IN: Men make definitions by exclusion . Woman are into inclusion , they make definitions by adding - " this is it , this is it too , and this is also it " and it never really ends . This is the Obama structure . He integrates different countries , different races , different classes and this is what is appealing to the world .
What is the reason Obama is universally liked ?

OUT: None of the above choices .

IN: It really sucks realizing too late that you put too much into a relationship . Cared too much , believed too much , wanted too much , expected too much . Strangely enough , with my motley history with guys , I ' ve never quite learned this lesson firsthand . Guys were easy to get and , for the most part , the same .
Why did my relationship with my boyfriend ended ?

OUT: Because I had too much expectations .

IN: Thursday morning when I went to put my walking shoes on by the front door , I noticed several ants crawling around on the floor . Where did those come from ? I never had ants in here before . Since then I have been finding ants on the living room floor , and now in the kitchen .
What 's a possible reason there were ants crawling around on the floor ?

OUT:
Because there was some food spilled or left out .