A lot of you guys can relate to this if you've ever had a girlfriend. Or just, you know, maybe a girl that you're having sex with, friends of benefits and you call her a bitch. And you say it though, and it's a dangerous thing to do to call a woman a bitch. And a lot of guys will try this and they'll get burned. It's a risky adventure that you're going on by saying that word. You can make a girl instantly a loose respect for you or you can make her pussy super wet. That's the real, real talk right there. And a lot of guys, what they'll do is they'll say it half-heartedly. Now look, if I'm going to, when I had a girlfriend, I called her bitch, you know, during sex or maybe just joking around. Are you joking around? Bitch, what are you doing? Give me my cup back. I'm not saying that is your some nasty bitch. Like, I'm not trying to hurt her feelings. That was never the case. And I'm fucking certain of that. In my mind, when I say that, it's out of, I think you're super cute. I think you're super funny. And there's just like this, this energy in me that wants to call you a little... ...con, you know, you little bitch. I don't mean it, I mean it out of love, baby. It's all love. I don't mean it any other way. Now look, now of course, the woman's going to test you. This is a classic shit test. This is a level, you know, this is a high level shit test though. Only the elite alpha males can say bitch and get away with it. No, I'm not saying that's, listen to what I'm fucking saying. Don't get lost in the South. Alright? If you're gonna call a girl bitch, she's gonna test you bro. And if you fail the first test, you're probably never gonna be able to say it again. I'm not recommended that you try saying this. But a girl is gonna test you to see what you really believe. What you really feel in your heart, alright? And so you can't have heart of the bitch. You can't do it like that. It's gotta be committed. It has to have backbone and you cannot explain yourself. Alright? Because it's not malevolent. It's with love. This is a key for all you men. You gotta have a backbone. You've gotta have a strong personal philosophy. The world, we've got a lot of social justice words, especially if you decide to put yourself online, social media, you better have a fucking backbone dude or you're gonna crumble. If people take advantage of you too much, you're gonna be destroyed. There's a A-SOPs fable of a lion that falls in love with a farmer's daughter. And he goes to the farmer and he's got a, you know, he's like, I wanna date your daughter. And the farmer's like, alright, but your teeth are very long. So go ahead and file your teeth down first. So the lion does. He comes back with these little nubs. And he's like, alright. And the farmer's like, well, your clothes are very long. I think you should go trim those. And so he does and he comes back. Now he has nubs his teeth, nubbed claws, and the farmer takes a batting and just batches in his school. And he kills them. The lion's dead. Because he lost his weapons. He lost his defense. Guys, you don't wanna be defenseless in the world. The only way is by developing a strong philosophy about everything. This is going to make you decisive. The people that I have the most admiration for in respect. People I wanna be like, you know, these guys seem to have a philosophy about everything. And it internalizes to where they're confident to make a sort of decisions, executive decisions, and give their opinion on things. Like they've got a philosophy about relationships. They've got a philosophy about philosophy. They've got a philosophy about religion, about politics, about business. Like they've read the books. They've thought about a lot of stuff. They've studied. And now they can make up their mind. And have some, they can be congruent. And so when they speak and someone tests them, which is such a key, and I hope you guys can really grab on to this because it happens. And I can think of another situation like, look, I'm a white dude. If I go to a black guy and I'm like, what's up brother? Like what's up brother? People are going, I've had, that's racist. No, that's respect. I love black dudes. I love having, I grew up with a bunch of black friends, man. They're like, they're, they're, they're confident. I'm afraid. Dude, I love that. They're funny, you know, I've had black rows in my friend group, man. You know, there's just, it's a different culture, a different tribe. Okay, so look, you can call everyone, oh, that's racist dude. No, I ain't fucking racist bro. Get over that man. Everyone's going to try to test you. Now, if you explain yourself to the mob, human nature is going to jump on that weakness and just tear you apart like a pack of hyenas. All right, you've got to be able to internalize, have a personal philosophy. And then, man, walk with that. That's your fucking sword. That's your sword of truth. All right, that's your truth. What's you believe? And I believe that when I say brother, it is not a disrespect. If I call, decide to call my girl a bitch during a joke, it's not disrespectful. All right, but they're going to test you and get ready. Never explain yourself. Never back down. All right, well, I mean, this is a good point. Sometimes you need to understand that you don't know everything. And that's where you got to be like water, you got to be moldable, you got to learn more, you got to develop even more. All right, but look, this is, this also comes down to a personal level where you can't be in an internal battle with yourself. You can't have a cognitive dissonance where one part of you believes this and then one part of you believes this. And we've talked about this with porn. When you watch porn, you can't spend any more time in regret, in a relapse, I'm posting about relapse now on the reddit forms among mode. Dude, fuck that. If I'm going to relapse, I'm relapse, I'm bust in the nut and I'm moving on. And you know what? I'm going to do better next time. I'm going to learn more nuance. If I decide, I want to read 50 pages today. And I don't, I'm not going to fucking fret over that, man. I'm going to be like, you know what tomorrow, I'm going to, I'm going to turn my phone off. And sometimes you got to be brutally honest with yourself and take executive action. Listen, man, enough's enough. Stop playing these mind games, turn the phone off, learn to focus, get the work done. All right, but you know what, dude, I'm going to be the CEO of myself. I'm going to be the coach of my life tomorrow. We're going to do better. I'm going to be optimistic about the future. I'm not going to be stuck in the past and stuck in my current little fuck up because it doesn't matter. We're going to die when I, I'm going to do better tomorrow. I'm going to do better within the next minute, hour, night afternoon. I had a cheat meal. I fucking had a cheat meal. We were dairy try as good as I am to play in winter. In winter and what will come next. Perfume's coming next. Every thingweight I'm going to be thinking like, we don't know how Delhi now moves forward. Move on. All right. What did coaches do when their team loses? If you're a good coach, just like a good parent, you say, give back up, we're going to give back to practice. We're going to keep going. We're going to do better next time. Next time. Next time. We're going to crush jeist team. A good parent. Correct. This is child discipline. stuck in an internal battle. Because listen, Abraham Lincoln said, some single mind must be master. Else there be no agreement in anything. That means nothing's gonna get done if you don't make up your damn mind. If you don't have a strong personal philosophy, if you can't coach yourself into moving on from the so-called triumphs or disaster, you gotta move forward, bro. You gotta move on. All right, you gotta move on. So guys, thanks for joining me. It's the Friday, it's the weekend. I hope you guys have a blessed weekend. And I will see you very soon. Peace.