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There's nothing wrong with excusing yourself to send the message that you're not interested in flirting. You can also excuse yourself if you are feeling uncomfortable and you want to get away from them. Let them know that you enjoyed the conversation, but that you really need to go. For example, if you're out at a bar, try saying something like, "It's been nice talking to you, but my friends are waiting for me, so I really have to go." Or, you could say, "This has been fun! I have to head out, but enjoy the rest of your night!" If the person keeps trying to flirt with you, you might need to be direct with them to get them to stop. You can tell them in a nice way to avoid hurting their feelings, or be blunt if they're being pushy or disrespectful. This is also important to do if the person is a friend of yours who is interested in you or if you went on a date with them. For example, if you want to be nice about it, try saying, "You're such an interesting person and I like spending time with you, but I'm not interested in dating. I just want to be clear about that." Or, you could say, "I'm not interested, so please stop saying those kinds of things." If someone flirts with you on a regular basis and it's making you feel uncomfortable, it's important to let them know that. The person might be a coworker, classmate, friend, or someone else. Be direct about how you're feeling and begin your statement with "I" to reduce the chances that they will become defensive. This will help to send the message that you're not interested and you want them to stop. For example, you could say something like, "I feel uncomfortable when you compliment my body. Please stop saying those things." If someone continues to pester you and they ask for your number, do not give it to them! It's also not a good idea to give them a fake number as this can give them false hope of connecting with you later on. Instead, try to avoid being alone with the person as most people won't ask for your number in front of other people. However, if this doesn't work out and they do ask for your number, just say "no." If they persist, you could also say something like, "Sorry, but I don't think my boyfriend would like that very much." Even if you're not dating anyone, it's okay to pretend to have a boyfriend or girlfriend if someone keeps pestering you.

summary: Say that you have enjoyed talking but that you have to leave. Let them know that you're not interested if they persist. Use "I" language to express discomfort with ongoing flirtation. Avoid giving your number to someone you don't want to talk to again.

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Once the test is done, the doctor will send the cell sample to a lab for testing. It usually takes 1-3 weeks for the test results to come back, but your doctor should be able to give you a more accurate estimate. Ask them if you can expect them to call you or if the results will be posted in an online chart for you to view.If you don't hear back within 3 weeks, call your doctor's office and ask about the results. Most of the time, pap smear test results come back normal. Sometimes, however, you might get a result of "abnormal" or "unclear." If this happens, don't worry! Even an abnormal test result doesn't necessarily mean that anything is seriously wrong. Talk to your doctor about scheduling a follow-up appointment for further tests. In rare cases, abnormal cells in a pap smear can be a sign of cancer in your cervix or uterus. If your doctor suspects that your test results might indicate a serious problem, they may have you come in for more tests, like a colonoscopy or a biopsy (tissue sample). Sometimes, your doctor will recommend that you wait 6 months to a year and then have another pap smear done. If the abnormal cells are still there or if they see major changes since your last exam, they might decide to do further testing. How often you need to get a pap smear depends on a lot of things, such as your age, your medical history, and how high your risk is for problems like cervical cancer or sexually transmitted infections. Work with your doctor to figure out the best time for you to come in for your next routine pap smear and pelvic exam. Most doctors recommend that you get your first pap smear at age 21, and then follow up every 3 years (or more often if there are abnormal results). Once you're 30, you can reduce the frequency to once every 5 years unless you have an abnormal pap smear. You can stop having pap smears by the time you're 65 to 70 as long as you've had 3 normal tests within the last 10 years.
summary: Ask your doctor when you can expect to get your test results. Schedule a follow-up if there are any abnormal results. Talk to your doctor about when you should get your next pap smear.