Now, on with the expanding on the men needing control violence and boys doing doing rough things, this is where having a dad in the picture comes into play because dads are able to teach their boys discipline through rough housing. They are able to show teach boys restraint through rough housing. Now I get it if you're a mom and you see boys and their dads rough housing, it looks scary, it looks horrible, it looks somebody's going to get hurt. There's this chance that somebody may get hurt, but that allows them to learn limitations, learns to go, hey we went a little too hard on that we pushed us, just to touch too hard. So we need to dial that back a bit. So dads need to rough house with their sons and their daughters because it is a tired boy is a happy boy and a tired dad is a happy dad.