Hi y'all, she was there. Okay, so I wanted to make a video about women not having to pay on dates. Because a lot of women get used to be in and a lot of men get used. And so a lot of guys have started this thing where they're wanting the woman to go to pay a touch or to pay half of the date or something like that. And that is, that's a problem because if the woman is going to pay for the date, then the man needs to pay for if they ever get to a sexual point in their relationship. Then she's going to need to charge him for that as well. Because if a man makes a woman pay on a date, that's saying, I don't appreciate your time. I don't appreciate how long it took you to get dressed, to put on makeup, to pick out your outfit. You know, it cost women a lot more money to actually go on a date, okay? Especially if she has kids or if she works. Because first of all, she has to have an outfit and women like the go shopping. Perfume costs a lot of money, makeup costs a lot of money, you know, getting your nails done cost a lot of money. So the effort that you put into actually looking decent to go out on a date with someone, it costs money. So then you're going to have to come out of your pocket again to pay for your own meal. You could have went out with your friends and met somebody who would pay for a date, okay? So men do not ask women to pay for a date. That is just childish. Yes, it is. How would you feel if you let her pay for her? How would you feel if you let the woman pay for the date and you end up really liking her? And she never calls you back because she figured, well, if he's not even going to pay for a date, then that's not the kind of man I want to be with, you know? What if you really liked that woman and you messed up and made her pay? And you'd never see her again. So you got to think about stuff like that. A lot of women do have this thing where they just use guys to go out to eat or drink. And you know, it happens. And if the man is wise enough to figure out which type of woman he's dealing with because a lot of them guys are just blinded by, you know, looks, they don't pay attention to words, to body language, to actions. You know, if this woman really wants to get to know you, she will ask you some questions. If the woman's not asking you too many questions, she's not very interested in you. She's not asking you about, you know, this or that. That's the red flag, okay? Most women that are just out for free meal are not going to ask you a thousand questions, you know? So pay attention to that. You're also not going to be interested in your backstory or what you do. You know, they're not going to care as long as you've got their drinks and their dinner and whatever. They're cool. But you have to understand if you get with the woman that you really like, you cannot answer her or pay for her own meal, that will turn her totally off and she will never call you back again. Now there's some women who are desperate who will do this. And there was like a new story the other day. I think it was this girl. She just got the army and she met this guy. She thought he was like all that and she took them to meet her grandmother for Sunday dinner. The grandma didn't have a good feeling about him. And a couple hours later, they found the girl dead on the side of the road because all he really wanted was to steal her car. And he dated her and pretended to be her boyfriend and then one day he just killed her and stole her car because she had a nice car. And they found him, the police found him like a couple hours later pumping gas in the car. So ladies be careful for men who you know who want to use you as well because if you're not like the most attractive woman in the world and all of a sudden you have this attractive man and boyfriend that should be a red flag too because we all know that men are visual creatures. So if they're way out of your league and you know they're way out of your league but you just feel like oh you're the luckiest woman in the world because you got this very attractive man. You need to look deeper into that because a lot of times they're just using you or want to take something from you. Okay. Or want to live off of you. So that's why it's important to be sort of like you know if people look at you and say well why I see with her, why I see with her you need to ask that same question because a lot of times guys will use a woman and they will use one who's not very attractive and they will work on her esteem, her low self esteem. And you know a lot of women end up you know messed up over that or even become abused by those kind of men so you got to watch out for that. Don't think you're lucky to be with him just because he looks good. This is bank account look good because this doesn't matter. Okay. Not with guys. In my opinion I'm sorry. Guys don't matter with guys you know because guys are supposed to be the masculine counterpart. Looks don't really matter in guys. Can they take care of a family? Can they provide for you? Are they going to be able to help you? You know because looks fade. Are they going to make a good father you know? Are they honest? So you need to kind of look out for stuff like that. And I know a lot of guys watch my videos and they comment and they say bad things and stuff like that but it doesn't bother me because the only type of guy that's going to comment negatively is if it's about him. So I don't even bother wasting my time commenting about you know trying to defend myself. I already know the kind of person this is, the kind of person that would get upset. So not even on my radar. But I know a lot of people will say oh well you know that's being a gold digger, that's being selfish, that's being this. I don't care. As long as my kids have what they need and I have what I need and most of the things I want then so be it. You know I would rather be called all those things and have the things that I like in my life. I would rather be called all those things and be comfortable and have my kids going to you know the best schools. I would rather be called all those things by people who don't have the higher standards than I do. Okay. They don't call people with high standards, gold diggers who you know who want the best in life. You know that's just a name that guys gave women who they could not get. Okay. So whatever you want to label and call someone remember that's because you're that's what you're lacking. Anyway I'm just rambling on today. I'm sorry y'all. I woke up and I had like a bunch of people that wanted readings and I just finished all of them. I just caught up with all of them. Most people want finance readings and love readings. That should tell you what important things that people are focused on right now. And like when I do my finance readings you know it's usually guys who get those more guys get finance readings, more women get love readings. So that should tell you that women aren't really gold diggers. They just like security. They want someone who really loves them. They want someone who has their back. So y'all think to think about that. And if y'all are curious about my readings I've been reading since I was 13 years old and I do have a website now link below if y'all want to get a reading. I do. I do them via email. I do some on the phone but they're a little bit more, when you'll see all the prices on the website. All the prices, my price is range from $5 up to 50 so everyone could afford a reading. So I keep it in a price range. And the most, the love readings are 10. Finance readings are 10. General terror readings are like 15. So everybody can kind of afford it. The more complex the reading gets the price goes up. That's how that works. And also if you're my friend on Facebook I can do the readings in Facebook Messenger. So yeah, I just wanted to put that out there because everyone's always asking in the comments. So I just wanted to put that on the video. Yeah. So as y'all can tell my kids are in school, the falls get ready to come, everything's getting ready to get cool outside. They call this cuffing season. Guys try to find a girl, girls trying to find a guy for the holiday season. So be careful out there y'all. Find someone who has their stuff together. And find someone who's not going to make you pay for your own Christmas bread this year. Okay. All right. Peace. Bye.