How to order a drink at a bar
Choose your drink.
While you choose, stand away from the bar to indicate that you're not ready to order. If the bar isn't very busy, consider talking to the bartender for drink recommendations.

If the bar is busy and you don't know what you want : Order a simple well drink, such as a rum and coke. Look at the beer taps on the wall and choose one that looks interesting.

A boy is skating in a parking lot. He does several moves, dancing and talking. the boy

skates around the parking lot on inline skates.

How to say no to a child and mean it
Say " no " in a clear, firm tone.
Start by saying " no " in a tone that is clear, firm, and in control. Raise your voice so the child can hear you but do not yell or scream when you say " no.

" yelling and screaming can teach the child that shouting and raising your voice is okay, especially when you say " no. " rather, you should appear calm, collected, and assertive to the child when you say " no.

How to get him to make a move
Plan " chance " meetings.
Think about what he likes and dislikes and where he spends his time. Without going overboard, try to arrange a meeting that seems like a random coincidence.
Show interest in the things that he's interested in, and he may take notice. For example, if you know he likes to rock climb, plan a trip to the local climbing gym at a time he's likely to be there.