Rashin jituwa na jima'i

Cutar lalata ta jima'i ita ce yanayin fuskantar tashin hankali na jima'i don amsawa ga ciwo, wahala ko wulakanci na wasu mutane. Ana amfani da wasu kalmomi da yawa don bayyana yanayin, kuma yana iya haɗuwa da wasu yanayi waɗanda suka haɗa da haifar da ciwo. Ya bambanta da yanayin da mutane masu yarda ke amfani da ciwo mai sauƙi ko wulakanci don jin daɗin jima'i. Kalmomin sadism da sadist sun samo asali ne daga marubucin Faransanci kuma mai lalata Marquis de Sade, wanda ya rubuta litattafai da yawa da ke nuna azabtarwa da tashin hankali.

 Kalmomi da yanayin da suka danganci 

 Kalmomin yanzu 
Cutar lalata ta jima'i ita ce kalmar da aka yi amfani da ita ta hanyar Diagnostic and Statistical Manual (DSM-5) na Ƙungiyar Kula da Lafiya ta Amirka. yarda nufin "maimaitaccen tashin hankali na jima'i daga wahalar jiki ko tunanin wani mutum, kamar yadda aka nuna ta hanyar mafarki, motsawa, ko halaye" (shafi na 696). An rarraba shi a matsayin ɗaya daga cikin paraphilias, wanda ake kira "rashin lafiya na algolagnic" (shafi na 685), wanda shine ɗayan "abin da ba a so" (shabi na 685). Binciken da aka yi na Ciwon Sadism na Jima'i zai yi amfani da shi idan mutum ya yi aiki a kan waɗannan buƙatun tare da mutumin da ba shi da izini ko kuma idan buƙatun sun haifar da damuwa mai yawa ga mutum.   

Cutar cin zarafin jima'i ita ce kalmar da aka yi amfani da ita ta hanyar rarraba cututtukan kasa da kasa (ICD-11).  Binciken yana buƙatar tsarin tashin hankali na jima'i wanda aka tsara ga mutanen da ba su yarda ba. Dole ne mai haƙuri ya yi aiki a kan waɗannan tunanin ko kuma ya damu da su sosai. An cire sadism da masochism musamman daga ganewar asali. Dangane da ƙungiyar aiki, alamu na farkawa kamar haka ba sa wakiltar rikice-rikice na hankali, sabili da haka an share su daga rarraba rikice-rikicen.

Cutar tilasta wa mutum yana nufin fifiko ga wadanda ba su yarda da su ba a kan abokan jima'i. Ya bambanta da rikicewar lalata ta jima'i a cikin cewa kodayake mutumin da ke da wannan rikicewar na iya haifar da ciwo ko barazanar ciwo don samun biyayya ga wanda aka azabtar, haifar da ciwon ba ainihin burin mutum ba ne. Ana bayyana yanayin a matsayin paraphilia kuma yana ci gaba da yin bincike, amma ba ya bayyana a cikin DSM ko ICD na yanzu. Sauran sharuɗɗa don yanayin sun haɗa da Biastophilia,  Coercive Paraphilic Disorder,  da Preferential Rape 

BDSM ko "bondage / horo dominance / submission sadomasochism" kalma ce ta magana da ke nufin al'adun mutane waɗanda suke da yardar rai su shiga cikin nau'ikan yarda na ciwo mai sauƙi ko kwaikwayon wulakanci. A halin yanzu ba yanayin da za a iya ganowa ba ne a cikin tsarin DSM ko ICD. Sauran kalmomi sun haɗa da Bondage da Discipline (B&D), Domination da Submission (D&S), da Sadism da Masochism (S&amp;M) . A cikin binciken kimiyya, wannan fifiko na jima'i an kuma kira shi tsarin hyperdominance na halayyar jima'i. Ba kamar mutanen da ke fama da rikice-rikicen jima'i ba ko rikice-rikice na tilastawa, mutanen da ke da karfin gaske suna neman haifar da jin daɗi a cikin abokin tarayya (s) tare da ciwo / wulakanci.

 Kalmomin da suka gabata 
SadoMasochism'' ya bayyana a cikin sigar da ta gabata na Classification of Diseases na Duniya (ICD-10) na Hukumar Lafiya ta Duniya. Yana nufin "fi soyayya ga aikin jima'i wanda ya haɗa da bautar ko haifar da ciwo ko wulakanci" (shafi na 172), kuma ya raba sadomasochism zuwa sadism da masochism bisa ga ko mutum ya fi son zama mai ba da shi ko mai karɓa. ICD-10 ya ƙayyade cewa nau'ikan sadomasochism masu sauƙi "ana amfani da su don inganta aikin jima'i na yau da kullun" (shafi na 172), kuma cewa ganewar asali zai shafi ne kawai idan an fi son halayyar ko ana buƙatar don gamsar da jima'i. An rarraba yanayin a matsayin daya daga cikin cututtukan son jima'i, wanda ya hada da paraphilias (shafi na 170).   

Jima'i na jima'i shine kalmar da DSM-III-R,  DSM-IV,  da DSM'IV-TR suka yi amfani da ita a baya,  inda aka rarraba shi azaman paraphilia. A cikin waɗannan nau'ikan DSM, lalata ta jima'i ta shafi kawai haifar da wahala ta ainihi (ba a kwaikwayon ba) (shafi na 530). An sake sunan yanayin cutar Cin zarafin jima'i a cikin DSM-5. 

