Article: Expect your Scorpio to want to dictate their own lives and, to an extent, yours. Adapt yourself as best as you can to their vision of how things should be. As you both share your wants, needs, and dreams, judge theirs versus your own to see if they're compatible. The less compatible they are, the more likely that you should probably end things rather than waste time by asking them to change for you. Ask them what their goals in life are: where do they want to live; what do they want to do for a career; etc. Compare them with your own. If the two of you can each accomplish your respective five-year plans without any great sacrifice, you're good to go. But if you want to open a bakery in your hometown while they want to jet all over the globe as an archaeologist, it's probably best to walk away now, because they're not going to settle. Scorpios like to dictate the nature of their relationships as well as everything else. Suss out what they expect out of you as a partner. If you fit their idea of an ideal mate, congrats. If the person they describe doesn't sound a thing like you, call it quits, because they will probably expect you to be this person regardless. Although you'll have to adapt a bit in order to make things work, don't be afraid to draw lines. Adapt where you're willing to, but stay true to yourself when their demands are too much. Earn their respect by refusing to be a pushover, while ensuring that they treat you how you wish to be treated. Scorpios have a lot of issues regarding trust, so make earning and keeping their trust a top priority. At the same time, accept that they will probably never share everything with you. Respect their right to keep some private matters to themselves, while proving to them that they're safe in sharing everything else with you. Stay out of their sock drawer. Leave their cellphones and other devices alone unless they invite you to use them. Even then, refrain from checking their histories to see what your Scorpio's been up to. Never lie to them. Scorpios resent being deceived, so if you're uncomfortable with sharing something, it's better to simply keep it to yourself rather than build a wall of lies to hide whatever it is. Consider yourself as equally entitled to a private inner life as your Scorpio considers their self to be. If a Scorpio decides to seriously date you, know that they'll take your relationship very, very seriously. Expect them to judge you on how devoted you are to being their partner. Defend your partner when they're falsely accused or otherwise attacked by others. Take your partner's side and consider the aggressor as an unwelcome person in your life, even if they used to be your friend. Even if you have zero interest in someone who decides to hit on you, don't engage or otherwise humor them. Your Scorpio might misinterpret "being polite" with "being interested." Also, say goodbye to your exes. If you're still on good terms with them, wish them the best in life, but let them know it's time for you to move on for good. Remember: Scorpios love the thrill of the chase, so now that they've caught you, they need something new to chase after. Avoid falling into predictable routines. Stimulate their love of life and pursuit. Propose new activities for the both of you to do. Go wall- or rock-climbing. Find a local polar-bear swim and take a midwinter dive into icy waters. Try skydiving. Whatever you choose, it doesn't need to be death-defying or a lifelong pursuitjust something new and exciting. Join an art program and learn how to paint or sculpt together. Take a walking tour to learn about local history. Go to lectures and museums or even a murder-mystery dinner. Put your brains together and expand your knowledge. If you're going to share your fantasies with anyone, a Scorpio is an ideal partner. Any way you can think of to switch things up, they'll probably be game for. However, ease into this, rather than daring them right from the get-go. Coming on too strong too fast may turn them off if they still haven't come to trust you yet.
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Concede some control. Talk about the future. Talk about their expectations of you. Stand your ground when needed. Maintain trust. Resist snooping. Be honest. Show your loyalty. Avoid flirting with anyone else. Keep their sense of adventure alive. Conquer new challenges together. Explore intellectual pursuits as a couple. Spice up your love life.
Article: To meet a guy quickly, you're going to need to put some effort into finding the right person. One of the best ways to attract someone is to show that you like yourself. Take some steps to boost your confidence. If you like yourself, it's more likely that other people will, too. Practice. If you're nervous about talking to a guy you like, figure out your game plan ahead of time. Try rehearsing what you want to say in front of the mirror. This will help you feel less nervous when you are with your crush. Pick an outfit that makes you feel good. Wear something that makes you happy. For example, if red is your lucky color wear your favorite red sweater to school tomorrow. There might be a special occasion coming up that makes you feel like you need a boyfriend fast. Sure, it will be great to have a prom date, but remember, you don't want just any boyfriend. Take some time to list your dating priorities. Make a list of the qualities that interest you. Do you want someone who is funny? Write it down. Should he share your love of scary movies? Put it on the list. Don't forget to include characteristics such as kindness and treating you with respect. You need to get be prepared to talk to people if you want to find a boyfriend fast. Practice being outgoing. It's a helpful trait to have when you are trying to make a connection with someone. Be ready to participate in any conversation. If the guy you like is talking about soccer, don't be afraid to say, "I think soccer is cool, but I don't know much about it. Can you tell me some of the important things to know?" Smile. This tells people you are confident and ready to chat. Your social network can be a great resource when you're looking for someone new to date. Try asking your friends to help you out. And don't forget to mention your deadline! You could say, "Sarah, you have lots of guy friends. Can you think of someone you can set me up with for this weekend?" If you have someone in mind, you might say, "Steph, I think your friend Colin is cute. Can you ask him if he wants to go to the movies with a group of us on Friday?" If you want a boyfriend fast, you need to put yourself out there. This means you need to be very social. Try to say "yes" to every invitation you receive. Maybe your friends invite you to go see a movie, but you don't feel like seeing that film. Go anyway! You never know who will be in the group. Mix and mingle wherever you are. If you're at your little brother's soccer game, don't be afraid to say "hi" to the cute guy sitting next to you. If you're a young, social person you likely have several social media accounts. Try using technology to your advantage! You can connect with someone you already know on several platforms. Use Facebook. Go ahead and friend the smart guy from your English class! Did you meet someone at a party recently? Ask to follow them on Instagram.
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Build your confidence. Figure out what you want. Be outgoing. Ask your friends for help. Socialize. Use social media.