For what thanksgiving can we render again to God for you, for all the joy with which we rejoice for your sakes before our God;

 (i) There is affection. We can never affect or win people unless we begin, quite simply, by liking them. It was Carlyle who said of London, "There are three and a half million people in this city--mostly fools!" The man who begins by despising men or by disliking them can never go on to save them. 