Falling
Subtitle: the story of one marriage
By: John Taylor.
Edition: 1st ed.
Publisher: Random House
Published: 1999
Place of publication: New York
Language: eng
Number of pages: 225
Subjects: Taylor, John, 1955-; Divorced men -- United States -- Biography.; Divorced men -- United States -- Psychology.
Genres: Biography.
Description: In Falling: The Story of One Marriage, John Taylor portrays the central human struggle - "the competition between [the] need to keep life interesting, to accept its limits, and to give it value" - that lies at the heart of divorce. Writing with moving eloquence and unflinching honesty, he describes the hopeful beginnings of his marriage, its gradual disintegration, and the "horrifying act of will" needed to bring it to an end.

He wrestles with the decision to leave his wife and young daughter, and the life they share, and struggles to clarify the nature of his responsibilities as a husband and father. Despite his involvement with other women, and his near certainty that his marriage is not salvageable, he remains profoundly reluctant to remove his wedding ring - even after he has moved out.

Taylor's own story is interwoven with descriptions of the marriages of his family and friends, some faltering, some unaccountably strong. He witnesses the way divorce sweeps through his neighborhood "like a tornado, leveling one house and leaving the next intact." And with great clarity and compassion he explores the question that nearly all adults, married or single, ask themselves at some point: Should I stay or should I go?

It is an account of one man's search for "moral coherence in a world that no longer imposes it."