some of this here we have this random thing actually I just kind of spotted quickly on the on the odd radio of course which I'm one flipping every single day but I think I've mentioned here a few times I think on this show that I'm not the biggest christian fan and this this is a sad thing too because I want to light the guy because I was a big fan of his before I still think he's probably weirdly enough one of the best interviewers in comedy when it comes to actually interviewing people that he actually likes and he's a fan of he asks some really great questions on his podcast like really really great questions or people that he's even just curious about people maybe people he doesn't know too well people who is intrigued by he asks some really illuminating questions but when it comes to being on a podcast I feel like this kind of adult brat or so this adult jock no I don't joke this adult frat boy thing he's got going on brat jock whatever you want to call it but this adult frat boy thing he's got going it's just a bit corny a bit cringe a bit lame and a bit annoying but I also appreciate him being a stand-up comedian and a brand of comedy that he does he kind of has to continue acting in his kind of arrested development phase right he can't really grow up because his brand is about being a silly goose fucking around taking his top off and drinking bear beers so that's whatever it may be and over time because I've been dipping in and out the bird cars are listening every time to time I've kind of started liking him again and I realize why I like the guy but I think before I was only listening to his podcast quite often and you know he's personality can be draining as hell and you're going to take him a small dose but one of the benefits one of the good things are about that Christa I think is that he legitimately seems like somebody that's got a massive heart like somebody who legitimately if someone told him that you could kill a world hunger by giving a charity 10 million he'd give it jimmy because he just wants everyone to be happy was ever to have a good time he's the kind of the kind the person that you would always want to be left alone with at the bar or the person that you would want to bump into in the toilets of a club somewhere he seems to be so so chill and for whatever reason him and tom segura one of his close friends and comedies who he does two best one cave with they have this weird tradition what they have going on with their birthdays where they try and wound up each other in terms of birthday gifts and I just tried to go above and beyond in terms of getting the perfect gift and it kind of made me smile because someone like myself who isn't the most friendly I would say doesn't have the biggest friendship group and also doesn't necessarily care too much about his birthday in general at all to the point where I never ever celebrate it ever ever ever and I get sometimes quite angry and people try and make me celebrate it it was quite nice to see disamand the effort and love and affection go into making someone else's day special like this is this is a video of bird christia basically giving tom segura his gift which happens to be a souptup BMW that's been basically souptup to spec to be able to ride on a racetrack and it's probably worth I don't know it has to be worth over 100 grand or something it's an incredible car right and he's gone to all this effort to get me the car because of his tom segura loves driving you know fast cars and it's just like wow in the video clip I'm going to play now it brings but just as much joy to see tom happy in the car as it does tom being happy to have to a car like that you know I mean the collection it's just insane so I'll play the clip for you now this is your birthday present your future is happening oh my god dude look at this fucking thing oh I'm a BMW E65 or something it's not strictly going so fucking fast it's moving it's a race car I don't think it's a parking brake I don't know if he's there this is so insane we're trying to sit in it this is how tight it is it's fucking race car you want to be in there snug oh my god I'm gonna get stuck this is amazing I fucking just drove by a cop I was like happy birthday buddy I love it it's unbelievable that was the fuck it be best how nice is that hey how nice is that like how happy looks to be just giving him and again if you're not seeing a clip there's a picture of Bert here took basic embrace and tom and really chapter he's made him happy with this gift it's a fucking fantastic present and I was just wondering in general because you see a lot of people online especially these birthday week types right for what you see for the most part it's mostly an eye thing it's mostly celebrate my birthday week like give me loads of attention give me loads of gift take me out I'd never be under understood that if you were a birthday person would you want to have your closest and your dearest next to you celebrate all the week long kind of like similar to like a hendur or stagdoo so you're gonna be dragging and clicking and screaming to bars to restaurants to museums to fancy locations to shows to concerts to celebrate your day because that's what you want to do and they are obliged to do it because it's your birthday but make it sweet I don't know maybe offer to pick them up in a car maybe offer to buy the ticket from to go it's never like that usually with people that have birthday weeks it's always like you turn up to restaurant or ipict happens to be really expensive I remember that being a shift that I remember when I was younger those are shift when when I was younger or when I was growing yeah when I was much younger actually there was a time period where I did celebrate my birthday for a bit and my mom and my parents did this really sick thing where they'd give me money and say hey here's some money and you go take out your parents to nandos and this is when nandos was first sort of launching it wasn't necessarily the biggest thing ever but it was a special thing right so it wasn't like now so you know people go to nandos every single day but back then if someone told you hey I'm gonna take you to nandos it was like I was like a treat so I would get some money 50 60 pound we're gonna be having much I could spend no you don't have to get everyone a mill and basically get everyone a mill just put that money behind the bar and then here or put them in be able to tell what not and get everyone to order what they want and it was always really gratifying oddly enough even though it's my birthday and no one's getting me a gift no one got me even a flippant card right it was still nice to have everyone around the table kind of out for you and you're kind of paying for their meal do you know I mean it was just a nice feeling it really made you feel warm inside oddly enough um because you you know nowadays or western way of kind of celebrating birthday does more about you receiving presents but I feel sometimes like if you especially if you got the means to do so um going out above and beyond to make someone that's happy just feels way nicer it really does I don't know what is what it is about and again the bad thing about me I don't celebrate my birthday is and I don't really give a shit about I was birthday is either so it's not even like I'm like giving and I can kind of say yeah I can hide behind that I'm not giving and I don't receive well either which is a real pain I don't know what it is maybe it's because of a past trauma you know coming up as a kid I never really got the things I ever wanted so you kind of maybe trick your brain into believing you don't care about the birthdays so that you don't get hurt if you don't get a thing that you want maybe I don't know or maybe just genuinely there are people at me who exist who just don't give a flying f of our birthdays I've never have if anything the closest thing that I really did what I was trying to be specials one one time I tried to throw a party myself in Dawson ages ago and you know seven people turned up which was super embarrassing but it was just you know it was a party I tried to promote no one really cared and it was what it is but that was the last time I tried to put on an event for myself maybe that was the reason I don't know I don't know what that is I don't let me know in the comments if you're the same do you really celebrate your birthday I don't know maybe because it's the thing you have to do under the age of 21 or something but I want to know if you're over the age of 25 let's say do you celebrate your birthday do you go out and do you go above and beyond is it something that you just wait for people to give you gifts for do you give people do you give people the opportunity to know do you give your friends and your family an easy opt-in to attend your birthdays like do you pay for ubers do you promise to pay for ubers going or going back home do you supplement some of the meal do you put somebody behind a bar to get drinks like let me know I want to know what people are doing I think because I don't know if I'm the freak or if it's just normal what I do in terms of never celebrating birthdays and at the most I might go to shop and buy myself an electronic wine and cheers myself to you I mean like here's one other year you survived it's a big group it's a bit sad but you know that's what I usually do when it comes to celebrate my birthday is but you know maybe I'm in the minority there but who