As soon as you notice wear or cracking on the rubber handle, replace it right away. After you gently roll the new grip on, tape it with bat tape. Store your bat somewhere that's not too hot and never wet or damp. Never store your bat in a hot car or any other hot area, as it can warp the wood. If the bat ever gets wet, dry it with a cloth and store it somewhere cool to dry. When it has dried, apply a thin layer of oil. At the end of each season, remove the anti-scuff sheet. Apply a layer of oil and let it sit for 24 hours. Then, apply a second coat of oil and let it rest for a week. Sand it down and repeat the oiling process. Apply a new ant-scuff sheet.
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One-sentence summary -- Replace the rubber handle. Keep the bat dry and cool. Replace the anti-scuff sheet.

Any parts sewn together need to be unpicked. That way, you can see what you need for seam allowances when you sew new panels together. To unpick the seams, use a seam ripper to cut out the thread along the seam, pulling it apart as you go so you can see the stitches. Also, make sure to iron out the pieces so that they're flat for measuring. If the fabric is too damaged to pull off in whole pieces, you'll need to measure each panel on the chair with a soft tape measure. Lay the pieces out end-to-end, trying to fit them into the typical width of upholstery fabric bolts, and then measure the total space they take up. That will tell you approximately how many yards you need, though always be sure to get some extra just in case. Typically, the width of upholstery fabric is 56 inches (140cm). Also, measure any piping and strip tacking you may need. In general, upholstery fabric needs to be strong to withstand being sat on and moved about. When looking for fabric, check the upholstery section of the fabric store. Aim for something that's timeless so that you won't want to reupholster the chair again in a few years. Heavy duty cotton is suitable for infrequent domestic use, while linen is a bit stronger and wears well. Jacquard is a cotton fabric mixed with synthetics such as nylon or polyester to strengthen it, and it can handle medium to heavy use in your home. Vinyl, also known as synthetic leather, is strong and waterproof, but it's not ideal for hot environments as skin tends to stick to it. Tapestry is a traditional upholstery fabric because of its beauty and strength. Though expensive, it will stand up to wear and tear, and it's good for antique furniture. Velvet is also a long-lasting upholstery covering that's nice to work with. Put the new fabric down with the wrong side up. Place the old pieces on top of the new fabric with the wrong side up. Make sure to leave 2 to 3 inches (5.1 to 7.6cm) around each piece so you have something to hold onto when you tack the fabric in place on the chair. Use pins to hold the old fabric to the new fabric. When lining up the fabrics, look for the grain of the fabric and how the pattern will spread across the chair. Match the grain direction with the grain of the old piece of fabric. Mark all cut pieces with the panel names you've chosen to prevent mix-ups. Add the directional arrow as well, so you know which way it needs to go. Painter's tape (on the wrong side of the fabric) works well for this, as you can write on it with permanent marker without it damaging the fabric. You can also use a chalk pencil. After you've checked the fabric to make sure you have the grain going the right way, cut it out. Remember to leave a space around the edges to make it easier to staple later. Use fabric scissors or very sharp scissors to cut the fabric. Dull scissors will shred it. Lay each panel on the chair to check it for fit and make adjustments as needed.
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One-sentence summary -- Unpick and iron the old panels. Calculate how much fabric you need. Choose the right type of fabric. Lay the new fabric on the old fabric and pin it in place. Cut the fabric out.

Reconciliation begins with asking for forgiveness. Apologize with sincerity and start the healing process. This is often the hardest step because it means that you have to take responsibility for your actions and face the issue. A sincere apology means that your head and heart are aligned to make a focused intellectual and emotional decision to accept responsibility, even if it was unintentional. Sometimes it's a good idea to write down your apology. First, because it will give you a chance to choose and practice saying the right words. Second, it will give you time to think about if you are seriously sorry or not for what has happened. After that, you can decide whether or not you want to offer a sincere apology. Say something like, "I understand that I hurt you and I want you to know how truly sorry I am for what happened between us." Be present in the moment. In other words, apologize somewhere appropriate, put all electronic devices away, and make eye contact. Keep your apology short, simple, and sincere. Taking responsibility for your actions is an important step in starting the process for forgiveness. Accept your role in the issue and imagine how you would feel if the same thing happened to you. A sincere apology is a selfless act that demands that nothing be expected in return. Remember, you are not "giving" an apology; rather, you are seeking forgiveness. Avoid apologies that blame the other person. For example, "I am sorry you feel that way," or "I regret that you got so angry about" These kinds of apologies do not take responsibility and actually place some responsibility on the person you are apologizing to. Taking responsibility also demonstrates your maturity, something a woman would admire in a man. Instead, of blaming or minimizing your role, say "I messed up and I am so sorry that I hurt you." An apology such as "In the future I will" demonstrates that you will continue to work on making things better between you. In this case, it will enable you to make a meaningful gesture without the perception of buying forgiveness. It is best to follow an apology with a gesture, not before. This is a tricky proposition because a woman might think her forgiveness is being bought. Therefore, make a sincere apology first and then make sure the gesture conveys that you learned your lesson and won't repeat the issue. Your intentions should always remain clear with a meaningful gesture. Regardless of the gesture you choose making a card, buying her favorite coffee, or sending her a song or flowers that conveys an apology make sure you highlight your intentions. This is a no strings attached apology. In other words, nothing should be expected in return nor should you expect to be forgiven completely.
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Apologize with sincerity. Take responsibility. Make a meaningful gesture.