Problem: Article: Turn off any electronic devices, silence your cell phone or turn it off completely, get a babysitter if you have children, and try to make the environment as comfortable and friendly as possible. You may want to provide tissues if you think that you or your friend may cry during the conversation. Remind them that they are not alone and you are there to help and support them. Take a little time to review your relationship with the person and tell them how much and why you care about them. This will help show that you are approaching them from a place of love. For example, you might say, "John, we have been friends for 3 years now, and when we met, I was struck by your easygoing personality and your ready laugh. Lately, you haven't been quite the same, and I am really worried about you. I'll be your friend no matter whatlaughing, crying, happy, sad- whatever. But I want you to know that I am here for you and that I care about you." Another example is, "Jane, you are my sister. We have been through so much together in our lives, and even when we disagree or don't get along, I still love you unconditionally. We have a long history and a lasting bond that can help us get through anything. Lately, I've been worried about you." Many people fear confronting someone who is having emotional problems or self-injuring, often fearing that such a confrontation could lead to the problem worsening or escalating to a suicide attempt. However, this is unlikely to be the case. This is not an easy conversation to have, but it is an important one. Talk frankly yet gently to the person about their self-harm. Your friend may be relieved to share their secrets. You do not have to try to sugar-coat your approach; just be clear and direct. You may say something like, "I have noticed some unusual scars on your body. Those, combined with the fact that you have seemed sad lately, have led me to worry that you are hurting yourself. Are you self-injuring?" It can be very difficult to hear someone you love talking about hurting themselves, but if you can get them to open up to you, you're more likely to be able to steer them towards getting help. Let them lead the conversation as much as possible; ask open questions, and let them say what he wants to say. Try to get the person to focus on the feelings rather than the cutting itself. . Remember that you are talking to the person to provide him with help and with an outlet for expressing his feelings. Do not judge, shame, criticize, or get angry. Yelling at them for their behaviour, threatening to not be friends, or making accusations about their behaviour may increase his risk of self-injuring behaviours. Tell the person that you want to understand what they are going through. Even if you can't fully understand it, showing that you wish to empathize can communicate how much you care. There are different reasons for causing self-harm, and the solutions for alleviating or offering alternatives for self-injury vary based on the reason for the self-harm. The most common broad reasons that individuals self-harm are: to express pain or other intense feelings to soothe themselves or feel better to make themselves feel less numb or disconnected to release anger or tension from their body
Summary: Prepare to talk to the self-injurer You should have a neutral environment without distractions. Tell the self-injurer that you care about them. Ask your friend if they are injuring themselves. Listen with an open mind. Show empathy in your conversation Identify why the person self-harms.

Problem: Article: Tap the shortcut on the Android phone's app screen and log into your account. If you don't have an account, you can create one by linking your Facebook account or or entering a valid e-mail address. Swipe right to open the Menu. From the Menu, select Channels. BBM needs you to verify the age you've entered when you create your Blackberry ID. If the date displayed is wrong, set it right; agree to the terms and conditions, and tap on Submit.
Summary: Open your Blackberry Messenger. Open the Menu. Verify your date of birth.

Problem: Article: Ensure that you get dried herbs for your soap. Some popular choices are lavender, chamomile, lemongrass, or oakmoss. Make sure you know who will be using your soap as some people may be more sensitive or even allergic to certain herbs. Each soap batch should use about a cup of dried herbs. While essential oils come from the roots, stems, flowers, and seeds of plants, their aroma can be artificially produced. Use about 15-20 drops of oil, or around a teaspoon, for a batch of this size. Cinnamon and cocoa powder create brown soap, powdered chlorophyll creates green, turmeric creates yellow, while beetroot makes an orange soap. Food coloring doesn't hold up well in soap so it's best to stick to natural colors.. Be aware that colors may change during the process, like magenta beet powder turning yellowish orange. Choose your materials based on their healing properties. For example, a lemon scent is said to aid concentration while calming and clarifying someone who feels angry, anxious, or worn out. Mix and match your ingredients for your desired effect. Lavender is said to aid with emotional stress while rosemary is said to give energy, improve memory, and fight exhaustion, headaches and mental fatigue.Cinnamon aids concentration and focus while peppermint is said to boost energy and increase concentration.
Summary: Pick up dried herbs from your local craft store or online. Get oils from your local craft store or online. Stick to natural colors rather than adding artificial coloring. Understand how aromatherapy works.

Problem: Article: Dig out the flesh, leaving a 1/2" (13 mm) thick layer on all sides. Use a potato peeler, a corkscrew or a paring knife. Screw the apple onto the top of the hose, and seal the connection with some plasticine. You can use a burning cigarette or other concentrated heat source to make the hole. The connection should be tight. If you see a gap between the plastic and the straw, then seal the gap with more plasticine. Cover it with foil, poke holes in the foil, light your coals and place the coals on the foil. Enjoy your homemade hookah.
Summary:
Cut the top 1/4 off of the apple. Poke a hole into the bottom of the apple. Cut a piece of garden hose to the desired length. Burn a hole into the side of a plastic bowl near the bottom. Insert a straw into the hole. Fill the fruit bowl with tobacco.