I act as re-married, but she and her card husband invite me to Thanksgiving dinner and Christmas dinner with the kids. My daughter just turned 18 and I was trying to figure out what to do as a birthday present. And her mom said, well, hey, why don't you repaint her bedroom? She hates her bedroom color. It's too dark. And Bob went on, prices absolutely. And so I repainted my daughter's bedroom walls, a lighter color that she would hopefully be happier with. And I was allowed, I had a key to the house. I was allowed to grow in and out while they were working to do that paint job. They trust me that much. So co-parenting and developing a trust-relation is essential and not vilifying your ex spouse in any way ever, especially in front of or any way by the kids. The kids is a warning I would give any parent.