Problem: Write an article based on this summary: Walk right up and start a conversation. Keep the conversation focused on him. Find ways to relate to him. Laugh at his jokes. Tease him playfully. Use a little flattery. Tell him you'd like to talk to him again before you go your separate ways.

Answer: Oftentimes, the direct approach is the best approach. This might seem kind of forward, but it's usually a good way to make a strong first impression. Being reluctant to put yourself out there could end up costing you an opportunity to get to know one another. Talking to someone you're attracted to for the first time can be intimidating, but keep in mind that the worst that can happen is you don't hit it off and things are no different than they were originally. If you spend the entire time avoiding the guy you're interested in because you're stressing about what to say and how to act, he may interpret your avoidance as disinterest. Once you've managed to strike up a dialogue, ask him questions that show you're interested in who he is and what he's all about. Getting to know a little bit about him can be a stepping stone to forming a deeper, more personal connection. Simply saying "tell me about yourself" will usually be enough to get a guy to open up, but if you're searching for a more specific topic, try a lead-in like, "How do you know X?", "Where are you from originally?", or "What do you do for a living?" Nod, offer verbal affirmations like "Yeah" and "Wow, really?", and respond with follow-up questions to demonstrate that you're paying attention and eager to learn more. As he shares his history, thoughts, feelings, and opinions, listen for things you have in common and point them out. Highlighting your similarities will make you feel like kindred spirits, which is more likely to make your interest mutual. Make him more aware of the areas where you line up by interjecting with remarks like "That's so funny, I went to the same summer camp as a kid!" or "Schnauzers are my favorite dog breed, too. Most people think I'm weird because I think they're so cute!" It's possible to identify with a guy even if you don't have the same job, friends, or interests. Sometimes, all it takes is feeling the same way about a certain subject to prove that you're like-minded. Whenever he says something humorous, reward him with a laugh or a gleeful giggle. Not only will this serve as a sign that you find him likeable, it will also encourage him to loosen up and continue talking to you. Even a beaming smile can be a tremendous confidence booster. Try not to overdo it or sound forced. Fake laughter tends to be pretty obvious, and can come off more as pity than appreciation. These days, the capacity for sarcasm or dry wit is considered a very attractive trait. A little lighthearted banter can be enjoyable for both of you, but avoid saying anything that might step on his ego. Your quips should be accompanied by a friendly smile and open body language that communicates your interest in a non-critical fashion. Make sure your teasing remains playful rather than pointed. For example, if he accidentally spills his drink on your shoes, you might say something like "Good thing I wore sandals" rather than reacting with a mocking comment that might embarrass him. Teasing, no matter how lighthearted, might not be the best course if he's obviously shy or nervous around you. If this is the case, stick to earnest discussion. Everyone loves to be praised. Complimenting a guy's appearance is one of the easiest, most straightforward ways of letting him know you're into him. You might tell him what a nice smile he has, or mention that he looks fit and ask him if he works out. If you're trying to play it cool, you could also try throwing out a more subtle observation like "I love your shirt. It really brings out the color of your eyes." Don't forget to say something nice about his personality as well so he'll feel like more than just a piece of eye candy. When it comes time to say goodnight, end the conversation with a parting line like, "I had a really great time talking with you. I hope we can do it again sometime." The right sign-off will leave him wanting more and create an opening for you to carry on your flirtations later. Working in some subtle nonverbal cues, like making lingering eye contact or touching his elbow just before you go, can help you drive your point home. Assuming you've played your cards right, he'll more than likely ask for your phone number. If he's clearly interested but too smitten to ask, take the initiative and offer yours or ask for his instead.

Problem: Write an article based on this summary: Understand how the gear shift differs from a normal vehicle's shifter. Learn the gear shift pattern. Practice the gear pattern of the semi while the truck is stopped.

