Article: How comfortable is he with physical affection and romantic touching? How does he behave when you fool around? Is he fairly conservative, or does he love trying new things? What sort of language does he use in everyday life is he okay with cussing? What you say while talking dirty will depend largely upon your partner's personality if he's very conservative and/or doesn't like swearing, you'll want to be subtle. For example, instead of saying "You look so hot right now, I can't wait to get you alone," you could say "Looking good!" and then give him a quick flirty kiss on the lips or if he's not into public displays of affection (PDAs) on the cheek. Get a sense of how open to dirty talk he is but starting with things that aren't overtly sexual. Dirty talk doesn't have to be filthy. It can be as tame as texting him, "I can't stop thinking about last night;)" the day after you've fooled around. You can even start with simply complimenting him more, for example, saying things like "That shirt looks great on you" or "I like that dimple there, that shows when you smile." Many couples aren't physically affectionate outside of the bedroom. By touching him more often, you might be able to increase his desire and make him feel more comfortable with you and, as a result, open to trying new things. If your partner is open to it, talk to him about what you'd like to try. Be respectful with what you say. Most importantly, never talk about making out right after you've done it, as this could make him associate your physical romance with having serious talks. Example: "I love/really like/enjoy being with/etc. you, and I'd like to feel more connected to you. I was thinking maybe we could experiment a bit with talking dirty to each other." You could even be more casual, and just say "What do you think about dirty talk?" You could say this while washing dishes together, making dinner, going for a walk just NOT in the bedroom or after you've made out! If you're finding it very difficult to bring up dirty talk, you might consider getting a book on it and bookmarking some of the pages. You could even tell your guy that you feel embarrassed talking about it, so instead you're showing him what you want to talk about with a book. It may feel really silly, but practising the phrases you'd like to say to him might help you feel more comfortable with saying them when you're actually with him. If you aren't comfortable talking dirty when you're by yourself, you can also just practise being more vocal in everyday life for example, if you eat something delicious, let out a little sigh of delight, or when he kisses you, make a happy little "Mmm" sound. What you say and how you say it will depend on the result you're hoping to achieve. If you're away from each other perhaps both at school or work and you just want to tease him a little, you could send him a text like, "I can't stop thinking about how good you looked this morning/last night/etc." If you're making out and he does something that you like, you could say "I love it when you do that." Whether paying a compliment, sending dirty texts, or talking dirty in bed, make sure that you mean what you say. Done right, talking dirty can improve intimacy and strengthen your relationship. Faking it will do the opposite.

What is a summary?
Consider your guy's personality. Test the waters. Touch him more often. Talk about making out. Get a self-help book. Practise talking dirty by yourself. Tailor your talk to the situation. Always be sincere.