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How to recognize signs of an abusive man
Be wary of men who seem perfect.
Obviously, not everyone who seems perfect is abusive. But some men who are abusive care about outward image and popularity, and make it a point to have many friends.
He may be so concerned about his image that he will be less concerned about maintaining a healthy relationship. This is also related to a tendency for abusers to be very controlling; they control their own image very carefully.