Problem: Article: Tarantulas can sustain injuries or even die if they are disturbed while they are molting. Therefore, it is important to leave your tarantula alone while she molts. Plan to leave your tarantula while she is showing signs of molting and for at least one week following a molt. Wait at least one week after a molt to pick up and/or hold your tarantula. After your tarantula has completely shed her exoskeleton, you can remove it from her cage. Try using a pair of tweezers to pick the exoskeleton up. Your tarantula will be sensitive and prone to injury following a molt, which means that its normal prey might harm her. Therefore, do not feed your tarantula for at least a few days following a molt. While your tarantula cannot hunt following a molt, she will still need to drink water. Make sure your tarantula has plenty of fresh water at all times.
Summary: Leave your tarantula be. Remove the exoskeleton from the cage after your tarantula molts. Skip feedings for three to five days after your tarantula has molted.

Problem: Article: Although most people may think that adult diaper use is only for urinary incontinence, there are actually many reasons an adult may wear diapers. From general incontinence to sexual fetishes, learning about the myriad needs for adult diapers can help you react positively and support your spouse. Your spouse may be wearing diapers because: They suffer from urinary incontinence. This can arise from a broad range of conditions including menopause, enlarged prostate, urinary tract infections, pregnancy, childbirth, hysterectomy, and neurological disorders such as stroke or brain tumor. In addition, some medications and beverages such as coffee or soda, can cause incontinence. They suffer from fecal incontinence. This can arise from conditions such as damage to the rectum, nerve damage to the sphincter, chronic constipation, diarrhea, surgery, or rectal prolapse. They suffer from stress incontinence. This usually arises because of weakened pelvic floor muscles. Stress incontinence occurs most often in women, though can happen in both sexes as a result of childbirth or prostrate surgery. They have a sexual fetish called infantilism or diaper fetishism. This occurs most often in males and usually presents as a desire to dress and be treated like an infant, which also involves a transfer of power and control with another adult. In a non-confrontational and gentle manner, ask your spouse why she is wearing diapers. Wearing diapers can be a very sensitive and embarrassing subject for many adults, and simply asking her may help you better understand and eventually support her diaper use. If your spouse has been ill or experiencing other medical issues, broach the subject by saying something such as "I remember your doctor mentioned that incontinence may be a side effect of your injury. Are you having trouble?" If your spouse's diaper use doesn't come from an obvious condition, tread lightly in asking. For example, you could say "I found these diapers in the bathroom. Are you having some kind of issue with which I can offer you support?" This allows your spouse to answer honestly if he likes and also demonstrates your support no matter what the reason for wearing diapers. No matter how your spouse answers your question, accept their response. Whether for medical reasons or as a sexual fetish, your spouse's need to wear diapers is deeply personal and they mayor may notwant to discuss the matter with you. Avoid knee-jerk or "humorous" responses, which may embarrass or hurt your spouse. For example, they may worry that you don't love them anymore. If you do not know how to respond, back away from the situation until you can process it while being gentle with your spouse. For example, say "I'm so sorry and I want to be supportive, but I'm not sure how to react and a need a moment to process this." Schedule an appointment with your family doctor for your spouse and you. Seeing and talking to them may help both of you deal with the emotional aspects of wearing adult diapers while helping to manage any fetish or underlying conditions that may be causing incontinence. Because wearing adult diapers can be distressing, your spouse may not want you "meddling" in their affairs. You can explain that your desire to see the doctor together is as a means to best support them. Ultimately, though, you need to respect your spouse's wishes. Speak with the doctor alone if your spouse doesn't want to meet together. The doctor may give you tips on how best to support your spouse without breaking their confidence or doctor-patient privilege.
Summary: Learn about adult diaper use. Ask why your spouse is wearing diapers. Accept your spouse's response. Talk to your family doctor.

Problem: Article: Before you start dancing to music, make sure you've got the basic steps down. Count out loud to help you find a rhythm and concentrate on perfecting each movement of your body. It might feel awkward at first, but mastering the moves without music will create the muscle memory to let you dance smoothly with music and other distractions. After you've got the basic steps and turns down, you can start putting your moves to music. Look up songs online or look for jive, jitterbug, or swing CDs to try multiple different songs. If you're looking for music online, look up "jitterbug music" or "swing dance music." If you've gotten down the basic steps and turns and want even more of a challenge, look for a dance studio near you that offers lessons. You can also look online for helpful videos, or buy a DVD that teaches you more advanced moves. Search for "jitterbug dance lessons near me" online to find a dance studio that offers lessons. If you can, call ahead of time to see what moves will be taught and whether they'll be challenging enough for you. When you're ready to show off your moves to others, head to a local swing club with a partner, or couple up once you get there. Swing dance clubs are lively places to try out an older but fun way of dancing, so don't worry if you're not an expert yet--just have fun! You can search online for swing dance clubs by searching "swing dance clubs near me."
Summary:
Practice your basic steps without any music first. Dance to upbeat swing music once you feel comfortable. Find an instructor at a dance studio to try more advanced steps. Try out your steps at a swing club to dance with others.