Q: In order to begin to solve an argument, you first need to understand what happened and develop some hypotheses about why it happened. This is crucial because you cannot solve a problem if you don't know what the problem is! Having a plan is one way to approach the situation with a clear head to reduce more arguments. Begin by looking at what happened from your perspective and thinking rationally about it. Use both your rational mind and your emotional mind, but try to look at the situation objectively. Let's say you found out that your friend was talking negatively about you behind your back. Think about all of the specifics of the situation. How did you find out? What did the person say? How did you handle it? In order to analyze the issue, it can be helpful to identify what led to the issue and what happened afterwards. Identify the Antecedent (what happened before the conflict), Behavior (what you did) and Consequence (what happened as a result of the behavior). Let's imagine that the conflict began by you finding out that your friend is talking behind your back (antecedent), and then you confronted your friend which turned into a verbal argument (behavior). Next, you and your friend stopped talking to each other for a week (consequence). Know that some arguments are okay; not all arguments are bad. It is okay to disagree with your friends sometimes, and argue or debate about a topic. It is how you go about arguing that is important; each person needs to be respectful and neither should be aggressive. Try to analyze your own behaviors and thoughts about the situation. Think about the possibility of looking at the situation differently and taking on another perspective. This can help you gain clarity about the conflict and understand how you can attempt to solve it. For example, you could commit to your friend that you will do something better the next time a similar situation occurs. One way of doing things differently is thinking differently. For example, if someone told you your friends was talking negatively about you, is it possible that this isn't true? Another way of doings things differently is changing your actions. If you confronted your friend about what you heard, can you identify a better way you could have approached the situation? Were you really mad when you tried to resolve the conflict? Did you say something you regret? Analyze how your friend responded to the argument. This can help you to gather your thoughts so that when you talk to your friend about the situation you can be specific about what you'd like her to change. Gather some ideas about what hurt your feelings or made the situation more difficult for you. For example, perhaps your friend called you a bad name and cursed at you, and this made you feel sad and angry. Identify specifically what your friend could have done differently. For example, if your friend cursed at you, perhaps she could have lowered her voice, spoken calmly, and used words that were not hurtful or aggressive.
A: Admit what went wrong. Commit to change your actions. Plan to express what made you upset.

Q: Place your flower order (if desired) and pick up any goods friends or neighbors have offered to lend -- CDs? Baskets? Cake dishes or punch bowls? Tea trays? Sound equipment? A pre-rolled red carpet? Make a grocery list for the food and drinks. Buy any hard-to-find ingredients now in case you foresee having any trouble. Grab the alcohol now, too, if you're having cocktails. As long as it's meaningful, it doesn't have to be large -- especially since you're throwing her the dang party! If she's a bit on the OCD side, ask the other bridesmaids and attendants what they've gotten her. They may have valuable input or you could join forces to purchase a larger gift. You could always offer to pay for part of the honeymoon! Hey, that's one less gift to open in the stream of gifts that will dominate (and possibly put the snooze button on) the party. Finally, a moment for you! Since you're the hostess, you have to look good, too! Here's the excuse to buy that new dress you've been looking at.
A: Take care of the basic details. Buy your gift for the bride. Pick out your outfit.

Q: VPNs route your browser traffic through a server other than your local one, which makes it impossible for your Internet Service Provider (ISP) to see your browsing history. Things to look for in a VPN include the following: On an HTTPS site - Never download browser security software from a site whose URL doesn't begin in "https"; unencrypted (non-HTTPS) sites make it easy for other people to steal your information. Based outside of the United States - VPN servers based outside of the United States aren't subject to US guidelines, meaning they can't be forced to expose users in the event of an investigation. Multiple-device support - Protecting your computer won't do anything for your mobile phone or tablet. Find a VPN that has an iOS and/or Android extension as well to stay protected across all of your devices. Keep in mind that, when it comes to sponsored content, you may not get an honest review for a paid spot in a list. Some things you might compare are ratings across multiple sites, performance, overall security, and price. You can find trustworthy VPN comparisons on https://thatoneprivacysite.net/simple-vpn-comparison-chart/ and on https://privacytoolsio.github.io/privacytools.io/#vpn/. For specific VPNs, try AirVPN (https://airvpn.org/) and BlackVPN (https://www.blackvpn.com/). Some sites, such as CNET, will provide download mirrors for sponsored or preferred software. Unless there is no other place to download the VPN and you're positive of the download link's validity, refrain from downloading your VPN from anywhere but the official site. Again, if the site isn't HTTPS-encrypted, don't download a VPN from it. Most VPNs are paid options, so you'll likely need to pay before downloading. Consider using PayPal to pay instead of a credit or debit card. Some VPNs simply interface with your preferred browser, while others necessitate installing the program to your computer and activating it before browsing. VPNs don't automatically make all of your browsing private, since non-HTTPS sites can still pull information from your browser and publicly display it. To get the most out of your VPN, stick to well-encrypted sites and refrain from giving out your information. Half of the privacy battle comes from choosing to stay anonymous while using encrypted services. If you enter your email address, use Facebook "Like" buttons on other sites, or perform other identifying actions, your VPN won't necessarily prevent that information from being viewed by other people.
A: Search for a VPN online. Compare your options. Download your selected VPN from its official site. Install your VPN if needed. Use your VPN in conjunction with HTTPS sites.

Q: It's usually at the bottom-left corner of the screen. This displays a list of computers that are a part of the network. A list of shared folders on the selected computer will now appear.
A:
Right-click the menu. Click File Explorer. Scroll down the left column and click Network. Double-click the computer where you want to see shared folders.