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If your parents are not okay with you having a girlfriend, you should not lie to them. Communicate with them and maybe you can find a compromise. Doing something your parents do not allow make it even more difficult if you're caught. Take any opportunity to build their trust. Go to bed on time and do your chores when you're told. Also, improving your grades shows that you are focused and understand your priorities. Getting your parent to support you will make things much easier down the road. For example, they can give you rides when you want to meet her or extra allowance if you want to buy her a small present to show her you like her. Respectful behavior is important to provide an example of how you will treat their daughter. A confident young man who does well in school and has aspirations for the future will keep most parents from stopping you from going out with their daughter unless you ever prove dishonest or impolite. If she says she is unsure or not allowed to date in middle school, it's not the end of the world. As much as you want to go out with her, it's much more important that you establish respect early on. Do not suggest that she lie to her parents or goes behind their back. That will only get her into trouble and make you seem selfish for disregarding what her parents want. You can suggest that you have a non-date at her house under her parents' supervision if her parents initially say no. Show them that you respect them and will follow their rules.
Be sure that your parents are aware of what you are doing. Show your parents that you are responsible. Be polite when meeting her parents. Respect her and her family's views.