Possible answers: 1). Start off by saying something like, " i don't want to talk about this, but i'm afraid i will. Can you help me figure out what to do? " Identify triggers for self harm.. 2). You can also talk to your significant other in public if you live together in a more controlled area. Your significant other may notice the change in the way you act and intervene in a manner that improves.. 3). An area where you can talk without distractions is ideal. You can also also try asking friends, family members, and co-workers where your private place is.. 4). You may also talk to your significant other in a place that you both like to go to together, such as a park near your home or a quiet spot outdoors. Pick a place where both you and your partner will feel comfortable and safe..Choose from options above and answer: What most naturally follows?

How to act when your significant other finds out you self harm
Find a quiet, private place to talk.
You should try talking to your significant other about your self harm habits face to face, preferably in a quiet, private spot. This may be at your home or the home you share together in a neutral spot, such as the kitchen or the living room.
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