(1). However, think about the reason you and your partner are communicating in the first place. Keep in mind that your relationship shouldn't be a power-struggle. (2). Remember that you aren't responsible for their problems-the fact is that you're not. If you can put the ball in their court, their level of self-esteem cannot be cared less. (3). Remind yourself of what you were doing before the discussion took place. For example, if you agreed to work on having three kids together all while you were 25, it might seem like you've been putting others up for adoption just to prove to them you aren't getting enough of your own. (4). In a matter of a few days, you'll be helping your partner out immensely by proving to him or her you've tried and still failed at everything. Saying that there are no " right " ways to improve, suggest ways you can improve.Choose from options above and answer: What most naturally follows?

How to accept honest criticism from your partner
Remind yourself it's not a zero-sum game.
No one likes to be criticized. It can be very hard to hear how you've failed to meet your partner's expectations-you might feel unfairly blamed, misunderstood, or attacked.
Answer:
(1).