In one sentence, describe what the following article is about: You need to pay attention not only to their words but also to their attitude and body language. Be aware when something seems to be bothering them. Try to avoid taking it personally when they are in a bad mood; chances are, it has nothing to do with you. Therefore, you should avoid making the situation worse by being rude or angry in return. Some people simply do not like to show vulnerability, and there is nothing wrong with that. However, this also means that they might not be immediately forthcoming about what the issue is. Gently inquire about what is bothering them. You might say, "I can tell that you've got a lot on your mind. Would you like to talk about it?" Another example of what you could say is, "You seem down today. How can I help?" If your partner does not want to talk about the issue right away, then respect that decision. They will come to you about it when they are ready. while they talk. When they are ready to share with you, take the time to listen carefully to what they are saying.Validate their feelings and give cues that you are actively listening: Avoid interrupting. Talk when they give you the opportunity or when they ask you a question. Repeat back what they said in brief summaries when given the opportunity: "I heard you say that..." or "I understand that you felt..." Maintain eye contact while they talk. Show concern in your facial expression. Ask questions about what they shared. You are obviously unique individuals, no matter how much you may have in common. When you help they through issues, it will be helpful to try to view the issue from their perspective. Pinpoint what about the issue upsets them, if they do not or cannot identify it. Understand why this problem upsets them. Figure out how they might solve this problem based on their personality. Be supportive and gently guide them along the right path if you realize that they are actually in the wrong in the situation. Once they have shared the issue and gotten it off of their chest, think of realistic solutions to offer that will help the situation. Try asking "Are you looking for suggestions, or do you just want to vent?" if you aren't sure whether your partner is open to advice. Suggest solutions that will not further aggravate the situation. For example, if they are upset about an argument they had with a coworker, do not suggest something like playing a prank on the coworker to get revenge. Offer to help however you can. They may or may not want your help, and it is important that you respect that. They are independent and is capable of doing things on their own. Simply offer to be there for they as a listening ear and shoulder to cry on, if there is not much that you can do to help with a solution. It might turn out that your partner is upset about something that you did or said. When they have shared this with you, it would be helpful to apologize. Every situation is different. It may be the case that you stand by what you said or did and do not feel the need to apologize, and they deserve an explanation of why. However, if you had no idea that what you said or did upset they that much and genuinely feel badly about that, apologizing is necessary. You can also apologize even if the situation has nothing to do with you: "I'm sorry that this happened to you. I'll be by your side to support you however I can."
Summary: Recognize when something is bothering them. Give them the opportunity to express their feelings. Listen carefully View the situation from your partner's perspective. Offer realistic solutions. Apologize if necessary.

If you're a guy walk with your chest out a little bit, not in a ridiculous way, but in a way that makes you look power. Keep your eyes up and your chin up. This is a confident walk and will make you look cool. Don't mix up being cool with being aloof. You can be extremely friendly and mysterious at the same time. You don't need to constantly reveal things about yourself. Just be friendly to those around you! Smile and wave at people in the hallway. The more that people know you, the more cool people will think you are. If you smile at people, they'll want to get to know you. You're not in the military, relax a little bit. It's considered nerdy to have a perfect posture all the time. Slouch in your desk and put your feet out in front of you. You don't have to do this all the time, but it will help you look nonchalant. If you really want to take it to the next level you can put your hands behind your head too. It's always cool to lean up against things - the cool guys do it all the time in movies. If you're talking to a girl or guy in the lunch line try leaning up against the wall with your shoulder while you keep eye contact with them. Super cool.
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One-sentence summary -- Walk confidently. Smile. Don't always sit up straight. Lean up against things.

Problem: Article: It's imperative that you talk to your subject in a way that calms and relaxes him or her . Practice speaking slowly, with some rhythm and melody and no harsh or discordant tones. Use this as an opportunity to practice your script; if you struggle with what you want to say during induction it will break the subject's focus. You also should not sound like you're reading off a script. Practice will help you sound natural. You will want to make sure that he or she is relaxed. Inform him or her that you might touch him or her lightly, so that he or she is not surprised in a way that would cause him or her to break focus. If your subject is wearing a skirt, give her a blanket to put over her legs so that she does not need to worry about the way she positions herself. Similarly, tell your subject that is okay if he or she coughs or moves. If he or she is struggling to suppress a biological function, it will likely break his focus. Similarly, tell him or her to keep his or her legs uncrossed, otherwise he or she might get caught up by repositioning his or her legs. If he or she is wearing glasses, have him or her remove them. A distinct sense of fear will prevent him from falling into hypnosis. You want to let him know what you will not be able to manipulate them and that he will not be endangered by the hypnosis. Simply indicate "This is a perfectly safe procedure. You will enter into a state of increased relaxation and focus, but you will be in control the entire time." Always begin by asking if he r she is ready to be hypnotized. Establishing consent is important for ensuring that he or she is mentally ready and should calm him or her as well. A simple, "Do you agree to be hypnotized?" should be sufficient Hypnotic subjects need to be willing to engage in the procedure and psychologically susceptible. Studies have shown that approximately 80% of subjects are moderately susceptible, 10% are highly susceptible, and another 10% have low susceptibility. Susceptibility is positively correlated to how well the subject is prone to fantasy and empathy. His or her ability to focus while, for example, reading, also correlates to susceptibility. It is often thought that hypnosis is easier in a relaxing environment with few external sounds or distractions. While this sort of hypnosis certainly won't hurt, some studies indicate that hypnosis is equally as easy to reach in disturbing settings
Summary:
Practice speaking in a soothing tone. Prepare your subject mentally and physically. Tell your subject that he or she has nothing to worry about. Ask for permission. Beware that not all people respond the same way.