Article: Even a case that is completely resolved in your favor may include aftercare services. Social services may check in on you and make sure you finished any programs recommended during the court case. Despite any resentment you may harbor, being polite and professional will get social services out of your life the quickest. Make the social worker feel like there is nothing more to this case and it is time for her to close your file for good. Remember, two out of three child abuse cases end up unsubstantiated. Even if your case went to court and was resolved in your favor, you have suffered a huge amount of stress in your life. Whether you seek out a self-help group or enter into therapy, having a non-judgmental outlet can help you cope with the trauma. Your counselor can help you with methods to explain the situation to your friends and family. Depending on the circumstances of the child abuse allegations, you may have suffered professional humiliation or even job loss as a result. Speak with your attorney about getting a copy of the best document showing that the case was either closed or resolved in your favor. Use that evidence to help your clear your name with your job, professional associations, and co-workers. Don't let the situation lapse into awkward silence where suspicions may linger about your potential guilt. If a professional license has been suspended or revoked, contact the licensing agency about how to appeal the decision. Typically, this will be done in writing and you can include documents showing that the case against you was unsubstantiated or closed. If allowed, ask for a hearing or meeting to explain it in person. Consult with an attorney to see if you have any legal recourse against your former employer. If the accusations revolved around your child and your family, it can be easy to let hostility and resentment linger and taint your relationships. As you work through your counseling, remember that your child should come first. He made need therapy or counseling as well, and you, as the adult, can help make that happen.
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Follow through with social services. Seek out counseling and support. Repair your professional associations. Concentrate on the relationship with your child.