Music Welcome back to being Wendy. If you're new to this channel, hi my name is Wendy aka Mama Fabian and today We're going to be focusing on a very very important topic because I feel like most of our subscribers are either young moms or our moms that are about to be moms or just you know in the summer I'm saying guys so my dad Shout out to my dad because he's the inspiration for this video. Might I give me this newspaper? cutouts from Friday and the what is it called the topic of this Atical was the risk of feeding your baby in the lying posture If you're a mom you understand Very well what that whole topic means without even me having to explain it to you But to those who don't understand like most of the times no most of the time Baby's always wake up in the middle of the night from like two four five, you know those weird weird times So during that time you're obviously very tired and you don't have the strength to actually like Pick your baby up and breathe with them. So what you just do is you you turn your baby to your side and while you're lying down You just take out your your breast and you breastfeed your baby. So according to this atical Let me show you guys that you can see the risk of feeding baby in lying position so This article is saying that the guys who actually feed their baby in this position Especially for kids that are under six months old always end up going to the doctor The symptoms that this parents normally say is that the the child have an unexplained fever They have difficulty in sleeping and they are overall irritable Yeah, and once the doctor does his whole diagnosis and everything he finds out that your baby has an ear infection So the risk of feeding a baby in this lying posture is that you're maybe going through Unlike a 90% chance you will be gonna get like an ear infection So let me read for you guys what this Atical is saying avoid bottle feeding a baby who is lying down. It causes ear infections Doctors have warned not only bottle feeding but also breast feeding infection in under six months old Is mostly bottle feeding or breast feeding while lying down? He explained that babies have little openings from the back of their throat to their ears Call you station tubes. Hey, what's the one? I didn't know If you did biology you understand the whole anatomy of the ear and it says that The babies have little openings from the back of their throat to their ears called you station tubes Which are shorter wider and flatter? So when you feed your baby in a lying position the liquid pulls in the back of the mouth And the liquid can then back up into the ears Through the you station tube causing inflammation in the tube So this inflammation is what gives you baby that discomfort that fever and it ends up causing an ear infection for You be bad because bacteria can enter through the tube into the ear and cause an ear infection So I tend to believe like nobody wants a baby with an ear infection you guys I once got an ear infection And that was like the worst pain I have experienced in my life like my ear was literally Like glad was coming out of my ear you know like you feel like if you like one of the look you're like you don't and then you You stay without waking up for a while then once you wake up the blood just rushes to that You don't know that's how an infection feels like you feel like your head is gonna fall off you feel like now You know your ear that the balance to your whole body So if one of your ears is infected you're not going to be Okay, so you don't know once you'll be going through that definitely especially if your baby is under six Months hold because it's saying that mostly the people who've gone to this doctors or like this specific doctor Have babies who are even weeks old and they've already gotten this infection you guys So I really feel like this is something very important that we need to Pay attention to because it is very very Like avoidable, you know because they go ahead to say like the best way for this to not happen You baby is in the middle of the night here. Yes, I know you're tired But it's it's even hard for you to dress for the weeks old baby while you're lying down because you know First of all, they still need to learn how to properly latched on your nipple So I think it's also important for you as a mother to actually carry your baby up sit down and actually rest Feed them while you're sitting down so that in that way We don't get this infection and you personally as a mom you will not get like very very What is it called like your nipples won't be so understand because of like the baby breast feeding in in a romp in the wrong position So I feel like it's advantageous for both the mom and the baby but most especially for the baby who we do know once Getting this infection. I remember when Fabian was a very very She's very very young. He's still young anyway when he was weeks old I used to be so tired you guys. I won't even lie. I used to be so tired in the middle of the night when he wakes up But I never used to never once did I actually pull my breast out and breast feed him like that I used to normally carry him and fall asleep while I'm carrying him which is also not safe But I was on the bed and I was sitting But at the same time it's actually I think that saved him Because I feel like because now because he's older I actually do breast feed him while we're sleeping Like together, you know because he doesn't breastfeed as much during the night electric toy cube. I sketchy Easy that's the only time he'll breastfeed ways of avoiding this this milk going back into your baby's tubes One of the things is anytime your baby wakes up in the middle of the night to Obviously they're crying so to breastfeed make sure you pick them up you hold them Make sure they latch properly on your nape wall and they breastfeed because the doctor's here I think it takes five minutes maximum for baby to be done with like breastfeeding especially in the middle of the night So five minutes is not really a long time to prevent getting any infection which is going to give you a whole Headache for the mothers who don't sleep with their babies. I feel like it's very very advantageous because at the end of the day If your baby cries are going to wake up go pick them you know going to go back to your bed and sleep and breastfeed you will be Obviously, you know, you're going to sit down breastfeed them and take them back to their bed So if your baby has their own bed That good for you, you know, but for the mothers who are sharing beds with their babies Make sure to hold your baby up and breastfeed them that way They avoid getting this infection because they say Prolonged in infections can cause hearing loss. Yeah Where where where are my positive For longed in infections can cause hearing loss hearing loss in a baby can make it harder for hard for him or hard to speak and learn Obviously you can tell if your baby is not understanding the things that you're saying, you know like small things like come Hi, bye. I love you. You know things like that So you really don't want your baby to have problems when it comes to understanding everything that they're supposed to understand at the Fatten stage that they're at whether they're like eight months old, you know the way the babies develop you want them to develop normally and yeah, I feel like that's really there The major major thing that I wanted to talk about today because here you can see this thing I think oh, but this will be so cute you guys like here We even put it it's not an nb really, but It's said the best way to handle a baby while feeding is to carry him or her Feed them then let the baby rest it takes five minutes at most guys. It takes Five minutes to prevent an ear infection for your baby. That's my it's called long term You know, this advantage is so much for tuning into this video Make sure to like this video and also make sure to subscribe to our channel Yeah, so thank you guys so much for tuning in and I'll see you guys next time. Bye