Why men want sex and women need love
Subtitle: unraveling the simple truth
By: Barbara & Allan Pease.
Contributors: Pease, Allan.
Publisher: Broadway Books
Published: 2009
Place of publication: New York, NY
Language: eng
Number of pages: 265
ISBN-13: 9780307591593
Subjects: Sexual attraction; Interpersonal relations
Table of contents: title: Acknowledgments
pagenum: v; title: Introduction
pagenum: 1; title: Looking for "the One"
pagenum: 3; title: How the Western World Got So Screwed Up About Sex
pagenum: 5; title: The Statistics
pagenum: 7; label: 1
title: Sex on the Brain
pagenum: 9; title: Same Goals, Different Agendas
pagenum: 10; title: The Power of Love
pagenum: 11; title: The Biology of Love
pagenum: 12; title: Love at First Sight
pagenum: 13; title: Darwin Made Me Do It
pagenum: 14; title: Let's Stick Together
pagenum: 15; title: Why Lovers Are So Crazy About Each Other
pagenum: 17; title: I Get a Shiver Down My Backbone
pagenum: 18; title: I Can't Sleep, I Can't Eat
pagenum: 19; title: What Brain Scans Reveal
pagenum: 20; title: Might as Well Face It, You're Addicted to Love
pagenum: 21; title: The Geography of Sex and Love in the Brain
pagenum: 22; title: Why Men and Women See Love Differently
pagenum: 24; title: How Men's Brains Rate Attractiveness in Women
pagenum: 25; title: How Women's Brains Rate Attractiveness in Men
pagenum: 26; title: Why Lust Doesn't Last
pagenum: 28; title: What Happens When You Get Dumped
pagenum: 30; title: Summary
pagenum: 31; label: 2
title: Straight Talk on Sex and Love
pagenum: 33; title: How Times Have Changed
pagenum: 34; title: How Humans Are Now Studied
pagenum: 36; title: Why Being Loved and Being in Love Are So Important
pagenum: 37; title: The Seven Types of Love
pagenum: 40; title: Our Love Maps
pagenum: 41; title: How Hollywood and the Media Color Our View
pagenum: 42; title: Why the Twenty-First Century Is Harder for Men
pagenum: 44; title: Summary
pagenum: 46; label: 3
title: What Women Really Want
pagenum: 47; title: The Changing Needs of Women
pagenum: 48; title: Mamma Told Me, "Shop Around"
pagenum: 49; title: Girls Just Wanna Have Fun
pagenum: 51; title: The Truth About What Women Want
pagenum: 53; title: Wealthy Men Give Women More Orgasms
pagenum: 56; title: The Top Five Things Women Want from Men
pagenum: 57; title: Commitment — Why a Man Should Give a Woman an Impressive Ring
pagenum: 65; title: The Last Ten Things a Woman Would Ever Say
pagenum: 67; title: Seven Simple Things Women Find Attractive in Men
pagenum: 67; title: Why No Woman Wants a Loser
pagenum: 71; title: Women Will Always Want Resources
pagenum: 72; title: Summary
pagenum: 72; label: 4
title: What Men Really Want
pagenum: 74; title: How the Media Shape Men's Views
pagenum: 76; title: What Men Really Want
pagenum: 79; title: What a Man Will Do for Sex
pagenum: 80; title: Men Don't Think About Relationships
pagenum: 81; title: Decoding Manspeak
pagenum: 83; title: Men Seek Reproductive Value
pagenum: 85; title: Getting to the Point
pagenum: 87; title: What the Personal Columns Reveal
pagenum: 89; title: Why Attractiveness Has Become So Important
pagenum: 90; title: What "Attractive" Means
pagenum: 92; title: Take a Leaf from the Amazons
pagenum: 93; title: What Men Look for in Beauty
pagenum: 93; title: Our Universal Beauty Contest
pagenum: 95; title: Our Reaction to Attractive Faces Is Inborn
pagenum: 95; title: What Turns Men On — the 70% Hips-to-Waist Ratio
pagenum: 96; title: What Turns Men Off About Women
pagenum: 97; title: Physical Choices for Gay Men and Women
pagenum: 98; title: How Governments Have Become the New Husband
pagenum: 99; title: Summary
pagenum: 99; label: 5
title: Wanted: Meaningful Overnight Relationship — Casual Sex
pagenum: 102; title: What Is Casual Sex?
pagenum: 104; title: A Definition of "Sexual Relationship"
pagenum: 106; title: Why We Have Casual Sex
pagenum: 108; title: How We Feel After Casual Sex
pagenum: 111; title: How Dads Influence Their Kids' Attitudes
pagenum: 112; title: How Many Partners Do You Want?
pagenum: 112; title: Sexual Fantasies and Casual Sex
pagenum: 113; title: How Gay Men and Women Look at Things
pagenum: 115; title: Summary
pagenum: 116; label: 6
title: Your Place or Mine? Affairs and Cheating
pagenum: 117; title: What Is an Affair?
