It's been said if you never want to have sex again, get married. Sex is one of the most contentious issues in marriage today. Second only to finances. There are many married couples that have not had sex for months, even years, and that's okay, as long as they're okay with it, and happily married. The problem arises when one person in the relationship wants sex, and the other doesn't. Most brides today do not have sex on their wedding nights, and 50% of men would not have married their spouse had they known their marriage was going to be sexless.