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If you notice flirtatious behavior, try again with a new nanny. Once again, evaluate the nanny in the interview to make sure he or she is not being flirtatious. Check up unexpectedly, and have neighbors do the same. With some time and dedication, you should be able to find a nanny who does not flirt with your spouse.

summary: Start over with a new nanny if it doesn't work out.

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Talk assertively and with assurance, and tell the bully to stop harassing you and to leave you alone. Practice this skill in the mirror if you want to be extra convincing. When addressing a bully, it helps to be loud and firm, and look the bully in the eye. Say something like, "No, stop it!" or "Hey, why don't you just leave me alone!" Telling the bully to stop harassing you will also draw attention to the situation. If you can't shake the bully, you might be able to convince the people watching not to be bystanders. Discharge and redirect the tension that's feeding a potential fight by changing the subject to something else. You might crack a non-threatening joke or ask a question. Try to keep it relevant to your interactions; you don't want your tactic to appear too obvious. Say something like: "I heard Mr. Peterson was going to supervise recess today. You better leave; you don't want him to catch you here." "I heard the cafeteria is giving out free tacos with lunch. You'd better hurry if you want to get any." Afterwards, tell a responsible adult that you were bullied and describe what happened. Some bullies can be talked down from a fight. Say something that might deter them from attacking you, or that can draw bystanders' attention to the bully's unfair actions. Remember to be assertive and make lots of eye contact. If they don't seem to listen, you need to walk away. Make sure to tell a responsible adult about it. Try saying something like: "Why are you picking on me? This really isn't fair." "What do you want? I don't want to fight you." If all else fails, you might appeal to their ego to avoid a fight: "Everyone knows you'll beat me easily if we fight." Do not become angry or upset, no matter what bullies do or say. Bullies thrive on getting a dramatic response out of their victims, and will do things to make you upset or angry. If you avoid responding in these ways, the bully will soon realize that they have nothing to gain by harassing you. Do not make angry outbursts or cry when bullied. Either response will give the bully exactly what they're looking for.

summary: Speak to your bully with confidence. Change the subject to distract the bully. Persuade your bully to back down and leave you alone. Stay calm and collected while being bullied.

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Try feeding the medication to your cat without restraining it. Gel medication is generally flavored to appeal to a cat's taste. In fact, cats will frequently lick it off a finger or surface readily. Gel medication can also be smeared on a cat's shoulder for it to lick off or quickly smeared inside the lips with a swipe of a finger. Liquid medication and occasionally pills can be mixed with a flavorful canned food and eaten by the cat when it normally eats. Be sure to mix the medication in thoroughly, so that the cat cannot, or has a hard time, avoiding it. Some cats, for example, can detect pills in their food and eat around them. If you are trying to feed your cat pills in its food, be sure to inspect the bowl afterword for leftover pills. Check the directions for medication in pill form to see if you can crush it up. Your cat is more likely to eat a crushed up pill mixed into its food than a whole pill mixed into the food. If your cat won't eat its medicine in its normal food, try enticing it with a special treat. Get a bit of tuna or other smelly morsel and put the pill in it. You can also use a piece of cheese, a bit of deli meat, or a bit of hotdog. Feed the treat directly to the cat, instead of letting it pick at it in a food dish. This way it is less likely to pick out the pill and avoid eating it. There are treats specifically designed so that you can hide a pill in them. These "pill pockets" have a hole inside where you can conceal the treat and they smell strongly, so your cat will be enticed by them. Make sure the cat has actually swallowed the pill. Feed the cat another piece of treat immediately after the one with the pill. This will make it more likely to quickly swallow the pill.
summary: See if your cat will simply eat the medication. Put the medicine in your cat's food. Bury the medication in a tasty treat.