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The tendency is normally to start chattering to fill up awkward silences, but the next time you're faced with a long pause in a conversation, try to internally count to 5 and remind yourself that it's okay if there is a lull in conversationchances are, it'll only last for 15 seconds or so and then you'll move on. You can introduce a new topic of conversation if you want to, or you could just ride out the silence and see if anyone else has something to talk about. If the silence goes on for a while, it's okay to excuse yourself to go to the restroom or to refresh your drink. The pause actually gives you a natural time to break away if you want to. Use conversations with others as a chance to learn and have fun. If someone says something you don't agree with, try to learn more about why they think that way. And it's okay to say you don't agree, just try to be amiable and remember that the point of a discussion isn't to change someone's mind about somethingit's to get to know the person better. However, if someone says something that is disrespectful or hostile, it's okay to end the conversation. You should avoid judging others and always aim to respect different points of view, but if the person is making you uncomfortable, try to draw someone else into the conversation with you or make an excuse to walk away. For example, if someone is complaining about a situation, consider that perhaps they haven't been able to talk about their feelings yet (everyone needs to vent sometimes), or if someone makes a comment you think is weird, try to remember that everyone is a little weird and you've probably said some odd things in conversation when you were nervous, too. For example, if you're at a party and someone reveals a little too much information about their recent bout of the flu, remember that they may be nervous and chatting more to try and keep the conversation moving. Try to gloss over the situation and not point out that their overshare was weird by finding something you can relate to. For example, you could say something like, "Oh, I think my friend had the flu around the same time. What's your favorite movie to watch when you're sick?" This keeps the conversation moving in a positive direction. In general, try to focus conversations in a positive, forward-thinking way, and be respectful of others, even if you think they're a little weird. It's definitely okay to talk about difficult things, but if you're conversing with someone new or who you don't know well yet, try to focus on talking about things that excite you or that you're passionate about. Avoid over-sharing personal information with new acquaintances. If you want to talk about the intimate details of your relationship or something you're struggling with personally, try to do that with a trusted, close friend instead. Ending a conversation can be the hardest part of interacting with another person. Try practicing a few statements at home so you can pull them out when you need to. Try some of these different endings: "It was so nice getting to talk with you. I need to say hi to a few more people tonight still, but I hope you have a great rest of your evening." "I need to start heading out, but I really enjoyed getting to know more about you. Could we exchange numbers and talk more again later?" "Thanks so much for talking with me tonight. I'm going to go stop at the restroom and say hi to a few other people, but hopefully I'll see you around again soon!"

summary: Learn to be comfortable with pauses and silence. Discuss rather than debate to foster a positive atmosphere. Give the benefit of the doubt if someone makes a negative comment. Stick to positive topics to keep the conversation from devolving. Exit a conversation gracefully.

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The best known specialty tool is the Bracelet Buddy, but there are a few brands on the market, which typically consist of a plastic handle and an alligator clip at the other end. While it's especially helpful for people with arthritis or fine motor disabilities, it can make putting on a bracelet easier for anyone who's had difficulty doing it alone. You can purchase bracelet fastening tools on a variety of websites, including Amazon. It helps to lay the bracelet flat on a table or counter to ensure that there are no tangles or kinks in the chain. Take the end of the bracelet without the clasp, and gently close the tool's clip over it. Make sure that the clip is firmly closed over the end, so it won't slip loose when you attempt to fasten the bracelet. The clip on the tool usually has a protective coating to keep it from damaging the bracelet, but take care when attaching it to make sure that you don't scratch the jewelry. You should grasp the tool's handle against the palm of your hand, so the clip with the bracelet attached is facing toward you. Use your free hand to wrap the bracelet around your wrist, and carefully open the clasp to secure it to the other end. It's a good idea to give the bracelet a gentle tug to ensure that the clasp is completely closed. While these specialty tools are usually marketed specifically for bracelets, you can also use them to close wristwatches by yourself.

summary: Purchase a bracelet fastening tool. Attach the tool's clip to the end of bracelet. Hold the tool and fasten bracelet.

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Visit your local bookstore or go online to purchase a planner. You can purchase a paper planner that spans one or more years. Pick an attractive planner, so that looking at your schedule is a pleasure. Pick a small or flat planner that will fit in your bag, so you can carry it with you. If you would rather not carry a planner with you, consider a desk planner that will sit comfortably on a table. Make sure your planner has enough space in it for you to write down your daily activities. If you have a variable schedule with lots of small parts, get a planner with large spaces per day. If you have many ongoing projects with flexible deadlines, pick a planner with small spaces per day but plenty of extra blank page space per week, so you can keep a to-do list. A to-do list that is part of your planner is useful to most people, so consider a planner with facing blank pages for every week. If you coordinate your schedule with others, or if you do most things on your phone and computer, it might make more sense for you to pick an application, a website, or an extension of your email services to organize your schedule. You can look up free mobile and web applications that suit your needs. If you plan on sharing information from your online planner with friends, family, or colleagues, ask them what service they use and plan accordingly. Most computers come with a calendar application. You can coordinate this application with your email and other websites you use. Search your computer for "calendar," or scroll through your applications folder. You can find printable templates online, or you can design your own planner by hand or on your computer. Purchase a case for your planner, such as a three ring binder or a book cover. If you are printing templates and putting them in a binder, use a hole punch on your templates and put them in your binder. If you are binding your own book, try taking the pages out of an old hardcover book. Lay the cover flat and measure it. Find paper that is slightly smaller than the length and width of your flat cover, or cut paper to size. Fold each individual page in half to make two pages of your book. Using a ruler and pen, colored pencil, marker, or paintbrush, draw lines on each page according to the organizer design you prefer. Look at templates online for ideas. Stack your pages. Make sure they fit in your cover. You may need to create three distinct stacks for your book to lie flat. With your pages now in order, put in dates. Don't forget holidays! Bind your book. Take an awl or large needle. Punch one or two holes in the cover in the same place. Use a sturdy thread to sew together.
summary: Buy a paper planner. Plan online. Plan on your computer. Make your own paper planner.