Her friends had obviously been warned about me and no one dared touch the subject . It was much like having the elephant in the room and everyone taking turns bathing it , but no one actually talking about the fact that they were bathing a naked elephant in the middle of the room . It was a bit insane . " Would you like some dip ? " mother would ask me . " No , Mom . I ' ve had enough dip to last me 87 more parties .

Give answer the following question using evidence from the above passage: Why are the narrator and their colleagues feeling uncomfortable ?
They feel they have to dance around an issue .