In a perfect world, your husband would agree to immediately stop looking at porn. However, the situation is likely more nuanced than that. As you go through the process of resolving the situation, check in with you how are doing. Ask yourself how you are feeling about the progress you've made. Are you feeling good about the possibility of a compromise? How could you make the situation better? Do you want to have another conversation with your husband? Take steps to make yourself feel in control. Remind yourself that you are actively working on finding a solution. Finding a solution could be a lengthy process. You might find yourself feeling more emotional than usual. Remind yourself that that is normal. Allow yourself to feel a range of emotions. You might go from feeling hopeful to frustrated in the span of one day. That's okay. Don't judge your feelings. Simply acknowledge them and move on. Consider keeping a journal. Writing down how you feel can be very cathartic. It can also help you track patterns in your emotions. When one partner wants to watch porn and the other doesn't, that can be a very tricky situation. Consider talking to an expert. Marriage counseling can be very useful in helping couples work through sensitive issues. Find the right counselor. Ask your general physician to make a recommendation. Read online reviews. Look for a licensed therapist who specializes in relationship issues. Ask for a consultation. You want to make sure that you like the therapists approach and demeanor. Trying to get your husband to stop looking at porn can be a frustrating situation. Remember that you don't have to go through this alone. You could seek individual counseling. You can also seek out alternate sources of support. Perhaps you have a spiritual adviser like a priest or minister who could offer you some guidance. Lean on friends and family. It's fine if you don't want to give any details about your marital problems. But you can still say, "I'm going through a rough time, and I could use some extra care and attention."

Summary: Take a self-assessment. Acknowledge your feelings. Consider therapy. Get some advice.

Keep lists of needs that will require a trip and try to accomplish multiple objectives with each. This will not increase your fuel mileage (the number of miles your car moves for each gallon of gas), but it will help you drive less (which, in turn, means you use less gas). Take the route with the fewest stops and turns and least traffic. Take highways in preference to city streets when possible. Put it in a spreadsheet. It will keep you focused, and other methods are inaccurate; you will never know for sure if you're saving fuel, wasting fuel or just seeing errors from gas pumps that stop pumping at different points, or fractions of miles being dropped off your 'trip' odometer when you reset it.

Summary: Plan your trips. Plan your route carefully. Maintain a log over time of how many miles you go (the main odometer) and how much gas you put in (from the gas pump, including fractions).

Don't worry about writing down everything your teacher saysthat would take too much time and not be super helpful when it comes time to study. Instead, write down key phrases, definitions, and points that your teacher brings up. If your teacher emphasizes something while they're talking, writes it on the board, or brings it up multiple times, that's a good sign that you should write it down in your notes. Try out different note-taking methods to find the one that works best for you. For example, you can try the Cornell note-taking method, where you write all of your notes on the right side of your page, any questions you have on the left side, and a summary of that day's lesson on the bottom of the page. Consider color-coding your notes with different highlighters so they're easier to read through when you're studying. You could highlight key terms one color, important events and dates another color, and so on. For certain classes, class participation might make up a percentage of your grade. Even if it doesn't, participating in class can help you better remember the material, and it will show your teacher that you're serious about doing a good job. If your teacher asks questions or opens the floor to a class discussion, don't be afraid to jump in and share your perspective. If you're worried you won't have anything to say out loud during class, come prepared with a few notes from the previous night's reading or homework. That way, you'll have a few talking points ready to go. Asking questions and admitting you don't understand something can be a little intimidating, but it's super important if you want to get good grades in all of your classes. Otherwise, if you don't clear up your confusion, it could come back to hurt you later on when you're taking a test. Ask your teacher a question if something they're explaining in class doesn't make sense to you, or wait until after class and ask if that's easier. If you have a question about something, there's a good chance that other students in your class are wondering the same thing. You'll be doing everyone a favor by asking your teacher. Always be polite and friendly when you're interacting with your teachers. Avoid chatting or texting in class, and try not to break any of the other rules. Your teachers are there to help you, and the better a relationship you have with them, the easier it will be for you to succeed and get good grades. Doing your homework on time, participating in class, and asking for help when you need it will all help you develop a better relationship with your teachers.
Summary: Take strategic notes in class. Participate during all of your classes. Ask questions during and after class if you're ever confused. Develop good relationships with your teachers.