Let the person know how much it meant to you that they were there for you during your time of need and that it meant a lot to you that they contributed in some way. There are many ways to approach the wording in your thank you notes, and all of them depend on what the person did for you and your loved ones. You might simply write two sentences thanking them for thinking of you at this time of great loss in your life and letting them know that it meant a lot to you. If you are especially close to the person you're thanking, feel free to include a personal anecdote or story from the deceased's life, if you share one with whomever you're thanking. Personalizing your thank you notes is always a nice touch, but certainly don't feel that you must do this. In your thank you notes, reference specifically what the person or group you're thanking contributed after your loved one passed. Whether it was a meal, flowers, or a memorial donation in their honor, specify what you're thanking them for and let them know that their thoughtfulness meant a lot to you. Begin your thank you note generally and build to more specifics. For example, good starting points would say something general, such as "Thank you for your kindness during this difficult time" or "Our family appreciates your support during this difficult time." Then you can build to how they helped you specifically. After thanking them for their kindness if they delivered a meal, for example, you might say something like "The meal you sent us was wonderful because it made one less thing for me to worry about. We truly appreciated it." The key is to thank them for their specific contribution. If you're writing a thank you note to someone who gave a monetary donation in memory of your loved one, thank them for their donation, but don't mention how much they gave. Simply say that you are thankful for their generosity in honoring your deceased loved one. Good phrasing for a monetary donation might read like "Thank you for your generosity in our time of grief. The donation in honor of [deceased's name] means a lot to us." This way you convey your appreciation without mentioned how much they gave. Two or three sentences is sufficient to communicate your gratitude. The act of actually taking time to send individual thank you notes speaks volumes about how thankful you are. Don't feel like you need to write long paragraphs to communicate your thankfulness. Sign the notes either with your own name or "Family of [Deceased's Name]."
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One-sentence summary -- Speak from the heart. Be specific. Avoid mentioning specific dollar amounts. Don't feel obligated to write long, detailed notes.

Late bloomers are often deep, reflective thinkers. They often have the tendency to try to control more aspects of life than their peers. You are likely a clever person; find a way to use your reflective nature to your advantage. Your tendency toward reflection and control may mean that others achieve their goals faster than you. But, because you take the time for careful thought, when you get an opportunity you may be more able and ready to take the helm. Practice creative writing. If you find yourself at home more than you'd like, or are just looking a way to spend some time, try practicing creative writing. This could be in the form of poetry or prose. Either way, creative writing can be a great way to tap into your creative side. This can help you blossom into something unexpected. Try making art or music. If creative writing isn't for you, maybe visual art or music are. These activities can also help you get in touch with your creativity. Keeping track of your thoughts and ideas can help you get in touch with your desires and potential. Further, your process of getting to where you are may help someone else, especially other family members. Traits like yours can be inherited. If your children or another family member can learn from your experiences, you will have made life better for someone else. Keep a daily journal. Journaling can be a great way to explore your emotions and allow them to flow more freely into your everyday life. Don't try to force your writing into a particular structure. Instead, write down anything that comes into your mind. Sit down and start free associating--you might be amazed at what comes out through your fingertips. This can also be a good way to encourage introspection and deep thinking. Keep an "ideas book" handy. Keep a notebook in which you write down your ideas, perhaps next to your bed or in your bag. This can help you in moments of indecisiveness or faltering confidence. Whenever ideas strike you, write them down. Late bloomers are often full of ideas, sometimes so many that they don't know what to do with them. You may be wading in indecisiveness when an idea comes to you. But, that idea has significance and may be useful later on when you come back to it. Late bloomers often have several qualities that are very valuable. These include reflection, consideration and patience. Late bloomers often have a high capacity for abstract thinking and creativity. Use these strengths to build up your self-confidence and to bolster yourself during life's low points. Because of your patience and reflective nature, others may turn to you when they have personal problems. Use your skills to help them. Your patience and consideration are also characteristics you can use in choosing a career or lifestyle. For example, you might make a great counselor or academic. You are making progress and can overcome life's challenges. If you start to falter, use self-talk to remind yourself that you are a competent person with valuable skills. Your achievements may take longer than others. But remember that instant achievement is not always a fairytale come true. Many people are afraid to take positive steps because they feel rushed and do not know what they're doing. Late bloomers avoid that feeling by taking their time and making sure they do know what they're doing. At the same time, learn from your mistakes. The obstacles you encounter along the road to success aren't personal failures. They can be a source of valuable insights into how to do things better next time. When you achieve something important in life, recognize your achievement. Use that success to motivate you to accomplish even more. It may have taken you a long time to achieve your goals. But, as a result, you probably know what you are doing far more than those who got there earlier. People may start to come to you for help as they notice your experience and knowledge. You have taken the time to think deeply about life. Further, you have reached your own conclusions rather than just adopting those of others.
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One-sentence summary -- Get in touch with your introspective side. Record your thoughts. Know your strong points. Trust yourself and your abilities. Enjoy your successes and build on them.

Look at your local beauty or drug store to find a foot mask. If your feet are dry, invest in a moisturizing product; if your skin is thick and covered with callouses, opt for peeling mask treatment instead. Rub the product in a thin layer all over your skin, then prop your feet up on a flat surface, like the edge of a bathtub. Keep the mask on for the time recommended by the product's label. Place both feet in the basin to remove the thin layer of mask product. Swirl your feet around in the tub, letting the salt soak rinse the mask away. During this time, feel free to sit back with a book, magazine, or some other relaxing activity. Remove both feet from the salt soak and surround them with a clean, fluffy towel. Next, focus on blotting away any water dripping from your feet. Continue towel drying, working the towel in between your toes to get rid of any excess moisture. You can set the towel aside once your feet feel dry to the touch. If you don't have a towel on hand, feel free to use a wash rag or paper towel instead. Take a coin-sized amount of moisturizing lotion and rub into your fingertips. Use your fingers to massage the lotion all over your feet, working over the top and bottom of each foot. Continue working the lotion between your toes, and on the base of your nails. For a full pedicure experience, rub lotion over your ankles and lower calves as well. Use a lotion that works best for your skin type. For instance, if your feet are especially dry, look for a lotion that's moisturizing.
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Apply a foot mask to soothe and moisturize your feet. Rinse the mask off your feet by soaking them in the salt bath for 10 minutes. Dry off your feet with a clean towel. Rub lotion around your feet and toes to lock in moisture.