Try not to enlarge the hole. Cut out only what is necessary. Since the patch is larger than the hole, you may have to wiggle the patch around to completely submerge it. Make sure it sits completely flat underneath the hole. This subpatch will help to smoothen any puckering of the leather surrounding the hole, as well as and give you a backing to fill the hole later. Use a toothpick to apply the glue for small holes or a palette knife for large holes. Press down firmly on the outer edges of the hole to firmly adhere the subpatch to the leather. Allow to dry completely. You may use a hairdryer to speed up the drying process. Smoothen to an even layer, making sure it reaches all the edges of the hole. Allow the layer to dry completely. Repeat this process until the hole is completely filled. If using a hairdryer to dry the layers, position the dryer so that the air blows across the glue or filler instead of directly onto it to prevent heat and moisture buildup. Gently sanding the layer will smoothen the dried glue or filler so that its texture more closely matches the surface of the seat. Do not apply too much pressure while sanding. If the repaired layer dips beneath the surface of the hole, you will need to add another layer and allow to dry before sanding again. Apply the pigment to and around the repaired hole until it is completely covered. Allow to dry. You may also want to apply a leather conditioner to the seat after the pigment is completely dry. Spray an even layer across the repair to completely cover it. Make sure not to spray too much so there is no drippage. Allow to dry completely. If the seat is in poor condition, consider repainting the entire seat for a seamless finish.

Summary: Cut around the burn hole with a scalpel and remove the burned piece of leather. Push the cloth patch into the hole using tweezers. Flatten the patch underneath the leather with your tweezers, spreading out any bunching. Apply some glue underneath the edges of the hole. Spread a layer of flexible glue or filler into the hole. Sand the final layer so that it is level with the edges. Dab on your leather pigment with a sponge for a leather seat. Coat the repaired hole with vinyl spray paint for a vinyl seat.

After your trust level has been built, and you have practiced what you want to say, you will want to begin talking to your boyfriend about your past. A quiet, solemn setting is a great place to begin talking. Some places that are great to talk in are: your bedroom, the living room, or in a car when you are not driving. These different settings should be quiet, and should make it easy to see each other face to face. When people talk about their past, it can sometimes be very scary or sad. Having a pillow around to hold, and tissues available can make the talk easier and flow without interruption. When the radio or television is on, that can take away from a good, thoughtful conversation. Movie theaters and restaurants can also be noisy, distracting, and generally not suitable for engaging one another. Privacy is also a concern. Sometimes asking a friend to join you can help, but you want to make sure that you and your boyfriend share a moment together as a couple. After all, the goal of the talk is to make your relationship stronger. Sometimes partners are not receptive to what their other partner is telling them. Having a strong voice can do the trick well. Use your prepared statement as written beforehand, keep your notes close by, or try and remember what your notes said. Going too off script might lead to a long drawn-out conversation that does not accomplish the goal. Make sure the words you choose are clear, and precise. When your boyfriend gets done listening, he should understand exactly what you have told him. There is no need to get all the information out at once, especially if it something difficult you wish to talk about. Pace yourself, and remember that your boyfriend is there to first and foremost listen to what you have to say. Remember to introduce the topic subtlety and gradually work in the heavier moments. Describe the event, related side effects of your past, and how it effects you and the relationship. Begin the conversation with a slow introduction. Do not reveal all the details at the beginning. This can turn your boyfriend off to conversation. Take it slow, and work through everything you want to say. Make sure that there is open communication between yourself and your boyfriend. This is not only about you, but also the relationship as a whole. Stop frequently for your boyfriend to ask questions and comment about what he has heard so far Try your best to look your boyfriend in the eyes, and make sure he is looking to you as well. This is the best way to gage emotional or physical reactions. Because you are setting special time aside to tell your boyfriend about your past, it is clear that this information is critical to understanding you as a person. Explain to your boyfriend why this was crucial to reveal, and how it will possibly shape your future. Consistently remind your boyfriend that talking about the past is important to you. By revealing this secret about your past, you are allowing him insight into who you are as a person. People who are able to do this successfully can work together as a team to not repeat the mistakes of the past. Give examples of how this event has changed the way you go about your daily life. Forecast into the future any potential problems that may arise if this past experience is not dealt with. This should not be a one sided conversation. Allow your partner, especially after you are done telling your story, to open up about his feelings, reactions, etc. Gage your boyfriend's reaction to what you have told him. If your boyfriend has been well receptive, you may want to open up more and tell him other things about your past. A dialogue is a great way to build a good relationship. Ask your boyfriend if he wants to tell you something about his past. This is not about blackmailing him, but rather a way to share open and honestly. A related past can help you and him better understand one another. Be prepared for either a positive or negative reaction. Sometimes a boyfriend may not like what he is hearing you tell him. This is perfectly normal, but something that should be worked on. Continue to follow up, and ask him to listen. Take a break, for both of you to process what you have just revealed. You do not want to simply end the dialogue on a depressing tone, or wait to construct reactions later on. Use this time you have to become more open and honest. Find resolutions to problems. If it was a difficult moment in your past that you shared, work with your boyfriend to find a way forward. This moment does not define you, but it will always be a part of you. Make sure that any future conversations about the topic are solemn and serious. Perhaps, with your boyfriend, work on a system of visual or physical cues. Every time your boyfriend or yourself relays one of these cues, they will know he or she is referring to this moment/story. That way, in the future, you will know when it is appropriate to reengage the topic of conversation. If you do not want to reveal all the information at once, find a good stopping point in the story. If the relationship is healthy, there will always be time to come back and tell the rest. A kiss or a hug is a nice way to tell your partner that you love them and care about what they have said/listened to.

Summary: Sit your boyfriend down in a comfortable setting. Be confident while talking with your boyfriend. Tell your story. Talk about your future. Create a dialogue between you and your boyfriend. End the conversation on a high note.

If he thinks that you hang on his every word he may find it unattractive. Letting him know that you will talk to him when it suits you can build intrigue and show him that getting your attention will be a challenge that will be rewarded. Keep him on his toes and reward him for finally getting the chance to talk to you. It will make him value your limited interactions. Be careful not to blow him off too many times or he may think that you will easily to ditch out on him. Don't reveal too much of yourself too soon. Keep your interactions fun but brief so that he wants more and values your time.
Summary: Don't answer his calls. Change your schedule. Establish intrigue to draw him closer.