So what happens when a narcissistic parent gets mad at somebody else in the world, especially when they're mad at the other parent? What happens? What do they do? Who do they take it out on? I'll tell you who they take it out on. They take it out on their children. They take it out on you if you were their child. They will twist everything around. They will lecture you about the other parent and how horrible they are. They will gaslight you to believe your other parent is the bad one. They will scream and yell and rant and rave because they're angry at the world and at somebody else. You tend to be the one that has to be the scapegoat, to be the one to soothe that toxic parent when you're living with a toxic parent. If you grew up that way, I am sorry and know that it was not your fault. It was not because of you and there is nothing you could have done to fix that toxic parent.