Emily, Lady Tennyson

**Emily Sarah Tennyson, Baroness Tennyson** ( née **Sellwood** ; 9 ga Yuli 1813 &#x2013; 10 ga Agusta 1896), wacce aka fi sani da **Emily, Lady Tennyson**, ita ce matar mawakiyar Alfred, Lord Tennyson, kuma marubuciya kuma mawakiya a matsayinta na mawaƙiya. Emily ita ce babbar 'ya'ya mata uku, wacce uba ɗaya tilo ya rene ta, bayan mahaifiyarta Sarah ta mutu tana da shekaru uku. Mahaifinta, lauya mai nasara, ya sadaukar da kansa ga ita da 'yan'uwanta mata kuma ya tabbatar da cewa sun sami ilimi mai kyau. Ta haɗu da Alfred tun tana yarinya, amma ba su haɗu da soyayya ba har sai da ɗan'uwansa Charles ya auri 'yar'uwarta Louisa. Shekaru goma sha uku kafin su yi aure, saboda damuwar mahaifinta game da matakin da Tennyson zai iya biya mata akan albashin mawaƙi. Lokacin da aikinsa ya ƙara samun nasara, Emily da Alfred sun yi aure.

Emily ta taka rawa sosai a rayuwar Alfred. Baya ga kasancewarta mata kuma uwar 'ya'ya maza biyu, tana gudanar da manyan gidaje kuma tana gudanar da ayyukan kasuwanci ga mijinta. Ta taka rawar manajan kasuwanci, sakatare, mai tallata kaya, mai nishadantarwa, da kuma mai kare ta. Lafiyarta ta sha wahala bayan haihuwar ɗanta na biyu, kuma damuwa da yawan aiki sun sa lafiyarta ta yi rauni har ta zama nakasasshe. Ta ji daɗin kiɗa kuma ta rubuta wasu waƙoƙin Tennyson, kuma ta rubuta wasu waƙoƙin waƙa. Bayan mutuwar mijinta a 1892, ta yi aiki tare da ɗanta don rubuta tarihin rayuwarsa.

## Rayuwa ta farko
An haifi Emily Sarah Sellwood a ranar 9 ga Yuli, 1813, wataƙila a Market Place, Horncastle, Lincolnshire,    ita ce babbar 'ya'ya mata uku da Sarah (ɗan Franklin, 1788–1816) da Henry Sellwood (1782–1867) suka haifa.

Mahaifinta lauya ne mai wadata, sakatare, kuma manaja wanda ya yi aiki a gidan Tennyson sau da yawa tsawon shekaru; mahaifiyarta ƙanwar wani mai binciken Arctic ne mai suna Sir John Franklin .      Mahaifiyarta ta rasu lokacin da Emily ke da shekaru uku, bayan haka mahaifinta mai himma ya ba wa 'yan matan ilimi mai kyau. 

## Aure

Emily ta fara haɗuwa da Alfred, Lord Tennyson lokacin tana da shekaru tara  ko goma sha shida.  Alfred ya kamu da soyayya da Emily a lokacin auren ɗan'uwansa, Charles, da 'yar'uwarta, Louisa, a watan Mayu na 1836.  Daga baya ya rubuta wasiƙar sonnet game da yadda ya ji a bikin auren 'yan'uwansu, inda Emily ita ce amaryar:

A shekara ta 1837, an yi musu aure. An dakatar da bikin a shekara ta 1840, saboda matsalolin kuɗi  da kuma fargabar mahaifinta game da ikon Tennyson na kula da iyali bisa ga kuɗin shigar mawaƙi.   Aikin Tennyson ya fi nasara a shekarun 1840 kuma an yi musu aure a ranar 13 ga Yuni, 1850.  An yi mata aure tana da shekaru 37.  A wannan shekarar, Alfred ya shahara sosai saboda nasarar *In Memoriam AHH* (1850), kuma kulawar da Alfred da Emily suka nuna ta yi yawa. 

Da farko sun zauna a Twickenham da ke Landan,  sun kafa gidaje a manyan gidaje tare da masu hidima a gida, wataƙila mai araha saboda sadaki daga mahaifinta.  Domin guje wa yaɗa labarai, Tennysons sun ƙaura zuwa Freshwater, Isle of Wight zuwa Farringford House . Emily ta ga gidan a matsayin "wuri mafi soyuwa a duniya", amma suna da baƙi da yawa har ya fi kama da otal.  Baƙinsu sau da yawa suna zama na tsawon makonni, wanda ya tayar da hankalin Alfred saboda hayaniya tsakanin bayi da baƙi. 

Ita ce sakatariyarsa, abokin hulɗarsa ta kasuwanci, mai gyara rubutu, kuma manajan kuɗi.  Philip Larkin ya bayyana Emily a matsayin matar da ke bayan mutumin - ita ce ke kula da harkokin kasuwancinsa, tana kula da gidansa, tana kula da kuma ilmantar da 'ya'yansa, tana karɓar baƙi, kuma tana kare shi - yayin da yake rubuta waƙa.   Wasiƙunta suna ba da haske game da iyawarta ta shugabanci da ƙaunar mijinta. A zamanin yau, aikinta ga mijinta za a ɗauke shi na mace 'yar kasuwa. 

Sun haifi 'ya'ya maza biyu, Hallam, wanda aka haifa a Twickenham a ranar 11 ga Agusta 1852, da kuma Lionel, wanda aka haifa a Farringford House a ranar 16 ga Maris 1854.   Bayan haihuwar ɗanta na biyu, ta kamu da rashin lafiya mai sauƙi. 

Lokacin da Alfred ba ya nan, Julia Margaret Cameron ta ziyarci Emily a Farringford. Julia ta yi tunanin Emily a matsayin "raƙuman soyayya masu rai waɗanda tushensu ba ya bushewa."  Coventry Patmore ya bayyana ta a matsayin mai noma, mai ban sha'awa 'amma hankalinta koyaushe yana kama da zurfi fiye da yadda take noma, kuma zuciyarta koyaushe tana da zurfi fiye da tunaninta, - ko kuma ta zama babban abin da ke cikin tunaninta." 

## Kiɗa da rubutu
Mawakiya, Emily ta yi amfani da baiwarta wajen sanya wasu daga cikin waƙoƙinsa su zama waƙoƙi.  Ta rubuta waƙoƙin *Allah Mai Girma, wanda ya san buƙatun kowane mutum*  da kuma *O duk da haka mun amince da hakan ta wata hanya mai kyau* .  Emily da ɗanta Hallam sun rubuta tarihin rayuwar Tennyson.  

## Shekarun da suka biyo baya da mutuwa
Da shigewar lokaci, nauyin da ke kanta ya yi matuƙar takura har ya raunana lafiyarta. Ta yi marmarin lokaci "na karatu da tunani, don dawo da sassaucin tunanin mutum, yanzu kamar baka da ya lalace ta hanyar dogon lanƙwasawa". Ta zama marar lafiya  kuma ba ta iya yin nishaɗi ko yin ayyukan gudanarwa da sakatare ba, kamar yadda ta yi a baya. Wannan ta wata hanya albarka ce ga Alfred, inda su biyun suka yi ritaya. Duk da haka, ta sami damar ba shi ta'aziyya lokacin da yake cikin damuwa.

Alfred ya mutu a shekara ta 1892.  An binne shi a Westminster Abbey a kusurwar Poets .  Emily Tennyson ta mutu a ranar 10 ga Agusta, 1896 a Aldworth .   An binne ta a Cocin All Saints, Freshwater, Isle of Wight. 

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