Problem: But I was willing to sacrifice my preferences if that was what God wanted ( how noble of me ! ) , so I prayed about it . God said no .

Why would the narrator be willing to sacrifice their preferences ?

A: The narrator put God 's will above all else .

Problem: That simple ... Anyway , it was , quite nice to met these people , I kind of ... like them , after all . For the next day we ( I mean Elka and me ) had planned grill . But quite out of the blue , the weather changed -- it rained and that was serious threat to the whole grill idea . Fortunately Elka decided to move our party to the attic of her house and put grill on the balcony , under parasol .

Why did Elka and the narrator want to grill ?

A: They wanted to have a social gathering .

Problem: Do n't you think I would like to know too ? Or would like to come ? I ' m NEVER included in anything regarding you guys . MY AUNTS were there too , anyone ever consider asking me to come ?

What may be the reason why they are n't invited to any family events ?

A:
Their family does n't like them .