Given the task definition and input, reply with output. In this task, you will use your knowledge about language (and common sense) to determine what element the marked number refers to. The numbers are marked with two underlines around them, like: _ number _. Your answer should be chosen from the given text, and should not contain other words.

Lindsay: Do n't ' here we go ' me ! If you ' here we go ' me , one more time ...
Bobby: Listen to yourself .
Lindsay: Oh , and I hate that _ one _ , too - " listen to yourself " . " Here we go " and " listen to yourself " . If you say those things , in our marriage , I will scream . Okay ? Do you hear me ? You know , it 's good to know these things before we become husband and wife . This is very , very , healthy .
listen