Alright guys, I'm back for part two now of this video in between my kids flying around, snacks, diaper changes, diffusing, fights and all of those things. How did you and your husband meet? We met when we were 13 and 14 and then we started dating when we were 15 and 16, but not technically dating until I was 16 because that was a rule. We met at church and I think I answered this before in another video, but he skateboarded. My church had to skate park that we went to and he skateboarded there and I went to church there my whole life. So that's how we met. How many siblings do you both have? He has one sister and I have four brothers and they're all younger than me and his sister is younger so they're both the oldest child. Do you have family close by? I have family close by. He has some family close by but his immediate family lives in Tennessee. So all of my family is like real real close. And where are you originally from? We're both from Michigan. Are you still on meds? Yes, I am. I did a video talking about being on pro-zac during pregnancy. I went on pro-zac for postpartum depression and I decided to stay on it during this pregnancy because I felt like the benefits for me and my children and my sanity and my stability outweighed any kind of risk or anything like that. I felt pretty safe being on it. So yes, I'm still on it and I feel like it's going really well. I actually had an appointment a couple weeks ago just to kind of check on things and I feel like I'm in a good spot. How different is this pregnancy from the previous ones? I'm going to do a specific pregnancy vlog but I guess in a nutshell, I've been way sick or this time. I've been way more tired this time. I lost weight faster and I gained weight faster this time. And I feel like hormonally it's a little bit harder too. But I have three kids. So I feel like with every kid you have, I kind of ups the ante of the impact your pregnancy takes on your body because you already have people that you need to take care of. What have you been up to lately? I'd love to hear a little life update. I did a life update. I will link it up here for you. What is your favorite oil diffuser? Right now I use the innu from Amazon. It's just a basic Amazon diffuser. Can you sit here with me for a minute? Yeah. Okay, Jude, can you say hi? Look at how big this little Bubba is. I know him and Azra, they love each other or they hate each other. I love him too. Yeah. They're 18 months apart and I feel like it's just like, are you a Christian? If so, how did you decide to be a Christian? I grew up in a home in with a family that were Christians. I am a Christian. But I believe that God called me and I believe that He saved me and it was not of my own doing but of His grace and mercy in my life. Are you overbying toward the new baby? Are you overbying or you overbying? I'm not overbying. I'm not like, overspending. But I am kind of overbying for the new baby. I'm trying to put it off as much as possible. I'm excited to have another girl because I've just got done having two boys. So all the girls have is a million times cuter than what it was even when I had Fiona. But no, I'm trying to. I'm staying with my mentalistic mindset which is interesting. Having a baby and preparing for that. But we also live on one income and we're trying to be free of all in smart and taste stuff off. So, you know, we don't have a lot of money to have all the things. Alright guys, we only have a couple more. Let's get through those things for bearing with me. How do you keep your house clean? I have a fairly large home and I feel like I'm the only one who cleans. My husband does help me but I don't feel like like he helps me like if the kids and I are picking up toys and for bed or if he doesn't have homework and maybe the dishes need to be done, he takes care of mowing the lawn and things like that. John is finishing up seminary right now and he also works full time. And so I, because I'm home, I feel like that is kind of my, um, a lot of my responsibility. I feel I take on is in the home. And so I do take care of the home. I would say that a lot of kind of maintaining my home. I mean, you'll see the kids just dump toys everywhere. He wants to meet me in the bucket. I'm almost done, Baba. I'm almost almost done. This is kind of the reason why I haven't really been filming because that kids that need me that are wanting me, but I do think it's for the person that I'm trying to do something and they got to respect that too. So anyways, minimalism has been epic in keeping our house clean, getting rid of stuff. I felt like I couldn't take care of my house before and now I realize I just had too much crap. And so get rid of it. If you feel like you can't keep your head above the laundry, get rid of some of your laundry because the last laundry that you have, the more likely you're going to be to do it, right? To stand tapeth it because you know you don't have 500 different outfits to pick from. Also, I have limited what the kids keep in their bedrooms. Fiona is only allowed to have Barbies in her bedroom with her Barbie house and also some dress that dresses in her closet. And that is it. Any other toys that get brought back up at the end of the day, get put right back up downstairs because it just is overwhelming to me to walk by her room and see her wood floor covered in toys, which is not always her because Jude will go in there and just like dump things. He's too and he just dumps all the stuff on the floor. But it's hard to keep up with that. And so instead of getting angry and getting overwhelmed and frustrated and you know, having to nag everybody all the time, I just made a rule that this is what's new bedroom and this is what's not. At the end of the day, if it doesn't belong in your room, we're putting it downstairs and it's a lot easier to put away all the Barbies in a bin than it is to separate and soar and organize all these different toys and it's overwhelming and it's just insane. So no, I could probably do a whole video on that, but those are just some little things that I do. I do try to do the dishes at nighttime, try to pick up the house, but I would say minimalism is huge. Getting rid of junk. How does Fiona feel about getting a baby sister? She is over the moon. You can imagine. She's so excited. I'm reading this. I'm remembering reading that someone asked me if I was playing a home birth with her and I'm not. I'm planning on doing another birth center birth at the same place I had Ezra and had Jude. Last question. Do you have food or drinks that you stay away from while pregnant? I don't drink alcohol when I'm pregnant, obviously. Food that I stay away from. I think the food that I'm supposed to stay away from, I don't really eat anyways. I don't eat sushi or anything like that. Getting out. I probably have more caffeine than what I should, but I do limit myself, but I've got three kids. I have lunch meat on my sandwiches, even though I know technically you're not supposed to. It's coming from my fridge. I know it's not even sitting out. I know how old it is. I know lots of women, including myself, that have delivered healthy babies that have not gotten sick off of eating a cold sandwich. Those are all the questions that I have at this point on Instagram. Once again, part one is linked up here for you. I don't know how long these are going to be, so hopefully they're not too long, but hopefully you guys can forgive me because I have been gone. So I had a lot of stuff to cover. So I hope you guys are doing good. Have a fabulous day. And if there's any questions that I didn't cover that you want me to answer, comment down below, and I will either respond to you or I'll do those in a separate video. So, all right. See you guys later. Bye.