All right, let's jump into the Q&A board and we have Miss Hurricane as our first Victim and I'm just kidding about victim Our store. All right the question is Miss Hurricane says question I started chatting with the guy I hadn't met in person But he kind of ghosted and popped back up and told me his mom passed away But he didn't kind of distance and I don't know what to do. Okay, great question. So this happens frequently when we're Communicating so most people these days are meeting through an online connection Most people these days are meeting through an online connection So what happens is we're connecting through the internet and most of our communication is either emails text messing or text messaging or telephone calls and So in these cases where you begin chatting with someone it is very common to get distracted in your personal life with You know on whatever is happening in one's personal life and Disengage in communication the reality is is most of the time we are meeting total strangers We have no familiarity whatsoever and let me just tell you something and this is as a man looking at women's profiles And I know women feel the same way most of the dating profiles these days are a fucking piece of shit I'm sorry the crap that's put out there you ladies do the stupid Snapchat filters and you do the you know the you know that sushi plate You just ate and show a picture of the mountains because it's so important I see that you love the mountains. I mean, it's so important that I know about that Look folks dating profiles should be crisp clear photographs of oneself That's it crisp clear photographs of yourself head shots body shots So the problem is is most the time when I'm communicating with someone I'm like fuck I don't know if I'm gonna like if I'm gonna be attracted to this person So I give minimal amount of effort and what happened in this case most likely is he wasn't enamored with your profile Doesn't mean that there couldn't be that there let me repeat that There might there was certainly something that made him want to communicate but I'm telling you Man only goes when they're feeling doubt when they only goes to disappear in communication before you ever meet Most of the time it's because your profile isn't stellar enough to hook on to go wow I want to meet this person folks Online dating your profile should look so fucking wow That it makes that you should have thousands of men wanting to go out with you That's how your profile should look and I got to tell you something I search through profiles every day and I see a wow out of one out of every thousand of women now I'd like to think I put together a wow of my own I don't know but I'd like to think I did that because I'm seeking a woman that wants to put a great Presentation of herself, but Jonathan. I shouldn't have to sell myself online. Yes, you do. This is your own look at folks The days of meeting organically is becoming harder and harder and harder the reality is is in the future 98 75 to 80% of all first dates are gonna happen through an online connection We are on that path. So you have a choice if you wanted to get a job Let's think about it this way if you wanted a job with let's say I'm gonna pick Richard Branson I'm very successful supposedly a nice guy if you wanted his the job with his Company and you were emailing him when you put together the best resume ever when you want your resume to look better than every other person's resume out there Sadly most people put shit for their dating profiles and garbage in is garbage is what you're going to get so you wonder Why it's a cluster fuck out there the problem isn't the online dating sites the problem is People and I'm talking to you people right there because 999 of you women have shitty profiles And if you need support with that check out a link below you can schedule a call with me to review your profile So I can tell you how fucking shitty it is all right, so going back to what do you do in this case? Look at you reach out to him and just recognize that this is the fat of the most important thing use my formula 3213 3213 all right you got it 3 email exchanges or text messages exchanges should lead to 1 or 2 phone calls and 2 1 or 2 phone calls should lead to 1 date and this should all happen in a 3 week period of time If you're not meeting someone within 3 weeks or less the likelihood of success begins to diminish But Jonathan it's a long distance. Yeah long distance relationships are a cluster fuck to begin with They if there's the exception to the rule but most of them don't work out because you don't you don't either your lifestyle You don't have a plan of how to taking the long distance into short distance So my rule of thumb 3213 only communicate with someone if you can get to meet them in three weeks Go from a 3 email exchanges 2 phone calls One date all in three weeks. That's my invitation and if you can't do it then focus on people that can All right, that's my my rant. I hope you got value from that miss hurricane. Thank you so much