As sad as it is to believe, some praisers are merely doing so to set you up for a request or favor in the future. They've played into the concept that "flattery will get you everywhere" and may be complimenting you to win approval or even forgiveness for some wrongdoing. If a person continually lays on the praise, be wary of any demands they may ask of you in the future. False flattery is actually a disguised form of emotional manipulation: the person is buttering you up to get their way. Distance yourself from the person, if possible. If not, avoid letting them get their way with you. Whether you're delighted because you were recognized or secretly pissed because the person's adoration is dishonest, take time to feel what you're feeling. Don't ignore the way you are feeling, or this may begin to chip away at your self-esteem, especially if you do not do something to create boundaries with the person. Own your emotions, but don't let them get to your head. An insincere compliment can bring up feelings of shame or self-doubt. Give yourself a time-out if needed to collect yourself. Take a few deep breaths to cool off. Remind yourself of your positive traits, or call up an authentic friend who will help you see the positives. If someone thought you'd fall prey to false flattery, they may see you as lacking self-esteem. They assumed that by merely throwing a disingenuous compliment your way, you'd give in to their demands or view them favorably. If you tend to rollover after false praise, you may need to work on your confidence. Boost your self-esteem by making the most of accomplishments and failures. Use accomplishments to help you acknowledge and affirm your abilities. Use failure to help you pinpoint weaknesses for future growth. Stop comparing yourself to the people around you. This is a surefire way to make your confidence suffer. Know that you have something unique to offer the world that no one else can. Try something new. Developing and honing new skills can help you build self-efficacy and start to believe in your abilities. Go back to school and further your education. Or, ask your boss for some on-the-job training in a new area. Try reading a confidence boosting audiobook if your self-esteem becomes a constant problem for you and you begin taking things too personally. One good option is The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem by Dr. Nathaniel Branden.

Summary: Don't give in to any subsequent requests. Own your feelings. Boost your self-esteem.

Since a new pope is usually only chosen every few decades, it is important to be prepared. Make sure that you are in communication with the members of the College of Cardinals. By now you should have established a good professional reputation. As conclave approaches, continue working to demonstrate that you would make a positive public figure. In the days following the funeral of the pope, the cardinals gather to prepare for conclave. This is where "politicking" occurs. Try to assess who your supporters are. Make it clear to the other cardinals that you are willing to accept the nomination. The official process for electing a pope is known as "conclave". The governing group of cardinals, known as the College of Cardinals, gather together to chose a new pope. This group gathers in the Sistine Chapel. All others are barred from entry. "Conclave" in latin means "locked with a key" literally. Typically, the current must die in order for conclave to convene. It is extremely rare for a pope to resign. The cardinals gather 15-20 days after the death of the pope to conduct a secret ballot. Only the cardinals are allowed in the chapel. There are a few exceptions, such as medical personnel. Each cardinal must take a solemn oath that he will adhere to the rules of conclave, as written by Pope John Paul II. After the first day of conclave, two votes may be taken each morning, and two each afternoon. It is not considered appropriate to "campaign" for pope. However, being a well-known and respected cardinal is a job only a select few hold. There are usually only a small group of candidates considered at conclave. The man with the most votes is elected as the new pope. There are three phases to the actual voting process: pre-scrutiny, where the ballots are prepared; scrutiny, where the ballots are collected and counted; and post-scrutiny, where the ballots are checked again and then burned. Conclave can last several days, but generally does not last longer than two weeks. A cardinal must receive 2/3 of the votes in order to be elected pope. After each vote, the ballots are burned. If black smoke is seen coming from the chapel, it means there will be another vote. White smoke signals the election of a new pope. The pope is the spiritual leader of the Catholic people of the world. Currently, there are approximately 1.2 billion Catholics. Since 1929, the pope is also the head of the world's smallest sovereign state, The Vatican. The pope presides over a weekly blessing for people visiting the Vatican. He also offers a general audience each week. The pope presides over all major religious celebrations, such as Christmas and Easter. Modern popes travel around the world, meeting Catholics and world leaders.

Summary: Prepare for nomination. Understand conclave. Get the most votes. Perform your duties.

If you suspect that the air quality in your home is poor, you should hire a professional who can test the air quality and give you an informed recommendation. Ask friends, realtors, or construction companies for referrals to a qualified specialist in your area. A professional will be able to test for degraded air due to: Indoor mold Lead-based paint Dust particles and other allergens Smoke-related air pollution Air fresheners, candles, and incense Household cleaners Combustion particles or gases If you suspect that you have significant levels of radon in your home, you'll need to hire a professional to resolve the issue. You can contact your state or local health department for a list of recommended professionals who can help clear the radon out of your home. You can also use the Environmental Protection Agency's interactive map to find a qualified radon professional in your area: https://www.epa.gov/radon/find-information-about-local-radon-zones-and-state-contact-information If you are buying or selling a home, often testing the air for pollutants is a contingency of the loan you will be applying for. This is especially true in regions that have high levels of air pollution due to industry or even natural causes (like the common occurrence of forest fires). In these cases, at-home tests that you complete yourself will not be sufficient. Hire a professional that has experience testing air quality in homes, preferably one that is recommended by your realtor, lender, or home inspector. If you don't have a recommendation for a professional, try to do some online research by reading online reviews from actual customers of various professionals in your areas. You can also check a prospective professional for certifications in the field such as membership in the Indoor Air Quality Association or the International Association of Certified Indoor Air Consultants.
Summary: Pay a professional to test the air quality in your home. Hire a radon specialist to test for radon in your home. Use a professional test if you need an official test result.