Listening to earbuds like sharing them and then watching anime in the back of class. It's so cute. Like, it beats any brat sorority couple ever. Yeah, I'm just trying to find somebody I can watch anime with. What's going on everybody? I'm in sunny California and this is another episode of fun grows on the street. Today we are talking about Asian love. So I'm here to ask people today, one, what is Asian love? Two, is there a difference between Asian love and Western love? And three is one better than the other. I don't know. Guys, I'm looking forward to hearing a lot of funny stories. So let's go see what we find out. I'm going to paint these scenarios and tell me what you think. This is a more of an American couple or an Asian couple. They're at a concert, they're party, they look over, they make eye contact, they're smiling, they're kind of like dancing with each other, far away from each other. They talk and then they dance the rest of the night together. American, American, American. Two American. Girlfriend gets sick. Boyfriend spends eight hours cooking a soup for her to drink. Asian. That's Asian, Asian. Asian. Boyfriend girlfriend, love each other. She gets in a car accident, she goes blind. But then she goes into surgery and then she comes back out and she has eyesight. But now he doesn't because he gave her his eyeballs. Asian. Sounds like a meme. Asian. That's Asian. I would say, I would say Asian, generally the bad drivers and also, do you guys happen to date more American guys? Has anybody dated Asian? What's the deal? Well, I've never dated an Asian guy but I wouldn't like be a poster. No, no. Yeah, I mean mostly Caucasians but I have talked to a few Asian guys. Talk to them. Like these girls over here. What is one of the differences between what is considered a very Asian style of love and American style of love? I remember watching Korean dramas as a kid. I don't know, that's just not what I would more intimate. You know, it's more like you can feel it more when you're watching this movie, right? It's a lot of commercials for Korean soap dramas and those just seem to be all this time will stand still for this love and that doesn't really seem to happen as much in American media because it's more sex centered and just like attraction based. For anime girls, they go to this booth and it's like the decorate with just a painted wall. So it looks like you're inside of some nice castle and there's this guy who's like cosplayed out to the nines. He's dressed like a prince or something with white hair. Girls will line up just for 30 seconds of them and he'll just like lean in and he'll just like plant his arm right there and the girls just like swoon or something. Like and they have kissing booths in America but I don't know why Asians are kind of like, oh well we'll get really close. We'll just like blue ball you and then just like leave you hanging like that. I feel like a lot more romantic. Like I'm thinking about like Naruto. It's like that's like a big ass love story but there's like the bachelor in American stuff. I think that's like not as like romantic and stuff. It's a lot more like quick and just get down to business. The Asian movies I've watched primarily Chinese ones. All have a focus around family orientation or career practicality. Americans are more quick to introduce to parents. Well Asians more like inclusive and you kind of keep it between themselves. For Americans in dating culture, it's kind of just like bring them out, go on double dates like every other time. The climax is them like holding hands at the very end of the episode and the climax no pun intended for like the western ones comes like in the first 10 minutes of them just getting right down to business. When I dated someone who was Filipino, like their parents were super formal and like want to have dinner with me. Now that I'm dating someone who's like white or Caucasian, it's more of like a kind of laid back and less formal experience. You never tell your parents. And for American like after the first day they want you to meet their parents. I think in Asian love there's definitely a greater emphasis on like appearance and outside image. You have to take into account like other people's expectations and other people's like opinions. Meeting their parents is actually pretty different. I think American parents are pretty more a lot more lax than Asian parents. If you meet like an Asian girl's parents, it's like see a trial. You're like on trial. There's like lawyers probably, you know, it's like there's pressure. I don't know if you saw that commercial like the Chinese commercial where it's like the dude pulls out the business card and everything. It's like you feel like you have to do that. I don't know it's kind of bad. Just meeting like the parents of like the Asian. It was just like I felt like I had to validate myself in terms of like oh what school do you go to, you know, like how you're doing in classes. Sinked in profile, resume, got to know how to cook to the girl right. All those things matter with the Asian family. Asians said to be more family focused. Mama's boys. Why you say that with that tone? You said mama's boys. Like, hmm. Asian boys they tend to be more clingy. I feel like their moms spoiled them a lot. The Asian boyfriend, what Asian was he? He was just Taiwanese. Okay. They act like they have like big dick energy all the time. It's kind of a lot. Growing up in a very international community in Beijing, China. Local guys don't actually like me that much because I'm really out there. And like I'm into like fun things parties. And like I don't think they