Problem: Article: For many girls, getting her first bra is a complicated experience. You might worry that you will be teased by boys or other girls if you are developing faster or slower. Understand that these sensitive feelings are normal. Who knows? Your mother might bring it up to you first. Ask your mother or another adult for a book that explains puberty. Explain to her what is going on with your body.Be open about your feelings. Sometimes boys tease girls about bras. If this has happened to you, don't worry - it's common. But do tell an adult. Realize that women are beautiful no matter the size of their breasts. Girls might be worried if their breasts are small or teased if they are big. Realize that women come in all shapes and sizes. Don't worry if you feel embarrassed. Understand if you feel embarrassed that this is normal at your age. If you are the parent of a girl, don't discuss the topic with others friends, siblings in front of her. You want to make sure that you pick the right bra size so that you are comfortable and properly supported. In the US, bra size is broken down into two pieces: Chest size and cup size. The chest size is an even number, such as 32, 34, 36 and so on. The cup sizes are in letters, like A, B, or C. In other countries, like the UK cup sizes can be different (AA, A, B, C, D, DD, etc.) A saleswoman at a department store will measure you for a bra, or you can do it at home or ask your mother or older sister for help. Use a tape measure. To determine chest size, run the tape measure under the breasts and around the back. Hold it firm, but not too tight. The measurement will be in inches. Add 5 inches to that number. This is your chest size. For cup size, loop the tape measure firmly around your body at the fullest part of your breasts. Subtract your chest measurement from that figure. The remaining number should be between 1 inch and 4 inches. This is how you determine cup size. Less than 1 inch is a AA bra cup size. 1 inch is an A, 2 inches a B, 3 inches a C and 4 inches a D. If you end up with an odd number, round up to the next even number. This is especially important with young girls because they are growing so fast that if you round down they won't fit in the bra long if at all. Girls are usually ready for a bra when they have an A cup. Don't be embarrassed if you need to tell your mother you have no idea how to wear a bra. Many girls need to be shown how to do this, and it's OK to ask. To put on a bra, put your arms through the bra straps and lean forward so the breasts fall into the cups. Fasten the back in the middle hook (training and sports bras don't have anything to fasten, which also make them good choices for a very first bra.) Adjust the straps if necessary and refasten the back of it on a different clip to change the size. You could ask your mother to take you to a department store and get you measured and fitted for your first bra. Some mothers try to make it a fun mother-and-daughter day.
Summary: Ask your mom or another adult about puberty. Understand how bra size is determined. Learn how to actually wear a bra.

Problem: Article: You can find one in the phone book or by searching online for "seamstress" plus the name of your town or city. Be aware that some seamstresses are very busy, and alterations can take some time. If you need the dress very soon, you may have to try another method if the seamstress cannot finish it in time. Although he/she may tailor the entire dress to fit better, you should make it explicit that the dress falls down, so you want it tailored to fit your bust better. It is important to make sure you try the dress on at the seamstress' shop before taking it home. This way, you can make sure it fits just right. If you try the dress on, and it still feels a bit loose, say this! A seamstress uses a measuring tape to see how the dress should fit, but a misplaced pin could throw measurements off. If you don't feel right in the dress, then kindly explain that. Be sure to be courteous. Do your best to be gracious to the person who makes your clothes fit.
Summary: Find a seamstress. Explain to your seamstress what you would like. Schedule a second fitting. Speak up.

Problem: Article: If you try to stop it, you just can't. He or she has altered your mind somehow and you can't get him or her out of there, everywhere you go and anytime of the day that's all your imagination has in store for you, more of him or her. You sit down for a while and start writing, until you run out of ideas and you start to daydream about him/her and you like it. Until the point when someone snaps you out of it and you go back to reality. Your daydreams seem timeless and you imagine that you and him or her are the only two people in the world. You start listening to slow love songs, and those songs explain a sweet love story and strangely remind you of him or her. Then it becomes your favorite type of music for a long while. You listen to those songs again and again and you just can't get enough, pretty soon you'll know every single one of the lyrics.
Summary:
Consider whether you think about him or her every minute of every day. Notice your daydreaming. Note how music leaves you feeling.