I want to make my husband feel really special in bed. He is so good to me when we make love. Always brings me to so much pleasure. I want to do the same for him. What is the ultimate fantasy for men? Please advise. Everyone says men love blow job best. Is that true? Is that what I should do? It's not about what you do. It's how you do it. So for men I find generally speaking that their biggest turn on is literally just knowing that their partner is really excited at the thought of being with them. You know everyone likes their partner to be actively interested when they're making love but somehow in men that little bit of extra grure that comes into your voice and your body when you're really turned on that seems to really do it for the guides. So don't worry so much about what you are doing. Just let him see how excited you are, how aroused you are, just at the thought of being with him and be really vocal about it. Use your words, use your breath, use your sounds. Let him know that this is one time only he can satisfy you because as I said just knowing that somebody is really excited about you, somebody is really horny for you. It's just more of an aphrodisiac for a guy than almost anything that you can actually do.