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How to know what you want
Separate the " shoulds " from the " wants.
Most people have an idea of things they think others expect of them versus the things they actually want. You may feel you should be more organized, you should go back to college, or you should settle down and get married.
Pick your answer from: (1). May be just the most realistic idea in your eyes. Again, if you never have children of your own and are currently lonely, this is not a realistic view of how your life will be.. (2). But when the world seems like a " closet " of personalities and only you know about them, you immediately pick the " wants ". Here's the rundown : Everyone wants the friendship, money, and prestige you want.. (3). But all those shoulds won't get you anywhere if you have no drive to do them. If you do manage to do them, the energy may wane and then you're back to the starting point five or 10 years down the line.. (4). Whatever exactly makes you want to check your list, choose the right one for you. Though " wants " sounds cheesy, you need to stop pretending to be someone you're not..
(3).