If you talk to them in a public place, it's easier for them to change the subject or for the two of you to get interrupted. Instead, ask if you can talk to them somewhere private maybe an out-of-the-way bench in a park or even a quiet corner of a coffee shop. If you live with the person, ask if you can speak to them somewhere where you'll both be comfortable like the living room sofa. If they refuse to meet or talk with you, that's a pretty good indication that they're using the silent treatment to manipulate or control you. It's okay at that point to tell them you understand they don't want to talk, and that you'll be walking away from the relationship. It's important to start here so they know that you're not just trying to start a fight. It starts the conversation by letting them know that you care about them and the relationship and that their behavior has mattered to you. For example, you can say things like, "I've really enjoyed spending time/working with you," or "I'm hoping you can help me figure out what's happening between us, because I appreciate your friendship so much." Ask if you've done something to upset them and let them know you want to make the situation right. This is especially important if you're very close to the person who's giving you the silent treatment. Let them know how it makes you feel, whether that's sad or hurt. But because the silent treatment is often used by people trying to control others, make sure you remain calm and collected as you explain your feelings. You can say something like "Sally, I really love you and I value our friendship, but I feel hurt when you shut me out. I hope we can talk about this and sort it out." Most people who use the silent treatment on a regular basis do it to get a reaction. If you sound overly hurt or sad, or even desperate to get their friendship back, it gives them incentive to keep using the silent treatment. Instead, do your best to sound calm and in control. For example, instead of saying, "I'm really hurt and I've been losing sleep over it and I'll do anything to get out friendship back," you can say something like "I feel hurt and sad when you won't talk to me. If you'd like to talk, I'm happy to talk, too." This is important whether there is a real reason they're using the silent treatment or if they're doing it to control you. Give them a chance to explain why or how you hurt them (if that's the cause). If they don't seem able to come up with a good answer, that's a good indication that they're manipulating you. For example, if they say something like, "A few weeks ago, we were talking about my job and you said something that really hurt my feelings. I wasn't sure how to deal with it so I've been speaking to you less," then you have something concrete you can address and apologize for. If, however, they say something like "I asked you to go to dinner with me but you said no because you had to go to your aunt's funeral," then it's likely they're manipulating you into putting them before anyone and anything else. If they just ignore you or completely change the subject instead of answering your question, they're also likely manipulating you, and it's okay to simply walk away.
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One-sentence summary -- Ask to speak in private. Say that you value the relationship. Express how their silence makes you feel. Pay attention to your tone. Listen to what they have to say.

Article: if it is dirty. Look for signs such as crying, odor, wetness, or constant movement and check your baby's diaper. If it is wet or soiled, take off the old one and use baby wipes to clean the baby's genitals and legs. Allow the area to dry completely, then apply a soothing ointment and put on a new diaper. Check your baby's diaper at least every 2 to 3 hours to help prevent diaper rash and keep your baby comfortable. Always wash your hands before and after you change your baby's diaper. Change diapers in a warm, clean location, such as on a clean towel on your living room floor or on a changing table in the baby's nursery. y seem hungry. Breastfeed or bottle-feed your baby pumped breast milk or formula. If your baby has progressed to solid foods, then you can also offer them some cereal or baby food. Some signs that your baby might be hungry include: Smacking their lips Crying Rooting (baby turning their head toward you when you touch their cheek) Putting their hands in their mouth After they are done eating, they may start to cry because of a gas build-up in their stomach. The best way to burp your baby is to lean your baby's stomach over your shoulder. One hand should be on the baby's bottom while the other is supporting the baby's head and neck. Gently pat your baby on the back as you hold them in this position until your baby burps. Keep your baby upright so that they can release the gas build-up. If your baby is still crying after you try to burp them, then they might need more help to release built-up gas. Lay your baby on their back on top of a soft blanket. Gently grab each of their lower legs and begin to bicycle them (this is the same motion as you would pedal a bicycle). Keep doing this until you either hear your baby relieve themself or they stop crying. You can also contact your doctor about using infant gas drops which help your baby pass gas. Make sure to consult your doctor about constant gas problems. This could be related to acid reflux, lactose intolerance, constipation, the stomach flu, etc. Babies, especially up to 7 months old, have strong sucking needs. If your baby is crying after changing, feeding, and burping them, then they might simply want something to suck on. Try giving your baby a pacifier or help them find their thumb and see if this helps to soothe them. Giving your baby a pacifier might also help them to fall asleep. Sometimes the best solution is the easiest. A baby will often cry a lot if they need to go to sleep. They may also yawn, be a tad cranky, or simply be falling asleep. Hold them in your arms for a while before you take them to their crib. After they are calm, lay them down in their crib on their back. Don't put any blankets, pillows, stuffed animals, or other items in the crib with your baby. These increase the risk of SIDS. A musical mobile hanging above the bed, playing a song, can help lull them to sleep. Always keep a baby monitor on if you plan on going out of the room.
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Change your baby's diaper if they seem hungry. Pat your baby on their back to burp them after a feeding. Bicycle your baby's legs to help relieve built-up gas. Offer a pacifier if your baby is not responding to other strategies. Take your baby to their crib if they seem sleepy.