Problem: Article: When your loved one is raging about something or is upset and despondent, you should focus on the emotions he or she is trying to convey. When your loved one does this, he or she often is seeking validation and comfort for the pain he or she is feeling. This may be hard if your loved one is saying hurtful things. However, try to look past the words and see the underlying pain and other emotions being expressed. For example, if your loved one is shouting at you, then you could acknowledge her anger by saying something like, "I can tell that you are really angry right now." For your relationship with your loved one to work, you need to listen to him or her. When your loved one is talking, push any judgment you have aside and actively listen and take in what your loved one is saying. Turn off TVs, phones, or computers and focus on your loved one. To let your loved one know you are listening, offer a periodic sound of acknowledgement or comment, such as "yes" or "uh huh." By using these types of statements, you will be letting your loved one know that you are hearing him or her. It does not mean that you are agreeing with everything your loved one says. Your loved one with BPD will have highs and lows as part of the disorder. This means that your loved one will sometimes be elated and overly enthusiastic. Just like you shouldn't get too emotionally involved when your loved one is belligerent, the same goes for when he or she is elated. Your loved one will act on impulse and emotions, often saying over the top things and suggesting things that are not feasible or possible. When this happens, detach yourself from the situation and try not to get swept up in the excitement. For example, your loved one may talk about how much he or she loves you. You loved one may also suggest you take a trip that is not feasible for either of you. Don't focus on the BPD in every conversation that you have with your loved one. Your loved one's life isn't defined by the BPD, so don't let your relationship be either. Talk about lighter topics that are of interest to both of you. For example, try talking to your loved one about his or her interests, a movie you recently saw, or plans for upcoming holidays. When you are with your loved one and his or her mood swings to anger or depression, try distracting him or her with an activity. Put on a movie you both want to see, go for a walk, make a cup of tea, play with a pet, or any other sort of soothing activity that takes your loved one out of the moment. Doing something soothing and enjoyable will get your loved one's mind off of the emotions and focused on something more productive and healthy. If you notice your loved one's behavior seems self-destructive, don't ignore it. Let your loved one know you are concerned. Even if your loved one tells you to mind your own business, keep a watch on him or her for warning signs. If you are worried about warning signs, talk to you loved one's therapist or doctor. If you see suicidal behavior, get help for your loved one immediately. The warning signs include: Reckless behavior A change in behavior or normal activities Refusal to eat Any signs of self-harm, such as scratches
Summary: Acknowledge your loved one's pain. Listen to your loved one. Detach yourself from the situation. Talk about other things. Try to distract your loved one. Watch for destructive behavior.

Problem: Article: If the cut in your mouth is bleeding, start by rinsing your mouth with cool water. Swish the water around in your mouth, making sure to swish it around the area with the cut. This helps remove the blood and help to stop the bleeding. If rinsing your mouth doesn't stop the bleeding, you can apply pressure to the cut with a piece of gauze. Gently press against the cut for a few minutes to stop the bleeding. Pressing a cold compress or ice against the bleeding cut can also help stop the bleeding. Wrap the ice in a cloth and put it against the cut. This helps reduce inflammation and constrict the blood vessels, which will help stop the bleeding.
Summary: Rinse the mouth. Apply pressure. Use a cold compress.

Problem: Article: Talk to skipper and find some eggs. Open them and go to skipper to get furniture. If you sell 1-5 pieces, you will get about 60,000 to 70,000 bells. Repeat this process and you will get rich. If someone wants to have something from you, see if you can get them to buy it instead. If they don't want to, don't bother giving it to them; someone else interested will come along. Get some cheap bargains and see if you can get a profit on it. If you can't sell it at the flea market, sell it at Nooks, but the main goal is to pay off your rent first so try to pay off at least maybe a day otherwise you will be there forever paying it off 5,000.
Summary: Change your time/ date to March 31st 2013 and enter your game. Sell rather than give. Change the date on your device back to a flea market day.

Problem: Article: Stripping pulls out the outer guard of hairs once the hairs "blow"or die and start to shed off. Only strip once the coat is blown, which will make hair removal much easier and be less likely to hurt your Westie. Make stripping a regular part of grooming your Westie. If you don't strip your Westie regularly, you may need to strip all the way down to his undercoat layer, which can leave him looking bare. To strip your Westie, you'll need to pull out dead hair with your fingers. Be aware that this can cause your Westie pain or discomfort if you don't know what you're doing. Do not try to pull out hairs that are still growing out of the skin. Grasp hairs that are sticking out further than other ones and gently pull on the hairs. If the hairs do not come out easily, then stop pulling. The hairs may not be ready to come out yet. Always make sure to pull out hairs from the coat in the direction that your Westie's fur is growing to make pulling out dead hairs easier and reduce discomfort for your dog. Go with the grain of your Westie's fur rather than against it. If you find the coat is slippery or you are having trouble grasping hairs, then you can apply a bit of chalk to your hands and fingers. The chalk will help you keep a firmer grip on the hair and make it much easier to pull out dead hairs.
Summary:
Strip your Westie's coat when you notice dead hairs. Use your fingers to pull out dead hairs from your Westie's coat. Go with the grain of your Westie's fur. Apply chalk to your fingers if grasping hairs is difficult.