Second for strategist of positive parenting, such no father, because this is parenting essentials from the vision guide, the home of case strategist of parenting. You are welcome. My name is Poeyer or you are loyal, your parenting coach. Today I will be giving you few keys on how to deal with our stubborn child. Let's get started. Number one thing you have to know in dealing with your stubborn child and mean very stubborn child is not to allow your child's world to control you. Stay in control. Don't forget me saying our previous video, your calm voice, your calm face and your calm body even when you upset, you must keep breathing, keep breathing, give a smile, stay in control. Number two, never get into argument with your child. It gives them a sense of power, they feel in charge, never get into argument with your stubborn child. The last point for today is do some listening. Almost every parent is guilty of these. We don't want to listen when we want our children to listen to us. So do some listening, use listening approach. Take a listening approach by saying something like that is interesting. Tell me more about that. It changes the conversation from argument to a dialogue. With these key teams you will be able to control your stubborn child. That we offer today, don't forget my name is Oye or Eliy O. You parent in coach. All our videos are available on our YouTube channel at the vision guide. Kindly click the subscribe button and don't forget to press the notification bell so that any time you drop new videos you can get notified. Thank you for staying to the end. Thank you for stopping by and I'll see you on another episode. Bye for now.