What happens next?

How to avoid things that drain you
Determine if you are in a draining relationship.
When you're in a relationship it should be beneficial for both involved. However, some toxic relationships leave one of the parties feeling depleted and even exposed.

+ If this sounds familiar, you could be in a draining relationship. Energy-draining people in relationships often start out as fun, flashy, exciting, and charismatic.; + Decide if you're in a drain and how long is your relationship going to last. The answer to this question is honestly you should not risk damaging one another's self-esteem.; + In order to resist bringing up the past with the other, determine if you are in a psychologically draining relationship. Apologize for any past in a constructive way.; + Things you might think your current partner is doing are just that, draining. Assess your current relationship for how long.;
If this sounds familiar, you could be in a draining relationship. Energy-draining people in relationships often start out as fun, flashy, exciting, and charismatic.