Okay, the mixed gender MSA thing I'm gonna do a whole thing on this one. I'm gonna do a whole program called shame Just on this just on first of all how does Quran talk about shame and where is it compromised for Muslim youth? That are religious and that are not religious. There's two kinds of Muslim youth, right? So I want to try to address both of them and Inshallah, Tala Maybe offer some Quranic advice about these kinds of situations more often than not these are moral Stances than fatwas if you understand the moral guidelines and you can stick to them You'll be fine and if you don't understand them you'll have problems and here's just one moral guideline that I'm gonna Be sharing in the future. I'll just give it to you now if you're standing there talking to some guy Sister if you're talking to some dude on campus And somebody from a distance can get the wrong idea Like if your father was watching from a hundred feet away and he would like be like what's going on over there? Or your brother would get the wrong idea or your husband would get the wrong idea and you probably should not be in that situation Okay, if it can be misinterpreted then you shouldn't be in that situation. So that's kind of a litmus test Sort of thing as far as conversations are concerned if you're completely comfortable Having a conversation with Anan Bahram in the same exact way if your father was standing there and Your your tone wouldn't be any different your body language wouldn't be any different the words you use would be no different then go ahead But if you think that if your dad was standing there or your husband was standing there or your brother was standing there or your grandpa was standing there or let's just say if I was standing there Okay, I've grandpa me, you know, so And you're your your tone your your the way you carry yourself your infructions would be impacted even a little bit then probably you should not be in that conversation These are good easy litmus tests. They're not a fatwa. They're just litmus tests Care, you know, because if you think it's not I'm not doing anything wrong then why are you changing your behavior if your dad's there if it's not wrong Why are you so ashamed of it? Why are you so shocked by it? You see so your inner inner conscience is telling you there's something up But I won't go further in that one. That's a that's a big one though. I do respect that. That's a big problem