MENU CALL HOME FUNERAL PLANNING RESOURCES & SUPPORT SHOW YOUR SUPPORT Support Family and Friends Losing a loved one is one of the hardest things many of us will ever face. Dealing with death is difficult, and grief can sometimes be overwhelming. Each person grieves in his or her unique way, and determining the best way to show your support to someone who is grieving can be tough. What’s the best way to convey your sincere sympathy? How can you show you care in a meaningful, appropriate and comforting way? There are all kinds of ways to show that you care. Sympathy cards, condolence messages, flowers or plants, food and small gifts are a few ways to express support. Attending a funeral or memorial service to offer condolences in person is another meaningful action. If you need assistance finding an appropriate gift or crafting the right words, your Dignity Memorial® professionals can help. We’ve put together a list of resources to help you choose the best way to show your sympathy and support. Ways to show sympathy Whether you want to write a letter, share a favorite memory or simply provide a listening ear to someone who has suffered a loss, the most important thing is to be heartfelt and sincere. Sending flowers or a gift, or attending a memorial service can be other ways to show your sympathy. Ongoing support in the weeks and months following the service lets someone know you care and are there to lend assistance whenever it's needed. LEARN MORE What to say when someone dies It can be hard to know what to say to someone who is grieving. It’s easy to feel like there are no words that will truly offer solace, but simply saying, “I’m here for you,” or “I’m so sorry,” can be enough. If you’re more comfortable letting actions speak for you, you can convey your condolences by attending the funeral, sending a gift or taking a meal to the family. LEARN MORE What to write in a sympathy card It’s common to send a sympathy card to the family or close friends at a time of loss, but often it's hard to know exactly what to say. We have tips on what to write and what to avoid when sending a sympathy card. LEARN MORE Honor them with flowers Show your support with a beautiful and lasting floral arrangement from Cemetery Flowers. Our exclusive cemetery floral placement service makes it easier than ever. You pick the arrangement and delivery schedule, and our professional staff hand-places your selection at the memorial site. You'll even receive a photo of your placed arrangement to share with friends and family. LEARN MORE FUNERAL ETIQUETTE What to wear to a funeral LEARN MORE ABOUT US Comforting those who grieve LEARN MORE EULOGY Writing a eulogy LEARN MORE TRADITIONS Religious and cultural traditions LEARN MORE HEALING RESOURCES Grief Library ACCESS THE LIBRARY Related Content Understanding grave opening and closing fees Military Funeral Honors First 24 Hours TAGS ADVICE A DEATH HAS OCCURRED OR IS NEAR ABOUT US CONTACT US CAREERS PRIVACY POLICY TERMS OF SERVICE ACCESSIBILITY DO NOT CALL © 2021 SCI SHARED RESOURCES, LLC. ALL RIGHTS RESERVED This site is provided as a service of SCI Shared Resources, LLC. The Dignity Memorial brand name is used to identify a network of licensed funeral, cremation and cemetery providers that include affiliates of Service Corporation International, 1929 Allen Parkway, Houston, Texas. With over 2,000 locations, Dignity Memorial providers proudly serve over 375,000 families a year.