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Masturbation

Masturbation is the act of stimulating one's genitals for sexual pleasure. 
Masturbation typically involves a psychic component or fantasy and may be aided by pornography (more commonly in men) or devices to create stimulation (more commonly in women). 
Masturbation is usually a solitary activity, but it can be conducted with others present ("witnessed masturbation") or assisting ("assisted masturbation"). It is also possible to masturbate together ("sharing masturbation" or "mutual masturbation"). 
Masturbation is a healthy part of a normal sex life, and large majorities of both men and women masturbate, despite stigmas that may exist around the practice. According to the Merck Manual of Diagnosis and Therapy, "It is considered abnormal only when it inhibits partner-oriented behavior, is done in public, or is sufficiently compulsive to cause distress."
A 2023 study published in Proceedings of the Royal Society B found that masturbation is common among primates and may help male primates breed successfully. Masturbation clears out old and flawed sperm, leaving healthier specimens to compete against other males' sperm. Masturbation can help reduce disease by cleansing the urethra and can help reduce the risk of prostate cancer. Low ranking males who masturbate immediately before copulation might increase their chances of ejaculation before being interrupted by higher-ranking males.
Anecdotal evidence suggests that using an excessively tight grip when masturbating the penis can desensitize the sexual organ, potentially leading to sexual dysfunction in regards to actual sexual intercourse (death grip syndrome),https://www.healthline.com/health/death-grip-syndrome since a mouth, vagina, or anus can't produce the same pressure as a hand.
==Prone==
Discussed in in this thread
==See also==
*Penis
*Catholicism
*Vagina
==References==
category:inceldom
Mate choice copying

Mate choice copying, non-independent mate choice, or pre-selection is simply when an individual (typically a female) of an animal species copies a fellow animal's mate-choice. In other words, non-independent mate-choice is when an individual's sexual preferences get socially inclined toward that of its fellows.
==See also==
* Courtship
* Relationship
* Scientific Blackpill
* Hypergamy
* Polygyny
Mate guarding

Mate guarding is intrasexually competitive behavior that men perform to protect their mate from sexual advances (poaching) from other men and to prevent their mate from falling in love with more dominant men. The man not only mate guards as a means of paternity assurance, but also to save face, to avoid being outcompeted by other males, and to avoid having to start all over again courting a new partner (something women do not need to worry about with their passive sexuality).
Women also mate-guard, but to lesser extent. In one survey, 53% of women, but only 13% of men would forgive their partner's infidelity.https://incels.wiki/w/Scientific_Blackpill#Half_of_women_in_relationships_report_maintaining_a_.27back-up.27_partner_in_their_social_circle
This is likely related to the fact that humans are a moderately polygamous species. Women in a harem would be used to their man having sex with other women. There is also a crucial sex difference in that women can always be certain that their children are theirs. Men cannot get pregnant. Women seem to be genetically oblivious to this fact, e.g. women more likely to evade a partner's mate guarding efforts.https://labs.la.utexas.edu/buss/files/2013/02/The-Mate-Switching-Hypothesis-FINAL-PUBLISHED-2017.pdf
While women do not get envious as much when their partner had sex with other women, they do get envious of their partner's emotional attachment to other women, presumably because that may imply being abandoned and losing access to the man's resources.https://labs.la.utexas.edu/buss/files/2015/09/strategies_of_human_mating2006.pdf Women's mate guarding and envy mate take on more the form of a shit test.
== More examples ==
* https://twitter.com/bryan_hillmann/status/1170917934450917377
== See also ==
* Mate poaching
* Intrasexual competition
* Dominance hierarchy
* Slut
* Mogging
* Heightpill
== References ==
category:theories
Mate poaching

