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How to attend couples counseling
Be honest with yourself and your partner.
You need to approach couples therapy with an open mind and honesty. Your couples counseling sessions will begin with your counselor asking a series of questions to figure out where your relationship is.

Select from the following. [+] Your counselor may ask you, " how do you feel about our friendship? " or " how do you see our relationship changing? " you should also clarify your perspective so that a counselor understands where you're coming from. For example, " my partner is busy with work, and our friendship has become more serious.. [+] Be prepared to say a lot about your relationship with this person, but also let him/her know why you want to take the time to discuss your relationship. The answers will work best if you know your counselor on a first come, first served basis.. [+] Your counselor will ask about your history as a couple, why you sought treatment, and other questions to see where you are as a couple. Make sure you get everything out on the table about your relationship.. [+] Without being judgmental, consider how effective your sessions might be at removing naysayers. This will help make sure you're both willing to compromise as a couple to eliminate naysayers..
Your counselor will ask about your history as a couple, why you sought treatment, and other questions to see where you are as a couple. Make sure you get everything out on the table about your relationship.