The Girl Within
By: Emily Hancock.
Edition: 1st edition
Publisher: E. P. Dutton
Published: 1989
Place of publication: New York, NY
Language: eng
Format: Hardcover
Number of pages: 227
ISBN-13: 9780525247746
Subjects: Women -- Psychology.; Girls -- Psychology.; Maturation (Psychology); Self.; Sex role.; Women -- United States -- Case studies.
Genres: Non-fiction
First sentence: This book is about a phenomenon both discouraging and hopeful: women's loss and rediscovery of the "true self."
Description: Any woman reading The Girl Within will have the extraordinary experience of self-discovery as she finds in this collection of women's life stories the playful, purposeful, self-possessed girl of her childhood. Author Emily Hancock claims that this self-possessed girl -- a girl who knows who she is and what she's about -- is a resource for contemporary women. Dr. Hancock concludes, however, that a female easily loses sight of who and what she really is beneath the feminine facade she adopts in youth -- simply through the process of growing up female.

The women Hancock interviewed reclaim the forgotten girl. They trace not just one but a variety of paths back to her. In a series of first-person accounts that read like marvelous mini-novels, Hancock elucidates the vicissitudes of losing and refinding the essential self. From the story of Katherine, a pediatrician whose grandmother hosted musical salons, to that of Jo, whose father put bootblack on her white socks when her toes poked through her black shoes, the girl who harbors a female's original identity reappears again and again. Women who reached back to catch hold of a girl they could rely on to found in the girl a source of womanly strength. Through engrossing life stories, psychologist Hancock provides the female reader one self-realization after another as she clarifies the girl's image and shows how important it is to recapture her.

Like Gail Sheehy's Passages and Maggie Scarf's Unfinished Business, Hancock's is a landmark book. Written in a style as lucid as it is lively, it gives the intelligent reader -- man and woman alike -- an invaluable understanding of the forces at work in women's psychology. The Girl Within offers a natural, female model of identity development that starts with the girl and circles back to her. In a study that is destined to have a profound impact, Hancock shows just how the girl begets the woman.
Notes: Bibliography, p. 212-220; Index, p. 221-227.
Published simultaneously in Canada by Fitzhenry and Whiteside Ltd., Toronto, ON.
Description is from book cover.