Hello, this is Bethem Levin. Welcome to your greatlifetv.com. Today's another edition of Get the Love You Crave. We're any one of you, beautiful women, get to ask me a question or I get to share. How do I track the matter of your dreams? How to make him feel care or heal for you? How do they vote for you? How do a guy who's basically just a little bit afraid to commit or for you to move along and create something better for yourself? How to create passion when passion is dwindling and anything in between. So that's what this segment is for. And today I want to share with you four ways that you can use at any single point in your life if you want him to fall crazy for you. To feel crazy for you, to just can't stop thinking about how amazing you are and basically that creates more commitment on this part. The first way, and I know it sounds simple, I know you're going to think, oh, can you be more obvious, Bernard? Can you just give me something else? Let me assure you that as obvious as this one is, so many women that I get a chance to connect who know this intellectually are not doing it. So my key for knowing something is when you know it and you're doing it, you know it. When you know it and you're not doing it, you don't know shit. So here it is, you need to value yourself more as a woman. What do I mean by that? You need to own, own how valuable, how precious, how much of a great amazing catch you are. You need to own it and you need to exude that in the way you walk, talk, breathe, smile, look at him. You need to know how much you're worth because when you know how much you're worth, number one, that's incredibly sexy. If you do it right, let me give you a quick, today distinction here, when you do it right, it doesn't come across as coffee, it doesn't come across as someone who's arrogant. Erigan is someone who's closed off and is confident, but it's so confident that it's just like nobody's worthy of her. That's not what I'm talking about. I'm talking about confidence with a smile, confidence, playful, confident, but at the same time with a compassion that allows him to enter your heart. That's what I'm talking about. That is incredibly attractive. And the second thing that this will do is, a guy, we guys, as you may have figured out, are more insecure than we ever appear to be. So if a man who's always, always wanting to prove his masculine, always wanting to prove how much of a man he is, no matter, I mean, it's just like something that comes from nature. It's not even intellectual, he can be a great spiritual Buddha, and he, part of him still wants to prove his man. Part of this will basically say, hey, she's so valuable, she's so hot in so many different ways, and she knows it, and she's giving me her time, and she's making me feel special, and I'm the one that's basically opening her heart. What does that say about me? That makes me incredibly valuable as well. So it goes both ways. That is going to be the number one way that you can, you can make him fall crazy about you, fall crazy about yourself first. Second way. And again, just a cannon for size enough, how much is this not an intellectual process? This is a heart-owning full body experience. When you can do this with your entire body, then you've got his heart. Second way is I want you to invite him into your world without making him your world. What do I mean by that? I think women sometimes fall into two extremes. Number one, they're like playing games, or can give him the benefit of the doubt, or don't have the time of the day for him. So he invites you out a couple of times, and you're like, you never have time for him. Then he moves on, like period. That's like just no greater. Second one, you like this. I'm not talking about just some guy. I'm talking about a guy you really like. If you really like him, tendency is to drop everything else from him. So he calls you, and you have plans, and you cancel your plans, or you are announcing with your friends, and you basically tell your friends you can do it, and you go with him. So this is my suggestion. My suggestion is to have a balance in such a way that you have such a great life that he values you more because you have a great life. Number two, you can include him as part of your life. So that means that I'm going to go back into number three, not in a second. But that means that you can invite him to be part of your thing. You don't make it so formal all the time. And that's an appointment. Number three is redefined. If you redefined dating, that means that you're not going to just natural tendency for most people. You're about to be a guy who's incredible, if you'll incur a traffic on him, and then what are you going to do? You're going to go sit down on the restaurant, talk for a couple of hours. He's not even taught. I mean, that's not fun. So if you make it more casual, if you're inviting to be part of your friends, date, you're having a date with your friend, your girlfriends, and you say, come along. First of all, if he's really a man, he's to be with a few girls out, then he's going to show it. But also you're going to get to see a different side of him, a more playful side of him. It's going to lead into a part of that's less stressed because he doesn't have to prove himself to you. At the same time, it will allow for more spontaneity, where maybe deeper connection or more touch is allowed. And when that happens, that is when some magic gets created. So really finding also means find more ways to make it fun. Do other activities and have him be part of it, have him come up with them. Don't come up with them for yourself because then you're basically doing his work. Now, I'm assuming the whole thing, and again, I may be wrong, but I'm assuming that I'm talking to a woman who's interested in attracting a guy who is strong and masculine versus the guy who's weak and push over. So if that's what you want, then point over force and craving for it. You need to let him feel that he's a man. Letting him feel that he's a man is allowing him to take charge and make some decisions. I'm not saying all the decisions, I'm just saying some decisions and some crucial aspects, especially beginning when you guys are meaning if he's someone who wants to be considerate of you and just say, I'd love to go out with you. What would you like to do? I mean, an easy thing for you to say, hey, let's go have dinner. Let's do this. Don't do that. Instead, turn it back on him and say, you know what? Surprising. Be playful. You be playful when asking to surprise you. And turn it back on him and allow him to make a decision, allow him to own the experience because at the end of the night, at the end of the day, at the end of the outing, if you have allowed him to craft something that has lit up your heart, he's going to feel immensely more valued as a guy. And much more of a man, if he thinks, hey, I created this on my own and I pulled it off and look at what I created. She's radiant, she's smiling, she's happy. That makes him feel valuable, I command. Going into something deeper, then value to some man also means that when you realize he's doing things that are making you feel special as a woman, let him know not just in your words because although that's important, so let him know in any kind of way, which I think is a loss. When he will allow him to know how much of a woman he makes you feel by what he does, even a little things, opening your door for you, being kind, creating something magical, pricing you, whatever it is that makes you feel special as a woman, let him know with your voice and with your body, with your touch, with the way you look at him. Because let me tell you something, if a guy feels that he can A make you happy and B feel like he's more of a man when he's with you, he's going to choose you, period. So that's pretty much all that I have for you right now. If you have any questions for me, be sure to me at www.FatMathable.com, at yourbrainlife.tv.com, address it in my address here on the screen. And in the meantime, I challenge you to look at these four steps that I gave you and try them out. This intellectual BS is nothing until you try it out. So try it out for yourself, see how it works, and let me know. As always, I challenge you little fool and make conscious life.