INPUT ARTICLE: Article: Before forming an opinion, you want to make sure that you know the facts. If you think someone has a serious issue, it is a good idea to make sure that you actually understand the condition. Go to the library or ask a doctor for some good resources. Avoid sites that have a particular religious or political bias. Rely on objective sites such as Sex Help. Objective sites will include plenty of objective, scientific evidence and psychological research for their claims. Thinking about sex a lot or frequently engaging in sexual activities doesn't necessarily mean that a guy is obsessed with sex. In fact, sexual thoughts and actions are a normal part of life. This is true for boys going through puberty as well as for young and older men. Remind yourself that both men and women of all ages have sexual urges and thoughts. It's the way these thoughts and feelings are handled that distinguish normal behavior and sex obsession. For instance, a guy may want to have sex several times a week with his partner. This could be considered normal sexual behavior, not a sign of sex obsession. It is also normal if you do not want to have sex this much. The difference in the amount that he wants to have sex versus the amount you want to have sex may just be an indication that you are not compatible. Sometimes guys, just like girls, want to display and receive affection and it may not have anything to do with sex. They may just want comfort and physical contact. It is perfectly normal for a guy to display affection without sex ever entering his mind. For example, a guy may just want to sit and cuddle with you and it may not have anything to do with sex.

SUMMARY: Do your research. Recognize normal sexual behavior. Identify regular displays of affection.

INPUT ARTICLE: Article: Fill a bowl with freshly made sticky rice. Layer a few slices of fresh durian on top of the rice, and drizzle coconut milk on top. For a sweeter treat, top the rice and fruit with mildly sweetened coconut milk. You can also combine the durian with mango and other fresh fruits. Durian ice cream is a popular treat in many Asian countries. If you're not able to find this chilled dessert, you can always make your own ice cream and flavor it with chunks of fresh durian. If you don't like the taste of durian right away, try durian flavored snacks like ice cream and chips to help you acquire a taste for it. Durian chips are pieces of durian that have been sliced and deep fried. You can buy these in many Asian markets, Asian grocery stores around the world, or online from specialty grocery sites. Durian chips have a milder flavor, and taste like slightly fruity potato chips. Durian is a great addition to a fresh fruit cocktail. Cut the durian into small chunks and combine it with other tropical fruits, such as mango, papaya, guava, coconut, and pineapple. You can even add in some nuts and toasted coconut to make a more substantial snack.

SUMMARY:
Serve durian with sticky rice and coconut milk. Try durian ice cream. Snack on durian chips. Try it with other fruit.