What happens next?

How to be mentally resilient
Challenge problematic thinking.
The way you look at setbacks can have a serious impact on whether or not you can muster the strength to try again. When something doesn't turn out the way you hoped, you may have an automatic response that you're not even aware of, a response that puts an unnecessarily negative spin on the situation.

Pick from:
(1). Learn to train yourself to look at setbacks as learning experiences instead of as potential challenges. Try thinking of setbacks as learning opportunities and not accomplishments..
(2). These automatic tendencies may be rooted or predirected in events that happen. Hearing these automatic triggers will minimize the pressure you feel while temporarily missing what might be gained by it..
(3). When you experience a setback, take a few deep breaths to calm down, and try to notice what messages you are giving yourself. Challenge the thoughts that impede your resiliency..
(4). Try replacing negative thoughts with things like : Negativity, which is a negative predisposition toward success. Ridicule, which is an automatic negative reaction when you're about to fail a test..
(3).