Kisan Matthew Rairdon

Kisan Matthew Steven Rairdon (17 ga Yuli, 1991 - 30 ga Nuwamba, 2013), [1] wata ma'aikaciyar jinya mai shekaru 22, ya faru ne a Westbrook, Maine, a farkon sa'o'in Asabar, 30 ga Nuwambar, 2013, lokacin da tsohon saurayinsa, Patrick Milliner mai shekaru 30, ya harbe Rairdon ya kashe shi, wanda ya juya bindigar a kansa. Kisan ya kawo hankalin yankin ga batun tashin hankali na cikin gida a cikin dangantakar jinsi guda, tare da 'yan sanda da Ma'aikatar Rikicin Iyali ta Maine suna jaddada haɗarin da ke haifar da ƙarshen dangantaka ba tare da la'akari da yanayin Jima'i ba. Bayan rasuwar Rairdon, mai magana da yawun ma'aikatan zamantakewa na Maine ya bukaci a bayar da rahoton alamun tashin hankali ko matsanancin fushi ga duk wanda ke da hannu a cikin rabuwar.￼

### Matthew Rairdon da Patrick Milliner
Dan asalin Westbrook, an haifi Rairdon a cikin iyali na yara bakwai kuma ya kammala karatu a Makarantar Sakandare ta Westbrook. A shekara ta 2009, ya shiga Kwalejin Saint Joseph a Standish, Maine, inda ya bi aikin jinya.  Kafin samun takardar shaidarsa a matsayin ma'aikaciyar jinya, Rairdon ya kasance mai aiki a cikin wasan kwaikwayo tun lokacin da yake a makarantar sakandare ta Westbrook, inda ya shiga cikin wasan kwaikwayo na kulob din wasan kwaikwayo. Rairdon ya kuma yi aiki a gidan burodi na gida a Westbrook kuma sananne ne kuma ana godiya da shi. Mahaifinsa, Gary Rairdon, ɗan siyasan gida ne a Westbrook wanda ya lashe kujerar majalisar birni a wannan watan mutuwar Matiyu, a watan Nuwamba 2013. 

Ba da daɗewa ba kafin kisansa, Rairdon ya zama ma'aikaciyar jinya ta gaggawa a asibitin Northern Light Mercy a Portland, Maine. Makonni kafin mutuwarsa, ya taimaka wajen ceton rayuwar wata mace mai shekaru 91 da ke fama da matsalolin zuciya. Surukin matar ya tuna yadda ayyukan Rairdon suka hana mutuwar matar kuma ya kara da cewa shi da surukinsa sun yi mamakin martani na "mai sanyi kamar cucumber" ga gaggawa, yayin da yake sa tsohuwar mace ta ji daɗi lokacin da likitoci suka zo don taimakawa.

'Yan sanda na Jihar Maine sun yi imanin cewa Rairdon da Milliner sun yi aiki tare a lokacin yakin neman zabe na EqualityMaine don halatta auren jinsi guda a Maine a watan Disamba na shekara ta 2012, kodayake babu wani sakonnin Facebook na karshe na Milliner kafin kisan da ya bayyana lokacin ko yadda suka hadu.

An haifi Milliner a Hesperia, California, kuma ta kammala karatu daga Makarantar Sakandare ta Hesperia a shekara ta 2001. Akasin Rairdon, ba shi da kusan wata alaƙa da iyalinsa, yana rubutu a cikin sakonsa na ƙarshe a Facebook sa'o'i kafin ya kashe Rairdon. A shekara ta 2008, Milliner ya zama mai aiki a cikin kamfen ɗin adawa da Shirin 8 a California, wanda aka yi niyyar zartar da gyare-Gyaran kundin tsarin mulki na jihar don hana auren jinsi ɗaya a California. A matsayin wani ɓangare na sa hannu a cikin kamfen ɗin, Milliner ya ziyarci ƙungiyoyin haɗin gwiwar gay na makarantar sakandare 49 a cikin jihar, yana ƙarfafa ɗalibai suyi magana da iyayensu game da batun. Ya kuma kasance mai aiki a cikin kwamitin siyasa na Jam'iyyar Democrat da aka sani da ActBlue . 

A shekara ta 2009, Milliner ya bar California kuma ya zauna a Colorado. Wani ɗan wasa, Milliner ya shiga kungiyar kwallon kafa ta Colorado Rush Rugby, ƙungiyar Ƙungiyar rugby a cikin babban birnin Denver tare da mai da hankali kan inganta gasa ga maza masu luwadi a cikin wasanni. Milliner ya yi aiki na ɗan gajeren lokaci a matsayin mai tsaro, ya zama mai sha'awar komawa Maine a lokacin ziyararsa ta farko zuwa jihar a shekara ta 2009. A wannan shekarar, Majalisar Dokokin Maine ta zartar da veto ga dokar da Gwamna John Baldacci ya sanya hannu ta amince da auren jinsi guda a Maine. A cikin 2012, yayin da kamfen ɗin ya karu a cikin jihar don raba gardama don soke veto, Milliner ya yanke shawarar cewa zai koma Maine. Daga karshe ya koma ya zauna a Portland a watan Yunin 2013.

## Dangantaka da kisan Rairdon
Ba a san lokacin ko yadda Milliner da Rairdon suka shiga dangantaka ba, amma sun riga sun kasance tare a watan Satumbar 2013, tare da Milliner ya wallafa a Facebook cewa daya daga cikin "abin da ya fi so a Maine har zuwa yanzu" yana kallon bidiyon iyali tare da "iyalansa", yana ƙarawa "Har yanzu suna murmushi ― tare da Matt Rairdon. "Bayan kisan, sanannun maza biyu sun tabbatar da cewa su biyu suna da dangantaka da juna, tare da rabuwar kai da sulhu a kai a kai a kan juna, tare a kai a cikin 'yan watanni da suka san juna.

A Maine, Milliner ya zama mai tsaron gida a Cibiyar Kula da Yanayi ta Maine a Windham kuma ya shiga Kwalejin Shari'a ta Laifuka a Vassalboro,  ya fara azuzuwan zama jami'in gyarawa na jihar. Rairdon, a halin yanzu, ya zama ƙwararre a aikin jinya ta gaggawa kuma ya shiga ma'aikatan asibitin Northern Light Mercy a Portland.

rashin amincewa na karshe tsakanin maza biyu ya zo ne a watan Nuwamba na shekara ta 2013 biyo bayan rashin amincewa da Milliner, wanda ya yi zargin cewa Rairdon yana da wani al'amari. Bayan rabuwa da su, Rairdon ya share hotunan da yake da su tare da Milliner a shafinsa na Facebook kuma ya cire shi a matsayin aboki a kan aikace-aikacen zamantakewa. Wannan, a cewar wani aboki na Milliner, ya yi fushi sosai kuma ya fusata shi. Sa'o'i kafin a kashe Rairdon, Milliner ya wallafa wata kalma 1,900 da ke nuna cewa yana "a cikin wani wuri mai duhu kuma yana ba da cikakken bayani game da gwagwarmayar da ta gabata, kodayake ya yi gargadi cewa "wannan lokaci shine karo na karshe".  'Yan sanda sun ce yayin da Milliner bai haɗa da barazanar tashin hankali a cikin gidan waya ba, ya nuna takaici da ci gaba da neman "mutumin mafarkinsa" kuma ya ba da cutar da kansa, yana cewa ya yi addu'a ya kasance "ba da rai ba tare da ci gaba ba" idan akwai rayuwa bayan mutuwa.[his]

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