user: Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and an associated claim about its type, verify if the claim is true or not. The claim asks if the posts are historical or hypothetical. The posts are "HISTORICAL" when the author has already done something and they are "HYPOTHETICAL" when the author is considering doing something in the future. Say 'yes' if the claim is true otherwise say 'no'
Example: CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : Background: I have ocd and the only contamination issue I have is around food. Both parents know this. What has lead me to ask this question is this mornings reaction from parent B.

This morning parent b offered to make me breakfast, I responded how I always do: that’s very kind but I’m happy to come make it myself. Parent b said it was no trouble. I accepted. Two slices of toast came and apu I check the toast for signs of mould. First piece had no issues, I ate it. Second piece however had something green growing on the edge. I cut this bit off but I couldn’t shake in my head that the whole piece must be contaminated and so I took the toast back and apologised that I couldn’t eat it cos of the mould and we checked the date on the bread and it said the 30th December. Nearly a week past its best before. Parent b apologised and we threw it away. No drama.

Nearly identical situation occurred about 6 months ago with parent a. Parent a offered to make me a toasted sandwich. I said that would be very kind but I was happy to make it myself. Parent a said it was no problem, I accepted. When the sandwich came I checked the bread for mould and found green and white stuff growing down one side of the bread. I take it back to the kitchen and explain that it has mould and I’m sorry but I can’t eat it. I will make myself something else. Parent a goes ballistic. I’m “ungrateful and don’t trust them and did I really think they’d feed me mould?” I pointed out the mould- clearly visible. “Well someone must’ve not sealed the bread package properly (ie me) and that’s how it got mouldy.” I asked if parent a had checked the date and that just seemed to escalate their reaction. They stormed out screaming and crying. I checked the bread date and it was 2 or 3 days past the best before.

Aita in either situation? Parent a’s reaction made me think I was. But now I’ve had the same situation with parent b and they didn’t get angry or pissed off maybe I wasn’t the asshole? Obviously I think I need to just make my own food. Then I can’t cause trouble.
Example solution: yes
Example explanation: The post clearly mentions an event in the past when the author asked some questions to his/her parents and also describes about their reactions on that day. Hence this should be HISTORICAL.

Problem: CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : Me and this friend were talking when I mentioned eyeliner and how annoying it is to apply and wash off (normal makeup wipes don’t work u g h) when he suddenly says I can have my mum help apply it. I was about to reply that she sucks at makeup when he jokingly said «or dad :)» and my mood instantly dropped. 

My father is the worst human I have ever had to deal with. He has given me anxiety attacks several times and hardly ever apologizes. On one occation an anxiety attack had me screaming at the top of my lungs for him to get out of my room and then it took days before I was back to normal. Can you guess why? He started shouting and berating at me because I refused to eat and clean a pizza he dropped in *my* room... Yah. Btw DON’T give advice on my dad, okay? Please. 

 So I instantly reply «my dad is a fucking asshole and I wish he was dead» (100% true) and I immideately apologize. I say «Sorry. I just hate him.» hoping to not make it too awkward while also obvious that I don’t wanna talk about him. He says «wow rude» and theeeen we go back and forth a lot. He continues to call me rude and I finally snap and say «I will fucking block you if you ever tell me I’m rude to my dad again. I’m fucking serious.» I even warned him beforehand and said «You have no idea what you’re delving yourself into.» (seriously talking about my dad to me is dangerous if you wanna stay on my good side) 

So he finally stops calling me rude but says I hurt him by threatening to block him. I know I did. I really feel bad for that, but it’s 1 am and I was really really not in the mood to talk about him, especially when someone who doesn’t know anything about our relationship calls me rude for hating my father. I don’t know if I would’ve blocked him, it was more of a half threat to show how I can get pissed very easily if you talk about my father. 

AITA? Or is he? Or is no one?


assistant: Solution: yes