Rashin jituwa na soyayya

**Rashin jituwa na soyayya** wani tsari ne na ka'idoji a cikin ilimin jima'i wanda Kurt Freund ya haɓaka wanda ake ganin wasu nau'ikan paraphilias a matsayin takamaiman lokuta na ƙwarewar soyayya a cikin mutane. Takamaiman paraphilias sune biastophilia (rashin fyade), nune-nunen, frotteurism, scatologia na tarho, da voyeurism. Dangane da ra'ayi na rikice-rikicen soyayya, akwai tsarin soyayya na jinsuna a cikin mutane wanda ya kunshi matakai huɗu, kuma anomalies a matakai daban-daban yana haifar da ɗayan waɗannan sha'awar jima'i. Dangane da ka'idar, maimakon kasancewa masu zaman kansu, waɗannan abubuwan jima'i alamun mutum ne na rikice-rikice guda ɗaya.

## Tunanin rikicewar soyayya
Dangane da ra'ayi na rikice-rikice na soyayya, akwai tsarin soyayya na jinsuna a cikin mutane wanda ya kunshi matakai huɗu. Wadannan matakai sune: " (1) neman da kuma kimanta masu iya zama abokan jima'i; (2) hulɗar da ba a yi amfani da ita ba tare da waɗancan abokan hulɗa, kamar ta hanyar murmushi da magana da su; (3) hulɗar taɓawa tare da su, kamar ta rungumi ko yin amfani da su; (4) sannan kuma jima'i. "

Kurt Freund ne ya fara bayyana alaƙar da ke tsakanin waɗannan matakai da waɗannan paraphilias,   wanda ya samo asali daga ka'idar: Rashin jituwa na matakin bincike na soyayya ya bayyana a matsayin voyeurism, rikice-rikice na matakin hulɗar pre-tactile ya bayyana a cikin nuni ko scatologia ta'a, rikicewar matakin hulɗarsa ya bayyana a ƙarƙashin toucheurism ko frotteurism, kuma rashin matakan halayyar soyayya ya nunawa a matsayin fyade na paraphilic (watau, nuna bambanci). A cewar Freund, waɗannan paraphilias "za a iya fahimta a matsayin fifiko ga tsarin halayyar ko mafarki na lalata wanda ɗayan waɗannan matakai huɗu na hulɗar jima'i ya kara tsanantawa kuma ya karkatar da shi har ya zama kamar yadda ya kamata, yayin da sauran matakai an cire su gaba ɗaya ko kuma an riƙe su ne kawai a hanyar da ba ta dace ba".

Freund ya lura cewa *Trolism* (wani paraphilia don lura da abokin jima'i / soyayya na mutum yana hulɗa da jima'i tare da ɓangare na uku, yawanci ba tare da saninsa ba ga ɓangare na uku)  na iya zama rikicewar soyayya,   Troilism kasancewa bambancin voyeurism.

Halin da ya dace ya dogara da yanayin zamantakewa da al'adu, gami da lokaci da wuri. Wasu halayen da ba a yarda da su ba a mafi yawan yanayi, kamar tsirara a fili ko jima'i tsakanin masu rawa, ana iya karɓa ko ma ƙarfafa su yayin bukukuwan kamar Carnival ko Mardi Gras. Inda irin waɗannan bukukuwan al'adu ke canza halayen soyayya, ana iya rufe alamun rikicewar soyayya ko canza su.[1]￼

## Shaida da yarda da ka'idar
Paraphilias a cikin nau'in rikice-rikice na soyayya suna faruwa tare da juna akai-akai fiye da tare da paraphilias a waje da nau'in rikitarwa na soyayya. Misali na rikice-rikicen soyayya yana ba da wata sanarwa ta yau da kullun ga waɗannan paraphilias a cikin maza don bayyana wannan haɗuwa.

Masana ilimin jima'i da masana kimiyya na shari'a sun ambaci rikicewar soyayya a matsayin daya daga cikin manyan samfuran paraphilias. Murphy da Page sun rubuta cewa "'The 'Courtship Disorder Theory' na Freund yana daya daga cikin ka'idojin da suka dace da nune-nunen. "  A cewar Lavin (2008), "Ka'idar Freund, fiye da sauran, ta bayyana a fili cewa tsara ayyukan ... yana da muhimmancin asibiti. 

John Money ne ya gabatar da wani tsarin lissafi na paraphilias, wanda ya bayyana kewayon abubuwan da ke cikin paraphilic a matsayin lovemaps.

## Dubi kuma

* John Hinckley Jr.

## Manazarta