And guys welcome back to my channel my name is Vivian if you're new yet and on today's video I will be looking at parenting tips managing tantrums So are you a parent a son to be parents a caregiver this would interest you so keep watching Tantrum is a normal behavior among children so if your child is a victim some form of tantrum Do not think that your child's behavior is abnormal especially between eddies 1 to 3 tantrums can be severe You may want to know why children through tantrums they throw tantrums for two major reasons One your child has unlimited experience in managing his or her emotions So the best the child does are to do see that trophy to true storms to scream to cry and until they see what you're doing through tantrum it's All along before those age you've been catering to the child's needs you along with your loved ones around the child I've been catering to the child's every need if the dad part is sorry needs to die for change the child is hungry Whatever the child's needs is being catered for now. There is a shift So the child is now being taught to accept your wishes as against you the parent accepting is Wishy so of course the child is not going to accept that without a protest because this really is a difficult phrase for the child as the child through Tantrums but like the title of those videos shows be giving out For basic tips that can encourage the managed tantrum successfully The first tip is be understanding you want to understand that your child. It's not a miniature Adult your child. It's a baby You also want to understand that it's not even easy for the child to accept It's new position Trying to obey your wishes as against you obey is or ours So it's still difficult for the child to Accept to understand so parents want to understand this this will appear not to go overboard with your reaction when your child through tantrum The second is this be Calm I cannot over emphasize this sometimes children through tantrums just get a reaction from you And you know they are watching they are so smart So parents want to stay as calm as they possibly come when the child throws tantrums Losing your temper. It's not the solution to the tantrum You don't want to yell you don't want to shout you don't even want to smack or spank the child when the child threw tantrum if possible Press your igno part in Just behave as though the tantrum does not even exist or as though the child is not throwing Tantrums those who appear to stay as calm as you possibly can the third tip is Be firm old your ground like this is very important because If you are safe or you use to the child's demand the child is watching and Possibly next time is going to throw a tantrum because he knows when he does that It's a crisis be granted so you want to hold your grand as much as he possibly can you want to remember that You're saying no to a child's request is oftentimes for the good of the child So you want to remember the main reason why even said no to the request in the first place those who appear to all your ground Making your notes to be no Now the fourth which is one of the very important tips is the patient and Consistent remember I said it's a process the child is trying to Get used to this new life So it's not going to be a one of thing the tantrum is not going to do in do overnight So as a parent as a caregiver you want to be as patient as possible that he employed these tips A day it didn't work doesn't mean that tomorrow you're going to give up if you give up it means the child has won The child has seen that oh my tantrum all my action actually brought a positive result so As a parent as a caregiver you do not want to do that you want to The patient and you want to be consistent with time you see the child realizes that oh, this isn't working And he's just going to change so what are some measures you can put in place when your child is trying tantrum It's possible to designate a place in your own We send the child to when he or she throws tantrum that is in noti conum Children it's this so much if you have tried this you know that it works They it's this just the mention of a noti conum and you just see them stop throwing tantrums You also want to ensure that this designated place is as safe as possible So children can be very angry can be very violent when throwing tantrums So this mark things to the floor the Whatever is readily available in their environments they may use it to eat themselves or even Spory or destroy some valuables in your own so you want to be careful you want to ensure that the designated area is as safe as possible for the child That this video wouldn't be complete without me mentioning That some children throw tantrum in public and when they do it's really embarrassing The child creating his key is is seeing making A public spectacle you wouldn't want that so you see some parents they just giving They are see to the child request in public because you don't want to be embarrassed But you know this kids they are so smart like they are watching so as a parent You do not even want to yield because you are in public and you don't want your child to embarrass you if possible depending on the environment where you find yourself Remove your child from other people's view that's what you can do so Because we see some children that While in public or when they are against in their own they throw tantrums that On enoma they they just be with their parents they would don't do that Maybe because the child has observed that when I do this way I have guests when I do this in public my request will be granted so the kids are watching you want to take note of this So with those few points. I hope you should be able to manage your child's tantrum successfully But remember managing tantrum is not going to be a walk in the park It's going to take a lot of effort and it's going to take time So try to be patient and be consistent Give this video a thumbs up if you like it And please do not forget to subscribe if you haven't at this point until I see my next video bye