Q: Minimizing bras are specialty bras which specifically add no bulk. They help a little and may be enough for your purposes, especially if you're just wanting to fit into particular clothes. Sports bras, however, not only provide support but also flatten your chest. These originally served the purpose of stopping breasts from moving during exercise, causing pain. You probably have heard of Spanx or other shapers. These are items you wear under your clothes that suck everything in. You can buy ones which cover all sorts of different areas of your body but for you, one which covers the chest will be the most helpful. You might find these sold online under the word shaper or chest binder, but they will usually both be roughly the same thing. If you're desperate and none of the other options have worked for you, you can use chest binding as a temporary solution and last ditch effort. It only is really helpful for those with breasts in the US C-DD cup range, but you can use it outside of the range as well. Keep in mind that this may not be comfortable but it will get the job done if you just want to have some nice pictures taken or fit into a special dress. You can buy good, safe binders from many different sources online. Make sure any binder you wear is safe and will not cause any physical problems. Only bind with a specialized binder, do not use Ace bandages or any similar product. Ace bandages are meant to compress, and can cause breathing problems, bruises, rib fractures, or otherwise damage breasts if when worn for frequent and extended periods of time. Wearing baggy clothes will only make you look larger all over and increase the problem. Wear clothes that aren't tight, but fitted, and cover the breasts entirely to look good without attracting excessive attention. You'll want to do the same with your bra. Just wearing a bra that fits makes a huge difference in how your breasts feel. Avoid cowl-neck sweaters and shirts, turtle neck shirts and sweaters, tops with puckers or gathers around the chest, ruffle-front shirts, and any other items which add volume to your chest. These will only make your chest look bigger. Instead, wear tops which are very minimal around the breasts. This naturally attracts the line of vision downward, leading eyes away from your breasts. For example, wear a black fitted tee shirt and a teal jersey skirt. Or wear a navy blue blouse and bright white pants. If you want to naturally make your body look more balanced and draw attention away from your breasts, draw attention to your hips instead. Use pants with horizontal lines and full circle shirts to create the illusion of more volume in your hips, while also wearing tops that are plain and do not add bulk. This will make your breasts look smaller.
A: Use a minimizing or sports bra. Try a shaper or chest binder. Try chest binding. Be careful deciding what kind of binder to use. Wear a bra and clothes that fit. Avoid clothes that add bulk in the chest. Wear dark tops and brightly colored pants or skirts. Accentuate your hips.

Q: If you don't know the person that you're buying from, avoid giving them important details, such as your bank account information, address, social security number, or passwords. If the buyer or seller asks for any information that you don't feel comfortable giving out, avoid working with them. If you ever feel uncomfortable by what information a buyer or seller asks from you, avoid working with them. Never put your information in a private message to a buyer or seller on sites like Etsy, Craigslist, Facebook, or eBay. Credit cards usually have zero-liability policies, which means you won't have to pay for transactions that you didn't authorize if someone steals your information. Since debit cards don't have the same liability protection, delete any debit information you have saved on the marketplace and replace them with the credit card you use. Sign up for fraud alerts through your credit card company so you can get notified if any charges don't seem correct. Pay off the credit card as soon as you make a purchase so you aren't charged additional interest. You may also use PayPal to make purchases on sites like eBay or Etsy. If you're buying, only bring the amount you agreed upon paying so the other person doesn't try to drive up the price. When you're selling, tell the other person you want cash and be firm on your asking amount. Keep a few smaller bills on you in case you need to make change. This works best for buying or selling items through Facebook Marketplace or Craigslist. Only exchange money after you have given or received the product. That way, the other person can't steal from you. Create an account using a secure payment app, such as PayPal, Venmo, or Cash App. Connect your bank account or debit card to the app so you're able to access your funds. Make sure the transaction goes through completely before exchanging the product. Set up the funds so they deposit into your bank or keep them on the app for future purchases. Don't give out your login information since other people could access your funds. Many scammers use money transfer services to request funds, and they may try to steal information or take your money without sending the product. They may also use fake checks or not have enough funds, which can get you in trouble with your bank when you try to cash them. If the person requests you pay or accept money using either of these methods, avoid working with them or try to recommend a more secure method. Many scammers will request these forms of payment through Craigslist or Facebook Marketplace Avoid using wifi networks that aren't password-protected since anyone else can access them and potentially find your information. Always log into a wifi network with a password or use the data services on your phone if you need to make a purchase. You don't have to worry about your information if you're plugged directly into your router or modem since it's already protected by a firewall.
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Don't give out personal information to untrustworthy buyers or sellers. Use a credit card rather than a debit card when you're buying. Opt to use cash when buying or selling in person. Use a person-to-person payment app if you don't have cash. Avoid using money transfers or checks whether you're buying or selling. Make purchases over secure Internet connections.