Everyone makes mistakes . People lie for all kinds of reasons , some better than others . But honesty is very important to me , and although I can forgive dishonesty , I need some reason to forgive , some indication that it was a mistake that wo n't happen again . Tonight I shared this sentiment with her .

Give answer the following question using evidence from the above passage: Why may they have a discussion with her about honesty ?
She lied to the speaker .