It happened 2 months ago . She went WAY over her texting and minutes and then they got in a big fight about it and she gave him attitude and I guess he was drunk and that made him furious . And he spanked her on the bare bottom for a long time and hit her with a switch a bunch of times and then with a wooden spoon and a metal soup ladel too and then he made her do corner time for a while before he let her get dressed again . That has to be seual abuse , or physical maybe ?

Give answer the following question using evidence from the above passage: What has led the speaker to question this relationship and consider labeling it abusive ?
They are genuinely concerned for their friend and are unsettled by the news of this altercation