In many cases, a personality conflict arises because of expectations, differences of opinion, or some other underlying issue. Identifying what your problem is with a person may help you realize that your conflict is foolish, which in turn may help you build a positive relationship with the person. Consider if you've had a bad experience with the person, or if you're relying on rumors or someone else's conflict to inform your opinion on the other person. If you've had a legitimate problem with the person, addressing it can be the first step to resolving the issue. You are in control your actions and many of the negative attitudes you harbor are influenced directly by you. By taking responsibility for your interactions with a person you can't tolerate, you can begin to move forward in your relationship with the person. Negative thoughts cultivate negative actions. If you decide to give the person a legitimate chance, you may help cultivate positive changes in your interactions with them. For example, if you are in a meeting or in a class with this person and they start to speak, don't immediately tune them out. Instead, listen closely and see the positive in their statements. If you can't find anything, tell yourself it took a lot of courage to speak up. Every person has their own perspectives and opinions that are formed based on their experiences. Consider where this person is coming from in their behaviors. By acknowledging that she perspectives that differ from yours can help you to give the person a chance. You cannot begin to shift your relationship with the person until you acknowledge that your truth is not the only or right view. Conflict can begin with expectations of others. Letting go of unrealistic or negative expectations may not only help you change your attitude on the person, but could also sew the seeds of a more positive environment. Accept that no person is perfect. Imperfection adds character and letting go of any expectations of perfection will help you focus on the positive in others. If the person says something negative, consider it briefly and then let it go. Being negative can only cause further problems. Holding a grudges and dwelling on conflict will only exacerbate problems. Accepting the person as they are and letting go of conflict can help you to move on in your interactions. Acceptance can help remove negative attitudes towards the person and help you give the person a chance to redeem herself. It can also decrease stress and in your life. Holding on to negative thoughts and attitudes about another person is draining and if you constantly entertain them, they can become stronger. Learning to see the positive in any person may help to shift your relationship with her. Even the worst person has good qualities. It might take some time to recognize them, but being able to see the positive traits in a person can help you to give her a chance. Ask the person if you can have a friendly conversation and exchange views with her. This kind of conversation can help you to understand her viewpoints and may provide you context or information that can change your opinion of her. Ask your conversation mate lots of questions so that you have a chance to get to know them more than superficially. Always be respectful of other person and don't debate or fight with the person about his views or experiences. Being respectful and not arguing can give you the chance to consider his perspectives. You may find that even if you don't agree with the person, that she isn't as insufferable as you thought. Remember that you can learn from any conversation and arguing is counterproductive to moving on in your relationship.
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One-sentence summary -- Identify your problem with the person. Take responsibility for your actions. Consider the other person's perspectives. Let go of your expectations. Accept the person as they are. See the positive qualities in the person. Get to know the person. Be respectful and don't debate with the person.

Many cities and towns have websites where they list upcoming events available to participate in. There may be parades, festivals, or other special events you can learn about by checking your city's calendar. Check back frequently because they will usually keep adding things throughout the summer. Local magazines will also sometimes have event calendars with the different events happening around your area. Find out about local concert and festivals happening that you can attend for a fun filled day in your town. Check online ticket sales companies to see if anything is happening in your area. Listen to the local radio stations or visit their websites to learn of upcoming concerts you can attend. Many Chamber of Commerce websites have an upcoming events page listing business events in your area. This can include everything from meetups of local business owners to plays and shows happening at the local theater. Check out meetup websites or social media groups to find people who get together for fun activities. Join one for an adventure during the summer, and have fun making new friends. There are groups for many different kinds of interests. Explore your artistic side by joining a local painting or photography group. Have an adventure with a hiking, rock climbing, or kayaking group. Stay active by joining a running club, yoga meetup, or recreation sports team.
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One-sentence summary -- Check your city's calendar of events. Look for concerts and festivals. Visit your city's Chamber of Commerce website. Join local groups that meet up for fun activities in your town.

You can wear heels with anything from an elegant dress to a pair of casual jeans. The extra height gives the illusion of slimness. Heels also instantly improve your posture, making you look even thinner. To add a few more inches to your legs, choose a pair of pointed-toe heels in a nude color that matches your skin tone. It doesn't matter how high the heels are. Even a 1in (2.5cm) heel will have an effect. Placing a belt around the thinnest part of your midsection cinches your waist, creating an hourglass figure. You can also pile on long necklaces, which lengthen both your torso and neck. Avoid wearing chokers. They cut off your neck and make your upper half appear thicker. You can use a belt with almost any outfit, like on a shift dress, over a jacket, or with a pair of high waist pants. For most people, the thinnest part of your waist is just above your belly button. An all-over bronze glow makes you look leaner and more toned. Take it a step further by using more tanning lotion in certain areas, like along your quadricep or calf muscle, to create the illusion of ripped muscles. You can also use fake tanner along the lines of your obliques to give off the appearance of abs. Follow the application directions on the package. Don't try to rush the process or apply multiple coats at once or you could end up with streaks or an orange color. For the best results, get an airbrush tan from a professional. They know exactly where to spray the tanner and what shade will go best with your skintone. To give your face that supermodel-esque structure, use a makeup brush to swipe blush under your cheekbones from just about the corners of your mouth up to your ear. Blend any harsh strokes with a beauty sponge. Choose a blush that's more brown than red. Red can make your face look rounder. If you aren't sure where your cheekbones are, suck in your cheeks and you'll be able to feel the bones. Apply the blush to the hollow area formed when sucking in. You'll need 1 foundation that's slightly darker than your skin tone and 1 that's lighter. Swipe the darker foundation along your temples if you have a round face or down the sides of your nose to slim it. Apply the lighter foundation under your eyes, on the center of your forehead, and on the bridge of your nose. Use a makeup sponge or brush to blend the foundations into your face so they look natural and not streaky. When picking your lighter and darker foundations, choose ones that are within 2 to 3 shades of your natural shade. Watch video tutorials online for a step-by-step guide to contouring correctly.
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Slip on a pair of heels to elongate your legs. Make your waist look narrower with long necklaces or belts. Apply self tanner to fake defined muscles. Use blush to highlight your cheekbones. Contour with foundation if you want your face to look thinner.