If any man doesn't obey our word in this letter, note that man, that you have no company with him, to the end that he may be ashamed.
but worked with labor and travail night and day, that we would not be chargeable to any of you [that we wouldn't be dependent upon any of you.] Not because we do not have the power to make ourselves an example unto you to follow us ( 2 Thessalonians 3:8-9 )