Mate poaching refers to pinching someone's partner. Perhaps surprising to the socially isolated, normies engage in mate poaching all the time. In fact 60% of the men and 53% of the women admitted to having attempted to poach someone as a long-term mate who was already in an existing committed relationship, and even more have been recipients of mate poaching attempts by others while they were in a committed romantic relationship: 93% for men and 82% for women.https://labs.la.utexas.edu/buss/files/2015/09/strategies_of_human_mating2006.pdf Poaching attempts provoke mate guarding behavior.
== Normies scheme all the time ==
This basically proves that most normies are not nice, but would easily go as far as stealing a mate who is already in a relationship. Most normies can afford this as they have at least some social status. Autists are probably very bad at mate poaching as they would lack the ability to produce humor and social signals that would allow them to do so without awkwardness.
== Legal matters ==
Adulterous behavior may result in divorce or couples breaking up. In many countries such behavior is frowned up and legal means even exist to rule on such cases.
== References ==
== See also ==
* Mate guarding
* Sneaker male
* Normie
Matt

Matt is a member of Incelistan.net and Facebook's Incelistan. During 2018/2019 he was a high-functioning incel. He goes by Matt in both groups but his latest handle on incelistan.net is 'bardotrappin'.
==Public life==
Matt is an actor and according to a public statement by him, thinks he has autistic traits. He believes the 6-month-plus-without-sex metric on this wiki and in the Donnelly Study made him an incel in 2018/2019. He's also a nice guy.
==Documentary==
He was one of three incels featured in a BBC three documentary. There is approximately twenty minutes of footage of him. He spoke of inceldom being 'normal', the 80/20 rule in online dating, and inceldom being a life circumstance instead of a movement. Some of his lines seemed fed by the producers of the doc. Or at the very least it seems he was manipulated to say certain things, as he contradicts himself in the second half of the doc in highly edited segments. When asked if he was pretending to be an incel for the doc, he said he was not. He is very active on incel forums, but his actor training may have helped overcome anxiety to be in the doc.
==See also==
*Tom Ramsay
*Natty Kadifa
*Incelistan.net
Category:Notable Incels
Matthew effect

The Matthew effect or Matthew principle refers to the effect that ascending in any kind of hierarchy (whether economic, artistic, etc.) tends to imply even more status as one gains motivation and access to more resources and social connections, etc. forming a positive feedback loop in ascension potential. Conversely, failure often implies even more failure and demotivation (downward spiral). This can explain why inequality is a human universal as it means there naturally exist strong feedback effects causing the rich to get richer and the poor to get poorer.Malcom G. 2008. Outliers: The Story of Success [Archive]https://www.wsj.com/articles/SB122671469296530435
The term was coined by sociologist Robert K. Merton in 1968Merton RK. 1968. The Matthew Effect in Science. [FullText] [Abstract]Merton RK. 1988. The Matthew Effect in Science, II: Cumulative advantage and the symbolism of intellectual property. [FullText] [Abstract] and takes its name from the Parable of the talents or minas in the biblical Gospel of Matthew:
Incels may often find themselves in a downward spiral as Jordan Peterson predicted in his "Monopoly Parable".
=="Rich Club" Networks and Elitism==
When it comes to social networks, there are "Rich Club"https://doi.org/10.1371/journal.pone.0205820 structures that separates the elites from others. The border between then Elite subnetwork and the peripheral network can be defined by two characteristics: Inter-elite influence (from elite to peripheral) reaches the maximum, and the intra-elite influence (between elites) is matching extra-elite influence (between peripherals). The Elite is often 20% of the whole network whilst their influence (including inter-elite and intra-elite) often approaches 80%, thus abiding by the 80/20 Rule.
The other reason that led to the Matthew effect in Chads is that Chad homophily exists within a social network (citation TBD), where Chads are socially attracted to other Chads and repels incels. In a theoretical standpoint, the Bianconi–Barabási modelhttps://www.wikiwand.com/en/Bianconi%E2%80%93Barab%C3%A1si_model can explain this phenomena, it is based on two models, the Fitness Modelhttps://www.wikiwand.com/en/Fitness_model_(network_theory), which dictates preferential attachment based on a "fitness" parameter (can be based on anything, e.g. Looks in the case of social interaction and dating), and Barabási–Albert modelhttps://www.wikiwand.com/en/Barab%C3%A1si%E2%80%93Albert_model, which dictates connectivity distribution following the Pareto principle. The fitness model is necessary to main the trait coherence of the elite network. Similar effects can be seen with political echo chambers in twitter, where the "fitness" parameter is instead virality of information (citation TBD).
==See also==
*Gynocentrism
*Hypergamy
*Apex fallacy
*Dominance hierarchy
*NEET
*Pareto principle
==References==
Maybe he roped

