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How to change someone else's behavior
Identify the behavior.
Pinpoint the exact behavior that you want to change about the person. If you want the person to just " be less annoying " or " text me more often, " you will not get the results you want.
Pinpoint the exact behavior you want to change and mark exactly how you want it to change. For example, rather than saying that you want your friend to " be less annoying, " plan to say that you want your friend to " stop interrupting conversations she's not a part of.