Question: We search.
We read.

Answer: no

Question: I know I should move past her, but no one I've ever met has had this effect on me, nor the rapport.
I can't move past her; I want to marry her.

Answer: it is not possible to tell

Question: The old conventional Sibelius was a vulgar nationalist (a la Wagner) and a windy Romantic bore.
The original version of Sibelius was nationalistic, Romantic, and boring.

Answer:
yes