Problem: Article: There are re-keying kits that contain all the tools you'll need available for most lock brands. One brand's kit usually doesn't work for others, so check your lock's brand and purchase a kit that matches it. You can find kits online and at hardware and home improvement shops. Read your kit's instructions carefully, in case there are any minor differences specific to your brand. The kit will provide a thin, wire-like tool that you can use to remove the knobs. Insert your key into the lock and turn it to unlock the door. Slide the wire tool into the small hole on the side of the interior door knob. This releases the knobs and will allow you to pull the outside knob out of the lock. You can also use a stretched out paperclip or pin instead of the tool. If you've lost your key, you'll need to remove the entire lock and bring it to a hardware store or locksmith to have a new key made. If your lock doesn't have a side poke hole, you're better off replacing the whole lock. Your lock is probably complicated enough that it requires a locksmith to rekey. Once you've removed the exterior lock face, look inside the knob and check for any sheets of plastic or metal that hold the lock cylinder in place. Slide them out if any are present, then put pressure on the key, which is still inserted into the keyhole, to pop out the lock cylinder from the back of the knob. If your see rust or other signs of wear and tear inside the lock, you should just replace the entire lock. Your kit will come with a wrench-like tool that you'll use to remove the retainer ring that secures the cylinder housing. Slide the tool around the horseshoe-shaped ring, then turn the tool to pop off the ring. Your kit will come with a cylinder follower, or a tube-shaped tool, that you can use to slide the plug out of the housing. Push it through the cylinder housing from the side opposite the keyhole to pop out the plug. Keep constant pressure on the plug and follower, and make sure they're always in contact as you slide the plug out, so that the lock pins and springs don't pop out and fly everywhere. On some locks, you can just turn the plug over to empty out the old pins. Other locks might require you to pluck them out with a set of tiny tweezers supplied in the kit. Check your kit's instructions to find out exactly how you should remove your plug's old pins. Once you've removed the old lock pins, slide the new key (provided in the kit) into the keyhole. The new kit will come with colored or numbered pins, and its instructions will include a code. Use the kit's tweezers to insert the pins into the plug's slots so they match the code. For example, the code might list the correct order as blue, red, red, blue, yellow, starting from the side opposite the keyhole. Correctly installed pins should be flush with the surface of the plug; they shouldn't stick out over their slots. Once the pins are installed, push the plug back into the cylinder housing. Slide the retainer ring back into place, pop the cylinder back into the door knob, and replace any plastic or metal sheets that secured the cylinder. Push the exterior door back into its slot in the lock, and rotate the key until it the knob pops and locks into place.
Summary: Purchase a kit labelled for your lock's brand. Remove the exterior door knob. Pop the the cylinder out of the back of the knob. Remove the cylinder retainer ring. Slide the cylinder plug out of the cylinder housing. Remove the old pins from the cylinder plug. Insert the new pins to match the code in the instructions. Reassemble the lock.

Problem: Article: If you are worried that your parent may be considering suicide, look for these outward signs and risk factors so that you can catch the problem before it's too late: Past suicidal attempts. This is one of the biggest risk factors for actual suicide. Outbursts of rage. Although this can signal other things as well, it's a common indication of suicidal intent. Increased risk-taking behavior, such as drinking and driving. A parent who feels suicidal may start to care less about personal safety. Behavior isn't the only indication of being suicidal; you can read the signs in what he talks about as well. Talk of suicidal intent. Your parent may explicitly state how he feels. Self-hatred. This is a strong ingredient of suicidal thinking. Being a burden. As many suicidal parents feel guilty, it's likely they will feel like they are burdening those in close proximity, including you. Despite what some people may think, suicide is not as much of a choice as it is a combination of natural forces and factors. Some of these forces are: Mental illness. 90% or more of people who commit suicide had a mental illness at the time of their death. The most common illnesses are depression and other mood disorders, substance abuse disorder, schizophrenia, and personality disorders such as bi-polar and borderline. Serious medical issues. Cancer, HIV, and other illnesses can cause people to experience hopelessness and other desperate emotions which sometimes result in suicide. Biological factors. Research shows that people who commit suicide often have differences in brain structure, especially the areas of the brain related to mood, thinking, and stress response. Environmental stress. Things like prolonged bullying have been linked to an increased risk for suicide. Suicide is often thought of as a solution to a problem. A suicidal parent is trying to escape from a variety of problems and painful realities. Believing that the people in their life are better off without them. Failure to live up to personal standards. Many people who want to commit suicide are wrestling with unrealistically high standards for themselves and their lives. Self-blame. These people blame themselves for not measuring up to the tasks of life, unrealistic or not. High awareness of failure, so that they are constantly and painfully aware of how much they're failing to match their ideal self. Anxiety and pain result from these issues. The state of mind that sometimes ends in suicide is extremely painful and hard to bear. "Cognitive deconstruction," which refers to how people think about their lives as a simple, unchanging experience of sadness and pain. Finally, disinhibition, or the final step that comes about when a person thinks that a drastic measure such as suicide is necessary to overcome their current predicament.
Summary: Watch for signs of suicidal behavior. Listen for suicidal thoughts and ideas. Learn about suicide's causes. Understand the suicidal state of mind.

Problem: Article: This is a principle first discussed by Aristotle. Too much of a good thing can turn into something bad. Virtue can often be found in the middle ground, between two extremes of a characteristic. For example, take self-love. An extreme excess of this principle will result in narcissism, but an extreme deficiency will produce low self-esteem. You need to love and respect yourself to show love and respect to others, but you need to love yourself in moderation so that you do not get carried away. If you really want to be a virtuous woman, you need to prepare yourself for a lifetime commitment. A virtuous life is not an act you can put on for a few days. True virtue is a lifestyle. You can commit yourself to a virtuous life without becoming a perfectly virtuous woman overnight. The best way to create virtue in yourself is to practice virtuous behaviors so often that they become new habits. Do not be discouraged by past mistakes or mistakes you make along the way. Ultimately, if you practice principles of virtue long enough, they will become habits and characteristics of your overall person.
Summary:
Orient yourself to the mean, not the extremes. Commit yourself to a virtuous life. Practice virtue until it becomes habit.