Article: Whatever way you contact her, invite her to an event you're attending or hosting. This way, it will seem that you are interested in her, but it won't be too forward. By inviting her to an event, you'll give her the opportunity to meet you in a low-stakes situation. If you're throwing a party with roommates or friends, this is probably a good time to reestablish contact with a girl you might be interested in. If you're going to an event or party somewhere with a group of friends, reach out and invite her to join your group. The easiest way to meet up with her is to suggest something that seems fun and casual. This is important, as you're likely to strike out if she thinks you're asking her on a formal date. Instead, consider inviting her to join you: For coffee with friends. For a drink at a place you both already hang out. At some sort of event you both are interested in. For example, ask if she'd like to meet you after a concert, or ask if she'll be going to a certain campus organization meeting. If she ignores your texts, phone calls, social media messages, or otherwise sends the signal that she isn't interested in you, leave her alone. Back off completely. Give her the opportunity to contact you. If she doesn't, she's not interested.
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Invite her to an event. Ask if she wants to join you for something simple. Leave her alone if she isn't receptive to you.