Owesilisa noma ibhele

"**Owesilisa noma ibhele**" (ebuya ebizwa nangokuthi "**owesilisa** **vs. ibhele**") iyinkulumo-mpikiswano edumile kwezokuxhumana kanye ` egxile esimweni sabesifazane okufanele besicabangisise: ukuba bangakhetha ukuba bodwa ehlathini nowesilisa noma ibhele. Le-meme isukela ku-video edumile ku-TikTok ye-Screenshot HQ eyathunyelwa ngo-Mbasa 2024. Ukuphakama kwezimpendulo okukhetha ibhele kuhlobene nobudlova obubanzi obukhona kwezenzakalweni zabesifazane.

## Umlando
Le-meme yasukela ku-video ye-TikTok eyanyatheliswa yi-Screenshot HQ ngo-Mbasa 2024 eyaxoxa nabesifazane abayisishiyagalombili ngalo mbuzo, abayisikhombisa babo bakhetha ibhele. I-post yaba yimpaphe futhi yathola ukubukelwa okungaphezu kwezigidi ezingu-16 ezinyangeni ezimbili.

## Ukusabela

### Ukwamukelwa Ku-inthanethi
Ukwamukelwa kwe-video ye-Screenshot HQ kwi-inthanethi  kwahlukaniseka.  Abaningi besifazane baphendula i-meme ngokuthi bengakhetha ibhele. Ezinye yezizathu eziyinhloko zokuthi bakhetha le mpendulo ukuthi abesilisa  kungenzeka ukuthi benze udlame lobulili kubesifazane uma kuqhathaniswa namabhubesi.. Ezinye izimpikiswano ezithandwayo zihlanganisa ukuthi amabhele awakwazi ukwenza izenzo ezimbi kunokubulala, ukuthi abikezela kangcono, nokuthi aphatha abesifazane njengabantu.

Lapho kubuzwa umbuzo ofanayo, amadoda amaningi nawo akhetha ibhele. Amadoda amaningi nawo asabela kabi ekukhetheni okuvamile kwebhele phakathi kwabesifazane.

### Ukuhlaziya kwezintatheli
Ezinye zezintatheli zafanisa ukusabela kwabesifazane abahlanganyela okuhlangenwe nakho kwabo kokuhlasela ku-inthanethio nenhlangano ye-#MeToo. U-Femi Oluwole we-Independent waphikelela ngokuthi inkulumo-mpikiswano yabonisa ukuthi amadoda ayaludinga ulwazi ngezingozi abesifazane ababhekana nazo emphakathini. Izintatheli zaveza amacala ahlukahlukene okubulala afana nelika-Grace Millane kanye no-Futura Junko.

URachel Ulatowski wephephandaba lezokukhuluma i-*UMary Sue* wabiza ukusabela kwamadoda ngemibono yabesifazane abakhetha ibhele ngokuthi "okuyinqaba" futhi "okuhlekisayo" ngenxa yezimpikiswano ezibuthakathaka ngezibalo ezisetshenziswa kabi kanye nezimangalo ze-misandry. Ezinye izintatheli zaziqhathanisa ne-#NotAllMen meme. UClarissa-Jan Lim we-I-MSNBC waphikelela ngokuthi ingxoxo egxile enzondweni yangempela yamabhele iphuthelwa iphuzu, wase ethi "izingozi abesifazane ababhekana nazo ezweni  namadoda.[a]

UWilfred Reilly we*-[[National Review]]* wagxeka izibalo ezithandwa yibhele abantu abahlanganyela kuzo njengesibonelo sokukhohlisa izinga lesisekelo uthe kusakazeke kabanzi kwezombusazwe zanamuhla zaseMelika. UMegan McArdle we- waphikelela ngokuthi lezo zibalo zaziwukudideka kwephutha eliphambene "eliqinisa imibono elimazayo" yabesifazane "abangenangqondo, abangenandaba futhi abangebahle ezibalweni".

### Ifa
Kamuva ngo-Ntulikazi, onomthelela u-Amanda Wylie wabelana nge-video ku-TikTok mayelana nokuhlangana kwakhe nebhele ehlathini. Wayiqhathanisa ne-meme "owesilisa noma ibhele", ethi usazo "khetha ibhele". Ngaphezu kwalokho, onomthelela uSir Carter wabhekisela ku-meme kuyi-TikTok evame kakhulu ye-LGBT maphakathi no-2024.

UKayleigh Donaldson we-*[[Paste]]* wahlobanisa inoveli ethi *[[Bear]]* (1976) UMarian Engel ne-meme. Ngokusho kukaTamlyn Avery we-''The Conversation'', incwadi UJulia Phillips ka-2024 ethi *Bear* ibhekisela enkulumweni-mpikiswano phakathi nesigcawu nomlingiswa osemqoka uSam emngcwabeni womndeni.

## Izibalo
I-World Health Organization ibike ukuthi owesifazane oyedwa kwabathathu ubhekene nobudlova bobulili noma udlame lwesikhumba ngesikhathi sokuphila kwabo, ikakhulukazi abesilisa. Ngokuphambene, kuye kwaba nokuhlaselwa kwamabhele angu-664 eminyakeni eyishumi nanhlanu futhi iningi lawo alibulali, okusho ukuthi ukuhlaselwa kwamabhele akuvamile ukukwenzeka kakhulu. Uchwepheshe wamabhele uJean-Jacques Camarra uthi amabhele aye azungeza abantu, ngakho-ke kungenzeka ukuthi abaleke.

## Izikhombo
Why Do Women Choose To Be Stuck With A Bear Over A Man In The Woods? Debate Over Hypothetical Question Explained | Know Your Meme

https://www.spokesman.com/stories/2024/aug/26/man-vs-bear-viral-debate-over-womens-safety-stirs-/