Well the one thing I would definitely say is there's no do or die in this world. Nothing is important enough for you to take so much pressure that it defines your life. You have to be like water. You know learn to be like water adaptable fit into any vessel, have a sense of calm, have a sense of patience, but ambition is extremely important and I don't just say this to girls, I say this to boys and girls. Just everyone who wants to be able to have a purpose in life, have an ambition, have the guts to find your glory. It's extremely important to have guts, to have conviction, to be able to say that you know this is what I want and I want to achieve it.