Problem: Article: Sometimes your friend might not realize that what they said was hurtful or inappropriate. Perhaps they thought you would take it as a joke, or maybe they did not think before they spoke. Don't be afraid to tell them how you feel in a direct but gentle manner. Your friend might realize that certain topics or jokes are off-limits with you. You can try saying something like "I'm really hurt by what you just said" or "When you say things like that, I feel as though I am worthless." Try not to respond with sarcasm. Your friend might mistake it as acceptance of what they are doing. For example, if your friend makes a comment on your weight, instead of a dry "thanks," try saying, "I don't find that really funny." Sometimes bullies will upset you just to see your reaction afterwards. If you learn how to brush off insults, you will not be giving your friend any satisfaction from the put down, and they may stop when they realize that they have no power over you. One way to do this is to simply ignore the insult and assert your positive qualities. Swallow your anger and make a statement that both calls attention to the inappropriateness of the statement while signaling that you don't care what they think. For example, if your friend puts down your appearance, say, "I don't care what you think. I think I look beautiful." When someone puts you down, they may be trying to assert dominance over you by reducing your confidence. Humor can turn the situation around by giving you control over the insult. If you cannot come up with a witty comeback, try just laughing in response. If your friend really meant to hurt you, you will be proving to them that you are too strong for such silly tactics. If the insult really hurts you, tell your friend that you do not find it funny. Don't make a joke at your friend's expense, or it will continue the cycle of insults. Instead, use self-deprecating humor. By being able to make fun of yourself, you demonstrate that you don't care what others think and that you are comfortable in your own skin. This can help discourage others from making fun of you! Anger is a natural response to insults, but it can worsen the situation. If you respond to your friend with anger, they will try to accuse you of overreacting, and they will use your anger against you later on. Instead, remain calm and try to display indifference to your friend. When speaking to them, use a flat tone of voice. If you are very angry, express it through your words. A good calm dismissal is to just say "I'm sorry to hear you think that." You can also state your feelings by saying, "I don't want to be angry with you, but when I hear you say such things about me, it upsets me."
Summary: State your honest feelings. Dismiss the insult. Laugh. Remain calm.

INPUT ARTICLE: Article: While your oven is preheating, ready your pan. For this method you will need a baking sheet that has many small holes or slots and a lip that will keep all of the beans in the pan. These pans can be found at any kitchen supply store. If you don't want to buy a new pan but happen to have an old baking sheet with a lip lying around, you can actually make your own roasting sheet. Take your pan and use a inch drill bit to carefully drill holes into the sheet. The holes should be inch away from each other and small enough that none of the beans will fall through them. Pour the beans onto the sheet so that they lie in one layer over the entire pan. The beans should be close together but should not be overlapping. Once the oven is preheated, place the baking sheet with the beans onto the middle rack of the oven. Listening for a cracking or popping noise. This is the water contained in the beans evaporating. The popping noise signifies that the beans are roasting and darkening. Stir them around every few minutes to help them develop an even roast.

SUMMARY: Preheat your oven to 450F (232C). Lay the beans out on the pan. Roast the beans for 15 to 20 minutes.

In one sentence, describe what the following article is about: Sometimes, it's that pro bono case or that case where you charge a reduced fee in which you can make the most difference. And earning six figures isn't necessarily success for every lawyer. Many attorneys who work at legal aid offices, government offices, and other lower-paying jobs are perfectly happy with their careers and make a huge difference in other peoples' lives. Some lawyers consider themselves successful when they make partner at a high-powered law firm. Others are content to make a living in their solo practices. Still others consider non-profit or public interest work to be the key to success in their lives. In the end, a successful career as a lawyer is what you consider it to be, not others. Attorneys often work long hours and deal with stressful situations on a daily basis. Learn how to let go of stress and manage it on a day-to-day basis. This step will allow you think more clearly and calmly and be more effective in your job. It is difficult to enjoy or be successful at a career that you do not enjoy. If you don't enjoy your job, find a job that better suits you and that you can truly enjoy.
Summary:
Remember that your success is not always measured by your paycheck. Know that there are many different paths to a successful career. Manage stress. Be happy with your career choice.