In one sentence, describe what the following article is about: It's impossible to figure out what kind of guy is right for you until you take a step back and decide what's important to you. Compile a list of the most important aspects of your life and personality. This list can include things like hobbies, people, goals and ideals. Set future goals for yourself. If you want to be married in the next five years, it is important that the man you date is in the same place in his life. These can be emotional, professional and even physical desires, but be sure not to become obsessed with superficial appearances. Think of personality virtues that are important to you. Some desirable traits might be kind, funny, energetic, outgoing or optimistic. Consider occupational stability. Ask yourself what you'd like your future husband to be in his professional life - does he occupy a comfortable 9-to-5 desk job or is he a risk-taking entrepreneur that travels the world? Identify the beliefs that you want to share with your partner. For example, it may be very important that you share the same religious or political views, and this can influence where you look for a potential partner. Envision what you'd like your guy to look like, but be realistic. It's important to be physically attracted to your man, but don't get caught up in searching for perfection. It's easy to find physical faults in people when you're looking for them, so focus on his personality first. Think about the issues that arose in past relationships that might have caused the relationship to crumble and don't let history repeat itself. Ask yourself what qualities your ex-boyfriends had that irritated you throughout the relationship or may have caused you to end it altogether. These can be simple behaviors or habits that had a negative effect on your relationship. Avoid dating guys with these negative personality traits. Ask yourself what undesirable qualities you brought to the relationship. There will always be things we wish we had done differently in past relationships. Think about the negative ways you might have reacted to certain situations in the past and make a commitment to manage yourself gracefully and respectfully in your future relationship.
Summary: Know yourself first. Identify the most important traits you want in a partner. Learn from past relationships.

It's difficult to see nothing else about a person you're infatuated with except for how amazing they are. However, no one is perfect and everyone has flaws--even them. Make a list of their negative qualities to bring you back down to reality. Finding these flaws will likely take some time. Engage with the person outside of your regular circumstances or spend more time with them than usual. Chances are, seeing them outside of your typical scenario will show you a different, and unflattering, side. If, after significant time and effort, you are unable to find any flaws, this could signal an especially problematic obsession. Seek professional help immediately. Have you been through this before? Chances are, if you're infatuated with someone now you have likely been in the same situation previously. If obsession is a common occurrence in your life, tell yourself so. For example, when your feelings get overwhelming, remind yourself that this is just something that you do. It's not indicative that you are completely in love with or can't live without this person, it's simply a tendency you have. Coming to terms with that may make you realize that your infatuation is just a habit. Try journaling. Journaling can help you organize your thoughts and better understand patterns of infatuation in your life. The saying "time heals all wounds" is popular because it is true. Look back at other moments in your life when you were obsessed or infatuated with someone or something. Ask yourself how you feel about them today. Chances are you are completely over it and over time, this infatuation will be a distant memory, too.
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One-sentence summary -- Analyze the person's faults. Look at patterns of infatuation. Give it time.

Problem: Article: This powdery substance is actually food-grade, and it's used to kill anything that crawls. It's made out of ground-up fossilized material, and the sharp edges of each individual grain puncture insects' exoskeletons and cause them to die without causing any harm to humans or pets. Sprinkle the substance in your cabinets, along baseboards, and anywhere else you'd like before you go to bed. In the morning, vacuum up the powder (and along with it, the silverfish). Wear a mask when you're sprinkling the powder, since it can irritate your lungs. This is another natural substance that kills both silverfish and their eggs. Sprinkle it along baseboards, under the bathtub, and in other areas where you see silverfish signs. Be careful not to inhale boric acid when you apply it, since it's toxic to the lungs. Avoid using it where your household pets might get into it, too. This chemical kills silverfish when you spray it along baseboards and into cracks, as well as other places where silverfish lurk. Do not apply this in your kitchen cabinets or near food sources, and don't apply it where children and pets hang out, since it's toxic. Silverfish are repelled by the smell of cedar, so you can keep them away by sprinkling it around areas where they live. Since cedar shavings can make a bit of a mess, use them in outdoor areas, basements, and other places where you don't mind having wood shavings lying around. Vacuum them up and replace them every week or so. Silverfish don't like the smell of spices, so making up little sachets of cloves, cinnamon, and other strong-smelling spices and placing them in your kitchen cabinets is a great, safe way to keep them away from your food. Both of these scents are also effective in repelling silverfish, and they're completely nontoxic to humans, of course. Get some lemon or lavender essential oil from a health food store. Dilute with water and shake the solution up in a spray bottle and spray liberally in all areas where you don't want silverfish. These sprays are great for closets, drawers, and other bedroom areas.
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Sprinkle diatomaceous earth in cabinets and other dark areas. Try boric acid. Buy a chemical spray containing liquid pyrethrin. Sprinkle cedar shavings where they live. Use spice sachets in your kitchen cabinets. Use a citrus or lavender spray.