Problem: Article: These are the real keys of successful smooth talking and flirting -- a genuine smile and open body language. Some researchers even believe that the single most effective move you can make is to look a girl or guy in the eye and smile. To keep things smooth, also focus on: Keeping your chin up. Shoulders back, chest out. Spine up straight when either sitting or standing. " There is no script or playbook that you can use every time to be a smooth talker. What actually matters is not what you're saying but how it's said, and that is luckily easy to control. You should: Use clear sentences. Speak slowly to avoid mumbling. Hold solid eye contact, smiling, and nodding when listening or talking. Keep up a slight smile up when speaking, unless the conversation turns to something more serious. Talk to everyone around you, not just him/her. Confident people happily chat with everyone. Conversation is about finding common ground and building a good relationship from there. Smooth talk is no different -- you just want to take a step back and let him/her show you their interests. Once you know what they are interested in, you can start tailoring your conversation to fit both of your shared interests. In reality, smooth talk for dating is much more about listening than saying anything. "What do you love to do that is not work?" "What brings you here?" You shouldn't tell everything, but you do need to give a little information to get a little. More than not, this happens naturally, but when you're trying to smooth talk it often gets tempting just to keep on talking. While you should feel free to be yourself and tell stories, try to limit yourself to under a minute of talking at any one time -- smooth talking is about listening, remember. When you wrap up stories, try to turn them into questions: "Have you ever heard of something like that?" "That's my embarrassing middle school band story -- did you ever play any instruments?" "Anyway... that's my job, and it feel really fulfilling. But I want to hear more about you!" The biggest problem when most people "smooth talk" dates is that they come off as creepy, desperate, or for better or for worse, "practiced." Real smooth talkers never appear to want anything at all -- they are relaxed, calm, and in control -- and this is a really appealing quality when so many people use pick-up lines and weird tactics to meet dates. So hold back, focus on the conversation and don't feel like you need to "make a move" or risk losing him or her. Keep some distance -- you should be able to hear each other talk, but you don't want to press up close right off the bat. If he or she is scooting closer as you talk, and you feel comfortable moving forward, you should feel free to move closer as well. Smooth talking a date is about getting to know her and searching for a spark. But how do you know when you've found it? While everyone is different, and this list is by no means exhaustive, the following cues generally mean you should ask her to dance, tell him that he should kiss you, or offer to exchange numbers. A general feeling of connection or "gut feeling", though hard to describe, does mean something, so trust yourself! Looking at your lips Breaking the "touch barrier" by stroking your arm, shoulder, back, etc. Asking if you've got plans soon, or are free later "I'm having a really great time getting
Summary: Begin with open, flirty body language and a big smile. Use a calm confident tone, instead of trying to find the "perfect words. Ask questions and listen intently to find out what conversation they care about. Share information and stories about yourself, creating openness and honestly. Give him or her space instead of lunging in for the romance immediately. Know when to make a move.

In one sentence, describe what the following article is about: Are they true blue, gray, green, hazel, or brown? Different eye colors "pop" with different eyeshadow colors. Brown eyes don't really have a specific palette. Fortunately, they look good with almost anything. You can add warmth to your eyes with red-browns and metallics, or you can play up your look with darker colors or brighter jewel tones that other eyes can't get away with as easily. For blue or gray eyes, the best choices for a little pop are warm copper and brown tones. For drama or to highlight the blue, wear a smoky gray shadow (or liner!). For other colors, generally steer towards pinks and pastels. If you have lighter eyes, colorful eyeshadow that is darker than your eye color can be overpowering. For green eyes, purple is your best friend. If you want a little dramatic flair, try a purple that's almost black for double the effect. Hazel eyes get a little more variety. If your eyes are greener, opt for the purple palette that makes green eyes look glamorous. If your eyes have more brown or flecks of gold, play that up with warm brown and gold tones. Don't forget about your skin tone. If your smoky eye turns out looking more like a bruised eye, then you might need to factor in your skin tone and whether your skin is fair, olive, or dark. Fair skin goes far with light colors, like pastel peaches and pinks, but bright and bold tones are too pronounced, leaving everything else looking washed out. Similarly, darker skin could appear ashy if you use a cool blue or grey. If you're having trouble figuring it out, pick up a cheap palette with a wide array of colors and experiment with your eyes. This is usually pretty easy to figure out for most colors and skin tones. For instance, if you're fair with a cool skin tone, you probably already know that an orange-toned lipstick will make you look strange. There are two things to consider when you're choosing lipstick colors. First, use your skin color to guide you toward the right color range. Fair skin plays well with bold and bright colors. Olive, neutral, or medium skin works with most colors, just avoid ones that will look pale. Dark skin pairs with richer, deeper colors, like wine or bright red. Second, narrow down your selection by factoring in your skin tone. Warmer skin tones pair well with warm base notes. When you're choosing a red lipstick, for example, you can easily wear a brick red or one with more orange to it. Cooler skin tones work best with pinks, blues, and purples. Your ideal red lipstick is more berry than brick or has a little plum in it. The theme here is that whatever you put on your skin should work with your skin's natural pigmentation. Cool skin tones should wear pink blushes that go well with their naturally rosier tendencies, or try pinker peach tones. A warm skin tone will shine with golden undertones, more towards the beige, orange peach, and apricot end of the spectrum. If you're lucky enough to have neutral skin tone, play around with different colors depending on your mood. If you're unsure how bright or dark to go with the blush, use your skin color as a guide. Fair skin works great with pastel pinks, while dark skin requires rich, bold colors like red-toned browns and oranges. Olive skin has a little more room to play around, but still leans more towards the pink end with room for darker, brighter colors than fair skin.
Summary:
Base your eyeshadow selection on the color of your eyes. Use your skin tone and color to determine your lipstick shades. Pick a blush using your skin tone.