I desire therefore that the younger widows marry, bear children, rule the household, and give no occasion to the adversary for reviling.
Looking upon him as a father and talk to him as you would a father, entreat him as you would a father. Older people, I think, naturally resent being told by younger people what they ought to do or being rebuked by younger people. So Paul said, Don't rebuke them, entreat him as a father.