MUTUAL CRYING: EXPERIENCES OF ADULT FEMALE PATIENTS WHO HAVE HAD NURSES CRY WITH THEM (WOMEN PATIENTS).
Contributors: Adelphi University.
Published: 1993
Number of pages: 311
Subjects: Health Sciences, Nursing.; Psychology, General.; Women's Studies.
Description: Though nurses are encouraged to allow patients to cry, traditionally they are advised to maintain a professional distance and not cry with them (Aroskar, 1980; Barnum, 1984; Gadow, 1980; Travelbee, 1971). Since the nursing literature indicated that it is unavoidable to not get emotionally involved and cry with patients, the purpose of this study was to explore the experiences of adult female patients who have had nurses cry with them in a nurse-patient relationship.

The 9 volunteer subjects interviewed in this phenomenological study were middle-class caucasian females with ages covering a span of 25 through 70 years (M = 40; SD = 16.57). Using the Bogdan and Biklen (1992) method of analysis, nine themes emerged from the transcripts.

Regardless of amount of time in a relationship, the findings indicated that when nurses cry with their patients the nurse-patient relationship becomes closer and more connected. Nurses were described as being older and experienced and were perceived as not just being technical but also compassionate without losing their objectivity. Two important aspects that emerged from these intimate shared moments of compassion were: that there is an appropriate time to cry with patients, and that it should occur in a private setting. From a patient's perspective, this study also substantiated that a paradigm shift appears to be occurring; moving from a reductionistic, mechanistic, and technocratic conceptual framework to a holistic, intersubjective, and more contextual nursing care model. Since patients want nurses to be compassionate as well as technical, further research is necessary to define emotional involvement and to identify appropriate and therapeutic nurse caring processes that enhance a patient's likelihood of reaching health care goals.

It is not known how often mutual crying occurs, and subjects were difficult to find; therefore, mutual crying in a nurse-patient relationship might not be a common occurrence or some subjects might have chosen not to volunteer because they had a negative mutual crying experience. Hence, more research is required to interview other types of subjects, to investigate how often this phenomenon occurs, and to examine both the nurse's and patient's perceptions on mutual crying to see if there is congruency within the dyad.
Notes: Source: Dissertation Abstracts International, Volume: 53-12, Section: B, page: 6217.

Thesis (PH.D.)--ADELPHI UNIVERSITY, 1993.

School code: 0001.