Article: Fortunately, gender stereotypes are becoming a thing of the past, so your guy is free to choose how he wants to express his manhood. Let him decide what behaviors and physical attributes he thinks are "manly," and appreciate him for who he is. For instance, some guys might feel like a beard makes them look more manly, but others may prefer a clean-shaven look. Similarly, it's okay if your guy wants to take good care of his skin or prefers ballroom dancing over sports. While you might feel like you're always right, chances are your guy feels the same way about himself. Don't worry about winning arguments or getting your way. Instead, communicate with your guy so you both have a chance to speak your mind. Then, find a compromise that works for both of you. To show him you're listening, paraphrase what he said back to him. You might say, "It sounds like you're worried about the budget," or "I hear you saying that you need more time to relax." Both you and your guy should use kind language when talking to each other. Don't call each other names, hurl insults, or yell at each other, even if you're having a disagreement. Instead, stay calm and keep your language civil. If you're having trouble being calm, take a break to give yourself time to let off steam. Say, "I need to step out for a few minutes. Let's continue this discussion when we've both calmed down." You and your guy likely have different interests. You might be tempted to pressure him into doing things that you like, which is totally normal. However, stick to activities that both of you like as often as possible. This will make him feel respected and helps you both have fun together. For instance, let's say you enjoy romcoms (romantic comedies) and he hates them. When picking a movie, choose a genre you both enjoy, like a summer blockbuster. It's common for people to enjoy the chase when they're dating. If you're too available, it can make your guy feel like he's lost the thrill of the hunt. Keep yourself busy by enjoying your time with others. This will give your guy more pleasure when he finally gets time alone with you. For instance, you might make plans with your best friend on Friday so that your Saturday date night is more exciting. Both you and your guy need space to enjoy your own hobbies and be your own person. Encourage your guy to pursue his interests, and use that time to follow your own goals. This will help your guy feel like a manly man, while you'll also feel fulfilled and happy. For example, you and your guy might agree to spend 1 weeknight each week and 1 Saturday a month pursuing your personal goals. If you have kids, decide how you'll cover childcare. For instance, you might alternate which nights you have time to yourself.

What is a summary?
Respect how he defines his manhood. Listen to his perspective when you have a disagreement. Speak to him with respect and expect the same from him. Choose activities that you both enjoy when planning dates. Spend time with friends and family so he feels like he's chasing you. Nurture your mutual independence so he doesn't feel restricted.