There's some new photos of Billy Eilish floating around on Twitter that have a lot of people freaking out and something that we need to talk about right now. What is up everybody? This is Chris from The Rewire at Seoul where we talk about the problem but focus on the solution. If you're new to my channel what I like to do is pull different topics from pop culture and try to see what lessons we can pull from them to improve our mental and emotional well being. So if you're into that stuff make sure you subscribe and ring that notification bell. And today is my birthday not only am I 34 years old but I am seven years clean and sober from all substances drugs, alcohol, all that stuff. So do me a favor follow me over on Instagram and Twitter at The Rewire in Seoul. That would just be the best birthday present you can give me. Alright so yeah how do I find out about this well for my birthday my beautiful girlfriend Tristan and myself and my lovely little son. We're going to go see the new child's play movie and anyways on the way back my girlfriend Tristan she told me about this thing going on with Billy Eilish and we got at home and I started seeing it. So I saw that even Justine Mae Bitticon she is a former contestant on America's next top model and she's you know been on some other things or whatever but she retweeted this. So this all started from some random guy just some random dude on Twitter and he posted this picture of Billy Eilish saying Billy Eilish is thick all caps right and he posted a few more pictures over and this this tweet is getting a lot of traction. It's got a lot of people really really upset for a few reasons alright. So one of the things one of the most common things that people are saying in this situation is like Billy Eilish is only 17 okay. So what this dude said was 17 is legal and like over half the states right and it's still still kind of gross okay. So just a put in perspective for you I live in Las Vegas in Nevada and in Nevada like yeah it's legal here right. But if you're 16 you can only get with somebody who's 18 and if you're over 18 the person has to be 18 right unless there's like you know permission from a parent which is weird in and of itself like when I heard about that law I'm like what kind of parent is gonna like sign a permission slip for that. But anyways Billy Eilish is 17 years old now today I'm about to I'm 34 years old I am 2 billion lashes alright God I am old anyways. So like I think about that I'm like that is gross right and although like you know people are saying you know it's legal and things like that like like my girlfriend and I are a Tristan like we have a little bit of an age difference but it's not like she was a teenager like just seeing guys kind of say that I'm just kind of like yeah yeah yeah yeah. Just gross but anyways I've noticed a lot of women have been replying to this tweet and if you're a woman watching this video I would love to know your fasting opinions on this but anyways one of the things that they brought up is this clip right here. I mean that's why we're big baggy clothes nobody can have an opinion because they haven't seen what's underneath you know nobody can be like oh she's she's slim thick she's not slim thick she's she got a flat out. No one can say any of that because they don't know so yeah if you know who Billy Eilish is typically you know she's wearing like baggy like tracksuits and things like that like even that Coachella she was wearing something you know pretty baggy because she doesn't want to be identified as you know what her body looks like right and it's something that's been kind of a theme with Billy Eilish for example when she was being interviewed on the Ellen show her Tourette came up with a lot of things like that. So Billy Eilish has Tourette syndrome and she has ticks right and Tourette syndrome for those of you who don't know it's not always like a verbal type deal sometimes it's just like kind of like body and muscle ticks and that's what Billy Eilish struggles with but she didn't want to like put that in the forefront because that's not what she wants to be known for right like Billy Eilish is a musician she's an artist she wants to be known for that and something that you know she thought about as a young woman growing up in this industry she did not want to be identified like as her body. She didn't want to be sexualized you know because if you look back like for example my old self growing up you have people like Britney Spears and Christina Aguilera and from a very young age like these young women were being sexualized now if a young woman wants to do that that is 1000% her choice right and that's what something that's interesting too when people talk about Billy Eilish like being an industry plant you know what I mean because you would think that like a record label or anybody like that like her management team would try to sexualize her now something else that came up was this dude he started getting a little defensive so he made some more tweets and he showed this this Instagram photo of Billy Eilish saying like oh so I'm the one sexualizing your look what she said so the caption on this like I'm not gonna say it so hopefully YouTube keep me monetized but it says comment your whatever size right and surprise surprise there's been a lot of pushback on that as well a lot of people saying like yo that was a joke the anyways like I said if you're a woman watching this video right now I would love to know your thoughts on this because here's a thing like from a male perspective like I grew up you know around like you know the masculinity and everything like that and I remember being younger and seeing like older men you know maybe my dad's friends or whatever like cat calling women and everything and now in the age of social media it's a thousand times worse right like growing up I've I've had a lot like primarily my best friends are women they just have been I have a lot of guy friends too but anyways like the stories I hear like that's where this kind of bothers me the stories I hear of like women I know women in my life who like get cat called like it is creepy it is creepy as I like if you're a dude watching this like how many times like statistically how many times has cat calling like actually worked out like I always play the scenario out of my head like I imagine like a couple getting married and like at their wedding discussing like the story of how they met and could you ever imagine somebody being like oh you know I was just walking down the street and like like John he just screamed across the street it was like yo girl you look and thick as hell and I just knew I was in love like I can't imagine that happening right for some reason dudes still do that and cat call but the other thing is too is I know a lot of women who struggle with anxiety who struggle with you know trauma from previous experiences and like even my best friend she's a young woman who lives in Southern California she's actually moving back to Vegas but that's not your business anyways like she was telling me a story about how like it was later that it she was like leaving a concert or something like that and like some dude was like cat calling to her and then he like followed her and I'm like what the heck you know what I mean like I can only imagine if I you know my I have a son but if I had a daughter daughter I be scared as hell because dudes do do stuff like this and I think that might be why so many women are speaking up about this and you can correct me if I'm wrong because many women out there have dealt with this in real life right or you know on Instagram or on Twitter you know what I mean but anyways as a father who is raising a young man like I feel that it's my responsibility as a father to raise him right to be a gentleman to not do that like he's only 10 years old right now but as he gets older he hits you know the whole puberty age and everything it starts dating which I'm like ah but anyways like it's important for me to talk to him and teach him about you know respecting women and how to treat women and everything like that like that is something that's very important to me like it's it's something that I knew not to do growing up but I know not everybody is talk or raise that way because we look at it like a lot of people a lot of us even me and you whether it's cat calling or just behaviors we have as we grow up a lot of it has to do with how we were raised what we were exposed to and all that but yeah it's it's also like we need to discuss how you know like you know when it comes to teenagers especially someone like Billie Eilish like a lot of that is just really out of line I know she does have young fans and young audience you know but when you have older men saying stuff like that it gets a little bit on the creepy side but I don't know I might be crazy I might be wrong and it is now your opportunity to let me know let me know your thoughts on this subject down in the comments below it was blowing up on Twitter and a lot of women are out here defending Billie Eilish and how she be like that is not that. doesn't want to be sexualized. So I would love to know from all of you. And like something I try to do and I hate saying stuff like this because I don't want to come off. I was like a white knight or anything, but I like being educated about things that I don't go through. Like this may come as a shock to you, but nobody's cat calling me when I'm walking down the street. So when you guys share your stories, like feel free if you want to share what you've experienced down in the comments below to help educate me or any other dudes who are reading those comments, maybe a little help. All right. Anyways, that's all I got for this video. If you like this video, please give it a thumbs up and don't forget, it's my birthday, baby, so do me a favor and follow me on social media at the rewire sold over on Instagram and Twitter. All right. If you like this video again, please give it a thumbs up. If you're new, make sure you subscribe and ring that notification bell because I make a ton of videos. 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