Problem: Article: One of the worst things you can do when dealing with people who are less intelligent than you is to let them know that you think they are stupid. This will only make them angry, which means they will not be listening to you. If you want to communicate effectively with people, never tell them you think they are stupid (or insult them in any other way). If you get frustrated with someone who just doesn't seem to understand something, try asking them what you can do to help them understand, instead of insulting them for their lack of abilities. For example, you could say, "I see you're struggling to understand this math problem. How can I help?" Everyone is good at something, so try to hone in on other people's talents. A person may be less intelligent than you, but have better people skills or be a faster typist. Recognizing that all of these skills are important and valuable will help you appreciate others more. Encourage the person by pointing out their strengths and complimenting them, even if they are struggling with other things. For example, you could say, "I know you're having a hard time getting used to the computer system, but you did a great job interacting with the customers today." No matter what you think of other people, you should always treat them as you would want to be treated. Being kind and respectful, regardless of how you feel about someone, will make it much easier to get along. If you're having trouble being empathetic, take a moment to try to see the world through the other person's eyes. This may help you recognize their unique talents and appreciate how hard it is to deal with people who are more intelligent. Don't start arguments, even if you truly believe the other person is wrong. This will most likely be futile and will just frustrate you. If you feel the need to express your point of view, consider saying something like, "I think ________, but your idea is interesting too," instead of, "You're wrong. The right way to do this is ________." Sometimes it's best not to say anything about another person's lack of intelligence, even if you are forced to work with them. Be sure to carefully consider whether reporting the situation will benefit you in any way. If you work with the person, be sure to think about how your boss might react to your comments before you report them. If you determine that any negative reaction is worth the risk, be sure to approach the situation by talking about specific facts, rather than your own opinions of the person. If you go to the school with the person and have to work with him on a project, treat the conversation with your teacher the same way you would if you were an employee talking to your boss stick to the facts. You could say something like, "I noticed that X is having a lot of trouble operating the computer system, and it's really slowing down the team. The team completes 15 tasks on average while X completes only six or seven. I think they could benefit from more training, or possibly being assigned to a different task."
Summary: Don't call the person out. Look for their strengths. Be empathetic. Think carefully before reporting them at a workplace.

Problem: Article: At work this may be all the members of management or a department. For personal goals, this may be your partner, parents or friends. Give them a period time to think about the issues. If someone is a human resources representative, they should strategize how best to ask for a raise. If someone else is a financial planning expert, they can strategize how the raise could improve your quality of life and motivation. Write any potentially useful ideas.
Summary: Invite others to join your strategic planning session that have a stake in the outcome. Explain the goal to your team. Specialize. Brainstorm some ideas about how to address the issue.

Problem: Article: Add the ginger, pepper flakes, and garlic, and cook for about one minute, stirring occasionally. Mix well. Spoon this mixture into the pot and mix well. Break the angel hair pasta in half and add it to the pot. Reduce the heat to low and let the soup simmer for 4-5 minutes. The pasta should be cooked al dente and the carrots slightly tender. Cook, stirring occasionally, until the shrimp is pink and opaque. Stir in the lime juice and season with salt and pepper to taste. Garnish with green onions and serve hot.
Summary: Heat the vegetable oil in a large saucepan over medium-low heat. Add the coconut milk, carrots, and 3 cups of water to the saucepan. Combine the cornstarch and two tablespoons of water in a small bowl. Bring the ingredients in the saucepan to a boil. Add the shrimp to the pot. Remove the pot from heat.

Problem: Article: Bring outdoor coleus plants inside whenever there is a risk of frost, as a single light frost is often enough to kill the plant. Some coleus plants may even suffer if night temperature are regularly below 60F (16C). While indoors, keep the plant away from drafts, and stop fertilizing the plant. During winter, gradually increase the amount of shade the coleus receives, until it is in full shade. Sudden changes can cause leaf drop. When you bring the plants inside, they will drop a few leaves. This is because they are adapting to the new conditions. For the first few weeks, carefully monitor their moisture, temperature, and sunlight exposure. Mealy bugs are one of the most common pests found on coleus. These appear as tufts of white fuzz on the stem and leaves, and can be wiped off with a cotton swab dipped in alcohol. . Whitefly infestations show up as clouds of small white insects, and/or many white eggs on the undersides of leaves. For outdoor plants, purchase ladybugs or Encarsia species to kill the whiteflies. for indoor plants, hang up whitefly traps or make your own. Most other insects, such as aphids, can be sprayed off with water or wiped off with a cloth. Some pests require more specialized methods of control: Tiny red "spider mites" can be driven away by increasing the humidity. Place pans of water nearby and mist the affected area lightly. Tiny black dots hovering near the soil are "fungus gnats," which can be dealt with by adding in (6 mm) fine gravel on top of the soil, or by reducing watering and increasing air flow. Get rid of slugs by using a barrier of beer or diatomaceous earth, or purchasing a specialized slug control product. Fuzz, black or ringed spots, or other disfigurements are usually the result of fungal disease. Cut off affected leaves immediately, then sterilize the scissors or shears with boiling water or rubbing alcohol to avoid spreading the disease to other plants. Anti-fungal sprays are available at garden supply stores if the disease continues to spread.
Summary:
Keep coleus indoor in cool weather. Kill mealy bugs. Control whitefly infestations Deal with other pests. Prune or treat diseased leaves.