I'm never down to video like this before but I just kind of got inspired. You see your big brothers out here chilling in some nice little grace sweater, some cold jeans. And some fly boots or glasses. Here's Sunday afternoon and I actually had a lovely afternoon with a new young hottie that I'm actually kicking it with. I've told you guys how I'm dating multiple women and I mentioned that you know I actually wanted a woman I'm seeing you know actually had to put her under free agency you know but which by the way guys keep a standard have a standard because it's thing. There's always going to be this test of frames. You're going to have a woman test you and do I'm going to tell you when that stuff starts I just elected just cut it off because I'm up front when I talk to a woman you know whatever we're doing we're doing it if you decide you want to you know giving me an ultimatum it's wrong thing to do because I have the power of walking away I have the power to say no but anyway. So as I'm sitting here and over brunch today over brunch over late lunch today I just noticed I'm just kind of staring at like looking at you intently and I'm like what's on your mind. Shout out to the CIA guys if you want to be come part of the movement do me a favor join us on Patreon for exclusive video and live stream content they will only be visible there details down in the description. You're the kind of man women would love to cheat with. I'm like what? Because I'm like what do you mean by it? And you know I wasn't offended by it but I just didn't understand what she meant and she's like well you know you know no it's not that I'm not saying you're the husband type right wouldn't love to be your wife but I'm saying that you know being with a guy like you is kind of intimidating for a lot of women and I'm like you know you're speaking for a lot of women and yourself she's like be kind of intimidating because she knows that hey man she's got to basically to know she has to stay on the shit and if not you know there's more options out there. And that's what you want to always do man it's the whole thing about keep purchasing your validation keep her on her toes. First thing for any relationship man is contentedness and complacency even in just a daddy relationship you as a man you want to stay on your bed stay on your toes and honestly the women you're dating you want to keep them there too. It's the best issue you're saying that it's cool to do that with somebody you see infrequently or that you're not really in a serious one on one man organization. I see it's one on one man organization but to be married to a guy like that but to be married to a guy like that would be stressful to a lot of women and I'm like well not really shouldn't be stressful if you plan on doing what the hell you say you're doing see there lies the rub. Some people talk along and up and they're telling themselves basically she's saying that you know I want to actually get what it do is going to allow me to kick up my feet relax and not have to stay out here in the gym not have to stay out here doing what I do I want to take it easy. No no no no no no no no no no no that's why I say guys you dating multiple women don't lie let them know it's actually good for you because the competition is on the pressure is on. I don't want to sit back and get lazy on me get fat on me get all crazy no no no no I do myself improvement stuff I want you to stay that way too but then the other side of it is like you know but then she I was like so is that is that all it meant that you would want to keep up with your you know you would want to have to keep your appearance and all that up is like when I was just that you know being with a man like being with a guy like you is pressure it's pressure because I feel like I got it from form and you know it's pressure on the one side but then it's also fun on the other side it's kind of like you know it's pressure on one side but then it's also a joy because you know you get to do something fun and exciting it's like you know it's kind of like birthday cake I love birthday cake I love birthday cake with vanilla vanilla birthday cake with sprinkles on it so good ice cream I mean I love this stuff if I go to marble slab I get sweet cream ice cream and a waffle cone with sprinkles that's my ish that's my shit but I don't want it every day so when you are the guy that she would want to cheat with you like the treat it is something she looks forward to something that makes her go oh make sure crave you to become obsessed with you and that's really the goal I mean for me I'm gonna tell you that's the spot I want to occupy with a woman I want her to be out here thinking about me craving me leave her wanting got a video coming up on that this week pay attention because it is better for her and it is better for me let me tell you why it's better for her because her mind is engaged her emotions are engaged she is firing on all cylinders and women love that stuff man we are perfectly fine being lone wolves out on our own getting together in packs and doing our things but that is what we are women are the other way around and if you can actually keep her mind running in a healthy way not wondering what you're doing but wondering not wondering what you're doing any of that in a healthy way not in a negative way where she's actually working when she's actually thinking about I can't wait to see him I can't wait I wonder what this is going to be I wonder what that's going to be I wonder what we're going to go I wonder what we're going to do when she's excited to see you when when a woman is excited to be around you that is a different experience ask yourself a question man real talk when was the last time a woman was legitimately excited to see you I mean legitimately excited to see you like a puppy or dog when you come home for my hard days work and then just sitting there to do what's the last time that ever happened has it ever happened if not I got to ask you if you're not married if you're out here dating why are you settling for just mediocre why are you settling for transactional in my opinion you take a good long looking mirror get honest with yourself and then decide to do the work you know what I say take a year off get your body right mind tight image together purpose on point game on lock and get back out there set a standard that is going to make you happy go after your happiness because when you're happy she's happy because when you're happy you can make her happy when you're unhappy you can't do anything for any of the women you're dating be the guy that she wants to cheat with it's better for you it's better for her it's better for everybody so next time talk at you later big bro hey guys where the look style or life or the personal profession you can level up and be a personal best each and every day if you're interested in any of that do us both a favor follow the link in the description and book your one-on-one session with details down in the description peace