Have you dated white girl? I dated them briefly, didn't really like it. I've never dated a agent actually. It was kind of hard in the beginning and I just feel I don't know what to say. I feel like girls. Huh. Why is it that other Asian men have a harder time dating outside of their race? I don't know but it's like for them. Hey guys, this is Isabel with ABC's of attraction. We've been talking to the lady since the entire time that today we are going to be talking to the Asian men. We're going to pick their brains because according to the US Census Bureau, Asian women are three times more likely to marry white men versus Asian men with white women. So why is that? Is that because Asian men don't like white women or because they don't want to date outside their race? What is it? We're going to find out some answers and you guys are going to come along with me. Have you dated somebody outside of your race? Yeah, I've never dated an Asian actually. Oh yeah. Because I grew up in Europe. I never had Asians around me. I had like one Asian guy in my whole high school. No, I have not. No. No actually. No. Yes. You have? I have dated my girls, but I've been with my girls. I haven't. You haven't been in relationship with white girls, but you have dated them. Yeah. Sure. Well, yeah, actually I have, first few girlfriends with Filipinas. And my last one was Korean. I am Korean. Oh, OK. What about girls who are like white or black? I dated them briefly. I didn't really like it. Yeah. Why is that? I don't know. I just felt like I didn't connect with them as much as I did with the Asians. Half white. Half white. So no full white yet? No. What was it like to date somebody outside of your race and as opposed to somebody who is Asian? Actually, she is Asian, but then not exactly. I mean, she's half. If you could pick any celebrity, that's the kind of girl that you would date who would be. Any celebrity. Any celebrity. I would say Theresa Palmer. Honestly, I don't think celebrities are that attractive because they're just portrayed to us that way. Teonaji. Who's that? She's hot. There's another girl in the immune. Anna Sherry. Yeah, she's hot too. I don't want to get it. Get it with them because they exercise. They work out. They're not Asian either. So I don't know. Are they? Please check them out. Probably fun being eaten. Oh, I'm so gorgeous. Yes. Oh my gosh. She's gorgeous. Ariana Grande. Okay. She's absolutely attractive. I would like to date Taylor Swift. She's taller than me and she's like. You can still date her. Yeah, you can most definitely date her for sure. Yeah. I think it's hard to date outside of a racist and Asian guy. I believe so because it's just this unspoken difference, I guess. The Western society women likes when a guy approaches, but as many Asians, the majority of them don't like to make the first step and they are mostly shy and they're socially not so open. I think there's a culture barrier. I came here five years ago and I have tried. It was kind of hard in the beginning and I just feel I don't know what to say in front of them. Probably it's for the language barrier and also it's just a very exotic culture for me and that is a contributed reason for me. We're not a very successful attempt to date another woman from a different race. I see. Would you keep trying? Why is it that other Asian men have a harder time dating outside of their race? I don't know, but it's nice for them. Fair enough. We just care, you know, do you, right? Well, for now, yeah. I mean, it's pretty easy for me, but I guess for Asian men in general, it would be harder because I have had white women say to me before, oh my God, that's the first time an Asian guy's approach could. Would I initiate approaching a white girl? I'd be a bit more hesitant than approaching an Asian, but I would approach a white girl. More Asian men need to be more assertive and approachful. But I also feel like part of the reason why women in general might not be, might not seem eager to date Asian men is because of the media. Do you think they easier harder to date white girls? I think probably, yes. I think they are more open than Asian girls. Oh, so you think it's easier? Yeah. Okay. Asian is attractive, physically attractive to them and another Caucasian male is also attractive. They're not going to just immediately choose the Caucasian guy over the Asian guy because the Asian guy is yellow. I think I'm more female with my classmates in the Asians, so I just dated with them. I'm not in favor of any particularly Asian women are women from another race. I think fair chances that I may have a different race partner for my marriage. You're in favor of love. I'm going to wrap up with a few closing thoughts here. What I found today is that all these guys I met, they all have the common denominator of being Asian, right? But they have all these different backgrounds. I mean, you have the guy who came from China recently and they have the guy who has born and raised in Europe. So they have all these different experiences. And something that I heard mentioned a lot was opportunity. And I think that comes from the situation and upbringing that they have. I mean, if you're the kind of guy who's been around like white people all your life, then you're going to have to be more familiar and more comfortable with approaching a Caucasian girl. As opposed to saying Asian guy who's been around Asians his entire life, then he's going to be more familiar and comfortable with an Asian girl. But it's about, but when you step outside of your comfort zone, I think that's great. And it's going to be new and possibly awkward. And the opportunity is also putting yourself out there and putting yourself outside your comfort zone. And it's being prepared for the opportunity. Meaning you got to keep persisting and learning how to be ready for that moment and that opportunity. And as the more you put yourself out there, the more confidence you gain. And that's needed for any kind of relationship or dating. Thanks again for tuning in with ADC's of Attraction. I'm Isabel Tew and I will see you guys next time. Have you been approached by Asian men? We're not skinny enough. No, that is not true. I mean, I'm married. So you're married. I got you. I'm not really approached by many guys, actually. I'm attracted to white men. I'm in the enemy nerds. There's something new about it. Hey, everybody. This is Isabel Tew with ADC's of Attraction. And today I'm in Hollywood and I'm about to go on the streets to look for gorgeous girls to ask them the burning question of, do Asian men approach you? So let's go check out his feet.