Getting to yes with yourself
Subtitle: (and other worthy opponents)
By: William Ury
Edition: First edition.
Publisher: HarperOne, An Imprint of HarperCollinsPublishers
Published: 2015
Language: eng
Number of pages: 192
ISBN-13: 9780062363381
Subjects: Negotiation; Interpersonal conflict; Attitude (Psychology)
Description: "William Ury, coauthor of the international bestseller Getting to Yes, returns with another groundbreaking book, this time asking: how can we expect to get to yes with others if we haven't first gotten to yes with ourselves? Renowned negotiation expert William Ury has taught tens of thousands of people from all walks of life--managers, lawyers, factory workers, coal miners, schoolteachers, diplomats, and government officials--how to become better negotiators. Over the years, Ury has discovered that the greatest obstacle to successful agreements and satisfying relationships is not the other side, as difficult as they can be. The biggest obstacle is actually our own selves--our natural tendency to react in ways that do not serve our true interests. But this obstacle can also become our biggest opportunity, Ury argues. If we learn to understand and influence ourselves first, we lay the groundwork for understanding and influencing others. In this prequel to Getting to Yes, Ury offers a seven-step method to help you reach agreement with yourself first, dramatically improving your ability to negotiate with others. Practical and effective, Getting to Yes with Yourself helps readers reach good agreements with others, develop healthy relationships, make their businesses more productive, and live far more satisfying lives"--
Notes: Includes bibliographical references (pages 185-190).
Table of contents: title: Introduction: The first negotiation; title: Put yourself in your shoes: from self-judgment to self-understanding; title: Develop your inner BATNA: From blame to self-responsibility; title: Reframe your picture: from unfriendly to friendly; title: Stay in the zone: from resistance to acceptance; title: Respect them even if: from exclusion to inclusion; title: Give and receive: from win-lose to win-win-win; title: Conclusion: The three wins.