If we can help parents in the services that we offer and encourage them to take care of their mental, physical, and spiritual health, their children will have better chance for healthy grieving. When I cry, I don't want anybody around, I don't want to be hugged, I don't want to be said, oh, it's going to be okay, I don't like any of that. Nobody really knows the situation, I do. Nobody knows how I'm feeling, so I don't like to be comforted. I feel like it's important not to push people who are grieving to go to counseling or that kind of thing if they don't want it because if they're not there of their own volition, they're not really going to benefit from it because the whole time you'd be thinking, oh, I don't want to be here instead of how can I benefit from this. There's a difference between telling somebody how you feel and I'm just saying, oh, it's going to be okay, you'll be fine and then somebody actually, after you saying what you like to say, giving you a hug and saying, hey, I've been there, I know, it's something different.