Write an article based on this "Don't treat anything like a button. Understand what pleasures women. Be gentle, unless you're told otherwise. Speak up. Turn up the heat."
Really repetitive motions do not work in intimate situations. Her genitals are not an elevator button that you can just push repeatedly and hope to get results. The same can be said of her nipples. Think circular movements and variations in pressure, direction, and motion, and you'll be fine. Men get stimulated with sensations on their penis, so you'd think that women would be stimulated by sensations in their vagina, right? Unfortunately, it's not that simple! Most women don't get a whole lot of pleasure from just vaginal stimulation alone. Wikipedia the clitoris. When you're dealing with sensitive parts, be gentle unless she specifically asks otherwise. Nibbles and pinches here and there can feel amazing for some women but not all, and you don't want to get smacked. Guys, you know you love it when she makes all of those little moaning sounds. It lets you know how much she's enjoying it, right? But did you know that she likes to hear you make sounds too (for the same reasons)? Maybe not so much with the grunting, cause it can get a little cave-manish, but say things like, "Oh, that feels so good..." No, really, turn up the heat. Women have a harder time feeling as much pleasure when they are cold, studies have shown. Get under a toasty warm blanket or crank up the thermostat if she really seems to be having trouble and you've tried everything else.