In one sentence, describe what the following article is about: An overbearing mother-in-law is likely acting out of an impulse to take care of her child. If you approach the subject with her when your partner isn't around, she will automatically feel like you're betraying her child's trust and not acting in their best interests. She also may not trust your decision-making, so facing her one-on-one may be counterproductive and lead to an argument. If your mother-in-law tends to make a lot of demands, calmly explain your reasoning for doing something differently to make it seem like you aren't simply trying to spite her. If you simply ignore her, you'll just make her think that she needs to push harder. By explaining yourself, you'll not only show her that you're willing to stand up for yourself, but you may point something out that she hasn't thought about and make her agree with you. For example, if she claims that you're not being appreciative of your partner, calmly explain, "I express appreciation privately all the time, just not in front of you. I don't want to disrespect you by making a show of it." If your mother-in-law won't stop asking when you're going to have grandchildren, make it about the quality of life for the children to seem like you've thought it through. Say, "We're waiting until we've set up a college fund so that we give them the best future possible." If your mother-in-law tends to insert herself during key decisions or conversations, simply wait until she's not around or move to a different part of your home to talk it out. She can't insert her opinion if she isn't around to make it. "We can talk about it later" is a simple way of deflecting tough conversations in front of your mother-in-law. If your mother-in-law is often critical of you specifically, try showing lots of affection and appreciation for your spouse whenever she's around. She may relax if she feels like the two of you are both working towards the common goal of making her child happy. Simple comments like, "I appreciate you picking the kids up today. You're such a good partner!" are an easy way to score points in front of your mother-in-law. This is a good strategy if your mother-in-law has expressed a concern about your loyalty or dedication. Showing her that you care about her child will put her at ease and make her feel less compelled to insert herself.
Summary: Avoid trying to solve the problem in a private conversation. Explain why you're not following your mother-in-law's demands. Wait until she's not around to have important conversations about key decisions. Express gratefulness for your spouse in front of your mother-in-law.

Problem: Article: Cleanse your hair with your normal shampoo and rinse it thoroughly, then saturate your hair with conditioner. While you have the conditioner in your hair, detangle it with a wide-tooth comb. Once you've combed it out, rinse away the conditioner with cool water. The cool water will help seal your hair's cuticles, making it look shiny. Once you get out of the shower, use a soft microfiber towel or an old T-shirt to gently squeeze away excess moisture. Continue squeezing and blotting your hair until it's just damp, not soaking wet. Do not rub your hair too vigorously, as this can lead to breakage. Starting at the front of your head, take a small section of your hair and wrap it around your head just above your ears. When you get to the end of the strand, use a bobby pin to secure the section in place. Once the first section is pinned, take the next section from the same side and wrap it around your head as well. Pin it place, then continue for each section all the way to the back of your head. Then, start again at the front on the opposite side of your head and wrap the rest of your hair in sections. By wrapping your hair, it will dry with a gentle curve, but it should look smooth and straight once you take it down. Make sure you're wrapping your hair all in the same direction. It can take several hours for your hair to air-dry, especially when it's wrapped tightly in this way. This is a great method for straightening your hair while you sleep if you like to wash your hair overnight. Once your hair is dry, remove the pins that hold the sections in place, then use your fingers to smooth out your hair and enjoy your straight style!
Summary:
Wash and condition your hair. Blot your hair with a microfiber towel. Wrap a section of your hair around your head and pin it in place. Continue wrapping your hair all the way around your head. Leave your hair to dry overnight, then style it with your fingers.