No relaxing. That's the theme of December 2018. We did too many, too many. There's no relaxing. This has been such a stressful time for both Jared and I work-wise. And to be honest, I wouldn't have it any other way because it's made me fall in love with you and see you as a partner in such a beautiful meaningful way. Really? Do you feel that way, Bummy? I do feel that way, but I've always felt that way before the busyness came in. Always got to want up somebody. Okay, now I'm not saying it like that. I'm just telling you the truth. You want me to just, oh yeah, just this month, you know, I just feel it. It's just like the truth. Like I feel like ever since I met you, you've pushed me and put me in positions to grow that I've never, ever touched territories that you've got me into. I've never got to get to know my man side. I feel like me meeting you put me in a mucryte. Baby. You just helped me a lot and it's just... Tired. I can't continue to take these off. This video is sponsored by Squarespace. Honestly, this is the go-to place for your craft to shine. Whether you need a domain, website, or online store, make it here. Fast, easy and effortless and make it look stunning with Squarespace. The concept for our wedding photos really was born out of what marriage meant to us and it meant the same. It meant continuing on what we already have going. It meant not making marriage into some kind of accomplishment or final destination, but just making it a part of the journey of explaining our love to people and developing in our love in a way that reflects how we feel about each other. So the wedding photos are just us. Doing normal stuff. We wanted to symbolize in the wedding photos us doing our everyday routines. And the only thing that was different was us wearing the wedding outfits. So... Yeah, to me, what that really symbolized is nothing is going to change. Yes, we have a fancier title and in this case, fancier outfits on, but it's going to be the same work. It's going to be the same day to day. It's not always going to be some fairy tale fantastical us on the edge of a mountain overlooking a waterfall. That's like the lives that we live. I was down for those pictures. Well, I don't expect marriage to be like that. The only reason I was down for those pictures is because I know the family would want those pictures. But I think that's actually a good representation of our relationship because somehow we both got exactly what we wanted and we were... No one had to compromise, really. Yeah. And I understood your vision. I understood your leadership and you understood your mindset. So in that case, it makes them even more perfect. I thought it was. Well, it was one of those things where I was like, I wonder if these are going to go together like a vibe. And they really did. It was like amazing. And you looked amazing in your dress. You looked beautiful. If we were to do a traditional wedding where she wore this big, huge white, fluffy dress and then I wore this traditional black tuxedo with a bow tie, I think we would look goofy up there. But I feel like now we look like us. We look like a unit. We look like what we are. We are relationships. It's a display of that. And I think that kind of goes into the way we're doing our wedding. The whole traditional of it. It's like, it explains us and it's just like us. It's not like them or anybody else. And that's what I think that is so special to me about our wedding. Me, I agree with that as well too. I think it's a reflection of what we built and what we value. I also think that we also really understood the balance between what was for us and what was for our family. Yeah, yeah. And we found a nice, healthy compromise in there. And so honestly, my dress was 100% for my family. I just thought that that was the thing that I knew that they would probably give me the best reaction and it would probably mean the most to them. I am half Indian. Guides. So West Indian, but descendants from East India. And that's just it's one of those cultural special places that means a lot to my grandma. Ments a lot to my aunts. My mom, who is not Indian at all, is completely fascinated with the culture. Why was it important for you to have an element of your native culture in your outfit? I think there's a couple of reasons for that for me. I feel like I've only really met my native side. I really only got to know them. My dad's side, who is my black side, I haven't really got to know a lot of them. I met a couple of them. I've never been to Detroit. That's where they're from. And the vest just looked good. So that was just really what it was. It was just to just look good with the outfit and I felt like it was a cool addition. First of all, super great for the photographer Amina. She came through, she handled it, she came all the way down from the Bay Area. And I've been a fan of her work for many. I've been following her on Instagram. She has a really dope fly on the wall type of photography. So when we saw that, we just knew she would be part for the job. And she really was. And we're so grateful for the work that she did. In the comment section below, I would love to hear from you guys. What is one thing that you knew you were going to do for your wedding before you decided who you were going to marry? Be that the dress, be that the photos. What's one vision that you have always had in your mind? And speaking of visions, I want to show you guys the full gamut of the photos that we took. We're not going to share all these on social media. Obviously, some of them are private. Some of them just don't need to be shared. But you guys, we want you to see everything that we got to see. 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