Question: but if i say the wrong thing to my youngest son he he will he won't cry anymore because he's too old but he gets hurt he bruises very easily and and i can feel that
My youngest son cries whenever I say something that hurts his feelings.

Answer: no

Question: and uh and that that that the the nightmare i'm sure was just a a freak i'll bet it wouldn't happen again
It rarely happens and will not happen again.

Answer: it is not possible to tell

Question: and the bill would come in and i'd pay it and the very first bill i paid it and then i got this nasty letter from them saying you're overdue pay so i i said well it just crossed in the mail so i didn't do anything about it Two weeks later i get another letter even nastier and said we're going to turn this over to our attorneys if you don't pay and i looked at that and i said uh-huh so by this time my checks had come back from the bank so i made a copy of the check that they had cashed
The mail system played a huge part in this inconveinece.

Answer:
it is not possible to tell