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"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder"

"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder" is a common proverb used by bluepillers which says that which one person finds beautiful or admirable may not appeal to another. 
While there may be variation within the population, persistent and montone preference of physical attributes is seen (especially by females)
It's meaning is contrary to the scientific blackpill. 
== Obscurity ==
=== Universal beauty standards ===
* Tall body height
* Lighter eye color
* Big penis 
== See also ==
* Bluepill
* Empathy gap
"Incel" as autonym

The term "incel" seems to have gradually become the default autonym for romantically unsuccessful people, having replaced other terms such as AFC, TFL permavirgin, blue-baller etc. This page will attempt to explain why this has happened.
==History==
In the 1970s, popular terms for those who couldn't get laid was simply "loser". In the late 1980, the term "love-shy" came into usage. During the early internet in the 1990s, the term AFC, meaning "average frustrated chump" was probably the most popular. From 2009, for about half a decade after, the term TFL, meaning "true forced loner", was arguably the most popular on Youtube. The most popular equivalent in online forums was probably forever alone or FA in short. A look at google trends seems to suggest that "incel" has won out over all the other terms. 
This is probably because TFL is not a true orthonym of the concept "involuntary celibacy". TFL is also a plesionym of the word "incel" because although they are almost synonymous, TFLists are more geared towards feeling lonely. The term "incel" on the other hand is a polyonym since it can be referred to by many different names, including "blue-baller", "permavirgin" etc. 
Other autonyms to describe romantically unsuccessful people in the 2000s were "love-shy" and "involuntary celibate", although both have fallen out of use, probably because they are dionysms (consisting of two words). However, gradually from the mid 2010s onwards, the term "inceldom" has become the default autonym for the state of being romantically or sexually unsuccessful. One of the reasons that the term "incel" has replaced TFL and other synonyms is because it becomes a aptonym (word that aptly describes another thing) when you consider that the word "incel" sounds like "in cell". Its aptonymous nature derives from the fact that many incels do in fact feel trapped in loneliness, hence feeling like they are in fact in a cell.
== See also ==
* Inceldom
* Incelosphere timeline
category:Language
category:Incelosphere
"Incel" as dysphemism

Dysphemisms are an expression with connotations that are derogatory either about the subject matter or to the audience. Against involuntary celibates, its use is particularly motivated by hatred, contempt and distaste of sex-havers mostly consisting of normies, chads, stacys and beckies. 
== Being an Incel is seen as an insult, rather than a life circumstance ==
The common pejorative association for incel is being a white, fat, stinky/unhygienic and misogynistic reddit user not being able "to pull some bitches", according to the common definitions of the Urban Dictionaryhttps://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=incel and mainstream media. Yet this is false, since most incels aren't white nor fat (or unhygienic...), don't have a per se hatred against femoids and are opposing the usage of reddit due to their anti-incel sentiment banning incel-related content (r/incel, r/incels, r/incelswithouthate) while condoning anti-incel content or "femcels". 
== See also ==
* "Incel" as autonym
* "Incel" as sniglonym
"Incel" as sniglonym

Sniglonym is a term derived from blending the word "sniglet" with the suffix "-onym". Sniglonyms are terms whose date of coinage postdates the preexisting concept or object that it defines. The term "incel" is a sniglonym. This is because the term "incel" was coined in the 1990s, despite the fact that the phenomenon of unintentionally/involuntarily celibate people existed before the 1990s. In fact, the usage of the unabbreviated form "involuntary celibacy" reaches back at least to the 18th century.
==See also==
*Incel
Category:language
"It's the patriarchy"

