What is going on my digital escape? I hope you guys are doing well this week I'll be giving an awesome day. I actually had an awesome day today because I was able to go Mocha's your own this track. It's so distracting right now aren't you She's just a big ball of purr right now. You love me, don't you? Alright, you have to get down because I have to film video Thank you very much. I went out in Penny boarded for the first time this year I haven't Penny boarded since October I think so I've been so freaking deprived and I went out and I got soaked because There's a lot of puddles since the snow is melting finally and it was four fucking degrees And so that was really warm and I was sweating and it was awesome, so yeah, but I had a lot of fun It was it was a good day. So I hope you guys are doing well today as well and Learn how to English it in English So this week as you guys already know is advice week and I feel the number one thing that most of you asked me about For advice for is getting bullied and oh my god like I Can definitely relate to this kind of grab and I feel like maybe I can help you guys out a little bit Because I'm so passionate about just sharing my experiences with you and try to help you through things that you're going through because Everyone is struggling with something and unfortunately the majority of us deal with bullying which is I don't understand it, but It's it plays a role in our life So this is going to be a semi-serious video or just a really completely serious video Which is very rare because I know that you guys aren't used to that a very much a crazy didn't well and me being serious It's just kind of like are you okay? So but I can't be a serious person. I really can So like a lot of you I have been bullied and it's pretty fucking sad that so many people can relate these days It's like the human race is out to fucking destroy itself or something. I don't know man I've just always been kind of an outcast I'm the kid who befriended the weird kids at school because I just felt like it relates to the more and they're just easier to get along Kid I'm a weird kid too. I've always been a weird kid. I mean you guys know that but I really have and I just never had a big group of friends But man, I've been bullied since I was like a little freaking kid I remember in kindergarten and this kid would literally chase me around with scissors like fucking scissors Like why are you trying to cut me you are five and I remember getting picked on so bad in the third grade that I would literally get Pushed to the ground and these kids would kick me Why I don't know you know how you're supposed to have a teacher wandering around at recess making sure kids aren't beating the shed of each other Yeah, I don't know where the fuck she was and it's not so bad because you just it never really stopped And I feel like became an easy target because I was like too nice or something now you know our world is a sad place when being too nice Get you kicked in the face, but apparently that's just how it is like I'm Jaden the kid who caused harm to nobody and apparently that Made me an easy target like even in high school fucking bully It's probably the worst bully anyone's ever gonna get kids wanted to fight me no idea why I got called so many names And just shout it at down the hall like what the fuck is everyone's problem And honestly, I think some people are just so sad and angry and they just don't know a way to express these feelings So they take it out on other people like everyone is struggling with something even bullies They're struggling and they handle it in the way of hurting others because they're hurting or some people are just Straight up fucking jerks if you're classified as different whether it's the way you act the way you dress the way you style your hair You've probably even picked on Me and it's honestly so fucking stupid because we are all different I don't understand why some individuals think the world should be a certain way or that people should be a certain way Being different is awesome, man. We are all different and that is amazing Like given the fact that there's billions of people in the world and we are all individually unique I don't understand why anyone would want it any other way But back to the school thing my attendance was complete shit I missed so many classes. I was pretty much failing everything because I just dreaded school It just dreaded being around these people. I was like on the verge of suicide I was so fucking depressed I was like a war to get me out of the house and go to school in the morning I don't know how many times my mom would scream at me to get out of bed But I just I couldn't bring myself to do it some days. I really couldn't I'd avoid certain hallways I'd avoid being alone for too long and honestly if my best friend wasn't at school that day Neither was I so I really know what it's like Now let me tell you the number one thing that I really wish I had done sooner was tell someone if you're being bullied Tell a teacher or tell the principal I didn't because I was so petrified that telling someone would make it worse because in my mind getting these people in trouble meant that They were gonna come at me even more But the best decision I ever made was telling an authority figure like it's their job to make sure you're not bullied or that it stops And then you actually feel safe in environment with a bunch of fucking beauty teenagers So please tell someone please just tell someone because it will stop and let me tell you something that I've learned after school