Article: Use one or two short, concise sentences that explain your desire to end future communication. You do not owe them an explanation. Simply say that you do want to talk to them anymore. You could say, "Hey Jake, can we avoid talking for a few more weeks? I'm still processing the breakup." An example of this text could be: "Do not text or reach out to me anymore. I do not wish to have any form of communication going forward." Restate that you are no longer together and, as such, you do not want to talk to them anymore. Be clear and direct. You do not have to reply to any future texts or calls if you do not want to. An example of this text could be: "We broke up and I am not interested in getting back together. I do not want to have any form of relationship with you." State what your limits are as far as when you would be open to communicating and how often. If you feel you may one day be open to communicating with them, you could say, "I'm still not ready yet. Can we talk again in a couple months so I can process my feelings?" If you know you do not want to talk to them you could say, "If you continue texting me, I will not reply." If you've repeatedly told your ex to stop contacting you and they still haven't, talk to your parents or a counselor, and then reach out to the authorities. They can help you get a restraining order and set legal boundaries to prevent harassment. You might consider telling your ex you're considering these steps before actually taking them, to see if that makes them back off. Try saying something like "I told you I don't want to talk. If you continue texting me, I will go to the police to ask for a restraining order."
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State that you do no want to talk to them. Explain that the relationship is over. Set boundaries by explaining what you expectations are. Contact authorities if you feel unsafe.