INPUT ARTICLE: Article: Don't try to ask him to hang out in a cute way that may send the wrong message. Be direct with what you want to do while you hang out and don't act desperate or needy since this could be read the wrong way. Ask him something like "Do you want to come with me to get lunch?" or "Would you like to grab a coffee on Thursday?" This way he knows what you want to do and you're not flirting with him. If you want to stay casual, talk to a group of friends to do a large event. This will help you ease into hanging out together as friends. If he's shy, he may be more open to hanging out with a group rather than have a one-on-one experience. Use a group text or message to easily communicate with one another and figure out everyone's schedule. Talk to the guy you want to hang out with in person as well as through the group chat. Have a night where you play board games or go out to dinner all together. This allows you to have fun and talk. Look for coffee shops or public events taking place in your area using Facebook. If this is your first time hanging out with him, find a place where you'll be able to hold a conversation and get to know each other better. Avoid seeing a movie since it's not a place where you can talk. Check with your local museums to see if they offer free days or have any specials. Hanging out at your home may send the wrong message if you're only looking to be friends. If the guy still thinks that he's on a date, let him know in a polite way that won't hurt his feelings. Be direct with him so he understands completely. Use phrases like "I'm just looking to be friends" or "I'm not looking for anyone to date right now" so he doesn't feel upset.

SUMMARY: Use casual, non-flirty language while asking him to hang out. Invite mutual friends if you don't want to send the wrong message. Do something casual in a public place. Tell him that you don't want it to be a date if he doesn't get the hint.

INPUT ARTICLE: Article: Choose a time when you know you won't be rushed. This will make it a calm and relaxed experience for both you and your baby. Since the massage may relax your baby and make them sleepy, consider making it part of your bedtime routine. If you massage your baby before their bath, for example, you'll be able to rinse off any oils you use during the session. Wait at least an hour after a feeding to give your baby a massage. This will help them fully digest. The massage will also likely work best if your baby is wide-eyed and awake. Since you'll be undressing your baby down to their diaper, it's best if the room is on the warmer side. This will keep your baby from getting chilled during the session. Lay out a thick and soft blanket to lay the baby on during the massage. Natural oils like coconut and safflower are best, as these won't clog the baby's pores. While you don't have to use oil, it's been shown to have some benefits. It should keep your baby's skin nice and moist, and it might also lead to some extra weight gain. Warm up the oils by rubbing a small amount in between your fingers. Use the sound of your voice to help your baby relax. Speak to them in a sing-song tone while you play some instrumental music in the background. Or sing the songs yourself to provide the music on your own! Over time, you'll learn your baby's individual signs. In general, expect a happy baby to be cooing, passing gas, making eye contact with you, and breathing easily and evenly. A stressed-out baby might get the hiccups, have patches of red or pale skin, avoid focusing on you, and/or cry.

SUMMARY: Set aside at least 30 minutes for your massage session. Wait until your baby is alert and no longer full. Warm up the room to about 75F (24C) and set out a blanket. Use edible, unscented oils to enhance the benefits of massage. Sing to your baby or play soothing lullabies. Learn your baby's positive and negative responses.

INPUT ARTICLE: Article: You may have to pull the screen down to see the menu bar. This will open the recent tabs list in your current tab. If you are logged in with your Google account, you'll see the tab history from your other devices as well. The tab you select will reopen in the current tab.

SUMMARY: Tap the Chrome Menu button (). Select "Recent tabs". Tap a tab to reopen it.

INPUT ARTICLE: Article: If you feel like you may be an immediate threat to yourself or to other people, check yourself into the Emergency Department at your local hospital. Therapists and social workers are trained to provide crisis care and help you de-escalate your thoughts and feelings in the moment, and help you cope with similar feelings in the future. The medical team may recommend further treatment, such as going to residential care or obtaining therapy. If you're having difficulty managing the thoughts on your own, make an appointment with a therapist. A therapist can help you work through your obsessive thoughts and respond to them differently. If you tend to focus on catastrophic events or exaggerated feelings of responsibility, therapy can help you respond to these thoughts in a healthy and effective way without resorting to compulsive behavior. If there are specific situations that you think about or places you avoid, therapy can help you with exposure and response to these situations, such as avoiding riding in cars or trains for fear of death. A support group can help you join with other people who have similar obsessive thoughts or fears. A support group can offer encouragement, support, and friendship and can help with feelings of isolation. Ask your medical doctor or therapist if there are any local support groups that deal with obsessive thoughts. Having obsessive thoughts can make you feel isolated and alone, like nobody understands. Have a solid support system of family and friends to help combat feelings of isolation and vulnerability. Allow a friend or family member to encourage you to combat obsessive thoughts or follow through with treatment. If you feel socially isolated, make new friends. Volunteering is a great way to help your community and meet new people that share similar interests as you. Volunteer at your local animal shelter or animal sanctuary, or with children or the elderly.

SUMMARY:
Check yourself into the Emergency Department. See a therapist. Join a support group. Stay connected.