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How to get over the guy that has a girlfriend
Figure out why you're attracted to him.
Think about what made you fall for him in the first place. It could be his looks, personality, or a combination of the two.
It could be that you're not even attracted to him and there are other reasons why you're pursuing him-like a vulnerable point in life. Understanding what attracted you to him is the first step to letting go of him.