If you need or want a partner or loved one to do something, convey this kindly and directly. If you are vague or unclear, you are setting yourself up for disappointment and are likely to cause the other person to be frustrated. When you have a particularly important request, ask for a one-on-one meeting. This will help avoid confusion that can come when making requests in passing. For example, if you want your partner to do something (e.g. drive the kids to school), state that clearly. Do not hint by saying, "Wow, it's really stressful for me to take the kids to school before work. You work at home" Instead say, "Mike, could you take the kids to school? It would help my commute considerably." Remember that unless you are a manager, you likely cannot dictate to a person (especially your partner) what he must do. Instead say, "I'd love for you to clean the garage before Thanksgiving. How can we make that happen? Let's look at our available weekends." When setting expectations for children, it is often necessary to establish a routine. Having certain chores on the weekly schedule for particular days will help your child remember to do them. Consider making a checklist that people can mark when they have completed a task. For example, rather than telling your son to take the trash out generally, try saying, "Hey, Logan. Please take out the trash every Friday morning before school." For children, offering small incentives and systems for accountability can help them fulfill expectations. After a child has completed a certain number of tasks or weeks, offer a small reward. You also can periodically reward your partner for fulfilling her or his commitments. You might reward a child's successful completion of monthly duties with a movie night. Although you might be used to expecting things from others, what do other people expect from you? Having conversations with your partner, children, or friends about their expectations will help you be a better person. Knowing the level of expectations people set for you also might help you gauge what normal expectations are. If, however, other people set unreasonably high expectations for you, like babysitting your grandchildren every weekend for example, be honest about your own limitations. It is possible that other people are not always fulfilling your expectations, but what are they doing right? Make a list of the good things your spouse, employee, or child are doing. It could be that a positive quality your partner possesses is related to a negative quality. For example, your partner could be very generous with his time but then not always get things done punctually. Try to think about someone's behaviors as a reflection of their unique self.
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One-sentence summary -- Discuss expectations clearly. Making expectations routine. Create reward systems. Ask loved ones what their expectations are of you. Be grateful for what others do for you.

Q: Transurethral Resection of the Prostate is the most common surgery used to combat BPH. During the procedure, your doctor will place a resectoscope inside your urethra and use light and electricity to remove the inner section of the prostate. In most cases, BPH symptoms are relieved very quickly after the procedure. After undergoing TURP, you will be limited to light activities, may need to use a catheter, and will stay in the hospital for up to 48 hours. During a Holmium Laser Enucleation of Prostate procedure, a resectoscope laser is placed inside the urethra. A surgeon uses the laser to destroy and cauterize prostate tissue, causing little bleeding. HoLEP procedures are known for their short recovery time, though expect to use a catheter for 1 to 2 days after. Transurethral Incision of the Prostate procedures are designed to treat small prostate glands that are causing major urinary blockage. During this surgery, small incisions are made along the bladder neck to make the urethra larger. Expect a hospital stay of up to three days to recover. Due to its invasive nature, a TUIP procedure may lead to urinary tract infections, dry orgasms, urinary incontinence, or erectile dysfunction. During a Transurethral Microwave Thermotherapy procedure, your doctor will insert a small electrode into your urethra. Using microwaves, the electrode will destroy the inside of the prostate, allowing it to shrink back down. Recovery generally takes 2 to 3 days, and you can expect to see results 6 to 12 weeks after the procedure. During a Transurethral Needle Ablation procedure, a small scope is run through your urethra, allowing needles to reach the prostate. These needles heat the prostate using radio waves, destroying enlarged muscle tissue. Expect to take between 2 and 3 days for recovery. In some cases, the only effective way to deal with an enlarged prostate is through a more traditional surgical procedure. During a prostatectomy, the surgeon makes a cut through the perineal area or abdomen. This cut is used to remove part of the prostate. Simple prostatectomies can be performed open or using robotics. Simple prostatectomies often have longer recovery times than other procedures, ranging from 4 to 6 weeks, and can put you at risk of bleeding, urinary incontinence, dry orgasms, and erectile dysfunction.
A: Ask your doctor about TURP if you have experienced medium prostate growth. Try HoLEP if you have a particularly large prostate. Seek out TUIP if you have extreme blockage. Ask about TUMT if you have small prostate glands. Try TUNA if you have heavy bleeding issues. Seek out a simple prostatectomy as a last resort.

Article: In this version, even when an error is made the rhythm should continue. When a mistake is made and players say, "Aw shucks," they should do so while in time with the rhythm. Then: The person who called out the player who made a mistake will pick up the chant and call out a new player. If the person who called out the player who made a mistake isn't paying attention and they make a mistake, other players must say "Aw shucks" again. The person who called out that new out-person must now pick up the chant. This is a great variation for more experienced players. After the first few rounds of one-by-one chanting, have Big Booty speed up the rate of their clapping. Continue increasing speed slowly over time until someone makes a mistake. To keep things fair, you may want to decide the amount of rounds you chant before the game speeds up. For example, you might decide that after the fifth one-by-one chant, Big Booty increases speed. It can be difficult to maintain a steady speed for your rhythm. Use a metronome or a metronome phone app to help keep the beat. " Where a player would normally say their own number, have them say "Big Booty" and equal amount of times. For example, instead of saying, "Number 2, Number 4" you'd say "Big Booty, Big Booty, Number 4." This version forces players to pay closer attention, especially Big Booty. If Number 2 passed the chant to Big Booty, they would say, "Big Booty, Big Booty, Big Booty!" When playing this version, the second number does not change at all, only your own number when you are chanting yourself. A popular variation of this game uses superhero or pop-culture character names in the place of player numbers. For example, instead of calling "Number 3," a player might say, "Spiderman" or "Princess Peach." This version works best with smaller groups. It can be difficult to remember the ascending sequence for random heroes and characters in a large group. This can add a competitive aspect to this fun group game. Whoever lasts the most rounds as Big Booty gets a special prize. To keep players honest, you may want to have a monitor or referee keep track of who's Big Booty longest. Simple prizes, like stickers, stamps, gum, and bubbles work great for kids. For older players, try movie passes, gift cards, and more.
Question: What is a summary of what this article is about?
Play the survival version of Big Booty. Increase speed over time. Replace numbers with repetitions of "Big Booty. Use categories in place of player numbers. Give prizes to the best Big Booty.