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Some people find the idea of an older man dating a younger person unsettling. They may worry about you being taken advantage of, or getting pressured into committing to someone who is in a different life stage. Assure them that you genuinely have a connection with him and that you wouldn't be with someone who objectified you. Calmly break the news about your relationship to your parents. Give them some time to get used to it. They only want to protect you. They'll come around when they see that your partnership is loving and equal. If you have a sibling or a trusted family friend who can act as a go-between, make sure they also meet your boyfriend and let your parents know that they like him. Make sure that both of you have an equal role in your relationship. Just because he's older than you doesn't mean that he should get the final word on every decision. He's your partner, not your father. If the relationship gets serious, make sure that you discuss every issue that comes up together before deciding what to do. You should be comfortable expressing your opinions to him even if they're not the same as his. Know your worth. Absolutely refuse to be in a relationship with anyone who wants to control you. Some guys want a younger partner because younger partners can be easier to manipulate and control. Ditch older men who are jealous, controlling, who push you into quick involvement, who put unrealistic expectations on you, discourage you from interacting with friends and family. Dump an older guy who blames you for his problems, feelings, and other things that you could only control if you were a wizard. Run, don't walk, from men who threaten you, who put you down, who ignore your good news and accomplishments, or who physically harm you. Many acts that seem like signs of devotion are actually warning signs of abuse. A guy who drops in at your work to check in on you, who tries to protect you from everything, or who claims to be unable to live or function without you is manipulating you. If your partner is physically aggressive, call 911 or a domestic abuse hotline: 1-800-522-3304
Expect some judgment from those you love. Maintain an equal partnership. Ditch the creeps.