Q: People rarely get opportunities where they can be unapologetic about how they talk about themselves. Giving them the floor to talk about themselves is a way to learn more about them and allows you to be more interesting by being interested in them. Ask open ended questions that delve into the person's past and present. Find out their career ambitions, their hobbies, and what they enjoy about life. Also ask about their love lives. Sometimes inquiring about a person's dating life is one of the things that hint towards you being interested in them as more than a friend. Friends don't tend to ask you about your last relationship and what went wrong. Recalling the moments you have shared together in a way that feels intimate creates a flirting dynamic between you two. Talk about how you met online, in line at the coffee shop, or in study group for class. Take the time to recap an attribute that made you notice him or her by saying something like, "Your smile took my breath away." If you have been out with him or her before, mention a detail of an outfit you've seen them wear before and mention how it made you feel watching them in it: "You had that amazing sundress on that day and it had me looking at you like, wow." Flirting can come with a lot of sexual undertones. Use them to your advantage in subtle ways like casually mentioning that you just got out of the shower, or if you're asked what you're wearing, state some boxers or a t-shirt. Say their names purposefully. When you know someone, you very rarely refer to them directly by their names. In a husky voice, say their first name. It will personalize the conversation and make them think about you saying their names in other places. It will make their heart race slightly. Diffuse the tension a little by laughing and joking saying, "Don't go getting any ideas!" It's a way to play with the sexual tension without fueling it to a point you aren't ready for just yet. Have setting an official date or plans to hang out act as a natural stopping point for the conversation, that way things are left on a high note and the conversation doesn't go on and on and on until it hits a plateau. Think back on mutual likes to figure out a good date idea for the two of you.
A: Encourage them to talk about themselves. Touch on past shared experiences. Keep things clean, but don't be afraid to get a little naughty. Ask him or her out on a date.

Q: The pencil skirt starts at the waist and ends just above the knee. It is fitted, tapering down to the knees, and has clean, tailored lines. They are perfect for formal occasions, including office settings. Here are some chic outfit ideas: Pair a black pencil skirt with a black, fitted shirt. Add a wide, vibrant belt for a pop of color. For a romantic look, pair your skirt with a blouse in a contrasting color. If you want something more classic, pair a black pencil skirt with a white blouse. Add a wide, red belt and red pumps for that final touch. Denim skirts have a similar shape to pencil skirts, but they are a little less fitted. They go with just about anything, from tanks to tees to button-downs. The color options for tops are limitless. You can go classic with a white blouse, or you can wear a vibrant color for something more unusual. Graphic tee shirts and blouses with patterns also pair well with denim skirts. For something punky, layer your shirts. Try a loose, graphic tee over a fitted, striped button-up blouse. A dark-colored denim skirt will look the best with this. For a summertime look, pair a denim skirt with a white-and-blue striped blouse. For a dressier look, pair the skirt with a white or ivory blouse and a pair of wedges. A-line skirts tend to look good on most people, so you can't go wrong with this classic shape. It is fitted at the waist, then flares out, ending just below the knees. If you want to be bold and daring, pair a patterned A-line skirt with top that has thick, bold stripes. Make sure that the skirt and shirt have at least one matching color. If you want something more subtle, pair 2 different solid colors together. You can also pair a patterned skirt with a solid-colored shirt. It is similar to an A-line in that it is fitted at the waist and flares out, except that it has much more volume to it. It is perfect for twirling in and goes great with belts and button-down blouses. It is typically around knee-length, but it can be shorter or longer as well. For a chic look, try a black fit-and-flare skirt with a fitted shirt, pumps, and statement jewelry. For something more casual, pair the skirt with a button-up blouse, preferably denim.
A: Choose a pencil skirt if you want a classic, streamlined silhouette. Keep it casual with denim. Try an A-line skirt if you can't seem to find anything that fits. Add a feminine touch with a fit-and-flare skirt.

Q: Finely chop up fresh lemon balm and sprinkle it on a fruit or green, leafy salad. Lemon balm is versatile and you can use it on any salad that could use a soft, lemony flavor. Get creative! Add fresh leaves to any salsa recipe for an interesting flavor twist. Substitute cilantro with finely chopped lemon balm. Make a homemade tartar sauce out of mayonnaise and relish. Add finely chopped lemon balm leaves for a minty, lemon zing. Lemon balm complements many pastries. Use it in place of lemon peel in cheesecake, muffin and cookie recipes. Finely chop a bunch of leaves and mix them with butter, salt and pepper. Rub the mixture on a chicken breast or place it under the skin of a whole one. Add more fresh leaves to a whole chicken by stuffing the cavity.
A: Sprinkle fresh leaves on salads. Use it in salsa. Add lemon balm to tartar sauce. Use it in place of lemon peel. Season chicken with fresh leaves.

Q: When talking to someone who believes in God, don't spend the entire conversation waiting to argue your point of view. Instead, be present for the conversation by listening actively and constructively. When someone tells you something, paraphrase what they just said to show you understand. Ask questions to move the conversation forward, instead of letting it stall out. Be empathetic and acknowledge the other person's feelings. Sometimes, different people have different definitions of what God actually is. Before you engage in a conversation with someone who believes in God, make sure you're both defining God in the same way. Ask the person you're talking with to clarify what their God entails before getting into a theological discussion. Check in at different points in the conversation to make sure you're still on the same page. This will prevent you from arguing over one another. Regardless of how persuasive your argument is, the person you're talking with is probably not going to leave the conversation an atheist. Treat your conversation like a religious exploration and you may both leave having learned something new. Ask questions that challenge your partner's beliefs, but do so because you're interested, not because you're trying to trip them up. If the other person makes a good point, tell them. Learning about God should not be a competition.
A:
Practice active listening. Make sure you're both defining God the same way. Have a collaborative conversation, not a confrontation.