Problem: Article: Help the teen come up with a healthy way to deal with all of the "firsts", such as the first Christmas or the first birthday without their parent. Come up with a plan for these days so they know what to expect. Include the teen when planning the day. Allow the teen to talk about or not talk about their parent that day, whichever they feel like doing. Follow their lead in how much they want to talk about it. Don't be afraid to try something new, especially if a special day didn't go well in the past. If you knew their parent when they were younger or outside their home environment, share these stories with the teen. It will be refreshing for the teen to remember how many great experiences their parent had in their lifetime. Share as many happy memories as possible. For example, you might tell the teen about the time you and their deceased parent went ice skating and fell ten times. You might also tell them about the first time you met their parent. Encourage the teen to share these memories with you, too. This will help them feel connected to their deceased parent as they work through the grief. It will also give them a chance to think about their parent in a happy way as opposed to being focused on the death. Prompt stories by saying things like "Do you remember that time you and your parents went to the art museum?" You can also encourage them to write or express their feelings and stories in other artistic ways. This can include creating a memorial to them, planting a garden, writing a poem, or donating to a charity in their honor. This can help the teen feel as though their parent's importance lives on.
Summary: Understand that special days will be difficult. Share your memories about their parent. Help them to remember the good times with their parent. Ask if there is a way the teen would like to honor their parent.

Problem: Article: The best time to throw a St. Lucia Day party is immediately after a procession, but if there is no procession in your area, just schedule it for the evening of December 13th. You can host a party in your home, a restaurant, a church, or your local Swedish cultural association--it's up to you and your budget! If you are outside Sweden, it would be appropriate to invite members of the local Swedish community, especially if they are participating in a local procession. Otherwise, you can simply invite your own family and friends. Since St. Lucia Day is so close to Christmas, it would be a good idea to send out invitations several weeks in advance to be sure people can come. St. Lucia's colors are red and white, but you could also decorate with the Swedish flag. You can use crepe paper, bunting, and tablecloths in red and white. Most Christmas decorations would also be appropriate for St. Lucia Day, especially decorations with evergreens or candles. On St. Lucia Day, it's traditional to serve a St. Lucia Crown Cake--usually a round coffee cake with seven candles placed in a circle on it. Adults traditionally drink glogg, a type of mulled wine, and you can serve coffee or lingonberry juice for non-drinkers. You can also serve traditional Swedish foods like meatballs, gingerbread cookies, and buns. If there is a St. Lucia procession in your area, it is traditional for participants to sing St. Lucia Day songs at parties afterwards. If not, you can play recordings of St. Lucia Day songs and other traditional Swedish music.
Summary: Choose a time and location. Invite your guests. Decorate for the holiday. Serve traditional Swedish foods. Arrange traditional entertainment.

Problem: Article: Heat the pan on the stove over medium to medium-high heat. Give the pan several minutes to become sufficiently hot. To check the temperature, sprinkle a small amount of water into the pan. If the water immediately sizzles once it comes into contact with the pan, your pan is hot enough. Tap the egg on your counter or the side of your pan to gently crack the shell. Break the egg open, dropping it directly into the pan. Cook one egg at a time to prevent the whites from running together. {"smallUrl":"https:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/images\/thumb\/0\/05\/Cook-Eggs-Step-25Bullet1.jpg\/v4-459px-Cook-Eggs-Step-25Bullet1.jpg","bigUrl":"\/images\/thumb\/0\/05\/Cook-Eggs-Step-25Bullet1.jpg\/aid2959041-v4-728px-Cook-Eggs-Step-25Bullet1.jpg","smallWidth":460,"smallHeight":306,"bigWidth":"728","bigHeight":"485","licensing":"<div class="mw-parser-output"><p>License: <a rel="nofollow" class="external text" href="https:\/\/creativecommons.org\/licenses\/by-nc-sa\/3.0\/">Creative Commons<\/a><br>
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Summary:
Coat a frying pan with nonstick cooking spray. Break each egg into the frying pan. Let the whites set on one side. Flip each egg and continue cooking. Serve.