So I thought we'd take some of the masturbation questions that we got on the site. Which are kind of cute. First one is, how can I stop masturbating? Oh. Is that why? Is that from a man or a woman? It's from a man who feels guilty of masturbating because of their religion. I know. And that's so sad. He's asking the wrong person. I hope I said something about, I'm not the person to ask how to stop. But it's like what I would have in my life. Can you stop breathing? Stop eating? Stop eating. Not gonna stop eating. You know, really it's, it's basic is that. How can I stop eating? Yeah, if we would just understand that sex operates on that fundamental level. It's a basic human instinct in need. Absolutely. What is a real orgasm supposed to be like, my orgasm fizzles? I'm 31 years old and don't think I've ever had a proper orgasm. When I masturbate, I get a buildup intention and excitement. But it soon dissipates and I'm lucky if I feel a few weak, subtle, vaginal contractions. What's a real orgasm? I guess it's her question. It's what she just described. This is what's so interesting. It's exactly that feeling of excitement. You get up to a certain point. You build. And then you, and it doesn't necessarily have to be, you know, the, the rockets red glare bombs bursting in air. It's kind of like sex. Sometimes it's okay. It's okay, but like, you know, you don't write home about it. So she that she just described a, a, a, a, an old mild, a mild orgasm and because she's holding in her mind, she's holding the image of some extraordinary happening. What's your advice if she only has the weak one? Could it be that she's only having one and she's not? Because sometimes when I masturbate, the first one for some reason, the third or fourth of me, that's the big E. Well, this is very, very good. So if you have the one and you stop, it's a key. He's going, how can I prevent premature ejaculation? Truly back when Kenzie did his research, the national average for men after penetration was 2.5 minutes. Now I think, I know, average, 2.5 minutes, and... So that's the bell curve, that's right, whatever they call it. So does he penetrate and thrusts 2.5 minutes? That's why you got to put that off. Well, here's the other thing, when I was running the body sex groups. 2.5 minutes, if you're holding your upper body up, and you're moving your pelvis, you set the egg in the... Yeah, that's a long time. You set the egg timer. That's in the group. That's very fair of you to do that. Just show them what it's like when their man's fucking with us. And then I said, now I said, now lean down and kiss her and whisper a little sweet. Nothing's in her ear and the woman would go, oh my gosh, I'm tired, my back hurts. So what I would rather do is warm up for the first half on my own. And then what I would do is I would blow the whistle and Eric would come into the bathroom. We're ready to go. Honey, I'm ready. Boom, boom, boom. And that way, you know, the 20th. And that's very hot to watch someone masturbate. And men love to watch women masturbate. I had a guy that I used to fuck. He put it on, it's so amazing, because I would let him watch me. And I would just play with myself and that's all men want. They want to see what we want to see. It's nice to see. And it's nice to see your lover, it plays your own himself and you can see how he's doing it. I used to ask men not to say, I want to see how you show me how you do it. How you jerk your dick. Because then I know. Yeah. Because all guys are different. You have no idea. Some are really fast. And when you sit at your life hard. And fast and hard, then I know I'm like, in for it. I'm like, oh my jaw already starts hurting. Well, that's when I end up in porn magazine. I say, you're honey, do yourself. That's asking too much.