Problem: Okay it is now 12 days until the girls party and I have NOTHING to wear . I have been so worried about their outfits and baptism dresses . I have n't even had a chance to even try them on them .

Why has the speaker neglected to find themselves an outfit for the party ?

A: They have been so busy taking care of others they have forgotten to care for themselves

Problem: I ' ve been in and out of the hospital for the last few years for various infections , nutritional problems , allergies , and freak illnesses . Earlier this month I woke up with severe pain and congestion and had to go to the ER . There , they took about half of my blood , took CT scans , and performed the longest spinal tap ever . Apparently I have a curve in my spine that makes it nearly impossible to perform a spinal tap in one shot .

Why is the narrator having to visit the ER so much ?

A: They have issues with their spine .

Problem: If I am eighty - seven years old and stay in bed for a year and never do anything I will turn eighty - eight . Anybody can grow older . That does n't take any talent or ability . The idea is to grow up by always finding opportunity in change .

Why is this person sharing their definition of what it means to grow up like this ?

A:
They find the advice personally useful and wish to share it with their readers