is finished There's a 95% chance you won't ever have to deal with these people's shit anymore I say 95% because I leave that 5% for the day that you run into them in a fucking store And they don't say anything because reality punched them in the fucking matter I haven't seen or heard from anybody who has bullied me But I have actually had a couple of them try and contact me wanting to be bifles and fucking that man Like they realize that I'm actually going somewhere in life and they're just stuck being an asshole But listen things will change They honestly will like look how much things have changed since you were a kid That's honestly how much things are going to continue to change You're not stuck and you won't always have to deal with this shit And whatever you do don't take what these people say to heart They don't know you The only things that you should take to heart are the things your friends say and the people who love you What the fuck was that? I know it's easier said than done but honestly fucking block these people out I mean it'd be so much easier if we could block people in real life like we do on the internet But just don't pay any fucking attention Please stay strong and don't take bullying lightly If someone's bothering you fucking tell someone I so wish I would have done that sooner I probably actually would have passed some classes Like I've always mentioned just the fact that YouTube has honestly saved me And just being able to express myself and not have people judge me I mean the internet is shit as it is I know because people fucking come and they say crap to me But I'm so immune to it now because I've gotten it so much That sounds bad but honestly I don't take that shit to heart anymore If you want to be a fucking dick be a dick But it only looks bad on your part because you ain't affecting me anymore Bitch But honestly YouTube has saved my life It's just giving me an outlet Like all these YouTubers and stuff Like when I was growing up I didn't have that And I'm so glad that nowadays like there's so many YouTubers spreading so much positivity And the fact that we can sit here and just share our experiences and just say Hey everything is gonna be okay And I wish I had that but for me making videos was my outlet But I'm so sorry so many you guys are dealing with bullying And there's... I wish that they could stop it I honestly feel like the human race is just trying to fucking destroy itself or something Because why are we so mean to each other? It's like everyone hates everyone Everyone's jealous of everyone And everyone's just putting everyone down Why? I don't get it And like I was saying about the block thing If someone's bothering you online Honestly just block them You don't need their negativity You don't need their shit They're just fucking trolls And just let them go be fucking lonely If you are someone who feels the need to like take your pain out on other people And make them feel bad You really need to find a healthier outlet So so many things you can do And there's so many ways to express yourself in a healthier way But I just wanna thank you guys so much for watching I know this has been such a serious video And I didn't really expect to do something like that I thought I can make some kind of joke about Oh here's once some advice on how to change your socks or something Like I don't know I just feel like bullying is just a really serious topic And it's definitely something that I've gone through And I feel like I can give advice on Because honestly you just really You really gotta just talk to someone And make it stop You don't have to put up with it You really don't There are like bullying is just not fucking tolerated Especially when someone has a say over Like when someone has authority It's not fucking tolerated So you may as well use that to your advantage Just make these people stop Like I don't understand the world I don't understand why there's so much fucking hatred But it doesn't belong in our society And I wish it wasn't here Because why can't we just all love each other And be there for each other And support each other I don't get it Why are we such a hate We're such a hateful race And I don't understand But anyways I just wanna thank you guys so much for watching So I'm from my long-ass ramble But I do care about you guys so much And I just want you to let you know That I'm here And the rest of my digital escape is here And all the rest of the my digital escape family in the comments We're all here for you as well And so just leave comments If you need support from people This is the place to be But on a lighter note I am doing another giveaway on my Pinyata account So I gotta do It's got my Pinyata follow me And spam my most recent post And I'm gonna be going through And picking a couple people to win a hot topic gift card So if you wanna be one of those lucky winners Come bug me And yeah we can all be smiles and stuff So I love you guys so much Please stay strong Stay positive I know it gets hard sometimes But honestly Things in life are never permanent Like time keeps moving forward Things are always going to continue to change So just keep your chin up okay Just keep smiling And just know that I love you And I will always be here Always be making videos Whether they're crazy Or whether they're serious like this I know it's weird It's weird Jay well why are you in through this mode But yeah I just felt like I wanted to talk about that kind of stuff So I love you Stay strong Stay beautiful And I will see your beautiful face Next Wednesday All right take care Thanks