Adultery

Adultery is what adults do with adults other than their spouses (spice?) when they have sex with people they haven't agreed that it is ok to have it with. It is also the subject of a countless number of songs by people who have run out of ideas of what to sing about.
It is also a truism that infants do not have anywhere near as much fun in infancy as adults do in adultery.
But seriously, it's not nice to cheat (although cheating is not required in order to commit adultery); it hurts your spouse.
==Implication of deceit==
The term "adultery" is somewhat loaded. There are two possible definitions of adultery: 
# The traditional definition is "sexual intercourse between a married person and someone who is not that person's spouse". Note that this does not include premarital sex between two unmarried persons.
# As people today use the word "adultery", they tend to equate it with the word "cheating" — that is, Person A, who is married to Person B, has sex with person C (who may or may not be married) without the consent of B. While all cheating is adultery, not all extramarital sex is cheating — examples would include "swingers" who regularly have sex with other people, such as in "wife swapping" or a "keys party". While two married couples who swap partners might be technically committing adultery, it can't be argued that they are cheating, since they all know about each other's "affairs" and there is no deception against anyone.
Make sure to figure out which definition a person is using when having an argument about it.
==Adultery and the law==
Most ancient societies had laws proscribing adultery, since it can be a major source of division and conflict within communities (not to mention a complication for inheritance laws in dividing the property of a male decedent — sure, a man's kids are supposed to get shares of his property, but what if some of his kids aren't actually his?), and was often punished by the death penalty. The Torah law of the Old Testament is an example of this. Jesus Christ is reported to have saved an adulteress from being stoned to death ("let he who is without sin cast the first stone"), although some extreme conservatives, not being happy with the concept of forgiveness or the anti-death penalty stance of the story, dispute the validity of this incident.See Andrew Schlafly's "essay" on the subject here. Pity they can't show the same skepticism with Bible verses that contradict science, such as the two contradictory creation stories in Genesis.
The definition of adultery used in the Old Testament was narrower than how the term is used today. In the Old Testament, a sexual act was considered adultery only if it involved a married woman having sex with a man who wasn't her husband. A married man having sex with an unmarried woman didn't qualify as adultery. This was because a wife was considered the property of her husband, not the other way around. (King Solomon reportedly had 700 wives and 400 concubines, and the Old Testament treated him as one of the wisest men who ever lived.)
Most modern societies have removed laws against adultery, regarding it as a personal issue rather than a societal one, although it is often grounds for a divorce or marriage annulment. In the U.S., several states have laws against adultery. While an adulterer or adulteress may find this to be quite unreasonable for obvious reasons, cheating on a spouse, to whom a person is wed, is basically the same thing as breaking a contract. Still, these specifics, if even enforced at all, are mostly settled out of court. Adultery is still a criminal offense in some nations, largely Muslim ones with a harsh interpretation of Sharia law, such as Iran and Saudi Arabia. These societies use the first definition of adultery above, so any sexual activity by an unmarried couple could be classed as adultery.
In 2002, a Nigerian woman named was convicted of adultery when she became pregnant out of wedlock, some time after being divorced from her husband. She was sentenced to death by stoning, which was later overturned not because it would be a severe violation of human rights, but because Sharia law recognises the concept of "extended pregnancy", asserting that a woman's gestation can last up to five years. Thus, the verdict of the appeal was that she could hypothetically have been carrying the child of her estranged husband rather than having committed adultery.
Of non-Islamic nations, some of the United States (Michigan, Maryland, Pennsylvania, as well as the Uniform Code of Military Justice, the criminal law of the United States Armed Forces) still nominally have adultery laws, although prosecutions are rarely made and the statutes (outside the military) are likely unconstitutional.
==Christians and adultery==
Adultery is listed as Number Seven in the Big Ten. Jesus mentions it over twenty times in the New Testament. He even talks about "adultery of the mind", whatever that is. 
5:28 But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.http://skepticsannotatedbible.com/mt/5.html#28 Some Christians interpret that as meaning that a man can’t even look at his own wife that way.http://www.ewtn.com/library/papaldoc/jp2tb42.htm
Jesus mentions homosexuality zero times. Yet, the single greatest threat to fundamentalist marriages is apparently homosexuality, not adultery. Or divorce, for that matter. Or both, right Newt?
