Problem: Article: Guys who are using a woman for sex often give few or no details about themselves. Have you gleaned what you know about him from friends, personal observation, general conversations, past interactions, or has he really volunteered personal and revelatory information about himself to you? This is a VERY telling point, so it is worth considering carefully. Does he get bored quickly when you discuss your work, your hobbies, your activities, general daily issues? Does he try to stop the discussion and turn it back into "fixing everything with a snuggle on the couch"?. If so, he might be pushing aside the emotional entanglement of a real relationship just so that he can keep open the using side without feelings of guilt. He could also present himself as a counselor and offer advice about all of your issues, but not disclose any of his so that you can be involved in his life. Have you never heard him randomly ask if you're upset, ask how your day was, or just wonder why you had tears in your eyes? If he seems absolutely allergic to your emotions, then chances are it's not because he's too shy to ask or too awkward to help you deal, but it's because, well, he just doesn't really care that much. If he's just into you for sex, then any of your complicated, messy feelings will be a hurdle for him and nothing more. This may seem like a no-brainer, but many women refuse to see what's right in front of their eyes, even if they hear it. If he has told you that he's just into casual dating, that he doesn't have time for anything serious, or that he's just not a relationship kind of guy, then he probably meant it. You might have brushed this aside, thought he was just trying to play hard to get, or were convinced that you could change him. Well, if he has specifically told you that he's essentially not interested in much more than sex, then you need to rethink your "relationship." Have you been hooking up for months and haven't ever talked about what you're going to do even a month from the day you see your guy, let alone next summer? Have you been at it for over a year but you haven't made any moves to get more serious? If not, then he may just see you as a temporary thing and isn't ready to be the boyfriend you want him to be. Is he interested in emotional discussions about his feelings? Does he discuss where things are headed with the two of you? Or is it more you? Or is he more interested in whether you've purchased new crotchless undies and if you remembered to pop into the pharmacy this morning for additional supplies? Or if you considered trying out that new sexual position?
Summary: See if he never reveals personal information. See if he's bored when you talk about yourself. See if he rarely seems to care how you're feeling. See if he tells you he doesn't want a relationship. See if he never talks about a future with you. See if all he talks about is sex.

Problem: Article: Avoid apologizing to your reader by saying you are not an expert on the two topics or your opinion does not matter. Don't lead with a phrase like, "In my humble opinion", or "I could be wrong, but I believe." Instead, you should move confidently in your introduction, keeping in mind your thesis statement and the essay outline you created. You should also avoid announcing your intentions in a straightforward and formal way. For example, skip statements like "In this paper, I will" or "The purpose of this essay is to". Instead, your reader should be able to perceive the purpose of your essay through the first two sentences in your beginning paragraph. A hook, or attention grabber, can help to engage your reader right away, especially if your topic is dry or complex. Try to create a hook using these starting points: An interesting or surprising example: This could be a personal experience of when a cat proved to be a better pet than a dog, or a scientific study that shows the differences between cats and dogs. A provocative quotation: This could be from a source you used for your essay or one that feels relevant to your topic. A vivid anecdote: An anecdote is a very short story that carries moral or symbolic weight. Think of an anecdote that might be a poetic or powerful way to start your essay. You can also look through your research for your essay for any note worthy anecdotes. A thought provoking question: Think of a question that will get your reader thinking and engaged in your topic. For example: "Did you always wish you had a cat but ended up with a dog when you were growing up?" Another technique is to write a temporary introduction, with your thesis statement, and then revise it or rewrite it once you finish your essay. If you feel stumped by the introduction, as you aren't sure what you are going to argue in detail or how your main argument is going to take shape, try writing your introduction last. The writing process can be an important way to organize your ideas, think through certain points, and refine your thoughts. Writing or revising the introduction once you are done your essay will ensure the introduction matches the body of your essay.
Summary: Be assertive and clear. Create a hook for your first sentence. Revise your introduction once you complete the essay.

Problem: Article: Wash several mint leaves under running water. Slice the mint into narrow ribbons to allow the flavor to steep better and to make for smaller pieces in the drink. Mint is available in most supermarkets and is also hardy enough to be grown in many gardens. Adding mint to the cucumber water will make it sweeter without adding sugar. Lemons, limes and oranges all add strong flavor to water without adding calories. If serving immediately, slice the fruit in half and squeeze the juice into the prepared cucumber water. Slices of fruit may be left with the cucumbers to steep for a longer period. Remember to wash the fruit, particularly if you are allowing slices to steep. Be aware that the fruit may contain seeds which could fall into the drink. Citrus is also an important source of Vitamin C which is necessary to strengthen bones and muscles. Remove the cap of the strawberry with a paring knife and wash the berries to remove dirt or other impurities. Slice strawberries lengthwise and allow them to steep with the cucumbers. Strawberries are an important source of potassium which can help lower blood pressure. Strawberries will be most flavorful when they are in season. Look for dark red berries that still have their caps. Pineapple chunks will add a tangy acidic flavor to your cucumber water. Slice fresh or canned pineapple into chunks and keep them in the freezer for a quick additive. Add cup of frozen pineapple to a pitcher of cucumber water Fill half the pitcher with seltzer water for the initial steep and add the remaining chilled water just prior to serving for maximum flavor and bubbles. Club soda or other carbonated waters can give the sensation of drinking soda without adding the calories or sugar of commercially available drinks. If calories are a consideration, remember to check the label of the sparkling water to be sure you aren't accidentally adding more than just bubbles. Remember that sparkling water will go flat over time, so it is better to chill it before opening it rather than after.
Summary:
Include mint in the water. Infuse the water with citrus. Include sliced strawberries. Add frozen pineapple. Use sparkling water in place of still water. Finished.