The widows' handbook
Subtitle: poetic reflections on grief and survival
By: edited by Jacqueline Lapidus and Lise Menn ; foreword by Ruth Bader Ginsburg
Series: Literature and medicine -- 19; Literature and medicine (Kent, Ohio) -- 19.
Publisher: Kent State University Press
Published: 2014
Language: eng
Number of pages: 335
ISBN-13: 9781606352045
Subjects: Grief; Loss (Psychology); Women authors; American poetry; Widows' writings; Poetry
Description: "[This is an] anthology of poems by contemporary widows, many of whom have written their way out of solitude and despair, distilling their strongest feelings into poetry or memoir. This stirring collection celebrates the strategies widows learn and the resources they muster to deal with people, living space, possessions, social life, and especially themselves, once shock has turned to the realization that nothing will ever be the same. As Supreme Court Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg says in her foreword, losing one's partner is "a loss like no other." [The poems come] from 87 American women of all ages, legally married or not, straight and gay, whose partners or spouses have died. Some of the poets are already published widely, including more than a dozen prizewinners, four Pushcart nominees, and two regional poets laureate. Others are not as well known, and some appear in print for the first time here. With courage and wry humor, these women encounter insidious depression, poignant memories, bureaucratic nonsense, unfamiliar hardware, well-intentioned but thoughtless remarks, demanding work, spiritual revelation, and unexpected lust, navigating new relationships in the uncertain legacy of sexual liberation. They write frankly about being paralyzed and about going forward. Their poems are honest, beautiful, and accessible. Only poetry can speak such difficult truths and incite such intense empathy. While both men and women understand the bewilderment, solitude, and change of status thrust upon the widowed, women suffer a particular social demotion and isolation. Anyone who has lost a loved one or is involved in helping the bereaved will be able to relate to the experiences conveyed [here]"--
Table of contents: title: Bereft, Mourning; title: Memories, Ghosts, Dreams; title: Coping (More or Less); title: A Diffferent Life.