Chances are they've gone to public school. That's a very high likelihood. They've either gone to public school or they're going through a college education. I am not here to justify what happens. I am here to first try to share a reality with all of our parents, our respected parents that are sitting in the audience. And I feel your pain because I'm a parent myself. My girls are about to turn teenagers. I'm terrified to death. I feel your pain. I'm going to be in your shoes soon. I'm going to love protect all of us parents, you know? But let me tell you something. These girls and these boys, they've gone to college. Chances are they've seen a girl they like or a guy that they like. Chances are that's already happened. Chances are they've had a couple of conversations already. Even in the most respectful setting, maybe it happened at the MSA. Maybe it happened at the RIS convention. Maybe it happened. Yeah, it may have happened. Actually it did. Okay. And I'm not just talking about the matrimonial section and all of that. I'm talking about just at the Bazaar. Hey, nice job there. Isn't that calligraphy amazing that some people start their conversations like that? One of the reasons I like to walk around in the Bazaar is to see the contemporary pickup lines by Muslim youth. They're not very good nowadays. But anyway, it's fun to watch. But anyway, this has already happened and they've got certain preferences. They've got something in their heart and they want to tell you, but you know what? The girls Palestinian and she's thinking about a good brother is a good brother, but he's a stakhirullah al al al alim Egyptian. Or is it Pakistani guy and he wants to marry this girl and she's not haulu wa lakwata wa l-abilashi Syrian. You know, and he's really scared to tell his parents. He's really scared to even mention the idea because the the Arab father will say, mustahil on wa anahai. You know, my jeet jeet jeet harg is nahi ho ga. I want to tell you a really sad and funny story. Any of you guys want to check out the master? Well, Shia Humil has a good friend of mine. He's got a very twisted sense of humor. We like to go to conventions together and especially observe youth behavior. It's the thing we do. So we're at one of these conventions. Obviously, most youth are not in the lecture. They are outside the lecture. So we skipped the lectures too. So we were hanging outside the convention center. We're walking by. There's a bunch of guys and girls talking or whatever. We're not going to be the shia yaw police and we're just going to see what they're doing. So we're walking by this guy. So slick man. So slick. This guy goes to this girl he goes to name the saddest day of my life. Now, often those guys who are walking, we both stop. We're like, we got to hear this. This golden right here. He does not know where standing behind him. He does not know. Let's start with the boy. Let's go. Oh, my. And he goes, well, after today, I'm going to go back to Ohio. And I don't even know your name. And at this point, often those guys are walking at each other like, and he can't help himself. I'm going to say, can not believe the text. He goes, boy, that's a lot of wind. So he turns the guy I want to shake my hand, roll that. Well, it doesn't get you. Can I take a picture with you, bro? That's amazing. All the teenagers disappeared. Needless to say, there are some very interesting interactions between young Muslim men and women that happen on many settings. Parking lots of massages Sunday school, Islamic school, MSA conventions. You name it. There are some interesting interactions that happen at the bizarre. Naturally, a single girl, one girl talking to one man, she's supposed to feel hesitation. In a normal circumstances, you should not be comfortable talking to guys. That's not the natural fate for you. And if you become totally comfortable talking to the MSA president for hours and hours, then there is a problem with that. That's not the normal way you're supposed to be. I wouldn't make you like that. I wouldn't make you like that. Now, when there's two of you, you can be in the meeting and confident. I don't think you know what you're doing. I don't think the program should be on the third. It should be on the fifth. And we're not making that. We fly. We're making our fly ourselves. You're going to search yourself because you're in a group. But when you're by yourself, okay, whatever you say. But you've got to learn what a drop of flying. You have to do that. You guys too. Don't take advantage of the shyness of girls. And this is how I wanted to discuss the convention with you. No, you didn't. Stop. There are plenty of other people you can discuss. Why don't you be CC or father with her? Then this is how I'm saying convention. I'm sure her father won't mind the convention discussion.