Problem: However , utopia83 brought up the valid issue of : what about Jake ? To which I flippantly replied , " Obviously they broke up " and then added in a less light tone " possibly he died tragically " . Which sort of would make sense .

What is the reason that the relationship died ?

A: Jake was killed .

Problem: Not too long ago she never would have thought she would be attracted to a career military soldier like John . And a pilot who loved to go fast , no less . All her life the path to romantic companionship had meant doctors , professors , academics , and even politicians and diplomats .

Why are some surprised with her partner ?

A: They have a different lifestyle than past mates .

Problem: Hubby has always made me laugh . We were friends for several years before we were married , and while he is an introvert and claims to have the emotional range of a " cow , " he 's also very funny . His humor is on the dry , slightly sarcastic side and comes from life observations . When I was growing up , my brother Danny developed a " pet " voice . He talked for the animals , mostly the cats .

Why might the woman have felt comfortable with her husband ?

A:
He was very similar to her brother