If someone is asking for your opinion it means they value you. Use that knowledge to produce a genuine smile. This will make the sting of disapproval seem less personal. This gives you an opportunity to hear their point of view. It also gives you time to carefully word your comments. This will also give you a measurement of how much they like, or dislike the outfit or style. They may even discuss their own reservations. Assume that the person under the outfit is beautiful. The outfit or style is just hiding that fact. Try to critique the outfit or style apart from any negative characteristics of the person. Appeal to any mutually-agreed-upon standard of dress to back up your opinion if you can. For example, use business dress standards if a new haircut, tattoo, or nail polish could cause them trouble at work. Use goodness of fit to highlight how the outfit would look better if it were better tailored. Expressing any disagreement may prompt self-deprecating statements (e.g., "I'm just too fat for this outfit..."). Do not agree with them. Even if you believe they are correct, some things do not need to be said. Be honest with yourself--you aren't trying to hurt their feelings, right? In situations like this, you might want to disagree outright with the negative statement. "You aren't fat, this dress just fails to highlight how beautiful you are." Unfortunately, if you fail to disagree with a negative statement the speaker may take that as an admission of your agreement. Be quick to disagree when you know this to be true. This allows you to be productive in two ways. First you offer alternatives for them to try. Second it provides avenues for you to shower them with complements. This shows them you value them in spite of the negative feedback you just offered. At this stage, always be sure to include references to their positive characteristics. Although you avoided referencing personal characteristics before, highlight positive aspects now.

Summary: Smile genuinely to show appreciation. Ask them what they like about the outfit or style. Focus on the outfit or style rather than the person. Avoid agreeing with a negative self-image. Discuss how other styles or outfits work better as alternatives.

People who attempt suicide are more likely to be suffering from a serious mental condition, such as depression, and can get help for it. These steps can help you work to get to the root of why you considered suicide. If your suicidal feelings were brought on by a specific event, like the grief of being jilted, job loss, or becoming disabled, remember that this kind of situational depression can still be helped by treatment. Be sure to take any prescribed medications according to your doctor's recommendation. Never stop taking medications without speaking to your doctor first. Be sure to attend all of your scheduled counseling sessions. If necessary, have someone reliable scheduled to take you every week to have an extra layer of accountability for going. If you are religious (or even perhaps if you are not) and have access to a spiritual leader, try talking to him or her. Those called to religious ministry are trained in helping people in crisis, including those in despair and suicidal. He or she can help you ease the pain by offering a new perspective and giving you some things to think about. Many hospitals in the United States have chaplains. Like chaplains in the armed forces, these individuals are typically people of faith, trained and experienced in working with people of many beliefs, and sometimes none at all. There is no charge for this service and can be worth looking into. A man or woman of faith may not be for everyone. Especially if you are atheist or have a philosophical or experiential issue with religion. You may only find a spiritual leader helpful if you are already involved in that particular spiritual or religious community. Although this article is pointing out resources you may find helpful in this critical time, this may or may not be a good resource for you. There may be support groups, both online and in your community, where you can find comfort by talking to other people who have suicidal thoughts or who have attempted suicide in the past and set up a social network of understanding people for helping you through difficult times. If you are in the United States, check out the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention's site for finding support groups online or in person. You can even find groups for your specific characteristics, such as a group for Teens. Check out the NHS site if you're in the UK, or the web site for your country, to find options for yourself. If there are no support groups in your area for suicide or depression, talk to a therapist or local hospital about support groups they might run or how to get group support. You can also visit a website that offers online video counseling. If you have recently had suicidal thoughts, remove anything that could help you end your life, including alcohol, drugs, sharp objects, rope, or anything else you have been thinking of using. If you have a handgun, make sure it is out of your possession as soon as possible. Though this may sound extreme, if you remove the easy means to end your own life, then you are much less likely to follow through. If you are feeling suicidal, you should make sure that friends and family do not let you out of their sight. If you do not have anyone to watch over you, check yourself into an ER to make sure you are not alone. If you are part of a support group, lean on other members of your group for extra support from people who really understand what you're going through. If you are prone to suicidal thoughts, then it is important to have a safety plan for keeping yourself away from harm. You can create the plan yourself, or you can make it with a friend or family member. The list can include things like removing the means for suicide, immediately spending time with a friend or family member (or being around people in any way you can be), calling a certain person, or waiting 48 hours before considering your decision again. Just giving yourself time to slow down and think things over can be a big help.

Summary: Seek help from a mental healthcare professional. Talk to a spiritual leader. Find a support group. Remove any suicide facilitators. Avoid being alone. Make a safety plan.

Notepad for Windows users or TextEdit for Mac are good free options, but any text editor will do. Subtitle files utilize a specific format: subtitle number, timestamp, and text - each occupying a different line. Timestamps use an hour:minute:second:millisecond format. For example:101:15:05:00This is a sample subtitle text. This example will place "This is a sample subtitle text" as the first subtitle at the 1 hour, 15 minute, and 5 second mark in the video. Here you can set the filetype using the the SubRip (or srt) extension (a common text format for subtitling videos). For example: 'subtitles.srt'. The extension at the end of the name is required to set the filetype. This menu is located below the filename field. Selecting "All Files" allows the extension to be something other than plaintext. SubRip files will not function properly without this encoding set. When that is complete, press "Save". Login to your YouTube account. Press "My Channel > Video Manager" to see a list of your video uploads. You can also access the Video Manager by clicking your account icon and going to "Creator Studio > Video Manager". The "Edit" button and its menu is located next to the video that you wish to add subtitles to. This will take you to the subtitling interface. A popup menu will appear to choose which kind of file to upload. This will open a window to select which file to upload. The subtitles will be pulled from your .srt file and placed into the timeline and transcript. Edit changes to the text in the transcript or alter timestamps by clicking and dragging the bar on either side a subtitle in the timeline. Press "Publish" and your subtitles will be uploaded to your video.
Summary: Open a text editor. Create your subtitles. Go to "File" and select "Save As". Enter a filename ending in ".srt". Click the "Save As Type" and select "All Files". Click the "Encoding" menu and select "UTF-8". Go to your YouTube "Video Manager". Click the "Edit" dropdown arrow and select "Subtitles and CC". Click "Add New Subtitles" and select "Upload a File". Select "Subtitle File" from the popup menu. Browse for the file you created and select "Upload". Adjust your subtitles. Publish your video.