It 's hard when your first memories are of fits of rage , having to hide under your bed and separation . I have never looked for pity because of what I ' ve seen and been through . I have only recently began to have thoughts about marriage and my own children .

Question with options to choose from: What is a likely cause for the speaker 's first memories to be ones of rage ?
Choose your answer from:
-They were upset with their parents because they never let them have ice cream
-Unpleasant things happened , that invoked emotions that are not very fun to remember
-They were n't allowed to get the dog that they wanted because their father was allergic
-None of the above choices .
Unpleasant things happened , that invoked emotions that are not very fun to remember