You need to be one of the three men out of 100 women are drawn to. What you want is being mysterious and confident. Women are more attracted to men whose feelings are unclear. Let her do the talking and keep asking questions. Give vague and funny answers. Tease her and walk away if needed. Her attraction to you increases based on the anticipation of what is going to happen. Before she falls in love, which takes seven to eight weeks of dating, call her just once a week and only to set dates. Treat the one you like just like every other woman. Show that you are the leader in the relationship. Don't talk about your past or your hopes for the future. Let her realize she wants to get steady. Women want to pursue it. Women in a relationship or married. Use humor, be attentive, and make her feel safe.