Q: If you can't even remember the last time you shared your deepest fears or doubts with your partner, then you're in hot water. If you feel like your significant other is always the one who is talking, upset, getting comfort, and seeking and getting your love and attention, then you have a problem. It's okay if your partner is having a bad month, but if you feel like there is always something wrong in his or her life, then you may be getting used for emotional support. In a healthy relationship, both partners get to talk about their problems and concerns equally. If you feel like your partner is doing at least 80% of the talking and you're not particularly shy, then you have a problem. If any time you mention yourself, your partner tries to make your problems seem smaller by saying that he or she has it so much worse, then you have a problem. If you're afraid to share your feelings because you think your partner will get angry and misunderstand you, or if you don't share your thoughts and feelings because you know your partner won't really listen, then you have a problem. You should feel just as comfortable about sharing your thoughts, fears, and hopes as your partner does. Both people should be able to share in a relationship, and if every time you try to talk about yourself, your partner says he or she is busy or tired, interrupts you and tries to make it all about him or herself, or just gets a glazed look that makes it clear he or she isn't listening, then you are getting used. You're in a parasitic relationship if you feel like, no matter what, your partner always ends up getting exactly what he or she wants. You may find yourself giving in just because it's easier than fighting, because your partner will be mad if he or she doesn't get what he or she is after, or simply because you've convinced yourself that he or she must want it more. In a healthy relationship, partners work together to find a decision that can make them both happy, and take turns "giving in" to each other. Sure, it's not a big deal to give in on some of the small stuff, like about where to have dinner or what to watch on TV. But this habit can make it easier for you to give in on the big things, like deciding where to move together. When is the last time you heard your partner say how much you mean to him or her? If you can't even remember, then you may be getting used and taken for granted. Your partner may think it's a given that you know how much he or she loves you and how special you really are, but if your partner really cares about you, then he or she would tell you, not just assume that you know. If you don't even get thanked for all of the favors you're doing, then you are definitely getting taken advantage of. If your partner never compliments you or tells you how nice you look on date night, then you may be being used. That's right. Your partner almost never tells you how amazing you are, but you find yourself feeling like you have to say "I love you" twenty times a day so the person doesn't feel like you're neglecting him or not giving him enough love and affection. If you feel like you have to tell your partner how much you love him, how great he is, and how much you value him fifty times a day just to help him be less needy, then you have a problem. In a healthy relationship, both partners should compliment each other and say "I love you" around the same amount -- and only when they actually mean it.
A: Notice if your partner is always talking about his or her problems. Notice if you never get to share your feelings. Notice if there's no such thing as a compromise in your relationship. Notice if you never hear any words of appreciation. Notice if you constantly have to tell your partner how much you love him or her.

Q: Pick a spot that's level and free of obstructions. If any part of the ground rises slightly above the rest, plan to make this your infield. If possible, select an area where strong, dense grass already grows for proper turf. Although the infield's measurements are standardized, the size and shape of the outfield may vary from field to field. To have a total distance of 400 feet from home plate to the backend of outfield, you will need an open field of roughly 195,000 square feet. If you're constructing a baseball field for official play (as opposed to one for neighborhood pickup games) and no ideal patches of turf are available, choose one where the grass can be easily nurtured back to health. If no such area exists, hire a professional landscapist to plant adequate turf. To maintain quality, install both an irrigation and drainage system if your field is for official play. Determine where "home" will be. Position your plate. Face the flat portion of the plate toward the field so that the back corner points away from it. For official play, plan to remove the grass surrounding home plate. Once you've positioned your plate, measure a 13-foot circle encompassing it, with the back corner of the plate as its center. Use spray-paint to trace the circle of turf to be removed later. Begin your measurement from the back corner of home plate. From there, extend your tape measure straight forward from home plate into the infield. Measure a distance of a 127 feet and 3 3/8 inches (38.795 meters). Mark this measurement with a stake in the ground. If you're only setting up a diamond for a friendly neighborhood game, go ahead and place your second base down now, with the mark from your stake as its center. After you've marked second base, keep your tape measure fully extended. Slowly retract your tape measure until you're 60 feet and 6 inches away from home plate. Stake the ground here to mark where the front of your pitcher's rubber will be. For a temporary field, go ahead and place your pitcher's rubber now, with the front of the rubber centered at the mark you've just made in the ground. Position the rubber so that it's parallel to the front of home plate. For a permanent field to be used for official play, plan to create a pitcher's mound. Once you've marked where the front of the rubber will be, continue to slowly retract the tape measure toward home plate by another 18 inches. Stake the ground here to mark the center of your mound. With this mark as your center, measure an 18-foot circle surrounding it. Use spray-paint to trace the area for later turf-removal and/or added soil to elevate the mound. To find each base, use two tape measures. Begin one measurement from the back tip of home plate. Start the other from the center of second base. Extend each tape measure in the direction of either first or third base until they both read 90 feet. Stake the ground where the two tape measures meet.. To set up a diamond right away for immediate play, set the bases down now with the back corners of each (the ones pointing away from the infield) positioned at the marks you've just made in the ground. For a professional field, use spray-paint to trace all of the baselines from stake to stake for turf-removal. Also measure and trace a 13-foot radius around each base within the square created by the baselines for the players' slide areas.
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Choose an ideal area for your baseball field. Set up home plate. Determine the location of second base. Find your pitcher's mound. Locate first and third base.