In essence, he should see that you want him without feeling as though you need him. Show him that you're comfortable with who you are and capable of taking care of yourself. Avoid apologizing for every little thing or acting notably nervous and uncomfortable. You may not be the most outgoing person ever, but as long as you seem comfortable with who you are, your confidence can show through. While it isn't strictly necessary, it also helps if you can support yourself. A man with a stable lifestyle probably seems more enticing to you; similarly, a woman with a stable lifestyle usually seems more enticing to a man. It should be obvious to him that you want him around, but at the same time, you also need to let him have some personal space and time away from you. Let him spend time with his buddies without pressuring him to invite you along. If he's in a bad mood, let him know that you're more than willing to listen and help, but don't force him to talk about his feelings at that exact moment. Give him some space to cool down on his own. You don't need to have a bubbly personality, but you should let him see you as someone who loves life. Doing so will allow him to perceive you as someone who is pleasant to be around, thereby making him want to be around you even more. Gravitate toward positive topics of conversation, like a pleasant memory or funny story about the day's events. See the humor in things and laugh off the little annoyances. Instead of getting seriously angry about the way your frustrating co-worker treated you, convey the story humorously and brush it off as "no big deal" at the end. Laugh a lot when you're with him. Try new things and show him that you like to have fun. If your personality is naturally serious, you can show him that you love life by simply approaching the things you enjoy with passion and zeal. Let him know that you really care about him by listening to him and taking an active interest in the happenings of his life. People feel flattered and cared about when someone takes an interest in them. A guy is also more likely to reciprocate that interest when you demonstrate it first. If you're getting to know a new man, ask him about his family, his job, his hobbies, his dreams, and his life in general. When you're trying to enchant a man you've known for a long time, demonstrate your continued interest by asking him about his day and his present state of mind. Make sure that you honestly listen to him, too. If you aren't paying attention, it'll probably be easy for him to notice. Turning yourself into a mystery can pique a man's interest, but each time you flaunt your mysterious side, you need to give him a puzzle he can solve. It's much easier to seem mysterious when you're getting to know someone new. Be open with him on most fronts, but hint around about the fact that you still have a few secrets. When he finally does learn the truth behind those secrets, your appeal will increase even more. When you're trying to enchant a guy you've been around for a long time, appearing mysterious can be much more difficult. Try showing him a side of your personality that you rarely act on. For instance, if you're usually a homebody, surprise him by dragging him out to a karaoke bar and putting on a little performance when it's your turn to sing. The contrast between what he sees now and what he has come to expect will suggest to him that there are still new things to learn about you. If you want to keep a man enchanted throughout a long relationship, you'll need to exercise transparency, as well. Share your secrets with him once you know he can be trusted with them. Be vulnerable from time to time. Stop trying to hide your flaws and mistakes. Let your guard down so that he can sense just how much you trust him. At first glance, an enchantress may appear to have a devilish personality, but alternating between that side of your personality and the sweet, angelic side can make a bigger impact than sticking with one or the other might. Your devilish side is a good asset to make use of when you want to create an enchanting moment. Display it by following most of the advice offered in this article concerning appearance and body language. The idea is to tempt him into wanting you. Your angelic side is important when you want to increase your overall long-term charm. Demonstrate angelic behavior by being compassionate and considerate. Support him when he struggles and be sweet to him in general. If you really want to keep a man enchanted for a long time, you need to engage his mind. You won't be able to do that if you're constantly playing dumb. Keep yourself updated on more than just the latest celebrity gossip. Pay attention to the world around you and build informed opinions. Even if they don't match his, being able to hold your own in conversation can still be an enchanting trait.
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One-sentence summary -- Demonstrate confidence and self-reliance. Recognize his independence. Love life and have a positive attitude. Show an interest in his life. Balance mystery with transparency. Show off your angelic and devilish sides. Exercise your wit.

Article: Think of a word that means the same as the word you're trying to learn. Then think of a song or quote that includes the word you already know, and switch the words. Sing or say these to yourself over and over again until you get them into your head. An example might be: "I've obtained you, babe" rather than "I've got you, babe" "What's the big notion?" rather than "What's the big idea?" Search for your word in the search engine function of online video sites. It can be really helpful to hear the word spoken, see the footage, and be able to link the word and the video. If you play the video enough times, you will start to hear the word in your head in the voice of the person on the video. This can help you differentiate it from all the other words you're studying. Record yourself saying the words, then saying them in a sentence, or as part of a song or quote. Listen to your recording repeatedly. For many of us, listening to something over and over works even better than using flash cards. Using the list of vocabulary words you need to know, have a friend ask you what one means and then use it in a sentence. It's a good way to force yourself to prove to someone else that you know the words, and saying it out loud can help in the memorization process.
Question: What is a summary of what this article is about?
Use the words in songs or quotes. Look for video footage. Make a podcast. Get a friend to quiz you.