Alright so Oprah Winfrey, Megastar, one of the most successful people in the world, a billion there. She wrote this book, What I Know For Sure. It's almost like a little diary of her life, all the lessons that she's learned from her way, from her terrible youth, where she was abused as a child in poverty, to rising up the media chain and becoming this global superstar who has such impact in people's lives. And this is a wonderful book and I've really summed up the two main things of this book and I actually write them in the back of the book afterwards so when I go back and I don't want to read the whole book again I understand the message and the two main messages that I got out of it are, I only speak positive about people, okay, I only speak positive about people and be generous and give. It's so simple but just think about it, if you only speak positive about people you will only think positive, if you're always looking for the positive in someone, then you're looking and you're looking and you're looking then you can compliment that person or you can think positively about that person, you are going to have positive emotions, you're going to transfer those positive emotions onto the other person and you're just going to be happy together. When you're always looking for the negative you're trying to find something that's wrong with that person, you'll find those things wrong with that person. Too many people in romantic relationships for example, they're in a relationship for six months and they start to find fault with their boyfriend, the girlfriend, the husband and the wife, stop tallying up all of the bad things or all the things that you dislike about your partner and start tallying up all the things that you love about your partner. Start thinking positive about people, compliment someone, open-wind-free, use this successfully in her life, she's always speaking positive about other people. If you try that you say something about someone behind their back, that's putting negative energy out into the world. That's making you negative and that's not helping you. The other one is be generous and give. Now you don't need to be generous by like handing over money but be generous with your time, be generous with your affection, be generous with your encouragement of people because when you encourage people, when you support them, when you help them in any way you can, whether it's just a small little thing like helping an elderly lady across the street or whether it's when you're at a Starbucks, you actually put down an extra two dollars and say you know what, shout the person behind me, they're coffee today and just do it and walk away, don't even expect anything in return. When you are being generous, you feel amazing. People appreciate you and you live a positive, happy life. So let's move away from thinking this person's wrong, this is how my life sucks, let's start thinking positive. Open-wind-free only speaks positive about people, she's generous and she gives so much and what she knows for sure is that when you give and when you only speak positive about people, all your dreams and life come true.