What most naturally follows?

How to accept honest criticism from your partner
Remind yourself it's not a zero-sum game.
No one likes to be criticized. It can be very hard to hear how you've failed to meet your partner's expectations-you might feel unfairly blamed, misunderstood, or attacked.
However, think about the reason you and your partner are communicating in the first place. Keep in mind that your relationship shouldn't be a power-struggle.