Tears of the silenced
Subtitle: a true crime and an American tragedy : severe child abuse and leaving the Amish
By: Misty Griffin ; edited by Cynthia Calzone
Publisher: CreateSpace
Published: 2014
Place of publication: Charleston, South Carolina
Language: eng
Number of pages: 440
ISBN-13: 9781505679441
Copyright date: 2014
Subjects: Amish; Social life and customs; Amish children; Abuse of
Description: A heartbreaking yet inspiring true story. In this memoir the author writes in detail about the horrors she sustained at the hands of her mother, step-father and the hands of the Amish church. After her mother meets up with her step-father when she is at the young age of four, she and her younger sister are whisked away from their father to begin a life of solitude and sorrow. Here they are succumbed to severe physical and mental torture, sexual abuse and isolation from the rest of the world. Day by day Misty and her sister are brainwashed into believing that dressing and living like the Amish is the only way to get into heaven. Fourteen years later after unspeakable torture and constant threats against their lives Misty and her sister are taken to an Amish community in rural Minnesota. Here they learn German, are made to change their names and eventualy become baptized members. Eighteen year old Misty breathes a sigh of relief no longer having to fear her step-father will kill her. This is short lived however when she finds herself refusing to be silenced. This ancient tradition in wich Amish sex abuse victims are made to forgive their atackers and continue to live life as normal. If the victim refuses to be quiet about the incident they are paid a visit by the ministers in which they are harshly reprimanded and if they still refuse to be silenced they are shunned until they comply. After Misty is attacked by the Bishop of her church she refuses to be silenced and involves the local law enforment. When she refuses to recant her police report she is then shunned by the Amish church. This sends her reeling out into the modern world with out any ID or social security number and only a second grade education. However Misty meets these setbacks head on as she prepares to embrace her life long dream of becomeing a medical missionary. In the last few chapters you will follow Misty as she gets her GED, deals with severe PTSD and nightmares, tries to get her sister out of the Amish and is met by the local ministers as they try and intimidate her into recanting her police statement. Misty writes in detail about the sting of being shunned and having everyone that you held dear turn thier backs to you. But also she is determined to stand up for the silenced victims no matter the cost.
Table of contents: title: The beginning of a nightmare; title: Engulfed by a shadow; title: Forgotted by the world; title: Teardrops in the snow; title: Seasons of sorrow; title: Tortured; title: A new victim; title: Near death; title: Face of evil; title: The community; title: Uniformity: the loss of identity; title: The ordnung; title: "Be silenced!"; title: Personal convictions; title: Freedom from prosecution; title: Ancient traditions; title: Forced to forgive; title: The baptism; title: An Amish wedding; title: A horse named "Tears"; title: "Wolves in sheep's clothing"; title: A visit from the FBI; title: The bishop's maid; title: Poisoned; title: Silenced no longer; title: Leaving the Amish; title: Shunned by the church; title: A modern world; title: The bishop escapes; title: A voice from the past; title: Revisiting a childhood nightmare; title: A call from the community; title: Going back for my sister; title: The sting of being shunned; title: Injustice; title: Christmas in Seattle; title: Nine years later.