Problem: Article: This is a common way that people express disapproval. Sometimes when people say something offensive, they're hoping for a response. When you don't give them what they want, they may register that they've offended you. This is different than simply pretending they didn't say something offensive. You must actively refrain from giving the response they want. If someone tells an offensive joke, refusing to laugh or smile shows that you don't approve of their humor. If some asks you a question and uses a slur or offensive language, you can opt to not answer. Instead of simply not responding, you can respond directly to the offensive comment. Let the person know that if they want to converse with you, they'll have to honor your boundaries. You can say, "I'm sorry, but I can't continue this conversation if you're going to use that language" or "I need you to use a different tone so that I can hear what you're saying without taking offense." This is important in order to not escalate the situation. Use a measured, casual tone when expressing your boundaries. You don't want to come off as threatening. Remember that you're not telling them what they need to do; you're telling them what your needs are in order for the conversation to continue. Even if someone has said something highly offensive, becoming visibly upset will not help the situation.
Summary: Refrain from responding. Set boundaries. Remain calm.

Problem: Article: With black dry erase marker, color in the tab so that it appears to be opened. You want to give the illusion that the tab of the can has been opened. Any other easily removable ink is also a good choice. The black coloring on the tab will be wiped away as part of the act, so make sure the ink can be wiped away quickly and easily. Markers labeled with a "W" denote they are water washable, and will more easily be removed from the can. Paint pens are also widely available and can easily be removed, depending on when they were applied to the can. Using a tack, needle, or other pointed object, punch a small hole in the can. Drain the soda through the small hole until roughly half of the contents remain. The soda will naturally drain to below wherever you placed the hole, so make sure you place the hole high enough to properly pour out the can when performing the trick. If you place the hole too low, position the can such that the can does not leak when you get ready for the trick. Give the can a used, beat-up look by slightly crushing the sides of the can. Make sure you can crush the sides without soda draining out of the hole. Don't crush the can too hard, as this can make restoring the can more difficult. Put the can somewhere that gives the appearance that it has been used and emptied. The trash bin is a good spot, but the recycling bin or simply laying around in a messy room is a good idea as well. Make sure to place the can down so that the remainder of the soda does not leak out through the hole you created. The soda should stay carbonated for a long period of time, provided the can is not jostled or moved too much prior to performance.
Summary: Color in the tab of the can. Drain half of the soda. Crush in the sides of the can. Plant the soda for the trick.

Problem: Article: Freezing works best for small votive holders or candle jars. Once your candle has cooled to normal room temperature, place it in the freezer. If you put it in when it's too hot, you'll risk cracking the glass from too quick of a temperature shift. Make sure the glass is cool to the touch before you freeze it. As the wax and glass begin to freeze, the wax will begin to contract and separate from the sides of the glass, pulling away and making it much easier to remove.
Summary: Place the glass jar or piece of glass in your freezer. Let the wax contract for at least an hour.

Problem: Article: If you'd rather not use chemicals to kill the poison ivy plants, you can make a natural herbicide. Combine 3lb (1.4kg) of regular table salt with 1USgal (3.8L) of water and bring it to a boil. Stir until the salt is completely dissolved in the water and allow the mixture to cool. Then stir in 2floz (59mL) of dish soap and transfer the liquid to a spray bottle. You can also transfer the liquid into a bucket and paint it onto the leaves with a paintbrush if you don't want to accidentally kill other plants. Look for an herbicide that contains triclopyr, 2,4-D mecoprop decamba, or glycophosphate. These are powerful chemical agents that will kill the poison ivy as well as any other plants that you apply it to. The herbicide needs to stay on the plant to work, so don't apply it right after before it rains. Wait for a clear, dry day to apply the herbicide. Then, spray the plants that you want to kill. Make sure to spray every part of the plant, from the leaves to the roots. Follow the herbicide manufacturer's instructions carefully to ensure safe and effective use of the product. If you want to protect nearby plants, use a paintbrush to apply the herbicide to each leaf individually. Throw away the paintbrush after you finish using it. It can take multiple applications of herbicide to kill the poison ivy. Check the plants in 1 week, and if they're not dead, apply the herbicide again in the same way as you did the first time. The plants will turn brown and crumble after applying the herbicide. Rake up the remains of the dead plants and throw them away in garbage bags. Make sure to label the garbage bags to indicate their contents and throw it away with the rest of your garbage. Wear protective clothing while you collect the plant's remains.
Summary:
Mix salt, water, and dish soap for a natural herbicide. Use a chemical herbicide for a stronger option. Apply the herbicide in the spring or early summer on a clear day. Repeat the herbicide application in 1 week if the plant still has not died. Dispose of the plants once they die.