ILobola

Ilobolo okanye ilobola ngesiZulu, isiXhosa, Swazi, Silozi, Shona kunye nesiNdebele sangasentla nasezantsi ( mahadi ngesiSuthu, mahari ngesiSwahili, magadi ngeSepedi neSetswana, lovola ngesiTsonga, kunye nomamalo nge Tshivenda ), ngamanye amaxesha kuthiwa " ubutyebi bomtshakazi "   Signe Arnfred, Sexuality & Gender Politics in Mozambique: Rethinking Gender in Africa okanye "ixabiso lomtshakazi" yimpahla yemfuyo okanye nokuba yeyoluphi uhlobo, athe lowo uza kuba ngumyeni, okanye intloko yentsapho yakhe, ithembisa ukuyinika intloko yentsapho yalowo uza kuba ngumfazi ebulela usapho lomtshakazi ngokukhulisa intombi yabo, nokuba bakhulule intombi yabo iyokwenda.