like girls like that as much. What about you? You said you've created you date mostly fobs. Yeah, like I have a lot of fobs friends. You have like this concept of like guys should always pay for me or whatever. So, in our Asians they're like we can spit bills or you know, equally. What do you think the guys pay for everything? Do you think that also comes with like there's also like another buy-in? Like in some sort of agreement that okay you're gonna be down for me. Like you're gonna stay by my side. If I treat you well and I treat you like princess, I pay for everything. I guess a little bit maybe because like in the old tradition like guys are like just working hard to earn money. And the girls are just like housewives and stuff. So I guess that's maybe the reason why. Like with like an Asian girl it's like it's like the long-term game. You know you got to be in there for a while. And then I feel like I feel like with the like American couples it doesn't take that long. And then like they're also like they're more comfortable and casual with each other too. Like on the non-Asian side they never define the relationship. It's always like just kind of roll with it. Have you ever seen like those maybe the fob couples on campus or just Asian couples in general? You don't know if they're fobs. Where they're like sharing earbuds, listening to an anime. I know this one couple where like the boyfriend will come to the girlfriend's classes and sit with them. And then when they're not in class they're like writing the same skateboard together, laying in the grass together, having picnics together. He was always like right next to me and we were constantly holding hands. And then I mean when I was dating other people it wasn't always like that. Listening to earbuds like sharing them and then watching anime in the back of class it's so cute. Like beats any brat sorority couple ever. Yeah I'm just trying to find somebody I can watch anime with. Do you guys feel like sometimes like the way Americans date is too fast and you're like I don't like like where it's headed there's some sense of it. It's hard to get some instant value in our relationship because once things do go down it's hard to build something romantic off of that wall. Asian people tend to wait and be more conservative and that just build some more meaning in front of all the sexuality. Got any personal stories of Asian love versus non-Asian love? This Asian guy asked me out on a date and by the end of the night I I read I didn't kiss him back. The next morning I got a Vemma request of $40 for the meal. And I feel like Asian guys just have that expectation like that sexual expectation. This past summer I met this girl who is half Asian half white and we were like together for like two three months I met her Asian mom right and she like didn't have the best English and I was pretty ignorant and so she's like showing me around the house I'm like oh what's this book? Oh it's Buddhism and I didn't have a clue of Buddhism. I actually dated a banana and he was like yo you're too Chinese or Asian and he's like okay let me teach you the American way and like he started making me watch Disney movies listen to like Chris' carols and all like those super like basic American things and that was just different for me. Which style of dating and love do you guys prefer? Is there one that's better than the other? I'm learning more towards like the American style type of dating. I think it's just the mix I think I prefer that. American and Asian I guess? I like both. I'm Asian American so I think I like would like a combination of like the Asian and American style. Me the American style like American Asian kind of style like Jay Parker key homely kind of style. Asian in terms of like culture understanding where foods I like without me having to explain it and more Americanized and that they pick like cute dates. Whatever is the natural chemistry with the person that you're with? I prefer the clinging just because I'm a clean person myself. Matters more about like what their values are what their beliefs are if they match up with mine if I can learn from them. I'm a lover of culture I'm not discriminating anyway but I just feel like when you date another culture adds some different spice like dating Asian it was cool but I just felt like I was in my comfort zone and for me I like pushing myself to get out of the comfort zone. Definitely you're wearing a baked bandana you definitely like to be pushed out of your comfort zone I can tell if a man is wearing a bandana he is definitely down to date non-Asians I know that. Thank you everybody for watching that video about Asian love Asian dating versus the American style. This is my big major takeaway from all of these interviews today. There is no right or wrong way to love but there are definitely definitely cultural differences. Most people agree that the American style may be a little bit too casual and a little bit too quick and then the Asian style might just be a little bit too clingy and a little bit lovey-dovey. Most people agree that they would actually want some kind of mixture of in-between and even for some of the non-Asians that I interviewed they do respect and would even want to adopt some of those aspects of Asian love into their style. Seems like the Asian style of love is definitely becoming a thing but you might also need to find that balance. Let me know in the comments below what you think is better for yourself. The American style or the Asian style or a mixture in-between and what that might look like. 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