But she who gives herself to pleasure is dead while she lives.
"It has been my experience in three different pastorates that godly widows are a ’spiritual powerhouse’ in the church. They are the backbone of the prayer meetings. They give themselves to visitation, and they swell the ranks of teachers in the Sunday School. It has also been my experience that, if a widow is not godly, she can be a great problem to the church. She will demand attention, complain about what the younger people do, and often ’hang on the telephone’ and gossip. (Of course, it is not really ’gossip.’ She only wants her friends to be able to ’pray more intelligently’ about these matters!)" [Note: Wiersbe, 2:229.] 