Keirian

Keirian atau iri merupakan emosi dan biasanya merujuk pada fikiran negatif dan perasaan terancam, takut, dan khawatir kehilangan sesuatu yang dihargai oleh seseorang, terutama merujuk pada hubungan manusia. Cemburu sering kali merupakan gabungan emosi yang ditunjukkan seperti marah, benci, kekurangan, tidak berdaya dan kecewa.

Keirian merupakan perasaan biasa dalam hubungan sesama manusia. Ia telah dipantau pada bayi lima bulan dan seterusnya.Draghi-Lorenz, R. (2000). Five-month-old infants can be jealous: Against cognitivist solipsism. Paper presented in a symposium convened for the XIIth Biennial International Conference on Infant Studies (ICIS), 16–19 July, Brighton, UK.Hart, S. (2002). Jealousy in 6-month-old infants. Infancy, 3, 395–402.Hart, S. (2004). When infants lose exclusive maternal attention: Is it jealousy? Infancy, 6, 57–78.Shackelford, T.K., Voracek, M., Schmitt, D.P., Buss, D.M., Weekes-Shackelford, V.A., & Michalski, R.L. (2004). Romantic jealousy in early adulthood and in later life. Human Nature, 15, 283–300. Some claim that jealousy is seen in every culture.Buss, D.M. (2000). The Dangerous Passion: Why Jealousy is as Necessary as Love and Sex. New York: Free Press.White, G.L., & Mullen, P.E. (1989). Jealousy: Theory, Research, and Clinical Practice. New York, NY: Guilford Press. However, others claim jealousy is a culture-specific phenomenon.Peter Salovey. The Psychology of Jealousy and Envy. 1991. ISBN 978-0-89862-555-4

Keirian sering kali diperkukuh sebagai sisi emosi kuat dan dibentuk sebagai pengalaman manusia umum; ia telah menjadi tema banyak karya artis. 

 Rujukan 

 Pistole, Carole Roberts, Amber Mosko, Johthan (2010). " Commitment predictors: Long-distance versus geographically close relationships,"  Ebsco , Vol 88(2).
 Rydell, Robert, McConnell, Allen, Bringle, Robert (2004). Jealousy & Commitment: Perceived threat & the Effect," Ebsco
 Lyhda, Belcher (2009). " Different Types of Jealousy" livestrong.com
 Green, Melanie, Sabin, John. " Gender, Socioeconomic Status, age and jealousy: Emotional responses to infidelity in a national sample," ebsco, Vol 6(2).

 Bacaan lanjut 
 Peter Goldie. The Emotions, A Philosophical Exploration . Oxford University Press, 2000
 W. Gerrod Parrott. Emotions in Social Psychology . Psychology Press, 2001
 Jesse J. Prinz. Gut Reactions: A Perceptual Theory of Emotions. Oxford University Press, 2004

 Jealousy among the Sangha  Quoting Jeremy Hayward from his book on Chögyam Trungpa Rinpoche Warrior-King of Shambhala: Remembering Chögyam Trungpa
 Hart, S. L. & Legerstee, M. (Eds.) "Handbook of Jealousy: Theory, Research, and Multidisciplinary Approaches" . Wiley-Blackwell, 2010.
 Pistole, M., Roberts, A., & Mosko, J. E. (2010). Commitment Predictors: Long-Distance Versus Geographically Close Relationships. Journal of Counseling & Development, 88(2), 146. Retrieved from EBSCOhost.
 Levy, Kenneth N., Kelly, Kristen M Feb 2010; Sex Differences in Jealousy: A Contribution From Attachment Theory Psychological Science, vol. 21: pp. 168–173
 Green, M. C., & Sabini, J. (2006). Gender, socioeconomic status, age, and jealousy: Emotional responses to infidelity in a national sample. Emotion, 6(2), 330-334. 
 RAUER, A. J., & VOLLING, B. L. (2007). Differential parenting and sibling jealousy: Developmental correlates of young adults’ romantic relationships. Personal Relationships, 14(4), 495-511. 
 Pistole, M., Roberts, A., & Mosko, J. E. (2010). Commitment Predictors: Long-Distance Versus Geographically Close Relationships. Journal of Counseling & Development, 88(2), 146. Retrieved from EBSCOhost.
 Tagler, M. J. (2010). Sex differences in jealousy: Comparing the influence of previous infidelity among college students and adults. Social Psychological and Personality Science, 1, 353-360. 
 Tagler, M. J., & Gentry, R. H. (2011). Gender, jealousy, and attachment: A (more) thorough examination across measures and samples. Journal of Research in Personality, 45, 697-701. 

 Pautan luar 

 The Buddhist Archives of Dr. Alexander Berzin: Dealing with Jealousy (March 2004)


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