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How to get along with a friend that always wants to fight
Pause and ground yourself.
If you notice a fight coming on or you find yourself reacting to something your friend says, take a moment and find some peace. Take a few deep breaths and remind yourself not to react.
Select from the following.
a). Remember that you may not be in charge of what other people do or say, but you are in charge of your actions and reactions. Use an affirmation such as, " i choose how i respond to other people, and i choose to be peaceful right now..
b). Even if you're in an argument you need to find a middle ground and that's what you want to accomplish. If you find yourself doing this, release whatever emotion you're feeling..
c). Yelling or freaking out over something unrelated will only make things worse and be less likely to get you both in trouble later on. If you notice yourself reacting to something that is happening and fighting in order to get the attention of a friend, take a little break from your conversation for a moment and approach a different area of the conversation..
d). Acknowledge your friend's disrespect. Even if they aren't intentionally being disrespectful, you should acknowledge that..
a).