Here we are again. It's Viva Lavolva today today. Viva Lavolva. Now I have to admit something. What? It's the name of my DVD, but I did not originate the name, and I love it. My girlfriend saw her daughter with this little pink pin. Oh, I love it. And the pin said Viva Lavolva, and I said, that's it. That's a great name. That's my DVD title of it. So it's all gonna be about pussy play today because we have a lot of questions, especially for men. Yeah, I mean if you can imagine we don't know what we've got down between our legs, or we think there's something wrong with this. Yes, general shame. It's funny. It'll smell funny. It's not my word was it's not sanitary. You can't let somebody go down on you. Oh, I want you to know that I couldn't do oral sex until I was 35. No, I'm telling you. You know what they say about people who teach you teach what you need to learn. Wow. I was so inhibited. I was just, well come on, which you talk. They didn't do oral sex. You're right. You're right. You're right. In my, I mean, I was like 16. I remember going down on me and I was just like so wet and so crazy. I never like he just started doing it. I just let him. I mean, I didn't feel bad about it. Well, my attitude was that it wasn't sanitary and I knew I was genitalia de form because I had the inner lips that hung down. And so you want a man who could go down there and see it and a penis didn't have a lot of things personal. So a penis could go in. A penis can't smell a penis can't see. So that was okay. Fucking was okay, but not oral sex. And here's what happened when this is grant again. This is why I bless him all the time. We were having all this incredible orgasmic sex together. And one night after a fabulous session, he reaches over for his classes and to get a better what's the monies? Do you mind if I look at your at your cunt? And I had two two shots. First of all, I didn't like the word cunt. I thought, ugh, then I thought what kind of a sick perverted nut? What's the look at my content? So he got out the split meaver magazines and I'll show you. He said, no, he said, it's one of my favorite styles. And I went styles. What is he talking about? Because women, we don't look at each other and men should know this. So we're in like the shower. We don't do that like the shower room or the gym. We don't you don't barely look at it. No, for me, it was a little triangle. And most of them don't like porn. So what men need to realize is that there's a lot of general shame that women have. And that's why Betty started the general art gallery. So people can look and see that they're so part of it might be taking your girlfriend or your wife to the general art gallery and showing them that there's a range of looks to them. But we're also going to answer some of the questions. Okay, because I think that's the most interesting way to do it. Okay. Number one, my vagina is dry and when my partner uses his fingers, I push them away after a few minutes. Well, if he's pushing, if he's putting his dry fingers inside a dry vagina, yeah, indeed I would push him away. Lubricant. You have to have Lubricant. Never touch a clit with a dry finger or penetration of me. I think she's talking about penetration. The whole thing. She says he starts playing with her and then that's it. She pushes him away because it's uncomfortable. Doesn't feel good. Doesn't feel good. Well, he might be trying to get some of her pussy juices and use that. But that's really hard to do in the beginning when a woman's getting excited. You really need to air and saliva isn't good enough either because it's good for a second and then it's too thin. Doesn't last. Doesn't last. Emphasize this. How many women are in a state of relaxation at the beginning of their not? My boyfriend tries to go down on me. I push him away. How do I let my boyfriend go down on me? And we hear this a lot. Well, I think she has to do that section on the website where you go to first orgasm. First time orgasm. And she has to become very familiar with her own pussy. She needs to get that mirror out and get a good light and look at her in self in detail and definitely go to the genital art gallery and see all of the different kinds of vulvas that are out there in the wonderful world so that she has some feeling of what security. Me going down a woman. I would move off of the vulva and I would like kiss her thighs, give her a massage, you know, and give her more time. So I think it's about a real soft touch. Very gentle gentle gentle. Very very soft. And if she was really, you know, when she gets comfortable, she could show him. She could take his hand and show the kind of pressure she wants her likes. Well, I always like my technique is I want to watch the person going to have sex with masturbate and play with themselves a little bit. That's the best. And then I could figure out how they like it. The idea would be to get a couple of vibrators. I say, I say the magic one sex for one have sex for one. Here's what he does. He buys sex for one. It's all about how women masturbate and get a magic wand and it's on his side of the bed. Now he can use the vibrator for his sore muscle. It's a massager. It is, that's what you say. What is that? What is that thing you got over there? It's an electric massage machine. Okay, and our final question. Can you recommend a toy for my boyfriend that you saw me? This is my favorite. I brought it out. Oh, you are. I was using it on an A. She's a commission. She's a commission. She's a commission. Yeah. And I just little cap. Now it's these little balls on the edge and this goes right on your clip or near it or near it. Yeah. Sometimes for some reason, God bless you. I know. Right above my clip and like my mount is the most sensitive area. And if I use my vibrator there, I don't even have to put it on my clip. But what I like about this is you can use it during partner sex. It's a little in cute. It's cute. It's simple. It was the first sex toy I ever got with my girlfriends. I had the orange one. My girlfriend's photo with a pink and purple ones. I really wanted green but I lost out on that. Whenever you want to learn something or try something new or progress in your sex life, it's going to be with your masturbation. That's what your pets were dancing at the bar. We're exercising. We're moving. We're trying different moves. We're breathing. We're using our muscles. So your masturbation, how I make love to myself is what I bring to partner sex. So if I'm just a zero lion there, that's not going to be a lot of fun. So ladies masturbate. Man, encourage your ladies to masturbate. Start your vibrators. It's the gift that keeps on giving.