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How to help loved ones with avoidant personality disorder
Encourage your loved one to seek treatment.
Cognitive behavioral therapy (cbt) is the most effective way to treat avoidant personality disorder. Over time, therapy can help people with this disorder feel less self-conscious.
An experienced therapist can help your loved one find ways to cope with their condition and live a fuller life. Broach this topic gently and tactfully to avoid making your loved one feel defensive.