Hello, this is Bern and if you're a woman who wants to learn, have not just be loved, but be adored by a man. You are in lock because that's what I'm about to reveal in my episode today. Hello, this is Bern. Welcome to your great life to be like come today. It's another edition of Get the Love You Crave and I'm super pumped because I'm going to be sharing with you right now a quintessential question that every woman I connect with, no matter what her income level is or what her country is or what her shape or size or color wants to know and that's how to go beyond just being loved and be adored with a motion by a man. What I thought about is I'm going to share with you five top ways that you can practice immediately. Don't wait for this video to be over, start practicing as I'm speaking to you to really get this and to really get this level of deep emotional connection from a man which is adoration. This one is pretty simple but it requires a lot of courage and that's fall in love with your uniqueness. Here's what I mean. So many women are so unnecessarily caught up in their heads in this fucked up idea of who they have to be to be adored that it's ridiculous. You don't have to be someone you're not. You don't have to change the shape of your face or the size of your ass or anything to be adored by a man. You do, however, have to fall in love with how special and unique you are. Think about this. There is no other woman on earth alive today exactly like you and you have certain strengths that combined make you an amazing woman. If you connect that and if you're willing to express that to the world, if you're caught up in your head into how you're not that woman and have you have to change something to be worthy. Nothing wrong with you want to get healthier, nothing wrong with you want to be more knowledgeable. But if you feel like something's lacking in you to be able to be adored, that's a challenge. So right now connect to your uniqueness and express yourself knowing that you're very, very special and different from any other woman on this planet. Number two, turn on your intuition and here's what I mean by that. So many women are connected to their head and don't get a chance to open their intuitive center to know where a man is coming from. So if you turn on your intuition, this is going to allow you to A, know exactly what a guy is thinking or feeling. You get that general feeling of this is good or this is bad, this is creepy or this is weird. And you can take action more powerfully from that. But two, it allows you to stop wasting time with a guy who has a shitty intention for you or no intention at all and you're wasting and wasting and wasting time. If you turn on your intuition and you discover that the guy that you're with has a center of integrity that doesn't match yours or has different goals in you and he's not willing to align himself to yours and he's not your guy basically. You stop connecting with him and you connect to a man who can adore you. The biggest reason why most women are not adored by men is because they're connected to a guy who don't have it in them to ador them and they want to make him ador them. So it's not about making a specific guy adore you. It's about bringing yourself so powerfully into the world that the right guy with the right resonance that matches yours connects with you and falls in love with you. Okay. Number three, practice openness daily. And openness is a mind, body, spirit and heart thing. Those four areas, okay. Mind, be open to new ideas, read new books, come up with theories that are different from yours and challenge your own ideas. Body can't emphasize this enough. Open your heart. Regidity is the enemy of a man feeling it, admiration for you. Fluidity and heart openness and body openness and sensuality is the friend, the closest friend you'll have to connect, have a man not just feel mentally connected to you but evocinally connected to you because he can't control that feeling he gets inside when you open your heart and you open your body and you open your spirit. Okay. So that's number two. Number three, number four is drop to your heart and get to know your man from your heart. So here's what I mean. So many women are connected to guys at the level of the head and ask questions at the level of the head and become curious about him almost like an interrogation at the level of the head. Nothing wrong with that every now and then but when a man gets to feel that your heart really knows him when your heart is so open that you can put your heart into his heart and feel what he's feeling and it's a woman you have like a bastard to do that. It's one of the powers that make you so unique and so amazing and so different from men. You can really go inside someone's heart and feel what he's feeling. You can get to intuitively and emotionally and sensually feel what the man is feeling and understand him from that place. He gives you extra compassion. He also gives you a greater capacity to really get him when you can do that. A man feels like he's falling in love with you because you really get him. It's not a getting him at this level. It's getting him he feels this with his entire body. So it's incredibly powerful. A way to start is just when you're connecting to a guy, feel what he's feeling. Don't go from your head to your heart and feel what he's feeling. Number five, no when to lean back and when to walk away. Can't emphasize this enough. This is so important because the fear that most women feel when a guy that's amazing shows up and then pulls back is I'm going to compensate. I'm going to do all this things to make sure that he doesn't go away and that creates the opposite of other ratio that creates being smothered. That's the feeling that a guy feels like, oh my god, it's too much for me. I can't handle this. But if you lean back, if you actually have the you're connected and that's why I started with connect your unique is if you connect to your uniqueness, you have a capacity to lean back because you know the guy doesn't show up somebody else well. So you lean back and then if the guy is still not taking action, you walk away. Walking away and leaning back will be incredibly powerful and having a guy feel to stretch the pool, the elasticity between what he wants and he's not getting it that he will come back full force. If he has to then him and not just connect with you in a loving way, but in a enduring way. Now if the guy doesn't stand at test and when he stops connecting with you or he does something weird, you lean back and he doesn't go for it then it just tells you that the guy is not for you and you connect to a man who has the capacity to adore you. I would say this last thing, don't settle for love. Love is cool, but other ratio is even better. So if you find this is helpful, powerful, insightful, I'm going to ask you to do 3 things right now. Number 1, click like on this video. Number 2, subscribe to my channel. Number 3, I want you to click on this button here that's going to show up right now on your screen and you'll get an opportunity to enroll in a free live webinar that I'm hosting that's going to share with you, show you a 3 step blueprint to find your soulmate in 90 days or like super powerful stuff and it's free. If you have any questions for me, please leave me a note underneath this video and let me know what you think of this. 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