woaiheimi/moncler-long-jacket- — Issue #39: Australian Ugg Boots Yesterday Today And Tomorrow
Author: woaiheimi
Created: 2011-11-23 06:39:27+00:00
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Australian Ugg Boots Yesterday Today And Tomorrow

Just when you think you have heard it all, you realize you haven. In this day and age, when kids (especially teenagers) are being categorized as egocentric beings totally sidetracked with electronic devices along with their own social foibles, we may tend to forget when they do do something right or say something that touches us. This happened with my 12 year old daughter, Maddie, a few days ago.

As always, she ran down the street at 3 olock on the dot after a long day at school to meet me at my car. Usually, I can barely get a word in edgewise after hearing her ramblings about her friends, teachers, weekend plans to be made etc., that I usually spend the next five minutes Ugg Boots Sale the standard head nod many of us moms have mastered over the years. However, this after school experience was different and reassured me (gotta grasp those at on the back mom moments? that I am doing a fairly good job with my kids.

Maddie came into the passenger seat exclaiming, om, I could barely concentrate in school!?She proclaimed. mean, Thanksgiving and Christmas are around the corner and I am so excited I can hardly pay attention in class.?/p>

Here we go, I thought, a laundry list of the want this?and ?I want that?for the holidays. So, as I sigh trying to keep my composure I ask, hat going on??/p>

Taking me totally by surprise, Maddie proclaims every so simply, can wait to see my family for Thanksgiving and Christmas!?/p>

What? I thought. No detailed description of the new Ugg boots she wants or the latest cell phone? There has to be a catch?.but there wasn.

Maddie went on to talk about, in great detail I Women's Bailey Button 5803 add, about all the big and not so big traditions we do for the holidays ?from decorating the tree at her grandparent house to the certain shows we traditionally watch each year. From the taste of her Nan gravy to the smell of her favorite Christmas candle, her enthusiasm for what the holidays?stand for was definitely far more important to her than her list of things she wants for Christmas.

Wow, I thought as I listened to her talking about his tradition?and hat tradition? Geez, I must have done something right after all!

After my divorce, I was so worried that the kids would only remember the negative things about the holidays ?from the empty seat at the dinner table to the minus one stocking hanging over the fireplace ?but they hadn! Instead of focusing on what they didn have during Thanksgiving and Christmas, I stepped it up a notch tried to instill the value of family and the importance of spending time together during our time of transition. Wow, I smiled proudly to myself ?the kids will happily remember the holidays, after all is said and done. I wanted to get up and do The Happy Dance but decided to spare my daughter embarrassment and role with the moment.

As our conversation drifted from one favorite tradition to another, I realized that what is most important to Maddie, and to myself, I admit, are not only the traditions we instill year to year, but the reasons why those traditions come about. The traditions reflect culture (I am Norwegian so we celebrate Christmas on Christmas Eve) and our past (as each ornament represents timeline to our lives). What we value and hold near and dear to our heart can be symbolized with the rituals of the season.

Overall, Maddie ended up talking about things I had no idea were important to her. Who would have thought a single cranberry candle would symbolize comfort to my 12 year old? But there is something safe and secure about upholding family traditions as well as creating new ones, especially during times of change. With so much going on around you, be it you are moving to another state or have decided to take the plunge into a new career, take note on the importance of tradition to create peace and comfort during what could be a potentially chaotic time.

Over the next month or so, notice the traditions Women's Classic Tall UGG 5812 Metallic Gold your life. Remember what they represented to you as a child as well as what they mean to you as an adult. Think about how you have passed along those traditions to your friends and family and how they have been received. In addition, try to come up with some new ones to add to the old. This is a perfect opportunity to create a building block to share with your loved ones as to how much they mean to you. This will not only be the best gift you can give your kids during their times of transition, but it will lay the foundation for a new and better you.

Happy Holidays!