Mahaifiyar jariri

jariri mama (ko jariri mama, uba jariri uwa) kalma ce ta yarinya ga mahaifiyar da ba ta aure mahaifin ɗanta ba, kodayake kalmar sau da yawa tana ɗauke da wasu ma'ana. Wannan kalmar tana da alaƙa da 'yan Afirka na asali, suna fitowa daga Jamaican Creole kuma suna samun hanyar shiga cikin kiɗa na hip-hop.

Kwatankwacin kalma na namiji shine **uba baby** (ko **uban jariri** ), amma ba'a amfani dashi akai-akai.

## Tarihi
Wannan ra’ayi ya samo asali ne daga ‘yan mulkin mallaka na turawa da kuma zaluncin bakar fata a zamanin turawan mulkin mallaka, wanda ya hana mata bakar fata ‘yancin cin gashin kansu na wajen uwa da kuma bata musu mutunci a lokacin mulkin mallaka. A lokacin mulkin mallaka, turawan maza sukan yi wa bayinsu mata bakar fata fyade, sannan masu bawan su yi musu ciki domin bauta.   Kuma an hana bakar bayi mata aure.  Manufar "baby mama" ta samo asali ne daga ikon sarrafa hotunan mata baƙar fata a baya, kamar "Jezebel" da "Mammy," waɗanda aka halicce su don tabbatar da bautar da kuma rashin daidaito na launin fata. Wannan kalma tana da dogon tarihi mai rikitarwa da ke da alaƙa da gadon bauta da ci gaba da nau'ikan wariyar launin fata da baƙar fata, gami da ɓarna a cikin kafofin watsa labarai, fina-finai, da al'adu masu shahara. Ana amfani da waɗannan stereotypes na wariyar launin fata don saka idanu, aikata laifuka, da kuma cutar da iyaye mata ta ƙwararru, masu ba da sabis, da kuma al'umma gaba ɗaya. Maganar da ke kusa da "baby mama" misali ne mai karfi na nuna wariyar launin fata da rashin tausayi wanda ya rinjayi ayyukan zamantakewar zamantakewar da ke tattare da iyaye mata da kuma mata baƙar fata da yawa, sau da yawa suna haɗa su tare ba tare da la'akari da iyayensu, zamantakewa, ko matsayin aure ba. Kalmar da amfani da ita suna da alaƙa sosai ga gadon mulkin mallaka da ragowar tattalin arzikin cinikin bayi na Atlantika, wanda ya haɓaka wariyar launin fata da jima'i (misogynoir).  

## Asalin
Kalmar ta samo asali ne a cikin Creole na Jamaica a matsayin "mahaifiyar-uwa" (lafazi:  ), tare da amfani na farko da aka buga a cikin jaridar Kingston, *The Daily Gleaner* a cikin 1966.   Wani *Daily Gleaner* yana amfani da kwanan wata daga Nuwamba 21, 1989.  Asali, uban 'ya'yan shege ne suka yi amfani da kalmar don kwatanta iyayen 'ya'yansu.

Kalmar yanzu ana amfani da ita gabaɗaya don kwatanta kowace uwa ɗaya . Peter L. Patrick, farfesa a fannin ilimin harshe wanda ke nazarin Turancin Jamaica, ya ce (na kalmomin *baby uwa* da *uba uba* ), "[sun] tabbas ba a yi aure ba - har ma da auren gama-gari, amma a maimakon haka cewa yaron ɗan 'waje' ne".  Tun lokacin da aka shigar da kuɗin kuɗi a cikin tabloids na Amurka, an fara amfani da sharuɗɗan ga mashahuran ma'aurata da waɗanda suka yi aure. 

Masanin ilimin harshe John McWhorter ya ce "baby mama" yana da kama da Baƙar fata Turanci, yana cire alamar "'s". 

## Amfani
Kalmar ta samo asali daga stereotype cewa baƙar fata maza ne uban da ba su da hakki kuma baƙar fata mata sarauniyar jindaɗi ne. Duk da haka, an yi amfani da kalmar da mata fararen fata a kan kafofin watsa labarun irin su Kylie Jenner, wanda ke da 'ya'ya biyu na shege tare da dan wasan kwaikwayo na Ba'amurke Travis Scott . Ba ta samu mummunan lada a Instagram ba saboda fari da dukiyarta. 

### A cikin kiɗa
Mahaifiyar jariri da mahaifiyar jariri sun shiga amfani da yawa a cikin waƙoƙin hip-hop na Amurka a tsakiyar shekarun 1990.  Ɗaya daga cikin wakilcin farko na mamas baby a cikin waƙoƙin hip-hop shine ta kudancin rapper Krazy, daga Tampa, Florida. Daya daga cikin wakokinsa mai suna "I Hate My Baby Mama."  Waƙar Outkast " Ms. Jackson ", wanda aka saki a cikin 2000, an sadaukar da ita ga "dukkan mamas baby mamas". Jarumar *Idol ta Amurka* Fantasia Barrino ta fitar da wata waka mai suna " Baby Mama " a shekara ta 2004. A cikin wannan waka tana rubuta wani Ode ga iyaye mata da kuma yadda ake zama jariri mama yakamata ya zama "lambar girmamawa". Ta yi wa kanta godiya a matsayinta na uwa ɗaya kuma tana tausayawa tunanin baby mamas da yadda suke "ƙoshi da gadaje makin."  *Planet Earth*, wani kundi da Yarima ya fitar a cikin 2007, yana da wata waka mai suna "Mama Baby Future". Uku 6 Mafia suna da waƙa mai suna "Baby Mama" akan *Zaɓuɓɓuka: Kundin* . Tupac 's "Dear Mama", da "Brenda's Have a Baby" waƙoƙin hip hop guda biyu ne waɗanda ke nuna ƙaƙƙarfan mace baƙar fata. 

## Manazarta