"Maybe he roped" is the standard response to an observation that someone has been absent from the incelosphere for a long time, or when someone deemed to be on the inceldom spectrum has not given a sign of life for a long time.
==Examples==
*[About mickeyonacid] Maybe he roped early.. R.I.P. if he did. Another brother lost.https://incels.is/threads/mickeyonacid-suicide.103246/post-2031941
*[About psilocybincel] Maybe he ropedhttps://incels.is/threads/fema-took-psilocybincel.79400/post-1498933
*[About oreo man] dunno. maybe he roped.https://incels.is/threads/high-iq-incel-song-dropped-by-the-infamous-oreo-man.78361/post-1475677
*[About San Salvador] Or maybe he roped.https://incels.is/threads/where-is-san-salvador.99752/post-1949774
*[About a ricecel] it's been a year now, maybe he's roped by now, who knows.https://incels.is/threads/ricecel-asks-getting-hardly-any-matches-on-tinder-advice.82982/post-1576061
*With the exception of one guy, who just seemingly disappeared off the face of the Earth after hs. He stopped updating his social media and we was pretty subhuman so maybe he roped or decided to LDAR.https://incels.is/threads/what-happened-to-your-childhood-friends.26691/post-431202
==References==
Category:Meme
Meaningless sex

Meaningless sex, in the parlance of females, is sex that they have with a man for free, rather than in exchange for betabuxx. When they get caught cheating, they assure their boyfriend or husband that it was just "meaningless sex" and therefore not a big deal. The implication is that there was no emotional attachment with the person they were cheating with, when in reality it is their betabuxx whom they are using in a mercenary way, because he does not excite and sexually arouse them the way their illicit lover does.
The idea of "meaningless sex" is illustrative of the opposite approach that men and females take toward relationships, in which females seek to use sex to get men emotionally attached to them, and men seek to elicit female emotions that will make them want to have sex. From a females' perspective, if her man has sex with another girl but doesn't get emotionally attached to her, then what happened was not as bad because at least the other girl did not capture his heart and thereby take the place of his main female. From the male perspective, if a man's wife gets emotionally attached to another man but doesn't have sex with him, then the process of seduction was not completed, because she was not physically taken by him.
Men tend to be more concerned with the sexual aspect of ownership of females since they do not typically rely on romantic partners to the extent foids do for leadership, protection, provisioning, emotional support, etc. Men also have more need to assure themselves of the exclusivity of their foids' sexual devotion to them because of the instinctive aversion to being cuckolded.
==See Also==
*slut
Meatpuppeter

A meatpuppeter is someone who has the ability to bring meatpuppets (friends, back-up) whenever he or she is in a bad situation. This is primarily the domain of extroverted people because they find it so easy to make and maintain strong friendships. An introverted person on the other hand tends not to have this ability, and as such, is less intimidating and thereby more prone to getting bullied. Chads are usually also meatpuppeters.
==See also==
*Normie
category:introversion
Mel Feit

Mel Feit was the most visible Men's Rights advocate of the 1980s and 1990s, barring maybe Warren Farrell. He founded the National Center for Men and was frequently featured in television programs about men's issues. He also participated in a debate that has become semi-famous in the MRA community in 1992, between the virtual founder of the PUA movement: Ross Jeffries, and a male feminist. Mel wore a woman's dress during the debate to highlight how women discriminate against male dress that doesn't signal male utility and disposability.
==Philosophy==
Mel had a more male liberationist streak than most other famous MRAs, and he was known for advocating flexibility in male gender roles, more so than other MRAs. In politics, Mel is a self-described liberal democrat. He also self-identified as a feminist and was pro-choice. He didn't stray very far into broader politics, like other famous MRAs.
==On Dating==
Mel Feit screamed to women in a television program that men feel discriminated everyday by women by virtue of women being sexual selectors.
==See also==
*Warren Farrell
*Paul Elam
Meme