One of the most common bluepilled vocalizations by feminists is the phrase "it's the patriarchy". The main problem with this line of thinking is that it follows the philosophy of the blank slate, also called tabula rasa. This suggests there are no innate built-in conceptualizations in the human brain. Various studies suggest otherwise.
==Overview==
Feminists say the phrase so often that it has become similar to coprolalia (impulsive swearing), exhibited by those with Tourette's. The Australian feminist Clementine Ford in 2019 collectivized the accountability of the various outgrowths of sexual frustration and loneliness such as friendzoning, inceldom, romantic unreciprocation and dating woes on a single culprit. Guess who that culprit is? You guessed it: "it's the patriarchy".https://10daily.com.au/views/a190719ufvcq/clementine-ford-incels-and-the-dangers-of-male-fragility-20190722
==Pattern==
There seems to be a pattern when feminists write about negative social problems:
* (civilian) What should we do about global warming?
** (feminist) Global warming is caused by toxic attitude among men that driving 600 HP vehicles is cool; so rein in the patriarchy!
* (civilian) There is currently an epidemic of homelessness on our streets. What to do?
** (feminist) You should have thought about the domestic violence issues brought by the patriarchy!
* (civilian) I believe that at the current rate, our environment will no longer be able to sustain the rate of deforestation that's ongoing. Thoughts?
** (feminist) Well what about the patriarchy, goddammit!
* (civilian) The recession has exacerbated the issue of hunger among the youth. What do you think?
** (feminist) Well, a patriarch had patriarchally suggested a patriarchal food distribution that looked like patriarchalism
== See also ==
*Trans-vestigiality hypothesis
==References==
Category:Chadsplanation
Category:Joke article
-cel

-cel is sometimes used as a suffix used in the incelosphere to denote a type of deficiency an involuntary celibate has that contributes to their inceldom. It can also indicate an interest, activity, or other characteristic of the involuntary incelibate person. It can also be used the same way for a celibate person.
==Etymology==
This has questionable grammar logic since this practice involves dropping the "in-" prefix (short for involuntarily) which makes it seem like the term applies to all celibates and not just incelibates.
Why this may make sense however is that by ascribing some cause other than "voluntary" to a celibacy, you are de-facto implying it is involuntary by saying so.
A "locationcel" for example, doesn't need to be called "locationINcel" because there would be no such thing as a "locationVOLcel" since if your celibacy is voluntary, you being in a location where it is hard to find sex partners would be irrelevant.
== Overview ==
== See also ==
* Foodcel
* Mog
*-let
category:language
-let

-let is sometimes used as a suffix used in the incelosphere and PSL forums to denote a type of deficiency - perceived or real - a person has.
==Examples==
*Dicklet
*Manlet (it impllicitly implies short men are less manly than others or perceived as such)
**Baldlet
*Lanklet
*Brainlet
*Framelet
*Jawlethttps://jowforums.com/thread/45604898/fitness/which-is-worse-being-a-6-2-jawlet-incel-or-a-5-6-fit-manlet.html
==See also==
*-cel
== References ==
category:language
-maxxing

-maxxing or -maxx is a suffix used to refer to activities aimed at improving some aspect of one's sexual market value. Someone who has done those activities gets the suffix -maxxed after the name of the activity performed or the type of -maxx/-maxxing.
==Examples==
*Looksmaxxing: any attempt at improving one's appearance.
**Gymmaxxing: a subset of looksmaxxing, where beta males and incels (in this case called Gymcels) attempt to hit up the gym to achieve a better physique, to "feel better about themselves" and to become more attractive to women, hoping to ascend.
**Surgerymaxxing: a subset of Looksmaxxing, where Uglycels attempt to ascend by undergoing a plastic surgery to fix flaws they might have in their looks.
*Statusmaxxing: the act of improving one's value on the dating market (SMV) by increasing one's social status
**Careermaxxing and academiamaxxing: the act of improving one's career to improve one's social status
**Moneymaxxing (also called Wealthmaxxing): are attempts that beta males and incels make to become wealthy, in order to live a better life or to attract women (becoming Beta providers in the process)
**Methmaxxing: contributing, aiding, or otherwise partaking in the production or distibution of methamphetamine, usually with the goal of achieving wealthmaxxing.
*Clownmaxxing/Honkmaxxing: The act of improving the skill to see the world and your own life as joke as a coping technique
*Jestermaxxing: trying hard to make people laugh.
*Therapymaxxing: when Mentalcels should go to more therapies for a better dating value.
*Medmaxxing: when Mentalcels or Medcels must take more medications that changes the personality or have other side effects to have more success on the dating scene.
* Drugmaxxing: When an Incel take drugs to get a partner or search for a partner that takes him because the drugs block her to See the incel traits. Or when an Incel must take drugs lower the negative effects and pain of his incel life
*SEAmaxxing (South-East-Asia-maxxing): the practice of improving ones dating-chances as a Westerner by dating in South East Asia, otherwise known as Tutorial Island.
*Transmaxxing: the act of switching to another gender in the hope that it may help you to escape inceldom.
*Machismomaxxing (sometimes also called narcisismmaxxing or Chadmaxxing): the act of becoming more machist to be more attractive to women
*Goatmaxxing: when one obtains goats and moves to a desert/mountainous area and spends time raising them.
*Thugmaxxing; when one imitates a stereotypical black man to get around with women
*Disabiltymaxxing, Weirdmaxxing or Uglymaxxing: when one searches for partners with disabilities, extreme weirdness or ugliness (resulting in low dating value) so one has less competition with others for these partners, resulting in a better chance to score.
* Grannymaxxing: When someone searches for older people because the sex Ratio Changes to more females than males in higher ages
* Povertymaxxing: When an Incel goes to poorer regions to find a Partner that thinks he is wealthy
* Waifumaxxing/ Dreammaxxing : When a weebcel tries to beliebe His imagenry waifu is His girlfriend
Category:Maxxing
/groups/loveshy-drgilmartin

