Lenyalo le le rulagantsweng

As Lenyalo le le rulagantsweng ke mofuta wa ya lenyalo mo monyadi le monyadiwa ba tlhophiwang ke batho ba bangwe kwa ntle .Ga banyalani ka bobona, ba tlhopiwa ke baleloko bogolosegolo bassi babona. Mo ditsong tse finger , go ka nna ga dirisiwa motho yo o nang le bokgoni jwa go batlela balekane go batlela motho yo mmotlana molekane.

Manyalo a a rulagantsweng a ntse a tlhagelela mo dingwaong di le dintsi go ya ka hisitori. Mokgwa o o sa ntse o tlwaelegile mo dikgaolong di le dintsi, segolobogolo kwa Caucasus, Asia Bogare, Aforika Bokone, Asia Borwa, Borwabotlhaba jwa Asia, Aforika e e kwa borwa jwa Sahara, le Asia Bophirima . Mo dikarolong tse dingwe tse dintsi tsa lefatshe, mokgwa ono o ile wa fokotsega thata mo lekgolong la bo19 le la bo20 la dingwaga. [ <span title="This claim needs references to reliable sources. (July 2023)">go tlhokega nopolo</span> ]

Manyalo a a patelediwang, a a dirwang mo malapeng mangwe, a kgalwa ke Ditšhabakopano . Setlhophapotlana se se rileng sa lenyalo la bana le le patelediwang se kgalemelwa thata.  Mo ditsong tse dingwe, batho ba tlhopha molekane wa bona.

Manyalo a a rulagantsweng a ne a tlwaelegile thata mo lefatsheng lotlhe  ka mengwaga yabo18 .  Ka tlwaelo, manyalo a ne a rulaganngwa ke batsadi, borremogolo kgotsa ba losika ba bangwe ba ba gaufi le ditsala tse di ikanyegang. Go itsege dilo dingwe tse di sa akarediweng mo hisitoring, tse di jaaka meetlo ya go ratana le ya go beeletsa ka nako ya Tsosoloso kwa Italy  le Gandharva Vivah ka nako ya Vedic kwa kontinentengpotlana ya India. 

Lenyalo mo metlheng ya bogologolo ya Bagerika le Baroma, le ne le theilwe mo maikarabelong a loago. Gantsi manyalo a ne a rulaganngwa ke batsadi; ka dinako tse dingwe go ne go dirisiwa batho ba ba batlang banyalani ba seporofešenale. Gore lenyalo le nne semolao, rre kgotsa motlhokomedi wa mosadi o ne a tshwanetse go naya monna yo o tshwanetseng .yo o  . Barwadi ba dikhutsana gantsi ba ne ba nyalwa ke bo ntsalae . Banyalani ba ne ba nna le seabe mo moletlong o o neng o akaretsa meetlo e e jaaka go tlosa lesire . Monna ka tlwaelo o ne a lekanyeditswe go nna le mosadi a le mongwe fela, le fa a ne a ka nna le basadi ba le bantsi ba a neng a ka kgona. [ <span title="This claim needs references to reliable sources. (December 2022)">go tlhokega nopolo</span> ]

Kwa China, manyalo a a rulagantsweng (baoban hunyin, 包办婚姻) – ka dinako tse dingwe a bidiwa manyalo a a foufetseng (manghun, 盲婚) – e ne e le tlwaelo pele kamengagwa yabo 20lekgolo . Lenyalo e ne e le puisano le tshwetso magareng ga batsadi le maloko a magolo amalapa a lemabedi. Ka tlwaelo,mosimane le mosetsana  ba ne ba bolelelwa gore ba nyalane. Ba se na tshwanelo ya go gana, le fa ba ne ba ise ba kopane go fitlha ka letsatsi la lenyalo. Fricke, Chang, and Yang. (1994). Historical and Ethnographic Perspectives on the Chinese family. Social Change and the Family in Taiwan. Arland Thornton and Lin, Hui-Sheng. Chicago and London, The University of Chicago Press: 22–48