Spend time thinking about your priorities, separate from the obligations and duties that must be dealt with. Take note of the happiest moments in your life, and prioritize the current facets of your life that deliver more moments like these to you. Remember, you don't need to think about the practical side of things yet. Just focus on what truly makes you tick. Doing this will help you connect with what you care about deeply and what you do not. Keep the list short and sweetno longer than five things. Ask yourself the following questions in order to connect with your priorities: How would you like to live your life? How would you like to be healthy and vital? How would you like to have deeper connections with people in your life? What will make you proud to be able to say about yourself in ten years time? These obligations might be survival necessities, like paying rent and buying groceries, or they might be things that others expect from you, like time and affection. What are the things that you do in attempts to avoid emotional or physical punishment? What do you do out of care and a sense of responsibility? Recognizing what you do out of fear for the alternative will sharpen your ability to see when you are acting from a priority and when you are acting out of fear, urgency or obligation. Slowly, you'll learn to make different decisions about what needs to be dealt with and when. Allow yourself to prioritize the things that you do from an internal, joyous sense of responsibility so that you don't get too bogged down to realize if the things that you care about most begin to suffer from neglect. Begin to notice which obligations can be altered, split, or delegated in order for your values and priorities to be upheld. Can an aunt, friend, or coworker help out with the obligation some of the time? Maybe some of these obligations are not really yours to uphold at all. To live without getting overwhelmed or confused about what your priorities are, it is crucial to surround yourself with people who make you feel comfortable enough to be confident and creative. When you are around others, try to be extra mindful of the people who make you feel alive and alert and who makes spending time feel like a chore. This will bring out your gut feelings about whose presence really nourishes you, making it easier to spend your time feeling uplifted rather than drowning in unsatisfying social obligations. Ask yourself questions, like "Do I feel valuable around this person?" and "Who makes my contributions seem silly?" The answers might be surprising. Do you drink, smoke, or zone out to the television frequently? Awareness of your vices is important not because you should punish yourself for them, but so that you can understand how you deal with life already. By becoming aware of the roles your vices play in your life you can learn how to use them responsibly without making them forbidden fruit. Recognize when you turn to them and notice how the frequency of your use ebbs and flows with changing circumstances. For example, if you go out partying to relax, begin to see this as just one of many tools that you use to deal with life. As long as it's not your only one, you will have the control to realize when it's a useful option and when you might want to use another tool, such as meditation or yoga. What are your most important qualities? Understanding the gifts you can offer the world can help you see the things that are worth dealing with and the things that you can leave behind. Take a few hours to think deeply about what makes you special so that you can better orient yourself to your real priorities. Spend time in a place where you can reflect. Try going to your favorite place in nature, or spending time near people who understand and accept you. When you can really be yourself, what qualities emerge? It may also help to ask people you trust what good qualities they see in you. We are often our own worst critics and have trouble seeing our strengths on our own.
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One-sentence summary -- Discover your priorities. List your obligations and duties. Think about your relationships. Become aware of your vices. Imagine the best version of yourself.

Use or 1 cup of the trisodium phosphate (TSP). Put the TSP into a gallon of warm water. This is a very strong chemical so be sure that you have all of your protection on when handing the TSP. Dip a scrub brush into the mixture. Begin to scrub the fireplace. You may have to do some tough scrubbing to remove all the buildup. Make sure to get into the hard-to-reach places and nooks and crannies. If the tough spots aren't coming off, then you can make a paste out of a small amount of water and TSP. Apply the paste directly to the spot. Scrub until the spot begins to lift. Dip a clean sponge into water. Rinse every part of the fireplace that you used the TSP on. Allow time to dry.
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One-sentence summary -- Mix the trisodium phosphate with water. Use a scrub brush. Make a paste for tough areas. Rinse with water.

Attach the charger end of the USB charger cable to the phone, then attach the other end to your computer's USB port. Click the Windows logo in the bottom-left corner of the screen. This will bring up the Photos application in the Start menu. It's at the top of the Start menu. This icon resembles a couple of mountain peaks on a colored background. The Photos app will open. It's in the upper-right side of the Photos window. This link is on the right side of the window. Your computer will search for connected items, such as a USB flash drive and your phone. This may take awhile. By default, every photo and video on your phone is selected; click selected photos to de-select them, or click Clear all to de-select every photo and video and then click only the ones you want to move. It's at the bottom of the window. You can change the following items before importing: Import folder - To change the folder into which your photos upload, click the Change where they're imported link, then click a folder you'd like to use and click Add this folder to Pictures. Sort type - Click the drop-down box in the middle of the window, then click either Day or Month Keep photos on phone - Check the box near the bottom of the window to delete the photos from your phone once they've been moved, or leave it unchecked to keep the photos on your phone. It's at the bottom of the window. This will prompt the photos to begin moving onto your computer.
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Connect your phone to your computer. Open Start . Type photos into Start. Click Photos. Click Import. Click Another device. Wait for your computer to find your photos. Select photos to move. Click Continue. Review your import settings. Click Import.