Have a great day! No time to go. Take care could be pretty. Hi, she was seven. I'm back. So today's topic is how to act on a date, like on a first date. So you've gotten the guy to ask you out. He's taking you to a nice restaurant or wherever you want to go. How do you act? How do you let him know you're interested, but you're not easy. How do you get what you want out of the date? How do you make it seem like you're genuinely interested in him, but you are not, you know, so easy. How to play hard to get a little bit. Okay. So first of all, your first impression is everything. Okay. If he sees you and he's like jaw dropped and his like, and he's, you look better than you look on your pictures or whatever if you're met online, or you're just looking extra beautiful that day. Make sure you try to do something extra to get his attention. Okay, because you want him looking at you the whole time and infatuated by you. Okay. This way he can't say no to you or it's hard if he does. So when you, when you first meet on the date and he asks you, okay, so where do you want to go to eat? Name a place that you really want to go. It doesn't matter how expensive it is. As long as it's in his prize range, you know, just make sure he makes enough money to afford the place. So if your dress nice, have a nice, you know, accessories, hair, nails, makeup, and you have nice shoes and a nice outfit, he's going to feel like he has to treat you really good. Like he has to go all out. He has to pull all the stops. Stop. So make sure your dress like you expect the best. Okay. Don't dress sloppy. Don't dress in sweat. Don't dress in jeans and a t-shirt because it's casual. When you go on a first date, it should, you should be tapered. You should look like you want to be treated, okay? So when you get to the restaurant or wherever you're going, look at the menu, smile, you know, look around, and he'll ask, oh, so what are you going to get? And then this is what you do. You say, well, I was thinking about, and then there's something expensive on the menu. Because I've been craving that all week, I mean, like literally I've been craving that all week. And then say, but I don't know if I should get the, and the name like something cheaper. And the name, and he'll go look on his menu and see how much the prices are. And this gives him a chance to kind of rate you. If he's like, oh, I think the such and such sounds good, which is the cheap one. Or he'll say, well, get what you want, get what you've been craving. That way, you know what kind of guy he is. Like if he's going to give you what you want, or if he's going to suggest something cheaper. This is how you kind of feel him out. So say, well, what would you pick if, you know, you had to pick out of these two and let him pick for you? So it seems like it was his decision. So then when the bill comes, it's not your fault if it's like, way up there because you gave him the choice, okay? It's kind of like mind games. So then like, you know, if it's a nice restaurant where they offer wine and such and such, they say, oh, you know, what are you going to have? Ask him what he's going to have. Are you drinking? And he'll say, yo, if he doesn't want to look cheap or boring, he's going to at least get a glass of wine or a beer or something. So when he let him order alcohol first before you order, you know, always ask him, he's like, what are you drinking? And he'll say, oh, I'm going to have an iced tea that way, you know, he's not trying to buy alcohol for you. So if he's going to the iced tea or soda route, he's not drinking wine with his dinner, you know, kind of guy he is. So then what you do is like, oh, you know what? I think I'm going to have a light beer. That's cheap. It's not, you know, it's not like, oh, I'm a raging alcoholic. Or I'm going to have a wine spritzer or something like something whatever you think is cheap, just like order the cheapest alcoholic beverage that you see. I'm going to have that in glass of water. Thank you. Don't be afraid to not order your drink just because he's not. This makes this lets him know that, you know, what you expect and how you're used to certain things in. So go ahead and pull that play on him. Then when you get your food and start eating, you know, whenever you take a bite act like you're really enjoying it. This way he feels good about his purchase, you know, of the meal. Just like, oh my god, this is so good. I am so glad you suggested I ordered this. So it's all his idea. Remember, I am so glad. Oh, this is so good. Oh my gosh. This is probably the best meal I've had in ages. Thank you so much. Like, appreciate what he's doing for you because you know what? The more you appreciate something, the more they want to do for you. Okay? So be like, oh my god, this is so good. Yes, I wish you could taste this. And like, I don't know if y'all are at that point yet where you want to share food. But like, if you really want him to feel close to you and more intimate, cut him a little piece off or ask him if you would like to try it. Cut him a little piece off and put it on his plate. And, you know, he's going to feel like y'all are connected. Oh, y'all are already sharing food. You appreciate what he's done for you. He suggested the meal, even though he doesn't know it. I mean, even though he thinks whatever, y'all know what I'm saying. So appreciate, make it seem like it was his suggestion. Go all out how good this food is. Okay? So after dinner, he's paid for it. He's happy because, you know, you appreciate it and he's paid for it. He's not worried. Then it's like, okay, well, I had a really good dinner. I wish, you know, I wish this date was a lot longer. And he'll be like, well, then he'll start suggesting stuff to do after. So basically, you're trying to end the date, but you're wishing that it would last longer if you like the guy. Okay? So then he's going to suggest something. Well, you want to go have drinks or you want to go dancing? Or you want to go to the movies or you want to go here? You want to go there? And then you'll say, well, don't say yes right away. That's too desperate. Because then he'll know you tricked him. He'll say, well, you know, I don't know. Do you really want to do this? You know, I'm having such a good time as well. Blah, blah, blah, blah. Okay, well, I guess a quick drink couldn't hurt. Or I guess we could go for a little while. Don't act like you're going to spend the whole night. It's like, well, I guess we can go for a little while. So he'll go and then he'll be trying to impress you the whole time to stay longer because now you put a limit on the time. So he's going to be buying you drinks, trying to get you to stay longer because now it's a challenge for him. Like, okay, well, she didn't want to stay too long. So I'm going to see how long I can get her to stay. That means she really likes me if she stays long. The whole time he doesn't know you're trying to get as much fun and drinks out of the date as you can. Plus, enjoy him. You know, if he's a good guy, you don't have fun, but at least have your fun as well. So now that he's got used to that, maybe an hour or two past what you were comfortable with in the beginning. Now he's going to say, well, that was a great time. Oh my goodness. I have so much fun with you. You are hilarious. You are so smart. Blah blah blah. However many compliments he give you. And then you said, oh my god, I feel the same way. You are so cool. I thought you were going to be like and just tell him what you thought he was going to be because this way he feels like even better. You know, I thought you were going to be a nice guy. I didn't know you were going to turn out to be a comedian. I didn't know you were going to turn out to be so smarter. I didn't know you were going to turn out to be this way. Blah blah blah blah. Such a gentleman or whatever you got to say. He's going to feel like, oh really? So he's going to feel like he impressed you. So the next time he asks you out, he's going to try to impress you even more. He's going to keep bringing his A game because you expect it. You've seen it. You've complimented him on that. So now he has to keep it up. Okay. So I just want to let y'all know. Those are some good tips. And I'm going to see y'all later. If y'all want this look, y'all like this look. Go to my beauty channel. I'm going to link it below. And I do hair, makeup, nails, hauls, whatever. Haven't done any nail videos yet, but soon to come. So thank y'all so much. Happy Sunday. Bye.