Q: Virgos are known for being perfectionists. They want everything to be just right, down to the very last, tiniest detail. This can be frustrating, especially to those who don't think the details are that important. The best thing to do would be to allow the Virgo express his or her creativity. If the Virgo you are dating is getting stressed out over the details for something, ask if you can help. Virgos can also be self-conscious and self-critical. Try to reassure him or her that everything is great. Don't try to make it seem like whatever they are fretting over is unimportant, however. Virgos tend to be sensitive. They also tend to be very critical of themselves. Try to avoid teasing Virgos, even if it is in a friendly mannerthey will likely take it seriously, and end up feeling very hurt. Also, if you hear a Virgo criticizing him or herself, don't assume that he/she is seeking compliments. More often than not, the Virgo really means it. The best thing you could do is to compliment the Virgo and show your support. Virgos can be workaholics, and once they get started on a project, it can be hard for them to stop. There is nothing wrong with thisto a certain extent. Give the Virgo enough privacy to focus on their work, but also make sure that they aren't overworking themselves. A good way to do this is to express your concern for their healthor simply telling them that you miss them. This will help the Virgo realize how much you care, and he or she might take a break from whatever they are working on. Don't try to make it seem like you are more important than the Virgo's work. He or she most certainly thinks you are more important, but sometimes he/she will get lost in a certain project. Sometimes, a Virgo will be trying to focus on too many things at once. All they need is a kind reminder to take things one step at a time, and to finish one project before starting another. If you are thinking of giving any gift to them, choose something that they can use for a while. Flowers and chocolates might earn you a smile, but a more practical gift, such as a notebook, would be even better. At the same time, you might want to avoid lavish, expensive gifts at first. Not only may this make a modest Virgo feel uncomfortable, but he or she might see the gift as an unnecessary waste of money. Consider the gift of learning. If your date has always wanted to learn pottery, see if your local community center offers such classes that the two of you can take together. This will allow your date to learn something new while spending time with you. Virgos take relationships and loyalty very seriously. They also tend to be romantics by nature. Don't hesitate to take a Virgo out on a nice, romantic date. Keep in mind that Virgos tend to be picky, and they don't always like surprises. To ensure that your surprise goes well, ask what sort of food he/she likes to eat. You may also want to keep the first surprise simple, inexpensive, and quiet. An expensive party with lots of people might not go well. If you're dating a Virgo woman, don't be surprised if she offers to help pay for the dinner. If you like to flirt openly with other people, a Virgo might not be the ideal match for you. Your open behavior may leave the Virgo feeling unloved.
A: Be patient with them, especially when they are being fussy about the details. Be kind, understanding, and supportive. Let them focus on their work, but also try to get them to relax every once in a while. Work with their practical nature, not against it. Stay loyal, support their romantic side.

Q: Part of your discomfort about your boyfriend going out may be because you wish you were doing the same. Manage your jealous feelings about his fun outing by planning one of your own with people you love to spend time with. Getting out and spending time with good friends is a healthy way to lessen your negative emotions. For example, plan a group dinner at a fun restaurant and invite old friends you haven't seen in a while. If your mind and body are busy, you will have less time to focus on your boyfriend going out. Make sure that you have something to occupy your time by starting a project that you are passionate about. This might include: Redecorating your room or apartment Writing a script or short story Hosting a fundraiser Planning a party In a relationship, you may adopt hobbies and interests that you can share with your partner and forget about those that you don't have in common. Take time for yourself to enjoy the things that are uniquely appealing to you. For instance, you can: Listen to music that you enjoy but your boyfriend dislikes. Watch television shows or movies that interest you. Engage in physical activities that your boyfriend does not want to participate in. Read books and magazines that only you enjoy. Changing your environment can sometimes mean a shift in your thought patterns. If you find yourself obsessing about your boyfriend going out, get moving to put a stop to it. Letting yourself worry about what your boyfriend is doing will likely make you miserable and unsettled. If you are obsessing about your boyfriends whereabouts, try going to a walk to clear your head. If you are at work or school and can't stop obsessing about his outing, try getting up to go to the washroom for a quick mental break.
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Organize a night out with your own friends. Take on a new project to stay busy. Indulge your own interests. Change your scenery to help stop obsessive thoughts.