user: Part 1. Definition
Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and an associated claim about its type, verify if the claim is true or not. The claim asks if the posts are historical or hypothetical. The posts are "HISTORICAL" when the author has already done something and they are "HYPOTHETICAL" when the author is considering doing something in the future. Say 'yes' if the claim is true otherwise say 'no'
Part 2. Example
CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : Background: I have ocd and the only contamination issue I have is around food. Both parents know this. What has lead me to ask this question is this mornings reaction from parent B.

This morning parent b offered to make me breakfast, I responded how I always do: that’s very kind but I’m happy to come make it myself. Parent b said it was no trouble. I accepted. Two slices of toast came and apu I check the toast for signs of mould. First piece had no issues, I ate it. Second piece however had something green growing on the edge. I cut this bit off but I couldn’t shake in my head that the whole piece must be contaminated and so I took the toast back and apologised that I couldn’t eat it cos of the mould and we checked the date on the bread and it said the 30th December. Nearly a week past its best before. Parent b apologised and we threw it away. No drama.

Nearly identical situation occurred about 6 months ago with parent a. Parent a offered to make me a toasted sandwich. I said that would be very kind but I was happy to make it myself. Parent a said it was no problem, I accepted. When the sandwich came I checked the bread for mould and found green and white stuff growing down one side of the bread. I take it back to the kitchen and explain that it has mould and I’m sorry but I can’t eat it. I will make myself something else. Parent a goes ballistic. I’m “ungrateful and don’t trust them and did I really think they’d feed me mould?” I pointed out the mould- clearly visible. “Well someone must’ve not sealed the bread package properly (ie me) and that’s how it got mouldy.” I asked if parent a had checked the date and that just seemed to escalate their reaction. They stormed out screaming and crying. I checked the bread date and it was 2 or 3 days past the best before.

Aita in either situation? Parent a’s reaction made me think I was. But now I’ve had the same situation with parent b and they didn’t get angry or pissed off maybe I wasn’t the asshole? Obviously I think I need to just make my own food. Then I can’t cause trouble.
Answer: yes
Explanation: The post clearly mentions an event in the past when the author asked some questions to his/her parents and also describes about their reactions on that day. Hence this should be HISTORICAL.
Part 3. Exercise
CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : Hello everyone, I just wanted to get some outside opinions on something that happened a few weeks ago. 

My fiancé and I have been together for about 3 1/2 years, lived together for a little over a year, and he is a gem. His brother however, not so much. He is frequently racist, sexist, homophobic, and generally rude. He can’t handle being called out on any of this behavior, and it often results in tears  or agitation if I try. 

My fiancé knows how I feel about his brother, and feels the same way about a lot of it, but feels like I should be able to just put up with it as he is family. He also says that when we are married, he will take my side in any arguments that arise, but for now, he is staying neutral. This culminated a few weeks ago as my fiancé let his brother stay with us for a weekend. 

It is important to note that the weekend he stayed is the weekend of a music festival we go to every year in our city, and he has stayed with my fiancé in the past every year. I have as well, so I have put up with him over this weekend in the past few years. Two of the years, it has coincided with my birthday, and this year was one of those years. 

I told my fiancé for months leading up to this that I was very nervous about it, and he insisted that he was family and he would not ask him to stay elsewhere. When the weekend came around, his brother was his usual self (using gay slurs and ignoring/talking over us, me in particular as I am a woman and he does not like women, being generally racist and sexist) as well as being a terrible houseguest. For example, leaving pubes in our bathtub and sleeping on our bare couch in his underwear after refusing to put down a sheet that we provided, as well as not letting us use our own couch throughout the day as he would not stop laying on it. 

I have very bad anxiety, and having this type of stress in my home, which is typically my safe space to escape from everything, was making things very difficult for me. I had a few crying meltdowns in the privacy of our bedroom, and wasn’t able to eat towards the end of the weekend as I was so anxious. On the last day, my fiancé asked me what was wrong, and I told him his brother was making me anxious, and that even though he didn’t want to choose sides between us, he absolutely had that weekend, and it wasn’t mine. He then got very angry, told his brother his presence was making me anxious, and his brother got upset and left in tears.

My fiancé was very angry at me, as he thought I should have been able to suck it up, and that I ruined the weekend and music festival for them, and was upset he had to say that to his brother, even though I did not ask him to, in fact asked him to do the opposite. He has said he won’t let his brother stay with us in the future because of this. 

AITA for not being able to handle being around my fiancé’s brother for the weekend, and upsetting him and his brother? 
Answer:

assistant: yes