Auren gargajiya a al'adun Hausawa

Yawancin mutanen Najeriya Hausawa ne. Yawancin  Musulmi ne, amma wasu Kristane.https://tribuneonlineng.com/wonders-of-hausa-speaking-northern-christian-names/ Suna magana da yaren Hausa, kodayake kabilun daban-daban suna magana da yare daban-daban. Aure  gargajiya na Hausa ba shi da tsada kamar sauran nau'ikan aure a Najeriya.https://www.allthingsnigeria.com/2012/hausa-traditional-marriage/ Auren  gargajiya na Hausa ya dogara ne akan dokar Islama ko Sharia.https://informationparlour.com/article-culture-tradition-traditional-marriage-system-hausa-culture/

A cikin wannan al'ada, wani mutum yana neman izinin iyayensa lokacin da ya sami mace da yake da niyyar aure. Bayan iyaye sun ba da yardarsu, sauran bukukuwan aure sun bi su. Wadannan matakai sun hada da Na Gani Ina so don haka, Sadaki, bikin aure ko Daura Aure / Shafa Fatiha, da Kai Amariya.

 Na Gani Ina ao 
A cikin harshen Hausa, wannan yana nufin "Na same kuma ina son shi". Wannan mataki ne lokacin da mutumin tare da danginsa suka je gidan matar don sanar da iyayenta niyyar su. Suna ɗauke  wasu abubuwa kamar Kolanuts, jaka na gishiri, kayan zaki da cakulan. Idan iyayen amarya sun yarda da waɗannan abubuwa, wannan yana nufin sun amince da ba da hannun 'yarsu a aure ga dangin ango. Yanzu an bar shi ga dangin amarya su sadarwa ga dangin ango game da amincewarsu game da auren.  tsari ana kiransa "Gaisuwa".https://www.pulse.ng/lifestyle/relationships-weddings/traditional-marriage-rites-how-its-done-in-hausa-land/1y3xsmy Kafin wannan za su iya yin bincike game da mutumin da ke neman auren 'yarsu don tabbatar da halin kirki, addini, da imani na zamantakewa, da kuma sanin asalin iyalinsa. Ba a yarda amarya da ango su kasance su yi hulɗa ta jiki har sai sun yi aure yadda ya kamata. Bayan wannan tsari ma'auratan sun yi alkawari kuma iyalai biyu sun fara aiki don bikin aure da kuma saitin kwanan wata.  gyara ranar bikin ana kiransa "Sa rana".https://m.guardian.ng/life/traditional-marriage-rites-in-nigeria/

 Sadaki 
Wannan shine matakin biyan farashin amarya ko sadaki. Yana farawa da mafi ƙarancin adadin da ake kira "Rubu Dinar" a cikin Hausa, wanda ya kai ga mafi girman adadin da ango zai iya biya. Koyarwar Islama tana koyar  cewa karamin sadaki da aka biya yana haifar da aure mai albarka. Ana sanar da kuɗin da ake biya a matsayin farashin amarya ga masu sauraron kowa da kowa. Farashin amarya na iya zama kuɗin da aka biya a tsabar kudi ko a cikin kashi ko kuma yana iya zama aiki ga Mace. Amma ga wanda ya sake aure ko gwauruwa, sai ta yanke shawarar farashin amarya.

 Lefe 
Lefe yana nufin abubuwan da ango ya saya don gada.

 Fatiha na bikin aure 
Ana kiran ranar bikin auren Fatiha.  a sa ran za a ga mata a bikin auren Fatiha maimakon haka za su kasance tare da amarya suna murna da ranar ƙarshe a matsayin marasa aure kuma suna shirya ta don rayuwar aure. amarya ta zauna a tsakiyar abokanta mata, ta huta kuma ta zana yatsunsu da ƙafafunta masu kyau tare da henna, kuma abokanta ma sun zana nasu.  kiran amarya a cikin Hausa "Amarya"https://hausa.english-dictionary.help/english-to-hausa-meaning-bride yayin da ake kiran ango "Ango".https://kamus.com.ng/groom.html 

bikin auren, ana ba da abinci da abin sha ga baƙi.https://web.archive.org/web/20201001160844/https://nigerianinfopedia.com.ng/traditional-marriage-rites-in-hausa-land-northern-nigeria-how-it-is-done/  cikin al'adar Hausa, wajibi ne ga mijin ya yi hayar gidan da babu kowa yayin da alhakin samar da shi alhakin dangin amarya ne.

 Kai Amarya 
Bayan bikin auren, ana tare da amarya zuwa gidan mijinta don a maraba da ita sosai daga dangin ango. Sun rera waƙoƙi a kan hanyarsu kuma suna ɗauke da duk kayan amarya tare da su.

 Bayanan da aka ambata 
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