user: Given a post that is a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation and an associated claim about its type, verify if the claim is true or not. The claim asks if the posts are historical or hypothetical. The posts are "HISTORICAL" when the author has already done something and they are "HYPOTHETICAL" when the author is considering doing something in the future. Say 'yes' if the claim is true otherwise say 'no'
One example: CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : Background: I have ocd and the only contamination issue I have is around food. Both parents know this. What has lead me to ask this question is this mornings reaction from parent B.

This morning parent b offered to make me breakfast, I responded how I always do: that’s very kind but I’m happy to come make it myself. Parent b said it was no trouble. I accepted. Two slices of toast came and apu I check the toast for signs of mould. First piece had no issues, I ate it. Second piece however had something green growing on the edge. I cut this bit off but I couldn’t shake in my head that the whole piece must be contaminated and so I took the toast back and apologised that I couldn’t eat it cos of the mould and we checked the date on the bread and it said the 30th December. Nearly a week past its best before. Parent b apologised and we threw it away. No drama.

Nearly identical situation occurred about 6 months ago with parent a. Parent a offered to make me a toasted sandwich. I said that would be very kind but I was happy to make it myself. Parent a said it was no problem, I accepted. When the sandwich came I checked the bread for mould and found green and white stuff growing down one side of the bread. I take it back to the kitchen and explain that it has mould and I’m sorry but I can’t eat it. I will make myself something else. Parent a goes ballistic. I’m “ungrateful and don’t trust them and did I really think they’d feed me mould?” I pointed out the mould- clearly visible. “Well someone must’ve not sealed the bread package properly (ie me) and that’s how it got mouldy.” I asked if parent a had checked the date and that just seemed to escalate their reaction. They stormed out screaming and crying. I checked the bread date and it was 2 or 3 days past the best before.

Aita in either situation? Parent a’s reaction made me think I was. But now I’ve had the same situation with parent b and they didn’t get angry or pissed off maybe I wasn’t the asshole? Obviously I think I need to just make my own food. Then I can’t cause trouble.
Solution is here: yes
Explanation: The post clearly mentions an event in the past when the author asked some questions to his/her parents and also describes about their reactions on that day. Hence this should be HISTORICAL.

Now, solve this: CLAIM : The following post is HISTORICAL. POST : He bought me three small presents for my birthday that I never asked for nor wanted. Its really awkward and weird.

5 months ago, I broke up with my ex and he has taken it really hard.  

It was my first breakup and I was naive thinking that he would get over me quickly and we could be friends again. I texted him saying I was open to talk about the break up and listen to him.

That was my first mistake because I led him to believe that there was still hope and I was giving him a ledge to hang on. When he began to get too clingy and desperate, I cut off communication but he didn't take it very well. I finally decided to talk to him. He basically complained that things weren't  the same. After that, I never wanted to talk about it again.

Also, about two weeks after we broke up, he bought my mom a birthday gift which I thought was weird, because he never even tried to have a good relationship with my mom and he didn't do it last year when we were dating. 

He also came to my house uninvited to give me garden tomatoes and then complained afterwards that I wasn't "excited" enough to get the tomatoes? (WTF)

After, things settled down and I slowly stopped replying as much to his texts. He was always the first one to text me. Then I started texting back because I felt bad, but we didn't talk much.

Then I found out my ex looked through my friend's private messages between him and me without permission. He saw the messages where I was ranting to my friend about what a pain in the ass my ex is. My friend told me not to tell my ex. I felt very violated of my privacy and I felt I couldn't trust any of my mutual friends.

Then his best friend texted me and said he is self harming and I felt bad so I texted him and told him he needed help and i was here for support. He said he wanted to be friends and he though I was uncomfortable texting him. I lied and said I wasn't, I was just busy. 

This was another mistake I made. Im afraid I enable him to self-victimize because I seem to pay attention when he does this. He always acts out in an inane and childish way when I'm around. 

We had an alumni day at my high school and I hung out with my HS group which includes my and my ex's mutual friends. After my ex left, I was talking to his friend and said I was meeting up with a guy friend at the train station. After I left, my ex asked what we talked about and his friend thought I was meeting up with my boyfriend. I found out from my ex's friend that my ex became paranoid and it was eating him up to find out who it was and if it was true. The ex's friend told me not to tell anyone.

At this point, I felt like my privacy was violated and I decided that I wanted to stop contact with him because it was clear he still not moving on. But I couldn't do it out of the blue since I promised I wouldnt tell about what happened. From that point on, he was always texting me and I always responded curtly. He's sent a long Thanksgiving text about him being thankful for me and I replied just saying Thank you and Happy Thanksgiving. 

Then he sent me the presents. Honestly afraid he'll come to my college campus when I stop replying to his texts.

Am I in the wrong? Am I an asshole for wanting nothing to do with him even though he's in emotional pain?
Solution:

assistant: yes