Hello everybody and welcome to this video where you will find out one of my most despised phrases that I hear people say. I'm going to tell you what the phrase is, but then you got to stick around to understand why and why it's dangerous to anybody, whether it's a creative or just everyday normal person. And what that statement is, is, it is what it is. Oh well, we'll see things like that, you know what I'm saying? And here's the reason why, because usually when people say that they are residing themselves to whatever the situation is. Now the term itself, it is what it is, isn't necessarily a horrible thing. But when people say that, when you say that, you got to think about the words that are said before that. So if you're saying it because you're like, well, you know, I'm not going to be writing anytime soon. You know, like there's too much stuff going on. Maybe later on down the road, I might like take some time to do something, you know. It's just life is hard, you know. We'll see, you know. It is what it is. Okay, that's basically you saying, I agree with life fucking me. I am completely resigned to the fact that I'm getting shafted right now. Okay, so when you say this, you're training yourself to settle. You are training yourself that it's okay to not strive for bigger and better things. You're letting yourself know that you're not worth your dreams and aspirations. That those things are above you because you know why it is what it is. You know, and I'm here to tell you, if you say this, if you've heard yourself say this, if you're sitting here watching this with somebody else, and the person next to you went, you do that all the fucking time. If that is you, okay, I'm here to tell you that you are worth more. Okay. If no one has told you that, I'm telling it to you now. You are worth it. You are worth the fucking pain, the fucking stress, the risk. You are worth chasing that dream, you know. Like I've said this so many times. No one is going to make your dreams come true, but you, you have to do the work. You have to push, you have to run, and you are worth the effort, okay. So don't ever feel like you have to just put your hands up, and you know, like life is hard. So this is just what it is. This is my plight, you know, it is what it is. That doesn't have to be the case. You are in control of your destiny. You can decide whether or not you want to put up with this shit, or if you want to strive, if you want to push yourself, your dreams are worth fighting for. Okay. Don't let anyone ever tell you different. You can totally do this. All right. Just don't ever utter those words again. It is what it is. You're better than that, okay. This stuff available on Amazon and Etsy and free on my website. Links will be down below. Just keep typing hard. You got this. You really, really deal. And you're worth it. Okay. So I will talk to you all later. I just want to give a quick thanks to those people who will make these videos possible. And I hope you follow this on Patreon. I appreciate the help that you guys thank you so much for keeping me going to keep this content possible. And if you'd like to join the career of the Anarchy Crayo, just hit the join button beneath this video. And if you'd like to be a member of my Patreon, you can run over to link down below to do that as well. Thank you. Thanks for watching.