What happens next?

How to communicate with your partner when you're autistic
Remember that you can handle this.
At times, you may fear that no amount of effort on your part will ever allow you to understand your partner. The best strategy may be becoming an expert on yourself.
This can serve as a foundation for learning new skills, having compassion for yourself, and even learning to laugh at how different you and your partner may approach problems and issues. Ask questions to your partner, and listen to the answers.