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Take a small slice of onion and place it in a garlic press. Squeeze the press to extract juice from the onion. You'll need about 3/4 of a teaspoon (4 ml) of juice and pour the juice into a small saucepan. Measure 1 cup and 2 tablespoons (225 g) of granulated sugar, 12 cup and 1 tablespoon (255 ml) of cold water, 6 tablespoons (89 ml) of white vinegar, and 1 12 tablespoons (22 ml) of red wine vinegar into a small saucepan. You'll also need to add these seasonings: 1 tablespoon (8 g) arrowroot 1 tablespoon (5 g) minced onion flakes 2 12 teaspoons (13 g) Dijon mustard 2 12 teaspoons (5 g) mustard powder 34 teaspoon (3 g) celery salt 34 teaspoon (9 g) poppy seeds 12 teaspoon (2 g) onion salt 14 teaspoon (1 g) garlic salt 14 teaspoon (0.5 g) paprika 14 teaspoon (0.5 g) black pepper 1 to 2 drops sesame oil Set the saucepan on the stove and turn the heat to high. Whisk the sauce while it heats and bring it to a boil. Once the sauce comes to a boil, turn the heat to low. Keep whisking the sauce and let it simmer until it thickens. This should take about 5 minutes. Turn off the heat and let the sweet onion sauce come to room temperature. Use the sauce immediately or store it until you're ready to use it. Transfer the sauce to an airtight container and keep it in the fridge for a few weeks.

summary: Squeeze the onion for juice. Measure all of the ingredients into a saucepan. Whisk and heat the sauce. Reduce the heat and simmer the sauce for 5 minutes. Cool and use the sauce.

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The whole point of a verbal bully's attacks is to unsettle you, so don't give them the satisfaction. Stay calm, cool and collected despite any taunts or insults. To do this, it may help to breathe deeply, count silently, or mentally repeat an affirmation, such as "I will remain calm." Ignoring the person is an option. An even more powerful response, however, is to make it clear to the person that the remark doesn't bother you. Make eye contact with the person, then shake your head in dismissal and look away. Most verbal bullying is carried out because the person hopes to offend you. If you can see any truth to their comment, throw the attacker off balance by agreeing with them. When you accept the statement, it loses its power and the attacker loses relevance. For example, someone says "You're fat," you might say "You're right. I am fat." Avoid becoming defensive with the person. Instead, put the attacker in the hot seat by pulling apart their remark. Analyze the remark and ask questions about it. For example, someone says, "You're stupid." You might respond with "Wow, stupid is such a strong word. Is there a reason you're trying to insult me?" However, if the bullying behavior is out of control or you feel unsafe, do not have any contact with the attacker. Just walk away. If you witness someone else being verbally attacked, help defend them by bringing the attacker's common decency into question. In response to their "bad parent" role, play the role of the overly kind parent. For instance, if the attacker calls your friend a name, you might say, "Carl, name-calling doesn't look good on you. Show everyone that there's a decent human being under there somewhere." They'll likely feel shamed by their behavior and apologize.
summary: Remain calm. Dismiss the person's attack. Agree with them, if it's true. Dismantle the attack. Play the kind parent.