When you know your man is with another person, it's normal to want to feel superior to them. However, trying to best his partner is unlikely to get him to leave and will probably make you miserable. Instead, focus on being your best self and doing things that are important to you. If it's meant to be, he'll love you for who you are. Don't stalk your man's partner on social media or ask your friends to check up on them. Similarly, don't ask him about what his partner is doing. When you find your thoughts straying to questions like, "Why does he pick her?" try to turn your attention to what's going well in your life. Tell yourself, "I've had a great weekend," "I just got a raise," or "I have the best friends." You might feel guilty for letting yourself fall in love with a guy who is unavailable. This is normal, but torturing yourself isn't going to make things better. Remind yourself that you just want to feel love and you deserve to be happy. Tell yourself, "It's impossible to control who you fall in love with. I deserve to find love, so I'm not going to feel guilty for falling in love with someone who's unavailable." Depending on how your affair began, it's possible that he doesn't realize you've fallen in love. It can be really painful to love a man who isn't giving you that love back. Talk to him about how you feel and what you want. This can help you either move forward in your relationship with him or figure out if it's time to move on. You might say, "I know we started this as a fling, but I've fallen in love with you. I want to discuss our future." It's possible that he'll get upset when you tell him the truth. This can be really hard to hear, but you will get through this. If he has a negative response, call your friend for support. Your situation might feel really stressful, and you don't have to do this alone. If you're feeling overwhelmed, a therapist can help you deal with your emotions and change your thoughts. Additionally, they can help you decide what's best for your future and pursue your goals. If you feel like no one in your life supports you, a therapist may be the answer. They'll focus on what's best for you in a non-judgemental way. Ask your doctor for a referral to a therapist or look for one online. Your therapy appointments may be covered by your insurance, so check your benefits. Being in love with a married man can leave you with a lot of conflicting emotions. You might feel happy that you found a man you love, but it may also be hard because he has another family. Look for a friend who will support you during this time. This can help you work through your feelings. You might say, "I really need to talk about my relationship, but I know not everyone understands it. Can I trust you?"

Summary: Avoid trying to compete with his partner. Forgive yourself for falling in love with a married man if you feel guilty. Be honest with him about how you feel if you're hurting. Talk to a therapist if you're struggling with this situation. Find a friend you can confide in without feeling judged.

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<\/p><\/div>"}, type in photoshop, and double-click Photoshop at the top of the results. You'll need both your celebrity photo and your personal photo in Photoshop as separate files: Click File Click Open... Hold down Ctrl (Windows) or Command (Mac) while clicking both your celebrity image and your personal image. Click Open Follow any on-screen prompts. It should be at the top of Photoshop. Doing so will bring up your photo in the main Photoshop window. Click the paintbrush-shaped Quick Selection tool icon in the left-hand toolbar, then click the square New Selection icon in the options bar. If you don't see the Quick Selection tool, click and hold the Magic Wand selection tool (which resembles a wand with a star on it) until Quick Selection appears next to it. Click inside of your picture until the whole picture is selected. You may need to zoom in on the picture to select some of the finer details (e.g., pieces of hair). Click the Subtract icon, which resembles white and black overlapping squares, then click any parts of the selection which stray outside of the section you want to copy. For example, if Photoshop selected a section of the background behind you, you'd click that part of the selection to remove it and contain the selection to your outline. Click Select at the top of the Photoshop window (or, on a Mac, at the top of the screen), then hold down Shift while clicking Select and Mask... in the drop-down menu. Click and drag the "Refine" brush across any sections of the selection which look jagged or unnatural, then click OK when you're done. You'll notice this most with hair and pieces of clothing. Click Edit, then click Copy in the resulting drop-down menu. You can also press Ctrl+C (Windows) or Command+C (Mac). Click the tab for the photo of the celebrity, then click Edit and click Paste in the resulting drop-down menu. You should see the copied outline appear in the celebrity's photo. You can also press Ctrl+V (Windows) or Command+V (Mac) to do this. Click Image, click Free Transform in the drop-down menu, and then adjust the following attributes of the image: Position Click and drag the center of the image to your preferred spot. Size Click and drag one of the corners of the image inward to shrink it or outward to enlarge it. Once you're satisfied with your photo's appearance, you can save it as a cohesive image on your computer: Click File Click Save As... Enter a file name. Select a save location. Select a format (e.g., JPG for a photo). Click Save.
Summary: Open Photoshop. Open both photos in Photoshop. Click the tab for the photo of you. Open the Quick Selection tool. Select your outline. Subtract any extra edges. Open the "Refine Edge" menu. Remove any jagged edges. Copy the selection. Paste the selection into the famous person's photo. Adjust the image's size and position. Save your completed project.