I would say for the last 45 years we've told psychologists have been certainly to blame for this at least in part. You're okay the way you are, that's what we tell young people. Oh, you're okay the way you are. It's like, and there's nothing worse than you can tell, that you can tell someone who's young than that, especially if they're miserable. And lots of them, well if they're miserable and aimless, it's like, oh I'm miserable and aimless and sometimes I'm suicidal and I'm nihilistic and I don't have any direction in your life. It's in my life, it's like, well you're okay the way you are. And it's like, they don't want to hear that, they want to hear, look, you're, and you know this, you're useless. You know nothing, you haven't gone started, you've got 60 years to put yourself together and God only knows what you could become.