Hi y'all she was seven, I'm back. So I want to do a video today about cheap men, okay? This is to all you cheap men, okay? Ladies, you have the videos for you too, so you can laugh. But this is mainly a message to cheap men who don't want to spend money on women or don't think that they need to spend money on their girlfriend, wife or person they're trying to date. This is for you, okay? So, and I'm not mad, I'm just going to state some facts and let y'all go from there. So, if you're trying to date a woman, you don't feel it's necessary to pay for dates or spend money on them, you know, while you're dating. And you really like this person, y'all get along really well. You know, she fell for the bait to go out on a free date with you or a coffee date or a walk in the park date, some cheap date that insulted her as a female. She decided, hey, she liked you, she's going to go check you out, she went on this cheap date, right? So, you think you've got a girl, you think you've got the perfect woman because she likes you for you, not your money, and y'all just get along, y'all've connected, you didn't spend no money. You think this is the perfect woman, you think about life in this woman, you're, oh my god, she is the one I'm taking her home to mother. And then one day she stops texting you or she doesn't text back right away or she's busy when you ask her out again or this is the thing. And you're wondering, oh, what happened, we had such a connection, she found somebody to pay for her dates, okay? She found someone or when she goes out on a date they actually pay for it or takes her to nicer places or offers her more than you've offered her. And, you know, they also have a connection and he probably, you know, seems more masculine to her since he can take care of the bill. So, that's a very, you know, sexual attraction going on right there. So, now you're left high and dry, your girl's not answering the phone anymore because she's on real dates, okay? And when she calls you finally after her date, after she's eaten good and that, and her wallet's still full, she calls you because she feels bad that she actually enjoyed herself with another man who could actually pay for her. And now she feels like, oh my god, I can't go backwards. You know, this man that I like, he's so sweet, he's kind and dead it up, but I feel so much more feminine and I feel so much more wanted and valued with this other man because, you know, he's paying for things. So, I don't know how I'm going to let this guy go, what do I tell him? You know, it's not you, it's me. So, you end up losing your girl to a man who can't afford to date or who can't afford to treat her like she wants to be treated, even though she didn't know she wanted to be treated like that and she didn't expect it. But when it was given, she now has a choice to make and she's going to go with that choice, okay? Because it's easier for her, it makes her feel more feminine, more wanted, more valued and taken more seriously. And then she's also seeing him as good husband material because he's a provider. So now you've been left. And then you might see her or, you know, see on Facebook or find out somehow that she's dating a man with more money than you. And then you get mad at women in general because this woman left you for somebody with more money. And so now you label all women gold diggers and you don't trust them and then that happens to a lot of guys. But the whole moral of the story is you can't be cheap and expect to keep a woman that another man is willing to provide for, okay? They're out there, believe me, okay? They're out there. I got lots of people that I know that message me and tell me, you know, I was dating this guy and we really had a connection. But then I met this other guy and he wants to take me here and there and what do I do? I always tell him to go with the guy with the more money because they valued you. The guy that offers you nothing, he'll be there when you get back, believe me, because he has nothing else to offer you but himself, okay? And if he's not there when you get back, he's still going to be the same and he's not going to give you with this other guy, can. And then I also have a lot of problem with, oh, but I was in love with him and he just didn't have enough money for me and I really was stayed but I can't live poor. I don't want to live poor. I wanted to do better with my life and he was not ambitious and he wasn't doing this and that for me. So I have to leave. So if you're giving your woman reason to leave you and to talk to other men because you're so cheap, you're running your own woman away because you can't step up to the plate and be a provider. So you're pushing your woman away to other guys when you're cheap. You're saying, hey, I'm cheap, you're not worth that much. I'm going to spend time with him, I'm not going to spend no money on you. And so when she meets a guy who says the opposite, she's going to go for that. It's going to be like, oh my god, really? You think I'm worth it? And they're going to be taken away from me very easily. So, another or some woman who will stay with you even though a rich man offers themselves to them. But they're going to regret it later on. And they're going to resent you down the line and they're like, I should have went with that guy. I could have had a pool or I could have had this or I could have had a nice car. I'm here to love with you. What's love got to do? I don't love you no more. The feeling is worn off. Now I'm just sitting here with you looking at you. So ladies, if you're ever with a cheap man, remember, always leave yourself open to upgrade. If you're cheap, know that your woman is always looking to upgrade. Don't get comfortable. If you're cheap, never get comfortable. Because she's not staying. Believe me. Unless she's cheap and she values that in you and y'all are like coupon buddies, clipping coupons, going to Golden Corral and living it up. If that's your dream woman and you're her dream man, then Kudos. There are people that are happy living that type of lifestyle. But there are people who see that as a nightmare. And you can't blame them for that because they grew up with more. So if they grew up with more and they expect more, even if they didn't grow up with nothing and they just want more, you can't be upset at women for that. So, man, I'm trying to tell y'all, don't leave room for other women to snatch your woman. I mean, other men to snatch your woman. Buy her something, pay for something. Are you going to be by lotion? Okay, I'll see y'all in the next one. Bye. Thanks for watching.