question: Complete the next sentence:

How to file a complaint
Identify the core issue (s).
Focus on the actual events that took place. It's important to separate facts from feelings, particularly in emotionally charged situations.
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- Instead of blaming the abuser, however, try taking responsibility for your own actions in that situation. If there were factual events leading up to the abuse, you can claim responsibility by stating what this situation looked like and how you felt.
- Think about whether or not these emotions caused the anger on your part. For example, look for context clues: was someone irritating you? Were there other people in the room who teased you? Think about whether or not the person taunted you.
- For example, there may have been wrong time frame for your relationship. If you were dating someone who was abusive, your spouse also might have been in an abusive relationship when the abuse took place.
- If the situation is particularly complex, you may find it helpful to write your thoughts and feelings down in a journal. Getting a better sense of your feelings may help you separate them from the facts of your complaint.

answer: If the situation is particularly complex, you may find it helpful to write your thoughts and feelings down in a journal. Getting a better sense of your feelings may help you separate them from the facts of your complaint.

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How to get rid of losers in your life
Taper off contact.
Sometimes, the easiest way to end a friendship is to do so indirectly. You may feel guilt about not being upfront with someone.
OPTIONS:
- However, if a person is very difficult to deal with, a confrontation can be more trouble than it's worth. If you fear someone would get aggressive or angry in response to you being upfront about ending the relationship, try to make an effort to gradually see less of this person.
- However, if you think someone is being disrespectful or bad-spirited, try to elongate the friendship with some indirect communication. If you feel the temptation to chat with your friends or sit down with them on an empty stomach, see if it helps.
- However, you can overcome feelings of guilt by reducing contact with your old friend. This doesn't mean you have to lose a friend.
- In this case, it's best to simply cut off contact with that person. Don't apologize or let the friendship go.

answer: However, if a person is very difficult to deal with, a confrontation can be more trouble than it's worth. If you fear someone would get aggressive or angry in response to you being upfront about ending the relationship, try to make an effort to gradually see less of this person.

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How to organize a soccer tournament
Prepare an expense plan.
You can use a spreadsheet or just make a list that helps you keep track of your tournament expenses. You need to have written documentation for your tournament costs so that you can keep your finances organized and easily explain the costs to your funding sources.
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- For example, if a tournament costs around $250, your expenses may include transportation, equipment, team money, and time with teammates. You may also put your budget into a spreadsheet so that you can monitor your expenses for two weeks and complete the tournament on time.
- Insert all of your figures into a spreadsheet, including a contingency fund. Calculate a total cost for the tournament so that you can plan how to fund it.
- Purchase your tickets at a major stadium. Prepare a budget for your tournament and shop around for those tickets.
- Also, make sure that you have it all arranged out before you start planning. Make a booklet of all of your expenses and purchase and sell it.

answer:
Insert all of your figures into a spreadsheet, including a contingency fund. Calculate a total cost for the tournament so that you can plan how to fund it.