Problem: Other men are outside talking and laughing and then man with the red hair is gathered with friend and has a chip in his nose. he

Answer: and his friend next to him slap the guy in front of him.

Problem: How to stop being a condescending person
Listen more.
Instead of dominating a conversation by talking all the time, try to listen more to others' opinions instead. Don't just listen, but actively listen to what the person is saying.

Answer: Focus on understanding the point that they are making, and take a few minutes to digest the information. While they're talking, listen, rather than formulating your answer.

Problem: How to report falsehoods on police reports
Read the police report.
You need to actually read the police report. Obtain a copy and read it carefully, highlighting any information you believe is false.
Answer: You can generally obtain a police report by stopping into the police station and requesting a copy. If you have been charged with a crime, then you can get a copy from the prosecutor.