Problem: Article: Before you make any moves, consider why you want to go after someone who's already in a relationship. Do you genuinely care about this girl and have her best interests at heart? Do you really believe she'd be happier with you than she is in her current relationship? If not, stop and seriously consider whether pursuing a relationship with her is really a good idea. For example, if you're trying to win her over just because you enjoy a challenge or because you want to get back at her current boyfriend for something, you're probably not going to end up with a very happy or fulfilling relationship. Let's face ityou probably won't be winning the girl over if she's head-over-heels in love with her current boyfriend. But if she seems bored with her relationship or you see signs that he's not treating her right, you may have a chance. Without acting like you're prying too much, try to get a sense of how she is really feeling about her relationship. If you have the opportunity, try observing how your crush and her boyfriend seem together. Do you notice a lot of tension and awkward silences? Does he snap at her or put her down? Or do you see tons of laughter, smiles, and physical affection? It can also be helpful to talk to one of the girl's close friends about how her relationship is going. If the girl you like doesn't like you back at least a little bit, you're not going to make much headway. Before you try to make a move, look for signals that the attraction is mutual. For example, does she: Make a lot of eye contact when you talk to her? Laugh and smile a lot when she's with you? Look for opportunities to spend time with you? Open up to you easily? Touch you frequently? Getting romantically involved with a girl who already has a boyfriend will automatically create a bunch of problems for your relationship. Before you attempt anything, consider: Are you ready to deal with the pain that your actions will probably cause for her current boyfriend, and possibly for you and her as well? Are you confident that you will be able to build a stronger relationship with her than the one she already has? If she's willing to leave her current boyfriend for you, are you prepared for the possibility that she might leave you for someone else in the future?
Summary: Ask yourself why you want to get involved with her. Find out if she's happy in her current relationship. Look for signs that she's interested in you. Back off if you don't think you can handle a complicated relationship.

Problem: Article: Even if you are 100% sure that you want to get back together with your ex, it is important to take time to focus on yourself first of all. Use the extra time that you have to improve yourself and getting back with your ex may come easier as a result. Some things you might do to focus on you include: Taking up a new hobby. Improving your health with a new exercise and diet regimen. Starting a journal to record your thoughts and feelings. Spending more time with your friends. It is important not to seem desperate if you want to get your ex back. Therefore, you should not let them know right away that you are interested in getting back together. Doing so may frighten your ex off and ruin your chances of reviving the relationship. Send your ex a text message to reestablish contact with them. Texts are ideal because they are more casual than a phone call or email. Texts are also less likely to be shared or discussed, so it is a more private way to communicate with your ex. Keep the message light and casual. Don't say anything intense like, "I can't live without you." Tell your ex about something funny that happened to you or something interesting that reminded you of your ex. Make sure that you are sober when you reconnect with your ex. Drunk texts or calls are a recipe for disaster. The best time to meet up with an ex again is during the day because it will seem less serious than a nighttime meeting. Ask your ex if they would like to meet up with you for coffee or lunch. This will give you a chance to catch up, break the ice, and decide if you want to keep pursuing a reconciliation with your ex or not. Don't say anything about getting back together during your first meeting. Just have a nice, fun chat together and leave it at that for now. Make sure that you look fantastic when you first meet up again. Looking your best will help you to feel confident and it will make it more likely that your ex will want to get back together with you. Talking about happy memories is a good way to rekindle an old flame. By reminding your ex of happy time that you shared, you will help them to see the good in your relationship and feel more open to reconciliation. As you attempt to get your ex to fall for you again, you should consider the things that attracted them to you in the first place and look for ways to showcase them. For example, if your ex was first attracted to you because of your sense of humor, find ways to make them laugh. Or, if your ex always admired your cooking skills, find a way to casually mention something you cooked recently. Although it may be hard, you need to be very patient when you first start talking to your ex again. If your ex does not respond to your first text, don't keep texting in an effort to get them to respond. Just wait and see if they respond. If not, then try again in a few days. If your ex has not responded to any of your texts and/or seems cold other times that you have talked to them, then it is safe to assume that reuniting is not an option right now. But if your ex seems warm, friendly, and excited to hear from you, then you may have a shot.
Summary: Focus on yourself. Act casual. Reestablish contact. Meet up for coffee or lunch. Remind your ex of happy memories. Put your best assets on display. Be patient. Watch for signs of interest.

Problem: Article: While you may not be able to afford to shop at Prada or Louis Vuitton, you can still visit other places that celebrities also frequent. In L.A., locales like the Brentwood Farmers Market and Whole Foods are often frequented by celebrities doing their shopping. Stores usually don't look kindly on people who loiter without making purchases. Buying something from the store, even if it's small or inexpensive, will help ensure that you don't make yourself unwelcome. Press conferences and premiers often run late, so if you arrive in the morning, you may see the celebrity leaving for work. Lingering in the hotel lobby may get you in trouble, so consider having a drink in the hotel bar. Sit so that you can see who comes in and out of the hotel. Don't be disappointed if you don't see the person coming into or leaving the hotel. Many large hotels with a celebrity clientele have back entrances to protect their privacy. If you have attended a concert, ask where the tour vans are located, and try to get in that area. Many bands pack up quickly after the show, but some people may be hanging around and could introduce you. Become a waiter at their favorite restaurant, a bartender at their regular bar, or a personal trainer at their gym. Working an eight hour shift greatly increases the odds you will be there when they are there. Make sure to get a job that lets you interact with the patrons. Jobs like valet parking and coat check, while not particularly exciting, are likely to put you in contact with celebrities dining out or staying in hotels. Always be professional. Most employers at places that celebrities frequent will not look kindly at potential harassment of their famous clientele. It's fine to start up a chat or even ask for a photograph under the right circumstances, but if you become a nuisance you're not likely to keep your job.
Summary:
Visit places that celebrities also visit. Wait outside the hotel where you know they are staying. Wait near the tour vans for musicians. Get a job near where celebrities spend their time.