Do you worry about a thing? Don't you worry about a thing? Hi, okay, Kaelin Korea with Korea and our friend Bummyun. We're just going to talk about some things that you guys have been asking us on Tumblr. And we're going to try and get real-witty. Go get real. So let's do introductions. Can you go for a round? So I'm Rainy, 24 years old, and I'm from Ottawa to Rio, Canada. And I'm currently living in Siwon and I've been in Korea for about a year. I'm actually Kaelin. My age is a secret as many of you guys know already. But I've been in Korea for about a year. I moved from San Diego, California. And this is my second time in Korea. I used to live in Japan. I was teaching there. I came to Korea to visit because I love it. Because I'm a K-pop fan. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay. She's like Bummyun. Bummyun. Bummyun came in between seven years old. I am a Korean citizen. I've lived in the States. I've been back four years. All right, let's just get into it. Sading in Korea. Kaelin's got a lot of questions. I've received a lot of questions. We are talking Korean guide in some of those questions. Are you a question too? Anyway, let's talk about our experiences in Korea because we're both blue and color. Both of us have different experiences with Korean guide. Tell me which one to talk about your experiences. Can I pause this for a second? Sorry about that. How to put a little smile at this claim. Okay. So, we were having this conversation about like dating in Korea. I get so many questions on Tumblr. Korean guide's gone love me. They don't love me because I'm not my natural hero. Yeah, exactly. Big girls. Small girls. Skinny girls. Afro-spanning girls. I guess one of the most popular questions is are Korean guys into black girls. I think Kaelin and I can speak for ourselves. Yeah, but I looked right in front of you. We were going to do like, right? So, what do you think? Do you have any Korean friends that, first of all, do you take my girl? I can even keep a straight face asking there. Because I already knew the answer. But let me speak up. So, bum-hound. Tell us about your experiences. I already did one. Oh! Okay. You maybe she is. When did you know you liked her? First date. First date? Where'd you meet? How far are you? Okay. Tim? Oh. You just had to tell me. You're gonna pick who you are. How she did? I was telling her. I was actually... This is the thing about dating her. I just was like, a lot of the times women have to do the first thing without her. Because I was a little bit like Annie. I was a little bit like Annie. You're like, what do you think about that? Seriously. Seriously. So, if a Korean person is going to date outside of their race, what do you think the parents will rather than date? Obviously, I agree. I think they're very day-out-to-be-the-way. Or a chemistry culture. I think they prefer a white girl over the black girl. Or does they basically over the white girl? Yeah. So, I can believe that. Okay. Okay, but I read somewhere in that light. Black women have a chance dating a Korean guy much faster than white and typical. And now, I know you said that you didn't agree with him. I don't agree with that either. Because I think white women can't afford their first son after here. Korean men, when they can't afford women, what is it? Do you want your chicken? I've seen it. I've witnessed it. I mean, it blocks two kinds of women. But that doesn't mean a black woman. Like, top listed, every single couple of them. Every time I create a guy, you leave him like, who will I be? There's some Korean guys that like me. Some distant women. So, I'll remember. So, you told me in a passing conversation, I'm going to bring this up. I'm sorry. That you don't know this. You don't know this side of mine. I just can't remember. I thought I knew you. That Korean men didn't find. So, one day, Bum-Yin and I were talking about, just like when I go to a club, you know, I begin now. No, they can't. She'd be all attention, whatever. And Bum-Yin, shut up. You don't remember this conversation? He was totally shocked and he was like, oh, I'm really shocked to hear you say that because I always hear Korean guys talk about how they don't like it. I think you're down. I'm sorry, but when I go out, I think you said, you said something about like, you always see the black girls standing on the side looking at it. They don't get a close look. They don't get a close look. Okay, I'll put those words in his mouth. Okay, they don't get what? They don't get a close look. She's the cool girl. I thought that I kind of knew something. I thought it's some black girls. She got to get a close look. But then I kind of grew up with Kelly. It's all in your DNA. I think it's all in your DNA. If you come up with a little cold, you deserve it. You can try to turn five. I'm sorry. I gotta know the food here. So, are they gonna go for the fun excite black girls? They're gonna go for the white girls being by herself. Well, the white girls that she was on getting approached were they walk-flopters or were they moved to hard. In my opinion, the girl is going up. I have to check in for that. See, that's what I think. I can't agree with you. I think that if a girl is good looking, a dude's got all her. A dude thinks that the girl's extremely attractive. Unless he's looked up. Yeah, I mean, I can't agree on that too. But I think it's too. There's body language that goes on. If you're like you said, if you're ice queen, if you're standing there, like, you mad, you gang-banging, and you're making you angry, like, you're all day, like, no, dude's gonna approach you. You know what I'm saying? But if you're like, if you can blow high contact, you know, like, yeah, yeah, see you boo. Yeah, see you looking at me. No, but like, come on. But in the club, you gotta have your guard out. Because sometimes, these guys are just, you know, want to get on your own? Okay, and let me just say, and they might come up with a kind of me quality dudes in the club. Like, let's just be real. Okay, okay, okay. I'm saying, the Korea is hot out there. This trouble is rude. Okay, you will not find a library at Yom Si University. You're gonna find a mug of each. Yeah, so just back out. So, come to where it's at here. So, that's true. The night of Korea, like, nightlife is hot. What Missy Elliott say in that song? Popping like some crisco. A disco. A disco. So, the last time we talked, we were talking about, I said, I believe, any form one coming here can get a Korean boyfriend. And? I'm telling you, I'm telling you, wait a minute, wait a minute, wait a minute. If you've seen some of the things I've seen, run around with. Oh, that's so good. Then any girl can get a boyfriend. That's so cool. I mean, have we seen her? I have high standards. I have high standards. I have high standards, but I feel for, we talked about this. In terms of dating black women, there are two groups of black women. And, in terms of dating black women, there are two groups of black women. One, let's visit out girls. A one kind of group is only socially acceptable. And I really hate saying this. If you're a black woman, you're the category that's up there with the white girls. And, if you look more stereotypy, African or you're more of a equal fee sport, maybe if you wear your hair naturally, because a lot of girls go with braids, people with reds get a lot of side eyes here. I think you know, people with a self-companied hair. Some people compliment them as well. But I think if you look like Beyonce, or if you look at any other pop idol, black female, singer, Amory, Tellt and K-Bowrin, the whole lot. If you look like those kind of women, I feel like you're dating a scary singer. It would be a lot more easy for you. And women, that first thing looks like priceless. I can't even see it. I can't even see it. I can't even see it. I can't even see it. I can't even see it. I can't even see it. I can't even see it. And I feel like you're dating a scary singer. I can't even see it. If you're an attractive black woman, your experience will feel a little bit better than a woman that's not conventionally pre- I'm a Korean standard, I'm talking about university standards, I'm talking about Korean standards So that's something I have to apologize to. I mean... Shay, Shay, Shay... They're like, um, the B.O.C. They're like, um, the B.O.C. They're like, um, the B.O.C. I'm coffee weed. I'm trying to do it down, but it's more important.