Answer: If you're familiar with a manual transmission, the basic principles of the Eaton-Fuller Transmission shifterthe style used in many commercial trucks todayis similar, but more complex. Basically, it's oriented like a five-speed, but with a total of four different ratios at each position, which you toggle by a combination of switches and positions. This results in a total combination of 18 different speeds. The shift knob has two switches controlling air-actuated gears. One is the range switch, which needs to be set on "Low" for gears Lo-4, and the other is the high/low splitter, which is used to toggle between the low and high setting at each gear. Your index finger operates the range switch, which allows you to flip between high and low at each gear position with your thumb. Most gear shifts have a diagram displaying the shifting pattern, which will help to clue you into the organization of the gears. The low gears are usually differentiated from the high gears by color, and reverse is indicated by an "R." Gears 1-4 should all be straightforward, but then to shift into fifth gear, you shift back to the first position, and the pattern repeats. First gear is in the same position as fifth, second in the same as sixth, and so on. Remember, at each position, you also have a total of four different speeds, though only two will be accessible, depending on where you shift from. In first gear, you've got 1L and 1H, as well as 5L and 5H. This allows you to become familiar with the gear pattern so you can shift up and down without looking. This will help you keep your eyes safely on the road while driving. Grip the gear shift so that your index finger is available to work the range switch, and the middle and thumb can work the high/low splitter. If you don't have experience operating the clutch and driving a manual transmission vehicle, shifting a semi truck is going to have a much larger learning curve. Operating the gear shifter by itself is challenging enough, so you need to be very comfortable operating the clutch on a regular vehicle before you attempt to drive a semi. Practice on a regular car.

Problem: Write an article based on this summary: Be understanding during conversations. Validate your boyfriend's needs. Avoid parenting your partner. Encourage your boyfriend to get the right treatment. Attend support groups together.

Answer:
Your boyfriend may have trouble understanding the flow of conversations. He may request reminders on occasion, saying things like, "Could you repeat that?" Try to be patient and understanding. If your boyfriend is having trouble following you, it does not mean he does not value you. Due to his ADHD, he may struggle to pay attention in conversation. The fact that he's asking you for clarification or to repeat things does not mean he's not listening. In fact, it means the opposite. Even while he's having trouble keeping up with the conversation, he's trying to make sure you feel heard. When your partner is expressing something, listen. Oftentimes, people may have an inclination to blame any disagreement on ADD/ADHD, but this is not the case. Doing so could make your boyfriend feel his feelings are not important. You do not have to agree with everything your partner says and does. You simply need to listen and understand. If your partner is feeling an emotion, don't say, "That's just your ADD." It may not be. Ask him to open up more about his emotion. Try something like, "Why do you think you're feeling that way?" One of the biggest challenges in a relationship with one ADHD partner is the tendency of the other partner to take charge. Because it can be hard for someone with ADHD to manage time and stay organized and focused, the non-ADHD person may feel it's easier to take charge. But this can lead to resentment and stress. Use "I" statements to communicate your feelings. Tell your partner how you're feeling in a way that takes responsibility for your own reactions. These types of statements do not blame your partner. For example, say, "I feel like I've got more on my plate than I can handle right now. Would you be able to take the car to the mechanic?" Stop nagging your boyfriend. Instead, focus on communicating positively and optimistically. Recognize that it takes time to develop strategies to manage ADHD, and that your boyfriend is working on it. The process to getting treatment can be long and frustrating. You have to try many different types of drugs and make a variety of lifestyle changes before you find treatment that works. Support and encourage your boyfriend throughout his journey to better health. Adults with ADHD generally benefit from psychotherapy. This treatment helps individuals accept who they are, while at the same time helps them seek improvements to their situation. Cognitive behavioral therapy directly geared toward treating ADHD has been useful for many patients. This type of therapy addresses some of the core problems caused by ADHD, such as time management and organizational issues. While you can't take medication or make appointments for him, support his efforts to do so. If he needs help organizing his pills, or remembering when to meet with his doctor, leave him reminders. Have patience, and encourage him to have patience. It may take a while to find the right treatment, but the benefits will be worth the struggle. There are many support groups for couples with mental illness. If your boyfriend has ADD or ADHD, check to see if there are any support groups offered at a local mental health center or hospital. If you can't find support groups in your area, try looking for support groups online.