Kiristanci da tashin hankali a cikin gida

**Kiristanci da tashin hankali a cikin gida** suna hulɗa da muhawara a cikin al'ummomin Kirista game da amincewa da martani ga tashin hankali na gida, wanda ya zama mai rikitarwa ta hanyar al'adun shiru da karɓa tsakanin waɗanda aka zalunta. Akwai wasu ayoyin Littafi Mai-Tsarki da masu cin zarafi ke amfani da su don tabbatar da horo ga matansu.

## Cin zarafi a cikin aure
Kungiyoyin Kirista da hukumomi gabaɗaya suna Allah wadai da tashin hankali na gida kamar yadda ya saba da aikin Kirista na ƙaunar wasu da kuma dangantakar Littafi tsakanin miji da mata.

### Dangantaka tsakanin miji da matar
A cewar Taron Bishops na Katolika na Amurka, "Mutanen da ke cin zarafin sau da yawa suna amfani da Afisawa da aka karɓa daga mahallin, don tabbatar da halayensu, amma nassin (v. 21-33) yana nufin biyayya ga juna na miji da matar saboda ƙaunar Kristi. Maza ya kamata su ƙaunaci matansu kamar yadda suke son jikinsu, kamar yadda Kristi yake son Ikilisiya. "

Wasu masu ilimin tauhidin Kirista, kamar Rev. Marie Fortune da Mary Pellauer, sun tayar da tambaya game da kusanci tsakanin Kiristanci na ubanni da tashin hankali da cin zarafin gida. Steven Tracy, marubucin "Patriarchy and Domestic Violence" ya rubuta cewa: "Yayin da shugabanci ba zai iya zama babban dalilin duk wani cin zarafi ba, yana da matukar muhimmanci, saboda a cikin shugabanci na gargajiya maza suna da rabon iko... Don haka yayin da shugabanci bai zama kawai bayani game da tashin hankali ga mata ba, za mu yi tsammanin cewa shugabancin namiji zai karkatar da rashin tsaro, marasa lafiya don tabbatar da mamayar su da cin zarafin mata. "

Kadan daga cikin binciken da aka yi sun bincika dangantakar da ke tsakanin addini da tashin hankali na gida. A cewar Dutton, babu wani bayani guda ɗaya game da cin zarafin matar da ya isa ya bayyana bayanan da ke akwai.   Binciken da Dutton da Browning suka yi a wannan shekarar ya gano cewa misogyny yana da alaƙa da 'yan tsiraru maza masu cin zarafi.   Nazarin Campbell a cikin 1992 bai sami wata shaida game da tashin hankali mafi girma ga mata a cikin al'adun da suka fi dacewa ba. Binciken Pearson a shekarar 1997 ya lura, "Binciken maza masu buga kwallo sun kasa tabbatar da cewa wadannan maza sun fi ra'ayin mazan jiya ko nuna bambancin jinsi game da aure fiye da maza marasa tashin hankali". 

Da yake amsawa ga cin zarafin gida, wani rahoto da Ikilisiyar Ingila ta bayar a shekara ta 2006, ya ba da shawarar cewa ya kamata a maye gurbin shugabanci maimakon sake fassara shi: "Binciken tsarin Kristi yana nufin cewa ana canza alamu na mamayewa da biyayya a cikin mutuality na ƙauna, kulawa mai aminci da raba nauyi. 'Ku kasance ƙarƙashin juna saboda girmamawa ga Kristi' (Afisawa 5.21).

### Littafi Mai Tsarki
Ana amfani da ayoyin Littafi Mai-Tsarki sau da yawa don tabbatar da cin zarafin gida, kamar waɗanda ke nufin fifiko na namiji da biyayya ta mace. Sauran sun musanta cewa amfani da tashin hankali ra'ayi ne mara kyau game da rawar namiji. Misali, Hauwa'u (Farawa 2-3), wasu Kiristoci [waɗanda?] suna ganin su ba su yi biyayya ga Allah da mutum ba, kuma ga mutane da yawa alama ce ta mace wacce dole ne ta kasance mai biyayya kuma tana ƙarƙashin horo, yayin da wasu [waɗannan?] ba su yarda da wannan fassarar ba.  

### Horar da Kirista a cikin gida
Wani al'ada da aka sani da horo na cikin gida na Kirista (CDD) yana inganta bugun mata da mazajen su a matsayin wani nau'i na azabtarwa. Duk da yake masu ba da shawara sun dogara da fassarorin Littafi Mai-Tsarki don tallafawa aikin, masu ba da shawarar wadanda ke fama da tashin hankali na gida sun bayyana shi a matsayin nau'i na cin zarafi da sarrafa halayyar. Sauran sun bayyana aikin a matsayin jima'i mai sauƙi da kuma hanyar fita don sha'awar sadomasochist.[1] Mai watsa shirye-shiryen rediyo na Kirista mai ra'ayin mazan jiya Bryan Fischer ya ce wa Huffington Post cewa "wani abu ne mai ban tsoro - mai ban mamaki, mai karkatarwa, wanda ba na Littafi Mai-Tsarki ba kuma ba na Kirista ba".[2] –￼

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