Stage Gay

Stage Gay refers to the behaviour of (male) singers while performing for an audience. Some bands--from Bandom to K-pop to J-pop--play up homoerotic tension onstage as a form of fanservice: “Stage gay” is when performers act in reference, either veiled or explicit, to homosexuality for the purposes of publicity or awareness, almost exclusively or more seriously on stage. 
:For fans, the appeal seems to transcend the purely visceral appeal of watching two hot guys lick the sweat out of each other’s mouths (om nom nom). In a society which remains stubbornly heterosexually centered, those who play with sexuality are admirable in their rebellion. Ironically, exhibiting traditional heterosexual love now seems distinctly N*Sync-worthy: today’s teenage rebels sans a cause pledge allegiance to rockers who present themselves in a fashion generally disapproved of by the average mom. Despite this, to raise the subject with the band itself is to invite deadpan stares or resigned laughter: although they take advantage of it, they simply don’t understand the allure. Kitsch Magazine - Stage Gay (Accessed Sept. 29, 2010)
Stage gay has been the subject of wank and controversy. Some enjoy it, but detractors have called it manipulative, real-life queerbait, or insensitive to the struggles of real gay people.
== Bandom's Stagegay Wank==
2007 saw a round of stagegay wank in Bandom, started by phaballa's post Playacting the Gayarchive.is published on LiveJournal on September 5, 2007. The post askes two questions: "...let's suppose that straight emo boybanders 'played gay' or participated in some 'stage gay' at their concerts. How does that make me feel personally and politically?" and "...how would that make someone like Lance Bass, who spent years hiding his sexual orientation, feel, to see people playing at being gay on stage?"
* Response to phaballa's "Playacting the Gay" postarchive.is by ficbyzee on livejournal (September 5, 2007)
*On the subject of stagegayarchive.is by kalpurna (September 5, 2007)
*Gladys would not approve of these shenanigansarchive.is by quettaser, includes a link roundup (September 6, 2007)
*"fake gay"? discussion at weemo_closet (September 6, 2007)
*STAGE GAY WANK writup at fandom_wank (September 6, 2007)
Later meta:
* by electricwitch (2008-05-19)
*A word on stagegaywayback by jedusaur on dreamwidth (September 7, 2011)
* on STAGE GAY and why fans can’t believe Gerard, why Gerard’s words seem to confirm ‘frerard’ every time he tries to do the exact opposite (2013)
*Hagen, R. (2015). “Bandom Ate My Face”: The Collapse of the Fourth Wall in Online Fan Fiction. Popular Music and Society, 38(1), 44-58. 
* How Fall Out Boy and My Chemical Romance Helped Me as a Gay Teen By Tom Vellner (Mar 1 2017) - "The bands I worshiped in high school were fronted by gender-bending, guyliner-wearing, homoerotic antidotes to the American jock, and the music that helped me fit in would eventually help me come out as gay."
==Comments from Singers==
Brendon Urie commented on stage gay when he came out as pansexual in 2018.
==Comments from Fans==
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==In Fanworks==
Fanworks involve imagining the private/personal interactions that people who have done stage gay together have – these are often considered canon compliant. Fanfiction may also imagine how stage gay that has not happened in real life would take place. In fanfiction, stage gay is usually imagined to be how people express their feeling while in denial (about their feelings or about not being straight) or pining for another person.
== References ==
Category:Slash Fandom
Category:Music RPF
Category:Social Media Feature-Terminology Thursday