Okay, so your child just did something wrong. He just threw a block across the room, broke your plant pot, and now you're mad. What do you do? What do you do? Okay, so we know kids learn in three ways, consistency, repetition and imitation, right? So don't ignore that behavior because if you ignore it, it's just going to escalate because you're just going to do the next thing that he shouldn't be doing, right? So what you have to do is if he's really upset about it, say, let's breathe together, I'm going to count to three. We're going to take a deep breath in. One, two, three. Now we're going to let it out. Okay, listen, we're going to take another deep breath for three. One, two, three. Okay, let's let it out. You're going to scooch down to eye level and you're going to say, listen, I don't like it when you throw a block and break my plant pot because that makes me very sad. And I don't like when you do that because if you ignore this behavior, it's just going to escalate into something else. So you have to kind of nip it in the bud. Do you know what I'm saying? So you address the behavior and you say, I don't like when you do that. And you might have hurt somebody because what if you threw the block and it hit me and the hat or dad or grandma or auntie or your brother or sister. So I don't like when you do that and it's not safe. So now we're going to sit in a chair for two or three minutes depending on your child's age and we're going to think about it. If they won't sit in a chair, try a high chair. If they won't sit in a high chair, put them in their room. The thing about putting them in a room though, if you have tons of toys in the room, it's not going to work. So you need a corner of your house that has nothing to do that is just time to decompress. Do not give them an iPad. That's a reward, in my opinion. So just make them stop and think for a bit until they can come back and behave in an appropriate manner, right? So it all can be fixed. But if you are consistent and do it all the time, the same way, you're going to curb that behavior. I can tell it in my daycare center when someone doesn't follow through because I'll say, hey, Johnny, stop doing that and they keep doing it. And as soon as I take that first step toward them, they're like, oh, wow, she's coming. Oh, wow, she means business, which I always mean business. Then they stop and they're like, okay. So I can tell when parents at home don't follow through. They're just like, yeah, don't do that. Okay, don't do that. Yeah, don't do that. And they just keep going. If you ever notice that, so you got to nip it in the bud and you got to be strong. And you know, it's not always fun and it takes energy and there's a million other things you could be doing. But you got to curb it because if you can't curb them at three or four, you're not going to curb them at five or six. Because at this point, there hasn't been clear boundaries that have been set and you have to do that. Okay, you could do it. Be strong. Visit us at www.VentgesisCubageAct.com. I hope you have a great day. Talk to you soon.