/groups/loveshy-drgilmartin is a defunct support group that discusses inceldom on yahoo. Activity peaked in the year 2006. The support group was founded in 20 January 2002 by Justin Urban. It is among the earlier incelibacy forums on the incelosphere. Justin Urban has also linked to a site wherein one could read Brian Gilmartin's book Shyness and Love on the phenomenon (see in external link). It was made before the creation of love-shy.com which also focused on Gilmartin's work.
The group is now completely defunct.
==External links==
*Original "Shyness & Love" book transcription site (unfinished) 2002
*Yahoo Groups Site
category:incelosphere
21st century

The 21st century is a time period that started on 1 January 2001 and will end on December 31, 2100. 
This century is the first in human history wherein penopaused men have a more active sex life than young healthy virile men, due to the teleiophilic delay. It is also the first in human history wherein layless genetic dead ends are not sanctioned through incelicide nor the alternatives, such as being matchmaked with a looksmatch, but are instead given the alternative of slothing. It is also a century of increased sexual immorality, such as the rise of incestuals.
==See also==
*Boomer
*Millenial
category:age
2b2t

2builders2tools (2b2t) is a Minecraft server founded in December 2010. 2b2t is the oldest anarchy server in Minecraft, as well as one of the oldest running Minecraft servers of any variety. Additionally, 2b2t's world is one of the longest-running unaltered server maps in the game, which has never been reset since its creation. As the server has virtually no rules or authority, griefing and hacking are common amongst players, with no risk of getting banned. The server is set to the "hard" difficulty, and player versus player combat is possible at all times and locations. The server has seen over 580,000 players explore its procedurally-generated map, increasing its file size to over 9 terabytes. 2b2t has been described in news media as the worst Minecraft server due to its playerbase and culture.
== Incels ==
It has mostly become a hot bed of insiders due to people wasting their lives and money with the queue system and block game "politics" and "wars". With 80% of the community being redditors and little kids with the rest being N.E.E.Ts, Incels, and even Pedophiles. There are rumors of people who play 2b2t that actually have a life, but this is still disputed.
== See also ==
* Neet
Category:Incelosphere
5'2 balding Indian janitor

The 5 foot 2 balding Indian janitor is a visualization technique meant to simplify envisaging a truecel. It is used by male members of the incelosphere in an attempt to help normies, Stacies and Chads visualize that perpetual nonredamancy isn't just some fantasy that truecels, nearcels and inceldom-experiencers daydreamed about. Perpetual nonredamancy is an actual phenomenon that happens to people at the bottom of the decile scale, but for reasons of unfamiliarity, noncels can't fathom this. The 5'2 balding Indian janitor has also been used as a meme in forums like r/braincels. 
==See also==
* Currycel
* St. Blackops2cel
*List of theories
Category:Trueceldom
Category:Theories
Category:Ethnicels
666 dating rule

