IN: What happens next?

How to tell when you've been rejected
Suggest getting together with them.
Listen for how they respond. If they seem enthusiastic, that's a good sign.

OPTIONS:
- If they seem exhausted, depressed, or hostile, it's time to strike up a conversation. Ask how they're doing and what they're studying for next week.
- They may be open to meeting up for a few weeks. After initial one-on-one visits, make your intentions clear.
- If they seem standoffish, that's also a good sign. If they respond negatively, that's a bad sign.
- If they sound wishy-washy or annoyed, they may be trying to gently reject you. Keep a positive attitude when you ask to hang out.

OUT: If they sound wishy-washy or annoyed, they may be trying to gently reject you. Keep a positive attitude when you ask to hang out.

IN: What happens next?

How to calm your nerves around the guy you like
Breathe!
When you feel your heart thudding faster and faster, pay attention to how you are breathing. Remember: the quicker you breathe, the less air your lungs get. That means your heart is speeding up to pump the little oxygen you have to the rest of your body.

OPTIONS:
- So make a point of taking deep breaths to calm your body and mind. Breathe in through your nose and out through your mouth.
- Think a little bit loud! If you can go the extra mile, try screaming into a pillow, ice cream cone, or their pillow. Just quiet your mind and aim for normal breathing.
- The faster it's stopped, the more oxygen it is rapidly pushing out of your body (this will cause you to feel disoriented). It's like breathing through a balloon with your nostrils open.
- You can either sing or count from five as you do your breathing. One way to do this is to breathe in through your nose.

OUT: So make a point of taking deep breaths to calm your body and mind. Breathe in through your nose and out through your mouth.

IN: What happens next?

A middle aged man is shoveling snow on a sidewalk while a medium sized brown dog chases the shovel. the man

OPTIONS:
- continues shoveling on the sidewalk blowing snow and smiling.
- tosses the snow in a pile and picks it up and chucks it onto the sidewalk as the dog walks around the pile and picks up more snow.
- throws the snow and turns the other way to repeat the shoveling while the dog continues to chase the shovel.
- stops pushing the snow back and sets it on the sidewalk.

OUT:
throws the snow and turns the other way to repeat the shoveling while the dog continues to chase the shovel.