We got okay, what are you guys long time no see I know you are probably like what is even going on right now? Because you'll have it seen us in so long and we haven't seen each other in so long So we were just talking about the crazy thing that God does is like sometimes when we say something will never happen Watch me yeah, and it happens and so for us we kind of thought you know We never do a video together. Yeah, or even hang out again Yeah, there's a lot of stuff and we were just like snow But God said yes, and he said I need you all to do this and we're so glad he did We're so glad he did so we had missed on our heart tonight We wanted to share because we went through it and I think a lot of girls go through it and even guys too and so Cold through I'm gonna be good. No pressure So yeah, say deny are having a sleep. Oh, I hanging out tonight for the first time in a long time There's a long time and we're just talking about things that we've experienced and things we've gone through and we're like You know what it might be a little hard It might be a little weird might be a little awkward to share with people But we go through things so we can share with other people and maybe we can help you guys out and help you guys work through stuff too so Tonight Welcome tonight on Sadie and Kobe We are gonna talk about friendships and Season table about yeah, right. Okay, so here's the deal so You go through high school and you have some Strong friend groups. I think whenever you're in your freshman year I think we all say that you have the most friends that were you're like this is awesome I love high school. It's great. Then as a year's go on you start losing your friends and people start changing and things start changing You don't know why and for me and Kobe would experience this we met a church camp actually on Twitter and I invited her church camp and we became friends and it was such a gods and a relationship and it was awesome but then we just started letting the enemy take over and we started you know Feeding ourselves lies and making drama out of stuff that shouldn't have been dramatic and we started acting like children And we let our friends have died because of that something that was so gods in it and something that was So helpful to so many people we just let it die and so we're pretty chill Because we needed each other and what we realized is we let the Voice of the enemy speak louder than the voice of God and I think that we were talking like that's what America does And that's not America with the world, you know We let all this bad news and every single day and we just hear the bad news all day every day Instead of letting the light shine and there was truly so much light shining in the world right now And that's what we realized what a friendship there was a lot of light shining in our friendship But we just didn't take the time to notice that we just noticed all the bad things and so for you guys Kobe can start encouraging you all because what we really want to say is don't let that happen to you all It doesn't have to be a freshman to senior year you've lose 20 friends even though that's Typically you know it sometimes it happens like but it doesn't have to be like that. Yeah, yeah, we We experienced this I've experienced it with other people. She's experienced it with other people You know sometimes I Think that We just get distracted and we take one little thing and think that it's the end of the world or we take one small thing and think that like I could never be friends with them again because they said they didn't like my shoes or you know And like we allow ourselves to do that and sadly That's kind of how like what she was saying. That's kind of how our world is It's kind of what our generation does We want things that come easy. We don't want to really have to put in work for things and that's sad and we Like were the people who get to break that and were the people who get to end that and say you know what? I'm not just gonna give up on a relationship because maybe one thing went wrong or they said something about me They should never I said something about them and we can't do that because Jesus doesn't give up on us and we say and think Yeah, yeah for that one and so it's like Whenever we should be treating our relationships the way Jesus would treat our you know his relationships with people and I've started doing a thing where anytime I meet someone new or I sit down with an old friend or whatever I'm like all right Lord rather than me seeing this person through like my earthly eyes and trying to pick out something wrong or something Flood or whatever I say let me see them through your eyes and let me appreciate every good thing about them because there's so many and Don't let me get caught up in oh But you know he said this wrong or she said this wrong or whatever like no we're here to love like that's One of the most important commandments is to love one another and it's like no This is the good stuff, okay, yeah, you don't want to be like don't talk to me I don't have time for you like yeah, no wait, you know, it's like You know, hey, how Jesus did and the thing is guys This is like something that I realized is people would tell you that it's okay and people would tell you that that's normal Like I would tell people that stuff that's going on in the end go being like oh, you know It's just girls tell girls are that's how friendships go they come and go they change But no God says no, that's not normal. That's not what I had in mind for you I had so much more plan for you go back together and Find me, you know like forget worrying about all the mess But find me in the middle of this and we did look what happened and so we're not here to say look at us Look at what we did we're here to say we want to help you because I don't want you to ever have to feel Or ever have to go through this pain that we had to go through and so if it if this speaks you Share it and comment and tell us about it because we need to know that we need to know that we're helping because Thing is guys like she said we're the people that change this y'all are the people that changes We are the people of the world and we have to be atmosphere changes We have to be the ones that go into place and people see something different. They're like what what's wrong? Yeah, what are you doing? And you say oh So we hope that y'all have a great night. We're having a great night and I hope this speaks you all yes We are so excited to hear your guys' feedback So if there's somebody that you are thinking about as you watch this text him or call him or send him a Selfie and be like hey you like you know just be a world changer because it's all worth just to be We're sister change world and show people Jesus and he's showing people Jesus by sub-tweeting them. Okay, you know it Text someone call someone whatever and or even maybe it's looking yourself in the mirror and being like hey I forgive you for this or whatever Do it tonight Yes, and tell us about it. It's green shot in no just kidding. You don't have to be up. Whatever you want to Yeah, we love you guys so much and we're just so thankful for what you're done for me and Colby and everything that you've done for each other And we just hope that this makes a lot to you. Yeah, good night guys. Good night