What happens next?

How to cope with perfectionist parents
Learn to spot perfectionist expectations.
Let your parents know how their unrealistic expectations make you feel. They may not know how their behavior is affecting you.
Be as tactful as you can, especially if you think your parents aren't intentionally making you feel bad. For instance, say something like, " dad, it really means a lot to me that you always come to watch me play soccer, but when you compare me to my teammates, i have a hard time enjoying the game.