INPUT ARTICLE: Article: Your clothes should highlight your best features without putting everything on display. Showing just a hint of your feminine charm can tease him into imagining more. Revealing clothes are not necessarily the sexiest option. Instead, focus on playing up your best features. Pick out clothes that flatter your body type. The shape and material of the clothing should work with your natural curves, drawing attention to all the right places. Showing a little skin can also be effective, but the key idea is to leave more to the imagination than what you show. Pick out one revealing garment and balance it out with clothes that offer more coverage. For instance, wear a low-cut blouse with a knee-length or longer skirt. If you wear a blouse with a low back, make sure that your chest and legs are covered. When you opt for a mini skirt, keep your bust behind a blouse with a full neckline. Studies suggest that the color red can make women look more attractive to men more than any other color can. Some theories suggest that red is a naturally stimulating color. Others suggest that the link between the color red and sexuality is a learned behavior. Either way, multiple studies have suggested that red definitely has a positive effect when it comes to getting a man's attention. As with most things, less is more. Instead of dressing in bright red from head to toe, mix a little red into your outfit. Wear a red dress with black shoes or red shoes with a black dress, but avoid wearing a red dress with a red shoe. A little perfume can go a long way, especially when you choose the right scent. Scent can trigger attraction on an instinctual level. Certain fragrances are believed to be more sensual than others. Traditionally, these scents include sandalwood, rose, ylang ylang, jasmine, and patchouli. Use a small dab or spray of perfume and only apply it to your pulse points. These points are located at your wrists, behind your ears, in the bend of your elbow, behind your knees, and on the inside of your ankles. Slow, smooth movements can make you appear more confident, more feminine, and more sensual. When you know he's looking in your direction, put a little extra effort into looking a little more graceful. Mind your posture and keep your back straight. Doing this demonstrates an appealing level of confidence while subtly flattering your chest. If you're at a club, party, or similar event, consider dancing at a time you know he can watch. Dancing can be a very sensual action. It also conveys confidence and a fun-loving nature. Try not to look jumpy or intimidated, even if you actually feel really nervous. You don't need to sit in the same spot the entire time, but maintain a relatively fixed position to demonstrate a calm, relaxed, and confident attitude.

SUMMARY: Leave a little mystery when you dress. Wear red. Amplify your pheromones with the right scent. Relax your movements.

INPUT ARTICLE: Article: If you're riding a horse and you start to feel it getting excited, or something on the trail spooks it, your instinct might be to tighten your grip on the reins. However, this will make the horse feel even more anxious and antsy. Instead, try to loosen your grip on the reins, which may make the horse a little calmer. Also, try not to clamp your legs against the horse's side. If you overreact by yanking on the reins and yelling, you'll reinforce that the horse had something to be afraid of in the first place. Since your horse will pick up on your body language, stay as calm and relaxed as possible. You don't want to accidentally cue your horse to become more nervous. Give the horse a command to slow or stop, like, "Whoa," "Easy," or "Calm." Use the same command you used when training the horse, and try not to shout, even if you're feeling nervous. It's important to be consistent in using verbal commands during training. That way, when you're in a situation away from home, the horse will know exactly what you expect it to do. Most of your instructions to the horse should be through your body language and your use of the reins, but verbal commands can be useful as well. Don't yank or snatch at the reins, but pull one side firmly and steadily until the horse starts to turn. You can turn the horse to either side, but if it has one side that it favors during training, you may want to start by turning the horse that way. Turning the horse's head will stop it from moving forward, and it will also cause it to lower its head, which is a cue to the horse to calm down. Leave plenty of slack in the other rein, but don't drop it. As you're pulling the rein, press in with your leg on the same side. Squeeze your leg into the horse's side firmly, but don't kick sharply or you could startle the horse, making it harder to control. This is called the hips over technique, and it should cause the horse to step sideways to try to ease the pressure you're applying. If the horse doesn't respond within a few seconds, squeeze your leg against its side harder until it moves. Stepping sideways will discourage the horse from moving forward, and it may also distract the horse from whatever has excited it. Don't hold pressure on the rein too long, or else the horse will start to fight against it. Instead, once you feel the horse take a big step to the side, ease up on the rein and hold it loosely in your hand. Although the reins should have plenty of slack in them, you should still be holding them securely. While a single turn might be all it takes to calm a well-trained horse, a more inexperienced horse may still be feeling excited. If it's still jigging, pull back on the opposite rein and apply pressure with your leg on that side. You may need to repeat this a few times, alternating which side you turn toward each time. After you've calmed your excited horse, keep it distracted on the ride by giving it plenty to do. Frequently adjust your riding speed, and have the horse ride around objects along the trail so it will have to constantly mind what it's doing. This may help shift its attention away from whatever excited it in the first place. You can also move ahead or behind other horses if you're riding in a group. An over-excited horse may not immediately respond to a calm-down cue and the hips over technique. If the horse is panicked, or if it rears, bolts, or otherwise causes you to feel that you're in danger, you should exit the horse quickly and move away. Remove your feet from the stirrups, push yourself up off of the saddle with your hands, and swing one leg over the saddle. Then, push away from the horse slightly as you slide down to the ground. Even if you're falling, you can avoid injuries by tucking into a ball and landing on your shoulder, then rolling away from the horse. Do not put your arms out to catch you while you're falling.

SUMMARY:
Ease up on both reins for a moment. Give the horse clear, calm commands. Pull one side of the reins to pull the horse's head around. Use your leg to push the horse's hindquarters to the side. Release the pressure on the rein when the horse steps sideways. Repeat on the other side if the horse hasn't settled down. Give the horse constant instructions to keep its attention occupied. Dismount if you're still having trouble getting the horse under control.