===Self-proclaimed conservative Christians who have committed adultery===
* Garner Ted Armstrong, televangelisthttp://www.religionnewsblog.com/4538
* Jim Bakker, televangelisthttp://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_g1epc/is_bio/ai_2419200062http://transcripts.cnn.com/TRANSCRIPTS/0507/14/lkl.01.html
* Paul Barnes, homophobic ministerhttp://www.denverpost.com/ci_4817067
* Graham Capill, former leader of the Christian Heritage Party. Serving a 9-year sentence for assault on 2 girls under 15.http://www.nzherald.co.nz/section/1/story.cfm?c_id=1&objectid=10330188
* Senator Larry Craig (R-ID)http://www.salon.com/opinion/greenwald/2007/08/28/craig/,
* Dinesh D'Souza, Christian apologisthttp://www.worldmag.com/2012/10/king_s_crisis
* Reality Star Josh DuggarA close reading of the strange Josh Duggar adultery confession
* Newt Gingrich, former Speaker of the House of Representatives (R-GA)http://www.washingtonmonthly.com/features/2006/0607.benen.html
* Marvin Gorman, ministerhttp://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jimmy_Swaggart#Exposed
* Rudy Giuliani, former mayor of New York Cityhttp://www.washingtonmonthly.com/features/2006/0607.benen.html
* The heterosexual Ted Haggard, homophobic minister — with men, of course (but he's not gay)http://www.cbsnews.com/news/ted-haggard-says-hes-bisexual/
* Rush Limbaugh, conservative talk radio show hosthttp://glenngreenwald.blogspot.com/2006/10/mark-foley-and-unmasked-republican.html
* Senator John McCain (R-AZ)http://www.washingtonmonthly.com/features/2006/0607.benen.html
* Bill O'Reilly, conservative commentator and all-around douchehttp://www.moveleft.com/moveleft_essay_2005_01_22_lust_bill_oreilly_told_his_producer_she_has_sspectacular_boobs.asp
* Richard Mellon Scaife, billionaire bankroller of conservative crusadesA Vast Right-Wing Hypocrisy - Vanity Fair, Feb 2008
*Jimmy Swaggart, televangelisthttp://query.nytimes.com/gst/fullpage.html?res=9D0CE5DA1E3BF936A25753C1A967958260
* Donald Trump, 45th President of the United States, failed businessman, and attempted usurper (R-NY)DONALD TRUMP’S INFIDELITY TAKES CENTRE STAGE AT THE US CONGRESS by Erin Van Der Meer, Grazia Magazine
* Senator David Vitter (R-LA)http://blog.nola.com/updates/2007/07/former_prostitute_confirms_vit.html
* Representative Mark Sanford (R-SC)Sanford Odyssey Ends in Tears
===The Wicked Bible===
In 1631, a printing error resulted in a version of the King James Bible to be printed with the commandment "Thou shalt commit adultery", leading it to be dubbed as the "Wicked Bible". The incident resulted in printers Robert Barker and Martin Lucas losing their printing license and being saddled with a heavy fine. Most of the copies were destroyed, but the few that still exist are considered rare collectors' items.Rare ‘Wicked’ bible that encourages adultery discovered in New Zealand, Eva Corlett, The Guardian 2 May 2022
==Ashley Madison==
Ashley Madison is a Toronto-based dating site founded in 2002 and marketed toward married people seeking extramarital affairs (the site's slogan is "Life is short. Have an affair".).Patricia Pearson, "The Two-Timers' Club, Toronto Life, 1 January 2009 The site's user data by a group of hackers known as the "Impact Team" in July 2015."Online Cheating Site AshleyMadison Hacked", KrebsonSecurity, 19 July 2015 The hackers' stated motivation was that the site's "full delete" feature – for which it charged a $19USD fee – did not permanently erase users' personal information, as the site retained credit card data that included users' addresses and real names. Thirty-six million users had their personal data exposed by the leak.Alice Wallbank, "The data breach at controversial dating site Ashley Madison exposed 36m users in 2015. It heralded a new age of global data protection laws, but could it happen again?, Shoosmiths, 25 July 2024 Notable people linked to accounts include Josh Duggar,Dana Ford, "Josh Duggar after Ashley Madison hack: 'I have been the biggest hypocrite ever'", CNN, 21 August 2015 Mark Robinson,Natalie Alison, "Email address belonging to Mark Robinson found on Ashley Madison", Politico 19 September 2024 and Christopher Rufo,Tweet by Lauren Windsor (@lawindsor)Tweet thread by Steven Monacelli (@stevanzetti) as well as over 15,000 people with .gov or .mil email addresses.Olivia Evans, "Which Celebrities Were Caught On Ashley Madison?", Women's Health 5 July 2023 At least two people who were exposed by the hack committed suicide.Morgan Sharp, "Two people may have committed suicide after Ashley Madison hack: police", Reuters 24 September 2021 As of 2024, the hackers are still at large.Fact Check: Were the Ashley Madison hackers ever caught? Explained, Soniya, sportskeeda 24 May 2024
The hackers also exposed the fact that 95% of the users were men and the vast majority of the "women" on the site were chatbots.Annalee Newitz, "What everyone gets wrong about the 2015 Ashley Madison scandal", NewScientist, 12 June 2024 Internal e-mails included in the leak revealed that Ashley Madison's parent company had hired "a small number of workers" to create 70,000 fake female "engager" profiles. A woman sued the company for $20M in 2013, alleging that a "three-week stint furiously typing out" 1,000 fake profiles for the site's Brazilian version gave her carpal tunnel syndrome.Kevin Collier, "Woman who wrote fake profiles for Ashley Madison sues the company, citing sore wrists", The Daily Dot, 1 June 2013Maggie Lange, "Ashley Madison Sued by Profile Faker, The Cut, 12 November 2013 The case was dismissed a few months before the leak in 2015."Ashley Madison adultery website, ex-employee lawsuits dismissed", CBC News, 18 January 2015
==See also==
*Actions which demand the death penalty in the Old Testament
==References==
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