming, ask them to explain why. They may be concerned about drugs and alcohol, or they may be worried about who's driving you. Listen to them calmly and patiently, so they have a chance to express themselves. If you're not sure how to start the conversation, you might say, "I know that you're unsure about homecoming. What are you concerned about?" It may be difficult, but don't interrupt your parents when they're talking. Be respectful and show that you take their concerns seriously. Once you know what your parents' concerns or objections are, you can try to find ways to address them. In most cases, that means being willing to compromise. For example, they might not want you to go to the post-homecoming activities, so agree that you'll just go to the dance and come straight home. They may be concerned about your transportation for the evening, so you might suggest that they drive you to and from the dance. Find a way to make you and your parents both at least a little bit happy. Another way to compromise with your parents about homecoming is to suggest periodic check-ins over the course of the night. For example, you might agree to text or call when you arrive at the dance, at some point in the middle, and right before you leave. If you're headed to post-homecoming activities, you can check in again when you arrive at the locale and when you're on your way home. If you behave in a mature, responsible way, your parents are more likely to trust you and allow you to go to homecoming. Make a habit of always obeying your curfew, so they know that you'll be home when you say that you will. If they give you chores around the house, do them without your parents having to remind you. You should also be kind to your siblings, and try to resolve conflicts with them without having your parents intervene. Your performance in school can also help convince your parents to let you go. Work to get good grades so they know that you take your responsibilities seriously. If your parents ultimately decide not to allow you to go to homecoming, accept the decision calmly and maturely. Avoid whining or yelling because you didn't get what you wanted. That will only make your parents angry, so they're less likely to allow you to attend other events in the future. It can also help convince them that they made the right decision. If you feel yourself getting upset about your parents' decision, take a moment to count to 10 in your head. That can often help you calm down.
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Listen to their concerns and objections. Be willing to compromise. Earn their trust. Accept their decision.