What is going on everybody welcome back to my channel for those of you who are new around here my name is Michael aka Dr. Chlini and I'm a six in final year interventional radiology fellow in New York City now on today's video We are going to be talking about themes I wish I knew before going into men's school because the hindsight is always 2020 maybe it can help you out in the future signing up for this whole men's school route. So let's go ahead and get into it All right, so like I said the hindsight is always 2020 and I've had some time now to kind of think back about themes I wish I knew before Going through this whole men's school route and this whole physician route. Maybe it'll help some people decide one way or the other. Number one, men's school is expensive. So I pulled up the US news world reports here Kind of get a taste of how much men's school actually cost these days according to the AMA or association of our American medical colleges the median four-year attendance for private med schools and into about $338,000 over the four-year course that cost is 2% higher than in the prior year and it's around $82,000 greater than the median in-state cost of public medical schools in 2019 and 2020. Furthermore, I'm on the 48 private medical colleges that submitted tuition and fees to the US News and World Reports the average chart for the 2019 2020 school year was $57,937 a year so a tuition of almost $58,000 per year times four is 200 plus 32 so almost like $235,000 roughly that's a lot of money now I know a lot of people say doctors are notorious for having large salaries upon finishing medical school and their residency training you know about six to ten years down the road so a lot of people think that taking on this amount of debt really isn't a big of a deal since you know positions make such a larger salary on average taking out a quarter million dollars in debt is a big deal and it's not something to look past now should it sway your opinion one way or the other going to med school probably not but I think it's a big factor because a lot of my friends and colleagues at once in medical school have anywhere from a hundred thousand to upwards of four hundred and fifty thousand dollars in debt and it compiles year after year and interest is a you know what so you end up finishing residency with a pretty nice sized chunk of debt so a lot of times I tell my pre-med students who reach out to me that you need to try and find the cheapest school or the cheapest university you can go to and also the same thing for medical school as well there's a little difference amongst all of the medical schools across the US with the exception of a few of the top programs so like Harvard you know the Harvard name means a lot or like UPEN or Yale Stanford those kind of top to your programs the name carries with you forever but if it's not one of those top programs your medical training really doesn't matter your residency training is what matters the most that's where you learn how to be a doctor not in medical school some people are gonna hate me for that but it's the truth so before you try to go to an expensive private med school for a seventy thousand dollars a year try to get accepted to a cheaper one and I know that's easier said than done because you kind of have to take whatever acceptance you get but do your best number two it's very long medical school journey is extremely long and can vary anywhere from 12 to 14 to 17 years post high school for me personally I did four years of university four years of medical school one year surgery internship or first year residency four years diagnostic radiology residency and one year fellowship and intervention radiology which equates to 14 years of training some may say you don't want to waste your 20s or the best years of your life studying in a book all day long and in some ways I agree with that a lot of your 20s are spent in a textbook if you'd go into anything medically related but I think it's also an investment at the same time because you can still have money you can still have those experiences that normal 20s something year old to have you just have to be more strategic in how you do them you may have to study a whole bunch during the week to prepare for that weekend or week trip but it's just a little different you can still get away and find time to have fun and hang out with friends or whatever you want to do in med school it's not the end of the world everything's possible you just have to plan accordingly and I mean after a test you're not studying for that like an entire weekend so just go out and have fun but yes the medical school process in becoming a doctor is very long but you guys knew that already number three nobody holds your hand in med school now you kind of learn this the hard way because as soon as you start med school you're virtually on your own everything is self-study and self-learning and it's up to you for how much you want to succeed in medicine some people work way harder than others to land that golden super difficult residency in Harvard plastic surgery or whatnot and some just kind of do a little bit in between it's completely up to you and no one's gonna hold your hand or tell you otherwise or even give you guidance on how to do it or what to do like you're completely on your own from day one no one sits down and tells you how to study what to study what's important for the rest of your life no one tells you at the end of medical school how to get into your residency no one tells you what the secret is no one tells you how to write the best letter recommendation it's all like trial by error that's like the full medical school residency journey you just have to get in there figure it out on your own now luckily we have a whole bunch of youtube videos and tutorials and mentors that can kind of help us guide along nowadays but you're still really on your own and no one ever told me that so if you're someone who needs someone to hold your hand the entire medical school journey you may either have to break that or try something else so again if you're one of those people who likes their handheld throughout their life or throughout school I can tell you how to study and all this stuff you may want to reconsider med school or you may just want to learn how to kind of be more productive on your own because no one told your hand in med school I could say that much now I already talked about this a little bit but medicine doesn't necessarily have to consume your life you can do other things outside of medicine now it is medicine very time consuming and is studying medicine very time consuming yes however that doesn't mean you can't do anything but study medicine in fact I encourage you to do otherwise you need to find hobbies outside of medicine and make friends outside of medicine because it's nice to kind of get away and do things to clear your head and not be surrounded by medicine all the time this is most important in medical school and residency where your hours are very long you're studying a lot or in residency you're working a lot and every chance you get you just need to do something else whether it be rock climbing going to the gym which gyms are starting to open now painting surfing I don't know what do something active do something fun and just do something to get your mind off of medicine and that's really all I have to say about that one I'm about like this angle I think this is a bad angle for me right now the last tip is arguably the hardest and that is it's very beneficial to have a partner with you during this entire process and I say that for multiple reasons one it's an escape you have someone to talk to you have someone to talk you through things with times or tough you have someone just a bounce ideas off of and talk with while you're going through these tough times and number two it's also good because you have someone to help you out so for instance as busy as I am during residency my wife helps me out more than you would have ever known she makes breakfast for me she makes coffee for me she gets up when I do to go to work and she doesn't have to go to work for three more hours after me I mean that's just those are just little things she does laundry she keeps up at the house because she knows I'm working like a dog over at the hospital but also I'm running this whole YouTube business when I get home so I'm constantly constantly constantly working and I just don't have time to do normal day-to-day activities so she helps out so much I'll have a dinner too I mean she's the best and I don't think I can do this whole thing without her and now I know you guys well it's hard for me to find someone blah blah blah yes that's true but it doesn't have to be a significant other it can also be a best friend it can also be a classmate or a co-resident as well but really it's just nice to have someone to kind of talk through things with it's cathartic it's therapeutic you know what I but for me my wife is that person I couldn't have gotten here without her and I don't think I could do any of this at all without her she basically runs my entire life outside of work and I'm okay with it so whether it be a study partner a co-resident or a significant other having a good partner on your side makes all the difference in the world with this whole process of medicine so alright that officially concludes this video hope you all enjoyed it as always please leave a comment below if I liked it I respond to it make sure you smash the like subscribe button for me and subscribe if you don't already otherwise see you all on the next video yeah