Q: If you want a divorce, be firm in this assertion. Don't hesitate or be wishy-washy. Be firm in saying, "Yes, I want a divorce" and stick to it. If you want something else or are unsure about the divorce, say these needs first. Don't give unclear signals, as this can be confusing to your spouse. Be clear, even if you know it will hurt your spouse's feelings. Perhaps you want a separation or for things to change in your marriage. If you want something else, such as therapy or more attention, don't say you want a divorce first, but ask for these changes first. Say, "I feel like our marriage isn't working, but I'm not ready to give up yet. Would you consider therapy or a mediator?" If you are absolutely ready for a divorce, say so clearly. You can say, "This is a difficult conversation to have, but I need to tell you that I want a divorce. I've struggled with this for some time, and I suspect you are aware of how difficult this relationship has been. This is something I've put considerable time into thinking about, and I believe it is the best decision regarding this marriage. I know this will be painful and difficult for all of us, but I believe we can get through this and be decent, reasonable, and mature from this point forward." Don't monopolize the discussion. Allow your spouse the space to speak his or her mind and feelings. It's important not to interrupt or cut your spouse off. Allow your spouse to speak openly, and encourage the discussion. Make sure you understand how your spouse feels, and reflect back your understanding. To reflect understanding, say, "I hear you saying that you're unhappy too, and that although you feel sad, you agree this is the right thing. Is that right?" This isn't the time to blame your spouse or tell them all of the things that have gone wrong or sour between you two. This is simply a discussion of you sharing your feelings and your need for a divorce. While it's an uncomfortable discussion for you, it's likely your spouse is uncomfortable, too, and perhaps a bit caught off guard. Treat your spouse with compassion and respect through the entirety of the discussion. Remind yourself that this isn't easy for your spouse, just as it isn't easy for you. The way you treat your spouse in the first discussions of divorce can set the tone for how the divorce will continue. Stay calm and empathetic toward your spouse. If your spouse is angry, say, "I know this is difficult, and I can understand why you feel angry. I feel a lot of emotions, too, yet it's important we be respectful to one another." In talking about the impending divorce, show that you are willing to be fair and reasonable in the following proceedings. Before filing for divorce, communicate that you want things to be respectful and address everyone's needs, including your spouse's. This can help set the tone for the rest of the divorce. Say, "I don't want drama to follow us as a result of this divorce. I want you to know that I am willing to be fair and reasonable about how we move forward, and I hope you feel the same way."
A: Be clear on what you want. Let your spouse talk. Show compassion and respect. Be fair and reasonable.

Q: Use the handle of a rat-tail comb to take a 1 to 2-inch (2.54 to 5,08-centimeter) square-shaped section of hair from your hairline. Lightly mist the section with water, then apply a moisturizing hair cream to it. A combination of castor oil and coconut or olive oil would work especially well for this. You can also use any other cream you'd normally use for making corn rows. Purchase some braiding hair or Marley hair. Select a thick strand, find the center, then place it behind the section of natural hair. You will have three strands of hair: a left synthetic strand, a center natural strand, and a right synthetic strand. Make sure that the hair you are using is synthetic. Cross the left strand over the middle one, then cross the right strand over the middle one. Keep braiding, making the stitches nice and right, until you run out of natural hair to braid. You will be left with two strands of synthetic braiding hair. Twist each strand of synthetic hair clockwise form two ropes. Next, twist the two ropes together counterclockwise to form a thicker rope. Do this for a few stitches, then stop. If the hair is very slippery and does not have a lot of texture to it, it may unravel during the next step. Secure it with a small hair elastic. Hold the first 1 inches (1.91 centimeters) of the synthetic strand against your braid. Make sure that the tip of the synthetic hair is pointing down towards the end of the braid, and not up towards your scalp. Secure the strand with a small hair elastic, if needed. Hold the 1-inch (1.91-centimeter) tip of the synthetic strand against your braid with one hand. Use your other hand to wrap the rest of the strand around braid and tip tightly. Start at your root, and continue downwards until you run out of hair to wrap. Overlap the hair slightly as you wrap so that you have no gaps. Hold the first 1 inches (1.91 centimeters) of the new strand against the rest of your hair section. Secure it with a small hair elastic, if needed, then wrap the rest of the strand downward. Keep doing this until your faux loc is the length you want it to be. Hold the synthetic hair you were wrapping with away from the core. Trim the excess hair from the bottom of the core with a pair of scissors. Do not cut the hair you were wrapping with just yet. The "core" is the first strand of synthetic hair that you braided into your hair at the very begging. Wrap the synthetic hair downwards until it covers the core hair completely. Trim it off using a razor comb, then wrap it back upwards until you have nothing left to wrap with. You don't have to use a razor comb, but it will give you a nicer finish. Turn on a lighter and pass it up and down the length of your faux loc. If using fire around your faux hair makes you nervous, use a drop of nail glue instead. This process can take a while, so it would be a good idea to get some help or take lots of breaks. Work your way in sections, row by row, until you are done.
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Take a thin section of hair, and apply moisturizer to it. Place a thick strand of braiding hair behind it. Braid the two together. Finish off with a rope braid for a few inches. Add a new strand of synthetic hair to the top of your braided hair. Wrap the synthetic strand around the braid. Add more synthetic strands using the same technique. Trim off the excess hair. Finish wrapping the synthetic hair, then trim it off with a razor comb. Seal the hair with a lighter. Repeat the process for the rest of your hair.