Most cats are naturally a little skittish about having their paws handled, so begin by helping your cat get accustomed to it. Wait for a time when your cat is relaxed and lounging. Begin gently petting its paws while simultaneously petting the cat in its favorite spots (the back of the neck, under the chin, where its back meets its tail, etc.). Do this for each paw you plan to trim. The cat might pull its paws away, or even get up and walk away. Let it go; don't force it to do anything, but continue to gently pet its paws when you have the opportunity. Whenever you handle your cat's paws, reward it with treats and praise to help build positive associations. Once your cat is comfortable enough to allow you to rest your hand on its paws without pulling away, start to gently hold its paws in your open hand. Place your hand over the cat's paw, then flip your hand around so the bottom of the cat's paw is on the palm of your hand. Keep rewarding the cat with petting and treats; give the cat a new, special treat that will only be associated with cutting its claws. After your cat grows accustomed to you holding its paws, start holding the paws and massaging them with your fingers. Gently massage your fingers over the tops and bottoms of each paw you plan to trim. Reward your cat with more treats and praise. Eventually, you should be able to gently squeeze the paws (applying most of the pressure on the pads) to push individual claws out without upsetting your cat. When your cat's claws are extended, you'll see the thick part of the nail, and, towards the cat's toe, a pinkish area inside the nail, called the quick. The quick is the living part of the nail and contains blood vessels and nerves, so cutting a cat's nail to the quick is quite painful for the cat. Never cut a cat's nail close to or with flush with the toe; your aim is to clip off only the sharp point. Look carefully at where and how large each quick is--through a clear nail it will look like a small pink triangle. Each of your cat's nails will be similar, so even if the cat has dark nails, look to find one clear nail as a reference point for the others. " If your cat is already comfortable sitting in the right position to have its nails cut, it will put up less of a fight during the actual trimming. If you're going to be trimming the cat's nails by yourself, the cat will need to sit on its rear on your lap, facing away from you, while you hold its paw with one hand (and, eventually, the clippers with the other). Practice having your cat sit this way and hold each of its paws. Gently press on each nail to extend it. Again, reward the cat with treats and praise. If you have someone to help, they can hold the cat facing you, or they can cradle it, while you hold the paw with one hand (and, eventually, clip with the other). Practice having your assistant hold your cat while you hold each of its paws and gently press each claw until your cat seems comfortable. Reward it with treats and praise.
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One-sentence summary -- Pet your cat's paws. Hold your cat's paws. Massage your cat's paws. Look closely at your cat's nails. Get your cat comfortable with the "nail-trimming position.

If you're in love with someone, you'll likely long for them whenever they're away from you. You may even miss them when they're only away for a short time. Look for feelings of wanting to be with them every moment. This could be a sign you're in love. For example, you might catch yourself thinking, "I miss him," even though he just left. Similarly, you might find yourself cuddling a pillow and imagining it's the person you love. You may fall in love with someone who doesn't feel the same way. This can be very disappointing and hurtful, but it's best to let yourself move on. Everyone has a right to their feelings, so don't try to make them love you. Instead, get over them by sharing your feelings, grieving the loss of your fantasy, and moving on with your life. Don't wait for someone to change their mind and start loving you. Remember, a better match for you may be out there waiting for you to find them. If you continue pursuing a person who doesn't return your feelings, you're likely becoming obsessed with them. This is harmful to both you and them. Respect their choices and search for love with someone else.
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One-sentence summary -- Notice if you feel a longing for someone. Pursue your love only if the feeling is mutual.

The wax may set up sooner than that, but you will need to wait for the sand to dry as well. If you pull the candle out too soon, the sand may not stick properly. Use a spoon to loosen the sand around the candle, then carefully lift the candle out. This will prevent the candle from making a mess on your table when you use it. Depending on how hot your wax was, you may have a subtle sand texture, or a thick shell of sand. You can do this with a small spoon. Try doing some organic designs, such as swirls and loops. Depending on how long or short your wick is, you may need to trim it down. If it is too long, it will become a fire hazard. If th candle wobbles too much, turn the candle over and look at the bottom. If you see any lumps or bumps, you will need to smooth them out using a knife. Always place a candle stand under your candle to catch any drips or melted wax.
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One-sentence summary -- Let the candle sit overnight. Remove the candle from the sand carefully the next day. Gently brush the excess sand off using a soft-bristled brush. Consider carving designs into the sand to expose the candle underneath. Trim the wicks to about inch (0.63 centimeters), if necessary. Flatten the bottom of the candle, if necessary. Use your candle.

Before you do anything, you need to read extensively about what it actually means to be a Shaolin Monk. This includes the duties, responsibilities, requirements, and other qualifications that Shaolin Monks must have. Kung Fu is studied, not to teach fighting, but to discipline the body and for the beauty of emulating the movements of the animals, which brings you into harmony with nature. There are many books you can read that will teach you about the philosophy, about Buddhism and about meditation. Understand the history of Shaolin Kung Fu, and its 1500 years of development. Know that not all Shaolin monks are the greatest warriors. They are essentially Buddhist monks who have studied the technique of Shaolin. Understand the strict requirements that Shaolin Monks are held to today. Understand the philosophy and spiritual aspects of Shaolin Kung Fu. Shaolin is a complete worldview and lifestyle geared toward creating a balanced and strong individual who is at ease with his or her world. The martial arts aspects of Kung Fu are just physical manifestations of a complete spirituality that you will need to learn and live by as a Shaolin Monk. Shaolin Kung Fu is an outcropping of Buddhism. Shaolin Kung Fu requires intense training, self-control, and self-reflection. Shaolin Monks must possess a complete and utter dedication to their way of life. Buddhism is the basic foundation of Shaolin spirituality. In order to truly understand what it means to be a Shaolin monk, you need to also understand what it means to live as a Buddhist. Before you continue on your path to become a Shaolin Monk, you should dedicate yourself to learning about Buddhism. If the idea of being a Buddhist excites you, continue on your path.
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Educate yourself about what it means to be a Shaolin Monk. Understand that Shaolin Kung Fu is not just about fighting. Learn about Buddhism.