In one sentence, describe what the following article is about: After breaking up with someone, you probably have some resentment for that person. As much as you want to vent, hold off. If you want to be a good person after a breakup, avoid saying bad things about your ex. This is especially important when talking to mutual friends. If you really can't put off the temptation, write down everything bad about your ex in a notebook. Venting in your diary or journal is better than complaining to others. Talking too much about your ex can also be bad for you. You don't want to get into a place where you're wallowing over negative things that have happened. This will not help you move on and let go of bigger feelings. If someone asks about the breakup, respond without saying anything negative. Instead of saying, "She broke up with me because she thinks she's too good for me" say something like, "We wanted different things, and that's why we broke up." Communication, even online, is a bad idea after a breakup. This can fuel bitter feelings. Try to un-follow your ex on various social media outlets. Avoid the temptation to visit your ex's Facebook and Twitter pages. If you're feeling any resentment over the breakup, you may start feeling bitter if you see your ex posting happy statuses or pictures. Do what is best for you when it comes to social media. If you think you will be better off not seeing your ex's posts, then delete your ex from your friends. If you think deleting your ex will make things harder for you, then don't delete your ex. Jumping into a new relationship is not fair to your new significant other. You need time to heal after a breakup. Going into another relationship right away is often a means to deflect negative feelings. You don't want to carry any negativity into a new relationship. If you're still reeling, you want to give yourself a chance to calm down before you pursue someone new. If you want to be a good person after a breakup, you need to be good to yourself. If you're feeling bitter or otherwise negative, you're more likely to take this out on those around you. Try to be aware of any negative, irrational thoughts you experience. Work on consciously replacing them with rational thought patterns. Many people have bitter, exaggerated thoughts during a breakup. You may, for example, think something like, "My life means nothing without my ex" or "I don't think I'll ever be happy again." When you experience such thoughts, try to step away and look at them rationally. Replace negative thought patterns with kinder ones. For example, think things like "I have a lot going on for me, even though my romantic relationship did not work out" and "I will be happy again eventually, even if things are rough now." You don't want to emotionally unload on people long term. In the initial weeks after your breakup, friends and family members will be happy to offer you support. However, after a while, people will need to return to their own lives. If you keep leaning on people for too long, they will get frustrated. Seek out a therapist if you find that you still need significant emotional support after a few weeks have passed. Try not to ask for too many favors for too long. For the first week or so after the breakup, it's acceptable to ask people to spend weeknights with you and listen to you vent. After a few months, however, you should give people their space. Work on feeling better on your own instead of expecting other people to fix your problems.
Summary: Avoid bad mouthing your ex. Limit contact in general. Take a break from dating. Replace irrational thoughts with rational ones. Do not lean on others for too long.

Problem: Article: To open any bank account, you'll usually need several documents and pieces of information to verify your identity. Make sure you have all of these before visiting an institution to avoid repeated visits. Government identification. A state-issued driver's license or passport is usually required. School or work ID's are not sufficient here. Your social security number. It is best to have this number memorized. If you don't know it by heart and have to write it down, be sure not to lose it and destroy it after you're done. Also don't put your name or any other information on the paper it's written on, just in case you do lose it. You should also check with the specific bank before you visit to see if they require any other proof or documentation. This will avoid repeated trips to open your account. Whichever account you decide to open, it will probably have a minimum account balance. If you don't meet that minimum you'll be charged a fee. You're often given a day or so to make a deposit and bring the account up to the minimum before you're charged. You can take care of this right when you open the account if you bring the minimum amount with you. When you have your documents together, visit the branch and speak to a representative. Usually tellers don't handle opening accounts, so you'll probably be referred to one of the bank managers or financial consultants. He or she will speak with you about the account you're opening and counsel you on what options are best. Plan to ask the representative any questions you might have. Explain your financial and banking situation to the representative. With this information at hand, the representative can assess your needs and may be able to recommend options you didn't think of before. If you've investigated the kinds of checking accounts the institution offers, mention them. The representative will be able to talk you through the pros and cons of each account. Ask about any fees associated with the account, as well as the minimum balance required. Ask if you can manage your banking online or over the phone. Most banks offer these services. They are much more convenient than having to visit the branch every time you need to handle your account. After speaking with the representative and gathering all the information you can, it's time to decide which account you want. When you decide on an account, then you'll have to deposit the minimum balance and usually submit an electronic signature that will show how you'll sign checks. After this, you can order personalized checks if you want them. Remember that if you plan on using a debit card, it usually takes a few days for these to come in the mail. Have cash on hand to make purchases until then.
Summary:
Gather the necessary documents. Bring cash or some other form of payment. Speak with a representative at the institution. Decide on an account and open it.