" Selena Gomez will have occasional meet-and-greet events. These events are specifically planned out for the purpose of bringing her together with her fans. If you want to meet her in a setting that will allow you to talk to her for a few minutes, this might be your best option. You can check on currently scheduled events by visiting the "Events" or "Tour" section of her official website. While these events are often listed on her website, other sources (Disney, various radio stations, etc.) may sponsor such events as well. The most common way to see Selena Gomez in person is to go to one of her concerts when her tour stops in a nearby city. While there is no guarantee that you will be able to meet her face-to-face, there might be a brief period after the concert ends during which she can meet a few fans from the audience. The odds are against you when you attempt this method. If you go to one of her concerts, do so with the primary objective of attending the concert and watching her perform. Meeting her can be a secondary goal but you should not count on it. A list of her current tour dates can be found under the "Events" page of her website. Checking her website for public events will only provide you with the same chance of meeting her that any other fan has. Radio stations that play her music may occasionally sponsor contests that would allow the winner to meet her. Make sure that you're listening to radio stations that play her music. Stations that play a different genre of music will not offer such contests because they would not appeal to their general audience. Listen to the contest rules before you call in. Some contests require contestants to be 18 years of age or older. If you are not 18 years old you may need an adult to enter on your behalf. Every so often the Disney Channel will announce a contest through which you can meet one of your favorite affiliated stars. Given the rarity and unpredictability of these contests, it could take a long time before there is a contest that would allow you to meet Selena Gomez. You can also monitor current Disney Channel events by following its social media accounts. Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DisneyChannel Twitter: https://twitter.com/Disneychannel

Summary: Wait for an official "meet and greet. Monitor her other tours and events. Listen to the radio. Watch the Disney Channel.

If you find it difficult to be around the annoying person often, you may need to set boundaries so you do not end up getting too emotionally involved. Setting boundaries for yourself is an important coping mechanism and will ensure you are not put in situations where you might come into conflict with the person. You may try to limit the amount of time you spend with the person, such as only chatting to them briefly in the morning at work and leaving the office for lunch. Or you may only answer their calls or texts when you have free time rather than answering them right away. You may also try to remain calm and detached when they speak to in meetings or social situations where you cannot excuse yourself. Doing this can set up personal boundaries for you to help you cope with the person's irritating nature. For example, if the annoying person starts talking too loudly at a family dinner, you may try to stay detached and focus on something else in your mind. This will allow you to block out the person and stay calm. You should also focus on the positive when you are around the person and try not to let their mood dampen yours. Being positive and proactive, rather than angry and reactive may discourage the person from trying to annoy you or bother you. One way you can appear positive is by maintaining open body language. This means maintaining eye contact with the person and nodding to show them you are not fazed by them. You should also keep your arms relaxed and by your sides. Avoid responding to the person with a passive aggressive comment or a snide remark. Instead, say something simple and polite like, "Thank you for sharing that with me" or "Sounds great." If you are unable to handle being around the annoying person, despite trying to remain positive, you may want to avoid being around the person. Keep your distance and look for ways to avoid spending time with the person. Sometimes the best way to cope is to separate yourself from the person and take some time away from them. You may try to keep your distance for a set period of time so that you have some space away from the person. Maybe you skip a family get together to take a small break from hanging out with the person. Or maybe you try to choose assignments at work that do not involve the person so you can have some space away from them.

Summary: Set boundaries. Try to remain positive. Stay away from the person.

Girls spend the days before prom pampering themselves and you should do the same. Make an appointment for you and your friends to get your hair cut at your local barber. You might also spring for a straight razor shave if you feel like you need it. Make your hair appointment for the morning of your prom. Plan to spend an hour getting yourself prom appropriate. Take a shower, brush your teeth, comb your hair and put on your tuxedo. Put on your tuxedo in the following order: tuxedo shirt (followed by cufflinks and studs), pants, shoes, vest, cummerbund, bowtie and jacket. If you have additional accessories, like suspenders, don't forget to put those on as well. Ask your mom or dad to help you tie your bowtie. Make sure you have everything you need: check for tickets, the corsage, cash and mints. If you're going to an after-prom party, you may also want to bring clothes to change into. Arrive on time (and in a clean car)! Expect that your date will still be preparing, so take some time to make small talk with her parents. When your date walks in, compliment her, then slip the corsage on her wrist. Make sure you pose for any pictures your date's parents want. Thank her parents before leaving and make sure you're clear on what time your date is supposed to be back home. Pictures will either happen at your date's house or, if you're going with a group, at a friend's house. Be cooperative and smile for all the pictures. And make sure you thank the host before leaving. When posing, place your arm behind the small of your date's back and let your hand rest on her waist. Take some goofy pictures too. This is a big milestone, so have fun with it.
Summary: Get a haircut. Dress for prom. Pick up your date. Take your pre-prom pictures.