Assalamu alaikum guys and welcome to a rather different for once episode of Small to Jenna. Duh! Ah, to Jen, yeah. There was a TikTok celebrity who had gone on playing in a background and with her friend she was dancing. As expected there was crazy outrage on this as they should be. This is me, me, me, me. But with the people that did inform her, she did realize what she'd done and then she apologized. I am truly and deeply sorry to those that I've heard and offended. I love all people, whatever religion, race, shapes and sizes. I saw a video of a cute older man and decided to use the audio and if I had known that it was something so sacred, I would have never used it. Logically sounds good and the story, right? Rongo! For some people unfortunately and sadly it still wasn't enough. Now let's try and figure out why there were two possible intentions by which she would have done it. Number one, deliberate. Number two, by mistake. If it was deliberate, she wouldn't have apologized. If it was accidental, she would have apologized. I am truly and deeply sorry to those that I've heard and offended. And anytime these things happen guys, we go ask ourselves, why? Why has a person done this? If you are not in a habit of asking yourself this, you are going to mess up the situation. In the last video, I've been promoting a psychological principle called the fundamental attribution error. Which if I was to summarize, very basically means when it comes to a mistake that you've made, you blame it on circumstance. You blame it on something external, like if you come late, you blame it on the traffic lights, you blame it on your alarm clock. When it comes to someone else, you blame it on something internal. When deep rooted, you say this person is a lazy, lazy person, they care less, they don't care. You won't explore why that may have happened. You're very quick to judge. If we do not get into a habit of not doing this, then what's going to happen is it's going to spoil intimate relations of ours. For example, when you get married, yeah, there's going to be serious issues because you're not going to last very long in your marriage because you're going to be very quick. Very quick now, you are like this or you are like that. Therefore, we can't be together. Bang done in the cab. However, if you understand this principle and you're used to asking why, digging deep and trying to correct things, you're more likely to be committed within a job, within education, within relationships and your friendships, you're going to lead a more fruitful life. So we're doing the same here. We've looked what could the two possibilities be, the versibility, obviously accidental. That's why she's apologised. The second thing is people assumed, let's just say for arguments, say she did know it was the Quran. She didn't, but let's just say she did. You're assuming that she understands the value of the Quran. She's been educated and that's where your era is because not everyone is educated about the value of the Quran. And thirdly, let's just say whatever happened, yeah. Now you're writing her a message. Ask yourself, what is the intention behind my comment or my message? Is it to tell her, you know, to put her down or to show her whose boss, where's that coming from? Oh, I'm doing it so Allah will be happy with me. Really? Allah makes you say that because the last time Allah asked, or one of the instances where Allah has asked one of his prophets to deliver a message, it was Musa alayhi salam. And he was told when he was going to the Pharaoh, the one who said, Allah asked Musa alayhi salam, you know, speak to him softly and with kindness. This is the same Lord that you're saying, you're trying to please. Nah, mate, just doesn't work. In fact, what you're now doing is you're putting in the person off. You're putting them off the religion. You're saying it's about peace, whilst uppercut in them at the same time. His contradictory mate. So what you need to do is you make sure your comment reflects your beliefs and ideals. And at the end, have a call to action. They have this in, you know, leaflets and adverts, you need a call to action. My mate, way of life is cute. He realized what she did and he gave her a call to action. He said, look, maybe you don't understand the Quran. Let me send you a Quran. And then she messaged back saying, I appreciate that. And I'll take you up on the offer. This is a constructive comment. And you might be saying, all these people are bad. These people are this maybe now they are, but you don't know what on earth these people are going to be like in 10 years time. It's like a famous saying, some people that have the worst pasts make the best futures. They just need to be nurtured. Yeah, they may be ignorant and you can blame them with this media, you know, bombarding people with this warped version of Islam. So we need to be those people who show people the reality of Islam. No, don't just write a comment just for the sake of it. If you don't have anything useful to say, shatte mate, zip it. You know, I'm saying. So realize and ask yourself, are you in a bad mood? Have you had a bad day? Don't comment. Don't comment on these videos. You know, I'm saying because your comment could have a lasting effect and you're going to have to give an account on the day of judgment. Yeah. Alright guys, I'm going to leave it there and until next time. Assalamualaikum.