Questions with Preston? We are back once again and today we are talking about calling in the one. Wow, what a topic, right? Because all of us are meant to be in partnership in relation with somebody, whether that's a love relationship or romantic relationship or one for business, whatever you call it. But today is about the one, right? So first and foremost, the number one thing we all must understand is that the greatest relationship we will ever have is the relationship with ourselves. You cannot call in another unless you have a relationship with you. So my number one advice before we even start is about falling in love with you, snuggling you, dating you, giving yourself that type of care that you would like to receive from another. Because so many relationships right now are co-dependent relationships. They are two halves coming together thinking that they are going to create a hole. But that's the exact opposite of what happens. When two halves come together, you just create co-dependency, you create friction because people tend to put their hopes and dreams and aspirations on another. So number one, falling in love with you, go in, put yourself in a position where you actually care about who you are, where you being loved from the inside out, where you are never bored because you love you. So once you have fallen in love with you, once you have taken yourself on those dates and become your number one fan, then you do these next five steps. So in step number one, stay positive. Keep your eye on the prize. Always know that they are out there. Because here is a deal. It's always about alignment. I have seen people falling in love at 18 and 80. My step grandfather was on an airplane. He is 80 years old. He was on an airplane flying to Florida and the woman next to him is not his wife. That is about alignment. You see, so many of us want to make these lists and things like that. I want this and I want that, which brings me to step number two, actually, which is be what you want. So whatever you are calling in, you must be that. If you want somebody honest, somebody who will say the ugly stuff and the times when it's super scary, then you must be that. If you want somebody confident and funny, you must be that. You must embody what you are calling in. Because you cannot have what you are not willing to give. You cannot share what you don't have. If I don't have anything in my hands, I can't give it to you. So you got to be the thing you're calling in. Step number three is be discerning with who you share your energy with. You see, sex is a powerful thing. Sex is a beautiful thing. Sex can create another. It is one of the best gifts we have ever been given. But if you are sharing your energy, if you are sharing your body with the bunch of people who don't carry the same frequency, then you become them. And I've seen it time and time again, and I have been that myself where somebody has said, oh, I want this powerful, beautiful man or this sexy, attractive woman who's confident and smart and all of these things. But they are sharing themselves with somebody who is not that. And energetically, you can only attract who and what you are. So if you are sharing your body, be discerning about who you do that with. Step number four is be present. You know, I was talking to a friend recently and he said, well, you know, I'm dating his girl, but she's not the one. So I don't want to really show her my heart. And I explain to him that that's the exact opposite of what you need to do. You need to be present with who you're with. Because the two and the three can be just as important as the one. Meaning, yes, you are calling in your one, but the people you date before them are where you get your practice in and you don't get to just turn a switch. You don't get to be completely shut down 90% of your life and then meet the one and then automatically become intimate. That is not how it works. Whoever you're with be present with them, give them your heart, share with them, know that nobody can make or break you. Know that you are in this life to get it in and get it out to feel stuff, allow yourself to be in the dance, to be all the way in the dance, not halfway in, not viewing it from like, should I or should not, but like if you're going to share your body, if you're going to share experiences, if you're going to go to the movies with somebody, be in the movies, be present. Step number five is trust your intuition. There is this still small voice, this guided system that happens in our gut, right? They call it women's intuition and man's intuition. It's just intuition. Quick story. About a year ago, I was celibate for six months and then I started dating again and I met this girl and we were supposed to go on a date, something said, this isn't your girl, this isn't your one. Now, it's so clear that it wasn't my one that I was like, I'm going to cancel it. But then intuition kicked in. Intuition said, you need to go on this date. So I go on the date. We get there, we're late. They say, oh, we oversaw the show by ten seats. You aren't going to have to stand on the wall. Okay, it's cool. And it goes, actually, no, YouTube. And he pulls us out. He says, I'm going to add two seats to the front row. When he sits us down on the front row, I sit down. My date sits here. I look at the stage. I look at her and next to her is my one, is Alexi Panos. My intuition was correct. I was in alignment with who I was in the universe, was sending it up. There is magic out there, y'all. There is a system that is moving before you because it knows your heart. Know that you're always in the right place. And your number one may find you in a grocery store. They may find you on a hike. You guys are both right now just doing this, right? Along your paths. And then eventually, as you come into alignment and they come into alignment, bang, you meet. And you want to meet from wholeness. You want to meet from power. You want to meet as you, as truly you. Because when two holes come together, oh, m jizzle, it goes down. Everything. And let me tell you this. Let me tell you this. Okay. So I had the story running that if I date someone, it may take away from my job or my focus or my blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, it has done the exact opposite. Calling in the one has has created a situation where everything I do is filled with with with an extra thing that is almost intangible and tangible at the same time. That love that I feel for for for my beautiful one. Actually, come here, come here. She's right here. She's holding the reflector here. That's. This is who I'm talking about. What would you guys say about love and calling in the one? Okay. So calling in the one, I mean, you really said everything that I believe as well. I think it's about, it really is about being what you say you want. I think for so long, I had this list of, you know, traits and attributes that the one had to have, but I wasn't willing to step into that. Like vulnerability was a huge one for me. Right? And agency, like real true agency. But I wasn't willing to even be honest and vulnerable with myself. So how could I possibly call in my one until I have that reflector's working now? Yeah. Yeah. Right? You see that? Yeah. You see that light all up on my book? You see that light all up on my book? Guys, seriously, this is magic. It get like, oh my God. It feels so good. This is magic because she's committed to her. We're both staring at the same mountain, but she's committed to her. So with and without me, she's headed to that mountain. With and without her, I'm headed to that mountain. And when two holes come together and they partner up and they walk towards the same mountain, it is, it feels unstoppable. It is pure magic. So if you're calling them the one, fill your cup, fill your cup and share from the overflow. Get yourself in alignment and allow the universe to do the rest. It is on and popping. This is questions with press and this is a Lexi damn panos. It is going down in a beautiful, major way. Guys, we love you. Click subscribe. Do it. Leave a comment. Do that too. Do all those steps I just told you? Steps one through five. One through fizzle? Don't forget the first one though. Exactly. Step A. And then go to a Lexi's channel and hit subscribe. Subscribe to my channel. Watch some of her videos. You should watch her. Why are we doing like this and talking like this? I can't. Neil, we love you guys. Love you. Love you. Subscribe. Bye.