Write an article based on this "Let your parents know that you will be as supportive as you can. Keep in mind prior experiences. Don't encourage aggressive legal behavior. Ask how you can help. Ask if you and/or your siblings need to attend meetings with attorneys or financial planners. Suggest that your parents revise their wills, medical powers of attorney, etc. Discuss with your parents any medical wishes or other long term care details that would have previously been the decision of the spouse. Discuss holiday plans, events for the grandchildren and other family gatherings with your siblings. Plan a trip or vacation with one or both of your parents that may allow them to try something new."
article: However, make it clear that you don't want to feel pressured to take sides. Ask your parents to refrain from making disparaging comments about your other parent. However, since you are older and less impressionable, this may not be as big of an issue. You'll need to work this out for yourself. Discuss this approach with your siblings. Remember that previous divorces, especially where there were custody battles, may have made your parents bitter and offensive about the divorce process. They may have experienced divorce as children, and therefore have certain worries and fears about their own divorce based on that childhood experience. Ask your siblings to do the same. Ask that everyone remain calm and accepting of what is happening; remind people that this intimate relationship is between two people and as much as all of you might want things to be different, it is inappropriate for any of you to goad your parents into legal spats. You may be needed to help sort and move property. You may be needed for moral support. You and your siblings may need to help a parent arrange for lawn care, help with laundry, etc. if that was something your other parent maintained. After divorce, the status of these documents changes and they must be updated for the protection of all concerned. Your parents may have avoided that conversation with you since you were the child and assumed the spouse would take care of those arrangements. Find out where your parents want to be buried. Ask if there are family burial plots that have been purchased. If the divorce will exclude a parent from the plot ask the parent where he/she would like to be buried. If either parent has medical problems you should try to attend a doctor's appointment with that parent. Get an understanding of the condition, the medications and make sure the doctor's office changes the next of kin listed on the file. Make sure you spend time with each parent and do your best not to exclude the other parent from holiday plans or other events. Perhaps move family gatherings to your home or siblings house instead of your parents' home. If you do visit a parent who doesn't cook, offer to cook something there or make it potluck. Consider having your mother over for lunch on a holiday and your father over for dinner.

Write an article based on this "Remove all of the clothes from your closet. Decide which clothes you will keep. Decide which clothes you will store. Decide which clothes you will donate or throw out. Clean the inside of the closet."
article: Take all of your clothes off their hangers and out of any bins or drawers in your closet. Fold them in piles on the floor or on your bed. This includes your shoes as well. It may also include other accessories such as belts, scarves, purses, or ties. You may have the urge to keep everything, or toss everything. But go through systematically and piece by piece to really scrutinize your clothing. What you want in your closet are clothes that you wear on a regular basis, that fit you and are functional, and fit in the space available. Does the item fit? Clothing in the closet should fit you properly, neither too loose nor too tight. It typically means it is comfortable, not pinching, clothing can button easily, and no red marks left on the skin. It may also mean letting go of items no longer in fashion, such as skin tight skirts you really should not wear to your professional job. It is usually best to let go of "inspirational items" such as the jeans you hope to someday fit back into; trends being what they are the item may well be out of fashion when you do lose the weight. One pair of "fat pants" may be OK to remind you of your weight loss accomplishment. If your weight is fluctuating up or down (such as in growing young adults, pregnant women, or dieters) this may be tricky. Still, get rid or store items that clearly do not fit you. Do I wear this? Have you worn the item in the last year? How often do you wear it: once a week or only once this year? If you have not worn the item in a long time, that may well indicate it is time to let go. Special use items may be OK to keep even if used only periodically. You might have a Christmas sweater, or interview outfit, or formal dress that isn't used often but still worth having available. Do I like this? If you really don't like an item, do not keep it. In general, do not hang onto items out of guilt--such as that shirt your father bought you but you just do not like. Do I have multiples of this? Work or school uniforms are one thing. But if you have seven black almost identical t-shirts, that might be a sign to let go of a few. Make a "Keep" pile for the clothes that you will keep and wear on a regular basis. You should store the clothes that you won't be wearing for a while because they aren't seasonally appropriate. If it's the middle of summer, you can store your winter sweaters and scarves, and if it's the dead of winter, you can store your tank tops and summer dresses. You can also store clothes that may have sentimental value for you, such as a shirt your grandmother knitted for you, or an old t-shirt from your high school tennis team that no longer fits. Try to keep the sentimental value clothes to a minimum, though. Clothes are meant to be worn, after all. Consider displaying beloved clothing instead of keeping them in your closet. Consider framing your prized concert T-shirt, or creating a shadow box of your Boy Scout uniform and awards, or make a T-shirt quilt of your old marathon shirts. When you're done sorting through the clothes you will store, put them in a plastic bin or a clear bag marked keep. You can either store them in the back of your closet, under your bed, or in a storage unit or a different part of your home if you have the room. This is the hardest step, and the most important. If you want to have a truly organized closet, then your goal should be to get rid of as many items of clothing as possible. This doesn't mean you should throw out your favorite things - however, it does mean that you should take a long hard look to ask yourself which clothes you will actually ever wear again. If you haven't worn something in over a year and it has no sentimental value, it's time to donate it. If you have an item that is so worn, covered in moth holes, or faded that you and anyone else will never wear it again, then it's time to throw it out. If you have a few items of clothing that are just way too small, stop waiting for the day that they will fit and donate them. Donate all of the clothes you don't need that are in good condition, or give them to a sibling or friend. You should do this before you put back your clothes. Vacuum or sweep the floor, wipe the walls down with all-purpose cleaner, and sweep away any cobwebs that may have accumulated there. If you want to make any changes, such as painting the inside a different color or adding and removing some shelves, do it now.

Write an article based on this "Allow your partner time to process. Do not attempt to control your partner's reaction. Be there when your partner needs you. Trust your partner."
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Relationships are complicated things. Adding another person (or more) to the mix, even if temporarily, takes time to process. You're partner will need to dissect the things that they learn in this conversation. Give them time to do this without pressuring them. When you have the "I cheated talk" you may have a certain outcome in mind. Your partner may feel differently, and that's okay. You have to allow your partner to decide for themselves how they will react to your cheating. You can only be honest, you cannot decide how your honesty is received. Keep in mind that your partner does NOT have the right to react violently or to abuse you because of your cheating. If you wish to continue the relationship and your partner needs time to process, you should be there when they are ready to talk. If your partner needs you to be attentive, do it. Treat your partner like you do genuinely want to continue the relationship and that you do regret the cheating. All too often we allow ourselves to project our guilt onto other people. If you have cheated on your partner, you'll likely feel insecure thinking that they will now do the same to you. Do not accuse your partner of anything without good (really good) reason. They should not be the victim of your self-inflicted guilt.