But if anyone doesn't provide for his own, and especially his own household, he has denied the faith, and is worse than an unbeliever.

 (v) Such women are not to be envious and jealous: "We hear that some widows are jealous, envious calumniators, and envious of the quiet of others.... It becomes them when one of their fellow-widows is clothed by anyone, or receives money, or meat, or drink, or shoes, at the refreshment of their sister, to thank God." 