People say, tell me from the Quran where it talks about girlfriends and boyfriends. Give me the exact words. And I always say this about other things about people coming up to me and say, tell me in the Quran where it says crack cocaine hashish marwanis forbidden. While I ya shaykh you give me the exact word and I'll give it up in my life. I'll give it up. But the Quran doesn't address your terminology words of the street today. It doesn't talk about skunk and weed in the Quran. It talks about a word which entails everything that will come in time. It talks about hammer. Ghammer is an alcohol. Ghammer is ma'ghabal akhal. Wherever takes your mind away. So anything that takes your mind away, it becomes Ghammer, it becomes haram. But for those people who want exactly girlfriend, boyfriend, relationship, I'll tell you where it is in the Quran today. The Quran says, I'm going to read the fifth chapter verse number five. I'm going to research it for yourself. Women who don't take boyfriends, that's the loose translation. So there is from the Quran given to you now that the Quran is like what the opposite is mentioned as well. Men who don't take women as their girlfriends has been mentioned inside the Quran as well. When this is a common trend in this society, because they make us feel abnormal. They make us think that you don't have a relationship, you're abnormal. That's a natural deen. That's a natural way for men. Men who isn't to communicate and commit adultery. Men who these to restrain yourself and control yourself. That's real men who didn't sharia. So these people are trying to promote in a society and move themselves. Well, they must be harragists now. There's love before marriage. The sharia talks about love after marriage. When things break down, things get difficult. Children come in the family, hardship of work, losing one's job, and the reason that you find surrounded by that's real love. It's shallow understanding of love. My man buys me a rose, rides me in his BMW convertible, takes me here, takes me there. Where's your integrity? When real man, real man, you find the Quran preach about that. I'll read you a little, qawwamuna ala misa. Men are more dominant upon women because the word qawwam means to take care of the house. My man can't even wake up in the morning, you think he's a man? My man can't even work for a day's living. Lives of the dough, lives of the government. Rob's people is a crook, and then you think that he's a man? Real man is the one who takes care of his affairs, takes care of his house, takes care of his family, fends for them, and looks after them.