What is the most logical next event?

How to come out to your best friend without giving her the wrong idea
Ask your friend to meet you someplace.
Call her up, send her a text on her cell, email her, or ask her to meet you in person. Say this or something similar to this: " jessica, can you meet me at the coffee shop on belmont tomorrow after you get off work? "
Give her a moment to settle in.

Options are:
*She may be more cautious about coming out if you're in her presence for extended periods of time. Say it after the two of you have separated.;
*When you are waiting for her response, give her time and space so she can respond. Ask for her to avoid running away, instead go out and meet you.;
*When she arrives, ask her to sit down. It is better to tell a secret to her when you both are sitting down.;
*She will want to hear that you're not upset before meeting her. Instead, she should come to her decision right away after you call her.;
When she arrives, ask her to sit down. It is better to tell a secret to her when you both are sitting down.