Scammers often use the phrase "Remember the distance or color does not matter, but love matters a lot in life". That phrase is used in a lot of love scam emails. Although they could simply enjoy IM chatting more, what they say in IM may not be reportable to the website, allowing their profile to stay up so they can draw in other people. While plenty of people have bad grammar or spelling, see if it's inconsistent with the way people speak from where they claim to be. Also, if it is audio chat, see if his/her accent is what he/she claimed it to be (if the scammer happened to mention that before, of course).
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One-sentence summary -- Read their introductory letter. Be cautious if they immediately want to get you off the dating website and onto a IM chat. Check their spelling and grammar.

Learn more about her. The more you know, the better you'll be able to flirt and talk with her. Respectfully approach her friends and family and tell them that you'd like to learn more about her. Be open and honest with your intentions and they will better understand how to help you. Do not present yourself as someone who you are not. This will certainly make things worse if she finds out that you have manipulated those close to her to get your way. Be polite when meeting her parents. Respectful behavior is important to provide an example of how you will treat their daughter. If she says she is unsure or not allowed to date in school, it's not the end of the world. As much as you want to go out with her, it's much more important that you establish respect early on. Do not suggest that she lies to her parents or goes behind their back. That will only get her into trouble and make you seem selfish for disregarding what her parents want. You may get frustrated if things don't go your way. You may not feel like you're being a bully to her but how are you treating her friends? You may not think you're doing anything wrong but if you don't know her friends, your constant questions may seem intimidating. Don't be a bully! Research has shown that if you come across as a bully or intimidating that the girl may agree to give you what you want just to get you to stop. Just because you get the response you're looking for doesn't mean that she is being sincere. You don't want to build a relationship on these terms. Make sure to make a good impression on them as they are her first line of defense. If she is much more popular than you, or in a different social circle, more effort will be required. Try and talk to that group to get closer to her, and be seen in a different light.
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One-sentence summary -- Talk to her friends and family. Respect her and her family's views. Stay calm and courteous. Talk to her friends and learn more about her.

Organize your life more clearly by keeping a schedule so that you will know where and when you are supposed to be somewhere. This will prevent last minute decisions and keep you active and on track. Keep track of your exercise routine, when you are meeting family or friends, or even when the dog needs groomed. Everything can be organized to keep you moving forward. Take advantage of time-management web applications (or mobile apps) like Google Calendar to schedule out your daily activities, pay bills, or making appointments. The best part is you can adjust reminder settings so that you the calendar can alert you to do something. Calendars are available just about everywhere nowadays, even on phones. Take advantage of these services and become familiar with them so it becomes routine. Routines are generally good because we do things brush our teeth, get a shower, comb our hair because they are good for us and you don't have to think about doing them. Unfortunately, the same is true for bad habits. It is a good idea to reevaluate the habits in your routine and remove them from your life and replace them with more positive ones. It is easier to create goods habits than trying to quit bad habits. Therefore, think of any bad habits you have in your routine and replace them the exact opposite habits. That way, your daily routine stays familiar and your new, good habits naturally (over time) replace the bad ones. The benefit of a routine is maintaining the type of lifestyle you want without all the added pressures in making the right decisions. So, you will want to practice healthy and productive habits to make sure your life stays on track. When thinking about the habits of your routine take time to visualize what you want your life to look like on a daily, weekly, and monthly basis and take the necessary steps to make it part of your healthy routine. Skipping important dates, extending deadlines, and finishing tasks at the last second creates havoc. This type of lifestyle leads to missed opportunities to grow as an individual and miss meeting friends and colleagues for work and social functions. You will also see work piling up at your desk at work. Try not to miss even the small things. Of course, it is okay if you slip up once in a while but if you continue to miss many small things it adds up quickly and you get derailed once again. When a routine or activity cannot be fully completed, try to do as much of it as you possibly can so that it remains part of your schedule. For example, if you cannot exercise, then walk fast to wherever you going; not enough time to write an article, then write a paragraph; and no time to cook dinner, then just make a salad.
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One-sentence summary -- Set reminders. Maintain a routine. Stick to a schedule.

Since a peck is quick and light, you don't want rough, chapped lips. Lick your lips lightly, but make sure they are dry before the kiss. If you need to, dab a little bit of chapstick on the top lip and rub it onto the bottom lip. It's important that your lips are soft rather than rough, but also only damp and not sloppy-wet. As you go in for the kiss, press your lips together like you're holding your breath. You don't want an open mouth, and you definitely don't want your tongue out at all. Don't press them tightly like your lips are sealed, but just enough that they touch. This is called puckering, or pursing, your lips. Imagine if you ate something slightly sour. Don't push them out so far that your top lip touches your nose. Push them out only so much that the inner part of your lips is visible. Whether it's a kiss on the mouth, the cheek, or the forehead, a peck is always quick and light. You want to press your lips so that he feels it, but not so your lips feel smashed against him. The ideal peck will leave hardly any dampness on his skin. A peck is the quickest of all kisses, so don't let it linger. Make the kiss last long enough that your lips touch him, but pull away right after that. Practice the kiss so you get a feel for how long it should be. Remember, touch your lips to skin, and then pull away.
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One-sentence summary --
Wet your lips just enough to soften them. Close your lips. Push your lips out a little. Press your lips lightly against his skin. Pull away in less than one second.