Summarize the following:
If you seem rude, who is going to want to be your friend and help you out? When you join a chatroom, start by giving a simple "hi". Complimenting people on their clothes and boonies is an icebreaker, and gets a good conversation started. Don't make yourself sound like you're just giving automated responses, though! You have to really communicate and be genuine to get good conversations with people. Remember that nobody's perfect, so don't bother trying to act like you're flawless and superior, as that will make you seem stuck up, as well. Try a friendlier, humble approach when trying to get to know people. Again, begin with a kind hello.
Avoid gossiping about people. Don't complain and make a scene about low level users or high level users, as this will make others think that you're stuck up and snobby. Don't friend and date someone just to have a boyfriend, with no other intentions than to have that status.