A meme is an idea, behavior, or style that spreads from person to person within a culture—often with the aim of conveying a particular phenomenon, theme, or meaning represented by the meme. A meme acts as a unit for carrying cultural ideas, symbols, or practices, that can be transmitted from one mind to another through writing, speech, gestures, rituals, or other imitable phenomena with a mimicked theme. Supporters of the concept regard memes as cultural analogues to genes in that they self-replicate, mutate, and respond to selective pressures.
Sometime during the late 2000s, meme became synonymous with digital image macros transferred across the Internet and lost it's original meaning in colloquial culture. While some memes can be enlightening and humorous, the fact is that memes promote a vapid short-cut kind of thinking (typical of normies) that is slowly degrading human culture. Unfortunately, memes are becoming increasingly prevalent and spread quicker than ever before.link Selection for Societal Sanity Nevertheless, incel communities do have their own memes.
== References ==
== See also ==
* Incelosphere
Mentally Lost Cel

Mentally Lost Cel is a 6'3" tallcel who refers to himself as "The Prince of Istanbul." He claims to reside in the Kadıköy district of Istanbul. He gained prominence on the incels.is forum as the member who introduced and enforced a rule banning animal abuse and gore. This decision came after a 15-year-old user named Lycan posted pictures of himself killing a lizard on the forum, sparking controversy.
Mentally Lost Cel even led a campaign advocating for a complete ban on animal abuse across all incel forums. However, his stance on animal welfare has a notable exception—he harbors an intense hatred for dogs. He describes them as "evil and deceiving creatures," which contradicts his otherwise compassionate stance toward animals.
His personal life reveals a history of severe abuse, which has profoundly shaped his worldview. As a child, Mentally Lost Cel endured physical abuse from his father, who would beat him harshly. This difficult upbringing also extended to other family members, with whom he had complex and painful relationships.
In addition to his forum activism, Mentally Lost Cel is known for frequently engaging in heated arguments with other forum members who accuse him of being a "fakecel." These users argue that, because he is 6'3" and tall, he does not fit the traditional image of an incel. Despite the fact that he is a virgin in his mid-twenties, these accusations persist, and the label of "fakecel" has become a recurring point of contention in his interactions with other members.
Another notable controversy surrounding Mentally Lost Cel occurred when he openly expressed his attraction to very feminine-looking trans boys. This admission sparked a wave of backlash from the community, with many members criticizing him harshly. The situation escalated to the point where it led to his second permanent ban from the forum, cementing his polarizing reputation even further.
Mentally Lost Cel’s history reflects a deeply challenging and abusive family dynamic, leaving lasting scars. These experiences provide insight into his often contradictory views and actions.
Beyond his forum activism, Mentally Lost Cel is also known for his apparent obsession with teenage girls he calls jailbaits, a trait frequently discussed by other members of the community. His controversial opinions, troubled past, regular forum conflicts, and polarizing nature have solidified his reputation as one of the most complex figures within the incel forums.
Mero

Mero (real name: Enes Meral), born 2000, is a megachad rapper who resides in Germany.
He is noticeable for his overly masculine facial profile.
Within months of his account creation on YouTube, one of his music videos hit 100 million views and his channel surpassed 1 million subscribes. 
Some women on Instagram comments (@Mero_428) state that he is the most attractive male they have ever seen.
==See also==
*Chad
Category:Chads
Mewing

