user: Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and a question asks if AUTHOR, NOBODY, EVERYBODY, or OTHER is wrong in the situation. Answer the question and classify your answers into yes or no.

[EX Q]: Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST :   I'm on mobile so sorry for bad formatting.

  I am a big guy (200pounds) and in 9th grade. My classmate (Let's call him Sid). He is like 130 pounds but he is taller than me. Sid thinks he can bully me so he kicked me from my behind. I was mad so I kicked him back. He then called me names and started pushing me and told me to fuck off. He kicked me again so I pushed him and kicked him too. Then I leg-sweeped him very fast and he fell on his back. He wasn't injured but he was sad and sat alone near the window. I think I shouldn't have done it, but he always acts up and wants to be cool when he's not. 

  So am I the asshole? 
 
  
[EX A]: yes

[EX Q]: Is NOBODY wrong in the post ? POST : My mother has recently had an operation on her shoulder and asked me if I could walk our dog in the mornings, a job which she normally does. Of course I’d love to do it, but I have a fear of going outside on some days. It sometimes gets to a point where I can’t leave the house to go shopping or hold a steady job. I’ve told her about it before but she just thinks I’m faking it to get out of doing stuff and paying my way through life.

I’m more worried for the dog’s sake that if my mental health gets the better of me one day, nobody is going to walk him, so do I have to grin and bear it anyway? It doesn’t help that the last time I walked him, he barked at 2 pit bulls who jumped on him and would have mauled him if I hadn’t had him on the lead to pull him away.

Of course this isn’t a case where I don’t want to walk my dog, it’s more “sometimes I’m too scared to leave the house by myself, let alone while I charge of an animal.”
[EX A]: yes

[EX Q]: Is OTHER wrong in the post ? POST : My Girlfriend (22) and I (24) have known eachother for 3 years, we've dated on and off during that time, but only now has it been pretty serious. When we started going out I knew her family was somewhat dificult. Specifically her mother. (Her Father is deceased)  


My GF likes to boast about her independence, but at the same time, she is heavily influenced by her mother on things such as how she spends her money and what plans she makes. I have a faint suspicion that her mom is rather manipulative towards her.  


It has been a common ocurrance that we make plans several days in advance and she'll cancel a few hours before just because her mom got an idea to do something. I understand that sometimes plans have to be modified, but this happens at least once a week and honestly, Im sick of it.   


I've talked to her about it in gentle terms using careful language. She understands this bothers me (A lot). I do not like being a "slave" to the wimbs of her capricious mother. I'm starting to resent the "participation" her mother has on our relationship. She is very attached to her family, and I feel bad for basically making her choose between her family and myself at times. I support her in her love for her family, but I don't want it to be a crutch in our relationship.  


Am I The Asshole for being bothered by this?
[EX A]:

assistant: yes