Multi-choice problem: Continue writing the next sentence in this paragraph:

How to be lovable
Understand that you determine how other people will see you.
If you see yourself as ultimately unlovable that's going to influence people into thinking that you're unlovable. It's important, first and foremost, to see yourself as lovable, because you are lovable.

Select from:
(a). Expecting people to find you lovable if you don't find yourself lovable is putting way too much pressure on other people. It also takes the control out of your hands and puts it into the hands of other people, who may or may not be good enough for that.
(b). That means if you really make it a point to stand up for yourself and put others before yourself you will see your flaws as flaws. Being lovable doesn't mean accepting challenges or being shut down by others without your own best effort.
(c). Learn to identify the negative qualities of others, and make a point of being positively matched to those qualities. This isn't an easy task, but it's certainly still something you can do, for a lot of people, even if you're a mean person.
(d). Your behaviors, attitudes, life factors, your traits, and whatever you're trying to see actually influence people who you are. People want to be friends with you, and don't ask for how long, or how badly.
(a).