Because when I get fired up, I get fired up. I don't know what else to say. It's spicy, honey. I get full of black stuff. No way to like, you know, I'm from New York and I get loud and I talk with my hands like, I don't know what you want me to say. You're like a nice, relaxed Canadian guy. I don't know what you want me to say. This is Pretty Big Deal. Get up here. Shoutout to Revlon, because I've got this aparacute blush that's going in my eye. But that's the whole point. It's like the blush goes into the eye. A little bit on the nose. We warm up the face. Thank you, Kayaty. It's all about a versatile makeup look. So thank you, Revlon. Today I'm talking with Haley Bieber. I would describe her as Hollywood royalty, but also at the core of Haley, I really feel like she's just as sweet as pie. From the day that I met her to who she is today, I have to say that it's the same girl. So check out a few of my favorite pretty big deal moments with Haley Bieber. There she is. Hi. How are you? I'm good. I miss you. I miss you so much. Now you've been married for two years, but can you just describe to me a little bit like your last year, two years together? Everything happened really fast. You know, I think everybody knows that. Everybody's gonna be like, hey, did you get married? But I think that that was beautiful. Like I think because you guys already had such a history. Right. I think that's just something that people even publicly they don't know. I mean, getting married at 21 is really scary. Although I felt like I'd lived a lot of life and I always knew I wanted to be married young, I just was like, I always had this idea in my mind, like if Justin and I ever end up back together, we're gonna be like way later in life. And I'm gonna be like, he's gonna be like 30 and I've figured it out. And if not, we're never gonna be together. And then it just came back around in a way where we were kind of just trying to figure out how to be married. I remember this, because you and I had lunch and you were like, I'm happy, I'm single, like I'm not talking to Justin, I'm in fact I'm not talking to anyone. Oh yeah, I've always been extremely independent. I lived a lot on that. It's great. It's so, like, my space. But I felt like the time that things came back around for him and I was the time where I really had like, let it go. And was like, I don't know what's ever gonna happen at this person, I just know that I want him to be in my life forever to some capacity, whether like he's meant to just be my friend forever. I just love him and I just want to support him and like he's always gonna matter to me. I think that to say communication is key is like the obvious and any relationship. But beyond like communication is key to keep a relationship together. What else have you guys done or like implemented into your life? We did pre-marital counseling. We did counseling within like the first five years. We do date nights. We've got like games we play with each other. What are you guys doing to keep communication? Similar stuff like that. I mean, we did do like counseling and some therapy together before we were married. Pre-marital counseling. Yeah. And I also think the thing about him and I is that we had a lot of hurts between the two of us from stupid, stupid that we did to each other when we were upset and jealous and annoyed and like, you know, just things that needed to be healed and fixed before we were gonna get married. And then also things, when we were married that kept coming up that were like, you know, things start to just kinda like pour out when you're married because you're like, well, you're here. So might as well just tell you everything and like tell you that that bothered me and like that actually really hurt my feelings. And the thing for me was that I started hanging out with him very early. So I was like 17, 18 years old. So because I came from this like Christian household and his background where I was like the homeschooled girl who was just like doing their thing and kinda like inexperience and just- Because his lifestyle was he was onto our tour. He was so big. He's a pop star. You know, whether it's like we are in another country tomorrow and then the next day, but there's probably like parties and all this stuff happening around him. It was just like a lot. There was just a lot that I was experiencing all for the first time. So then like when we got back together and now I'm like 21, 22, I'm like, now I have the awareness to know that like actually at 18 years old that was a lot for me. And like I wish that that hadn't happened or like, you know, it broke my heart when this happened or like I thought it was disrespectful when you did, because when I was 18, like I wouldn't stand up for myself the way I would now as like an adult woman. You're two good looking people. Like very good looking. How do you guys handle- How do you guys handle jealousy? I think for me personally, like I think jealousy is like a normal natural human being feeling. It's gonna happen no matter what. Like if I could take the jealousy out of my body, I would, but like it can't and neither can anybody. I would say that like I know for somebody in his position, there's always gonna be people that don't care that he's married and that will try if they feel like there's an opportunity or if they don't feel like there's an opportunity, they'll just try anyway. I'm like, it's just up to you not to let anybody think that they can get that far. You know what I mean? And we just have built a lot of trust because we really went like zero dark 30 in the beginning. Like we went to the source of so many different things and did so much unpacking that it's like, we're now at the place where, I mean, it keeps getting better. I feel like, and I would say, I know he would say something. It just keeps getting better because everything got worked out the way it needed to be and you know, we were able to, there was nothing we weren't able to work out together. That's good. That's a good man and that's the way it should be. We also now have rules and like systems in place, like we don't go to bed mad at each other. That's a big role, right? We also like really try to play fair. Like we don't, like we're not name calling, we're not like what you did this two years ago, kind of. Yeah, we don't try to poke at the past because I don't think that's fair and I've never liked it. We have a thing about tone as well, which where it's like, nobody wants to respond to somebody like attacking you or yelling at you or raising their voice. So when we come to each other, and it took time to learn what each other needed in an argument or in a conversation and for him a lot of it was tone. Like, because when I get fired up, I get fired up. I don't know what else to say. I really want to say. It's spicy honey. No way to like, you know, I'm from New York and I get loud and I talk with my hands like I don't know what you want me to say. You're like a nice relaxed Canadian guy. I don't know what you want me to say. So I had to really work on that where I had to just be able to be like, it makes me feel this way, you know, like. To hear the whole conversation, make sure you listen to Pretty Big Deal wherever you listen to podcasts. And thank you to my friends at Flamengo for keeping me only hydrated with that light hydrating spray. Mm. Haley, thank you so much for giving us a little peak behind the curtain of your life and just being so open and honest. I love you. I appreciate you. Listeners, you're going to love this episode. Make sure to subscribe. To hear the full conversation, click the link below.