Mewing is a controversial looksmaxxing technique that supposedly improves the bone structure of one's face by continuously pushing the tip of one's tongue and then later the entire underside of the tongue, against the roof of the mouth. The technique has become very popular on YouTube, Instagram and Reddit. The originator, orthodontist Michael Mew, proposed that this technique pushes the central bone of the face (the maxilla) forwards and upwards, improving the facial appearance. There is currently no sound scientific evidence of the effectiveness of the method.
==Criticism==
*In a letter in the Journal of Oral and Maxillofacial Surgery, Mew was criticized: "Although Mew's theory does generate some plausible conclusions that can aid our profession in developing future surgical procedures, the public needs to be made aware that it is not based on sound scientific evidence that would make it a viable alternative treatment to orthognathic surgery." Further they note, "it is of vital importance that we educate our patients on the validated treatments for malocclusion and the danger of seeking non–peer-reviewed internet sources for health information in general."Lee, Urie K. et al. 2019. Mewing: Social Media's Alternative to Orthognathic Surgery? Journal of Oral and Maxillofacial Surgery, Volume 77, Issue 9, 1743 - 1744 [Abstract] [Discussion]
*Mike Mew has been expelled from the British Orthodontic Society for misleading or potentially misleading the public having given medical advise without sound scientific backing.https://www.theguardian.com/fashion/2019/mar/21/mewing-youtube-face-shaping-trend-what-is-it-technique-explained
*Facial structure is highly-heritable and there is no evidence for masticatory stress (e.g. a hard-substance chewed to increase saliva) being involved in secular trends in facial morphology.https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5289863/https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5395823/https://arizona.openrepository.com/bitstream/handle/10150/288105/azu_td_6919258_sip1_m.pdfhttps://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/17628252https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/21541933
== John Mew takes it all back ==
In a Facebook post, Professor John Mew, inventor of the technique which bears his name, in response to a girl asking if mewing can move the facial bones in adults, answers that only maxillofacial surgery can advance facial bones in people over age 25.https://looksmax.org/attachments/adsdasasdasddas-png.340025
== See also ==
*Maxilla
*Facepulling
*Michael Mew
*Smash Bone Theory
*PSL
==References==
Category:Theories
Michael Mew

Michael Mew (nickname Mike Mew) is an orthodontist, from an orthodontist family who has developed a system of teeth straightening which involves tongue postures and changes to the muscles of the face in order to realign teeth.
Mew became famous when he posted his theory on dental alignment and it's influence on facial structure on the Sluthate forum. Many forum users were hopecelling that this could be the "one weird trick" they needed to become attractive male models. Mike Mew addressed various questions raised on Sluthate on his YouTube channel.https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U3owXWaV-I0
Mew has been criticized not basing his mewing technique on "sound scientific evidence that would make it a viable alternative treatment to orthognathic surgery" (see mewing).Lee, Urie K. et al. 2019. Mewing: Social Media's Alternative to Orthognathic Surgery? Journal of Oral and Maxillofacial Surgery, Volume 77, Issue 9, 1743 - 1744 [Abstract] [Discussion]
==References ==
==See Also==
*Mewing
*Maxilla
Michel Clouscard

Michel Clouscard was a French Marxist sociologist who constructed a leftist critique of the sexual revolution (his writings chiefly being concerned with the values promoted by the May 1968 French student movement), arguing it was a tool of the capitalist class, that they used to distract the working class from their economic poverty by promoting a range of romantic choice not within the reach of most of the working class. https://philitt.fr/2019/02/28/le-capitalisme-selon-houellebecq-une-lutte-perpetuelle-qui-ne-peut-jamais-avoir-de-fin-1-3/ In French. Clouscard also indirectly criticized feminism as consumerist and a distraction through his critique of the sexual revolution. Unlike Michel Houellebecq, Clouscard had very little to say about sexual stratification; however Houllebecq was likely heavily influenced by Clouscard.
Clouscard is most known for this quote, which is quite poignant with regards to inceldom (among other things): 
==Criticism of the Sexual Revolution==
Clouscard described the liberalized sexual marketplace being chiefly the domain of what is known is classical Marxist theory as the exploiter classes, namely the bourgeois and the Capitalists. In contrast to other leftists of his era, Clouscard focused on classical materialist Marxist economics, and viewed the values pursued in the sexual revolution and the French student uprising in May 1968 as a distraction from the economically driven class warfare typically examined by classical Marxist theory. Clouscard also argued that sexual liberalism has effectively served to divide the working class against itself (by agitating women against men, through labeling all men as oppressive "Phallocrats") in what he has dubbed "the prostitution economy." http://www.marxisme.wikibis.com/michel_clouscard.php In French.
== See also ==
* Sexual economics theory
* Women as Sex Vendors
==References==
Category:Incelology