Problem: Article: Bullies love a reaction, and they particularly love an emotional reaction. As soon as they know they're getting to you, they're going to keep digging in deeper. If you must react to the bully at all, do so calmly and coolly. Being the calm one not only makes the bully look immature, it shifts the power dynamic to make you the powerful one--a state of affairs that bullies hate. Don't allow the situation to escalate before taking measures to manage it. The longer a bad situation goes unchecked, the more negatively it will impact you and the more powerful and entitled the bully will feel. The bully's issue is entirely their own--it isn't about you, it's about their weaknesses and insecurities. Don't ever allow the bully to convince you that you brought this on yourself. They alone are responsible for their own behavioral choices. Look into the types of bullying behavior, what motivates a bully, and how to understand bully. Many bullies are victims of violence themselves and are acting out. Knowing this can help you have some compassion as well as help you better understand the true power dynamic between the two of you.. Build a support network: the more people you have on your side who are willing to support you, the harder you'll be to target. Having allies will also help you feel confident and supported, two characteristics that bullies find very defeating. Write down the time, place, and a description of each encounter in case you need to bring a formal or informal complaint against them. Having specific times, places, and descriptions of your encounters with this person will make it very difficult for them to deny the truth of what you're saying or to try to shift the blame onto you. The less you see them, the fewer opportunities they'll have to manipulate you. Not having opportunities to bully or otherwise manipulate you will leave a bully bored and they'll begin searching for a more gratifying target. If the problem can't be solved by simply ignoring or avoiding the bully, it's time to get someone with authority involved. If you've been keeping a record of the events--which is recommended--show the other person your records, describe the bully's behavior to them, and explain how that behavior impacts you. Find healthy ways to vent your emotions, whether it's working out, doing yoga, or writing in a journal. It's important that you spend time caring for yourself rather than caring about what the bully is saying or thinking. If the bullying is a significant source of stress, consider talking with a therapist to help you manage the situation..
Summary: Stay calm. Take action early on. Know that it isn't about you. Do your research. Gain allies whenever possible. Keep a record. Avoid them as much as possible. Get a supervisor, teacher, or other authority figure involved. Take care of yourself.

Problem: Article: From video games to board games to pajama party classics like truth or dare, the possibilities are endless. Set aside a few games that you know most of your friends like playing. During the party, let your friends vote on which ones they would like to play. A pajama party can be a great time if you and your friends just talk the night away. However, having a few activities planned out can make the night even more fun. You and your guests could: Make homemade spa treatments. These can range from applying face masks - cucumbers for the eyes are a must - to doing mani/pedis or makeovers. Snap before and after pictures. Set up a selfie wall. Hang fabric on a wall and print out signs that you can use as props for an amazing photobooth-like experience. Create a dance routine. Look up YouTube videos for choreography inspiration or try to mimic your favorite artist's moves. Record yourselves for a fun memory to look back on. Do karaoke. If you have a karaoke machine, this would be the perfect time to use it. If you don't have one, look up song instrumentals on YouTube to sing along with or simply sing loudly over the track. You can use hairbrushes or water bottles as your microphones. Make a pillow fort. If you have big couch cushions, you can use these as 'walls.' Thin sheets or blankets make the perfect roof. During the party, let your friends choose which one(s) to watch. Go for movies that aren't scary so that all your guests can have a good time. The perfect snacks for pajama parties are fun finger-foods. Your best bets are popcorn, pretzels, and chips, plus some fruit for good measure. These snacks are delicious and easy to clean up. If you can, purchase a variety of snacks so that your friends have a variety of options to choose from. Don't forget to buy disposable cups, napkins, and plates. Only buy caffeinated drinks or sodas if you plan on you or your friends being awake all night. Ask your friends to let you know if they're allergic to any food so that you can avoid serving it.
Summary: Pick out games to play. Make a list of activities. Pick out a few movies. Buy snacks.

Problem: Article: " Most simply defined, the "friend zone" is when there is a mismatch of romantic feelings -- for example, when someone wants you to date you when you "just want to be friends." It can helpful if you're already friends with the boy you're interested in, but you'll want to move onto boyfriend and girlfriend territory by sparking some chemistry and making yourself more attractive as more than just a friend. Wear flattering clothing for your body type and colors that compliment your skin tone, eyes, and/or hair color. Enhance your best features with some extra makeup or hair styling. You don't have to go too glam, but do make a little extra effort during the week you're trying to catch your boy's eye. Looks aren't the only thing that go into attraction. Your behavior and attitudes can also be a turn-on or turn-off. Be confident. Be brave and take the initiative to talk with the boy you're interested in. Confidence is an attractive quality, and he'll start to get the hint that you like him if you make the effort to give him attention. Play it cool. Don't overdo it and be too forward or aggressive in your interactions, especially if your boy's a bit on the shy side. Try to make him feel comfortable and at ease in your conversations by keeping things fun and light and open enough for him to make a move on his own too. Be sure to compliment him frequently so that he feels confident around you. Your mannerisms can go a long way towards communicating that you're available and interested in turning you male friend into a boyfriend. Subtly play with your hair while talking. This signals availability while also drawing attention to your lovely locks. Sneak glances at him from across the room and keep eye contact while you're talking. Occasionally touch his arm during your conversation to grab his attention and show that you're warm, outgoing, and physically comfortable with him.
Summary:
Get out of the "friend zone. Cultivate an attractive attitude and personality. Speak good body language.