INPUT ARTICLE: Article: Even though your husband is having trouble with your relationship with your friends, don't let your relationship with them suffer. Refrain from talking too much about your husband and his jealousy of your friendship -- they will certainly be in contact with him in the future, and it could be uncomfortable for everyone. Just explain that you're trying to figure out a way for you to continue being a good friend and wife and that sometimes it's complicated. If your husband refuses to talk to you about his feelings, it might be time to suggest couples' counseling. Because it's a neutral environment with a trained mediator, he might be more inclined to let you know what he's feeling. Sometimes he might not know what he's feeling, and talking to a therapist can help. If your husband refuses to talk to a counselor or therapist with you, it might be a good idea to book an appointment yourself. You need help sorting through your feelings and trying to understand why your husband is acting as he does. Because it's partly tied to your friendships, this is not a time to talk these issues over with your friends -- you need someone outside the situation.

SUMMARY: Keep in touch with your friends. Talk to a therapist or counselor together if he won't communicate. Discuss your feelings with a therapist or counselor.

INPUT ARTICLE: Article: Though it's a classic style, there are plenty of ways to freshen up a ponytail and make it look older for middle school. Wear a high ponytail. This looks especially great if you have medium-length hair. After you put your ponytail in place and secure it with elastic, pull on the top and bottom of the ponytail right beside the band. This will add volume to your hair. This look is also great for athletes and cheerleaders because it looks cute but keeps your hair out of your way. Wear a low side ponytail. If you want to add an extra touch to your side pony, form a part in your hair just above the hairband that's holding your ponytail. Take the end of your ponytail, and thread it through the hole you made. This will create a kind of twist above your hairband. For a fancier ponytail, wrap a strand of your hair around your hairband to cover it. Tuck it back into the hairband, or secure it with a bobby pin, if you need to. Let your hair draw attention to your face. If you have bangs or layers, let some of your hair hang loose around your face to soften your look. If you don't have bangs, try wearing a cute headband or headscarf with your ponytail. Like the ponytail, a bun is a great go-to hairstyle that you can dress up or down for school or special occasions. Buns are easier to make if you haven't washed your hair for a day or two. If you just washed your hair, however, work in some texturizing hairspray for more hold. A ballet bun creates a sleek, pulled together look. To create a ballet-style bun, first put your hair in a tight ponytail. Use a brush or a comb to make your hair lay flat and smooth. Grab the end of your ponytail and begin to twist it into a tight rope. Then, twist your rope of hair around the elastic of your ponytail. Starting with the base of your ponytail, begin to bobby pin your hair rope as you twist is around your hairband. Make sure to bobby pin the end of your ponytail, as well. When you are done, spray your bun with hairspray. If you want, you can add a scrunchy around your bun to make it more fun. Ballet buns are great for events like formal dances or for a performance, if you are in an organization like choir or band. A messy bun is a popular go-to hairstyle on lazier days. To get the look, just pull all your hair into a high ponytail. Don't worry about making sure your hair is smooth. Then, twist your hair into a rope and circle it around the base of your ponytail. Secure it with another elastic. Pull at the bun so that it's loose and some pieces stick out. Use a few bobby pins to hide the elastic and secure your bun in place. Pull out some strands of hair to frame your face. Once you get the hang of it, a French braid is a quick style that looks sophisticated and cool. Before you begin to braid your hair, make sure you comb it well and get out any tangles. Keep a hairband on your wrist. With your thumb and forefinger, create an approximately two-inch section of your hair on the very top of your head. Divide this into three sections and hold them between your fingers. Begin braiding like a simple braid. Start by crossing the right strand on top of the middle strand so that it becomes the middle. Then, cross the left strand over the new middle. After you complete this once, add another small section of hair to the right strand. Use your left hand to hold the braid and your right to add the new hair. Now cross it over the middle like before. Before you cross the left strand over, add in a new piece of hair from the left side of your hand. Move the braid to your right hand, and add the new hair with your left index finger. Continue this process until you reach the nape of your neck. Then, you can finish just like a normal braid, and secure it with a hairband. After you've finished your braid, try pulling at it a bit to loosen it up. This will keep it casual and pretty. French braids a great alternative to simple braids that will make you look older than an elementary school kid. They are also good for athletes who want to wear a style other than a ponytail. A Dutch braid is an inverted French braid and has a bolder, more three-dimensional look. Section off two inches of hair on the top of your head. Divide this into three sections and hold them between your fingers. Begin braiding like a simple three-strand braid. Start by crossing the right strand underneath the middle strand so that it becomes the middle. Then, cross the left strand under the new middle. After you complete this once, add another small section of hair to the right strand. Use your left hand to hold the braid and your right to add the new hair. Now cross it under the middle like before. Before you cross the left strand under, add in a new piece of hair from the left side of your hand. Move the braid to your right hand, and add the new hair with your left index finger. Continue this process until you reach the nape of your neck. Then, you can finish just like a normal braid, and secure it with a hairband. A Dutch braid is exactly like a French braid, except you cross all the strands of hair under each other, rather than over. Braids are great hairstyles because they'll stay in place and look great all day through school and any of your extracurricular activities. You can even sleep in your braid and wear it two days in a row. For this look, section off the top part of your hair above your ears, and secure it in a ponytail. Leave the bottom layer down and flowy. If you want, you can use a barrette of your choosing to secure your half ponytail instead of a hairband. Like you might in a ponytail, try wrapping a piece of your hair around the hairband for a more sleek look. Pull some shorter strands of hair down around your face to frame it so that the style doesn't look harsh. This is a pretty style that you can wear every day or to events like middle school dances.

SUMMARY:
Rock a ponytail. Wear a bun. Wear a simple French braid. Create a bold Dutch braid. Pull half your hair into a ponytail.