INPUT ARTICLE: Article: In the moment, point out the behavior you find inappropriate. It is possible that he does not realize when he's doing it, but mentioning it will help solidify your concerns. Simply say something like, "Do you know that you stare at women? Like right now did you notice you did that?" Because you are likely in public when this happens, it is probably not a good time to go into a lengthy discussion about the behavior, but pointing it out when it happens will give you a reference point for later when you can bring it up and discuss it. It is crucial that he knows how he is making you feel when he checks out another woman. Try framing your discussion in terms of "When you X, I feel Y." Tell him when he looks at women's bodies or makes inappropriate comments, it makes you feel frustrated, jealous, angry, or disrespected. Next, tell your husband what he could do differently in the future. For example, you might say: "When you looked at Janet's breasts today, I felt really embarrassed and disrespected. In the future I would appreciate it if you would try to show more respect for my friends and for me by not staring at them that way." He may try to justify what he is doing as right, normal, or unavoidable, and he may turn the blame around on you. This is not okay. He might, however, have a perfectly reasonable explanation for noticing another woman, such as "Oh, I just noticed her unusual dress," or something similar. When people engage in bad behavior and get called on it, it is common for them to gaslight the person that calls them on it. Gaslighting is when someone makes someone else feel like they are imagining the bad behavior, or like they are crazy or overreacting if they are bothered by bad behavior. It's a way of avoiding taking responsibility for behavior. If this happens, try to disengage from the conversation. Once your husband begins to blame you, it can be hard to turn the conversation around to a productive direction. If it happened one time, it might be best to drop it, but if it is a recurring behavior or if your spouse blames you by saying you are not attractive enough or too jealous, it might be time to consider marriage counseling. Reinforce the fact he is making you uncomfortable. You must really show him he is making you uncomfortable to be sure he knows you are serious and that you consider what he is doing is completely and utterly wrong, and hurtful to you.

SUMMARY: Let your husband know when it happens. Tell him how it makes you feel. Do not accept unreasonable justifications for why your husband does this. Decide if this behavior is worth fighting over.

INPUT ARTICLE: Article: Before you mix your diazinon, you need to make sure your spray tank is clean and functioning properly. Fill a clean spray tank with 1 gallon (3.8L) of water and test the spray mechanism to make sure the tank sprays properly. Always clean your spray tank out with clean water immediately after using diazinon to prevent contamination. Diazinon is a versatile pesticide and can be used to treat a variety of plants. It's important that you add the right amount of diazinon because too little could be ineffective and too much could damage your plants and the environment. Pour the measured amount directly into the water in the spray can. Once you've added the right amount of the pesticide to your spray tank, seal the container and shake it well to combine the water and diazinon. Do not reach into the tank to stir the mixture or you could be exposed to the toxic fumes. Make sure the container is completely sealed before you shake it! Once you've combined the water and diazinon and mixed it up well in the spray tank, use it to treat your lawn, foundation, or plants immediately. The fumes can build up in the spray tank and are toxic, so it's best to use the pesticide as soon as you can, so you can then clean out the spray tank. Do not store any unused diazinon in the spray tank. Dispose of the diazinon at appropriate disposal sites. If you're in the US, you can call 1-800-253-2687 to find a disposal location near you. Do not pour the diazinon into a drain or garbage can! It can damage the environment or harm another person who is exposed to it!

SUMMARY: Fill a clean spray tank with 1 gallon (3.8L) of water. Add the appropriate amount of diazinon to the water in the spray tank. Shake the spray tank to thoroughly mix the diazinon and water. Use the mixture as soon as possible.

INPUT ARTICLE: Article: Put the lipsticks in the microwave for 5 seconds on high. Allow them to melt, then mix them together with a plastic spoon or stirring rod to blend the colors. Continue microwaving in 5-second intervals until blended. Alternatively, you can melt the lipsticks together in a double-boiler instead of a microwave. Consider adding about 1 tsp (5 ml) of beeswax or petroleum jelly for every 4 inches (10 cm) of lipstick used, as doing so will add a moisturizing effect to the lipstick. Stir well until blended. When ready, pour the new shade of lipstick into a small cosmetic pot or tin. Allow the lipstick to cool and harden before use. Apply the new lipstick using your finger or an applicator brush.

SUMMARY: Microwave the lipsticks. Pour the mixture into containers.

INPUT ARTICLE: Article: Find someone you feel connected to and who you feel a strong connection with. It's difficult (though not impossible) to start a meaningful conversation with a stranger or acquaintance. It might feel more comfortable to start a meaningful conversation with someone you've known for a while or already have some closeness in your relationship. You might not want to start a meaningful conversation with someone who's often argumentative or focused on always being 'right'. Think about someone you can engage with and share both speaking and listening. A meaningful conversation will often occur within a context that makes it meaningful. While some meaningful conversations can happen spontaneously, others may require some planning. Especially if it's difficult to find time to meet up, choose a date and a time where both you and the other person can be present and fully engaged. For example, don't have the conversation when one or both of you have a time constraint. Avoid busy or stressful days so that each person feels comfortable and not preoccupied or stressed. When talking, you don't want to be interrupted by surrounding noise. You probably also don't want prying ears overhearing your conversation. Find a quiet place where you won't be disturbed or interrupted. This might include somebody's home or a private meeting room. For example, a restaurant may not be ideal as you may be interrupted or overheard. Look for a place with minimal distractions. Consider turning off your phone or the television so that it doesn't interrupt your conversation. If your conversations are often scattered, disorganized, or tangential, you can pause to talk a moment to organize your thoughts. This helps keep the conversation on track, and can give you a confidence boost as well! If you know you're going to have a difficult conversation and want to prepare well in advance, you can also try writing down what you want to say to organize your thoughts! Put some effort into starting the conversation, especially if it's a difficult topic. Decide on how you will start the conversation and what words you will say. Whether you enjoy it or not, small talk can help to open a conversation and make people feel more comfortable. Starting a conversation with something deep might be jarring or unexpected, so warm up with some small talk first. When you and the other person appear comfortable, bring up a more substantial topic. For example, ask how the person's day is going or briefly talk about the weather.

SUMMARY:
Choose who you want to speak with. Choose an appropriate time to talk. Find a quiet place. Collect your thoughts before you speak. Start with small talk.