Jima'i na jima'i shine kalmar da aka yi amfani da ita a cikin DSM-III,  wanda ke rarraba yanayin a matsayin paraphilia . DSM-III ta lura cewa "hotunan da ke cikin Paraphilia, kamar yin amfani da bautar ba, na iya zama mai ban sha'awa da rashin lahani kuma an yi su tare da abokin tarayya mai amincewa da juna....A cikin mafi girman tsari, ana yin hotunan paraphilic tare da abokin hulɗa wanda ba shi da izini, kuma yana da lahani da cutarwa ga abokin tarayya" (shafi na 267). A cikin DSM-III, ana iya gano lalata ta jima'i idan: 

 mutumin da ya yi wa mutumin da bai yarda ba, ya sha wahala akai-akai kuma da gangan, don jin daɗin jima'i
 akai-akai ko kuma kawai ya fi so ya kwaikwayon ko wahala mai sauƙi tare da abokin jima'i mai yarda
 yana amfani da wahala mai yawa, na dindindin, ko mai yuwuwa mai kisa don samun farin ciki na jima'i, ba tare da la'akari da yardar wani ba.

Sadism shine kalmar da DSM-II ta yi amfani da ita. A cikin wannan littafin, an rarraba yanayin a matsayin karkatar da jima'i, wanda aka yi amfani da shi don bayyana "mutanen da suke da sha'awar jima'i da farko ga ... jima'i wanda aka yi a ƙarƙashin yanayi mai ban mamaki" (shafi na 44). Kalmar "paraphilia" ba ta wanzu a cikin DSM-II ba, kuma ganewar asali ba ta da takamaiman ka'idoji har sai DSM-III. 

Jima'i na jima'i shine kalmar da aka ambata a cikin DSM-I a matsayin ɗaya daga cikin karkatar da jima'i  (shafi na 39), amma ko shi (ko wani daga cikin sauran karkatarwar jima'i) ya sami takamaiman lakabi ko ka'idojin bincike. Kalmar paraphilia ba ta wanzu a cikin DSM-II ba, kuma ganewar asali ba ta da takamaiman ka'idoji har sai DSM-III. 

Sadistic personality disorder does not actually refer to any sexual interest, and instead refers to the pervasive disregard for the wellcrimes).[<span title="This claim needs references to reliable sources. (December 2020)">citation needed</span>]

Tare da rikice-rikicen tilastawa, mutum yana amfani da isasshen ƙarfi don rinjayar wanda aka azabtar, amma tare da rikicewar lalata ta jima'i, mutum sau da yawa yana ci gaba da cutar ba tare da la'akari da bin wanda aka azabta ba, wanda wani lokacin yakan karu ba kawai ga mutuwar wanda aka azabtur ba, har ma da yankan jiki.[1] Abin da mai zalunci ya fuskanta a matsayin jima'i ba koyaushe yake bayyana a bayyane a matsayin jimaʼi ga waɗanda ba masu zalunci ba: fyade masu zalunci baya haɗawa da shiga cikin jima'i na wanda aka azabtar. A cikin binciken laifuka, kashi 77% na shari'o'in sun haɗa da bautar jima'i, kashi 73% sun haɗa da fyade na hanci, kashi 60% sun haɗa da rauni mai karfi, kashi 57% sun haɗa le fyade na farji, kuma kashi 40% sun haɗa da shigar da wanda aka azabtar ta hanyar wani abu na waje.[1] A cikin kashi 40% na shari'o'in, mai laifin ya ajiye wani abu na wanda aka azabtar a matsayin abin tunawa.[1]￼

A kan gwajin mutum, masu fyade masu zalunci da aka kama ta hanyar tilasta bin doka sun nuna halayen halayen hauka, hypersexuality, rashin tausayi, da psychopathy.

Kodayake akwai ci gaba da tsanani daga mai sauƙi (hyperdominance ko BDSM'') zuwa matsakaici (rashin hankali na tilastawa) zuwa mai tsanani (rashin tausayi na jima'i), ba a bayyana ba idan suna da alaƙa da gaske ko kuma kawai sun bayyana suna da alaƙar ƙasa.

Kadan ne aka sani game da yadda rikicewar jima'i ke tasowa. Yawancin mutanen da aka gano suna da rikicewar lalata ta jima'i sun zo ga hankalin hukumomi ta hanyar aikata laifuka masu motsawa. An kuma gudanar da bincike don haɗawa da mutanen da ke da sha'awar nau'ikan ciwo / wulakanci na jima'i (BDSM). 

Yawancin mutanen da ke fama da rikice-rikicen jima'i na jima'i maza ne, yayin da rabo na jima'in mutanen da ke sha'awar BDSM ya fi kusa da 2:1 namiji da mace.

Mutanen da ke fama da rikice-rikicen jima'i suna da yiwuwar samun wasu sha'awar jima'i.

 Dubi kuma 

 Rashin jituwa na jima'i
 Sadomasochism
 Marquis de Sade, wanda aka sanya masa suna sadism
 Leopold von Sacher-Masoch, wanda aka sanya masa suna
 Biastophilia, paraphilia don fyade
 Kisan kai na sha'awa
 Rashin mutuntaka mai banƙyama
 Zoosadism, daidai da paraphilia ga dabbobi marasa rai

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