Problem: How to handle older relatives who have lost their filter
Respond to the remarks.
You might be shocked or surprised to hear your relative saying something outrageous or crude. When your relative loses their filter, don't react in shock, anger, or even ridicule. OPTIONS:
- Just let them know that you felt just as upset and hurt in their words as they have felt in yours. Remind yourself why the remarks made were hurtful to you and how that affects you from now on.
- Chances are that if your relative says such a thing, he or she thinks that is wrong because of who he or she is, is ashamed of it, or is worried about what others think. In these situations, it is most likely that the insult was meant as a joke or a learning experience.
- Instead, try to keep your tone of voice professional and calming. Add some humor to your responses by saying " i am so sorry that that is unkind to you.
- Gently let your relative know that their behavior is inappropriate and move on. There's no need to bring up an incident once it has passed and you've dealt with it in the moment.

Answer: Gently let your relative know that their behavior is inappropriate and move on. There's no need to bring up an incident once it has passed and you've dealt with it in the moment.

Problem: The boy in brown hits a back hand which goes on the other side then the boy in red gives the ball to the other player who again serves. The boy in red is unable to return the serve causing the ball fall down again. they OPTIONS:
- seconds pass by as each player tries to hit the ball.
- spin the ball around to take it to the other player who is just serving.
- continue playing racket ball taking turns in serving and returning the balls.
- play again with the boy hitting the ball back and forth.

Answer: continue playing racket ball taking turns in serving and returning the balls.

Problem: How to deal with an internet forum addiction
Admit that you are addicted.
Talk to someone you trust, as they will play a key role in your recovery. Tell this person that you need their help. OPTIONS:
- Think of what ideas are running around. Perhaps you have been addicted for an extended period of time and have a tendency to fall back to using post-addiction.
- Once you've been sober for a while, just tell them you need to forgive yourself for drinking more every day. Hopefully you will find some resolve to allow you to be more accountable.
- Most sites have a wiki where you can respond to your own worries and express your feelings. Be honest with them so you don't rush through the process.
- If the computer is in your bedroom, take it out! If it's there, you will feel more urge to go on it. Put it in a public room, where many people can access it.
Answer: If the computer is in your bedroom, take it out! If it's there, you will feel more urge to go on it. Put it in a public room, where many people can access it.