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For general cleanup and mild food stains, dismantle your chafing dish and clean the pans separately over your sink. Use a soft, microfiber wash cloth with warm water to gently lift stains. Dry your chafing dish with a separate soft cloth after cleaning to prevent spots. If you cannot remove food stains with water alone, use a mild dish soap or detergent with warm water. Dip your washcloth in the warm, soapy water and rub the dish in circular motions until you remove the food stain. Avoid chlorine or ammonia-based cleaners, as both can corrode your dish over time. Scrub pads can remove stubborn food stains without corroding your pan like heavy cleaners can. Avoid using steel wool or copper-based scour pads, which can scratch the chafing dish and dull its finish. Non-metal scour pads made of plastic mesh are ideal for cleaning chafing dishes. Lukewarm water may not be enough to remove grease or fingerprint stains. Hold your wash cloth over your sink and dampen it with hot water. Rub off the grease stains in a clockwise motion, then immediately dry off the chafing dish with a microfiber cloth. Add white vinegar or mild detergent to remove heavy-duty grease stains. To avoid fingerprint stains while serving the food, wear disposable gloves while handling the chafing dish. While you will not have to polish your chafing dish after every use, use a polish whenever your dish looks dull or scratched. Apply the polish with a microfiber cleaning cloth to restore its shine, then towel-dry it to avoid stains. Read the directions on the steel polish container before using. Test the steel polish on a small corner of the chafing dish before applying it to your entire appliance.

summary: Start cleaning with lukewarm water and a soft cloth. Clean with a dish soap or detergent alongside water. Scrape off hard-to-clean areas with a scour pad. Wipe the chafing dish with a hot towel to remove fingerprints. Use a steel polish to restore luster to your dish.

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In simple terms: don't be perverse, rude, or vulgar. Any girl with an iota of self-respect won't tolerate that sort of behavior. Play the part of the polite gentleman if you want her to respond to you in a positive manner. Don't treat the girl like an object, curse at her when she doesn't respond the way you'd like her to respond, or turn the conversation to sex before any mutual attraction and romantic interest has been established. Being respectful encompasses more than just these three points, but minding these basic manners will at least be a good start. You can open the conversation with a joke to break the ice, but the wrong joke can start the conversation on an excruciatingly bad note. Humor doesn't always shine through when you're communicating digitally, so it's usually best to save it for when she gets a better understanding of your personality and sense of humor. If you do decide to open with a joke, stick with something safe. An obviously cheesy joke can work out well, and mildly self-deprecating humor might make her chuckle, too. Avoid off-color humor or jokes that can be easily misinterpreted, though. Opening a conversation by talking about your good points will only make you look egotistical. As the conversation progresses, the girl will likely ask you questions about yourself, and that's when you should start opening up about the details of your own life. On a similar note, don't talk and behave as though you're "God's gift to women." Even if you're the most charming guy alive, no woman is obligated to develop an interest in you. Try your best, but don't blame or insult the girl if it doesn't work out. Even if you're hoping to pursue some sort of relationship with this girl, you shouldn't start the conversation by asking her out. In fact, you should probably wait until you've gotten to know her over the course of several conversations before moving to that stage. As a general rule, you should wait until some mutual level of chemistry has been established. If and when you ask her out, do so as casually as possible. You don't even have to call it a "date"saying that you'd like to meet up and hang out in person is usually the best way to go. Don't ask her about other guys when you send her that first message. If you obsess too much about the other guys talking to her and appearing in her photos, you'll probably scare her off. Only ask her about the other guys in her life if you can do so naturally and as part of another topic. For instance, you could ask her about how she knows a mutual friend who happens to be male or ask her about the mixed group of friends she went to a concert with. The key here is to keep the conversation about her and her experiences while making the identity of the guy a secondary concern.

summary: Demonstrate respect. Use humor cautiously. Avoid bragging. Practice patience. Abandon any jealousy.

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Use a spice grinder to grind the toasted sesame seeds into a fine powder. There should be no solid seeds left when done. If you do not have a spice grinder, consider using a coffee grinder or mortal and pestle, instead. In a small bowl, whisk together the ground sesame seeds, dashi, soy sauce, sugar, sake, rice vinegar, and black pepper until the mixture is evenly blended. For this sauce, you could pulse the ingredients together using a blender instead of whisking by hand, if desired. Doing so can help combine the solid ingredientsthe ground sesame seeds, the sugar, and the black peppermore thoroughly. Note that this is the other common sauce served with shabu shabu, and it, too, can be purchased commercially to save time. This sauce will end up being light brown. Transfer the sauce to a second shallow serving dish. The bowl needs to be shallow so that you can dip food into the sauce without difficulty. Do not combine the sesame sauce and ponzu sauce. The two must be kept in separate dishes. The sauce can be served without any garnishes, but garnishes can add color and an extra splash of taste. Thinly sliced green onions, a small sprinkle of chopped garlic, and a dash of ground red pepper are good choices for sesame sauce. Add the garnishes to taste. Keep in mind that they should accent the sauce, not overwhelm it or mask it. Set the sesame sauce aside until you are ready to serve the shabu shabu.
summary: Grind the sesame seeds into a powder. Combine the sauce ingredients. Pour into a serving dish. Add the garnishes, if desired.