So here's the thing, the older you get, the more you should start really asking yourself some very difficult questions and one of the questions that should be top of your head is, do I want kids? And if the answer is yes, ask yourself why? People always confuse me with like I'm telling people not to have children. That is not what I'm saying. I'm saying do whatever you want to do. However, ask yourself why? Why am I doing this? Am I having children because of culture? Am I having children because it's tradition? You know, it's society, it's what I'm meant to do. Or am I having children because my religion has told me that I need to multiply and fill the earth. Or am I having kids because I want to make my parents happy? Because my parents have told me that I need to give grandkids. Am I having children because my boyfriend or my girlfriend has told me that they want children or else we're going to break up. You must have a why. And I can tell you right now with so much conviction that a big number of you don't have a why. The why that you think you have was imposed on you. It was not your own idea. It was not your own thinking. You didn't just grow up thinking that I want to be a mother or I want to be a father. No one grows up thinking they want to be a parent. You're born as a child. Whatever you have is learned. So now you have to get to a point to unlearn and to be at a space where you're like, I am making this decision because it is my decision. It has not been influenced by culture. It has not been influenced by society, neither by my parents or by my religion. This is a decision that I am taking for myself. If you actually sat down with a pen and paper and ask yourself why do I want a child? I promise you, none of the reasons that you will write will not be influenced by culture, religion and traditions.