INPUT ARTICLE: Article: Another way to stop child support payments is to obtain custody of the child. If you ask for custody, the court will look to a variety of factors to determine what is in the child's "best interests." These factors will differ by state. They will be listed in either a statute passed by the legislature or in a court opinion issued by your state supreme court. Courts will look at different factors, depending on state. Michigan, for example, considers: the love and affection existing between the parties and the child; the ability and willingness of the parties to provide food, shelter, clothing, and medical care; moral fitness of the parent; stability of the custodial environment; and mental and physical health of the parties, among other factors. Among a variety of factors, Kentucky considers the wishes of the child; the child's adjustment to home, school, and community; the mental and physical health of all individuals involved; as well as the interaction and interrelationship of the child to each parent and to siblings. To find the specific factors for your state, search online for "best interests of the child" and then your state. Custody determinations are complicated and important. An experienced attorney may have insight as to what judges will consider persuasive evidence that custody should be modified. Even if costs are a concern, some attorneys provide "unbundled services," which means that they will provide limited services such as document preparation, legal advice, or coaching for a flat fee. If at any time you are confused about how to proceed, you should seek out a lawyer's assistance. To find an experienced, local family lawyer, search your yellow pages or perform an internet search for "child custody attorney" and your city or county. Generally, you will file your petition in the county where your child lives. This is true even if you live in a different county. To modify custody, you need to file a petition with the court. Your courthouse should have preprinted, "fill in the blank" forms for you to fill out. Stop into the courthouse or look on this website. Fill out the forms accurately and completely. The forms may request financial information, such as how much you make in a year and the present cash value of life insurance or retirement accounts. Give yourself plenty of time to fill out the forms. Some states require an online interview, which helps generate the appropriate forms. You may have to create a username and password in order to access this program. Once you have completed the appropriate forms, you may need to sign them in front of a notary. You can find a notary by visiting your state's Department of State website. Also, many banks have notary services available for a fee. Many courthouses provide notary services as well. You must bring sufficient personal identification to prove to the notary that you are who you say you are. Acceptable identification includes a driver's license, a passport, or a state-issued personal identification card. File the original set of documents with the clerk of court. Keep several copies for your records as well as to mail to the other parent. You will probably be asked to pay a filing fee. Ask the clerk to stamp your copies with the filing date. If you cannot pay the fee, ask for a fee waiver and complete it. Do not be embarrassed to ask for it if you cannot pay. The clerk will also need to sign your summons, which will be returned to you. Attach the original summons to the copy of the documents for the other parent. Depending on your state, you can serve them in a variety of ways: You can pay the sheriff's office to serve them. You can pay a private process server to serve them. You can arrange for a friend or relative (not involved in the case and over the age of 18) to serve them. This person must complete a "Proof of Service" form as well. Arrange for a friend to mail the papers registered or certified mail, return receipt requested, with delivery restricted to the other parent only. You probably cannot serve the papers yourself. If you have questions about acceptable methods of service, ask the court clerk. The other parent will have to answer your petition. You should receive a copy. If you don't, then call the clerk and ask if it has been received. At the hearing, you will have to present evidence why you believe that custody should be changed. You may present witnesses and seek to introduce documents. To properly seek custody, you should have an attorney represent you in court. Preparation for the hearing could be extensive: you will need a list of witnesses who can establish that it is in the best interest of the child that he or she live with you, and you will need to prepare to testify. For more information on seeking full custody, see wikiHow's How to Change Child Custody.

SUMMARY: Understand what you need to prove at court. Consult with a lawyer. Locate the appropriate court. Find the forms. Complete the forms. Get the completed forms notarized. File the forms. Serve the other parent. Wait for the answer. Attend a hearing.

INPUT ARTICLE: Article: It might include family, friends, or coworkers. You need people to talk to about your situation. Even though it can feel like you bring the verbal abuse on yourself, you need other people to help you check those reactions and understand that it's not your fault and that the abuse is irrational. Verbal abuse is not something anyone should go through alone. Finding a good therapist to hear your story and formulate other ways to deal with your situation can be extremely helpful. Verbally abusive relationships can be codependent, with both partners having little outside contact. It's difficult to leave a relationship if you have no friends or family close. Make a plan for yourself if you don't have a strong support network. Maybe staying in a hotel for a while would be an appropriate response whatever it is, you need to feel like you don't have to physically stay with your husband if the verbal abuse becomes too much.

SUMMARY: Make a support network for yourself. Reach out to a therapist. Have a place to go if you need to leave home.

INPUT ARTICLE: Article: When you go to the DMV to register your trailer, make sure you have all of the required forms with you. Keep them in a folder so they stay organized and so you don't misplace them. Be sure you have some form of identification, such as a driver's license or passport, so the DMV can confirm your identity. Check online to see the forms you need in your area since they may have different requirements. After the DMV officials go through your forms, they will ask for payment for registration and titling fees. Make the full payment with cash, check, or a debit card to finalize your registration. Most times, trailers cost around $50-100 USD to register. Most DMV offices don't accept credit cards. The cost of registration may be more expensive if your trailer is heavier than 3,000 pounds (1,400kg). After your trailer is registered, look online for the regulations in your area to see if you need to get additional insurance for it. If insurance is required, reach out to your insurance provider to see what policies are available and work best for your trailer. Make sure you meet any minimum insurance requirements if your state has them. You may be able to add the trailer onto your existing auto insurance if you plan on using your vehicle to tow the trailer. Trailer registration usually lasts 1-2 years depending on where you live. When your registration is about to expire, fill out a renewal form and take it to your DMV office. Always keep your trailer registered or else it will be illegal to tow on public roads. Check the DMV website to see if you can renew your registration online.

SUMMARY:
Bring your forms and proof of identification with you to the DMV. Pay the registration and title fees. Check your state's regulations to see if you need insurance after registering. Renew your registration before it expires.