I'm a hygny and I'm Ryan and today we're gonna be talking about living together. Mm-hmm. First of living together. No it's not. It's not fun. It's not fun. But we're gonna give you five tips that are gonna help you make it fun. Mm-hmm. Hopefully. Hopefully, right? Now before we begin though, I just want you to know that this is not professional tips. These are tips and this is what has worked for us. Like we said before, what works for us may not work for you. Okay. All right, you ready? Yeah. All right. Two of them going. In quality time together first. There's a difference between quality and quantity. Quality, you're getting to know your partner. You're understanding your partner. You are growing with your partner. Quantity on the other hand is spending time together every day. Not understanding nothing. Going home. Okay, I spent time with my baby. Next. All right. Make sure you take advantage of those opportunities. Moving nights. Game nights. Mm-hmm. Uh, you know. Going to the beach. Taking a walk down the road. Yeah, shopping. Mm-hmm. All that good stuff. In half of the time, it doesn't require you to spend money, so. Right. I mean, you don't have to have quality time spent in the spend money. Mm-hmm. That's something that a lot of people mistake for days. You do not always have to spend money when you go out. You don't. Okay. Okay. All right. 10-number two. Share the workload. Okay. That's a big one. I'm still working on that one myself. You know, because as a guy, I tend to want to just take out the trash. Yeah. And kind of take out the trash. That's it. I'm not over it. But in all that Shuaabi, I should be, you know, taking turns, washing dishes and things of that. But I have tried to do that. But it's always an epic show. Yeah. So. So, yeah. Share the workload, you know. You'll learn whether or not, you'll learn what your partner's strong suits are when you live together. Yeah. You'll definitely learn it. Like, I know Ryan's strong suit isn't washing the dishes, so I can do it. Yeah. Even in the dishwasher, I still don't know who's so good. Mm-hmm. So yeah, that's tip number two. Share the workload. Never put more on your partner than you would want to put on yourself. True. All right. Chill. Number three. Big one. Create a budget. Create a budget. Create a budget. All right. It's real easy to just spend money, you know, like we say, you know, learn how to do this good stuff. But you got to remember, if you're living together, especially if you're like a new couple on the block, you might want to say something. Because you got bills. Yeah. You got to pay for the budget rent and electricity, water, wifi, phone bill, car no, car insurance. Yeah. When I first moved in, before I moved in with Ryan, put my name on my heartbeat parking. I was just going through. I was so stuck baby. I was just kind of throwing that in the nose. I know. I know. Go ahead. So before I moved in with Ryan, I was so stuck in the thought of it. And ties and church. Got it. I was so stuck in the thought of us living together. But it did not dawn on me. The reality of bills until it became two of us and one home. So you got to think, when you're living, where you're living, how much is going to take for you to pay your bills? Right. All right. But the main thing is, especially when it comes to grocery shopping, write out everything that you need. Think about everything that you need. Prioritize. Prioritize. Prioritize. All of your expenses. Prioritize. All of your expenses. Prioritize. All of your expenses. All things that are the most important to the lease important. And then if you have money left over, then you can spend money. Okay. That's the best way. That way you're not a broke couple. You know, just living. All right. All right. Tell them before. Talk it off. Talk it off with your partner. I cannot tell you how many times around the night have gone through something and we decided we didn't want to talk about it. But the reality is, what does it fall? Because guess what? You sleep in the same bed. So you got to deal with each other anyway. Yeah, I know. Yeah. She's still working on that. She makes it sound so. She makes it sound so easy now. But. Yeah, it's hard. It's so hard. Especially when you want to separate Jessica. Go next, Laura. We. There. Especially when you want to. Boy. Go. Especially when we. What the world is this thing trying to let me talk it all right. Especially when you want to separate yourself from your partner is so hard. It's so hard to do that when you live together. So just remember when you live together you want to talk everything out. Work everything out and think about how it would make your significant other feel. So. Yeah, what's the quote that you told me if it's not going to matter? Oh, yeah. Five years from now, those being more than five minutes. Thinking about it. Mm-hmm. So. You know, you know, when you're going through something really think about it. Y'all are arguing over who's making a bed at night or in the morning. Don't let it drag out. Let it go. It's not. Oh, if you're, or if you're girl, like try to throw shade on you and, you know, you ain't gonna let her, you know, talk to you any kind of ways. Because I do that a lot. You just got to like, you got to swallow that pride, man. It's hard. It's real hard. It's, it's hard. Yeah, so that's tip number four. Talk it out with your partner. Don't let it linger. It's pointless. Yeah. All right. And last, find some. Tell them five. He gave me this one. Learn to like each other's interests. Y'all are hate, call it duty. I hate the Xbox. I hate all of that. But who blocked him the Xbox? It don't matter. She bought something for me. He didn't know what I needed to play. I blocked him the Xbox and I regret it. I could be doing a lot more. I could, I could be doing a lot of the things. Y'all, I'm just kidding. I just hate that Xbox because it takes up time in the morning. I just want to talk to him. It doesn't really take up time. When I just, I just want to cuddle. That's what I want to do. It's called leisure time. But he's right. Please respect your, your man's leisure time. All right. If he wants to take 30 minutes to play the game, then that man, take 30 minutes to play the game. You know what I mean? It only takes 30 minutes. I'm excited. The house with you. That man could be going to hang with the homies and all kinds of other stuff. All he wanted to do is play Xbox. But y'all, that's, that's, that's real though. Because that's something that I had a conversation with my mom about. Because my mom is also engaged. And she was telling me that my husband, think about it. Would you want him playing Xbox at home? Or would you want him out and about? And I, it, it's, it's real. Like you would prefer him at home. But it's just driving crazy. That's something that I must have got to get over. And then I have to watch all these real, these TV shows every single day of the week. So therefore, I'm running to like that. It's so, y'all, it's just like, you know, it's just like an hour. It's just running with you. It's just running with you. It's like an hour long. And I'm, and I'm only playing the game for 30 minutes. And then I'm like, tell the people, hey, I gotta go, my, you said I gotta get up the game. I'm telling my friends that it's a dancing. Take care, take care. I don't need to, I don't be tripping with all of that. It's really, but she can't learn to like 30 minutes of my next time. Okay, y'all, he really does do that. Yeah, exactly. But I don't care because if they had girlfriends, they would understand. Anyways, well, those are our five tips. I mean, obviously, there's a lot of other things that we couldn't cover with it that we didn't cover. So, you know, if you can think of some things that we didn't cover, and you would like to drop that in the comment section, please do so. Also, we'd like to know if these tips help you in any fashion possible. So, you know, if you can relate to anything that we said, whether that's playing the Xbox, let us know. Let us know. Let us know. If you can relate. So, yeah. I know. Exactly. And if you haven't, check out our last video on how we met. Should be popping up somewhere up here. Right there. So, and like always, please subscribe to our channel. And... Where are you rambling? Bye, y'all. You