If you don't already know why your parents dislike your fiance, you should ask them. Once you know exactly what their concerns are, you can take steps to address them and hopefully improve the relationship. You might say, for example, "Mom, Dad, I know that you don't care for my fiance very much. But I'm not sure why. Could we talk about it?" Or, you might directly say to them, "Could you tell me why you don't like my fiance?" It may be easier for you to begin the process of overcoming your parents' dislike for your fiance without your future spouse's presence. You're likely to have a greater comfort level this way, and your parents may be more willing to speak freely. You don't have to hide this from your fiance, though; say something like "I'm going to talk to my parents about why they seem to dislike you. I think it will be best if we bring you into the discussion a little later." Listen carefully and calmly to what your parents have to say. Find out if the problem is finances, prospects, attitude, background, beliefs, or some other factors. After you've spoken to your parents alone, or, right from the start if you prefer, sit down with them and your fiance and talk about the situation. Having open and honest communication about what is going on and how your parents feel may bring a peaceful and happy resolution to the situation. Try to talk at a neutral place like a restaurant or a park. You all may be less likely to get upset in a public place like this. You might tell your parents and your fiance, "We're all going to sit down and talk about this situation so that we can work it out." Be calm but firm in your insistence that your marriage plans will not be derailed and that an accommodation must be reached. Sometimes parents have concerns about their future in-laws because of worries they have for their child's happiness. Talk to your parents about your decision and let them know that they have nothing to worry about. This can help alleviate some of their worries and help them like your fiance a bit better. For example, you could say, "You guys raised me well and I hope you can trust that I've thought this decision through. I know that I'm making the right choice and that I'm planning for a successful future with my fiance." Or, you might say, "I know that you want the best for me. If you give my fiance a chance, I'm sure that your feelings will change."

Summary: Ask your parents what their concerns are. Talk to your parents alone. Talk about the situation as a group. Reassure your parents.

Unless you want guests to reply by telephone or through a wedding website, it's best to include a physical card that guests can mail back in response to the invitation. To encourage people to respond by mail, make it as easy as possible by providing pre-printed envelopes so they don't even have to address the RSVP themselves. The return address should be the name and address of the hosts, and not necessarily the bride and groom. For couples who do register with a wedding website, guests can RSVP immediately online. However, it's important to mention specifically on the invitation or RSVP card that guests must visit that site for more information.

Summary: Include an RSVP card. Pre-print the response envelopes with the hosts name and address. Direct people to your wedding website.

Use ice packs to reduce inflammation and swelling, and use heating pads or warm washcloths to increase blood flow and relax your muscles. Try alternating between hot and cold in 20 minute intervals until you feel relief. You can use these methods on any areas that are particularly painful. Arthritis, multiple sclerosis, and shingles all benefit from heating and cooling because they are types of inflammatory pain. Capsaicin is the active ingredient in chili peppers, so it creates a warming sensation when you apply it. Try rubbing a cream with capsaicin in it to reduce your pain in 1 specific area of your body. Look for capsaicin creams at your local drug store. Capsaicin cream is great for soothing aching joints and muscles. Curcumin, or turmeric, possesses natural properties that help your body fight inflammation and reduce swelling. Try taking 400 mg to 600 mg of turmeric per day to reduce your pain. Taking too much turmeric can hurt your stomach and make you feel bloated or nauseated.

Summary: Alternate between heating and cooling your painful areas. Try topical capsaicin for specific areas of your body. Take curcumin for inflammation.

When you get your new hamster, you'll need to provide it with a comfortable place to live. This means you need to set up a suitable cage for your hamster. You should put down some absorbent bedding to make your hamster feel comfortable. This also allows your hamster to go to the restroom in its cage. You'll need to spot clean the bedding daily and replace the entire thing once a week or so. Be sure to also put a water bottle for your hamster to drink out of in the cage. Hamsters are omnivores, which means they subsist on animal-based food as well as plant-based food. The most common thing to feed hamsters is dried hamster food pellets, but it is a good idea to supplement your hamster's diet with small pieces of raw fruits and vegetables as a treat a couple times per week. Typically, hamsters should eat about 10 grams of dry hamster food twice each day. For a treat, consider giving them small bits of broccoli, peaches, cauliflower, or bananas. Do not give your hamster anything citrus (like lemons or oranges) or acidic (like onions) because it could cause your hamster to get an upset stomach. During the first few days after you get your hamster, be careful not to push yourself on it too quickly. This is especially important during feeding time. Just put the food in the cage and then leave the hamster alone to eat in peace. This will help your hamster feel safe around you. You need to give your hamster some time to get used to you and to feel safe and settled in its new home. Don't try to force any contact with your hamster for the first week or so. Sometimes this process can take a bit longer. It's important for you to be patient in the beginning.
Summary: Give your hamster a nice home. Feed the hamster regularly. Wait a week before trying to touch it.