Q: Again, when you're plotting how to ask him, think about his hobbies and interests and use those as a way to make the proposal special. Not only does this show that he's important to you (since you are, after all, asking him to marry you), you're also showing that you pay attention to his interests and that you support them. For example: if he's interested in archaeology, volunteer for an archaeological dig with him and propose on the dig (you can enlist your fellow volunteers to help). Or you could even make a treasure hunt type proposal and have him dig up the proposal in the backyard. In every rom-com ever it seems, there's a scene where one person proposes to another and it's always in front of a bunch of people, but, especially for a guy, it's best to do this part in private (unless he's specifically said that he wants to be proposed to in front of a bunch of people). This way it gives him a chance to think about the proposal without the weight of a bunch of people waiting for his decision. Once he's said yes, feel free to go announce it from the rooftops. Even if you're planning an elaborate proposal (a skydiving extravaganza, or a scavenger hunt), try to keep the actual proposal itself simple and to the point. What you really need to do with it is tell him why you want to spend the rest of your life with him and would he want to do the same with you. You'll be nervous (because, who wouldn't?) so keeping it simple makes it easy for you to remember what you're going to say. Have a few lines to lead up. You could say something like, "We have so many awesome memories... From now on, I want ALL my memories to have you in them." and propose. Or, before your day, "I have this wonderful day planned for us, but I just can't wait... I want us to spend it together as more than just boyfriend and girlfriend" and then propose. You'll want to give him some sort of symbolic gift, like an engagement ring, but it doesn't necessarily have to be a ring, especially if he isn't the type to wear a ring. You know your guy best, so you'll have to decide what the gift should be, but there are lots of options. You could get him a wrist watch or pocket watch, because these are sometimes considered the male form of jewelry anyway. You could even have it engraved with both of your names to make it more special. You could make something handmade for him, like a box containing all your favorite memories together, or a ceramic plate that asks him to marry you. If he's the type who wears necklaces, you could get him an engagement necklace, perhaps even with a ring on it. Engraved lighters are also, often, used as engagement gifts for men (or women) and can be very cool and attractive. As you can't control the outcome, proposing to someone can be very nerve-wracking and make you feel vulnerable. That's no reason not to do it, but you have to be prepared for every eventuality. If he says yes, great! It's time for a party. You can set the wedding date, or leave that until sometime in the future (you don't have to get married right away, just because you got engaged). If he needs time to think, that doesn't necessarily mean he's going to say no. The proposal may simply have caught him by surprise and he really does need to think about what it will mean. Let him do that. If he doesn't get back to you, talk to him about the proposal and what his concerns are. If he says no, you are going to feel upset and you have every reason to ask him what his reasons are and if will ever change his mind. It could simply be that there is too much going on at the time (school, a big move, his parents are ill) and he can't think that far ahead, or it could mean that he doesn't want to get married. Whatever the reason is, you're going to have to make some choices about your future, as well. It could be that the two of you aren't compatible and don't have the same life goals.
A: Use his hobbies. Pop the question privately. Keep it simple. Give him a symbolic gift. Deal with the aftermath.

Q: The proper stance is the foundation to your shooting technique. Keep your feet hip/shoulder width distance apart and relax your knees. Your hips, shoulders, and elbow should be facing forward. Your body should be aligned no matter where you are around the post. Stand close to the ring. Have someone else watch you as you practice your stance. Another person can see any errors and help you make adjustments. Practice your stance in different positions around the post. Make sure your feet are always pointed towards the post. Hold the ball with your dominant/shooting hand and keep your fingers soft. Hold the ball as high as you can in both hands. Use your other hand for balance, but do not apply any pressure to the ball with this hand. Your fingers should be touching the ball, but leave a little bit of space between the palm of your hand and the ball. If you are a younger player or a new player, it may be easier to hold the ball with two hands. Holding with two hands will give you more power when you are shooting. Once the ball is firmly in your hands, hold the ball high above your head. Your elbow should be by your forehead. You should not be able to see the ball when it is above your head. Bend your elbows and your knees at the same time. Keep your elbow by your forehead and only move the top part of your arm. Straighten your elbow and your knees and then release the ball. Toss the ball up in an up-and-over motion toward the ring. Aim at the center point above the net as you shoot and flick your hand forward with your shooting arm. It is important that you bend your knees before you release the ball because the power of your shot comes from your knees. Flicking your hand will cause the ball to spin backwards after you release it. This helps with the accuracy of your shot. Keep your back straight as you release the ball. If you are shooting with two hands, both of your hands will go through the shooting motion. Think of your elbow as a lever when you are shooting and only move the top portion (i.e. forearm area). To be a good Goal Attack or Goal Shooter, you don't have to be able to get goals from a long way away from the ring, it's great if you can though. The shooting technique can be overwhelming. There are so many things to remember. BEEF can help you remember the key aspects of shooting a netball. B for balance. Keep your feet hip/shoulder width apart and pointing towards the goal. E for eyes. Keep your eyes focused on where you want the ball to go. E for elbow. Keep your elbows close to your ears as you shoot. F for follow through. Always flick your hand and wrist at the end of your shot.
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Position your body to shoot. Place the ball in your hands. Shoot the netball. Stand a little further back, bend yourknees and jump then throw to perfect your technique from further away. Remember the BEEF acronym.