Yeah, I think somewhere along the way there became this universal statement that parents would say, and it was like, don't talk back to me. And I understand that, and we do want to raise respectful children. But I learned that when I would say things like that, the kids would shut down. And when they stopped talking, I stopped having an influence or an inroad into what they were experiencing. So early on in my parenting, I just said, you know what, keep them talking. And if they get disrespectful, address the disrespect, but don't shut down the conversation. You also say something like, if they say something that freaks you out, you got on the inside? Yeah, from down the inside, but tell your face, just stay, stay in that place where you're like, calm, that is really interesting. Don't show it on your face, because the minute you show it on your face, it'll also shut down the conversation.