Multi-select problem: How does the next paragraph end?

How to deal with baby mama drama
Remember, the mother is a woman, a person, with emotions just like you.
This one is hard to accept, but keep in mind that in some situations the mother actually loved/" loved " the father. Many people think that they're going to marry their baby's daddy, but end up single parents.

Pick from:
[a]. Maybe this brings about the bitter venom baby mama's tend to spew. Ask your man about the relationship, how he felt about the news of his child's conception and the end of the relationship.
[b]. The mother, however, is not a person and you can't know that unless you treat her like a caring mother. Try the " double number " approach if one of the baby's parents is you.
[c]. This kind of stereotype can spread for a while, but it can quickly backfire, and it does not help your baby calm down. It is important you remember the voice of compassion and love with your baby.
[d]. That is not a realistic view of yourself. Remember, what mum always says? " we all go through this ".
[a].