The 666 dating rule is a subset of related hypergamy theory that goes into specifics of female hypergamy. It does this by simplifying hypergamy around the number 6. 
==Specified==
Examples of qualities centered around number 6 that women yearn for include a six foot height (at least), a six-pack abdomen, six years of higher education (i.e. a university degree), six months since last relationship, a 6,000 sq ft house, a non-bone-pressed six inch penis (at least), a six inch penile girth, a six-hundred horse-power car, a six-figure salary, at least a 6th decile in terms of facial attractiveness. The associations of these male attributes with the number 666 derives from the shallowness and superficiality of such high standards that some associate as being equivalent in evil to the Number of the Beast (666). However, most women realize that such perfect requirements in a man will probably doom them to be a permavirgin cat lady. Therefore most women give some leeway.
Opposition to the hypergamy associated with the 666 dating rule is called 666phobia.
==Related==
The 666 dating rule doesn't imply that there is a volitional effort on the part of women to choose each of these traits. Rather it is a convenient shorthand for approximately describing a largely subconscious mating choice on the part of women. Although 666 is meant to convey shallowness, it is not the most detrimental-to-society dating choice that has been observed among women. That award would go to the surprisingly common tendency of women to be attracted to men with traits such as dark triad and hybristophilia, in other words, the asshole or bad-boy archetype.
==See Also==
*Hypergamy
category:Hypergamy
A-logging

A-logging is the practice of wishing or causing physical harm or abuse to someone you don't like on the internet. Incelwiki is against this type of behaviour. The term derives from a Youtuber named Anthony 'A-Log' LoGatto who hated Chris-chan to an excessive degree and would go out of his way to wish harm upon her. 
As of 2018, most leftbook groups allow A-logging, and are otherwise virtual copies of Kiwifarms which does not allow A-logging.
Subreddits like r/IncelTears, to avoid meeting the same fate as r/Incels, eventually created rules against trying to bring about suicides and homicides of incels, and their current rules seem to be disingenuously enforced.
==See Also==
*Inceltears
*Kiwifarms
AFChick

In the early period of the incelosphere during the 1990s, the most popular term to refer to male incels was AFC, and for female incels AFChick. The term AFChick has become almost obsolete though, and has in general been replaced with femcel.
==See also==
*Femcel
*Feminist
*Blue beaner
*Dried-fish woman
*Leftover woman
Category:Femcels
Category:Abbreviations
AWALT

AWALT, or all women are like that, is the theory that while the manifestations of female nature may differ from foid to foid, all females have the same basic underlying nature. E.g., all girls tend to want to seek after sexually arousing men to father their children, and betabuxxes to provide financial security and emotional comfort.
Thus, if a girl claims to be "not like other girls," this has to be taken with a grain of salt, because it is often in a girl's best interests to try to deceive men into thinking they're a special snowflake whose more obvious faults should be overlooked because she is a rare exception to AWALT principles.
The opposite assumption is called NAWALT, or not all women are like that.
==Counterargument==
Some incels (generally new ones) disagree with AWALT because they know women they deem nice, such as their sisters, mothers, relatives, coworkers, teachers, etc. Others argue against it because, since women don’t choose to be born female, they argue that it makes no sense to treat them as a hivemind. However, this generally comes from misunderstanding AWALT as "All women are evil" when it's closer "All women are attracted only to attractive men." Women generally treat ugly men with basic manners, but they are still repulsed by the thought of having sex with them (especially if they are relatives).
==See also==
*Femoid
Category:Abbreviations
A History of Celibacy (book)

A History of Celibacy is a book by Elizabeth Abbott that devotes one chapter to involuntary celibates (using the term verbatim). She includes in this category a wide variety of people.Elizabeth Abbot, A History of Celibacy, New York: Da Capo Press, 2001, "Coerced Celibacy: Involuntary Celibacy", p. 303-337. ISBN 0-306-81041-7
==Incel definition==
According to Abbot, those who are incel include:
*Those in social circumstances that deny them access to potential partners (for example, being imprisoned, or living in a society with skewed sex ratios caused by the death of many men in a war, or preferential abandonment or abortion of females)
*Those without access to either birth control or the monetary resources to deal with a child
*Those denied the right to marry by social norms (for example, widows in certain Hindu communities, or younger sisters in societies that demanded the oldest be married first)
*Women whose families lacked money for the dowries required by their society
*People who would lose their jobs if they were known to be sexually active (for example, apprentices and journeymen in certain trades in Medieval Europe, or certain Western domestic servant or educator positions prior to the past century)
Category:BooksCategory:Incelology
== See also ==
*Shyness and Love (book)
==References==
A Voice for Men

