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How to spice up your relationship intellectually
Have each partner write a list of their favorite/interesting things and swap the lists.
Every day, pick a topic of conversation from your partner's list and research and read about it for 10 to 30 minutes. ( google it, read it from a newspaper, book, etc.

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*) then, swap the lists and review the lists that you picked up earlier. See how you and your partner can overcome some common ground or come to an agreement on what you like about each other..
*) next time you and your significant other are at the dinner table or riding in the car, wow them with your newly found knowledge about their interests--be ready to ask questions too. After the first conversation dies out (if it does), then swap subjects..
*) because some subjects want to focus strictly on comments in addition to to the topics discussed/interests. To keep a conversation going is to really entice each other with comments, as well as to make each other feel good..
*) over the course of that day or two, download manuals and print out those. After these days, gather some notes and go out and complete them..
) next time you and your significant other are at the dinner table or riding in the car, wow them with your newly found knowledge about their interests--be ready to ask questions too. After the first conversation dies out (if it does), then swap subjects.