Question: And gentlemen, it's been fun, but now I really need to get some rest.'
I then proceeded to drink some tea and sleep.

Answer: it is not possible to tell

Question: The pressures applied by top management and oversight entities are instrumental in clearly defining and communicating the need for improved program operations and, most important, in redefining the organizational culture.
The culture need not be redefined.

Answer: no

Question: so do you find your husband more involved than your father was with you
Do you feel like your husband cares more about you than your father does?

Answer:
yes