Write an article based on this "Avoid backhanded compliments. Don't mistake a cat call for a compliment. Avoid demeaning comments."
This might be the worst type of "compliment" there is. A backhanded compliment is one that sounds really nice at first, but then the real meaning of the statement hits. It's a passive-aggressive way to really hurt a person's feelings. It's possible to deliver a backhanded compliment without even knowing you're doing it. For example, you might say something like, "Wow, I really like your hair today. What's different?" By saying this, you're implying that you don't like the person's hair very much on other days. Or you might say, "You're amazing at baseball, for a girl." Attaching a qualifier to the end of your compliment turns it into an insult. Yelling a "compliment" at someone walking down the street is actually highly insulting. The point of a compliment is to make someone feel good, and yelling about someone's physical features is likely to do just the opposite. Even if some people say they like being cat called, not everyone does not by a long shot. If you really want to make someone feel good, even a stranger, don't yell something in passing. The same rules apply to giving compliments to a stranger and giving compliments to someone you know: you need to find something sincere to say and deliver your compliment respectfully. You probably already know what these are, and you'd probably never say them to someone. Even if you have a huge crush on someone and you want to ask her out actually, especially if you want to ask someone out don't try to compliment someone on a sexual body part. It's just rude, and in certain settings this type of comment can be construed as sexual harassment. Keep your compliments polite!