A Voice for Men (also known as AVfM, AVFM or AV4M) is a United States-based for-profit limited liability company and online publication founded in 2009 by Paul Elam. A proponent of the Men’s Rights Movement, or “Men’s Human Rights Activism”, it is the largest and most influential men’s rights website. It’s editorial position is strongly antifeminist and frequently accuses feminists of being misandrist in their mindset.
==Ideology==
Paul Elam’s site has always been critical of traditional masculinty and trad-cons insisting that feminists had become the main propenents of traditional masculinityhttps://web.archive.org/web/20110212015917/http://www.avoiceformen.com:80/2011/01/27/conservative-misandry/https://www.avoiceformen.com/feminism/all-feminist-are-tradcons/. His site has also been critical of viewing the left as a monolithic enemyhttps://www.avoiceformen.com/misandry/is-the-right-sympathetic-to-the-mra/, and does not align itself with conservatismhttp://in.avoiceformen.com/are-mens-rights-activists-conservative-hell-no/ [dead link, someone at AVFM is mad that got published]. Masculinist, patriarchal MRA figures were usually relegated to the fringes of the MRA movement, barely gaining any promimence. However, after 2009, a new breed of masculinist, gender essentalist MRAs came to the forefront of the entire MRA scene, mostly libertarian, conservative or pseudo-traditionalist women. They rarely promoted gender liberation or concepts such as house husbands, often implicitly defending traditional gender roles or anti-leftist politics. People like Karen Straughan, Alison Tiemanhttps://twitter.com/Typhonblue/status/859239089228402688https://twitter.com/Typhonblue/status/857789874207903744, Janet Bloomfield, June Nicole, Christina Hoff Sommers, Aydin Paladin, Natty Kadifa, Lana Lokteffhttps://redice.tv/radio-3fourteen/the-myth-of-male-power, and Kay Hymowitz.
==References==
==See also==
*MRA
*Honey Badger Radio
Category:Manosphere
A man without love - Engelbert Humperdinck

A man without love - Engelbert Humperdinck is a song about a dumped incel.
==Lyrics==
 I can remember when we walked together
 Sharing a love I thought would last forever
 Moonlight to show the way so we can follow
 Waiting inside her eyes was my tomorrow
 Then somethin' changed her mind, her kisses told me
 I had no lovin' arms to hold me
 Every day I wake up, then I start to break up
 Lonely is a man without love
 Every day I start out, then I cry my heart out
 Lonely is a man without love
 Every day I wake up, then I start to break up
 Knowing that it's cloudy above
 Every day I start out, then I cry my heart out
 Lonely is a man without love
 I cannot face this world that's fallen down on me
 So, if you see my girl please send her home to me
 Tell her about my heart that's slowly dying
 Say I can't stop myself from crying
 Every day I wake up, then I start to break up
 Lonely is a man without love
 Every day I start out, then I cry my heart out
 Lonely is a man without love
 Every day I wake up, then I start to break up
 Knowing that it's cloudy above
 Every day I start out, then I cry my heart out
 Lonely is a man without love
 Every day I wake up, then I start to break up
 Lonely is a man without love
 Every day I start out, then I cry my heart out
 Lonely is a man without love
==Song==
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==See also==
*More Incel Songs
Category:Music
Category:Incel songs
A rising tide lifts all boats

A rising tide lifts all boats is the antithesis to the crab bucket mentality. It describes a strategy of social interaction wherein one improves the situation of the group which also benefits the individual. Adherents may not obsess so much over individual placement on a dominance hierarchy, but rather the collective success of their peergroup. 
==Dating==
Someone who takes this approach may help other people in their journey of sexual success to as to build a cooperative venture in mate success. Academia suggests that in most species of intelligent animals, the males compete for sexual access in groups instead of individually.
==Clarification==
The mentality does not necessarily imply altruism. The mentality does not imply a fixed "team spirit" either, as one can maintain the mentality by leaving a team and joining another team, or by supporting multiple teams to various degrees depending on the circumstances. One can also join multiple teams that seem adversarial on the surface, but still benefit all teams, so as to 'rise the tide' of those who share a similar grievance.
==See also==
*Crab bucket
*altruism
*charity
Category:Theories