pagenum: 119; title: Your Cheating Heart
pagenum: 120; title: Why Affairs Happen
pagenum: 123; title: It Can Happen at Any Level
pagenum: 125; title: Why Women Play Around Less Than Men
pagenum: 126; title: Six Common Myths About Cheating
pagenum: 127; title: The Nine Different Types of Affairs
pagenum: 129; title: Why the "Perfect Affair" Is a Fantasy
pagenum: 133; title: I Heard It Through the Grapevine
pagenum: 134; title: Eight Classic Signs of a Cheater
pagenum: 134; title: How to Handle a Cheater
pagenum: 137; title: Getting Things Right
pagenum: 140; title: A Guide to Recovery After an Affair
pagenum: 140; title: Four Vital Strategies to Avoid Becoming a Cheater Yourself
pagenum: 142; title: Summary
pagenum: 142; label: 7
title: How to Find the Right Partner(s) — The Mating Rating Quiz
pagenum: 144; title: How Most Relationships Start
pagenum: 144; title: Matching with the Right Partner
pagenum: 146; title: Core Values and Beliefs
pagenum: 147; title: The Five Most Common "New-Relationship" Mistakes
pagenum: 148; title: The Mating Rating
pagenum: 150; title: The Mating Rating Quiz — How Do You Measure Up in the Marketplace?
pagenum: 153; title: How to Find a Great Partner
pagenum: 165; title: How to Change Your Love Life Forever
pagenum: 166; title: How to Play the Numbers Game with Your List
pagenum: 170; title: Who You Should Avoid
pagenum: 173; title: Clues About Mr./Ms. Wrong
pagenum: 174; title: When the Chemistry Is Wrong
pagenum: 175; title: The 9% Rule
pagenum: 176; title: Summary
pagenum: 177; label: 8
title: Fifteen Mysteries About Men That Women Don't Understand
pagenum: 179; label: 1
title: Why Men Wake Up in the Morning with an Erection
pagenum: 180; label: 2
title: Why Sex Can Be Just Sex for Men
pagenum: 181; label: 3
title: The Nothing Room
pagenum: 182; label: 4
title: Why Men Are Obsessed with Women's Breasts
pagenum: 183; label: 5
title: Why Men Won't Tell the Truth to Women About Sex
pagenum: 184; label: 6
title: Why Men Love Curvy Women
pagenum: 188; label: 7
title: Why the G-Spot Is Like a UFO
pagenum: 189; label: 8
title: Why It's So Important to Men for Women to Initiate Sex
pagenum: 189; label: 9
title: Why Men Get It So Wrong in Nightclubs
pagenum: 190; label: 10
title: When Is a Man Ready for Commitment or Marriage?
pagenum: 191; label: 11
title: Why Mature Men Wear Speedos in Public or Proudly Display a Potbelly
pagenum: 193; label: 12
title: Men and Their Fetishes
pagenum: 194; label: 13
title: What Men Worry About
pagenum: 195; label: 14
title: Why Men Have Difficulty Saying 'I Love You'
pagenum: 196; label: 15
title: The Top Five Questions That Frighten Most Men
pagenum: 197; label: 9
title: Twelve Truths About Women Most Men Don't Know
pagenum: 200; label: 1
title: What Women Want from Sex
pagenum: 201; label: 2
title: Why Women So Rarely Initiate Sex
pagenum: 204; label: 3
title: How to Make Women Want Sex More Often
pagenum: 206; label: 4
title: Why Women Have Orgasms
pagenum: 209; label: 5
title: Why Smart Women Are Often Fools in Love
pagenum: 210; label: 6
title: Why Women Prefer Older Men
pagenum: 210; label: 7
title: Why Women Want to Be Touched
pagenum: 211; label: 8
title: Why Women Seem Distracted During Sex
pagenum: 213; label: 9
title: How Women Perceive Sexual Aggression
pagenum: 214; label: 10
title: How Women View Sexual Harassment
pagenum: 214; label: 11
title: Why Women Fantasize About Bad, Bad Men
pagenum: 216; label: 12
title: Why So Many Women Prefer Chocolate to Sex
pagenum: 216; title: Summary
pagenum: 217; label: 10
title: Thirteen Tactics That Can Improve Your Mating Rating
pagenum: 219; title: Eight Things Men Can Do to Improve Their Rating with Women
pagenum: 219; title: How Men Criticize the Competition
pagenum: 226; title: Five Things Women Can Do to Increase Their Mating Rating
pagenum: 226; title: How Women Criticize the Competition
pagenum: 232; label: 11
title: A Happier Future Together?
pagenum: 234; title: Married People Are Now the Minority
pagenum: 236; title: Are Today's Youth More Informed?
pagenum: 237; title: Why New Love Always Seems So Promising
pagenum: 238; title: We Are Definitely Different
pagenum: 239; title: Do Opposites Really Attract?
pagenum: 241; title: The World's Worst Lovers
pagenum: 242; title: How Women in Other Countries View Sex
pagenum: 243; title: Who Is Missing Out?
pagenum: 244; title: Put Your Finger on Your Sex Drive and Success
pagenum: 245; title: The Science of Future Love
pagenum: 248; title: Sniffing Out a Good Partner
pagenum: 249; title: Ten Reasons Why Sex Is Good Medicine
pagenum: 250; title: How So Many Were Fooled
pagenum: 251; title: Who Gets Who?
pagenum: 252; title: Why Evolution Is Probably Over
pagenum: 253; title: When to Discuss Problems
pagenum: 254; title: Summary
pagenum: 255; title: References
pagenum: 259