So today I wanted to talk about abuse. So I was watching this video that was like tell me you have strict parents without telling me you have strict parents. So I just need to watch this video and in it the mom starts screaming at the child and tries to throw a shoe at her and verbally braids her. So of course I made a comment that's not strict, that's just abuse. And the, hey, I got you must be white. You don't understand what it's like to be an immigrant child. The flat out defense of how this is normal and this is just how it is and you just don't understand was just insane. Now I'm not going to go and defend abuse. And I'm not coming in here. I'll try to be the great white hope. I also recognize the different cultures and different people handle things differently and there are different kinds of up rings and sometimes those up rings can still lead to a normal functioning healthy adult. But oftentimes those patterns repeat themselves and abuse is abuse. It doesn't matter what it's the cultural thing or not. And trust me, it's not about being white. There's tons of white people who abuse their children.