Problem: Article: Remember: there are many different ways to kiss someone, from a light smooch on the lips to some heavy tongue action. See if your partner returns the same sort of kiss. If not, take this as a possible sign that they're not enjoying what you're trying to do. Take their lead instead and kiss them the same way they're kissing you back. For instance: Say you're going for a heavy French kiss, but they're keeping their lips sealed tight. This could mean they don't want to French kiss at all. But it could also mean that you're coming on too fast. Either way, ease up. Just enjoy the light smooching for now and see if things build up from there. If you want to know if your partner is enjoying this, don't just focus on their lips. Pay attention to what they're doing with their hands, feet, and everything in between. If they're into it, the rest of their body should want to come into closer contact with you, possibly by: Stepping toe-to-toe to with you. Leaning their body into you. Holding you close with their hands and arms. Running their hands up and down your back. Gripping you tightly or even massaging you a little. Obviously, if they break from your kiss to tell you how great you are at doing it, then that's a no-brainer. But even if they don't say that exactly, treat other positive statements as a good sign. Good kissing ignites passion, so consider yourself a success if they pause to tell you things like: How much they've been thinking of you while you're apart. How they really like (as in like-like) or flat-out love you. How hot, handsome, or beautiful you are. Expect everyone (from first-time kissers to seasoned pros) to suffer some sort of dumb accident in the middle of a kiss. So don't freak out if you step on their toes or smack your eyeglasses together by mistake. Instead, take it as an opportunity to see how eager your partner is to start kissing again. If they just laugh at themselves and go right back to it (or don't even seem to notice and go right back to kissing), you're probably golden. If they seem oddly frustrated and out of sorts, they may not have been having a good time to begin with. Obviously, don't kill the mood by starting a stopwatch as soon as your lips meet. But make a note of just how long they're willing to do no more than just kiss (even if you're hoping for this to lead to some heavier action). If they seem to be enjoying themselves without feeling a need to rush into more heavy stuff, take that to mean that you're doing just fine. Of course, it's not always a bad sign if they seem impatient to kick things up a notch. But if that's always the case, this might mean that your kissing could use some work.
Summary: See if they match your kiss. Check what they're doing with the rest of their body. Treat compliments as a good sign. See how quickly they recover from mishaps. Check how long they stick to just kissing.

Problem: Article: You don't want to end up in the situation where he so regrets that you got hold of his number that he goes and changes it just to be rid of your texting and calls! The phone number is just a small step in growing your relationship, so spend a lot of time on all the other important aspects, such as getting to know him face-to-face and hanging out together. Use the phone as a tool to make meet-ups, not an excuse to pour out your heart. Don't text him too much. Good job if you get his number, but don't annoy him and make him regret his decision. Be mature with what you say, and have fun!
Summary:
Use the phone number sparingly once you have it.