A return to modesty
Subtitle: discovering the lost virtue
By: Wendy Shalit.
Publisher: Free Press
Published: 1999
Place of publication: New York, NY
Language: eng
Format: Hardcover
Number of pages: 291
ISBN-13: 9780684843162
Subjects: Sexual ethics for women.; Women -- Sexual behavior.; Jewish women -- Sexual behavior.; Women -- Conduct of life.; Modesty.
Description: Beholden neither to conservatives who discount as exaggeration the dangers facing young women, nor to feminists who steadfastly affix blame on the patriarchy, Wendy Shalit proposes that, in fact, we have lost our respect for an important classical virtue - that of sexual modesty. A Return to Modesty is a deeply personal account as well as a fascinating intellectual exploration.

From seventeenth-century manners guides to Antonio Canova's sculpture, Venus Italica, to Frank Loesser's 1948 tune, "Baby, It's Cold Outside," A Return to Modesty unfolds like a detective's search for a lost idea as Shalit uncovers opinions about this lost virtue's importance, from Balzac to Simone de Beauvoir, that have not been aired for decades. Then she knocks down the accompanying myths one by one.

With humor and piercing insight, Shalit invites us to look beyond the blush and consider the new power to be found in an old ideal. The natural inclination toward modesty is not a hang-up that we should set out to cure, but rather a wonderful instinct that, if rediscovered and given the right social support, has the power to transform society.
Notes: Includes bibliographical references (p. [271]-278) and index.
Table of contents: title: Introduction; title: Part one : The problem.; title: The war on embarrassment; title: Postmodern sexual etiquette, from hook-up to checkup; title: The fallout; title: New perversions; title: Part two : The forgotten ideal.; title: Forgiving modesty; title: The great deception; title: Can modesty be natural?; title: Male character; title: Part three : The return.; title: Against the curing of womanhood; title: Modesty and the erotic; title: Pining for interference; title: Beyond modernity; title: A modest conclusion : Innocence; title: Appendix : Some modest advice