user: Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and a question asks if AUTHOR, NOBODY, EVERYBODY, or OTHER is wrong in the situation. Answer the question and classify your answers into yes or no.

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Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : I want to clarify: my best friend, I'll call her P, since 1st grade (we're 21 now) and I made close friends with 2 other girls in college, who i will call M and S. All of us had plans to get an apartment together last semester but i sadly had to drop out of school due to health issues. They all got a 3 person apartment though so I'm still able to spend the night occasionally and hang out with them. I've been going through a very, very difficult point in my life and i have told P everything about it and constantly update her on stuff. 
She texts me today and tells me to guess what she's doing for spring break, and I say what? She responds saying that S's aunt and uncle invited her and her ROOMMATES to florida for spring break. I was immediately CRUSHED. i told her i wish she didnt tell me that but she said it'd be weirder if she didn't tell me, and i guess she has a point. I immediately said im super happy for her and stuff and that she deserves to go. But now i'm crying because my health issues have held me back from COUNTLESS adventures in life and if i had just stayed in school I would be planning a trip to Florida with all my friends right now. AITA for being upset about this? Was she being insensitive or thoughtful?

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yes


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Is AUTHOR wrong in the post ? POST : So I was chatting with her last night and she sent me a picture of something she had drawn. She had said in previous pictures that she couldn't quite get the eyes right. So I said that her current drawing has improved and the facial placements look better. In response she said I was being rude and that saying that she was getting much better was patronising because she didn't ask for an opinion and it makes it sound like she's not very good. She said she gets a bit touchy about her art and regretted not pursuing a career on it. And when people criticise it, she doesn't need it.

I apologised for if it came off as negative as it wasn't what was intended, but thinking back on it, is it really my problem if someone is touchy about something? And especially if she criticised her own drawings to begin with. I don't know, I just think it was uncalled for and she made the worst assumption. She did say afterwards that it's hard to interpret what messages mean but I'm sure that could be taken the wrong way in person.

Thoughts?

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no


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Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : I have an 8-week-old daughter who is the best thing that’s ever happened to me. Overall my wife and I have adjusted really well to our lives as new parents. 

The one issue is diaper changing. I have an embarrassingly week stomach. I told my wife before we even started trying for a baby that I can’t do diapers. I think she didn’t take me seriously or thought I would feel differently with my own kid. But I do not feel differently. Obviously I will change her if I am the only one around (which hasn’t really been the case yet because my wife hasn’t really spent any time away from the baby yet, which I get). It’s just not something I want to be a primary responsibility for me. 

For context, my wife is an RN but she isn’t working right now. I work full time, so my wife takes on more of the household labor but I pitch in a lot too, especially because the baby has us both tired. I will do feedings and baths and all of that and I don’t mind any of it. And I love spending time with my daughter, of course. 

My wife hasn’t made a huge fuss about it but she does make some passive aggressive remarks and “jokes” about the fact that I don’t change her. I don’t want this to become a point of resentment. But I also don’t think it’s that serious if this one task is delegated (almost) solely to her? 

Alright, judge away, I guess. 


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assistant: no