If any man doesn't obey our word in this letter, note that man, that you have no company with him, to the end that he may be ashamed.
Every Christian must go the second, third, and fourth mile to restore the one in error, but we are not to give an inch in compromising with the devil or with sin. It is our duty as citizens of the kingdom of God to stand up for truth, the whole truth. When a person is ashamed and corrects his problem, then it is solved and is no longer an issue. The scriptures provide the proper way of handling unfortunate situations as they occur in the church of Christ.