Q: An Aries man needs to feel free and independent, so he might not always invite you to take part in his latest and greatest adventure. Try not to hold him back, though. A clingy woman is a turn-off for most Aries men. Try not to be too discouraged if it seems like he would prefer a night out with the guys rather than with you. An Aries man is not likely to beat around the bush and drop hints that things are over; if he loses interest, he will be honest about it. As such, you needn't worry that his sudden interest in hanging out with friends is a subtle indication that things are over between you. Many Aries men have a tendency to be extremely bossy and do not appreciate being told what to do. In other words, you will need to let him take the lead most of the time. If you want to have your way in the relationship, you need to suggest things in a way that can allow your sweetheart to claim credit for it later. Unfortunately, many Aries men have wandering eyes. They might flirt with other women they meet regardless of whether or not the two of you are an official item. This might tempt you to keep him home or latch onto him when you head out, but doing so is more likely to drive him away than keep him looking in your direction. If his eyes do start to roam, skip the direct confrontation and focus on making him look back in your direction, instead. Try making eyes at another guy and letting your Aries man catch you doing so. His competitive nature will kick in and he will invest his energy back into wooing you. If an Aries man feels smothered by your attention, he may lose interest. On the other hand, if you challenge him to hold your attention instead of worrying about keeping his, he will probably respond to the challenge more than adequately. It is important, however, to let him ultimately win once he accepts the challenge. Act disinterested at first, but once he starts trying to get your focus back on him, let him know that his efforts are working.
A: Let him do his own thing. Be easygoing. Resist the temptation to fence him in. Challenge him to win your attention.

Q: Any compliment you say, you have to absolutely mean. Girls will always be able to tell if you don't mean it. They may not call you on it, but they'll know and it will make them feel awful and awkward. This is the main key to being able to compliment girls without offending or upsetting them. If you respect them as people, as valuable human beings with worthwhile opinions, feelings, hopes and dreams, who are capable of doing everything that you can do, then any compliment that comes out of your mouth will probably be fine. If you're still worried, think about how the compliment would make you feel. Don't just look at the surface of the compliment...think about the things that she worries about and the experiences she's had. Think about what the compliment could mean if taken out of context. Think about how you would feel if someone you didn't know said that to you. If it would make you feel uncomfortable, it'll probably make her uncomfortable too. You need to compliment her at appropriate times, like when you're on a date, or you're having a conversation related to what you want to compliment her on. This also means pairing what you want to compliment her on with the situation that you're in. This is very important, as doing this in the wrong situation can be very demeaning. For example, don't compliment her on her physical appearance after she's just given a presentation (unless it's to say that she looked fierce and was commanding the whole room). Instead compliment her on her hard work, her great way of phrasing the information, or her clear intelligence shown in how she put the presentation together. Complimenting her physical appearance in this situation would be demeaning, but complimenting her work is empowering. You don't always have to say a compliment for it to come across loud and clear. A very effective way to compliment her can be to show your compliment in how you react to something that she's done or said. For example, if she's just worked very hard on something, you can compliment her hard work by treating her to a relaxing back massage. Another example would be that if she does something really nice for someone, do something really nice for her, like making her dinner. These actions can also be ways to introduce a spoken compliment, by telling her why you're doing what you're doing. If she doesn't respond to your compliment in the way that you'd like, don't be a jerk or think (or tell her!) that she's stuck up or thinks too highly of herself. This only proves to her that you were complimenting her for your own sake rather than hers. Instead, tell her calmly that she doesn't have to believe you but that you meant it sincerely and you hope she takes it for what it is. Leave her alone after that. This is most common when complimenting girls you don't know. Girls you do know will probably modestly reject a compliment because they are frequently conditioned to do so, at which point you can simply emphasize that you really mean it or think it, or just straight-up tell her not to be so modest.
A: Be sincere. Be respectful. Think about how the compliment would make you feel. Compliment at appropriate times. Show your compliment in your actions. Accept rejection respectfully.

Q: You might want to ask the seller or salesperson questions like, "Does this car have any issues you know about?" If you're dealing with a private seller, you might ask, "Why are you selling the car?" The answers may help you learn more about the car and what you can expect if you buy it. Sites like Carfax and AutoCheck are useful for searching vehicle history reports. Just enter the vehicle identification number to find information regarding a specific car. This information can help you piece together a more comprehensive picture of the car's history, including who the previous owners were and whether the vehicle has any liens against it. Check the car's odometer, too. Vehicle history reports should show an odometer reading that is less than its current reading. There are a number of elements that you should check before buying a used car with cash. For instance, pop the hood and look for leaky or oil-splattered engine parts. Check the tires. If they're bald, express your concern and ask the seller if they would consider fitting the car with new tires before you purchase it. If the seller disallows such an inspection, it is likely because the car has some hidden problem. If your independent mechanic finds a problem with the vehicle, bring it to the attention of the seller. If they say they didn't know about it (and if the issue is not a deal breaker for you), use the issue in your negotiations later to obtain a lower price for the vehicle. If the car is a certified pre-owned vehicle, it has already been inspected and has a warranty, so there is no reason to take it to a mechanic. Giving the used car a test drive is the best way to determine if it really is the car for you. During your test drive, evaluate the car's performance. Ensure that the seats are comfortable and easily adjustable. Test the heat, air conditioning, headlights, and blinkers. Determine the ease of driving. The brakes and steering wheel should be responsive. Look for warning lights on the dash panel. Check for blind spots by adjusting the rear-view mirror and side mirrors appropriately. If your test drive doesn't go well, consider refocusing your energies on buying a different car on your list. Vehicle service records will show when the car was last serviced, and when it ought to be serviced again. If the car has missed a tire rotation or oil change, insist on that the seller provide one before you purchase the vehicle. Private sellers probably won't have vehicle service records on hand. Get the car looked over by a mechanic to ensure that it is in good condition.
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Ask the seller questions about the car's performance and history. Check vehicle history reports to learn more about the car. Look the car over. Have the vehicle inspected by an independent mechanic. Test-drive the car. Ask to see service records.