Write an article based on this "Understand that it's normal for parents to fight. Understand why parents fight. Understand that it's not necessarily bad that you know your parents are fighting. Understand that your parents don't necessarily mean everything they say when they're fighting. Know that it's not your fault that your parents are fighting. Understand that fighting doesn't necessarily mean that your parents will split up. Know that it's ok to feel upset."
article: Maybe your parents have started yelling at each other in the next room, or maybe they've been ignoring each other for days. Either way, you know that they're really mad at each other, and it may have you really stressed out. However, it's important for you to understand that it's normal and sometimes even healthy for parents to disagree and argue with one another. If your parents don't fight all the time, and if neither of them seems particularly worried, you may not need to worry too much yourself about their occasional argument. Even though your parents are older and are supposedly wise and mature, they are still people. We all get tired, stressed, or have bad days, and it's possible that your parents are fighting today for these reasons. Chances are, they'll both start to feel better soon and will make up. Family health experts nearly always recommend that parents don't fight in front of their children (you don't need to know all of the details of their adult lives and worries). Even so, it's important that kids know that their parents do have arguments from time to time. One of your parents' jobs is to teach you that disagreement is something we can't avoid, even with the people we love, and to teach you how to deal with it. If your parents hide all of their disagreements from you, it may be harder for you to learn how handle those sorts of situations when you are in a relationship. Hopefully your parents let you know that they're not mad at each other once they're done fighting and that they've worked it out. If they always forget to tell you this, and you have to watch them nervously to figure out if everything is ok again, you may want to have a talk with them. Sometimes when we're mad, we say things that we don't mean or that we later regret. You've probably fought with your brother or sister, or with one of your friends and said something terrible like "I can't stand you!" or "I never want to play with you again!" Once you cooled down, you probably had to apologize and explain that you didn't mean those hurtful things. While we want our parents to always act perfectly, they will also sometimes say hurtful things to each other that deep down they really don't mean. Hopefully, they will also apologize soon after the fight. Parents can fight about all sorts of things, from work, money issues, and even about stuff that seems to be about you. For example, they might be fighting about money when you know they just had to write a big check for your swim team expenses. You may be thinking that if you hadn't asked to join the team they wouldn't be fighting at all. While it's easier to blame yourself and it's hard not to think that it's your fault, it's very important that you understand that it is never your fault that your parents are fighting. Your parents have made a grown-up decision to have this argument, and it's their fault that they aren't handling it well. Remember that even though a fight might seem like it's only about one thing (you) it might actually be about a lot of other things that have nothing to do with you. It's possible that if your parents fight a lot, they may eventually get divorced. Remember that if that does happen, it won't be your fault. However, you also need to remember that fighting is normal between people who love each other. A fight doesn't mean that your parents don't love each other (or you), and even having several fights doesn't mean that your parents will get divorced. Even if you understand that fighting is normal, you may still feel sad, stressed, worried, anxious, or even angry. Your emotions might feel strange to you, but it's ok for you to feel them.

Write an article based on this "Start with a big, captivating idea. Research Break your big idea into manageable pieces. Develop at least one unforgettable character. Emphasize conflict and tension in your narrative. Make sure everything you include advances the story."
