Women Don't Owe You Pretty

**Women Don't Owe You Pretty** littafi ne na 2020 na mai fafutuka da mai zane-zane na Burtaniya Florence Given . A kan batun mata masu tsinkaye, Given ya rubuta game da dangantaka, siffar jiki da girman kai ga mata. Littafin ya sayar da kwafin 100,000 a cikin watanni shida na bugawa kuma an jera shi a cikin jerin sunayen mafi kyawun The Sunday Times na makonni goma sha biyu a jere, ya kai matsayi na biyu.

## Tarihi
Mawallafi Florence Given mai zane ne kuma mai fafutuka, mai aiki a dandalin kafofin sada zumunta na Instagram .  Tana da shekaru 21 a lokacin da aka saki littafin. Given marubuci ne kuma mai zane-zane. Ta ce ta yi niyya da littafin don "da fatan sanya wasu ramuka a cikin  bangon" cewa mata "suna buƙatar maza, tabbatar da su da samfuran da suke siyar mana don sa mu yi kama da 'mafi kyau'", tana mai cewa "babban shugabanci na jari-hujja yana buƙatar mu kasance masu biyayya da rashin tsaro ta wannan hanyar".[the] Ta fahimci cewa zai sa masu karatu "neman sabon matakin ƙauna ga kansu". Given ya sami wahalar rubuta babi game da yardar rai da al'adun fyade, yana cewa "abu ɗaya [mata] da suke da shi shi ne cewa kusan kowane ɗayanmu maza sun yi masa fyade ko cin zarafin jima'i".

A watan Satumbar 2019, an ba da sanarwar cewa Cassell - wani alama na Octopus Publishing Group - ya sami haƙƙin littafin. An buga shi a ranar 11 ga Yuni 2020.  Saboda annobar COVID-19, Given ta ba da labarin littafin daga gidanta. Given ta fara kamfen na Instagram a watan Agustan 2020, lokacin da take da kusan rabin mabiya miliyan, tana ƙarfafa masu amfani su sanya hotuna na kansu suna riƙe da littafinta. Waterstones ya fitar da sa hannu "bugawa ta zinariya" a ƙarshen 2020.   Octopus Publishing Group ta fara kamfen ɗin tallan 'yan tawaye a Birmingham, London da Manchester, da kuma kafofin sada zumunta, a watan Disamba na 2020. 

Chidera Eggerue, wacce aka nakalto a bangon gaba na fitowar farko kuma an ambaci ta a matsayin tasiri, ta soki shi kamar yadda ya yi kama da littattafanta (What a Time to Be Alone da How to Get Over a Boy) a cikin salon da abun ciki. Ta yi jayayya cewa wannan misali ne na ra'ayoyi daga al'ummar baƙar fata da masu rubutun fari ke amfani da su don riba. Eggerue ta kuma soki Google don nuna aikin Given tare da ko sama da nata ga masu karatu da yawa waɗanda suka bincika "littafin Chidera Eggerue", "littafan mata masu baƙar fata" ko makamantansu. Amsar da aka ba da ga maganganun Eggerue ta haɗa da bayanin bayar da wani ɓangare na littafinta ga ƙungiyoyin agaji na 'yanci. Eggerue bai gamsu da amsar Given ba.

## Bayani game da shi
Ta hanyar ruwan tabarau na mata da kuma nazarin hakkoki na zamantakewa, Given ya tattauna batutuwa da suka hada da ingantaccen jiki da girman kai, yarda a cikin dangantaka, aiki na motsin rai, misogyny na ciki, masturbation, microaggressions, fyade al'adun kunya. Littafin ya ƙunshi jerin sunayen bincike da tambayoyi ga mai karatu ya yi la'akari da su. An ba da shawara game da gane gaslighting, wariyar launin fata da sauran ayyukan da ba su da kyau ko alamu a cikin dangantaka, kuma yana tattauna yadda dangantakar da ke shafar al'adun heteronormativity. Tana da tattaunawa ta almara tare da ƙaramar kanta a matsayin na'urar tsarawa don bincika tabbatar da namiji.

Taken littafin ya samo asali ne daga wata magana da marubucin ƙamus Erin McKean ya ce: "kyakkyawan ba haya ba ne da kuka biya don zama mace mai alama".

## Karɓuwa
A cewar Nielsen BookScan, an sayar da kusan 50,000 na littafin a ranar 20 ga Yuni 2020, kuma ya kai 100,000 tallace-tallace a cikin watanni shida na bugawa. Littafin ya zama mafi kyawun littafi a kan Amazon da kuma littafin da ba a sayar da shi ba na 2020 don Waterstones. Ya kasance a cikin jerin sunayen mafi kyawun The Sunday Times daga 21 ga Yuni zuwa 6 ga Satumba 2020, ya fara a matsayi na uku kuma ya kai matsayi na biyu, tare da matsayi mafi ƙasƙanci na huɗu.

Phoebe Luckhurst na Evening Standard ya ba littafin taurari huɗu daga cikin biyar, yana kiransa "rallying, radical and pitched perfectly for her generation" kuma yana yabon "stylish, stylised illustrations" da kuma "vehement ba tare da kasancewa unretitting" sautin.  *BBC Science Focus* ta lissafa shi a matsayin daya daga cikin "28 daga cikin mafi kyawun littattafan da ba na almara ba" a cikin 2020, tare da mai bita Camilla Pang ya rubuta cewa littafin ya sa ta ji "mai aminci amma kuma mai ƙarfi, mai yawa, da kuma amincewa" a cikin mace.

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