The Usual Error
Subtitle: Why We Don't Understand Each Other And 34 Ways to Make It Better
Publisher: Connection Paradigm Press
Published: 2008
Place of publication: Austin, USA
Format: ebook
Number of pages: 208
ISBN-13: 9780982162101
Table of contents: label: Acknowledgments
pagenum: iv; label: Welcome!
pagenum: 1; label: Part 1
title: Communication Dynamics
pagenum: 3; label: Chapter 1
title: The usual error
pagenum: 5; label: Chapter 2
title: Different communication styles
pagenum: 10; label: Chapter 3
title: Different personality types
pagenum: 14; label: Chapter 4
title: The other half of communication
pagenum: 17; label: Chapter 5
title: Checking in
pagenum: 22; label: Chapter 6
title: I already know this, but I need to hear you say it again
pagenum: 28; label: Chapter 7
title: What problem are you trying to solve?
pagenum: 32; label: Chapter 8
title: Feeling considered
pagenum: 36; label: Part 2
title: Boundaries
pagenum: 41; label: Chapter 9
title: Holding healthy boundaries
pagenum: 42; label: Chapter 10
title: Fierceness
pagenum: 47; label: Chapter 11
title: Ask for what you need
pagenum: 52; label: Chapter 12
title: I am not green
pagenum: 57; label: Chapter 13
title: “I” statements
pagenum: 61; label: Chapter 14
title: It’s not all about me
pagenum: 66; label: Part 3
title: Turning Conflict into Communication
pagenum: 73; label: Chapter 15
title: What did you intend?
pagenum: 74; label: Chapter 16
title: The next time I ask for $1000, just give me a veggie burger instead!
pagenum: 79; label: Chapter 17
title: We’re on the same team
pagenum: 84; label: Chapter 18
title: Coming to terms
pagenum: 88; label: Chapter 19
title: Meta-communication
pagenum: 95; label: Chapter 20
title: Memory
pagenum: 99; label: Chapter 21
title: Trust your future self
pagenum: 105; label: Chapter 22
title: Giving permission to disappoint
pagenum: 108; label: Part 4
title: Conflict Resolution
pagenum: 113; label: Chapter 23
title: The only way out is through
pagenum: 114; label: Chapter 24
title: The William James zone
pagenum: 118; label: Chapter 25
title: The lollipop
pagenum: 124; label: Chapter 26
title: What do I get out of being right?
pagenum: 133; label: Chapter 27
title: Reflection
pagenum: 139; label: Chapter 28
title: Verbal aikido
pagenum: 143; label: Part 4
title: Positivity!
pagenum: 153; label: Chapter 29
title: “That makes me really happy!”
pagenum: 154; label: Chapter 30
title: It’s okay to have problems
pagenum: 157; label: Chapter 31
title: Knowing is half the battle
pagenum: 161; label: Chapter 32
title: Rephrasing things positively
pagenum: 165; label: Chapter 33
title: Teasing
pagenum: 174; label: Chapter 34
title: Endings
pagenum: 181; label: Stories and Examples
pagenum: 186; label: Illustrations
pagenum: 190