INDIANAPOLIS, IN COLUMBUS, OH MEMPHIS, TN ST. LOUIS, MO MOVING & CHILDREN HOME ABOUT US PRODUCTS & SERVICES LOCATIONS MOVING RESOURCES WHY CHOOSE US CONTACT REQUEST A QUOTE Moving to a new home can be stressful for everyone, but especially for children. Younger kids often become confused when their daily routine is disrupted, while adolescents fear the loss of old friends and dread the prospect of having to make new ones in a strange school or neighborhood. But there are steps you can take to help alleviate their fears and get them involved in the move. COMMUNICATE First, it's important for parents to demystify the moving process by providing children with as much information as possible and allowing them to participate in decision-making discussions. This will give children a sense of control and help relieve anxiety. Talk about the positive aspects of their new home, school and neighborhood. Encourage questions and invite children to talk about their worries. REHEARSE For younger children, the move should be made into an exciting adventure. Encourage your child to pack his or her own things, but be sure to leave favorite toys out until the very end. Because we all fear the unknown, if possible, take children with you to look at potential neighborhoods, homes/apartments, and schools. If this is not possible, take a camera or video recorder with you when you go. Your children will appreciate the photos and/or video that you bring back, and it will help them begin the transition. MAKE IT FUN For older children, a move that involves leaving friends, sports teams and favorite hangouts behind can be extremely difficult. Help them say good-bye to friends by hosting a good-bye party. Emphasize how easy it is to keep in touch through e-mail and the telephone; you could even give each of your children his or her own address book and make the party an opportunity for friends to write in their personal contact information. Give older children a disposable camera and ask them to photograph your move. Once you arrive and are settled in, make time together to create the "moving" chapter of your family photo album. Have your kids draw a picture of how they will arrange their new room. If at all possible, time the move to coincide with the start of a new school year or term. Contact coaches and club advisors at the new school and ask them to assist your child with the transition. GET BACK TO STATUS QUO When you are settled in your new home, resume familiar routines as soon as possible. If it is a tradition in your family to watch cartoons on Saturday mornings, for example, you should continue the practice as soon as possible in your new home. IT'S O.K. TO CRY Finally, don't take it personally if your children blame you for the difficulty of a move. No matter how well you've prepared them, expect them to be a little upset and allow them some time to grieve. They will almost certainly grow to love their new home just as much as the old one. Moving Maze Activity MOVING RESOURCES How To Guides Moving Blog Moving and Children Your Rights and Responsibilities High Value Inventory and Customer Responsibility Search MAIN MENU Home About us Products & Services Locations Moving Resources Why Choose Us Contact Request a Quote CONTACT US Indianapolis, IN Columbus, OH Memphis, TN St. Louis, MO SOCIAL MEDIA Facebook Twitter TM & © 2021 AWGI LLC Accredited by BBB® of the Mid-South (Memphis, TN office) Accredited by BBB® serving Central Ohio (Columbus, OH office) Accredited by BBB® Serving Central Indiana (Indy, IN office) Accredited by BBB® Serving E. Missouri & S. Illinois (St. Louis, MO office) About Atlas Atlas Van Lines, Inc. U.S. DOT No. 125550 Copyright 2021. All rights reserved. SHARE