Problem: Write an article based on this summary: Let the fry eat the egg yolk after hatching. Feed the fry specialized food. Use baby brine shrimp once the fry are larger. Keep the water clean. Make a plan for your fry before they grow too large. Move the gourami to a larger tank after a few weeks.

Answer: Fry typically hatch within 30 hours of spawning, often within the first 24 hours for some species. If they were laid in bubble nests, the fry usually stay attached to their place of hatching for two or three days, as they consume the yolk of their egg sac. After eating the yolk from their own eggs, the fry will become free swimming, moving around the tank, and will need to be fed according to the instructions below. The newly hatched fry are too small to eat most types of food. Suitable foods, which may be available at an aquarium store, include liquid fish food, rotifers, infusoria, or hard boiled egg yolk pushed through cheesecloth. Try to feed them as often as you can manage, six times a day or more. Infusoria can be grown at home by keeping a small piece of lettuce or potato in a jar of water in a sunny area. After a few days, the water should turn cloudy, then clear, and can then be fed to the fry in small amounts. Dwarf gourami, honey gourami, and other species whose adults are less than 5 inches (13 cm) in length produce fry that are too small to eat larger food for seven or eight days after hatching. Larger species may be able to eat baby brine shrimp after about four days. Once the fry have reached this stage, feed them baby brine shrimp to give them the protein needed for growth. Continue to conduct partial water changes as you would in a normal tank, and siphon off material collecting on the bottom of the tank. Because the fry are easily sucked into the siphon, give the bucket of removed water some time to settle so you can find and transfer any fry back into the tank. Gourami typically produce hundreds or thousands of eggs, and while it's unlikely that all of them will survive, you will often end up with more fry than can fit in your tank. Find someone who will buy your fry, decide how many you will keep, and consider euthanizing fish with obvious physical defects. Remaining fry can be fed on an ordinary diet once they have reached several weeks of age, although a diet that includes a variety of animal and vegetable proteins is better for growth than fish flakes alone.

Problem: Write an article based on this summary: Understand your partner's needs. Verbalize your feelings. Show affection. Spend some alone time together. Express gratitude. Be kind. Share joy.

Answer: You may express love through gifts when your partner receives love through touch. Recognizing that the way you give love may not be the way that your partner receives love can be eye-opening. Yet, knowing the ways your partner feels loved helps you express love in ways that your partner can appreciate. Try different methods, and see what generates the most positive response. Some research has examined five "love languages," or ways to relate to your partner, express love, and receive love: Words of affirmation: compliments, stating your positive feelings, saying "I love you." Quality time: giving your undivided attention to your partner. Gifts: physical symbols of love such as flowers, jewelry, tools. Acts of service: walking the dog, cleaning the kitchen. Physical touch: having sex (if they're comfortable and ready), holding hands, giving affection. Tell your partner that you love her. Tell your partner when you find her attractive. Your partner cannot read your mind, so express yourself in words when you find yourself admiring your partner. Express the value you see in your partner and remember, it never gets old! You may feel more comfortable writing out your feelings than saying them out loud, so write cards or letters to your partner. Leave notes for your partner to show you think about her and care for her. You can even try to express your love in other languages if you are too shy to say it in your native tonguejust make sure your partner understands what you're saying! Affection communicates love in a way that words cannot. When with your partner, be affectionate and express your love through touch. Touch his hair, hold his hand, and put your arm around him. Physical touch can create intimacy and show your partner that you want to be physically close with him. Recognize that some people prefer more affection than others. Talk with your partner about what he appreciates, how he likes to be touched, and whether touch is appropriate in public. Life can get busy with work, kids, pets, in-laws, friends, etc. Make sure you set aside some time to spend alone with your partner. Find a sitter for the kids, and clear a night to spend together. Focus on your partner and discuss things that are meaningful to both of you; avoid talking about "To-do's", kids, or money. Make a date night and enjoy doing something together. You don't always have to make date nights romantic; have fun! Do something goofy or choose an activity that you can laugh at and enjoy together. Show your partner you care by acknowledging the things that she does that you appreciate. Express gratitude for the things your partner does (such as picking up the kids, buying the dog food) and express gratitude for the qualities you admire that your partner possesses (such as loving, caring, generous). Express your gratitude through words or through a note. You can give gifts that express gratitude, such as flowers or a beautiful meal or something special that you choose. Kindness is the best predictor of stability and long-term satisfaction in relationships. Being kind shows your partner that you are invested in showing love in the relationship. Those who see kindness as a muscle that must be exercised tend to experience more positive interactions than those who see kindness as a fixed trait. If your partner expresses a need and you are tired, distracted, or overwhelmed, don't neglect your partner. Turn toward your partner and connect. Kindness is important during fights, too. Treat your partner with kindness, and recognize when you have not been kind to your partner and repair the damage. Celebrate your partner's good news. Be there for your partner when things are difficult, but especially be there when your partner experiences positive news. Partners who celebrate good news together have better long-term stability. Show that you support your partner and share in his joy. Give your partner your full attention when he shares news. Engage wholeheartedly with your partner. Ask questions and show your enthusiasm.

Problem: Write an article based on this summary: Think about the problem as a difference in communication styles. Accept your feelings. Employ structured conversation. Stray outside your comfort zone. Exchange apologies as necessary.

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Assume that your friend or partner is not ignoring you to be malicious. It's likely your partner is ignoring you simply to avoid deepening and extending a conflict. They probably want to get some breathing space and let you both cool down for a bit after a conflict. When you understand your partner's different understanding of the silent treatment, you will be in a better position to make up with them later and avoid deepening the conflict. When you're ignored by someone you care about, it hurts. You might feel frustrated, angry, and sad that you're being ignored. If you feel this way, don't pretend that you don't. Accepting your feelings is the first step toward expressing yourself and letting the other party know they're being unkind. Structured conversations are those which are schedules at a particular time for a particular purpose, and unfold with a particular set of rules which forbid things like yelling and name-calling. In a structured conversation, both parties are prepared to confront the issue in front of them and have rehearsed their basic talking points. Suggesting structured conversations can be useful if someone is ignoring you because of a longstanding problem or set of problems which prevents you from forging a deeper emotional connection. Try a different style of communication for yourself. If you're a "hot" conflict communicator -- constantly yelling, getting angry, and flaring up emotionally -- try to exercise more control in the heat of the moment. If you're a "cool" conflict communicator -- you ignore the other person, leave to give yourself space when a conflict occurs, and try to explain yourself and your point of view only after taking a few minutes to consider your response -- put more immediacy and emotion into your conflict resolution behavior (but don't get carried away yelling and cursing). If you realize in the course of the person's explanation that you've hurt their feelings, you should explain that you didn't mean to and that you're sorry. But be firm when explaining that you feel hurt as well by the way they've been ignoring you. Forgive the person who has been ignoring you and express your hope that they can find it within themselves to forgive you too, should you feel you need it. Sometimes it is hard to understand why people are upset by the things we do or say that seem innocuous. If the other person has a weak or unintelligible reason for ignoring you, it's nice to apologize nonetheless.