Multi-select problem: How does the next paragraph end?

How to support someone who is chronically ill
Maintain a presence in your friend's life.
Your friend is facing a very different life than they had imagined for themselves, and will need to grieve their loss. They are likely dealing with an overload of painful symptoms, and coming to terms with their new limitations.

Choose your answer from:
(a). Remember that you'll need to support them through this life, not reject them. Consider supporting your friend by continually being there to help them learn how to deal with their grief..
(b). Rather than observe their sad suffering, allow them to grieve. Make sure you are there for your friend throughout the grieving process..
(c). Help your friend separate you from the situation and buffer. A physical touch or pat on the back or shoulder is appropriate..
(d). The first step is to let them know that you intend to be there for them as a friend. This alone will be a gift to them; many chronically ill are dropped by their friends, who find the problems associated with the illness to be too difficult or uncomfortable..
(d).