In one sentence, describe what the following article is about: With more independent teens, you can ask them if they need help with a diaper change. If they are less independent, you may need to do a visual check. Quickly peek inside the back and front of the diaper to see if it is wet or soiled. They may resist your need to check if they need a diaper change, so be sensitive to their feelings. Respect their privacy and dignity as you check. Consider developing a code phrase, such as: "Do you need a break?" or "It doesn't smell like roses here - do you need to get some fresh air?" Prepare to change or have them change the diaper as soon as possible. Delays in a cheaper diaper can contribute to the development of a urinary tract infections, skin irritation, and rashes. If you are in a home setting, head into the restroom area or a room with extra space. If you are "out and about" it gets a bit more challenging. Go to a public restroom and head into an extra-large stall, a handicapped stall or a separate family restroom, if one is available. It is important that the space is big enough for the both of you and that it is clean. Sometimes you may find a restroom with an extra large changing table. If you're around other people, simply say, "Excuse us for a moment, we'll be right back," and leave it at that. If you have options, choose the bathroom stall with extra handrails and/or purse shelves (for changing supplies). Always lock the bathroom door behind you. If there are people standing outside of the bathroom area, feel free to ask them to give you some space as well. Likewise, if you are in a public space, use hushed tones when completing the change. Do not complain aloud or you will further frazzle and embarrass the teenager. If you are out, you should carry a sturdy diaper bag that contains the following: diapers, disposable underpads, wipes, barrier skin cream, a pair of gloves, and hand sanitizer. Unpack these items and place them nearby for the changing process. If the teenager is able, you might ask them to assist by holding the wipes or the fresh diaper. A disposable underpad is just one of many options to provide a barrier between the teen and the changing surface. You can also use a folded shower curtain, a waterproof picnic blanket, or a homemade padded changing mattress covered in soft vinyl. It's easy to forget or run out of a necessary item. Do a quick inventory of your diaper bag before heading out to ensure you have everything you need. If you're in a public restroom and can't set out the items, leave them in the bag and pull them out as needed. The fewer supplies that are contaminated with germs, the better. If you need to move something to make additional room on the floor in a room, do so. Pay attention to the temperature as well. You do not want the room to be too hot or too cold as it will make the changing process all the more uncomfortable. Adjust the thermostat if you can and if it is necessary. How do you this depends on how mobile your teen is. Standing would be the easiest, but if your teen is unable to stand up, or has soiled the diaper heavily, then you will need to set up the room for a laying down change. For a laying down change, place an underpad on the ground or bed. If a changing table is available, clean the plastic cover with a disinfecting wipe. For a seated change, place the underpad on a chair seat or bench. For a standing change, place the underpad on the ground with reach access to a wall, if needed for support.
Summary: Do a discreet verbal or physical check. Go to a changing area. Maintain privacy. Set up the supplies. Make any room adjustments. Prepare for the changing position.

Problem: Article: Arrange a time to sit down with your parents and ask for the money. You want your parents to know that you aren't taking this situation lightly, and you'd only be asking if you needed it. You'll come across as more serious and sincere if you set up a time beforehand, rather than having a quick phone call or just casually asking for the money in passing. Depending on how large a sum you're asking for, you might want to bring some paperwork to your discussion with your parents. Show them how you calculated the exact amount that you need. Indicate how much you've been able to save to pay for the item, then ask for the remaining amount. If you're asking for money for a specific item, find it online and print out the price. If you'd like extra money you can use as a cushion, be upfront about that. Tell them that if they give you a certain amount now, you'll be able to get on your feet and won't have to ask again. If you're going to pay them back, you might want to provide a printed installment plan or schedule they can keep. This shows that you're serious about making good on your promise. You probably have a fairly good picture of what your parents' finances are like. Still, it's better not to assume they can give or even loan you a large amount of money. Ask them if they feel comfortable with the amount you're asking for. They may tell you they simply can't afford it, or that they'd be able to give you a partial amount. Asking for money is a big favor, and your parents are entitled to making a few stipulations. They may say that they'll give you just a part of what you're asking for, or perhaps they'll say they can loan you the money if you pay it back within a short time. Your first inclination might be to get upset or angry that they didn't give you what you wanted with no strings attached. However, if you want or need the money, you'll have to accept what comes with it. It's possible that your parents will decline to give you the money. If that's the case, see if there's anything you can do to make them feel better about giving it to you. Is there a chore or job you could do in exchange for the money? See if you can make repairs, do the grocery shopping, or help out in some other way. If they still won't budge, don't beg. Instead, try to find another way to get money. If you show your parents you're resourceful, they may even decide to help you out. If your parents decide to give you the money, it's in your best interest to tell them thanks. If you're over eighteen, your parents are no longer obligated to support you financially, so the money they hand over is a gift. If you want to go above and beyond, you could even write them a thank-you note. Your attitude will make them feel more willing to help you out in the future.
Summary:
Have a polite conversation. Lay out your plan. Make sure they can afford it. Accept their stipulations. Say thank you.