What's going on, Lesby fam? Today we are gonna answer some questions, particularly one question that Betsy and I have talked about numerous times and we want to go ahead and answer it on a vlog for you guys. So the question is am I gay? Yes? I'm just kidding. Me and Jo... Let me mom! Another question that I've gotten recently and that is Kind of a touchy subject for me So before or so let me take it back pre-successful IUI I dealt with a lot of questions about you know how am I going to feel having a child that or at that time I didn't know we were going to have twins so I do say child but how was I going to feel having a child that wasn't my blood and a big part of our oh excuse me babe oh oh for me honestly becoming a parent has been one of the best blessings in my life I am 100% a mother and there's no doubt in my mind about it like I said before I did have my inner problems personally and they and you know speaking talking about this now Betsy didn't even know about that yeah I didn't know about that right now and they were just personal things that I don't I don't think I wanted to tell her because she was pregnant with twins you know the least I wanted to do was stress throughout um but that past you know that past you're gonna have a lot of questions throughout the whole process but trust me when you become a parent there's just no better love I I mean it's just the great feeling um so this is from at jk dot g o n i so pretty much they're asking all the lady boys of lesbian fam questions surrounding the birth certificate and how that process went um and if we had to adopt our child I did not have to adopt our boys so it was crazy in the delivery room the nurses brought a birth certificate over to beds and it was weird because there was no parent one parent two option there was strictly a mom and dad Betsy and I were in the delivery room and we haven't been you guys could see her face right now she gets so mad at me it's like I don't love get your shit together oh such a blur looking back at the delivery room it's crazy there's nurses everywhere we had two little things in a little tube and it was just crazy and to be honest with you it was a little bit of a blur because we were in full parent mode when the when the kids were born we had double everything we had a change we learned how to change diapers in there and we were getting you know parent 101 from the nurses but anyways I remember Betsy crossing out all the labels that said dad on the birth certificate father yeah that said there was no option for two moms there was no option for parent one or parent two which was strange because it was only three years ago so I thought you know we would be a little bit more advanced uh then what we are or then what we were you know three years ago it's not that that far back uh from talking to the LBM moms uh lady boy moms on the other side I believe it has been enhanced now and right bit yeah there is um better options I think it's probably parent guardian one parent guardian two I'm not sure but on our birth certificate Bets did cross out the father part and she would write mom or mother I put mom to yeah mom to and uh so that was a little strange and you know it threw me for a loop because honestly I thought I thought we were in a different age and they made me feel like so 15 years ago you know but we just kept them moving you know at the end of the day I'm on the birth certificate that's all that matters really and um what else do we talk about baby if you guys don't know about Betsy's killer eye she has like the stare of death and so when I miss up oh when I do something like vlogging and doing all this stuff you know I love to share my life experiences with you guys because I I feel extremely empowered and humbled by a lot of the people that come up to us on the daily and thank us for everything we do but I'm not used to it I'm not used to being on camera all the time and talking you know I'd rather just talk to you in person so anyways when I mess up on the LBM vlogs I get this stare of death Arab death you better do it I can't do it you're not pissing me off I'm seeing another woman thank you for that question um on IG hopefully that answers you guys um I think if you're planning to have kids now or are are pregnant now you're gonna have a little bit easier time on the birth certificate than I did but that's okay everything's gonna be evolving in the next 10 years five 10 years so everyone's experience will be different as long as you know that you're the parent and legally you're the parent that's all that really matters you know so that's my story if you guys want to know how the other LBM ladyboys feel go ahead and comment below throw them some questions I'm sure they'll answer for me honestly becoming a parent has been one of the best blessings in my life I am 100% a mother and there's no doubt in my mind about it all right you guys so we hit a thousand subscribers thank you make sure you keep watching if you're if you're new if you're a new subscriber and haven't seen some of the shows go back rewind and start watching some of the old ones so you could catch up on some of our you know initial struggles all of our all of our opinions the other families and 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