IN: This was someone who has seen me , spoken to me , was there at the funeral , sat shiva in my home . And no , she 's never seen me at my worst . Never seen me a crying , bumbling mess . Never seen me completely fallen apart .
What may happen during the funeral ?

OUT: I may be seen at my lowest point in life .

IN: Now you are just wasting my time . Unless you have something new to add to the discussion .... " Many people do n't realize how much progress can be made with a softly spoken word instead of a weapon . In some case a smile , a slight nudge , a casual toss of the hair can work wonders .
What is the narrator likely to respond to aggression with ?

OUT: The narrator is likely to have a fine dialogue .

IN: She came out of the sun in a silk dress running like a watercolor in the rain . A vision of complete loveliness , slender and lissome , brimming with vivacious energy and charm , her sundress draped about her lithe form in ways meant to tempt and entice . A stunningly gorgeous young woman , and here I had her all to myself , and the world narrowed down to just the two of us . We had met only moments before , and yet here I was , being handed her phone number .
What may happen after they receive the woman 's number ?

OUT:
They will get to know the woman better .