article: This is easier said than done, of course, but it's essential to writing a good book. Whether you're writing fiction or nonfiction, you need a concept that will hold your fascination throughout the long process of writing and editing, and that will also captivate your readers. Start with the "big picture" first, and worry about filling in the finer details later on. Brainstorm themes, scenarios, or ideas that intrigue you. Write them down, think about them for a while, and figure out which one you're most passionate about. For instance: "What if a man journeyed to a land where the people were tiny and he was a giant, and then to another land where the people were giants and he was tiny?" your big idea to build your expertise. If you're writing a nonfiction book, you'll obviously need to deeply research your subject matter in order to write about it effectively. Even fictional works, though, should be grounded in some degree of reality. For instance, a sci-fi adventure set in space will be more effective if the technology draws at least a small degree from reality. Or, if you're writing a crime drama, you might do research into how the police typically investigate crimes of the type you're depicting. If your focus each day is to write about the American Civil War or the goings-on in a fantastical "Middle Earth," you may become paralyzed by the immensity of the task. Instead, divide up your larger concept into smaller components that feel more manageable to tackle. For instance, instead of waking up thinking "I need to write about the Civil War," you might tell yourself, "I'm going to write about General Grant's military strategy today." These "manageable pieces" may end up being your book's chapters, but not necessarily so. This is another one of the "easier said than done" parts of writing a great book. Aim to build one or more characters who are complex and rounded, not one-note "heroes" or "villains." You want your readers to be able to identify with them and care about what happens to them. Think about some of your favorite characters from books you love. Write down some of their character traits and use these to help build your own unique characters. If you're writing nonfiction, dig deep into the complexities and all-too-human qualities of the real figures you're writing about. Bring them to life for your readers. Introduce challenges and obstacles early on in your book, and lead your characters through struggles, triumphs, and failures. The conflict and tension can be both external (like a cunning adversary) and internal (your main character's inner demons due to past tragedy). Make it hard for your readers to put the book down! The main conflictfor instance, Captain Ahab's obsession with the white whale in Moby Dickcan be an entry point for a range of other external and internal conflicts. Don't downplay conflicts and tension in nonfiction worksthey help to ground your writing in reality. This is helpful to keep in mind while writing your first draft, but essential while you're editing your book. Make sure every chapter, every page, every sentence, and even every word serves a purpose in moving your story forward. If not, look for ways to revise or streamline your writing. Your goal is to never give your readers a reason to lose interest. Keep them engaged and turning those pages! This doesn't mean you can't use long sentences, descriptive writing, or even asides that deviate from the main storyline. Just make sure that these components serve the larger narrative.

Write an article based on this "Ask a dominatrix to mentor you. Practice verbal communication. Have a plan for your time as a dominatrix. Purchase and learn to use accessories. Turn your items into accessories. Train to use the accessories. Decide on a safe word with your partner. Be attentive to your partner's needs."
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This isn't necessary if you are acting out with your partner, although you may want to pick up tips from videos or books. If you truly want to become a dominatrix, having someone show you the ropes can be very helpful. Your mentor can teach you how to protect yourself, negotiate, and even teach you some behaviors. A lot of being dominatrix is about what you do, but what you say and how you say it can be just as important. Practice giving demands and speaking confidently. This may feel funny at first, but you will get use to it over time. Watch videos of other dominatrixes if you want to get an idea of how they speak. There's a big role-playing component with being a dominatrix. Come up with a routine so that you don't get stuck in your role. Plan your routine and practice it so that it feels natural when it comes to time to perform your act. You can watch videos of dominatrixes to get ideas. Ask your partner if they have specific desires. Incorporate these desires into your routine. Accessories are a large part of BDSM. A whip, blindfold, paddle, rope, and handcuffs are some commonly used dominatrix accessories. You can order these online or purchase them from a sex shop. Make sure that you and your partner are comfortable with the use of accessories. Some other accessories you can use are leash and collar and chastity belt. If you can't buy accessories, you can turn some of your items into BDSM accessories. For example, you can use a belt, silk tie, or sleeping mask. Just be sure that it's okay with your partner if the items belong to them. It requires some learning to use accessories correctly. For example, it takes practice with a whip to give the desired level of pain on the skin of your client without leaving wounds. Practice with your accessories and learn about them before fully using them. Don't use too much power. Getting carried away could lead to injury. Typically, the submissive will have a code that tells the dominatrix when they need to stop or hold back. Ask your partner or client to come up with a safe word to let you know when to stop. For example, the word could be "purple." Over time, you can develop a language with them that allows the "act" to go smoothly. Boss your partner around and stay in control, but be responsive to what they ask for. Along with being responsive, know when to stop if your partner or client looks in pain or is unconscious. Some minor pain may be desired, but the partner should not be truly hurt.